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You know who you all are. 
And this is coming out a week 

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before Valentine's Day. 
So happy Valentine's Day. 

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Maybe you're listening to it 
late. 

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Maybe you're listening on 
Valentine's Day. 

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I don't know. 
But this is a this is an 

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interesting episode. 
This is an episode about the 

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other woman. 
An affair, You could say, well, 

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wait, does it? 
Is it an affair? 

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Yeah. 
Is it an affair if two people 

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aren't married and then 
someone's cheating? 

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Yeah. 
Yeah. 

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I think so. 
Yeah. 

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Yeah. 
I thought so, but just I mean. 

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Sometimes terminology is so 
weird, like sometimes people use

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the term phrase single for not 
married. 

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I know they always. 
That's what it is. 

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They always do that in 80s 
movies and 90s movies. 

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They're like, well, is he 
single? 

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He's not married. 
Like, OK, what if he has a 

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girlfriend? 
That doesn't matter to you. 

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Yeah, I remember, I mean years 
ago and she's probably not 

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listening. 
One of our cousins who at the 

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time had a pretty serious 
boyfriend of like 4 years. 

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Her older sister got married and
then she posted our cousin whose

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older sister got married. 
She posted a photo with our 

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uncle, her father and the 
caption was his last single 

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daughter, meaning last. 
Unmarried daughter. 

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I remember thinking at the time 
if I was her boyfriend of four 

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years, I would feel odd. 
I know she was called herself 

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single online. 
I'm like. 

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He was at the wedding. 
That is interesting. 

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Maybe she was putting the 
pressure on him. 

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I don't know. 
No, probably not. 

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She was younger. 
But yeah, I've always thought 

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that was strange. 
But this, yeah, I'll say this is

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an affair. 
And it is between Mr. Elvis 

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Presley and Ann Margaret. 
And we covered Elvis a couple 

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months ago, Elvis and Priscilla.
And I originally wanted to do 

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Elvis and and Margaret first 
because, well, my dad suggested 

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it to me and I I take his advice
seriously. 

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And I thought it was interesting
because I've obviously heard of 

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Elvis and Priscilla and I 
thought, oh, I don't know 

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anything about him and and 
Margaret. 

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And of course, like Elvis, the 
king of rock'n'roll, like I'd 

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Why would I think that he was 
only with one woman his whole 

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life? 
You know, I only knew about 

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Priscilla. 
So I wanted to do him an Anne. 

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But then nice naively thought, 
and if anybody's like an Elvis 

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expert listening, you'll think 
I'm stupid. 

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But I naively thought that he 
dated Anne Margaret before 

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Priscilla. 
But then I learned that he dated

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her in the middle of his 
relationship with Priscilla, so 

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that made it pretty scandalous 
and intriguing. 

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So this is about Elvis and Ann 
Margaret, who many people 

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believe was actually like the 
love of his life. 

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I mean, people debate about 
that, but people think that he 

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really loved Ann Margaret the 
most. 

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Is that true? 
I don't know. 

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We'll find out. 
But before we get started, how 

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are you feeling, Mel? 
I know you've you've been sick. 

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You had the flu, right? 
I did. 

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I'm feeling a lot better. 
My I'm still a little measly, so

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my voice might sound a little 
weird and might sneeze a little 

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bit, but other than that I'm I'm
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Mel is such a trooper. 
Still recording. 

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Hopefully it won't be too. 
I don't know too much, but yeah,

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so it's pretty interesting 
because we did Elvis and 

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Priscilla recently. 
I'm going to kind of like cross 

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reference the research I already
did on him and Priscilla and fit

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it into the timeline, you know, 
like what she was up to while 

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all of this is going on. 
And the questions I'm kind of 

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thinking about in this episode 
is did Ann Margaret know about 

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Priscilla? 
Did she know that Priscilla was 

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literally living at Graceland 
while this relationship was 

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going on? 
And how did Elvis really feel 

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about in Margaret? 
Was she the one or was 

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Priscilla? 
And can you love people? 

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Can you love two people at the 
same time? 

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Oh. 
Good question. 

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I should have asked our 
listeners that I forgot to do a 

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poll shoot. 
I bet if you write it right now,

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by the end of this episode, 
there will be responses. 

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Should I? 
Do it. 

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Should it Be Can You Love? 
How should I phrase it? 

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Do you think it's possible to be
in love with two people at the 

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same time? 
OK, that's such a good idea Mel 

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I bet cause some of you guys are
so fast. 

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You're so. 
Fast answering these polls. 

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Within 10 seconds there will be 
responses. 

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Poll time. 
That would be fun too, at the 

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very end of the episode, to go 
back and. 

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You can be in love, yes. 
OK. 

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Do you think you can be in love 
with two people at the same 

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time? 
Yep. 

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Yes or no? 
Yes or no? 

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Yep. 
Yes or no? 

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Yes or no? 
You got a pic? 

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I kind of think yes. 
I kind of think yes too, but my 

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younger my younger self would 
have been like freaking out 

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right now if she heard. 
Me say that I kind of think yes,

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and I think because it's 
probably two different types of 

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love that you feel, you probably
feel like a different person 

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when you're with each person. 
Yeah. 

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Does that mean it's right to 
cheat on somebody? 

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No. 
No, no. 

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But I think you can still feel 
that. 

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It just depends on, like, what 
you do with it, you know? 

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All right. 
Yeah. 

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I asked the question. 
We'll see by the end of the 

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episode what people think before
we get into it. 3 words that I 

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would use to describe this 
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Well, OK, It's actually 4 
because my first word is kindred

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spirits. 
There's 2 words. 

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But you know what we don't have?
I feel like there isn't a one 

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word, one word that conveys that
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So kinder spirits, my next word 
is fantasy. 

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And my third word is doomed. 
All right, I will have to stop 

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