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Hey guys, this is Mel, if you're
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Hey guys, welcome to significant
lovers. 

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Happy Whirlwind Wednesday. 
Oh yeah, I forgot we are. 

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We're not doing wedlock 
Wednesday anymore. 

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We can switch off. 
Okay, this is a whirlwind 

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episode. 
Yeah, man, we are significant 

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lovers two cousins. 
Yeah, we're not the significant 

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livers. 
We talked about significantly. 

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Uh-huh. 
And before we got some guys, 

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this is coming out a few weeks 
after because we have been 

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pretty good about recording an 
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Oh yeah, we're really proactive.
Mmm, but big news, John, Carter 

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Cash followed us on. 
To G, the son of June and Johnny

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Cash the one and only child. 
That's why it's crazy. 

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And he commented on her 
Instagram. 

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Check, do find it Go by. 
I really, I was kind of weird 

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his comment because he was like,
just to know, like, my parents 

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were married from 1968 or 
something till 2003, well, under

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40 years, because I said they 
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they were together like, as 
friends or Or yeah, having an 

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affair before. 
So I didn't know how to comment 

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back like, well, they were 
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Yeah. 
Maybe that's why he backtracked 

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but Johnny Cash himself. 
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said he corrected the 
interviewer who said, you guys 

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were together, like 35 years and
goes 40 years actually, you 

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know? 
So that's why I said for yeah 

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but he followed us. 
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And he liked our other folks. 
Was it really? 

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I mean, I had a picture of 
Johnny and do, but it really 

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seems like totally related to 
them. 

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What did you say still 
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Should we ask him to be on the 
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I know, guys, like multiple 
people have told me that we 

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should but I'm nervous. 
We need to come up with 

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questions because I've been 
thinking, like, are we afraid of

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success or something like kind 
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That's the kind of guessed that 
would be perfect for the show. 

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I know, because he really does 
have inside knowledge into one 

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of the couples that we covered. 
So today we have a really, 

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really, really exciting crazy 
episode today. 

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That's I feel like a little 
niche but some people have asked

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for it. 
Hmm, it's Phoebe bitters. 

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And Paul Mezcal. 
Nominated Academy Award 

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nominated actor. 
Actor. 

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Paul Mescal. 
So yeah. 

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Okay, today's episode Mel and I 
have I feel a very long history 

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with be Bridgers. 
Yeah, we've been into her music 

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since like 2017 before. 
A lot of people, even she was 

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not to be the and concert 
tickets for like 50 bucks. 

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Yeah. 
And now they're impossible. 

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Yeah, I mean, Even try to get 
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to do know. 
Yeah, I know. 

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It's so sad. 
I just admit defeat. 

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Hmm, but we've loved Phoebe for 
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I mean, stranger in the Alps Mel
gave me that record on vinyl for

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like my birthday. 
Forgot his master something. 

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And we saw, um, we went to their
concert Julian Phoebe, Lucy 

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concert member and Julian was 
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Yeah, I know a lots changed. 
And now Phoebe is touring would 

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Taylor Swift. 
Like, she's huge how to beg. 

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So Mel, and I have talked about 
Phoebe for years, and I got to 

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admit something, guys. 
This is gonna be my creepiest 

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episode Ember. 
They're not like they're famous.

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That's why I am. 
So guys, I am Joel Goldberg 

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little creepy when it comes to 
me, Bridgers. 

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If you don't know what that 
means that's the show you I'm 

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just a huge soccer. 
I have even found Phoebe's 

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Facebook. 
Yeah, past Phoebe. 

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I hope you're not listening. 
You would like kill me. 

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I know you would hate me. 
She's listening that he 

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subscribing. 
Think you might be in the 

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teaser. 
Oh yeah, true. 

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And I am thinking about putting 
this part in the movie. 

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Yeah II. 
This is the least creepy part. 

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Yeah. 
My even getting into specifics 

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yet. 
But I am Aldo's to cause like we

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talked about together like we 
know, all the side characters in

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Phoebe's life. 
I mean Marshall wore only been 

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and christianly, Hudson Harrison
went further than there's the 

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whole Ryan. 
Adams, Conor Oberst, this is all

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before pomace kill, everything 
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BP has all these people in her 
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Yeah, she's been romantically 
involved with like multiple 

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people and I stick around and 
then there's overlap and then it

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back together. 
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And then this is guy from normal
people. 

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I know like how does he fit into
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I know this timeline also is 
very confusing because it's like

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there has to be overlap with 
him. 

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Mmm, it's crazy. 
I feel like this is I maybe not,

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but I feel like when the first 
couples, where I feel like the 

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craziest shit is the backstory 
like the most drama? 

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Yeah. 
He's Vivid backstory. 

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It's crazy and Phoebe, I'm 
sorry. 

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Hope you're not listening. 
I love you. 

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We love your music. 
Like, so literally, love her 

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music so much every single song,
so it pains me. 

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That I dug this far and I don't 
really like everything that I 

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felt I know. 
She's not gonna she's here, but 

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I love her. 
Yeah, you know, it comes with 

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the territory. 
Oh yeah, yeah, we've had some 

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negative comments. 
Are we little formerly this one?

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But like yeah, well world where 
only 4.8 stars on this. 

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Modify it was like obviously 
somebody has like a bad start. 

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Yeah. 
So if you guys want to go to 

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Spotify and he's like a little 
bit, is that the same as on 

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Apple? 
No, I oh well, we also were, I 

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don't think we're a perfect 
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I think we're like 4.8, I think 
not. 

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So yeah, someone didn't like it.
Mmm, that's okay. 

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But you know what? 
You to be truly unique, you do 

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have to alienate some people, I 
think, and that's, that's being 

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are exactly. 
And you know, I feel this way 

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about so many people like you 
don't have to like someone 

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personally to like their music. 
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And I also think there's this 
weird truth that you can dislike

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somebody personally but like 
them at the same time personal. 

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Yeah, even yeah. 
To like you can totally hate 

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like somebody's actions and find
them annoying but still, I love 

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them for the complicated. 
Character that they are. 

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That's what makes somebody 
interesting. 

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You know, I find Phoebe. 
So interesting, that's why I'm 

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so obsessed. 
Mmm, and one of the main 

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reasons, I'm, I became so 
obsessed with because of her 

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relationship with her drummer 
Marshall of, or who she used to 

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date, and I used to want to do 
an episode of her Marshall, but 

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I thought that was like, too 
neat. 

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So I'm going to talk about 
Marshall a little bit, but this 

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is about her and Palmas go and 
actually think it makes it 

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interesting episode because Paul
Seems so innocent to me. 

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Yeah, he seemed so sweet. 
I knew nothing about him. 

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And it all all the crazy, 
overlapping relationships, 

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polyamory, whatever. 
Like it's kind of nice to see 

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him walk into this. 
Yeah, oh God. 

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Okay. 
Well, I guess should be to get 

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into it. 
Let's let's get into it. 

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Let's not lose like let's not 
care about anybody listening. 

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Saying you don't give a fuck. 
No, that's what Bibi would do. 

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Let's pretend, let's pretend, 
like nobody is listening for 

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real dance. 
Like no one's watching. 

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Okay, I'll try Mill, but I don't
know. 

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Like this is just a conversation
between two cousins. 

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All right, I will have to stop 
the episode right there. 

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