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Hope you enjoy. OK, so who is Eric Clapton?
You know, we talked about him. He's a great guitarist, but what
else? And I just want to say for my
sources in case anybody wants to know or you want more
information, I watched the Eric Clapton Life and 12 bars
documentary. I used the George Harrison the
Reluctant Beatle by Norman, Philip Norman book excerpts from
Wonderful Tonight by Patty Boyd and Eric Clapton, the
autobiography and some other online sources.
OK, so Eric Clapton, I I would say that he is a man, or at
least he was when he was young. He was a man obsessed, OK, like
obsessed with the guitar and it's impressive like his brain,
I would say was completely synced with the fret board.
Like he knew every single sound that was possible.
Like wherever he put his finger in, it's it's very impressive.
And I do think that to be that good.
He was very obsessed in like a whiplash Black Swan kind of way.
Yeah. And I mean, this is me just
inferring. I don't know him, but it just
seems that way. And I think that he brought that
obsession to his love life as well.
And obsession is a concept that I have always been interested
in. And I like movies and stories
about people that are obsessed, especially with love too.
Like I enjoy reading about people that have these like over
the top declarations of love, even though in real life maybe I
would be kind of worded out by it.
I don't know why that is. I think maybe.
I mean, I have felt obsessed with people before.
So I think seeing somebody express that is, yeah, exciting
to me. How would?
You like define obsessed like there's like different levels of
it, of course. Yeah, just.
Like you've never been like Joe. Level.
With anybody from. You.
Goldberg I. Mean.
But you've been obsessed with, like, Robert Pattinson, Like,
yeah, idolizing someone. Yeah.
And I would even say like guys I liked in high school or
whatever, I would say I was obsessed with.
I wouldn't really express it, but I would think about them all
the time, you know, writing my journal and stuff and be like
pining. And I know that's something.
It was embarrassing. Yeah, I like sometimes like when
I really would like a guy would think about them all the time
and. Yeah.
But then thinking like am I obsessed and obsessed if like
has a negative connotation? And then feeling like, Oh my
God, am I crazy? Because I like, yeah, keep
thinking about this person non-stop.
Yes. So I feel kind of a little solid
reading about, like, Eric Clapton being so obsessed 'cause
I don't think I've gone as far as him or anything, but it's
like, comforting in a weird way. But we'll get into it.
Yeah. It's very human.
I've even wanted to cover like, Napoleon, for instance.
And I know he's like a problematic historic figure, but
like, he was, I would say, obsessed with his wife.
And like, the letters he wrote were just like, absurd.
And I, I don't know. I love reading stuff like that.
But anyway, Eric Clapton, He was born March 30th, 1945 in Ripley,
Surrey, England. Coming up, why do you go?
Oh, he's. Coming up, he's birthday boy,
birthday mom. Who else's birthday?
Maybe when he's actually comes out it will be past his
birthday, I don't know. But anyway, happy birthday.
Happy. Birthday Eric Clapton.
He is actually two years younger than George and one year younger
than Patty and all all three of them were born sort of around
the same time of year. Like George was February, Patty
and Eric were both March. So I find that interesting.
When Eric was nine years old, he learned that his older sister,
who lived in Canada, was actually his mother.
Hasn't this happened before on our show?
I don't. Know has it I?
Don't know, I feel like it was John Lennon.
No, it was that his mom, like, lived closer than he thought.
But someone, oh, Priscilla, Elvis's wife, she thought her
adopted dad was her real dad until she was like, 13 or
something. Her dad had died.
But yeah, Eric's mother had been a teenager when she had him, and
they just decided it would be better if he thought his
grandmother was his mom. Wow.
Would you guys do that? Yeah, you will.
What? No poll.
Question 4% said yeah. If your.
Teenage daughter got pregnant, would you be agreeable to
pretending like the child was yours if she said mom?
Please no. OK, I.
Think our mom would say yes? My mom would say yes.
My mom had said she'd be happy to do that.
I. Literally.
I wouldn't do it though. I think it would be tough for
the child to learn the truth of it.
Yeah, it was really hard for him when his real mom came back to
England from Canada. She had two more kids with her.
And, you know, it was told to him like, she's actually your
mom. And, you know, he felt like his
whole life was a lie. And he, I was also thinking
about, like, gosh, how would you deal with this at school?
Like, you know, some kids might know your mom and like, maybe
you wouldn't tell them, but then it would feel like you have a
secret. I don't know.
I feel like it'd be so intense. But he asked his mother if she
was going to be his mom now, and she said no, it's going to stay
the way it was. And Eric felt extremely rejected
and abandoned by her. Like his whole world was upside
down. I feel like this really
profoundly affected him for the rest of his life.
I don't know if you know the answer or not, but did he treat
his half brothers as like cousins or like I?
Don't know. I don't know about when he's
older, but when he was younger, I don't think they had that much
of a relationship. I know he went to visit them at
some point when he was a teenager and he really felt like
he didn't fit in at all. I was just about to say that
Eric was sort of. What so nieces and nephews?
I was for some reason, very confused.
Not cousins. Nieces and nephews, yeah.
Yeah, so he would have thought those were his sister's kids,
but they were his. Siblings half.
Siblings. But you know who this happened
to? Sorry, I looked it up 'cause I
couldn't help myself. Not someone we covered, but Ted
Bundy. Oh.
My God. Harry, not someone we covered.
Yeah, Jack Nicholson, so the. Same thing.
Had this happened to him too? Who?
John Nicholson. Wow.
OK, I prefer the John Nicholson example.
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