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Welcome to the new Manager 
podcast. 

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I'm your host, Kim Nichol. 
Hello and welcome. 

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I am glad you're here and I hope
you're doing well. 

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I'm continuing to learn and 
think about AI. 

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It's a huge topic. 
I've been really appreciative of

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the messages and the comments 
that I've been getting from from

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you and from some of your other 
Co listeners. 

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Learning how you are actually 
thinking about AI as a tool set 

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and using it is so interesting. 
So that offer still stands. 

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The invitation is still open. 
If you want to tell me about how

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you are using AI and why, or if 
you're not using it at all and 

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why, tell me. 
I'm really curious to know. 

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Comment on the episode. 
If you listen through Spotify, 

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you know how to do that right in
the app. 

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And otherwise you can leave me a
message through LinkedIn or 

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through my website. 
So for today, I wanted to start 

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with something very specific and
even simple. 

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And one of the reasons I'm 
excited about this is because I 

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find that when we're feeling 
overwhelmed and when there's a 

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lot of complexity, it's easy to 
go into a freeze mode. 

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And the thought might be I don't
know where to start. 

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And so I won't start at all. 
Or it might just turn into kind 

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of like a shutdown and a 
withdrawal based on there's 

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already too much for me to do. 
And when we're feeling that 

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overwhelmed, it's like our 
curiosity can't come online. 

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So thinking about what something
small that might be helpful for 

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understanding you know what this
is and how to use that like 

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value those small little ideas 
or those small steps because 

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that is often I found the best 
way to make real progress when 

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you are learning about something
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So the one idea that I want to 
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think will really make a 
difference in how you think 

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about AI and how you use it. 
This comes from an author, Ethan

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Moloch, and he wrote a book 
called Co Intelligence Living 

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and Working with AI. 
This is on my book list. 

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I haven't read it yet, but I can
tell you that there is one 

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passage in this book where he's 
laying out some guidelines or 

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rules for working with AI and 
one of them really stood out to 

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me. 
This is what the rule is. 

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He says treat AI like a person, 
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it is to get the most useful 
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Give the AIA clear context for 
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The more detail and insight you 
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better the AI can make the 
appropriate language token 

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predictions to generate useful 
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So to kind of distill that to 
get back to this simple 

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principle, it's these two parts.
Treat this tool like a person, 

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but tell it what kind of person 
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Do you want it to be an expert? 
Do you want it to have a like an

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encouraging demeanor or 
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Like you might imagine it as 
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assistant. 
What kind of person do you want 

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it to be? 
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interesting because when we're 
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everyday life, we're simply 
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appearing to us. 
We very rarely think, you know, 

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what kind of person do I want 
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We're more like, what kind of 
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going to work together. 
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back up a step and ask that 
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who do I need to talk to in 
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issue? 
Do I need to talk to this kind 

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of expert? 
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of person? 
Who is the person I talked to in

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order to, you know, get some 
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So when you're working with an 
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with ChatGPT are, you know, two 
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can think about it as, OK, I'm 
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person, but I need to tell it 
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And this actually dovetails 
really nicely with a resource 

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that one of my students shared 
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in my communication strategies 
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And the student had shared with 
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it's called a race prompt 
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And R stands for role, A stands 
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context, and E stands for 
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And the idea is that this 
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approach for AI prompting. 
Like the thing you say that then

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AI will respond to the prompt it
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And it will guide you through 
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what is the role that your AI 
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like, the specific task that you
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What is the context? 
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background and execute? 
What are the expectations for 

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the delivery, what you want the 
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And so it's this, you know, 
systemic method to help organize

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your thinking so you can give 
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tool about what kind of person 
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do, what the bigger context is, 
and what exactly is the output 

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that you want. 
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interesting about this is I can 
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develop your thinking skills 
when it comes to delegating to 

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regular humans. 
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to a human, it would also be 
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about what is their role here 
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for them. 
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You want to be clear about the 
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What's the action you want this 
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What's the bigger context? 
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background that they will need 
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effective at following through 
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Be specific in in telling them 
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or the expectations of what the 
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You might even have an example. 
You might even say make it look 

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similar to this. 
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interesting when we think about,
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mean to be a manager in a world 
where AI is is also now here. 

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And there are lots of different 
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And one place to start is to ask
yourself this question, OK, if 

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I'm going to treat this tool 
like a person, what kind of 

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person do I want it to be? 
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it requires you to slow down and
be very intentional in thinking 

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about, oh, like this is what I'm
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You can then bring that same 
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people, right? 
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process of thinking through how 
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what I want, how I want this 
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I think it's interesting too, 
because of course, with AI we 

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get results generated very, very
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And if you get a result you 
don't like, you can then respond

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and say, oh, OK, I need to be 
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instruction or giving this 
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Try it again, but now do it this
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in this way. 
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an engagement where it goes back
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It is an iterative approach and 
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quickly because the time it 
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generate something that you can 
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happen a lot faster than with a 
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With a human, you might go 
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They say, I got it makes perfect
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They come back three days later 
and you're thinking, oh, OK, I, 

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I wasn't clear because the 
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what I actually had in my mind, 
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Let me see if I can explain this
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these tools in this way can help
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work with humans even more 
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Because ultimately it's just 
asking you to think more deeply 

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and more precisely about what 
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you provide the context or the 
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How can you give that to whoever
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something with it in a way that 
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So that's the idea I wanted to 
plant a seed for and offer a 

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resource for. 
For some of you, this might be 

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really basic. 
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really helpful. 
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of falls somewhere in between. 
I think it's, it's neat, 

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especially when we think about 
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Are there ways that you can 
practice where it feels low 

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stakes? 
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everything feels high stakes 
because there's a real human 

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that you're communicating with. 
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I do this incorrectly, then I 
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harder for us, or I will create 
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Or there can just be this fear 
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right the first time. 
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in my course is process, not 
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So rather than, you know, trying
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before you say them or before 
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really clear process in place 
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learn by doing rather than 
holding yourself to an 

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impossible perfection standard 
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create more anxiety and 
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And with AI and this idea like 
talk to like a person, tell it 

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who you want it to be. 
That means you have to think who

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do I want this role to be? 
What is the role that I want 

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this to be? 
My thinking is that this using 

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AI tools in this way will create
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scenarios for you to practice 
thinking and communicating in 

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this way. 
You know, on LinkedIn, sometimes

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I see conversations happening in
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oh, there's always like fear, 
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The incoming class of leaders, 
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how to do anything because 
they're going to use AI for 

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everything or whatever. 
And I keep thinking, you know, I

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think the people who get really 
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they might be more ready for 
managing people because they've 

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become more practiced in 
thinking through these different

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levels, right? 
Like, who do I want this to be? 

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What is the, you know, what is 
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What is the task I need them to 
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What is the context you need in 
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What do I want the outcome to 
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I mean, all of that is really 
useful when communicating with 

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humans too. 
And the sooner you start 

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developing that, you know, 
reflex and ability and skill, 

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the easier it becomes to use it 
in lots of different situations.

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So that is what I wanted to 
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Continue to be curious. 
And if you want to learn with 

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me, then make sure that you sign
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cohort. 
We're currently in a class, so 

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And of course, if you want 
one-on-one coaching and to work 

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with me more specifically 
focused on your goals and what 

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you'd like to experience and 
create in, you know, your life 

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and your work, then you can 
connect with me through my 

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website. 
There's information on how to do

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that. 
All right, thank you so much for

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listening. 
I hope you have a great week and

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we'll talk to you next time. 
When you're more effective at 

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work, you're happier in your 
life. 

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And when you're happier in your 
life, you're more effective at 

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work. 
I can help. 

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Go to my website, kimnickel.com 
and sign up for a coaching 

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consult. 
It can get better.

