Welcome to the new manager podcast.
I'm your host, Kim nickel. Hi, I do not know if you know
this about me but I am. Also a meditation, teacher, in
fact, when I was just beginning my career in Learning and
Development, what I was teaching first was, I was teaching
meditation, and also Fitness and yoga classes.
And the reason I mention this today is because I I recorded
last year, a series of really short meditations designed for
my students, and for people to use at work and this, there's an
app called Simple habit. They have all of those tracks
plussed, so many other meditation tracks, and I wanted
to share with you one of the clips from that meditation
series because it really becomes relevant for You as a new
manager and getting into the headspace of how do I become
effective. Guiding people relating to
people at getting all of this work done through the
coordinated work of others and how to think of yourself.
And this particular track is about the idea of perfection and
how it is okay to not be perfect.
One of the things I see a lot with my classes and then working
with my students, there can be a lot of fear or even just worry
and anxiety about. I hope I do this, right?
And very often, when you start managing others, you don't have
a lot of guidance on how to do that.
And so this next short meditation and little talk is
really for you when you're in that place.
Oh and one more other important Point, even though this is going
to be a little meditation track, you do not need to be sitting on
the floor. You do not need to have your
eyes closed. It's a waking meditation, which
means really you can just have your eyes open.
You could be on the bus. You could be going for a walk.
You could be sitting at work with your Headphones on.
It's not a formal seated practice.
Okay, here we go. You don't have to be perfect.
You don't have to know exactly what you're doing.
You can learn as you go. And you're still being a good
leader. Even if this is something that
feels new to you, this is the process by which you grow and
learn and develop these new skills in these new capacities
care about the work. Yes, but also care about the
people care about who they are as humans.
This doesn't mean that you need to know all about their lives
that you don't have to be best friends and spend all kinds of
time together. But it's about acknowledging and
and having a sense of genuine Appreciation and care for who
they are. As people that includes noticing
their strengths. The quality is that they bring
to the team to their work. That makes a positive
difference. It includes acknowledging.
Hey not everyone is great at everything.
Let's at least be clear about what our strengths and what our
weaknesses are. It's okay to not be great at
everything but know where you're not so strong.
Wrong. And then, you can either, you
know, manage around it. So that you're not putting a lot
of time on those things or you can start to cultivate on learn
and grow and become better. It's up to you to decide and
also to communicate that people want a reflection of themselves
back to them. And by that I mean they want to
know that they're seen that they're appreciated.
They want to know how to improve.
They want to know what is the path forward for them.
Them guide them provide some support, some encouragement
acknowledge when they're doing. Well check in if you see them
struggling, do it from a place of kindness from a desire to
uplift to develop to elevate them, as well as the team and
see what happens. Try this out, do it small.
Let it be gentle. See what happens.
If you know it's time to level F but you feel your perfectionism
Self Doubt and uncertainty getting in the way then come
work with me. We'll have six months of
one-on-one coaching and it all starts by going to my website.
Kim nickel.com coaching and joining my waitlist talk to you
soon.