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Hey guys, this is Mel. 
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Today's episode, you know, this 
is like the Dark Ages in terms 

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of research. 
We're going back to the 80s. 

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And interestingly, this time 
period, it's so hard to research

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because it's too modern that no 
one has written books about this

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time period or these couples in 
this time period, and yet it's 

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too far away that there's not a 
lot of online materials. 

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So it's so hard. 
But I love the if you look up 

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pictures of this couple, they 
are just so adorable. 

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Yeah, they're. 
So. 

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Cute and it really. 
And who is? 

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This couple now. 
This is Sarah Jessica Parker and

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Robert Downey Junior. 
So SJP and our DJ, triple name 

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people, they dated for eight 
years in the 80s when they were 

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really young, from 18 years old.
And they're both two people who 

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I hinted at this last week. 
I have a notes app in my phone 

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with like two people who I think
will look like they belonged in 

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our family, mine and Kelly's 
family. 

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Not that they look like us, but 
they just look like they would 

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be related to us. 
And interestingly, both of them 

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are in the list. 
And they dated. 

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Yeah. 
You're attracted to that look, 

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Mel. 
Can you read the list to? 

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Me. 
Yeah. 

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OK, so these two Robert De Niro 
as well. 

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Oh yeah, I could see that. 
Pete Davidson, you might have 

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suggested this from Boston Rob 
from Survivor. 

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Oh yeah, I I. 
Feel that? 

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And Natalie Portman? 
Yes, that's what I have so far, 

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but. 
That's our family. 

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I would love to make a Google 
lot of most. 

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People, they just feel. 
Like no family, they. 

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Feel like they're related to us,
so there must be something 

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there, but I hope that what 
about they're not related to 

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each other? 
Who? 

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What about Julia Louis Dreyfus? 
You are so right. 

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Oh my God, I'm adding that. 
She's in our family. 

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She is. 
It's just a vibe. 

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You guys probably have that in 
your families, too. 

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It's just a feeling like I feel 
connected to them in some way. 

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Young star Jessica Corker and 
Robert Downey Junior. 

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Darnie Junior are so cute. 
I'm looking at pictures right 

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now. 
Oh, just adorable. 

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I I love Robert. 
I know. 

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Rob, what do I call him? 
I love his look. 

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I'm seeing a picture of him with
glasses. 

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You know, my weakness. 
He looks. 

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So cute, I know. 
Oh, and her curly hair. 

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Yeah, I love Sarah Jessica 
Parker. 

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Sarah Jessica Parker is one of 
those people where I get so 

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angry because I don't even want 
to address this. 

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But, like, some people make fun 
of her looks because I feel like

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she just like, has such a 
natural beauty. 

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But like, people aren't used to 
that. 

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They're used to like people 
looking exactly the same in 

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Hollywood. 
And so people are super nitpicky

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about how she looks. 
I was somewhere like a couple 

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months ago and someone was like,
oh, I hate Sarah Jessica Parker.

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She's so ugly. 
And it really made me, it made 

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me so upset because I think 
she's one of the most genuinely 

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beautiful people. 
I mean, that's why. 

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That's why I think she'd belong 
in our family. 

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Yeah, and I think also when you 
see here on film, she is so 

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small and petite and cute. 
Like, I think maybe those people

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just haven't seen her act or 
something. 

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Like they don't understand her 
full charisma that brings out 

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her beauty. 
I don't know. 

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I agree with you. 
I think she's so cute. 

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Yeah, and when like people. 
Aren't used to just a natural 

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beauty. 
Yeah, exactly. 

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And her natural curls like she's
just stunning. 

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Mold too. 
Didn't she have it removed? 

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Oh, did she? 
Yeah, she did have one on her 

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chin. 
She just radiates something so 

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unique, I think and like that's 
why she is Carrie Bradshaw. 

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She is the face of Sex in the 
City. 

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Like there is no one like Sarah 
Jessica Parker and I I love her 

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and I love everything she stands
for. 

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We we, like a week ago, tried to
go to her store in New York 

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City. 
Well, we went there, but she 

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wasn't there, which was 
disappointing, but I did. 

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See her there last? 
Time. 

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Oh yes. 
Or the other time. 

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Oh my God. 
We I already. 

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Told you story on this podcast. 
You did. 

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Who is she? 
I'll get into it. 

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Actually, first. 
Oh my God. 

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I forgot to write down the three
words I would use to describe 

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this couple. 
But I'll What do you think? 

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I'll say young and playful and 
mysterious because I couldn't 

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find much about them, so we're 
going to do a lot of inferring. 

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But SJP. 
She was born March 25th, 1965 in

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Nelsonville, Ohio. 
Her mother owned and operated a 

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nursery school and her father 
was a journalist and she had two

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brothers and a sister. 
But when she was really, really 

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little, like 3 1/2, her mom and 
dad got divorced and her mom 

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remarried to an an accountant 
slash truck driver. 

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So two different jobs. 
And her mom went on to have four

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more kids. 
So Sarah just got one of eight 

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kids. 
Oh. 

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My gosh, yeah. 
I'm surprised by that. 

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I didn't know that she's like 
because Carrie Bradshaw has 

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like, seemingly no sibling. 
I mean, I actually never watched

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The Carrie Diaries, but I've 
never she never mentions any 

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siblings, so she kind of seems 
like an only child. 

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I know. 
Are all of the Sex in the City 

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women only children? 
It kind of seemed that. 

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They, like, never mentioned 
their families. 

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Besides, when Miranda's mom 
died. 

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Yeah. 
Weird. 

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I don't know. 
Maybe Carrie does. 

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But yeah, I mean, Carrie 
Bradshaw is, I think is an only 

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child and seems like an only 
child, so that's interesting. 

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And she's not even the. 
Baby. 

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No, She's in the middle. 
And you know, because there are 

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so many kids in the family, her 
parents struggled financially to

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support them. 
They'd often have to forgo 

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Christmas, which So not Carrie 
Bradshaw. 

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That's going to be a lot of this
evidence I could. 

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See Carrie though, being like, 
broke. 

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Oh, I guess my Christmas will 
just be a cigarette. 

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Oh. 
Yes, so. 

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True. 
Yeah, Sarah Carrie Browja. 

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She struggled to pay the bills 
because she put her money 

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towards very expensive shoes. 
Not not like supporting her 

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family, but yeah, she probably 
got her electricity turned off 

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as well. 
All right. 

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