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Are You Lonesome Tonight? 
You'll miss me tonight. 

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Are you sorry? 
We drifted does your male brain.

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Hi, Welcome to our show. 
Welcome to significant lovers 

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yet I'm Melissa. 
I'm Kelly. 

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Wait, I'm Mel sorry I always 
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then I get stuck as Melissa. 
So Mel, you know, call me Mel 

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and kelan kelan. 
And yeah, you might know us from

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the podcast, another bite of 
Twilight. 

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Where For almost four years. 
We looked back at our obsession 

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with the Twilight Saga and we 
had a lot of fun. 

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I still can't believe that we 
ended it for now. 

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For now we might come back 
randomly, the future. 

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And so you guys might here, if 
you're not a listener of 

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Twilight, a lot of Twilight just
brought into the conversation 

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every now. 
And then, I hope you're okay 

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with that were a Twilight 
friendly podcast, but if you 

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hate, I've never seen no worries
because it won't be too much. 

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And also if you maybe want to 
check out our old podcast, 

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another bite our light, we have 
fun with it. 

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We did we would laugh Adit Adit 
and with it with yeah because we

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loved it. 
And some criticism of course and

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so on our current podcast, we're
now going to be talking about 

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exactly as it says Nificant 
members throughout history and 

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pop culture. 
So like we're really just 

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focusing on other people's love 
lives and getting down to like 

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the Nitty Gritty of. 
Like what happened? 

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Yeah, just the whole time. 
I'm the juicy details. 

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Yes. 
Things that people don't know. 

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Yeah, things that people do know
but talking about them. 

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Yeah, yeah and it was like, yes,
we're going to do a whole Range 

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of couples. 
I like I said, other people's 

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relationships relationships. 
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honestly, my whole life. 
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by other people's relationships.
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of escapism, like not having to 
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But even in real life, like I 
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sister a couple weeks ago like 
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relationship between our cousins
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Well I guess current baby. 
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with her like second, baby. 
Daddy here. 

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Oh yeah, yeah, I just love that 
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the outside interpreted 
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What if someone did that with my
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I'd be flattered. 
Not my mom, mom, not you. 

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But anybody else means you. 
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Ya? 
Did it never mind. 

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What didn't you like years ago? 
Save, like pictures of me and my

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ex boyfriend, to your computer 
or something? 

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I don't know. 
I think you were still in high 

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school maybe. 
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I don't think I don't know what 
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I don't know. 
I'm so familiar. 

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I did, but I don't know why. 
So I'll just remember. 

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And speaking of we are cousins 

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would be say that. 
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were first cousins. 
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Yes. 
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Yep. 
Some people say we sound 

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similar. 
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So if that's confusing for you 
just give it a few episodes. 

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Yeah. 
We'll figure it out. 

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My life is pretty inverted. 
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going to be manager like figure 
that out because describing it 

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that way. 
That's what. 

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Oh, I don't like a type of 
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I think so. 
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Cuz it's like you're And word. 
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set. 
Yeah, first day, and it's 

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kidding, it's a fun episode. 
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going to work, is instead of us 
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us will take the wheel each 
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share, everything we learned and
teach the other one stuff, and 

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we're going to have half of our 
episodes, totally free, anyone 

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can download them, and listen 
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episodes will be on patreon. 
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week and like the difference 
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either like flings or like 
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dating like in the yeah. 
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who are just have, like, less 
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maybe like are forgotten about. 
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They'll probably still be. 
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relationships like yeah. 
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sorry that they're not all going
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I know. 
You know, we're trying to make 

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this a thing. 
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So it seems like I want to buy 

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something to like make the 
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made. 
But it's better but we don't 

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have any money for it. 
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So so if you want to support the

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podcast and if you can get 
sounds terrible. 

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You're like gee this pocket has 

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potential but it's not there. 
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Then you can subscribe to our 
teaching and then we'll get it 

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there. 
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True also I hope you like DIY 
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Exactly. 
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You know, just really don't have
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Like there's no company. 
No, I'm telling us what to say? 

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This is Real. 
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Yeah. 
The truth. 

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The truth. 
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Well actually I guess we should 
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These people were talking about 
oh that's so true. 

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We don't know them so like 
anything we say is purely 

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speculative like if we're things
are probably a confirmed if 

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you're the arising. 
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in particular there's going to 
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to discuss. 
Really? 

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recording this on June 27th 
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Me too. 
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this couple that comes out after
the fact, you're listening from 

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the past. 
Wow, deep below recovering today

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is B.j. 
Novak Mindy Kaling. 

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Wow. 
I just blanked on her. 

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Last musical in your calling 
Catelynn? 

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Right. 
It's utterly texting legs 

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earlier when we were doing, is 
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everyone's like, what? 
There are a couple that yes, 

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they are a couple. 
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They just don't know. 
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Wow, you don't know, they are 
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office, and they are both 
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Natives, why is that 
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So are we we're also from 
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Mass, which is least live there.
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If you guys don't know and Yeah,
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apart the same year. 
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other. 
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paths, you know, at some point. 
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Born 1979 and they're both 
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Mnd went to Dartmouth College in
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Harvard and Cambridge. 
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Cambridge for Mindy is from. 
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So never met never met DJ stand 
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Let me see, I've been wondering 
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It could have looked it up. 
Blow job Benjamin Joseph and 

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even chose it Benjamin. 
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Wow, two last names. 
BJ. 

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Okay wait. 
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I'm stealing this from travelpod
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Yeah, if you could describe this
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would you say? 
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I wasn't expecting that 
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I would say. 
Lifelong mmm. 

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And we chaotic. 
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chaotic. 
What would you say from from the

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outside looking in? 
Not having research thumb, is it

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too tough? 
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anything. 
Mmm, I would say mysterious. 

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Hmm. 
Friendship. 

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Okay. 
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I don't know. 
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word for this would be kind of 
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something. 
Yeah, I don't know anything. 

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Okay, well, you're gonna live. 
Okay. 

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So, yeah, as you guys know, they
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2005, they are both 24 years old
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actors on the office, which, you
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sometimes like fall With someone
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you have no. 
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But to spend all the time with 
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So Mindy said, later in 2015, we
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still super young and also, 
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sometimes 16-hour days at the 
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We did it for eight years. 
My God, that makes sense. 

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And I think BJ said I didn't 
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It's kind of, it's the kind of 
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when you are embedded with 
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putting in that insane amount of
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They also said, no one including
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Really knew is this dating? 
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We were never really dating. 
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dating. 
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No one knew. 
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He said it, he said it. 
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anything on Reddit, when asked 
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office. 
He said, I was closest with 

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Mindy Kaling and So the least 
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minute-by-minute basis and I 
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Actually, I would trade it for 
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What am I talking about? 
I'd trade it for a more 

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consistently positive 
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She's the best and then. 
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Why was it - I know I saw I was 
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And so actually, if you guys 

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haven't seen any office, which 
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have their characters on The 
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supposedly their real-life 
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It seems like just like a bad 

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sign because I know Kelly and 
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off-and-on relationship where 
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And like giddy over him and he 

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like hates her and just goes 
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And he like can't stand her but 

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then when she moves on he like 
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Yeah, he's kind of a tool and 
she's annoying. 

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How could they write those 
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About them. 
So I know. 

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It seems crazy. 
I know I know they both just 

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like, yeah, this is us. 
Let's act it out. 

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I know. 
I know, I know. 

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And can you imagine they're like
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like, make out on screen. 
But they are also because he was

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a writer to. 
Yeah, exactly. 

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They're like inconsiderate yeah,
role playing their own 

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relationship in a way. 
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version of it must have been 
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I think everybody was aware my 
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So weird but okay here's a clip 
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it's really recent, really 
recent talking about their time 

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together on the office. 
The series you had an on-again 

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off-again relationship with 
Mindy kaling's character and of 

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course in life. 
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about This a lot. 
So, forgive me for asking again,

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in life, you had an on again, 
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you're still very close. 
You're The Godfather to one of 

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her children to both to both 
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kind of on-again off-again 
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in the way of the show. 
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the show in the sense that all 
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or an argument, Other writers 
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we would just improvise it on 
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So, you know, none of us had 
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And I think that's why so many 
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became so close. 
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or suddenly it's the weekend and
you don't know anybody else. 

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So you just keep hanging out 
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So you know, but yeah, she's 
she's one of the closest or the 

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closest person in my life to 
this day. 

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So you'd have a fight and then 
With that turn into the funny 

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version of the fight on the 
show. 

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Yeah, I mean, the whole reason, 
our character started dating on 

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the show is because people they 
couldn't get over this Dynamic. 

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We had in the writers room that 
I didn't even neither of us 

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realized was funny at all and 
other people would laugh and 

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shake their heads. 
And we'd say what and they'd say

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you to you do, and then before 
we knew it, you know, they had 

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written written a Santa's as you
know, this horrible partnership.

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So Are you dating at the time? 
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Ryan and Kelly and like many 
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who you ask and what our you ask
it at, right, right? 

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What was it? 
Like when you shot the final 

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episode of The Office, where you
glad I was ending was a really 

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sad for you cracked. 
Yeah, it was hard. 

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I mean I think we were also 
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because it had been so grueling 
for so long. 

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But Two actually. 
I'm getting choked up now to 

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actually, like the last shot of 
that I filmed was literally This

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would be a better moment on 
television Terry. 

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Like on the radio it's your eyes
tearing up. 

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Yeah, I wish this were Barbara 
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famous moment but you know it 
was Mindy and I running off into

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the sunset together. 
Now it was it was a horribly and

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had a horribly dark under 
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abandoning my baby that I had 
left at the wedding to run off 

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with her. 
But, you know, I remember it was

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a sunset. 
It was Mindy. 

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And yeah, you know, it was the 
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like, all right, my God, what I 
think is crazy is he's like it 

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was Mindy and he's like crying. 
Yeah, you know what? 

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Just doesn't seem Like the, I 
don't know. 

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I think it's sweet that he's 
crying but like, it seems like 

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there's a lot to them. 
Yeah. 

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Yeah. 
Why is he crying like if they 

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were just friends? 
Yeah, and they were all o on 

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great terms. 
I, we're just friends, that's 

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really cheap because various, I 
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than friends, don't cry. 
Okay. 

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Also I know, I don't know 
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relationship was like Ryan and 
Kelly, I'm guessing it would be 

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kinda his fault. 
It didn't work out. 

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Yeah, could be wrong. 
No, it's weird that he's like 

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crying about it. 
You're exactly right. 

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So apparently they were off and 
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from 2005 to 2007. 
But then in 2007 he officially 

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broke up with her. 
My God and she was really 

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heartbroken over it and she 
could like barely get out of bed

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and like couldn't eat. 
But they stayed friends. 

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I think probably because I had 
too right? 

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Yeah. 
While working on the office. 

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Hmm. 
Then in 2008 according to a 

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blind item post it on young 
Hollywood John Krasinski. 

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Apparently asked the book, I 
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the way, these are like 
Anonymous emissions. 

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Mm-hmm. 
And I learned this one actually 

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through the fluently, forward 
podcast, John's Krasinski. 

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Apparently asked the both of 
them to plan his wedding, to 

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Emily Blunt, an attempt to get 
them back together. 

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Really, which is interesting 
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they run, Away into the sunset 
together. 

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I do wedding. 
That's true. 

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So I don't know what happened. 
True. 

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The line item is as BJ's best 
friend. 

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John knew his pal never really 
got over Mindy. 

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They dated for for a long while 
but broke up over a year ago, 

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because of the difficulty of 
mixing work and romance, but 

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they're in love again, but get 
this then 2008. 

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Mindy starts dating. 
A writer named Benjamin. 

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Nugent who I couldn't find 
anything on this guy. 

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Truly nothing on this guy. 
That's okay. 

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But they were together. 
And they were together to till 

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2012. 
And he actually is like, 

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referenced in an episode of the 
office when Michael like, refers

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to some random, like salesperson
my name. 

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Really. 
Yeah, they say this guy's name. 

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Hmm. 
But honestly, maybe I didn't do 

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enough research on them but does
not Mindy and BJ. 

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Exactly. 
That's something you guys need 

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the info. 
That's something about our 

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podcast is. 
We're really like Breaking it 

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down on a couple, by couple 
basis. 

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Mmm. 
So like, let's say we're 

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covering Taylor Swift. 
Yes. 

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You're not going to hear about 
Taylor Swift and like everybody 

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else. 
It's gonna be a killer search in

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the person that we're talking 
about. 

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Yes, yes, it's the one 
relationship. 

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Hmm. 
Yeah. 

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And of course there's other 
characters that play. 

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Yeah, yeah. 
So if you guys want to Mindy and

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Benjamin Nugent episode, you got
it right? 

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They look up in 2012. 
Okay, and so that's kind of 

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timeline now. 2012 in July 
Mindy. 

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Tweets at BJ. 
Come home. 

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We'll listen to The Beatles and 
eat hers in and can you can 

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explain art to me. 
Oh my God, and he responds with 

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the wink Emoji. 
What? 

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So I come home. 
Yeah. 

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Come on. 
To the city. 

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Yeah, come home to your 
apartment. 

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Yeah. 
What does that mean? 

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That's super flirty winky face. 
And then in that same year, 

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Rainn Wilson gives an interview 
with vulture and says, to do an 

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imitation of Mindy. 
All you need to do is just be 

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constantly texting and saying, 
oh my God, oh my God, oh my God,

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oh my God, and then looking up 
and going where his BJ. 

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Okay. 
Yeah. 

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Rainn Wilson, who plays 
something here? 

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Dwight on the office. 
Yep. 

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And then BJ tweets at Mindy in. 
2012, text me back, please. 

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And then he responded by saying 
Hey babe, what's up? 

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And then he responded. 
Oh Ted and then she responded? 

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Oh text my bad and then he wrote
actually this is easier. 

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Are you going to that thing this
weekend? 

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What? 
Mmm. 

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Okay. 
Back then people did have 

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communicate over social media. 
Yeah true. 

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I would do it too. 
Young Facebook right on 

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somebody's wall. 
Yeah. 

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I know. 
It's so embarrassing. 

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Everybody say yeah you just go 
back and forth. 

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Each other's walls, you know, 
didn't like you couldn't see it 

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like lined up the wall to wall 
people called it. 

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Yeah. 
People don't even call it walls 

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and I know because when it 
became there's no timeline. 

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Yeah, tie line. 
Yeah, well I was cooler but you 

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know what, though? 
They're still doing these public

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displays. 
I like cute seen us so it does 

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seem a little bit for show 
sometimes, but will God bless 

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also, BJ guest stars on the 
mend. 

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Project. 
And guys, I've actually never 

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seen it. 
Maybe these are. 

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And guys, like gonna admit that 
I guess, what? 

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A good show. 
I'm sure. 

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And by the way, I think Mindy 
Kaling is like a genius. 

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I love. 
Never have. 

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I ever seen it actually. 
Think you would love it. 

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It's so good. 
It's on Netflix. 

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It's like oh wait. 
It's a TV show. 

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Yeah, it seems like a young 
girl. 

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You don't thinking movie. 
Oh yeah, yeah, no it's really 

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good. 
I love it so much. 

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I should check. 
Check it out. 

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I should watch some the sex 
lives of college girls. 

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Like, oh yeah, didn't she 
produce that? 

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Yeah, I don't watch that. 
We have her book on the table. 

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My dad actually gave this to me.
Um, is everyone hanging out 

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without me? 
And I remember wondering if he 

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was giving it to me because of 
the title and he thought, like, 

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oh Kelly is left out and they 
do, I love that. 

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Reading it in school and like 
literally laughing up like out 

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loud and she's so embarrassed. 
It is my, I know I actually 

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laughed a little bit reading 
earlier and she thanked b.j. and

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her acknowledgement. 
Wait, what did she say 

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specifically? 
This is mean I wasn't supposed 

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to do research because it's not 
my couple but I wanted to just 

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like get in the movie. 
Yeah yeah. 

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Um so I just looked at the book 
and so she lists like all these 

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people and just a long Line of 
names thanking them. 

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And then this is the first 
paragraph, but she does lost a 

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lot of people before him. 
But then she says, BJ Novak was 

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a terrific friend and editor, 
giving me no sound notes. 

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Like, hey Mindy, I think you 
sound kind of racist here. 

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It would. 
I would really be careful about 

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not sounding racist in her book.
That's all she said. 

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Okay. 
How many people did she think 

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that? 
Was it a lot? 

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Yeah, but didn't go into detail.
Like, I'd like to thank my sweet

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and funny friends who helped me 
with this they are. 

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And then just name name, okay? 
What rank like what rank and 

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what order is you think then I 
mean he's pretty far after all. 

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Okay. 
Okay. 

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I'm just saying there isn't much
like personality with it, like 

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she says they are Jeremy Bronson
Danny Chung Alexis Dean Lena 

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Dunham. 
Brent Forrester. 

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Dan Gore, Charlie. 
Grandy Steve Healy very Kemper, 

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Ellie Kemper Paul, Lieber stunt 
lieberstein, Daniel and mom. 

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Danielle Moffat, okay, that is 
like a couple more names and 

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then she says that about BJ. 
Okay. 

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So she gives bj like a lot of 
attention compared to everybody 

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else. 
She said but she only calls him 

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a terrific friend and editor but
this was Like 2010 or something.

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Did you say she was with that 
guy? 

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Yeah, she was in 2012. 
Did she think the guy in there 

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it? 
What's his name, Benjamin? 

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Which also Benjamin is actually 
be days real name. 

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Oh, that's confusing. 
Yeah. 

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Wait, Benjamin you didn't I feel
kind of weird if I was Benjamin.

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Oh my God. 
I think he's not in the 

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acknowledgement. 
Wow. 

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And I know the beginning is to 
her parents. 

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What I feel. 
I mean maybe you know, she 

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didn't know. 
Like is it gonna work out? 

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I mean, I figured I'd be wearing
if I was Benjamin and you're 

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like dating somebody, you're 
dating someone and their ex 

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gets. 
Yeah, thank you in the 

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acknowledgements but not 
carrier. 

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Yeah. 
Wow. 

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Barry. 
Oh wow. 

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And she does think him, I mean I
know she did. 

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I don't know. 
Maybe it's just the book because

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a lot of it's about like 
friendships and stuff but she 

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left like all her friends first.
Yeah, then BJ, then like her 

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family and like editors, it's so
significant. 

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She also does we should mention.
She has a second book as well 

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which I think I do but I don't 
know if she thinks him but 

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that's it. 
Probably that's very 

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interesting. 
Hmm. 

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So I don't know, I think when BJ
does guest star on The Mindy 

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Project, he plays a love 
interest and they do like, make 

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out and stuff, but I'm not 
positive, I should know it. 

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But I think he does. 
This is so interesting. 

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So then also in 2012, they had a
Lakers game, there's no video 

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evidence of this, but it was 
reported that BJ & Mindy. 

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Make the kiss cam and they do 
share a little Peck. 

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Hmm, not a full-on kiss, but 
there isn't like a video. 

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There's no way. 
It made headlines. 

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Oh and wait, so she's already 
not with Benjamin. 

460
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:19,500
I hope so anyway. 
Yeah, who knows? 

461
00:26:19,500 --> 00:26:20,600
You know? 
Yeah. 

462
00:26:21,100 --> 00:26:24,700
So then into 30 2013. 
She tweets a him. 

463
00:26:24,700 --> 00:26:29,700
You're my soup snake, they use 
this term a lot on the internet.

464
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:33,700
Oh, what does it mean? 
It's a reference to an Office 

465
00:26:33,700 --> 00:26:38,300
episode when Michael wants to 
confess his love for Holly but 

466
00:26:38,300 --> 00:26:40,000
he can't. 
Read his own writing. 

467
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:45,100
So he mistakes the word soul 
mate, her soup snake and I have 

468
00:26:45,100 --> 00:26:50,900
a clip what I wrote down a list 
of bullet points by Holly and I 

469
00:26:50,900 --> 00:26:53,200
should be together, and I'm 
going to find the perfect moment

470
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,100
today. 
And I'm going to tell her number

471
00:26:55,100 --> 00:26:58,700
one. 
Holly you and I are soup snakes 

472
00:26:59,700 --> 00:27:06,100
there and the reason is Because 
in terms of the soup, we like to

473
00:27:06,100 --> 00:27:07,500
eat. 
That doesn't make any sense. 

474
00:27:07,500 --> 00:27:10,300
We're soul mates, Holly and I 
are soul mates. 

475
00:27:10,700 --> 00:27:13,200
So I chose to go long. 
I never mind. 

476
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:23,200
The reason is but that's 
interesting that they constantly

477
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,600
referring them so much. 
Soul. 

478
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:26,600
Mate. 
Yeah. 

479
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:31,100
So amazed but yeah, to say soup 
snakes, it's like, I don't do 

480
00:27:31,100 --> 00:27:35,000
they write the joke is that They
call it that or are they? 

481
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,800
Like they, they're soul mates 
but they're too afraid to say 

482
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:41,600
it. 
You know, that's you don't say 

483
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:43,700
that. 
Just like about your eggs are 

484
00:27:44,100 --> 00:27:47,700
ugly or just your friend. 
No, not normal. 

485
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:52,200
It's super cute. 
And there's a Tumblr actually 

486
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:54,900
who I got a lot of information 
from called soup snakes. 

487
00:27:54,900 --> 00:27:57,600
I want to give him a shout out 
because they're like, obsessed a

488
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:01,200
shipping account. 
Yeah, BJ said and Entertainment 

489
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:03,400
Weekly that Year, whenever we 
date. 

490
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:05,100
Anyone else. 
I think there's a period when 

491
00:28:05,100 --> 00:28:07,300
the person is very skeptical of 
our friendship. 

492
00:28:07,300 --> 00:28:11,200
Everyone seems to think you two.
Might be a couple and I don't 

493
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,600
want to get in the way. 
Are you sure you're not dating? 

494
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:15,300
Are you sure you're not going to
end up dating. 

495
00:28:15,300 --> 00:28:17,000
It's a very common thing to have
chores. 

496
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,700
A platonic best friend, that 
becomes a little weird. 

497
00:28:19,700 --> 00:28:26,800
When you start dating someone 
well, but like I could see that 

498
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:30,300
like yeah, would you feel 
comfortable dating him know 

499
00:28:30,300 --> 00:28:33,800
likewise with this friendship? 
Yeah. 

500
00:28:33,900 --> 00:28:36,600
So then in may they attend the 
Met Ball together. 

501
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:41,300
They're d-cups about it and they
weren't officially dating. 

502
00:28:41,300 --> 00:28:43,200
No! 
Oh my God, will not publicly 

503
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:44,900
then. 
In November Mindy, tweets. 

504
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:49,200
You give any song in the island 
cover of it, better than the 

505
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,200
original? 
Okay. 

506
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,600
I think I've missed wrote that, 
but I think she said you give 

507
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:55,500
me. 
Oh, you give me any song and the

508
00:28:55,500 --> 00:28:58,300
island cover of it, and it is 
better than the original. 

509
00:28:58,300 --> 00:29:02,500
And then BD respondent, says, 
nothing compares to you and 

510
00:29:02,500 --> 00:29:05,300
Mindy tweets, back. 
If we get married, I insist John

511
00:29:05,300 --> 00:29:09,300
Mayer, sing and perform this 
version at the reception, every 

512
00:29:09,300 --> 00:29:11,000
time we're getting married. 
Yeah, okay. 

513
00:29:11,100 --> 00:29:15,100
BJ just said, yeah, I feel like 
if we date other people, they'd 

514
00:29:15,100 --> 00:29:17,100
be really confused about the 
relationship. 

515
00:29:17,100 --> 00:29:19,400
Like, you can just be platonic, 
best friends with someone and 

516
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:20,500
then I talk to you about getting
there. 

517
00:29:21,500 --> 00:29:25,500
Is she actually Kelly from the 
office? 

518
00:29:25,500 --> 00:29:32,400
I know like I know or is she 
like stop it and so then he 

519
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:36,200
responds and says I have to 
agree that would be very us of 

520
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,500
us to have a famously wrenching 
breakup song. 

521
00:29:38,500 --> 00:29:40,800
Play at our wedding rings. 
What the fuck? 

522
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:46,500
I know that is confusing. 
So that in 2014, Mindy goes on 

523
00:29:46,500 --> 00:29:50,800
the Howard Stern Show and he 
talks about their relationship 

524
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:53,600
past interviews. 
Yep, I got a clip. 

525
00:29:53,700 --> 00:29:55,700
It's going to sound a lot. 
Like a Christmas dinner 

526
00:29:55,700 --> 00:29:59,800
interview actually. 
Have you had a great love in 

527
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:03,100
your life where it just hurts 
that it didn't work out. 

528
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:06,400
Yeah, you have. 
Yeah. 

529
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:14,700
Why did it not work out? 
Um, because this is all I am. 

530
00:30:14,700 --> 00:30:16,300
It sounds not, it's again, not 
profound. 

531
00:30:16,300 --> 00:30:20,500
But like people are so different
and you can overlap in certain 

532
00:30:20,500 --> 00:30:23,400
ways, but that are important. 
But not the ones that are the 

533
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:25,300
most important or something. 
Do you check him? 

534
00:30:25,300 --> 00:30:26,900
Did you you still in touch with 
this guy? 

535
00:30:26,900 --> 00:30:28,400
Yes. 
Do you know what he's up to do? 

536
00:30:28,408 --> 00:30:29,700
You know if he's married now and
he's here? 

537
00:30:30,700 --> 00:30:31,800
He's not married. 
No matter. 

538
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:33,800
No, but you check on him. 
Yeah. 

539
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:35,000
He's a good friend of mine. 
Yeah. 

540
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:38,700
We've had smart. 
Why are you set you back up with

541
00:30:38,700 --> 00:30:40,100
this guy? 
I think it could work. 

542
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:43,200
You look like you're in love. 
We're he's my best friend. 

543
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,400
So it's that's not. 
He broke up with you. 

544
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,800
You broke up with him. 
He broke up with me. 

545
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:49,900
I wantam back. 
You would take him back? 

546
00:30:50,300 --> 00:30:52,300
No, no. 
Because it was B with yours of 

547
00:30:52,300 --> 00:30:53,700
years ago. 
That that breakup happened. 

548
00:30:53,700 --> 00:30:55,200
That's actually the life was 
this guy. 

549
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:57,500
Oh man. 
Wasn't it was pretty. 

550
00:30:57,500 --> 00:30:59,200
Damn good. 
Yeah, real good. 

551
00:30:59,300 --> 00:31:00,900
Oh good. 
He won him. 

552
00:31:00,900 --> 00:31:03,000
Funny smart and funny guy. 
When he broke up with you, did 

553
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:04,800
you get angry? 
Oh, so sad. 

554
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:06,300
Not angry sad. 
Sad. 

555
00:31:06,300 --> 00:31:07,200
That all. 
That was the fuck. 

556
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:09,800
That was the hottest I've ever 
looked as I stopped eating right

557
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:12,200
good for you. 
When I get depressed, I stopped 

558
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:14,300
eating. 
So I was so miserable and I was 

559
00:31:14,300 --> 00:31:17,100
so beautiful. 
I remember nothing like waking 

560
00:31:17,100 --> 00:31:22,600
up barely getting out of bed and
we work together but I don't 

561
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:23,500
care. 
I had no makeup. 

562
00:31:23,500 --> 00:31:27,700
I was I just I could just in all
of my clothes fit so well and 

563
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,000
but I didn't, I was real 
miserable. 

564
00:31:30,100 --> 00:31:33,200
I think the guy that you were in
love with was the guy you 

565
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:35,700
co-starred with on the on the 
office. 

566
00:31:35,900 --> 00:31:38,800
He's on the office. 
All right my wrongs. 

567
00:31:39,500 --> 00:31:42,800
Yeah he was he was the guy. 
Well he's my he's yes you're 

568
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:44,600
correct. 
Not that mystery was not you're 

569
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,500
not Sherlock Holmes or anything 
our Sherlock Holmes, a bromance.

570
00:31:47,500 --> 00:31:48,400
Okay. 
That's right. 

571
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,400
That's what they call me. 
Who have you known for ten 

572
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:52,000
years? 
Who you worked with? 

573
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:55,400
Who know what? 
He's legitimately one of my best

574
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,200
friend's he texted me before. 
This being like, good luck on 

575
00:31:57,200 --> 00:32:00,900
Howard, can't wait to hear it. 
He's been on my show, my new 

576
00:32:00,900 --> 00:32:03,100
show, he was a producer on the 
pilot. 

577
00:32:03,100 --> 00:32:05,000
I see him all the time. 
If he asked you to marry him, 

578
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:08,700
you would have At the time. 
Oh yeah, wow, yeah, wow. 

579
00:32:09,500 --> 00:32:10,900
Yeah. 
I mean, it would have, it would 

580
00:32:10,900 --> 00:32:13,900
have been, I was 24. 
And if any of hurt, but for the 

581
00:32:13,900 --> 00:32:16,000
record of anyone asked me to 
marry me, I would have to 

582
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:19,800
probably do when you're 24. 
Like you ask any girl like 

583
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:21,300
someone thinks about me. 
Yeah, right. 

584
00:32:21,300 --> 00:32:22,900
Hey, I'll get married to you 
sure. 

585
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,000
Thank you truck, but he's 
wonderful. 

586
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,500
He's a wonderful guy. 
Let's hope he calls you tomorrow

587
00:32:27,500 --> 00:32:30,800
and asked you to marry him. 
I'm not the one thing about this

588
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:34,600
is that I love it, but I think 
he's a great person but we 

589
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:37,600
don't, I'm not holding a Well 
for, but I believe if he called 

590
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:40,700
you tomorrow and said, listen, I
made a terrible mistake, we must

591
00:32:40,700 --> 00:32:41,900
get back together and get 
married. 

592
00:32:41,900 --> 00:32:44,400
You would do it II. 
Don't know, I don't know. 

593
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,900
I it's not a no. 
Okay, that's it. 

594
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:49,300
All right. 
We'll get you a boyfriend. 

595
00:32:49,300 --> 00:32:53,100
Don't worry about it. 
Actually, I'm going to hit you 

596
00:32:53,100 --> 00:32:55,300
with this price BJ's here. 
Now, he wants to say something 

597
00:32:55,300 --> 00:32:57,400
to you. 
He wants to, I don't know why. 

598
00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:02,100
He doesn't mind being your mom 
and dad will get you a 

599
00:33:02,100 --> 00:33:07,900
boyfriend. 
So fun wasn't like good for you 

600
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:11,900
and the way he says, like he 
asked you to marry him, would 

601
00:33:11,900 --> 00:33:12,400
you say? 
Yeah. 

602
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:16,600
That's just like what? 
He, I know by the way guys, on 

603
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:19,400
our past progress. 
In other words, what we did to 

604
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:20,800
our episode about Rob and 
Kristen. 

605
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,300
Yeah. 
And I kind of like inspired this

606
00:33:23,300 --> 00:33:24,800
show. 
Yeah, it's kind of the origins. 

607
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:27,800
Yeah, we just had so much fun 
with that episode. 

608
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:32,200
And maybe will re-air it, or you
could just go faster, but yeah. 

609
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:35,200
Um, but yeah, I feel like Howard
Stern. 

610
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:40,700
Really was I feel like he like 
made Kristen get engaged. 

611
00:33:40,900 --> 00:33:44,700
Their current wondering. 
Yes, because he asked mood. 

612
00:33:44,700 --> 00:33:47,300
Yeah. 
Um, yeah. 

613
00:33:47,300 --> 00:33:51,300
Totally you like next time she 
was on. 

614
00:33:51,300 --> 00:33:53,800
He's like, all right. 
So you're engaged. 

615
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:57,800
Yeah, he's like yeah, it took 
two years actually. 

616
00:33:59,700 --> 00:34:01,200
I don't know why. 
I get the sense that she just 

617
00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:05,500
like goes along with the weight.
The ball is on into the green 

618
00:34:05,500 --> 00:34:07,100
vest. 
Sex of your life, right? 

619
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,800
How does he do that? 
I love that. 

620
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:12,600
And they're like, they're so 
willing. 

621
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:15,900
Yeah. 
Why do they? 

622
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,699
I wonder I haven't listened to 
enough of his show but like I 

623
00:34:18,699 --> 00:34:22,100
wonder if this ever people that 
are like, yeah, there's dare you

624
00:34:22,100 --> 00:34:24,600
ask me that? 
No, I think people have so much 

625
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:27,900
respect for him that they like 
they want to open up. 

626
00:34:28,199 --> 00:34:33,500
They probably know going on. 
Yeah, exactly the so, yeah, she 

627
00:34:33,500 --> 00:34:35,699
really opened up there. 
She did. 

628
00:34:36,100 --> 00:34:39,500
I'm hoping it's like, like, 
hopefully BJ will call my mom. 

629
00:34:39,900 --> 00:34:42,900
I know. 
Oh my God. 

630
00:34:43,100 --> 00:34:46,000
So then DJ response. 
He's asked about this one 

631
00:34:46,300 --> 00:34:48,000
several interviews. 
You kidding me. 

632
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:51,500
He says, what was your reaction 
to Mindy? 

633
00:34:51,500 --> 00:34:54,600
Kaling's, Howard interview her 
interview with Howard Stern, 

634
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:58,000
where she talked in depth about 
your relationship starts about 

635
00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:03,800
how heartbroken she was when you
two broke up, I thought it was 

636
00:35:04,500 --> 00:35:08,100
it sounded to me. 
An honest and heartfelt account 

637
00:35:08,100 --> 00:35:12,100
of a complicated and mostly 
wonderful relationship. 

638
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:15,700
And the the highlight of that 
experience for me was my Mom 

639
00:35:15,700 --> 00:35:18,400
calling to sort of pry. 
Like so what do you think of 

640
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:20,700
what Howard was saying? 
It sounded pretty interesting to

641
00:35:20,700 --> 00:35:23,800
me like that. 
Howard Stern would somehow end 

642
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:27,600
up as part of my mom, sort of 
gentle hearing is when you get a

643
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:28,800
Juke are life to be. 
Did it? 

644
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:31,200
Did it? 
Did she must have learned things

645
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:33,300
about your relationship from the
Howard interview. 

646
00:35:33,300 --> 00:35:38,700
It sounds like I supposed to 
Yeah, awkward for you. 

647
00:35:40,300 --> 00:35:43,400
We're adults at this point so 
now that you're mentioning it. 

648
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:46,800
Yeah, it's a little awkward and 
then he's also asked about it on

649
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:51,400
Queen Latifah show. 
You were her great love. 

650
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:54,500
Is there something you want to 
tell us about it? 

651
00:35:56,800 --> 00:36:02,700
You know it's funny this is what
happens I get so tongue-tied 

652
00:36:02,700 --> 00:36:07,200
trying to explain maybe this it 
will help you give it up. 

653
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:13,200
Thanks for making it less 
awkward. 

654
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:18,300
The thing is, you know, she is 
in many ways. 

655
00:36:18,300 --> 00:36:21,800
The great love of my life and 
and she's much closer to me than

656
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:24,600
a friend and yet, we're not in a
relationship. 

657
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:28,600
And so, I usually take forever 
describing all the things that 

658
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:31,000
isn't isn't. 
But then, when I'm done, like 

659
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:33,900
sweating by trying to describe 
this complicated thing, usually 

660
00:36:33,900 --> 00:36:36,100
the person I'm talking to says, 
oh yeah, I have something like 

661
00:36:36,100 --> 00:36:38,500
that, too. 
Like, I feel like everyone has 

662
00:36:38,500 --> 00:36:39,300
this. 
You stay tuned? 

663
00:36:39,500 --> 00:36:42,000
Yeah, absolutely. 
That's right. 

664
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,600
You're making the face is like 
it's sweet. 

665
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:47,700
He's got something like that. 
Everybody's got someone 

666
00:36:47,700 --> 00:36:49,800
everyone's got their Mindy. 
Kaling lady right there. 

667
00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,100
She's got a Mindy Kaling. 
Yeah, I can see it. 

668
00:36:52,100 --> 00:36:53,400
I can see it. 
So that's perfect. 

669
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:55,900
So, I'm very lucky to have the 
actual Mindy Kaling. 

670
00:36:55,900 --> 00:36:58,300
Yes, you are. 
We love you. 

671
00:36:58,300 --> 00:37:00,200
Something. 
No. 

672
00:37:00,700 --> 00:37:02,800
Okay. 
I think everyone maybe has 

673
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:05,600
somebody. 
That still means a lot to them 

674
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,400
and maybe Xanex. 
Yeah. 

675
00:37:07,900 --> 00:37:10,200
But I think that's That's 
normal. 

676
00:37:10,300 --> 00:37:14,000
Yeah, I think that's very 
normal, but I don't think the 

677
00:37:16,300 --> 00:37:19,000
like them staying in your life 
and it being still that like, 

678
00:37:19,300 --> 00:37:22,800
passionate, yes, very normal. 
And it's kind of sad. 

679
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:26,100
But, I mean, I don't know 
anything about their like 

680
00:37:26,100 --> 00:37:28,700
current situation and I'm sure 
you're going to tell me but I 

681
00:37:28,700 --> 00:37:33,300
just feel like it must make it 
very hard for them to have like 

682
00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:37,100
to move on. 
Oh, how like a successful other 

683
00:37:37,100 --> 00:37:38,600
relationship? 
I mean, how are you? 

684
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:40,800
Be like that and be married to 
somebody else. 

685
00:37:40,900 --> 00:37:42,700
I definitely had something like 
that. 

686
00:37:43,700 --> 00:37:46,500
Don't have it anymore because 
how could I have a happy life 

687
00:37:46,500 --> 00:37:49,700
having something like that? 
Yeah, like to me. 

688
00:37:49,700 --> 00:37:52,100
That's that's something that 
people have in their early 20s, 

689
00:37:52,100 --> 00:37:53,000
though. 
Yeah, that's true. 

690
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:55,700
When they're young, like, it's 
very normal for people to break 

691
00:37:55,700 --> 00:37:59,400
up and then be x's and then, 
like not know how to like let go

692
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:02,600
of that connection, but it's not
sustainable for your whole life,

693
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:04,500
you know. 
It's almost so frustrating 

694
00:38:04,500 --> 00:38:06,200
hearing him describe it that 
way. 

695
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:10,200
I'm like, yeah, just be together
then, yeah, it's He's like, well

696
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:11,500
into his thirties. 
Yeah. 

697
00:38:11,500 --> 00:38:15,100
I don't think it's not normal to
be that age talking about like 

698
00:38:15,100 --> 00:38:17,600
that and I think being the chief
are really awesome. 

699
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:19,400
You're so right. 
He's like I think everyone has 

700
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:21,500
them like that again. 
Maybe in your 20s. 

701
00:38:21,500 --> 00:38:24,300
Yeah, I like Tony's whatever. 
I don't think you can have 

702
00:38:24,300 --> 00:38:26,100
something like that and be with 
somebody else. 

703
00:38:26,100 --> 00:38:29,200
No, I was going to say. 
Yeah, advice. 

704
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:33,600
If you start dating someone and 
they have someone like this in 

705
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:38,600
their life, Don't Run Away Tom 
wrong, my experience don't fall.

706
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:41,300
They're even if they insist. 
There's nothing going on. 

707
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,600
Don't bother ya. 
Yes. 

708
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:44,900
We don't waste because it's 
weird. 

709
00:38:44,900 --> 00:38:47,700
You got, you don't want to be 
with someone who's so close with

710
00:38:47,700 --> 00:38:50,800
their ex. 
Yeah, because why, why can't 

711
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:52,900
they let go? 
You know, even just a little 

712
00:38:52,900 --> 00:38:54,600
bit? 
Yeah, make me more of like a 

713
00:38:54,607 --> 00:38:57,200
distant friend but when it's 
like, you're texting all the 

714
00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:59,200
time, like the only defense? 
Yeah. 

715
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:03,000
When your best friend is your 
ex, yeah, you do not need to be 

716
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:07,500
best friends with your eggs. 
Never like get the chance to I 

717
00:39:07,500 --> 00:39:12,000
think see. 
Them as like a different role in

718
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:13,300
your life. 
Yeah, exactly. 

719
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:17,400
There's still going to be that 
go-to person. 

720
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,600
Yeah, I think if they're casual 
friends, they're moved on. 

721
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:22,600
Yeah. 
Like if they can see them and 

722
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,700
they're like totally indifferent
and like don't care. 

723
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:29,700
Then that's a good sign. 
But to be like like talking all 

724
00:39:29,700 --> 00:39:33,300
the time, talking about your 
marriage like hypothetical 

725
00:39:33,300 --> 00:39:36,600
marriage on Twitter for 
everybody to see that's a red 

726
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:38,900
flag. 
Yeah there and I'm kind of You 

727
00:39:38,900 --> 00:39:42,400
mean honestly right now b.j.? 
And this whole situation the way

728
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:43,200
I mean. 
Yeah. 

729
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:44,500
He broke up with her. 
Yeah. 

730
00:39:45,100 --> 00:39:47,700
And then I don't know. 
I feel like it's kind of on you 

731
00:39:47,700 --> 00:39:52,700
sometimes when you break up with
someone to step back. 

732
00:39:52,700 --> 00:39:53,900
Yeah. 
I think that could be really 

733
00:39:53,900 --> 00:39:55,000
hard. 
Yeah. 

734
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:58,600
And I know it seems cruel to but
like, I think it's actually just

735
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:02,500
torturing somebody to like, keep
I think so, you know, talking to

736
00:40:02,500 --> 00:40:05,800
them and seeing you miss them or
I mean, I don't know if he did 

737
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:08,600
that, but, yeah, kind of 
guessing the way he's talking. 

738
00:40:08,700 --> 00:40:13,700
Around it and these answers you 
have like I will say that, you 

739
00:40:13,700 --> 00:40:25,600
know, it's a honest account of 
like you don't, ya know, she's 

740
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:33,800
making it sound like no big 
deal. 

741
00:40:38,900 --> 00:40:48,000
Yeah. 
Yeah, so also in 2014, Mindy and

742
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:51,200
BJ for some reason, I have no 
idea. 

743
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:56,800
Why do a little, like, When 
Harry Met Sally, Recreation, 

744
00:40:56,900 --> 00:41:01,100
what, or People magazine, where 
they dress up as the characters.

745
00:41:01,100 --> 00:41:05,500
And I think either go to Katz's 
Deli or they're like in a set 

746
00:41:05,500 --> 00:41:08,900
that looks like it and they like
do a little clip for People 

747
00:41:08,900 --> 00:41:13,000
magazine. 
So that's about something great 

748
00:41:13,100 --> 00:41:15,900
can men and women be friends. 
That's a perennial issue. 

749
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:19,700
Not one that I've ever thought 
about what you because women and

750
00:41:19,700 --> 00:41:23,400
men can't be friends. 
I was going to say that good my 

751
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:25,500
favorite scene. 
When our Masala is probably when

752
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:28,400
Billy Crystal is lying in bed, 
after his first night with Meg 

753
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:29,600
Ryan. 
And you hear his inner 

754
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:34,200
monologue, I found that very, 
very funny and honest, the 

755
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:35,900
crystal was straight-up. 
Hot in this movie. 

756
00:41:35,900 --> 00:41:38,400
I think people forget that, he 
wasn't like SNL. 

757
00:41:38,700 --> 00:41:40,900
Guy, he was like, he wasn't 
serious. 

758
00:41:40,900 --> 00:41:44,200
Yes, wait, we we meant different
things by? 

759
00:41:44,500 --> 00:41:46,100
Yes, I'm not. 
He's very handsome. 

760
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:50,900
Yes, my favorite scene is when 
Billy Crystal's wife has just 

761
00:41:50,900 --> 00:41:53,600
left him and he meets Meg Ryan 
at the bookstore. 

762
00:41:53,700 --> 00:41:56,200
And he's been so cocky up until 
that point and he's just sort of

763
00:41:56,200 --> 00:42:01,600
like, broken down and sad and it
was just kind of unexpected for 

764
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:03,100
him. 
In this movie, he's in at, she's

765
00:42:03,100 --> 00:42:06,600
just being super funny and Loki,
love this movie and I love their

766
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:08,900
relationship in the movie. 
But I don't think that you And I

767
00:42:08,900 --> 00:42:11,600
are like this at all. 
I think we are well now, you're 

768
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:13,800
just being contrary. 
I think you're actually more 

769
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:15,100
like Aaron. 
I'm like Sally. 

770
00:42:15,100 --> 00:42:17,800
Probably yeah, like art this 
these lunches. 

771
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:19,700
I mean, you can be a little 
overconfident and I can be a 

772
00:42:19,700 --> 00:42:23,700
little, like, fussy and I like, 
strawberries that have Anila. 

773
00:42:23,700 --> 00:42:26,100
If you have it, if not the no 
ice cream just whipped cream. 

774
00:42:26,100 --> 00:42:28,200
But only if it's real, if it's 
out of a can and nothing. 

775
00:42:28,500 --> 00:42:31,400
But it's very endearing that 
he's a little fussy and it's now

776
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:33,400
that there's a camera going, 
you're being nice but you don't 

777
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:35,600
find it. 
Do, I always loved everything 

778
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:37,800
about you. 
Oh boy, the fratus in your 

779
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:44,500
voice. 
I'll come back over to my side 

780
00:42:44,500 --> 00:42:46,500
of the table. 
I love you, too. 

781
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:49,000
But doing things like awkward, 
that they're even like 

782
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:52,400
recreating this movie where the 
two best friends end up 

783
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:55,000
together. 
Yeah, that's so interesting. 

784
00:42:56,100 --> 00:42:57,700
And they dated. 
Yes. 

785
00:42:58,000 --> 00:42:59,400
Yeah. 
It's not like they've never 

786
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:00,400
slept together. 
Yeah. 

787
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:04,500
Like they have a table obvious, 
physical attraction to each 

788
00:43:04,500 --> 00:43:07,200
other. 
I feel like he's weirdly in. 

789
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:08,500
That's just one. 
Call it. 

790
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:11,100
One little moment of their 
lives, but I feel like he's 

791
00:43:11,100 --> 00:43:14,200
trying to like, put it on her 
that like, she doesn't actually 

792
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:16,300
like him or something. 
Oh, really, why did you get 

793
00:43:16,300 --> 00:43:19,200
yeah? 
Well, he says, um, like oh now 

794
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:20,900
the cameras rolling. 
Oh, yeah. 

795
00:43:20,900 --> 00:43:23,800
And then she says that what you 
just said? 

796
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:26,800
But she says something really 
nice and he said, like her voice

797
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:30,900
was fraught with some bowling 
and I didn't get that. 

798
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:34,000
Yeah, it's like he's saying 
like, you don't really like me 

799
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:37,900
or whatever you want. 
I wonder if this they play this 

800
00:43:37,900 --> 00:43:42,300
thing off for the As though, 
like, if they want to make it 

801
00:43:42,300 --> 00:43:45,900
seem like they have this, like, 
romantic friendship or if it's 

802
00:43:45,900 --> 00:43:51,000
real. 
If it's real, they're like 

803
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:53,100
wasting. 
Well, we'll get to that. 

804
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:59,500
So, then also the same year, BJ 
publishes, I would struggle with

805
00:43:59,500 --> 00:44:04,700
this word Memoir Memoir Memoir. 
One more thing on the knowledge 

806
00:44:04,700 --> 00:44:06,500
mints page. 
He writes, thanks Mindy. 

807
00:44:06,500 --> 00:44:08,000
I love you. 
And you're the best. 

808
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:11,500
What kind of weird roosting 
your? 

809
00:44:11,500 --> 00:44:14,800
So you love your ex I think 
that's the thing. 

810
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:16,100
They're not just best friends. 
There are? 

811
00:44:16,100 --> 00:44:21,500
Yeah, yeah. 2015 in May? 
She tweets. 

812
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:27,700
Love means never having to say. 
Hey, are we dating? 

813
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:33,600
Oh my God, directed at anybody. 
Yeah, but I think you can infer 

814
00:44:33,700 --> 00:44:36,500
who that's a massive something 
to eat. 

815
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:40,400
Yeah. 
Oh that's sad though. 

816
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:44,600
Also that year and there's a lot
of things I'm not including in 

817
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:47,500
this because there's so much. 
So like I'm just kind of taking 

818
00:44:47,500 --> 00:44:52,200
highlights I moved here. 
Also, that year she says in an 

819
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:55,900
interview with InStyle, he is 
not my boyfriend, but he's not 

820
00:44:55,900 --> 00:44:58,300
my best friend. 
I guess you could describe our 

821
00:44:58,300 --> 00:45:03,400
relationship as romantically 
charged camaraderie with loud 

822
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,900
arguments, but I don't think 
Facebook would accept this as a 

823
00:45:06,900 --> 00:45:11,700
new status. 
This is like almost triggering 

824
00:45:11,700 --> 00:45:13,200
me. 
Yeah, I know. 

825
00:45:14,100 --> 00:45:18,300
Yeah, same. 
Okay, 2016. 

826
00:45:18,300 --> 00:45:20,000
Here we go. 
This was a big year. 

827
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:23,500
Oh, geez, January. 
He's asking an interview if 

828
00:45:23,500 --> 00:45:26,300
anyone in the world could kill 
him without repercussions. 

829
00:45:26,500 --> 00:45:29,400
It would it be and why? 
And he said Mindy Kaling, she 

830
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:30,800
wouldn't even need a reason for 
that. 

831
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:34,600
She's just TBD. 
She's just TBD. 

832
00:45:34,700 --> 00:45:39,500
Like, her reason is. 
That's an interesting question. 

833
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:42,200
Do you have an answer to that? 
Hookah kill me without 

834
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:45,100
repercussions? 
Yeah, I was it if someone was to

835
00:45:45,100 --> 00:45:47,500
murder me, who would? 
I think we're like the suspect. 

836
00:45:47,500 --> 00:45:48,900
Yeah. 
Is that like what the question 

837
00:45:48,900 --> 00:45:51,300
is asking know, I think it's 
really, who would want to kill 

838
00:45:51,300 --> 00:45:51,800
you? 
Yeah. 

839
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:54,700
I see my mom maybe but like, not
because I think my mom's gonna 

840
00:45:54,700 --> 00:45:57,900
kill me but I think it could be 
like a crime of passion, because

841
00:45:57,900 --> 00:45:59,400
she's a doesn't want me to 
leave. 

842
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:05,200
That was, maybe cut that out, 
but yeah, yeah, I think Mom 

843
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:09,500
would be a common and people, 
but is the quiet, okay? 

844
00:46:09,700 --> 00:46:12,800
Hey, if we answered, who would 
want to kill, who would want to 

845
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:15,100
kill me? 
That's a good one. 

846
00:46:15,100 --> 00:46:16,600
I can't pick. 
Why would someone want to kill 

847
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:17,300
you? 
It's crazy. 

848
00:46:17,300 --> 00:46:18,400
You know. 
Why would some? 

849
00:46:19,300 --> 00:46:22,300
I feel like a former friend want
to kill you from middle school? 

850
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:27,200
Oh yeah. 
That would have been my answer 

851
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:35,300
to but I think that'd be crazy. 
Yeah, I don't think like I don't

852
00:46:35,300 --> 00:46:37,400
know, I'd be shocked if there's 
someone in the world. 

853
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:41,300
I don't know if any of your 
former friends like have such 

854
00:46:41,300 --> 00:46:43,900
proud up. 
Feeling I have to say what this 

855
00:46:43,900 --> 00:46:47,800
prism Satanist, anybody, I 
noticed that there is this guy 

856
00:46:48,100 --> 00:46:51,400
who was watching my Instagram 
sores all the time, but does not

857
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:53,800
follow me and it's someone who I
do not know when. 

858
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:57,100
Oh, really, yeah, but always 
watches them watches every 

859
00:46:57,100 --> 00:46:58,200
single one. 
You creepy? 

860
00:46:58,300 --> 00:47:00,100
I know. 
It's not weird, so should walk, 

861
00:47:01,300 --> 00:47:05,700
but he recently followed me. 
So you're that person I'm onto 

862
00:47:05,700 --> 00:47:08,000
you but I see it. 
Yeah. 

863
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:10,600
What the heck? 
But I don't know who they are. 

864
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:14,500
So this person has to go to my 
page all the time and watch it. 

865
00:47:14,500 --> 00:47:17,300
I probably should just block it.
That's interesting. 

866
00:47:17,700 --> 00:47:21,000
May of that year. 
Many posts a photo of her and BJ

867
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:24,900
or her mouth is resting on his 
shoulder in the caption reads. 

868
00:47:24,900 --> 00:47:28,600
Hey, I'm wrapped now which I 
think is like wrapped from TV 

869
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:33,300
show. 
Oh, I feel like I should show it

870
00:47:33,300 --> 00:47:34,500
to you. 
You see? 

871
00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:41,500
Yeah, okay, let's see. 
Oh yeah, he's in the picture. 

872
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:43,800
Mmm, this is for wrapping her 
show. 

873
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:46,400
The Mindy Project. 
Oh my gosh, that's weird. 

874
00:47:46,700 --> 00:47:48,500
This is lot of pictures. 
Yeah. 

875
00:47:48,500 --> 00:47:51,700
Host with a friend, it looks 
really cuddly. 

876
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:56,200
Mmm. 
Like her headed her mouth. 

877
00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:58,900
Yeah. 
Resting on his in his head is 

878
00:47:58,900 --> 00:48:03,200
like her lean back against hers.
Mmm. 

879
00:48:03,900 --> 00:48:06,100
She's staying always confusing. 
Hmm. 

880
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:09,500
On a panel for something. 
I don't know what it was. 

881
00:48:09,700 --> 00:48:12,800
He said important I think 
Facebook invented. 

882
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:15,900
It's complicated for us. 
Oh my God. 

883
00:48:15,900 --> 00:48:19,200
I haven't been D. 
September that year slate 

884
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:22,700
released an article ranking 
power couples in tweeted, that 

885
00:48:22,700 --> 00:48:25,300
BJ & Mindy. 
Would make the list if their 

886
00:48:25,300 --> 00:48:31,200
relationship was confirmed and 
BJ liked the tweet and December 

887
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:34,200
that year, okay? 
And this she does a lot. 

888
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:39,900
She post a picture of a Hanukkah
and Indian Fusion meal for 

889
00:48:39,900 --> 00:48:43,000
Hanukkah and Christmas Eve. 
She's not Jewish. 

890
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:44,900
Yeah, he's Jewish. 
Hmm. 

891
00:48:44,900 --> 00:48:48,500
Oh my God, and she posts a lot 
of like is yes. 

892
00:48:48,500 --> 00:48:49,900
And she and throughout the 
years. 

893
00:48:49,900 --> 00:48:55,300
From this point on, she posts a 
lot of like Like her celebrating

894
00:48:55,300 --> 00:48:57,800
Jewish holidays in this book 
that's looking at. 

895
00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:01,000
Earlier she has a chapter called
Jewish guys. 

896
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:05,100
Oh my God. 
That's weird. 

897
00:49:06,500 --> 00:49:09,000
How would she know the 
mannerisms of Jewish guys? 

898
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:12,100
So well, exactly, exactly. 
And it's kind of interesting 

899
00:49:12,100 --> 00:49:14,300
because it's the county of a 
douche because you needed 

900
00:49:14,300 --> 00:49:18,300
because this is one that just 
keeps coming up, okay? 

901
00:49:18,300 --> 00:49:23,700
2017 Mindy Kaling shocks, 
shockingly unexpectedly. 

902
00:49:23,900 --> 00:49:26,800
Gives birth to her daughter in 
2017. 

903
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:28,400
Yeah. 
But doesn't say who the father 

904
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:32,100
is like, nobody even knew that 
she was pregnant and she doesn't

905
00:49:32,100 --> 00:49:34,400
even list a father on the birth 
certificate. 

906
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:39,500
Wow, the fuck sources say she 
refused even tell her close 

907
00:49:39,500 --> 00:49:43,800
friends who the father is and 
that the Monte was an unexpected

908
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:47,300
surprise. 
Oh my God, which is interesting 

909
00:49:47,300 --> 00:49:49,900
because I assumed that she just 
like had a baby with, like a 

910
00:49:49,900 --> 00:49:51,700
sperm donor. 
Usually, really wanted to be a 

911
00:49:51,700 --> 00:49:54,300
mom, but like, it sounds like, 
why wouldn't you just say that? 

912
00:49:54,300 --> 00:49:56,900
Yeah, exactly. 
So, I don't, I mean, we don't, 

913
00:49:56,900 --> 00:49:58,000
she's just like does. 
Yeah. 

914
00:49:58,700 --> 00:50:00,000
Yeah. 
And it's like tough because it's

915
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:03,000
like, I don't want to speculate 
like, you know, like people can,

916
00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:04,900
you know, do a sperm donor. 
They can do whatever they want, 

917
00:50:04,900 --> 00:50:09,300
like their pots of Parenthood, 
but in this book, I know she 

918
00:50:09,300 --> 00:50:11,500
could have changed her mind. 
Maybe that was like her younger 

919
00:50:11,500 --> 00:50:14,400
self, but she says, she never 
has one night stands. 

920
00:50:15,500 --> 00:50:18,900
Interesting. 
That isn't I just really like 

921
00:50:18,900 --> 00:50:22,400
flipping through this book, 20 
minutes till your dad is a good.

922
00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:23,700
She's like I don't care how 
people do it. 

923
00:50:23,700 --> 00:50:27,700
She said she never had. 
Okay, I mean granted she could 

924
00:50:27,700 --> 00:50:32,700
have is a long time but by yeah,
wow, I did listen to the podcast

925
00:50:32,700 --> 00:50:34,200
fluently forward. 
Hmm. 

926
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:38,800
They were theorizing that 
there's rumors that she had that

927
00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:41,700
the fault and I truly do not 
think this is true. 

928
00:50:41,700 --> 00:50:43,400
Okay. 
So this is really don't think, 

929
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:48,100
yeah, that supposedly The father
of the baby is, oh my God, I'm 

930
00:50:48,100 --> 00:50:50,000
forgetting his name but he's the
guy who played o.j. 

931
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:54,300
Simpson and that miniseries. 
The people versus o.j. 

932
00:50:54,300 --> 00:50:57,300
Let me look it up. 
I didn't watch it. 

933
00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:04,900
Sometimes I still hear about 
things like but I don't know he 

934
00:51:04,900 --> 00:51:19,400
his name is oh, Cuba Gooding jr.
Oh, really hmm, But why do they 

935
00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:23,400
think that there's photographs 
of them together, mmm, like, on 

936
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:26,700
a date or something? 
But this guy, first of all, I 

937
00:51:26,707 --> 00:51:29,800
think you might have been 
married but also he was accused 

938
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:32,800
of, like, really bad stuff I 
think recently. 

939
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:37,300
I don't even 2017. 
But that could be why she 

940
00:51:37,300 --> 00:51:39,400
doesn't want people to know, but
I gotta be horrible. 

941
00:51:39,500 --> 00:51:41,700
I know. 
I truly don't think it's, yeah, 

942
00:51:41,700 --> 00:51:45,600
this guy face. 
So off, Mmm. 

943
00:51:45,900 --> 00:51:49,400
But like I said, I yeah, believe
it, but a lot of people think 

944
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:50,700
it's BJ. 
Novak's child. 

945
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:53,400
That's true. 
But Mindy said in an interview 

946
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:56,200
my feeling is that until I speak
to my daughter about her 

947
00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:58,200
paternity. 
I'm not going to talk to anyone 

948
00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:00,900
else about it. 
People do think that BJ is the 

949
00:52:00,900 --> 00:52:04,200
father of the child and she said
if I was on the outside looking 

950
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:05,900
at it, I would think the same 
thing. 

951
00:52:05,900 --> 00:52:09,000
But the truth is BJ is so much 
more like family now than a 

952
00:52:09,008 --> 00:52:12,700
place now than a platonic 
friend, we're like family. 

953
00:52:13,300 --> 00:52:15,000
Now, then a platonic Friend. 
Yeah. 

954
00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:17,100
How does that even gate? 
Remember. 

955
00:52:17,100 --> 00:52:21,700
Yeah. 
So he's more than a platonic 

956
00:52:21,700 --> 00:52:22,600
friend. 
Yeah. 

957
00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:24,200
He's like family. 
Like your husband? 

958
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:26,700
Yeah. 
Or like your brother? 

959
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:30,000
Yeah. 
Because your brother is still at

960
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:32,200
the end of the day, a platonic 
friend. 

961
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:36,100
You sure to never say someone 
who slept with his? 

962
00:52:36,100 --> 00:52:40,800
Like your brother? 
No you can't baby like gossip, 

963
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:44,200
third cousin. 
Yeah, Uncle Ono. 

964
00:52:44,700 --> 00:52:46,200
No, I'm not saying that you do 
that. 

965
00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:49,500
But this thing, what would be a 
relation like the feeling? 

966
00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:55,100
Now it's been said, Uncle you're
just like oh he's like family 

967
00:52:55,100 --> 00:52:57,400
but like what? 
He's like family like maybe they

968
00:52:57,400 --> 00:52:58,600
can in law. 
Yeah. 

969
00:52:58,600 --> 00:53:01,200
Maybe. 
Yeah but also she says they're 

970
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:03,300
so close. 
He's looking brother-in-law's. 

971
00:53:03,300 --> 00:53:04,700
Yeah. 
Yeah. 

972
00:53:04,700 --> 00:53:06,200
They're not good. 
That's not appropriate. 

973
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:08,400
I know. 
None of this is appropriate. 

974
00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:10,400
Yeah. 
So he's I think the Godfather to

975
00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:14,100
my daughter he comes over like 
once a week sometimes. 

976
00:53:14,300 --> 00:53:17,300
We'll come over just to hang out
with her once a week. 

977
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:21,600
Just if he was a father, that's 
very odd that he would be the 

978
00:53:21,600 --> 00:53:23,100
Godfather. 
I agree. 

979
00:53:23,100 --> 00:53:24,800
I agree. 
That's why I hired think at the 

980
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:29,900
end of the day that he's not the
father because I would think 

981
00:53:29,900 --> 00:53:34,300
what a terrible person he's The 
Godfather or he's the biological

982
00:53:34,300 --> 00:53:36,700
father but he chooses to just go
by God. 

983
00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:43,000
That's really bad. 
Yeah there's no that's really 

984
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:43,900
weird. 
Like yeah. 

985
00:53:43,900 --> 00:53:45,800
The father know you want to be 
the father. 

986
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:48,500
Be the father is god father 
doesn't really mean anything and

987
00:53:48,700 --> 00:53:51,500
really do anything I know. 
Yeah it's me. 

988
00:53:51,500 --> 00:53:55,900
You get the extra gift. 
Also I think I mean technically 

989
00:53:55,900 --> 00:53:59,100
speaking he is Jewish, right? 
I mean, this isn't Godfather. 

990
00:53:59,100 --> 00:54:02,700
Technically mean I know that 
it's been not enough movie cuts 

991
00:54:02,700 --> 00:54:06,400
that, but technically means it's
like the person who would like, 

992
00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:10,200
the root of a Godfather is, like
the person who like carries on 

993
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:13,200
the child's faith, not that it 
has to be a way like I know that

994
00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:16,200
like now it's kind of just meant
to be like an adult was like a 

995
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:18,200
more special pigment. 
Yeah. 

996
00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:21,000
But you're right. 
It is supposed to be someone 

997
00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:25,000
that helps like guide you. 
Yeah, spiritually I guess but 

998
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:27,600
there's no like technical need 
for a Godfather. 

999
00:54:28,900 --> 00:54:31,500
Not that it really matters like 
it's just interesting, but I 

1000
00:54:31,508 --> 00:54:36,100
know it has become more secular.
So 2018, he spotted holding her 

1001
00:54:36,100 --> 00:54:39,700
daughter on an outing. 
I think I'm self with her. 

1002
00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:42,100
No, I think it's just 
interesting. 

1003
00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:44,600
So then and it doesn't easy 
Mindy. 

1004
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:47,400
Kaling is in the movie wrinkle 
and time and BJ. 

1005
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:49,700
Novak tweets. 
A photograph of a poster for the

1006
00:54:49,700 --> 00:54:52,300
movie and rights. 
When I first met Mindy she lived

1007
00:54:52,300 --> 00:54:56,300
in a small apartment on Fairfax.
Ave this is what is in front of 

1008
00:54:56,300 --> 00:54:58,200
the building today. 
And it's like the Poster. 

1009
00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:01,900
Congrats Mindy and a future. 
Congrats to all those who will 

1010
00:55:01,900 --> 00:55:05,700
see it in are inspired to do 
great things and then me Mindy 

1011
00:55:05,700 --> 00:55:08,100
responds. 
Oh my God, I'm like full crying.

1012
00:55:08,100 --> 00:55:12,800
I'll never be mad at you again. 
What we're getting a lot of 

1013
00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:15,800
like, references to the fact 
that they fight all. 

1014
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:17,800
Yeah. 
Oh my gosh. 

1015
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:22,900
I want to know, I know. 
So 2019, they attend the Oscars 

1016
00:55:22,900 --> 00:55:25,300
after party together, which 
actually, I should say, I think 

1017
00:55:25,300 --> 00:55:28,400
even before this year they 
attended it like Every single 

1018
00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:31,600
year it's another tips on 
surprising interesting. 

1019
00:55:32,500 --> 00:55:36,300
And may they attend the premiere
of her film late night together,

1020
00:55:36,300 --> 00:55:41,600
like as dates in July of that 
year, at his 40th, birthday 

1021
00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:43,600
party. 
When everyone is singing, happy 

1022
00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:47,500
birthday to him, she has his 
arm, he has his arm around her 

1023
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:49,600
really aren't happy birthday 
part. 

1024
00:55:49,900 --> 00:55:52,200
What? 
Which I think is gonna be crazy.

1025
00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:54,500
Like yeah, you would have your 
arm around someone. 

1026
00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:55,800
Yeah. 
And any other time, but when 

1027
00:55:55,800 --> 00:55:58,000
people are actively singing. 
Yeah, there's any happy 

1028
00:55:58,000 --> 00:55:59,500
birthday. 
Like, that's when that mean 

1029
00:55:59,500 --> 00:56:01,600
bought light is on you. 
Yeah. 

1030
00:56:02,900 --> 00:56:05,000
I don't understand. 
No, you don't have your arm 

1031
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:06,400
around. 
Just anybody during how you 

1032
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:09,400
break? 
Yeah, that's like significant. 

1033
00:56:10,700 --> 00:56:16,300
Okay, we're going to take a 
clean here so 2020 don't tell me

1034
00:56:16,300 --> 00:56:20,100
to look you look to the side. 
Yeah we're going to take a turn.

1035
00:56:20,100 --> 00:56:24,300
So we have this lie, cute little
friendship, you know, like and 

1036
00:56:24,300 --> 00:56:28,200
we're like what is going on? 
What confusing friendship 2020? 

1037
00:56:29,500 --> 00:56:32,000
There's a lot of blind item tips
to do. 

1038
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:36,200
Duma just like an Instagram 
account for those who don't 

1039
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:39,700
know, which is like, anonymous 
tips or not anonymous tips about

1040
00:56:39,700 --> 00:56:43,800
celebrities for BJ is 
photographed at this influencer 

1041
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:47,100
event because you apparently is 
dating an influencer there. 

1042
00:56:47,500 --> 00:56:49,800
And like the person who submits 
the tip is like, it was really 

1043
00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:52,100
awkward like he was really out 
of place and like, he's like 

1044
00:56:52,100 --> 00:56:57,600
dating some young influencer 
influencer, like an Instagram 

1045
00:56:59,300 --> 00:57:01,800
and you probably know this 
already, but on the podcast Red,

1046
00:57:01,800 --> 00:57:03,900
Scare the house. 
Let's talk about how PJ is 

1047
00:57:03,900 --> 00:57:07,900
constantly sliding into the DMS 
of different girls in NYC who 

1048
00:57:07,900 --> 00:57:11,000
are like in their 20s for the, 
and that he even message one of 

1049
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:13,600
the hosts and one of the other 
hosts roommate. 

1050
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:17,900
Yeah. 
Which is But what are the odds? 

1051
00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:20,000
Yeah, like you're probably 
messaging. 

1052
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:23,500
A lot of several people know 
each other. 

1053
00:57:24,100 --> 00:57:31,100
Here's enticing. 
And then someone on Reddit 

1054
00:57:31,100 --> 00:57:34,900
commented, okay, I am definitely
not in the know or anything, but

1055
00:57:34,900 --> 00:57:37,700
I do have cutesy artsy friends 
that are in Brooke that are 

1056
00:57:37,700 --> 00:57:41,300
broken base and BJ. 
Novak, does this shit does this 

1057
00:57:41,300 --> 00:57:43,200
shit a lot? 
So the point where my friends, 

1058
00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:46,000
make fun of him because he's 
constantly trying to pull. 

1059
00:57:47,900 --> 00:57:50,700
I mean this could all just be 
like rumors but it is 

1060
00:57:50,700 --> 00:57:53,200
interesting. 
When like a lot of people say 

1061
00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:55,000
that. 
Yeah. 

1062
00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:58,300
Well, I mean, there's even I'll 
get to it but there's like stuff

1063
00:57:58,300 --> 00:58:00,600
to back it up. 
I think like people oh I don't 

1064
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:02,700
actually have this specifically 
because I think they're really 

1065
00:58:02,700 --> 00:58:05,100
good about having this not on 
the internet but people have 

1066
00:58:05,100 --> 00:58:10,100
posted like his screenshots from
what's that dating out that like

1067
00:58:10,100 --> 00:58:13,600
for celebrities? 
Yeah, right yeah, right yeah. 

1068
00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:16,800
He's like Chinese very active 
on, really? 

1069
00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:21,600
I do wonder if he's been like 
this, like the whole time. 

1070
00:58:21,600 --> 00:58:23,200
Exactly. 
That's what I think. 

1071
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:26,600
And that's why they're not 
together because he can't come 

1072
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:28,300
in. 
Yeah, which is pathetic. 

1073
00:58:28,900 --> 00:58:34,000
Are you serious? 
Yeah, that's sad. 

1074
00:58:34,900 --> 00:58:39,400
So, once again, they attend the 
Oscars after party together 2020

1075
00:58:40,300 --> 00:58:42,500
also. 
Then in March they quarantined 

1076
00:58:42,500 --> 00:58:47,100
together for like What? 
Mmm, interesting in April. 

1077
00:58:47,500 --> 00:58:49,200
They celebrate Passover 
together. 

1078
00:58:49,200 --> 00:58:54,600
Interested in September, she 
tweeted that she gave birth to a

1079
00:58:54,607 --> 00:58:58,100
baby boy named Spencer, which 
wait interesting. 

1080
00:58:58,100 --> 00:58:59,600
Okay, what's like nine months 
before? 

1081
00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:01,100
April. 
Oh no. 

1082
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:05,600
Okay, never mind. 
Whatwhat is going to say, oh my 

1083
00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:07,800
God, I'm losing. 
What's nine months before April?

1084
00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:11,400
Maybe it was the beginning of 
quarantine but oh yeah it's 

1085
00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:12,700
actually one month. 
Yeah. 

1086
00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:17,000
Okay. 
Actually, what is think about 

1087
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:20,100
it? 
So bad at this kind of thing. 

1088
00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:22,500
Oh, wait, don't you just go 
three months ahead? 

1089
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:25,900
Oh yeah, true. 
Then I get confused. 

1090
00:59:25,900 --> 00:59:32,400
Like so the August or sighs? 
Well, his July is his 40th, 

1091
00:59:32,400 --> 00:59:35,300
birthday party. 
Oh my God, that night. 

1092
00:59:35,300 --> 00:59:39,100
Yeah, you never know. 
Wait, what was the day? 

1093
00:59:40,900 --> 00:59:43,500
I so great but I didn't think 
about, I don't know where you're

1094
00:59:43,500 --> 00:59:46,000
going to get into this episode 
1. 

1095
00:59:50,700 --> 00:59:52,500
It's like was his birthday on 
the same, okay. 

1096
00:59:52,500 --> 00:59:55,600
August 1st, August 1st. 
This is where I die. 

1097
00:59:55,800 --> 01:00:01,900
And then the date of her son's 
for the party. 

1098
01:00:01,900 --> 01:00:03,700
Could have been like the end of 
July. 

1099
01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:08,300
Yeah. 
Oh, wait a minute. 

1100
01:00:08,300 --> 01:00:10,100
Do I have the date completely 
wrong? 

1101
01:00:10,100 --> 01:00:11,900
I'm guys I have the day. 
What is that? 

1102
01:00:12,600 --> 01:00:18,600
She gives birth on October 20 20
So what 6 months before, October

1103
01:00:19,100 --> 01:00:24,600
are nine months just January? 
I don't know anything about 

1104
01:00:24,600 --> 01:00:27,700
January and February. 
I know. 

1105
01:00:27,700 --> 01:00:29,500
They attend the Oscars offer 
party. 

1106
01:00:29,500 --> 01:00:31,700
Yes I'm hanging out there. 
Hanging out. 

1107
01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:33,800
Of course once a week. 
The hands we. 

1108
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:36,700
Yeah. 
But it could have been the 

1109
01:00:36,700 --> 01:00:38,500
first. 
Yeah baby Donnie. 

1110
01:00:38,500 --> 01:00:40,600
So people have no idea who the 
second one is to. 

1111
01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:42,300
Yeah. 
As usual, don't know either. 

1112
01:00:42,300 --> 01:00:46,300
There's no dad listed on either 
birth certificate. 

1113
01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:47,900
Wow. 
She's interesting. 

1114
01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:51,000
I do think it's I'm not sure 
what I would do in that 

1115
01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:54,700
situation but I think I In which
he's saying that like she's 

1116
01:00:54,700 --> 01:00:58,700
waiting till she tells her 
daughter exactly imagine feeling

1117
01:00:58,700 --> 01:01:03,200
a little betrayed like, oh yeah 
and the world. 

1118
01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:06,300
Yeah be like oh my gosh. 
Yeah just that other people knew

1119
01:01:06,300 --> 01:01:09,200
and you didn't. 
I just think it would be odd if 

1120
01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:14,600
her father really was b.j. 
Novak and he's in her life and 

1121
01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:20,900
honey, it's BJ. 
Yeah, I mean it really could be 

1122
01:01:20,900 --> 01:01:25,600
like, maybe they did decide that
like they were gonna have a baby

1123
01:01:25,600 --> 01:01:30,500
together but like why isn't just
being in that role of not bother

1124
01:01:33,300 --> 01:01:37,800
very confusing. 
So yeah, she keep birth to a 

1125
01:01:37,808 --> 01:01:40,800
baby boy named Spencer in 
December. 

1126
01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:43,300
She posts a photo celebrating 
Hanukkah. 

1127
01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:47,600
Hmm, with the kids interesting. 
She also gave an interview about

1128
01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:50,800
her Christmas traditions and 
then says that BJ dresses up as 

1129
01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:55,000
Santa. 
What's the kids What the fuck is

1130
01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:56,900
this? 
I know they celebrate the 

1131
01:01:56,900 --> 01:02:00,600
holidays together. 
I just think that she celebrated

1132
01:02:00,600 --> 01:02:02,800
Passover. 
No, yeah, yeah. 

1133
01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:05,700
With the kids, the kid is this 
fork in her? 

1134
01:02:05,700 --> 01:02:07,600
Yes. 
Celebrate Jewish holidays. 

1135
01:02:07,600 --> 01:02:09,300
Yeah, as a BJ. 
Yeah. 

1136
01:02:09,700 --> 01:02:13,000
What How can they not be 
together? 

1137
01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:16,300
I know. 
I don't understand it 20:21. 

1138
01:02:16,300 --> 01:02:19,700
He posted a selfie with Mindy 
and captioned it this in 

1139
01:02:19,700 --> 01:02:21,800
September. 
I don't usually ask for selfies 

1140
01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:24,700
with celebrities, but saw my 
favorite star last night and 

1141
01:02:24,700 --> 01:02:27,500
just had to talk to see her all 
the time. 

1142
01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:33,700
And on, Good Morning America. 
He said that he sees Mindy 

1143
01:02:33,700 --> 01:02:41,100
several times a week. 
Sounds like Then that your 

1144
01:02:41,100 --> 01:02:44,600
there's a dual Duma. 
I don't never want Doom. 

1145
01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:46,900
What? 
Admission titled BJ. 

1146
01:02:46,900 --> 01:02:50,100
Hose. 
Let's get lunch and someone says

1147
01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:54,100
how many 20-somethings is BJ 
trying to get with lately? 

1148
01:02:54,300 --> 01:02:56,500
As one of them. 
I think we should all get drinks

1149
01:02:56,500 --> 01:03:00,000
without him, there's so many 
things I want to talk out. 

1150
01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:02,600
Talk about with my fellow. 
BJ hose. 

1151
01:03:02,600 --> 01:03:06,300
Wow, sporty trying to get with 
these girls in their 20s about 

1152
01:03:06,300 --> 01:03:09,100
PJ mountains. 
And then someone This is on 

1153
01:03:09,100 --> 01:03:13,400
Twitter and I saw this on Reddit
and someone commented fellow New

1154
01:03:13,400 --> 01:03:16,000
Yorker here. 
And I can say he deaf does, he's

1155
01:03:16,000 --> 01:03:19,100
out all the time and Lower East 
Side and goes to these certain 

1156
01:03:19,100 --> 01:03:20,800
parties that are supposed to 
emulate. 

1157
01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:24,100
The early 2000s, aesthetic that 
a bunch of people in their 

1158
01:03:24,100 --> 01:03:28,200
twenties go to it's honestly 
pretty cringe TV H he's cute but

1159
01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:31,500
he would be hot if he wasn't 
slumming it up. 

1160
01:03:31,600 --> 01:03:34,500
Being so thirsty. 
This is coming from a woman in 

1161
01:03:34,500 --> 01:03:38,100
her mid-20s that hangs around, 
downtown and Bushwick. 

1162
01:03:38,300 --> 01:03:40,400
Oh My God. 
Yeah we live in Bushwick. 

1163
01:03:40,400 --> 01:03:43,500
Yeah. 
Oh, I don't know what is parties

1164
01:03:45,300 --> 01:03:48,300
to try to find like what are you
doing? 

1165
01:03:58,100 --> 01:03:59,800
Let me give him the benefit of 
the doubt. 

1166
01:03:59,800 --> 01:04:04,800
Like, maybe because of this, 
like intense relationship that 

1167
01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:11,100
he has with her, he feels like 
he can only Only date people in 

1168
01:04:11,100 --> 01:04:13,900
their 20s who like aren't 
looking for something serious. 

1169
01:04:13,900 --> 01:04:17,000
How is it going to have a 40 
year old girlfriend with this 

1170
01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:19,300
whole natural? 
Like no, because going to put up

1171
01:04:19,300 --> 01:04:20,100
with that. 
Yeah. 

1172
01:04:20,100 --> 01:04:23,900
No one's going to know what 
doesn't make it right. 

1173
01:04:23,900 --> 01:04:27,500
No. 
But maybe he is so afraid to let

1174
01:04:27,500 --> 01:04:30,800
go of Mindy. 
The he's purposely like you 

1175
01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:34,900
could just had purposely having 
really short things. 

1176
01:04:35,300 --> 01:04:38,500
Exactly, when people who don't 
want something serious, although

1177
01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:41,300
Oh I bet they do probably 
celebrity. 

1178
01:04:41,300 --> 01:04:47,600
Yeah so yeah smart situation but
like you never know like maybe 

1179
01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:50,700
he doesn't want to be with Mindy
because he wants to still hook 

1180
01:04:50,700 --> 01:04:53,300
up with these young girls and if
so that's wicked icky. 

1181
01:04:53,300 --> 01:04:56,800
Like I know that makes me sad. 
Like she's just putting up with 

1182
01:04:56,800 --> 01:04:58,600
this for some reason. 
Yeah. 

1183
01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:01,700
Like girl hope not. 
I know. 

1184
01:05:01,700 --> 01:05:03,000
I think she's dark. 
Yeah. 

1185
01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:05,000
She's way too good for him. 
Yeah. 

1186
01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:07,400
Most people know who Mindy 
Kaling is. 

1187
01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:09,900
Yeah. 
Most Probably, even though 

1188
01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:12,000
that's true. 
The office is super popular 

1189
01:05:12,400 --> 01:05:14,600
motion. 
Probably do not know who the dad

1190
01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:20,200
is like if you just ask someone 
on the street, yeah, I know. 

1191
01:05:22,300 --> 01:05:25,800
Because I don't know. 
Just even the way she said, 

1192
01:05:25,800 --> 01:05:28,100
like, oh any girl would marry 
anybody? 

1193
01:05:28,100 --> 01:05:30,400
Like I hope she doesn't still 
have a little bit of that 

1194
01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:31,700
feeling. 
I know something. 

1195
01:05:31,700 --> 01:05:33,500
That's I don't think that's 
really for. 

1196
01:05:33,500 --> 01:05:35,400
I was. 
Yeah, I'm not ready. 

1197
01:05:36,600 --> 01:05:39,100
I'm 26. 
I do not want to get married. 

1198
01:05:39,100 --> 01:05:42,500
Just everyone has this you? 
Yeah, yes. 

1199
01:05:42,500 --> 01:05:48,200
So I don't know. 
Anyway, also, speaking of young 

1200
01:05:48,200 --> 01:05:52,400
women, there's a lot of blind 
items in pictures of him hanging

1201
01:05:52,400 --> 01:05:55,700
out with Kern and shipka. 
No, that is. 

1202
01:05:55,900 --> 01:05:59,000
Yeah, she wasn't, she Sabrina 
didn't the Remake. 

1203
01:05:59,000 --> 01:06:00,800
Yep. 
And she's 20 years younger than 

1204
01:06:00,800 --> 01:06:01,700
him. 
Wow. 

1205
01:06:01,900 --> 01:06:04,500
So pictures of them like hanging
out and there's even a picture 

1206
01:06:04,500 --> 01:06:07,200
of them hanging out with, like, 
John Mayer. 

1207
01:06:07,200 --> 01:06:09,300
It's a people. 
Obviously, people hate John 

1208
01:06:09,300 --> 01:06:13,000
Mayer, oh my God, he's grooming 
her. 

1209
01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:16,300
And like gosh, like they're 
actually our tweets between 

1210
01:06:16,700 --> 01:06:19,100
curing in and BJ like all the 
way back. 

1211
01:06:19,100 --> 01:06:23,000
As far as I 2015, angrily 
tweeting at each other. 

1212
01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:24,400
It's like, okay, she actually 
look at that. 

1213
01:06:24,600 --> 01:06:25,300
Ines. 
Yeah. 

1214
01:06:27,600 --> 01:06:32,700
But I'm gonna hope that it's 
like not a romantic situation. 

1215
01:06:32,900 --> 01:06:37,200
Yeah. 
Hopefully maybe they work 

1216
01:06:37,200 --> 01:06:42,600
together or something. 
Yeah, kind of. 

1217
01:06:42,900 --> 01:06:48,200
Yeah. 
So it seems regardless like it 

1218
01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:55,900
just even if they're fine to see
your ex even if they are She 

1219
01:06:55,900 --> 01:06:59,700
doesn't really care. 
It would suck to see him just 

1220
01:06:59,700 --> 01:07:02,200
out and about with all these 
like 20 year old girls. 

1221
01:07:02,600 --> 01:07:04,300
Yeah. 
For some reason I get the 

1222
01:07:04,300 --> 01:07:08,900
impression that she lives in LA,
but maybe if she lives in. 

1223
01:07:09,900 --> 01:07:13,500
Yeah, I I know. 
I'm like the elderly don't have 

1224
01:07:13,500 --> 01:07:15,600
any knowledge but it's not like 
little bio thing. 

1225
01:07:15,600 --> 01:07:16,900
It said she lived in Los 
Angeles. 

1226
01:07:16,900 --> 01:07:17,800
Okay. 
Yeah. 

1227
01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:20,800
Yeah, she does some but it does 
he live there too? 

1228
01:07:21,300 --> 01:07:24,300
Well why is it always out doing 
this stuff in the lower? 

1229
01:07:24,300 --> 01:07:31,800
Yeah. 
Yeah we also hang out all the 

1230
01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:39,800
time. 
I think you're right though. 

1231
01:07:39,800 --> 01:07:42,200
I think she means she did live 
in New York forever. 

1232
01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:43,800
Maybe. 
I think a lot. 

1233
01:07:43,800 --> 01:07:45,300
So he's living like both. 
Yeah. 

1234
01:07:45,300 --> 01:07:47,500
It definitely does live in Los 
Angeles. 

1235
01:07:47,800 --> 01:07:49,400
Yeah to. 
Hmm. 

1236
01:07:49,800 --> 01:07:52,600
But they are hanging out several
times a week, so maybe he just 

1237
01:07:52,600 --> 01:07:56,200
has been emotional. 
Work on the weekends. 

1238
01:07:56,300 --> 01:07:59,400
Well, speaking of parties, I got
what he's in October of that 

1239
01:07:59,400 --> 01:08:01,100
year. 
He's, they're spotted in Malibu 

1240
01:08:01,100 --> 01:08:04,400
together. 
Oh, really okay. 

1241
01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:06,500
But also, I actually skipped 
ahead September of that year. 

1242
01:08:06,500 --> 01:08:09,300
He doesn't know their ammo. 
I'm not it and he's asked his 

1243
01:08:09,300 --> 01:08:12,500
favorite person is and he says 
my goddaughter. 

1244
01:08:12,700 --> 01:08:17,300
Oh, just interesting. 
How were his responses at the 

1245
01:08:17,300 --> 01:08:19,300
years? 
Like, I don't know, I don't 

1246
01:08:19,300 --> 01:08:21,300
know. 
I don't think capital letters. 

1247
01:08:21,300 --> 01:08:24,399
I didn't want to say it's just 
as it is. 

1248
01:08:24,500 --> 01:08:26,300
Is my goddaughter. 
Okay? 

1249
01:08:26,399 --> 01:08:29,500
So I don't know the 
capitalization since October 

1250
01:08:29,500 --> 01:08:32,000
that year, they take the kids 
trick-or-treating together. 

1251
01:08:32,399 --> 01:08:37,100
Wow. 
November of that year so close. 

1252
01:08:37,100 --> 01:08:38,899
He's so involved. 
Yeah. 

1253
01:08:39,200 --> 01:08:42,600
November they go to the premiere
of her TV show the sex lives of 

1254
01:08:42,600 --> 01:08:46,100
college girls together and means
December. 

1255
01:08:46,100 --> 01:08:48,600
Wow! 
Mindy in DJ, go to Disneyland 

1256
01:08:48,600 --> 01:08:52,000
together with her kids and a 
witness says that she's holy 

1257
01:08:52,000 --> 01:08:56,399
that he was holding her son and 
he kissed the Just which is you 

1258
01:08:56,399 --> 01:09:00,600
know, these are cute. 
Maybe, yeah, he's the Godparent 

1259
01:09:00,600 --> 01:09:03,200
to both the kids. 
That's so interesting. 

1260
01:09:03,200 --> 01:09:05,200
Yeah. 
What the heck is this? 

1261
01:09:05,200 --> 01:09:07,600
It's interesting because it's 
like, I have two brothers, but 

1262
01:09:07,600 --> 01:09:10,000
like I wouldn't make both of 
them. 

1263
01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:13,000
Like one of them, The Godfather 
to both. 

1264
01:09:13,000 --> 01:09:15,100
Yeah. 
If I had more than one kid, but 

1265
01:09:15,100 --> 01:09:17,500
no, maybe that's just because I 
have two brothers. 

1266
01:09:17,500 --> 01:09:20,200
But she have a brother. 
Yeah, she does actually yeah, 

1267
01:09:20,899 --> 01:09:22,000
yeah. 
So that's interesting. 

1268
01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:24,399
BJ's the Godparent. 
For both of them. 

1269
01:09:24,500 --> 01:09:26,899
Yeah, Godfather. 
I feel like people don't do 

1270
01:09:26,899 --> 01:09:27,899
that. 
Like I hate yeah. 

1271
01:09:27,899 --> 01:09:31,000
Especially if you have more than
one kid, it's like more than one

1272
01:09:31,000 --> 01:09:34,700
opportunity to like give other 
people like a shout-out. 

1273
01:09:34,700 --> 01:09:37,399
So true, most people don't have 
the same person. 

1274
01:09:37,399 --> 01:09:39,600
I wonder who the Godmother is. 
Hmm. 

1275
01:09:39,700 --> 01:09:42,200
Is the Godmother actively 
involved like those? 

1276
01:09:42,500 --> 01:09:45,600
I don't know. 
It's a good question. 

1277
01:09:47,000 --> 01:09:49,100
Yeah. 
And then December mini post a 

1278
01:09:49,100 --> 01:09:54,000
picture for Christmas of her 
fireplace and Mindy and BJ have 

1279
01:09:54,000 --> 01:09:56,000
stockings. 
Next to each other on the 

1280
01:09:56,000 --> 01:10:00,600
fireplace. 
His name is Janna Ru says be 

1281
01:10:00,600 --> 01:10:04,900
system, but people say that she 
calls him the sweet pea, I know.

1282
01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:06,800
Yeah. 
Oh, she does. 

1283
01:10:06,900 --> 01:10:11,300
Oh my God, this is crazy. 
Yeah, I don't understand. 

1284
01:10:11,300 --> 01:10:15,800
Don't worry about confusing. 
So it just gets more and more 

1285
01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:17,800
confusing. 
I feel that we're in this year 

1286
01:10:17,800 --> 01:10:18,700
now. 
Okay. 

1287
01:10:19,100 --> 01:10:22,800
Caught up to the almost present,
January, BJ & Mindy. 

1288
01:10:22,800 --> 01:10:26,100
Go to Massachusetts at the same.
Time with her kids and they go 

1289
01:10:26,100 --> 01:10:29,100
on a whole trip and there. 
Yep. 

1290
01:10:29,600 --> 01:10:32,800
And February bitchy. 
Okay, this is crazy. 

1291
01:10:33,000 --> 01:10:37,700
February, BJ follows a parenting
advice Instagram by a woman 

1292
01:10:37,700 --> 01:10:39,700
named dr. 
Becky people. 

1293
01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:44,800
And all of the posts are about 
like, parenting myths and like 

1294
01:10:44,800 --> 01:10:47,700
the importance of play. 
And like, like, how to 

1295
01:10:47,700 --> 01:10:51,600
communicate with your child and 
like resolving conflict with 

1296
01:10:51,600 --> 01:10:54,000
kids parenting? 
Yes. 

1297
01:10:55,500 --> 01:10:58,000
Levi was so desire. 
Yeah. 

1298
01:10:59,000 --> 01:11:02,500
And they also just like continue
to like tweet at each other and 

1299
01:11:02,500 --> 01:11:07,700
they're seeing going out to 
lunch together a lot in February

1300
01:11:07,700 --> 01:11:10,500
and then Mindy post a picture of
her and her daughter wearing 

1301
01:11:10,600 --> 01:11:12,400
BJ's hat. 
Supposedly. 

1302
01:11:12,600 --> 01:11:15,600
Wow. 
Which has Max seafood Cape Cod, 

1303
01:11:15,700 --> 01:11:19,900
like she posts pictures have 
March they attend Beyonce's, 

1304
01:11:19,900 --> 01:11:23,100
Oscar party together and posed 
for pictures and p.j. 

1305
01:11:23,100 --> 01:11:27,400
Reshares Fan Art of the This is 
interesting. 

1306
01:11:27,400 --> 01:11:33,600
Mmm, then also in March, Mindy 
post a pic celebrating Passover.

1307
01:11:33,800 --> 01:11:38,500
Mmm, again more Jewish holidays,
then BJ. 

1308
01:11:38,500 --> 01:11:42,400
Okay in March, BJ post, a story 
of Kelly and Ryan their 

1309
01:11:42,400 --> 01:11:46,800
characters from The Office 
kissing, what and a clip of Ryan

1310
01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:49,900
smirking in, like, you know, how
the office they have a 

1311
01:11:49,900 --> 01:11:50,900
interviews. 
Yeah. 

1312
01:11:51,100 --> 01:11:54,500
And it's Ryan smirking in the 
interview and saying, I don't 

1313
01:11:54,500 --> 01:11:56,100
know. 
No, I can't explain it. 

1314
01:11:56,200 --> 01:11:58,200
Oh my God. 
Like blushing about sure that 

1315
01:11:58,200 --> 01:12:02,500
Kelly and BJ wrote my favorite 
Kelly and Ryan moment in the 

1316
01:12:02,500 --> 01:12:08,000
office hashtag soup snakes. 
Are you kidding me? 

1317
01:12:08,600 --> 01:12:11,100
No, this is literally like three
months ago. 

1318
01:12:11,700 --> 01:12:14,100
I'm so this is 2022. 
Yeah, yeah. 

1319
01:12:14,100 --> 01:12:18,100
My God April. 
They go dress together. 

1320
01:12:18,100 --> 01:12:22,800
As storybook characters for a 
fundraiser for Mindy's 

1321
01:12:22,800 --> 01:12:26,200
daughter's school. 
So they go to a PTA event 

1322
01:12:26,200 --> 01:12:29,300
together to her daughter's 
school. 

1323
01:12:29,300 --> 01:12:33,200
Why are they? 
Saying they're not together, 

1324
01:12:33,200 --> 01:12:38,600
that's very involved. 
Hmm, so April they go. 

1325
01:12:38,600 --> 01:12:41,000
Yeah I said that. 
Okay, April someone tweets that 

1326
01:12:41,000 --> 01:12:44,400
BJ asking him to name his five 
favorite writers and he says, 

1327
01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:49,400
Terry Southern Philip Roth Sarah
Mancuso William Shakespeare and 

1328
01:12:49,400 --> 01:12:56,600
Mindy Kaling may, there's a 
blind item that former A-list 

1329
01:12:56,600 --> 01:12:59,800
actor. 
Who's now a b-list was overheard

1330
01:12:59,800 --> 01:13:01,700
saying that he's a father of two
children. 

1331
01:13:01,900 --> 01:13:05,500
With his former co-star, but the
person who submitted it thinks, 

1332
01:13:05,500 --> 01:13:08,700
that he didn't really mean it. 
So people do this is about 

1333
01:13:08,700 --> 01:13:12,500
before, but like, maybe he was 
just like joking about being the

1334
01:13:12,500 --> 01:13:16,100
father of her tested. 
Justing. 

1335
01:13:16,200 --> 01:13:20,000
Mmm, what do you say he was ever
a list? 

1336
01:13:20,100 --> 01:13:23,200
No, that's the thing, but people
get that wrong. 

1337
01:13:23,500 --> 01:13:26,000
Remember, the time we played 
the, yeah we played. 

1338
01:13:26,000 --> 01:13:29,400
He was feel asleep for like a 
four hour car ride. 

1339
01:13:30,000 --> 01:13:33,900
Um, it's fun to do. 
But who else could that be like 

1340
01:13:34,300 --> 01:13:37,600
who's I know? 
It's so hard to think of a TV 

1341
01:13:37,600 --> 01:13:40,500
star who used to be a lesbian 
out there be lists. 

1342
01:13:41,000 --> 01:13:45,400
It could be like anybody but 
mmm, I would say he was never a 

1343
01:13:45,400 --> 01:13:48,000
list. 
Yeah, I would say Mindy has been

1344
01:13:48,000 --> 01:13:49,200
a list. 
Hmm. 

1345
01:13:50,400 --> 01:13:51,900
Not that there's anything wrong 
with that. 

1346
01:13:52,000 --> 01:13:58,300
Noblest is a good place to be. 
Maybe this is better than, but 

1347
01:13:58,300 --> 01:14:04,100
it seems to be 0. 
B - hi. 

1348
01:14:04,100 --> 01:14:07,100
Yeah, I would not that. 
There's anything wrong with 

1349
01:14:07,100 --> 01:14:09,200
that, BJ. 
Okay, BJ. 

1350
01:14:09,200 --> 01:14:11,400
You know what? 
Because I mean this BJ will give

1351
01:14:11,400 --> 01:14:14,900
you the beef has. 
Yeah, I think Fame seems really 

1352
01:14:14,900 --> 01:14:17,400
horrible in many ways. 
Oh completely. 

1353
01:14:18,400 --> 01:14:22,500
It doesn't say anything about 
anyone's worth as a human being.

1354
01:14:22,500 --> 01:14:25,500
I think all humans are equal, 
but I don't need to do this 

1355
01:14:25,508 --> 01:14:31,300
whole thing exactly. 
But yeah, just saying some plr. 

1356
01:14:32,500 --> 01:14:35,100
Just hire in the business. 
Yeah, yeah, exactly. 

1357
01:14:35,100 --> 01:14:37,500
You cannot company or something.
Exactly. 

1358
01:14:37,800 --> 01:14:39,100
And it's well-known. 
I bet. 

1359
01:14:39,100 --> 01:14:41,300
They're, yeah, there's some gray
lines. 

1360
01:14:41,300 --> 01:14:44,200
But for sure, Mindy's more 
famous, and BJ. 

1361
01:14:44,200 --> 01:14:46,700
Yeah, definitely completely. 
Yeah. 

1362
01:14:46,700 --> 01:14:50,700
So also again, they go back to 
Boston together with her kids. 

1363
01:14:50,700 --> 01:14:53,800
They take the kids to the Boston
Children's Museum. 

1364
01:14:53,800 --> 01:14:56,600
They spotted at the playground 
together in Boston. 

1365
01:14:56,600 --> 01:14:58,700
They're seeing going out to 
lunch and Newton. 

1366
01:14:59,100 --> 01:15:02,100
Mindy bjbj went to a Red Sox 
game. 

1367
01:15:03,100 --> 01:15:06,900
In the Red Sox official 
Tick-Tock account posted a video

1368
01:15:06,900 --> 01:15:09,700
that said when Scranton's 
biggest power couple stops by 

1369
01:15:09,700 --> 01:15:14,900
Fenway and then he suddenly 
wasn't their biggest partner and

1370
01:15:14,900 --> 01:15:29,300
that's what Dwight and Angela. 
So then he's a premiere of the, 

1371
01:15:29,400 --> 01:15:34,400
it's a Tribeca film festival. 
And he says, Says this game with

1372
01:15:34,400 --> 01:15:37,200
me, fans went crazy laughing 
with last week when he went to 

1373
01:15:37,208 --> 01:15:40,000
the Red Sox game with Mindy 
being back in Massachusetts, 

1374
01:15:40,000 --> 01:15:42,400
what was that? 
Like that was also a dream come 

1375
01:15:42,400 --> 01:15:44,900
true, my family's from Boston, 
Mindy's families from Boston. 

1376
01:15:45,100 --> 01:15:48,600
So to get to hang out with sort 
of multiple generations of 

1377
01:15:48,600 --> 01:15:51,800
people, that matter to me. 
It was a dream Rudy for anyone 

1378
01:15:51,800 --> 01:15:54,000
at the Tonys tonight. 
Maybe some friends, I'm rooting 

1379
01:15:54,000 --> 01:15:57,000
for Mindy Kaling, who produced a
strange Loop and and hopefully 

1380
01:15:57,000 --> 01:16:01,600
she'll get her first Tony. 
So yeah, man, he was nominated 

1381
01:16:01,600 --> 01:16:05,600
the same. 
Day of his Premier for a film, 

1382
01:16:05,600 --> 01:16:08,400
that he may be called a strange 
Loop. 

1383
01:16:09,100 --> 01:16:11,500
Oh no, she's nominated for a 
play called The Strange. 

1384
01:16:11,500 --> 01:16:16,900
No cool. 
And he has a direct directorial 

1385
01:16:16,900 --> 01:16:20,300
debut with a film called 
benjin's at Tribeca Film 

1386
01:16:20,300 --> 01:16:22,200
Festival. 
Which first of all we oughta go 

1387
01:16:22,200 --> 01:16:24,500
back and say multiple 
generations of people who matter

1388
01:16:24,500 --> 01:16:27,600
to me the kids, the kids and 
their parents. 

1389
01:16:27,600 --> 01:16:32,100
Yeah, I want to say to just 
being from Massachusetts. 

1390
01:16:32,200 --> 01:16:35,600
Like they are, hmm. 
I find it weird that he said, it

1391
01:16:35,600 --> 01:16:39,000
was a dream come true because 
I'm assuming he's meant to the 

1392
01:16:39,000 --> 01:16:43,300
lot of Red Sox game. 
I Nina Harvard to like it makes 

1393
01:16:43,300 --> 01:16:46,600
it seem like he doesn't want to 
talk about what it was really 

1394
01:16:46,600 --> 01:16:48,800
like exactly that. 
I can't even say, like it was a 

1395
01:16:48,800 --> 01:16:50,300
nice day. 
Whatever. 

1396
01:16:50,300 --> 01:16:53,700
No, he acted like, it was like a
reunions. 

1397
01:16:53,700 --> 01:16:58,100
Yeah, that's like true dream. 
Come true, you know, Mindy and I

1398
01:16:58,600 --> 01:17:03,700
like you see her all the time. 
And I get going to Red Sox. 

1399
01:17:03,700 --> 01:17:05,800
Give anybody could go to one. 
Yeah. 

1400
01:17:05,900 --> 01:17:09,200
But I do think they did good to 
go on the field and like me. 

1401
01:17:09,400 --> 01:17:11,900
Okay. 
Maybe that monster, but it's not

1402
01:17:11,900 --> 01:17:15,600
since I really, I know a lot of 
people get to do that, maybe 

1403
01:17:15,600 --> 01:17:18,800
that's what he meant. 
But I was just over analyzing 

1404
01:17:18,800 --> 01:17:22,000
when you're saying that. 
Yeah, thinking he is making it 

1405
01:17:22,000 --> 01:17:25,300
sound less casual. 
I agree. 

1406
01:17:25,300 --> 01:17:27,300
I agree. 
I almost feel like he gave an 

1407
01:17:27,300 --> 01:17:32,500
answer that was like he, this is
really over and he like Dated 

1408
01:17:32,500 --> 01:17:34,200
from the actual question. 
Yeah. 

1409
01:17:34,200 --> 01:17:37,200
And like, give like a kind of 
like media trained dancer. 

1410
01:17:37,200 --> 01:17:41,500
Yeah, I'm not really respond. 
So it seems like, but unless the

1411
01:17:41,500 --> 01:17:44,400
dream come true is being able to
hang out with like his parents 

1412
01:17:44,400 --> 01:17:48,200
and like they're supposed to be 
like really cynical here. 

1413
01:17:48,500 --> 01:17:54,600
No one would say that the dream 
concert she seems over the top. 

1414
01:17:54,700 --> 01:17:58,900
Yeah, it does. 
But also the fact that he had to

1415
01:17:58,900 --> 01:18:02,000
say hanging out with multiple 
Generations, that matter to me. 

1416
01:18:02,800 --> 01:18:06,400
Yeah, and over-the-top seriously
who normally says that. 

1417
01:18:06,600 --> 01:18:11,400
But okay, so that night Mindy 
was nominated for a Tony Award. 

1418
01:18:11,900 --> 01:18:16,100
But instead of going to the 
Tonys, she went to his Film 

1419
01:18:16,100 --> 01:18:19,800
Festival. 
What so for the premiere of his 

1420
01:18:19,800 --> 01:18:23,900
movie, instead of going and be, 
they do asked why that was and 

1421
01:18:23,900 --> 01:18:25,700
he said she's committed to 
coming. 

1422
01:18:25,900 --> 01:18:28,200
She committed to coming as soon 
as she heard about it. 

1423
01:18:28,200 --> 01:18:31,000
She said this is selfishness and
possessiveness. 

1424
01:18:31,300 --> 01:18:33,500
I don't want you. 
To become Jordan Peele and 

1425
01:18:33,500 --> 01:18:36,200
abandoned me without becoming 
part me, becoming part of the 

1426
01:18:36,208 --> 01:18:39,200
ride. 
It was obviously a very nice 

1427
01:18:39,200 --> 01:18:42,900
compliment and in true Mindy 
Style, Both sincere and a joke. 

1428
01:18:42,900 --> 01:18:45,400
But when she found out that the 
Tonys were the same night, she 

1429
01:18:45,400 --> 01:18:47,300
did a lot of guilt tripping and 
grumbling. 

1430
01:18:47,300 --> 01:18:49,600
I told her to go to the Tonys 
but she didn't. 

1431
01:18:49,600 --> 01:18:52,400
I had this great screening and 
celebrated and at the after 

1432
01:18:52,400 --> 01:18:55,100
party, with my friends, I then 
texted her. 

1433
01:18:55,100 --> 01:18:57,100
Hey, did you win the Tony? 
And she wrote back? 

1434
01:18:57,200 --> 01:19:00,200
Yep, and I thought, oh my God, 
this woman will never stop. 

1435
01:19:00,200 --> 01:19:02,600
One-upping me, did she win? 
It. 

1436
01:19:02,900 --> 01:19:06,100
Yeah she did with the traffic 
and she didn't go by the upsets 

1437
01:19:06,100 --> 01:19:06,700
me. 
I know. 

1438
01:19:06,700 --> 01:19:09,800
And then he posted like, he 
posted to his Instagram story, a

1439
01:19:09,800 --> 01:19:14,000
screenshot of like the text 
message of her thing. 

1440
01:19:14,000 --> 01:19:17,300
She won the Tony and that kind 
of brings us to the present. 

1441
01:19:17,300 --> 01:19:19,700
I don't really have anything 
else unless there's been 

1442
01:19:19,700 --> 01:19:25,800
something this past week. 
I hope like, I hope that I just 

1443
01:19:25,800 --> 01:19:28,100
don't even know what the heck is
going on. 

1444
01:19:28,100 --> 01:19:32,300
And I'm so wrong, but it's 
upsetting me because I feel Feel

1445
01:19:32,300 --> 01:19:35,500
like she, I don't know. 
I've just seen this with so many

1446
01:19:35,500 --> 01:19:39,500
of my friends just women. 
I know that they just really 

1447
01:19:41,300 --> 01:19:45,100
They do anything for a guy. 
No I agree. 

1448
01:19:45,100 --> 01:19:49,800
You know just stick around 
forever and you should have gone

1449
01:19:49,800 --> 01:19:50,700
to the tone. 
Yeah. 

1450
01:19:50,700 --> 01:19:53,300
That's her big night. 
Like that's huge. 

1451
01:19:53,500 --> 01:19:55,000
Yeah. 
Oh my God. 

1452
01:19:55,000 --> 01:19:58,200
And she won the award. 
What? 

1453
01:19:58,200 --> 01:20:02,600
Like and winning an Oscar. 
I wonder if roles were reversed 

1454
01:20:02,600 --> 01:20:04,700
if he would have done the same. 
Hmm. 

1455
01:20:06,000 --> 01:20:12,500
You know, it's not like they, 
you know, if she didn't go to 

1456
01:20:12,500 --> 01:20:16,700
his Premier, would that really 
be like the end of their 

1457
01:20:16,700 --> 01:20:18,500
friendship or whatever? 
I know. 

1458
01:20:18,500 --> 01:20:21,500
Yeah, probably not. 
I know you like, it would be sad

1459
01:20:21,500 --> 01:20:23,900
if she thought it was like that.
Importantly, that's how she 

1460
01:20:23,900 --> 01:20:26,700
felt, but like, well her saying,
like, oh, like it's out of 

1461
01:20:26,700 --> 01:20:28,500
selfishness. 
Like, I don't want you to like 

1462
01:20:28,500 --> 01:20:31,600
become successful without me 
like Mindy, you're already 

1463
01:20:31,600 --> 01:20:35,600
successful and like, you don't 
like, leave her behind. 

1464
01:20:35,900 --> 01:20:38,600
Yeah, you know what what's meant
for? 

1465
01:20:38,600 --> 01:20:41,900
You will never pass you by. 
That's what that's my Mantra 

1466
01:20:41,900 --> 01:20:46,400
lately. 
If BJ was meant for you, you 

1467
01:20:46,400 --> 01:20:49,500
don't need to go to his premiere
for him, working out, day in 

1468
01:20:49,500 --> 01:20:52,400
your life. 
You know, it's meant for you 

1469
01:20:52,400 --> 01:20:54,500
would never pass you by it to 
me. 

1470
01:20:54,500 --> 01:20:56,200
Shows a little bit of 
insecurity. 

1471
01:20:56,200 --> 01:20:59,000
I don't know like maybe mnd I 
don't know you. 

1472
01:20:59,000 --> 01:21:04,800
So yeah but like that to think 
like you can't miss out on this 

1473
01:21:04,800 --> 01:21:06,700
or else like he'll be. 
I'm successful and like, leave 

1474
01:21:06,700 --> 01:21:10,000
you in the dust. 
Mindy. 

1475
01:21:10,000 --> 01:21:12,400
We love you, we love you, but 
come on. 

1476
01:21:12,500 --> 01:21:17,300
Yeah, the whole thing. 
Like I like I would say, I want 

1477
01:21:17,300 --> 01:21:20,200
them together, but just because 
I think it's a total waste. 

1478
01:21:20,200 --> 01:21:23,200
If you really do have such a 
deep friendship, and attraction 

1479
01:21:23,200 --> 01:21:24,700
for each other and love each 
other. 

1480
01:21:25,000 --> 01:21:29,400
Why do just like letting that? 
Like, yeah, but it is like, just

1481
01:21:29,400 --> 01:21:32,500
be together. 
Why making it so complicated? 

1482
01:21:33,500 --> 01:21:36,000
Because I don't think they're 
ever going to fully be able to 

1483
01:21:36,000 --> 01:21:39,800
be with anybody else. 
If they have each other in, I 

1484
01:21:39,800 --> 01:21:41,800
mean, it seems like they are 
together. 

1485
01:21:41,800 --> 01:21:44,200
Yeah, exactly. 
Maybe they have an open 

1486
01:21:44,200 --> 01:21:47,000
relationship and I mean, they 
use each other for the things 

1487
01:21:47,000 --> 01:21:50,400
that you would use a couple like
a partner for like going to a 

1488
01:21:50,407 --> 01:21:52,800
PTA event spending holidays 
together. 

1489
01:21:53,000 --> 01:22:01,200
Go ahead and visit your parents.
Maybe they are just Super open 

1490
01:22:01,200 --> 01:22:03,500
there. 
Like we just have a partnership.

1491
01:22:03,500 --> 01:22:05,400
Yeah. 
You know what I mean? 

1492
01:22:05,700 --> 01:22:07,900
But I feel like they could talk 
about that. 

1493
01:22:08,200 --> 01:22:10,700
Hmm. 
If they could, if they had like 

1494
01:22:10,700 --> 01:22:13,900
an explanation. 
Yeah, because they kind of want 

1495
01:22:13,900 --> 01:22:16,600
the world to know about this 
like flirtation and like 

1496
01:22:16,600 --> 01:22:18,500
romantic relationship that they 
have. 

1497
01:22:18,500 --> 01:22:20,600
Like, they're not really hiding 
that true. 

1498
01:22:22,400 --> 01:22:26,600
Yeah, it would be sweet if it 
was like, When Harry Met Sally 

1499
01:22:26,600 --> 01:22:29,600
and They're like we're together 
now. 

1500
01:22:29,600 --> 01:22:31,200
Me like get married or 
something? 

1501
01:22:31,200 --> 01:22:33,900
Yeah. 
Yeah. 

1502
01:22:33,900 --> 01:22:36,700
But right now, it's like, in the
middle of when hurry, When Harry

1503
01:22:36,700 --> 01:22:40,000
Met Sally, but hearing that 
silly takes place over a much 

1504
01:22:40,000 --> 01:22:41,500
shorter amount of. 
That's not true. 

1505
01:22:41,600 --> 01:22:45,300
Like, this is too long, 15 years
now. 

1506
01:22:45,300 --> 01:22:48,700
Yeah, well doing this. 
You're bored. 

1507
01:22:49,200 --> 01:22:54,700
Yeah, I totally blame him 100%. 
Yeah, I think they would be 

1508
01:22:54,700 --> 01:22:58,700
together if it wasn't for him. 
Mmm, being However, it is the 

1509
01:22:58,700 --> 01:23:01,300
what he is. 
I mean, they said they wrote the

1510
01:23:01,300 --> 01:23:04,000
characters in office, to be like
them. 

1511
01:23:04,300 --> 01:23:07,300
Yeah, it was totally Ryan's 
fault. 

1512
01:23:07,400 --> 01:23:10,400
Okay, do you think that he's the
father of her kids? 

1513
01:23:12,600 --> 01:23:18,500
Oh my gosh, I hope not. 
I think that'd be so odd, but 

1514
01:23:18,500 --> 01:23:20,600
maybe I'm gonna give figure it 
out. 

1515
01:23:20,600 --> 01:23:23,800
Yeah. 
Who mean? 

1516
01:23:23,800 --> 01:23:25,700
Yeah, maybe it was a sperm 
donor. 

1517
01:23:26,100 --> 01:23:29,400
I don't know why that feels like
more infringing on someone's 

1518
01:23:29,400 --> 01:23:32,200
privacy than like, if it's just 
a good night. 

1519
01:23:32,200 --> 01:23:47,300
Yeah, I think it's I don't know.
Gun to my head, I don't know. 

1520
01:23:47,600 --> 01:23:49,400
Oh yeah, I actually gone to my 
head. 

1521
01:23:49,400 --> 01:23:56,800
I think like I might die takes 
on like a father role. 

1522
01:23:56,900 --> 01:24:00,300
He's obviously. 
Yeah doing that. 

1523
01:24:00,300 --> 01:24:02,900
And so maybe that's why he 
followed that Instagram because 

1524
01:24:02,900 --> 01:24:07,800
he is like trying to be that for
the kids like why? 

1525
01:24:07,900 --> 01:24:11,300
Yeah, it reads at the end of the
day, they are exes. 

1526
01:24:11,400 --> 01:24:12,900
Yeah. 
Like at the end of the day, they

1527
01:24:12,900 --> 01:24:15,700
actually did legitimately date. 
Yeah. 

1528
01:24:15,800 --> 01:24:20,100
So all of that with that 
context, like you're taking on a

1529
01:24:20,100 --> 01:24:22,400
father role for for an X, you 
know. 

1530
01:24:22,400 --> 01:24:25,000
Yeah. 
Did she just pull that thing? 

1531
01:24:25,000 --> 01:24:28,000
Like will you just raise kids 
with me? 

1532
01:24:28,000 --> 01:24:31,100
Like What you're talking about 
with a gay man. 

1533
01:24:31,100 --> 01:24:33,100
Oh yeah. 
Yeah guys, if I don't ever find 

1534
01:24:33,100 --> 01:24:36,400
someone I'm gonna find a gay man
who also wants to have kids. 

1535
01:24:36,400 --> 01:24:38,500
Yeah. 
And we'll have kids together but

1536
01:24:38,700 --> 01:24:40,900
it won't be a family but not 
together. 

1537
01:24:41,400 --> 01:24:45,700
Maybe that's their situation. 
I'm trying to put myself in his 

1538
01:24:45,700 --> 01:24:50,400
shoes and imagine I don't know, 
obviously not a gay man if he's 

1539
01:24:50,400 --> 01:24:52,400
going after. 
No, no, I don't mean here's a 

1540
01:24:52,407 --> 01:24:56,300
gay, man, but maybe they just 
agreed to platonically raise 

1541
01:24:56,300 --> 01:25:01,400
kids together, but obviously 
attracted to each other, like I 

1542
01:25:01,400 --> 01:25:05,400
don't think that the five they 
have is legitimately platonic 

1543
01:25:06,900 --> 01:25:09,400
And I've been seeing like it, 
that's just a mess. 

1544
01:25:09,700 --> 01:25:14,200
They do post pictures with each 
other all the time to like BJ 

1545
01:25:14,600 --> 01:25:17,400
has a picture because birthday 
or something where he's like 

1546
01:25:17,400 --> 01:25:21,100
gazing at her or her birthday. 
She's a cake. 

1547
01:25:22,200 --> 01:25:25,900
Really, just like looking at 
her, like, kind of lovingly. 

1548
01:25:25,900 --> 01:25:29,600
I guess what? 
I want to know. 

1549
01:25:30,100 --> 01:25:34,200
They know if anybody's listening
and you have information. 

1550
01:25:34,200 --> 01:25:38,600
Yeah, you personally know them. 
We can keep it a secret. 

1551
01:25:38,600 --> 01:25:42,600
Do you think people that we 
cover whatever like search their

1552
01:25:42,600 --> 01:25:45,500
own means and bingo Spotify or 
something? 

1553
01:25:45,500 --> 01:25:50,800
And look for a podcast episode 
about you and BJ for listening. 

1554
01:25:51,200 --> 01:25:52,800
BJ. 
Want to hear your side of the 

1555
01:25:52,808 --> 01:25:53,700
story. 
Yep. 

1556
01:25:53,700 --> 01:25:56,700
We live in New York. 
Yeah. 

1557
01:25:56,900 --> 01:25:58,800
What if he's out there right 
now? 

1558
01:26:00,300 --> 01:26:06,300
Slogging around the ardian? 
Yeah. 

1559
01:26:06,900 --> 01:26:10,600
So I think one thing I want to 
do with this podcast is at the 

1560
01:26:10,600 --> 01:26:13,900
end of each episode, if it's a 
couple who are currently not 

1561
01:26:13,900 --> 01:26:20,100
together for us to give a 
probability rating of How likely

1562
01:26:20,100 --> 01:26:23,100
we think they are to either end 
up together or get back 

1563
01:26:23,100 --> 01:26:25,700
together. 
Okay, cool. 

1564
01:26:26,100 --> 01:26:30,800
So for b.j. and Mindy, I mean, 
it's confusing. 

1565
01:26:30,800 --> 01:26:33,700
It's like are they together 
Night Out in a way? 

1566
01:26:33,800 --> 01:26:39,600
I can open my or something, but 
I would say miss a fifty percent

1567
01:26:39,600 --> 01:26:42,600
fifty. 
Okay, I'm actually gonna say 70%

1568
01:26:42,600 --> 01:26:43,900
chance. 
We'll get back together. 

1569
01:26:44,500 --> 01:26:45,500
Cool. 
Okay. 

1570
01:26:45,500 --> 01:26:49,900
And then okay, custody battle, 
would you pack and boys on the 

1571
01:26:49,900 --> 01:26:51,300
gets the kids? 
No. 

1572
01:26:51,300 --> 01:26:55,000
No it's her kids. 
Who gets you? 

1573
01:26:55,100 --> 01:26:59,400
Like I'm not the one that you 
could only. 

1574
01:26:59,500 --> 01:27:05,100
Oh, whose side are you on? 
Mindy's me to wonder if we'll 

1575
01:27:05,100 --> 01:27:09,200
ever disagree. 
I Maybe he kind of fun. 

1576
01:27:11,000 --> 01:27:14,800
Someone might not really have a 
strong opinion but if anyone was

1577
01:27:14,800 --> 01:27:18,400
doing like loves b.j. and we're 
so wrong about him. 

1578
01:27:19,800 --> 01:27:21,500
Let us know. 
Yeah, I don't hate us. 

1579
01:27:21,500 --> 01:27:22,900
Yeah, I do. 
Here is, I mean, I don't have 

1580
01:27:22,900 --> 01:27:25,600
anything against BJ. 
I just don't know why you guys 

1581
01:27:25,600 --> 01:27:29,100
aren't together and I get the 
sense that it's because of him. 

1582
01:27:29,100 --> 01:27:31,500
Yeah. 
Unless you are together. 

1583
01:27:31,800 --> 01:27:34,000
Mmm. 
And in which case, why aren't 

1584
01:27:34,000 --> 01:27:36,700
you opening, right? 
Yeah. 

1585
01:27:36,800 --> 01:27:38,300
Why are you hanging your 
curtain? 

1586
01:27:38,308 --> 01:27:40,100
Should go stop it. 
Stop it. 

1587
01:27:40,100 --> 01:27:42,700
You die. 
I think that they might be 

1588
01:27:42,700 --> 01:27:45,300
together but like an open thing.
Okay. 

1589
01:27:45,400 --> 01:27:49,100
Yeah, probably. 
But that just that would make me

1590
01:27:49,100 --> 01:27:54,000
sad because I don't know. 
She's not going out meeting all 

1591
01:27:54,000 --> 01:27:58,200
these are no we don't see why 
not I mean yeah maybe yeah maybe

1592
01:27:58,200 --> 01:28:01,600
she's dating someone and we have
no idea. 

1593
01:28:01,600 --> 01:28:03,500
But how would that work? 
Yeah. 

1594
01:28:03,500 --> 01:28:06,700
Posting pictures of her ex mmm. 
No no. 

1595
01:28:07,600 --> 01:28:10,500
I just keep going in a circle. 
I don't they have it in their 

1596
01:28:10,500 --> 01:28:14,400
mindset. 
Like, they will end up together 

1597
01:28:14,400 --> 01:28:15,600
though. 
Like, they have that kind of 

1598
01:28:15,600 --> 01:28:18,300
dynamic that it's like, oh like,
you know, we're just friends 

1599
01:28:18,400 --> 01:28:20,700
right now. 
But like, like the way he wasn't

1600
01:28:20,700 --> 01:28:22,900
invited, I know, but I know it 
is future. 

1601
01:28:22,900 --> 01:28:24,400
That's the thing. 
I feel like this is like a 

1602
01:28:24,400 --> 01:28:26,800
relationship that people have in
their 20 and using, it's not 

1603
01:28:26,800 --> 01:28:29,100
something you have when you're 
40 kids. 

1604
01:28:29,100 --> 01:28:30,700
Like the way he was crying 
about. 

1605
01:28:30,700 --> 01:28:35,100
But the thing is, it was Mindy 
like it, you know how dark 

1606
01:28:35,100 --> 01:28:37,200
undertone but it was Mindy. 
Why are you crying? 

1607
01:28:37,400 --> 01:28:40,900
Yeah. 
Just call her and yeah chica 

1608
01:28:40,900 --> 01:28:42,200
Gallery. 
Exactly. 

1609
01:28:42,200 --> 01:28:46,100
I really don't get what? 
All this like red tape is on its

1610
01:28:46,100 --> 01:28:50,500
red tape. 
Wow, that's really interesting. 

1611
01:28:50,600 --> 01:28:55,800
Oh my God. 
So that's our first episode. 

1612
01:28:55,800 --> 01:29:02,100
Wow it's just a Shannon was 
doubtful that they ever dated 

1613
01:29:02,500 --> 01:29:04,700
Shanna. 
Hope you are still listening. 

1614
01:29:04,700 --> 01:29:07,500
Yeah, like you listen to me you 
have to admit that this People 

1615
01:29:07,500 --> 01:29:10,000
counts, right? 
So definitely are like rats. 

1616
01:29:11,400 --> 01:29:13,400
I mean they both said they were 
together. 

1617
01:29:13,400 --> 01:29:19,800
Yeah and there's something going
on but yeah thanks everybody for

1618
01:29:19,800 --> 01:29:22,800
listening. 
Yeah this is the end. 

1619
01:29:22,800 --> 01:29:25,900
Yeah this is it that's that's 
sad. 

1620
01:29:26,000 --> 01:29:30,400
I know this is really fun. 
I didn't want it to end. 

1621
01:29:30,400 --> 01:29:32,900
No. 
But yeah guys thank you so much 

1622
01:29:32,900 --> 01:29:34,800
for listening. 
It's kind of scary. 

1623
01:29:34,800 --> 01:29:37,000
Starting a new podcast if you 
want a disguise. 

1624
01:29:37,300 --> 01:29:40,400
Like the of us to review, we 
really appreciate that. 

1625
01:29:40,500 --> 01:29:43,200
Yeah, supposed to help. 
I'm sure you've heard people say

1626
01:29:43,200 --> 01:29:47,700
before but it's supposed to help
just boost the podcast on those 

1627
01:29:47,700 --> 01:29:51,300
search pages and stuff. 
Get get it up there and help 

1628
01:29:51,300 --> 01:29:54,400
other people find it. 
Yeah, yeah. 

1629
01:29:54,900 --> 01:29:57,800
Yeah. 
And our next episodes can be 

1630
01:29:57,808 --> 01:30:00,500
really fun time through this. 
I don't know. 

1631
01:30:00,500 --> 01:30:04,000
I should be surprised. 
Okay, maybe wait, maybe you 

1632
01:30:04,000 --> 01:30:07,900
could describe it but don't say.
Oh sorry, I love Of that like 

1633
01:30:07,900 --> 01:30:11,600
it's some fun time. 
Okay our next relationship will 

1634
01:30:11,600 --> 01:30:25,400
be about an A-list model and a 
b-list b-list actress where 

1635
01:30:25,400 --> 01:30:29,100
there have been cheating 
allegation. 

1636
01:30:32,400 --> 01:30:37,100
But intriguing, this have to 
hear about it. 

1637
01:30:37,100 --> 01:30:41,300
Next time, significant lovers 
again, lovebirds. 

1638
01:30:46,600 --> 01:30:48,300
How do we end? 
I don't know because I still 

1639
01:30:48,300 --> 01:30:50,800
want to do that. 
We love you guys but we gotta 

1640
01:30:50,800 --> 01:30:54,800
play in the game. 
I guess that's, it doesn't 

1641
01:30:54,800 --> 01:30:57,300
match. 
We don't have like our taglines 

1642
01:30:57,300 --> 01:30:59,200
yet. 
We can get exactly the things 

1643
01:30:59,400 --> 01:31:01,800
we're going to have pod. 
I was inside jokes. 

1644
01:31:03,200 --> 01:31:05,600
Now we love you guys but we got 
a plane to catch. 

1645
01:31:05,600 --> 01:31:07,100
Ya, you don't know what that 
means. 

1646
01:31:07,500 --> 01:31:10,800
That's okay. 
See you next time.

