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Are you lonesome tonight? 
Do you miss me tonight? 

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Are you sorry? 
Hi guys. 

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Welcome back to Significant 
Lovers. 

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I'm Mel. 
And I'm Kel. 

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We're two cousins. 
Two cousins and best friends and

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we love talking about love. 
I truly do. 

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I'm so excited to be here. 
This is our first episode of the

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New year well that we've 
recorded in the New year and it 

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feels like it's been a while. 
Yeah, because it kind of has 

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when. 
It does, yeah. 

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So thanks everybody for 
listening. 

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Who are we talking about today, 
Mel? 

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So today we are talking about 
model and entrepreneur Karlie 

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Kloss and her husband, Joshua 
Kushner. 

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Billionaire Joshua Kushner, also
entrepreneur. 

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He is most famous probably for 
being the younger brother of 

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Jared Kushner, the son-in-law 
and former advisor to Donald 

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Trump. 
And I feel like this couple, 

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someone from recommended this 
couple a couple months ago. 

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They're intriguing, I think, for
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because of that political 
connection and the controversy 

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that is tied to that, but also 
the distance that they have 

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tried to establish for 
themselves from the Trump 

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administration while also being 
very closely related to Jared 

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and Ivanka, and also, of course,
the conspiracies about Karlie 

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Kloss and Taylor Swift. 
And you know, that's not going 

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to be a big part of this episode
because Full disclosure, I'm not

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a Gaylor. 
I'm not, you know, we we just 

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did our Larry episode. 
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Yeah, that was last. 
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Yeah, I can understand, you 
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rabbit holes, but that's not 
going to be a part of this 

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episode. 
So Gaylor is the theory. 

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Anyone that doesn't know? 
Because a lot of people don't 

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know. 
I know, yeah. 

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The theory, the conspiracy 
theory that Taylor Swift, the 

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singer, I mean, I think everyone
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relationship with Karlie. 
Kloss. 

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Yes. 
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during the timeline in which 
Karlie Kloss was dating Joshua 

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Kushner. 
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be like, OK, like why do people 
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dating and she clearly had a 
boyfriend, but people think that

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Josh is secretly gay and that 
Carly was his. 

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Oh Oh my gosh. 
Actually after 'cause I was 

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editing the Larry episode 
recently and then I went on 

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YouTube. 
I've done this before, but I was

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watching a lot of Larry clips 
and I got to say, if anyone it's

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still skeptical, I urge you to 
go watch some videos of Larry 

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because it was convincing me. 
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believe it now. 
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parts to Caitlin didn't mention.
I was like, what the heck, why 

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didn't you mention this? 
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much. 
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sidetracked. 
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you know, on the podcast, we've 
talked a lot about how mental 

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health can affect relationships 
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organization that is doing a lot
of important work to combat OCD 

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in relationships. 
Yeah, it's called no CD. 

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And you know, OCD is more than 
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movies. 
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thoughts about your relationship
stuck in your head all day, no 

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matter how hard you try to make 
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relationship OCD, which I feel 
like is a less known about type 

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of OCD, but it comes with 
unrelenting intrusive images, 

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thoughts and urges about your 
partner, a loved one. 

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And breaking the OCD cycle takes
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You can go to no CD, so that's 
NOCD dot com to get evidence 

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based treatment. 
And on no CD you can book a call

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with a face to face licensed 
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And no CD is sponsored by most 
insurance companies. 

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So yeah, it's a really cool 
organization that I feel like is

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pretty relevant to our show and 
anybody that's struggling with a

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breakup. 
If you know someone, a loved one

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that is maybe having issues with
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should tell them about no CD. 
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podcasts about the Taylor Carly 
theory and I haven't really been

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convinced yet. 
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little bit more also about like 
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otherwise in her life, you know?
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see Carly as her own person. 
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suspicious of her, maybe because
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you know, tightly associated 
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falling out with Taylor Swift 
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automatically not like her. 
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totally see why Carly and Taylor
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they're both really tall, 
they're both blonde, he kind of 

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look alike. 
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very much a business focus to 
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just seem very similar. 
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romantic, just more like twins 
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Mm hmm. 
I really don't know anything 

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about this couple, so I'm really
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Right. 
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So, Carly, She was born August 
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She's the second child among 
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Her parents were Tracy, a 
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Kurt, was an ER doctor. 
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toddler, her family moved to 
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studying ballet. 
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a professional dancer and she 
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squad at her high school. 
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Cheerleader. 
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And then at 14, Carly was at the
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approached her, which I feel 
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I know. 
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Models. 
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say, wow, you're gorgeous, you 
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show. 
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booked for her first modeling 
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New York for modeling gigs 
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designers like Alexander Wang, 
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Dolce and Gabbana. 
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described herself or others have
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She loves baking cookies. 
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Swift to me. 
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a big math and science nerd. 
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but I do get the sense that 
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She's very polished. 
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seem a little scripted, but 
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Like you want to. 
I can see that thing. 

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interview she does like a 76 
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Carly. 
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when the Vogue videos, were they
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Taylor Swift? 
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know, or Jennifer Lawrence wants
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Lawrence made a joke about it 
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worry, Jen, We're still good 
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It's like, OK, no, like, that's 
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Hate how scripted those things 
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more or less scripted. 
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watching those. 
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personalities of people that 
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the people that want to be, you 
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and be wacky and weird, 
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professional, just not really 
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I mean, yeah, it's like 
mysterious. 

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one and she seems so sweet, but 
it's so awkward because she just

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answers the question. 
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lot of people probably would 
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She's not trying to be like 
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like Lively's or something, 
they're really trying to go for 

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some type of personality here. 
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would say she's polished. 
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I don't know much about her, but
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stem. 
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Coding thing. 
She's doing that will come up 

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because I feel like that is 
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relationship with Josh. 
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Honest. 
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Josh. 
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Joshua. 
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he was born into a family of 
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with his grandfather Joseph 
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Holocaust. 
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become a huge real estate 
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buildings in New Jersey. 
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properties to his sons, one of 
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who is Josh's Joshua's dad, who 
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York City, which is now worth 
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Wow, so Chuck Bass. 
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Chuck Bass? 
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Sarah had four kids, Dara, 
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Joshua and his siblings were 
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town called Livingston, NJ, and 
they were raised as Modern 

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Orthodox Jews. 
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on holidays his dad would take 
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hunt for potential real estate, 
saying the idea was when 

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everyone is relaxing, you should
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The ball doesn't come to you. 
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I know, really intense. 
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buttoned up, very rigid 
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going to come up throughout this
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the theme of the episode. 
It's like, you know, you don't 

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just marry a person, you marry 
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really like the family? 
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were pretty strict about the 
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their kids. 
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Fresh High School, which is a 
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Jared did, But not much is known
about Josh. 

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He's definitely the quieter 
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government and political science
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And I guess I don't know if this
is relevant for Josh, but five 

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years earlier his older brother 
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year after their parents had 
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the school. 
And so I don't know if they also

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made a donation for Josh 
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and they're going to do what 
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their kids get ahead. 
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Hello, Harvard. 
Yo. 

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Yeah, they they probably are 
getting any Kushner in Harvard. 

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Yeah, if they want to exactly. 
So, Gossip Girl. 

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I know, it's really Gossip Girl.
And so this was also around the 

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time when Mark Zuckerberg was at
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That's so exciting. 

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was like trying to come up with 
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around $10,000 to create a 
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Vostu, which was a Facebook 
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business, he rarely attended 
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flying back and forth from, my 
God, Latin America. 

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Yeah, I don't know if that's 
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definitely was a time period 
when it was. 

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Elizabeth Holmes, the I forget 
what her business is called, but

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it was like the thing to do to 
be at a prestigious school and 

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come up with a business while 
you're there and drop out. 

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Yeah, I kind of hate that. 
I would be so like finish, you 

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know? 
Yeah, just finish. 

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Like just enjoy school. 
I don't know. 

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I I would just be so unattracted
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that's all they care about is 

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their stupid little business and
making money and. 

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I don't know. 
Well, I don't know if it's 

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stupid little Mel. 
I mean, some of these people 

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become like billionaires. 
I know. 

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I don't know. 
But, you know, be young and stop

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trying to be like Bill Gates or 
something. 

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I don't know. 
I You're right, though. 

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They do become successful. 
So then in 2005, Joshua's dad, 

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Charles he was arrested and 
sentenced to two years in prison

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and charged a $40,000 fine for 
tax evasion, witness tampering 

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and illegal campaign donations. 
Oh my goodness. 

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Kind of embarrassing, so I'm 
sorry to keep bringing this up, 

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but so, Nate Archibald. 
No, yeah, I was just thinking 

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that. 
Gossip Girl. 

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Yeah. 
I mean, I haven't watched 

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succession, but is that kind of 
succession like like people are?

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No. 
Kind of, yeah. 

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I don't think no one goes to 
prison for that reason. 

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But yeah, kind of, yeah. 
Covering stuff up, yeah. 

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I almost wonder if Gossip Girl 
definitely had a lot of real 

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life influences. 
I wonder if that story maybe was

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inspired by the Kushner family, 
because at that point, like they

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were like a prominent known real
estate family. 

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Maybe. 
So he had other business 

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ventures. 
In 2010, at just 24 years old, 

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Josh was loaned $5,000,000 to 
launch Thrive Capital, which is 

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a venture capital firm focused 
on media and internal 

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investments. 
Did you just gasp with the 

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$5,000,000? 
Yeah, that's crazy. 

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The company was one of the very 
first investors of Instagram and

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now has investments in so many 
large Internet companies 

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including Spotify, GitHub, 
Slack, Open AI, you name it. 

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And now it's estimated to have a
net worth of $3.6 billion. 

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So very successful. 
But I will say like he became 

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very like obviously at a 
$5,000,000 loan, but his success

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is independent from the real 
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had established. 
So it seems like he obviously 

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must have some talents and a 
strong work ethic independent 

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from his family's wealth. 
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And I would describe him 
obviously having an 

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entrepreneurial mindset, very 
business oriented. 

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Like Carly, he seems kind of 
serious and also quiet. 

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He's been described as having 
boyishly handsome looks and 

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works like a dog. 
So how would you describe this 

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relationship in three words? 
Oh, I would say low key, 

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wealthy, obviously. 
And mysterious. 

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So all right, it's so mysterious
that I don't totally know how 

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they met, but they definitely 
either met or became official in

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2000, June of 2012, cause four 
years later Carly would describe

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that as their four year 
anniversary on Instagram. 

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OK, so it's unclear, like, 
totally how they met. 

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But they were introduced, 
seemingly by socialite Derek 

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Blasberg, who's a mutual friend 
of theirs. 

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Because years later, at their 
wedding, he would post a photo 

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of them the day they met. 
And he said, I took this pic The

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night that Karlie Kloss met 
Joshua Kushner in 2012. 

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We told Joshua Kushner that 
Karlie Kloss could dunk a 

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basketball. 
It was a lie, but their hearts 

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went swish so. 
Was he tagging him or why was he

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doing first name? 
Last name with those flags. 

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OK, I know. 
Yeah, sorry. 

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But that's interesting. 
And in the photo, Josh is 

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wearing a cowboy hat and Carly 
was wearing Bunny ears. 

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And then an August Instagram 
founder, Kevin Systrom posted a 

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photo of them embracing on the 
beach from far away and he 

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captioned it. 
I think my friend likes her. 

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So that's back in 2012. 
And remember, like Josh was a 

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very early investor of Instagram
and so actually Carly first made

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her Instagram account June 2012 
when she met Josh. 

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He probably said you gotta 
invest in this, like you gotta 

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make an account. 
I'm an investor, so. 

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Yeah, I don't think I I didn't 
make an account until 2014 or 

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so. 
Yeah, it took me a while too, 

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but. 
I was a little late. 

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I remember my friend Lauren was 
like, you can post selfies on 

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here. 
Like you can't do that on 

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Facebook. 
I know I remember at first being

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so confused, like why do we need
a different app just for 

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pictures, but I don't know. 
I feel like Facebook could have 

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been great. 
I don't. 

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I don't know. 
It's just kind of like the mood 

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changed. 
But I feel like the platform 

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itself had. 
Everything there I know, but 

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like the newsfeed changed so 
much and like everyone's parents

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got Facebook and it the live 
just changed. 

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I just spent because my 
boyfriend just requested me on 

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Facebook. 
And wow. 

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After a couple months, But I was
like, oh gosh, I'm going to 

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clean my Facebook up a little 
bit before I accept it. 

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So I just spent about like 30 
minutes going through my old 

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Facebook statuses. 
Not that I think he'd scroll all

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the way down, but I was like, I 
don't. 

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I don't know. 
I gotta. 

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Yeah, I've never done that. 
I've just kept everything. 

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I was annoyed by how the 
settings didn't make it easy for

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me to do it, though I was having
trouble. 

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There's like way too much in the
settings, but not the tangent. 

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I know, yeah. 
Anyway, yeah, so many tech 

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business guys. 
I know, Yeah, I think that 

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really influences Carly. 
So then in November, Us Weekly 

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is the first report that Carly 
and Josh are dating when they 

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attend the Victoria's Secret 
Fashion Show after party 

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together. 
And they say after walking the 

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runway in several super skimpy 
getups, the flawless American 

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born supermodel 20 hit in a 
after party with a very lucky 

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guy on her arm. 
New York City based investor 

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Joshua Kushner, The 27 year old 
Instagram investor seemed 

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nervous and shy around everyone,
but handled it well. 

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Carly is stunning and the 
sweetest girl ever. 

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She's stuck close to him. 
All right, sweet happening. 

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Meanwhile, the Daily Mail 
reports that Carly has purchased

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her first home in the West 
Village in order to be close to 

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her new boyfriend. 
Jealous. 

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Then we're 2013. 
Around this time, Josh starts 

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posting a lot of photos of 
Carly, but they're always like 

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of her back from far away. 
And he posts a photo of her at 

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Coachella with the caption 
Coachella. 

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And then they made the yes, 
yeah. 

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Then they made their first 
appearance together as a couple 

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at the Robin Hood Foundation 
Gala in New York City, and 

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they're photographed together 
throughout New York by paparazzi

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pretty frequently, but not much 
is known about them as a couple.

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But apparently these years and 
their relationship were pretty 

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challenging because Joshua's 
family heavily disapproved of 

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her for one, not being Jewish, 
and two because she was 

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Victoria's Secret model, which 
they believed was beneath the 

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family and they This would all 
be alleged in an expose about 

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the Kushner family, which came 
out years later in 2019. 

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And apparently the whole family 
would talk poorly about Karlie 

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behind her back and they would 
call her the lingerie model. 

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And Joshua's parents refused to 
meet her for six years and 

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banned Josh from bringing her to
any family functions. 

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Wow, I did not know that. 
Yeah, and wow. 

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Apparently they also had issues 
with Ivanka Trump, but they were

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a lot more open to her because 
she went to an Ivy League school

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and she came obviously from 
another high profile real estate

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family. 
So, like, from a business 

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standpoint, she was lucrative to
them. 

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Wow. 
That would be tough for me. 

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I feel like if I was that early 
in a relationship. 

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I mean, granted she's so young, 
I don't know if, if I knew that 

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family like hated me. 
I don't know if I would be able 

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to keep pushing forward. 
That would be really hard. 

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Wait, so how old was she around 
this time? 

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21 and he's in his late 20s. 
What you were saying earlier 

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about some people say that he 
was gay and she was a Taylor 

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Swift. 
Like, why would she bother with 

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this really difficult family if 
it was exactly it? 

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Seems weird to me. 
If he was gay and needed a cover

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up, why would he be doing that 
with like someone his family 

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disapproved of? 
Yeah, that doesn't make sense. 

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It's already like if if he was 
gay and he needed to cover up, 

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it'd probably be because of his 
family. 

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So why would he then date 
someone that his family hates? 

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Yeah, and if he's super rich and
good looking, he could probably 

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find a more convenient cover up.
Exactly so. 

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But I asked you guys, 'cause you
know, like when you marry 

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someone, you also marry their 
family. 

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And so I said, with this in 
mind, would you still marry 

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someone? 
We're skipping ahead like 

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they're married now? 
Spoiler Would you still marry 

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someone even if you hated their 
family or they hated you, 'cause

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like, she's also gonna. 
There's also gonna be conflict 

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once like the Trump's come in. 
And interestingly, 37% said yes,

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true love is worth it, but the 
majority of people, 63%, said 

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no. 
I have to protect my peace. 

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Wow wait, I missed this poll, 
Mel. 

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Yeah, this was a couple hours 
ago. 

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Quick people. 
So quick to. 

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Vote. 
They are. 

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I really want to read some of 
your responses. 

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We asked this on Patreon, by the
way. 

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Sierra said yes or no. 
It's hard. 

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I put yes because if your 
relationship with the person is 

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healthy and they stand up for 
you and uphold boundaries with 

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their shit family, then it could
still work. 

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But if you don't have a good 
relationship with your own 

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family, you might want to 
prioritize a good relationship 

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with your partner's family. 
So then you may have to give it 

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up. 
And Devin said such a hard 

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question definitely depends on 
the relationship you have with 

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your potential spouse. 
If they're going to stick up for

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you and be willing to always 
pick you, then I think true love

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is worth it. 
But if there's a chance it'll 

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cause tension between you as a 
couple, or if your spouse will 

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have resentment over the 
situation, then probably not 

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worth it. 
And Aaron said so. 

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If my partner didn't have a good
relationship with his family, 

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then it's not their fault and it
won't really matter as much if 

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the family hates me or I hate 
them. 

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But if they're super close and 
get on really well and they hate

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me, then like red flag question 
mark. 

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I totally agree with everything 
said. 

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Like I feel like it depends on 
how much your partner is willing

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to stick up for you. 
Yeah, totally it. 

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It would depend. 
I think if your relationship is 

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already kind of rocky and then 
that is a thing going on too, 

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then I think it's not worth it. 
But yeah, I I agree with what 

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everybody said. 
Like if you're super in love and

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if your partner's there for you 
and sticks up for you or 

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whatever the heck situation is, 
then yeah, I think, I don't 

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think you would let that get 
between you. 

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But that's tough. 
That's tough. 

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I don't know. 
It's tough for me to tell how 

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close Josh is with his family 
because he's never said anything

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bad about them. 
But everything I read does 

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indicate that he is very close 
with his brother Jared, and they

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just agree to disagree when it 
comes to politics and the whole 

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Donald Trump of the matter. 
But regarding his two parents, I

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I wonder if there is. 
I mean, I'm sure the Carly 

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situation created conflict, but 
I wonder if he is not super 

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close with them just because he 
chose not to go into the family 

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business of real estate and like
seemingly has done his own. 

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Thing that is hard that. 
I mean, I feel like it would be 

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hard to to be the one that has 
the difficult family because 

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00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:17,600
that's your family. 
Like even if they are difficult 

456
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:23,000
or causing problems, it's a lot 
to ask someone to. 

457
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:26,960
It's it's like impossible I 
think to ask someone to like not

458
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,000
care about your parents or your 
family. 

459
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:32,080
Yeah that's your family. 
Like you don't have another one.

460
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:35,360
And I know some people do disown
their family, but I don't know. 

461
00:27:35,360 --> 00:27:38,480
I just think that would be 
really, really hard, even if you

462
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:41,000
disagree with them on a lot of 
things. 

463
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:43,840
Yeah, exactly like this is only 
family. 

464
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:45,840
Yeah. 
But. 

465
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,120
I mean, that's who he calls. 
If he's like, if he's 

466
00:27:48,120 --> 00:27:50,680
distressed, if he needs help 
like that, that's who you go to,

467
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:53,240
you know, like you, you can't 
like, really replace that. 

468
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,560
Yeah, exactly. 
Although I don't know what it's 

469
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:57,520
like. 
Family life is like for the 

470
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:01,400
Super elite and rich like that. 
Like, I wonder if it is a little

471
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:02,560
colder. 
Me neither. 

472
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:04,760
But this here's the thing and I 
get it. 

473
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:06,480
Like, it is such a cultural 
thing. 

474
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:09,080
Like I'm I'm not a super 
religious person, but to me it's

475
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:12,240
like, don't you just want your 
kids to find love? 

476
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:14,960
Whoever it might be, That's 
really how it should be. 

477
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:19,120
It's it's always sad to me when 
parents are like, you know, 

478
00:28:19,120 --> 00:28:23,720
unaccepting of the their partner
for whatever reasons. 

479
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,840
I guess religion is yeah, 
honestly almost seems like 

480
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,520
religion takes a back seat in 
this case to just the fact that 

481
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:32,040
she was a model because like I 
said they were pretty accepting 

482
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:36,480
of Ivanka eventually. 
Granted, she also she had to 

483
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,000
convert in order to get married.
But. 

484
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:41,600
Well, if they're orthodox, 
sounds like they're more 

485
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:45,840
traditional. 
So I guess being a model, it 

486
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:49,320
goes against like their values. 
I don't know, maybe that's why. 

487
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:56,240
I think that's a big part of it.
But so the couple you know, they

488
00:28:56,240 --> 00:29:00,080
continue to date in June. 
They went to Iceland together on

489
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:02,080
a trip. 
They posted pictures. 

490
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:04,520
Seems like they're having fun 
together. 

491
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:08,720
Travelling in 2014. 
This is when Carly, I feel like 

492
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:12,560
she starts to become more famous
because she's very close friends

493
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:14,960
with Taylor at this point and 
they're hanging out a lot 

494
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:19,440
together, which is seemingly a 
big part of the timeline in the 

495
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:24,200
Gaylor lore. 
And you know what? 

496
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:27,760
It is interesting because I will
say Carly doesn't post Josh a 

497
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:32,120
lot during this time, pretty 
much very infrequently. 

498
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:37,240
I think he made his first debut 
on her Instagram in January 2014

499
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:41,400
with a picture of him that she 
simply captions at. 

500
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:45,400
Joshua Kushner is usually behind
the camera, and then she posted 

501
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:49,360
a picture of him with his back 
turned and no hashtags or 

502
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:51,880
anything. 
What does she mean by that? 

503
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:53,440
Like, I don't take pictures of 
him. 

504
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:57,880
He takes pictures of me. 
So yeah, but I don't think that 

505
00:29:57,880 --> 00:29:59,600
means anything. 
Like, we've talked about this 

506
00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:02,480
several times. 
What episode even was it? 

507
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:04,920
You're talking a lot about how 
people say. 

508
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:06,560
Ariana. 
Some people don't. 

509
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:10,040
Yeah. 
Yeah, I don't think it means 

510
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:11,040
anything. 
No, I don't. 

511
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,600
Really, everybody has like their
own relationship to. 

512
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:18,080
Exactly. 
Especially like if his parents 

513
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:20,600
are still not approving, you 
might be keeping it on the down 

514
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:22,800
low. 
Yeah, and maybe she just doesn't

515
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:25,560
want there to be a ton of 
comments about him from people 

516
00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:27,560
saying, like, who's? 
That, yeah, exactly. 

517
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:30,160
I don't know. 
Exactly. 

518
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:34,400
So then in February, she's doing
an interview with Metro US and 

519
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:36,560
she's asked if she believes in 
love at first sight. 

520
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:39,240
And she says yes, I do. 
I was definitely not planning on

521
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:41,760
falling in love, but I think 
that's the thing about it. 

522
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:46,240
You can't anticipate or plan it.
And then in 2015, Carly takes a 

523
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:49,240
break from modeling and she 
decides to go back to college 

524
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:52,800
enrolling in NYU. 
But The funny thing is, I found 

525
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:57,080
an article from back then which 
is from NYU local, which I think

526
00:30:57,080 --> 00:31:00,400
it's like a student writing this
and they're questioning if she 

527
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:04,680
actually attends the school 
because one really never seen on

528
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:09,520
campus, she apparently didn't 
have an NYU e-mail or like an 

529
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:12,520
account set up and. 
What? 

530
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:16,040
She at one point, the person's 
really over analyzing it like 

531
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:18,280
they're going through her 
Instagram and she's they're 

532
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:23,200
like, OK, so she's at Coachella 
while finals are going on or 

533
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:26,760
something like that. 
And then she's going to all 

534
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:28,160
these different events and 
stuff. 

535
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:31,800
And then like at one point Carly
posts a photo where she captions

536
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:34,560
it back to school and it looks 
like she's studying. 

537
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:38,280
But actually, the photo was 
taken five years prior for a 

538
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:39,680
Teen Vogue. 
What? 

539
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:42,920
Are you kidding? 
Me. 

540
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:44,360
No. 
It's so funny. 

541
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:46,360
It's like, does she actually go 
here? 

542
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:49,480
And then later in the article 
there's a update saying that 

543
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:54,000
there was an anonymous tip that 
she showed up to class for the 

544
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,880
first time 3 weeks into the 
semester and she just didn't 

545
00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:01,200
even say anything. 
What So? 

546
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:05,000
That's crazy. 
Yeah, for the first time. 

547
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:09,280
Yeah, the class had already been
going on for three weeks. 

548
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:12,160
Wow. 
I don't know. 

549
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:15,080
I mean, maybe she had special 
accommodations as a model, but I

550
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:18,080
feel like back then, like, 
people didn't really do online 

551
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:23,640
schooling as much. 
Maybe I'm wrong, but I think she

552
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:28,400
was she she was enrolled, 
technically, but I don't know if

553
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:31,560
she was really going to classes.
That's hilarious. 

554
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:34,640
That somebody noticed that. 
OK, she's at Kotella, but 

555
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:37,040
there's, you know, class going 
on. 

556
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:41,760
What the heck? 
Yeah, but apparently she then 

557
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:45,320
would go on to study computer 
science, which led her to 

558
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,880
launching her own business 
called Code With Classy, which 

559
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:52,640
is dedicated to leading coding 
boot camps aimed at helping 

560
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:56,520
young girls learn how to code. 
And she said that like she was 

561
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:59,400
inspired because she's always 
been a big math and science 

562
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:02,560
nerd. 
And that she was partly inspired

563
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:07,880
because of her friend, Instagram
founder Kevin Systrom, who I 

564
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:13,040
think she knows through Josh. 
But I also came across a blind 

565
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:16,800
item that apparently Josh had 
told Carly that she would need 

566
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:20,600
to stop modelling for Victoria's
Secret in order for them to keep

567
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:26,200
going with their relationship. 
So I can't help but wonder is, 

568
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:31,520
you know, going back to college 
and starting her own business, 

569
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:39,600
especially a STEM business, a 
little bit motivated by seeking 

570
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:46,200
the approval of his family. 
Maybe, but I will say it is a 

571
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:53,600
smart move to make because most 
people cannot get the same jobs 

572
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:56,520
that they do for that long. 
That's true. 

573
00:33:57,800 --> 00:33:59,640
You do age out of it, 
unfortunately. 

574
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:01,560
I wish that wasn't the case, I 
really do. 

575
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:05,440
But yeah, they have like 
teenagers on those runways, 

576
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:11,080
early 20s, maybe mid 20s, but 
then it kind of ends. 

577
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:14,600
It's not a dependable career. 
That is really true. 

578
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:16,360
I always thought that was funny 
that she got into. 

579
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:19,560
That was like, is that why he's 
like a backup career? 

580
00:34:20,199 --> 00:34:23,600
I don't know. 
I really do wonder how well she 

581
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,040
can code I'm. 
Curious. 

582
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:30,040
I wonder. 
Because it seems so interesting.

583
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:32,679
It seems like she's more the 
face of it from a business 

584
00:34:32,679 --> 00:34:34,239
standpoint. 
But like, I don't really. 

585
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,520
I don't know if she's really 
like a programmer. 

586
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:42,320
I'm not sure. 
So then, in 2016, April Carly 

587
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:47,639
took Josh to the Time 100 Gala, 
and in June she professed her 

588
00:34:47,639 --> 00:34:50,880
love for Josh on Instagram for 
their four year anniversary. 

589
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:54,239
But soon after that, they were 
photographed by paparazzi in New

590
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:59,880
York and what appeared to be an 
animated argument while walking 

591
00:34:59,880 --> 00:35:02,040
through the West Village. 
They both appeared visibly 

592
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:06,480
emotional with angry body 
language, their arms flailing 

593
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:10,080
like up and down in the air. 
You know the gestures that one 

594
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:14,200
makes when they're angry. 
Yes, you can really tell that 

595
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:18,000
they're in some type of fight. 
Not sure what it's about, but 

596
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:21,880
they must have made-up because 
then in July they both attend 

597
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:26,480
Taylor's famous 4th of July 
party that year in Rhode Island.

598
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:30,280
Josh is photographed in several 
of the group photos and a lot of

599
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:35,720
the Polaroids with Carly, so 
he's definitely in that squad at

600
00:35:35,720 --> 00:35:39,520
that point. 
So again, I find it hard to 

601
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:42,840
believe that any relationship 
was going on. 

602
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:52,680
But but also this year Josh had 
posted much less frequently Carl

603
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:54,760
photos of Carly on his 
Instagram. 

604
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:57,640
He actually didn't post her for 
an entire year. 

605
00:35:58,240 --> 00:36:02,160
But of course we can liken that 
to the fact that Josh is now 

606
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:05,000
thrust further into the 
spotlight than he had ever been 

607
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:06,840
before. 
He was pretty much a private 

608
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:11,960
person, but based off his 
affiliation with his brother 

609
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:16,240
Jared, who is now actively 
campaigning for his brother or 

610
00:36:16,240 --> 00:36:19,760
his father-in-law, Donald Trump,
people are looking into like 

611
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:21,360
who? 
Who is Jared Kushner? 

612
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:22,720
And like what? 
Where does he come from? 

613
00:36:22,720 --> 00:36:25,120
And oh, he has a brother and oh,
his brother's dating Karlie 

614
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:28,000
Kloss. 
Yeah, and that would make sense 

615
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:29,840
why he would pose to. 
Us. 

616
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:31,240
Yeah. 
And I feel like he was being 

617
00:36:31,240 --> 00:36:33,920
protective of her. 
But it's interesting because 

618
00:36:34,240 --> 00:36:37,400
because of this connection, like
this is when people also start 

619
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:40,520
speculating and wondering if 
Taylor Swift might have been a 

620
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:43,000
secret Trump supporter. 
Because there's all these 

621
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:46,600
articles back then that are 
like, she's connected to the 

622
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:50,840
Kushner family, but Carly and 
Josh are like, they make it 

623
00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:53,720
pretty obvious that they're not 
Trump supporters. 

624
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:58,880
So it's so weird that like that 
was held against Taylor Swift I.

625
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:02,920
Mean he can't help what his 
brother's doing, and yeah, she 

626
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:06,840
can't help what her boyfriend's 
brother's doing. 

627
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:11,080
I don't know, it just seems a 
bit dramatic to me. 

628
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:14,760
Yeah, and like they but, like, 
they make it pretty obvious. 

629
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,800
But I feel like people like, let
it just, like go over their 

630
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:20,040
heads. 
Like, Josh told Esquire magazine

631
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:22,440
that he loves his brother and 
didn't want to say anything to 

632
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:25,400
embarrass him, yet wanted it on 
the record that he's a lifelong 

633
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,480
Democrat and would not be voting
for Trump. 

634
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:32,480
And then in November, Carly 
posted a photo of her voting and

635
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:36,080
she actually did the hashtag. 
I'm with her like for Hillary 

636
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:37,280
Clinton. 
So it's like, they make it 

637
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:43,360
pretty obvious, but people still
buy association, are suspicious 

638
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:45,440
of them. 
And then in January, Josh 

639
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:49,000
attended the inauguration 
without Carly, though. 

640
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:54,320
And then the very next day he 
attended the Women's March in DC

641
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:58,720
the day after the inauguration. 
And that got a lot of headlines 

642
00:37:58,720 --> 00:38:01,960
because it's like, oh, like he's
going to this like anti Trump 

643
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:07,080
protest when his brother was 
just sworn in as the advisor for

644
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:09,480
Trump. 
But then a day later, he posted 

645
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:13,240
a photo of himself inside the 
White House with Jared posing in

646
00:38:13,240 --> 00:38:18,240
front of JF KS official 
portrait, and it seems like he's

647
00:38:18,240 --> 00:38:20,920
trying to send a message that he
still supports his brother 

648
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,440
despite disagreeing with him 
politically. 

649
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:26,960
But Carly is like. 
Interesting. 

650
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:30,480
He's like totally on two sides. 
Yeah, he really is. 

651
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:34,840
He's quiet about it though. 
It's like he is like, I feel 

652
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:41,120
like he wanted to be seen at the
Women's March, but he doesn't. 

653
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:45,360
He must like really still, like,
be big on family because he 

654
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:49,160
doesn't want to be going against
his brother or like he doesn't 

655
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:50,760
want that to be. 
Such drama. 

656
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:55,920
I know, Awkward. 
So then he's profiled in Forbes 

657
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,240
and they write. 
When he does leave the city, 

658
00:38:58,240 --> 00:39:02,560
it's upstate to Stone cabin with
a big fireplace and plenty of 

659
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:05,000
privacy. 
Sometimes Karlie Kloss joins 

660
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:07,120
him. 
Other times it's just him. 

661
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:09,280
Just him. 
Yeah. 

662
00:39:10,240 --> 00:39:13,840
Wow. 
What is he doing? 

663
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:15,920
Maybe he likes his solitude, I 
don't know. 

664
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:18,240
He's a cabin man. 
Yeah, I get it. 

665
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:21,280
Sometimes I want to do that too.
I don't know where I would go. 

666
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:23,800
Like, he wants to be, like out 
of the drama. 

667
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:27,640
Carly has done interviewed by In
Style, and she's asked how she 

668
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:30,200
has time for romance amid her 
busy schedule. 

669
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:33,680
And she says you make it work. 
We've been together almost five 

670
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:35,360
years. 
Time flies. 

671
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:37,760
It's crazy. 
He's a super solid dude. 

672
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:42,520
I guess if you really were deep 
in the conspiracy theories, 

673
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:45,080
you'd be like, that's a pretty 
generic answer, like. 

674
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:51,600
Wait, that's a pretty what? 
Generic answer, but what else is

675
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:56,840
she going to say? 
Yeah, it's tough sometimes. 

676
00:39:56,840 --> 00:40:00,760
I don't know what to say when 
people are like how's Charlie or

677
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:02,920
like. 
You know, tell me about your 

678
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:04,200
boyfriend. 
Like, I don't know what to like.

679
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:06,760
He's a great guy. 
Like, I say something like that 

680
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:08,600
sometimes. 
I don't know. 

681
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,120
Yeah, no, it's like, what is she
supposed to decide? 

682
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:18,040
But for their five year 
anniversary, Carly posts a photo

683
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:20,840
of them together and she 
captions it My Atoms. 

684
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,120
Love your atoms. 
It's chemistry. 

685
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:26,080
Happy birthday to my best friend
and partner in crime. 

686
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:28,680
The past five years of our 
adventures together have been 

687
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:30,840
some of the best memories of my 
life. 

688
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:36,200
I love you at Joshua Kushner. 
And then there are rumors that 

689
00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:40,320
they have broken up because he 
was absent at her 25th birthday 

690
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:43,920
party in LA. 
However, it's then reported that

691
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:47,440
they were seen together on a 
trip in upstate New York, so it 

692
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:50,480
seems like all is good. 
Good, Good, Good. 

693
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:56,760
Then it's 2018 again. 
They're in the headlines because

694
00:40:56,760 --> 00:41:00,320
they attended the March for Our 
Lives protests rallying for gun 

695
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:04,960
reform. 
So contrary to Jared and Ivanka 

696
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:09,240
and the administration, they're 
getting headlines as, oh, 

697
00:41:09,240 --> 00:41:12,480
trouble in the family dynamics. 
Yeah, so again, but like, 

698
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:14,880
they're making their, like, 
separation from them 

699
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:16,520
politically. 
Like, pretty clear. 

700
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:19,080
Carly gets an interview with 
Daughter magazine. 

701
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:21,680
She asked why she keeps her 
relationship so private, and she

702
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:24,400
says it's not like I ever wanted
to be so secretive about my 

703
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:27,920
private life. 
Carolina Herrera always says a 

704
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:29,840
woman who's an open book is 
boring. 

705
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:32,560
There's no mystery anymore. 
I know in my life what really 

706
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:34,720
matters to me. 
I'm not trying to hide that from

707
00:41:34,720 --> 00:41:36,960
the world. 
I just really like having a more

708
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:39,640
private, private life. 
I've got nothing to hide, 

709
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:40,040
though. 
Hmm. 

710
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:43,640
So she's trying to be 
mysterious. 

711
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:48,200
I guess so. 
I always want to be a little bit

712
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:53,520
more mysterious myself. 
Then in July. 

713
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:56,520
People magazine is the first to 
report that the couple is 

714
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,840
engaged, a source says he 
proposed a few weeks ago during 

715
00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:02,720
a romantic weekend together in 
upstate New York. 

716
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:05,360
They're both overjoyed and 
happily celebrating. 

717
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:07,680
Their hearts are full and 
they're excited to build their 

718
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:11,640
future together, and she 
confirms the news on Instagram 

719
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:14,600
by saying I love you more than I
have words to express. 

720
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:16,840
Josh, you're my best friend and 
my soul mate. 

721
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:18,840
I can't wait for forever 
together. 

722
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:24,440
Yes, a million times over and. 
What do the gailers say about 

723
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:28,480
this? 
You know what, I'm not sure this

724
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:31,640
should have been like a big 
breaking point for them, but 

725
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:36,800
like, I don't think that anyone 
would fake a relationship that 

726
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:44,080
much that they get engaged like 
after 5-6 years together, that's

727
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:46,360
a lot. 
Maybe they think that, like, 

728
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:48,920
they really fell in love, though
I'm not sure. 

729
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:53,000
But this is also when folks 
online once again, even though 

730
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:55,560
they've been together for years,
people just start realizing like

731
00:42:55,840 --> 00:43:00,360
what Karlie Kloss is engaged to 
a Kushner, which is so annoying 

732
00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:01,960
because it's like, where have 
you been? 

733
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:08,320
And so then they especially get 
suspicious of her because Ivanka

734
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:12,280
actually posts about it and she 
calls Carly her sister. 

735
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:16,720
And so then that's not really 
good for Carly socially, I 

736
00:43:16,720 --> 00:43:18,880
think. 
Then people start being 

737
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:21,600
suspicious of her. 
But Carly, it's kind of awkward.

738
00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:24,920
She never acknowledges Ivanka 
online. 

739
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:29,440
And I feel like Ivanka is always
trying to post stuff or not so 

740
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:31,720
much anymore. 
But like, she would post stuff 

741
00:43:31,720 --> 00:43:35,160
like supporting her and she just
like wouldn't acknowledge it. 

742
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:38,200
Oh my gosh. 
But you makes you wonder. 

743
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:40,600
Like behind closed doors maybe 
they are pretty close. 

744
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:44,120
Maybe. 
That's awkward, though. 

745
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:48,240
So awkward and I feel like on 
Ivanka's part she's trying to be

746
00:43:48,240 --> 00:43:51,920
like see like look I'm I'm still
friends with like I still have 

747
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:53,960
some A list celebrity friends 
and. 

748
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:56,920
Yeah. 
But. 

749
00:43:57,440 --> 00:44:03,080
Yeah, so. 
Awkward and Carly addressed the 

750
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:05,840
backlash with Vogue magazine 
saying at the end of the day, 

751
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:08,560
I've had to make decisions based
on my own moral compass. 

752
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:10,960
Forget what the public says. 
Forget social media. 

753
00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:12,920
I've chosen to be with the man I
love. 

754
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:16,120
Despite the complications, it's 
frustrating, to be honest, that 

755
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:19,920
the spotlight is always shifted 
away from my career toward my 

756
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:21,920
relationship. 
I don't think that the same 

757
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:24,080
happens in conversations with 
men. 

758
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,040
Maybe. 
Maybe I don't know about that 

759
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:32,800
necessarily. 
Like, I feel like it's not 

760
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:36,680
really about that, like. 
It's that, Yeah, it's. 

761
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:40,600
Like, just about his brother 
and. 

762
00:44:42,720 --> 00:44:47,880
Yeah, I mean, I usually totally 
empathize with those kind of 

763
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:51,000
situations arguments. 
But I mean, we're just, we're 

764
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:55,480
talking about this specific 
situation, and I feel like she's

765
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:59,280
trying to distract by saying 
it's like sexist, but like, no, 

766
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:01,920
we're just talking about this. 
Yeah, exactly. 

767
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:05,080
Like, I don't really know who 
else is in this exact situation.

768
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:08,440
Yeah, it's pretty unique. 
Partly, I don't know. 

769
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:12,360
But she said Josh and I wonder, 
oh, sorry. 

770
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:15,600
Oh, sorry, Yeah. 
I just, I don't know. 

771
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:18,000
I don't know what it's like to 
be one of those people, those 

772
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:22,760
billionaires, you know friends 
of heads of companies and I just

773
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:26,240
wonder how much it actually 
matters to them. 

774
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:29,200
Again, I it's just ATV show. 
I don't know if it's real, but 

775
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:33,520
on like succession, they kind of
act like it doesn't matter to 

776
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:37,280
them like it political divides 
basically that it's just it's 

777
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:40,040
all about money, the bottom 
line. 

778
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:43,440
And they'll they will hang out 
with people on like the other 

779
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:45,800
side and they don't really care.
It doesn't. 

780
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:49,320
So I'm just curious. 
I don't think it does matter to 

781
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:53,480
them that much because doesn't 
really affect them that much. 

782
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:56,320
Like they're always going to be 
at the top regardless and they 

783
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:58,640
have so much money like. 
That's true, yeah. 

784
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:03,960
Issues really are not about 
them, but I think, I think for 

785
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:08,440
them it more effects them if 
they care what other people 

786
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:10,760
think about them. 
And I think Carly does. 

787
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:13,960
Yeah, I don't know about Josh. 
I think he lays a little bit 

788
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:18,320
more low, but I think it is 
important to Carly that people 

789
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:22,920
know that she's not a Trump 
supporter and she said. 

790
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:25,920
Josh and I share a lot of the 
same liberal values that guide 

791
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:27,840
our lives and the things that we
stand for. 

792
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,000
We've grown. 
We've really grown together, 

793
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:32,520
personally and professionally. 
Josh knows that. 

794
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:34,840
I'm just a nerdy, curious human 
being. 

795
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:38,040
I think that's why he loves me. 
We've had each other's back. 

796
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:43,720
She's such a nerd. 
Yeah, such a nerd. 

797
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:48,200
I'm always a little skeptical 
when people call themselves 

798
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:51,600
that. 
So then in October, Carly and 

799
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:54,840
Josh wed in a small Jewish 
ceremony in upstate New York 

800
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:57,040
with only 80 guests in 
attendance. 

801
00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:01,200
And she later told Andy Cohen 
that she converted to Judaism 

802
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:04,080
before marrying Josh. 
And she would say in an 

803
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:07,320
interview, changing part of who 
you are for someone else can be 

804
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:10,120
seen as weak. 
But you know what actually, If 

805
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:13,080
you've been through what I've 
experienced, it requires you to 

806
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:15,760
be anything but weak. 
It requires you to be stronger 

807
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:19,520
and self loving and resilient. 
I really did not take this 

808
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:21,560
lightly. 
It wasn't enough to just love 

809
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:23,640
Josh and make this decision for 
him. 

810
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:27,160
This is my life and I am an 
independent, strong woman. 

811
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:31,000
It was after many years of 
studying and talking with my 

812
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:33,960
family and friends and soul 
searching that I made the 

813
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:37,400
decision to fully embrace 
Judaism in my life and start 

814
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:40,400
planning for a future with the 
man I chose to marry. 

815
00:47:42,240 --> 00:47:45,680
Yeah. 
I mean, people do it, yeah. 

816
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:49,200
I mean it is. 
She likes it then. 

817
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:52,320
Yeah, sure. 
Yeah, I think. 

818
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:53,800
It for me. 
It would always be a little 

819
00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:57,440
awkward with the family though, 
to be like you really had a 

820
00:47:57,440 --> 00:48:02,160
problem with me, but it seems 
like they eventually did come 

821
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:04,440
around to her. 
I wonder what her family thinks.

822
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:09,320
I'm not sure. 
I mean, they're a lot more 

823
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:13,440
average than his family in terms
of wealth. 

824
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:17,640
So then in December, Carly and 
Josh went to South Africa for 

825
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:22,080
their honeymoon. 
And then in 2019, Carly. 

826
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:25,520
She is the host for Project 
Runway at this point and she's 

827
00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:28,160
asked about married life while 
doing press for the show. 

828
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:30,280
And she says I love being 
married. 

829
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:31,960
Honestly, I just feel really 
happy. 

830
00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:33,880
It's so nice to just have a home
base. 

831
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:36,600
I can't explain. 
Nothing has really changed, but 

832
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:38,440
in all the best ways it feels 
different. 

833
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:40,760
I love it. 
And then, she added. 

834
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:43,440
I'm sure everyone is juggling 10
things that you wouldn't even 

835
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:46,120
realize for me. 
Like every woman, I'm just 

836
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:49,560
figuring out how to continue to 
grow my career and balance my 

837
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:52,400
personal and professional life. 
I feel really grateful that I 

838
00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:55,040
have a partner, my husband, 
who's an incredible support to 

839
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:58,320
me and wants to help me 
accomplish my dreams no matter 

840
00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:00,480
what they are. 
I wish. 

841
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:04,880
I do wish Josh was interviewed a
little bit more so I could hear 

842
00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:08,960
him talk, but we don't really 
get that perspective 

843
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:11,640
unfortunately. 
Who is this guy? 

844
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:17,480
He is pretty good looking. 
He is pretty definitely a lot 

845
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:18,800
better looking than his brother 
Let. 

846
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:26,400
Me Look up a picture of him. 
Oh, he is cute. 

847
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:30,720
I would totally have a crush on.
Him, isn't he? 

848
00:49:30,720 --> 00:49:35,240
He he does look like a 
character, like he would be in 

849
00:49:35,240 --> 00:49:37,200
that realm. 
He's really cute. 

850
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:39,360
I get it. 
I get it. 

851
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:41,360
He's cute. 
He's got money. 

852
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:45,120
He's. 
Smart. 

853
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:48,560
Yeah. 
All right, this is all making 

854
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:52,080
sense to me now. 
I mean, I I knew what he looked 

855
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:53,880
like, kind of. 
But, like, it's been a really 

856
00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:55,520
long time. 
Like, I didn't really remember. 

857
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:58,600
He's very cute. 
He could be on ACW show. 

858
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:01,440
Yeah, totally. 
He could have been an actor. 

859
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:05,760
He could have kind of looks like
Adam Brody. 

860
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:08,120
Yeah, I was thinking the same 
thing actually. 

861
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:09,800
Really. 
Yeah. 

862
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:12,760
OK, he's really cute. 
He's like my new celebrity crush

863
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:18,760
and like, honestly? 
Like, it's kind of sexy. 

864
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:21,360
Like he like sticks up to his 
parents, probably. 

865
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:27,080
Or like obeys them for love 
Seems like he has. 

866
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:30,880
Really cute guys. 
She likes him. 

867
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:33,200
Come on. 
Totally. 

868
00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:38,520
Oh, this picture of him at the 
Eiffel Tower. 

869
00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:41,200
I know. 
Really cute. 

870
00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:46,400
Yeah, he has guys, because I 
know this is audio. 

871
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:51,840
Brown hair, brown eyes, very 
Seth Cohen type of look. 

872
00:50:52,680 --> 00:51:00,280
Big Eyes Carly has a very 
Scandinavian blonde look, in 

873
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:02,920
case you don't know what she 
looks like. 

874
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:05,880
He kind of looks like the Tumblr
creator. 

875
00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:08,760
Am I wrong? 
I don't know. 

876
00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:10,080
I don't remember what he looks 
like. 

877
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:12,600
My own people were let. 
Me. 

878
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:13,600
Look him up. 
Tumblr. 

879
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:14,600
Wait. 
Just kidding. 

880
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:15,840
I'm so wrong. 
Oh. 

881
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:19,080
David Carp. 
I'm so wrong. 

882
00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:22,800
Never mind, I feel like I. 
Wonder if all those guys ever 

883
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:25,480
hung out from each social media?
I know. 

884
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:30,920
I wonder. 
He's a little he's actually 

885
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:32,080
nerdy looking. 
No. 

886
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:34,320
Yeah, I feel like I remembered 
him differently. 

887
00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:38,640
Why do I feel like hang on, 
yeah. 

888
00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:40,440
The Twitter one, all right. 
I was going to say. 

889
00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:42,440
I was going to say, why do I 
feel like he looks like the guy 

890
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:46,400
from Owl City? 
The Tumblr. 

891
00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:48,600
The David Carr? 
Yeah, David Carr. 

892
00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:54,280
No, he does look like him. 
See, I don't know if I would 

893
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:57,040
want to be dating someone who's 
like the head of a company, 

894
00:51:57,040 --> 00:51:58,240
though. 
I don't know. 

895
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:01,280
I guess I'd have to see what 
it's like. 

896
00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:03,760
I don't know what it's like, but
if he's like, wicked stressed 

897
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:05,640
out all the time, it might be 
kind of a bummer. 

898
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:09,920
Yeah, talking about the. 
Time to watch a clip. 

899
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:12,600
And not yet. 
Almost. 

900
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:17,160
OK, OK. 
So then in February of 2019, 

901
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:21,080
it's reported that the couple 
put their 6.9, $1,000,000 New 

902
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:24,120
York City apartment on the 
market and are currently looking

903
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:28,360
for a new home. 
And then in May they attended 

904
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:31,800
and walked the red carpet 
together for the Camp Met Gala. 

905
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:34,440
And I don't know if you remember
this, but this is the year when 

906
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:38,360
Carly had the infamous post 
where she's like looking in a 

907
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:43,200
handheld mirror and the caption 
says looking camp straight in 

908
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:47,440
the eye. 
And then her outfit is so 

909
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:49,440
underwhelming. 
Really. 

910
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:53,560
Yeah, look up Karlie Kloss Camp 
dress. 

911
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:59,040
OK. 
Oh yeah, I see it. 

912
00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:05,800
I mean, kind of like the 
sleeves, but it's not. 

913
00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:07,920
Everybody else is way more over 
the top. 

914
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:11,880
Yeah, but it's just so funny 
that like that was her caption. 

915
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:14,080
Like teasing what her outfit's 
going to be. 

916
00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:18,040
And. 
But it's basically a strapless 

917
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:20,600
gold dress with like like poopy 
black sleeves. 

918
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:24,400
Yeah. 
I feel like that moment was kind

919
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:29,400
of camp in a way. 
So then in June, the couple had 

920
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:33,760
a second wedding in Wyoming and 
some famous guests included Katy

921
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:37,920
Perry or in Orlando Bloom and 
Mila Kunis is mentioned. 

922
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:40,600
But I'm wondering, like, did her
husband come with her? 

923
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:43,680
Not sure. 
Why a second wedding? 

924
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:47,240
I think, I think first one was 
so small and it was more 

925
00:53:47,240 --> 00:53:50,720
religious and so their second 
one seemed to be a lot more fun.

926
00:53:50,720 --> 00:53:54,440
They apparently had paintball 
and horseback riding in a very 

927
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:57,600
rowdy after party and it was 
like western themed. 

928
00:53:57,600 --> 00:53:59,880
So I think it was more of a 
party I. 

929
00:53:59,960 --> 00:54:04,080
See. 
And then we're in 2020, so the 

930
00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:09,320
first clip I have is from 
January, and this is kind of a 

931
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:14,960
famous moment with Carly. 
It's when she's hosting Fashion 

932
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:19,240
Runway and one of the 
contestants makes a snide remark

933
00:54:19,240 --> 00:54:22,920
about her being married to 
Joshua Kushner. 

934
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:26,280
Oh my. 
OK, let me watch. 

935
00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:30,600
Tyler I cannot see Carly wearing
it anywhere. 

936
00:54:30,600 --> 00:54:32,280
Honestly. 
Loud even to dinner with the 

937
00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:38,000
Kushner's. 
No, no, no. 

938
00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:43,200
That's your husband. 
I was going to Paris. 

939
00:54:43,240 --> 00:54:45,600
That was your challenge. 
Here I know, I know. 

940
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:47,760
Keep it, keep it to the. 
Challenge I could see you. 

941
00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:49,360
Wearing it at some point, you 
may not. 

942
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:50,880
Know, but I know I know that 
this. 

943
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:55,560
Is not what I asked for. 
The fabrics are poor choices. 

944
00:54:55,560 --> 00:55:00,440
I think they look cheap, the 
pockets are kind of ill placed 

945
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:03,200
and if this is your aesthetic 
then not stop. 

946
00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:07,080
But this was about my aesthetic 
and the influence of my stylist.

947
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:12,600
You really missed the mark here 
on all accounts, Not even. 

948
00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:17,680
Dinner with the Kushner. 
'S and then she. 

949
00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:22,320
Roasts his creation. 
Yeah, fabrics look cheap. 

950
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:25,920
So awkward. 
Because, like, you can tell he 

951
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:28,720
like, you know, like when you 
want to make a like, snide 

952
00:55:28,720 --> 00:55:31,560
comment and then you regret it. 
And he's like pretending like he

953
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:34,560
didn't mean anything by it. 
He's like, that's your husband, 

954
00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:41,400
right? 
Yeah, so awkward. 

955
00:55:42,160 --> 00:55:45,680
Crazy but. 
Yeah, I mean, like, again, 

956
00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:50,000
people are suspicious of her 
because of the Kushner thing and

957
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:53,280
everything, but Carly reacts to 
this. 

958
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:56,240
She goes on Andy Cohen. 
And so that's the second clip at

959
00:55:56,480 --> 00:55:57,400
a 51. 
OK. 

960
00:55:57,400 --> 00:56:02,560
What was your reaction to that? 
Well, listen, I was honored to 

961
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:04,120
be. 
One of the first memes of the 

962
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:07,720
decade, Yes, but. 
Honestly. 

963
00:56:07,720 --> 00:56:10,680
The real tragedy? 
Of this whole thing is that no 

964
00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:14,080
one is talking about how 
terrible that dress was, OK? 

965
00:56:14,520 --> 00:56:16,600
That's why we went home. 
Right. 

966
00:56:16,720 --> 00:56:17,360
OK. 
And no. 

967
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:19,920
I would not wear that dinner to 
that dress to any dinner. 

968
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:21,040
OK? 
To any dinner. 

969
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:22,120
Dinner. 
You know I have to. 

970
00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:24,640
Say there is. 
I think one of the things that 

971
00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:29,120
came out of it is there is so 
much speculation about your home

972
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:33,800
life and your family. 
Can I ask you about it a little 

973
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:34,640
bit? 
Ask me, Andrea. 

974
00:56:35,040 --> 00:56:37,720
I'm an open book, OK? 
For my Saint Louis fellow, 

975
00:56:37,720 --> 00:56:38,760
exactly, we're. 
Saint. 

976
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:41,720
Louisans. 
Are you on the same page 

977
00:56:41,720 --> 00:56:45,120
politically with the family, 
Andy? 

978
00:56:45,240 --> 00:56:47,680
Yes, I'm sure. 
I'm not the only person in this 

979
00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:51,360
country who does not necessarily
agree with their family on 

980
00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:52,240
politics. 
Uh huh. 

981
00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:54,960
That's a good answer. 
Yeah, I I. 

982
00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:59,600
Voted as a Democrat in 2016 and 
I plan to do the same in 2020. 

983
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:03,120
Wow, very good that. 
Yeah. 

984
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:06,360
You. 
You're you're very politically 

985
00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:09,320
active, which is why it made me.
I mean, I know you're involved 

986
00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:12,720
in different issues. 
You know, woman's reproductive 

987
00:57:12,720 --> 00:57:15,080
health. 
And, you know, I'm very involved

988
00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:17,360
with Planned Parenthood, as are 
you. 

989
00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:19,760
Next time we're both home in 
Saint Louis, we should, you 

990
00:57:19,760 --> 00:57:21,520
should come volunteer with me. 
I would love to. 

991
00:57:21,640 --> 00:57:25,640
I would absolutely love to. 
The, you know, the what I gather

992
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:29,400
from it, from things that I've 
heard, you felt this is quite a 

993
00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:32,920
love story, actually. 
You you fell in love in 2012, 

994
00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:38,240
long before the election. 
And you you really, you fell in 

995
00:57:38,240 --> 00:57:41,480
love with a private person and 
you've been through a lot in 

996
00:57:41,480 --> 00:57:43,680
your relationship. 
You you talked about it a little

997
00:57:43,680 --> 00:57:44,760
bit. 
Last time you were here, you 

998
00:57:44,760 --> 00:57:48,760
converted to Judaism. 
I mean, what can you tell us 

999
00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:50,320
about all that you've been 
through? 

1000
00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:54,440
I met my man in 2012. 
Yeah, I was 19 years old. 

1001
00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:55,960
Wow. 
It was 2012. 

1002
00:57:56,200 --> 00:57:57,680
It was a different world. 
Yeah. 

1003
00:57:57,680 --> 00:58:01,720
And my my man and I have been 
through a lot together. 

1004
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:04,800
And you know, I'm so proud that 
he's my partner. 

1005
00:58:05,400 --> 00:58:08,680
It's not been easy, but it's 
worth it, you know? 

1006
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:11,560
And and I would, I would make 
that same decision a million 

1007
00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:12,720
times. 
Again, Very cool. 

1008
00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:13,960
I love it. 
And thank. 

1009
00:58:14,760 --> 00:58:15,680
You for? 
Humoring me. 

1010
00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:19,240
And yeah, that's. 
A clip, that's. 

1011
00:58:19,240 --> 00:58:20,840
Cute how? 
She says my man. 

1012
00:58:21,680 --> 00:58:24,200
Yeah, that makes me 
uncomfortable. 

1013
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:26,200
I know it. 
Was like an intense time. 

1014
00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:29,640
But I feel like they should not 
be asking her that. 

1015
00:58:29,680 --> 00:58:31,120
I don't know. 
I don't think she should feel 

1016
00:58:31,120 --> 00:58:33,040
like she has to say who she 
voted for. 

1017
00:58:33,040 --> 00:58:37,280
It's just uncomfortable to me. 
Well, I feel like killing her. 

1018
00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:40,440
I feel like if she gets a lot of
hate for it, it's like she might

1019
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:43,640
as well. 
She probably wants to specify, I

1020
00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:45,880
think, I guess so, I guess. 
I don't know. 

1021
00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:48,000
And she probably. 
Talks with Andy beforehand. 

1022
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:50,480
Yeah, it felt like they were 
making her. 

1023
00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:53,040
Say I don't know. 
I that was I thought that was 

1024
00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:56,480
weird like making her say what 
are your opinions like she 

1025
00:58:56,480 --> 00:58:58,440
didn't have to say that I guess 
it was her choice. 

1026
00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:00,760
But I mean, I think it was a 
good like I do think it. 

1027
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:02,840
Was a really good answer. 
Her saying like, I'm not the 

1028
00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:06,240
only person who disagrees with 
your family and that's really 

1029
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:09,640
relatable for people and it is 
kind of unfair that Carly's 

1030
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:13,360
getting all this hate for it. 
It is just because of the guy, 

1031
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:16,640
like and it's also several 
degrees away like it's not even 

1032
00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:20,320
like it's her brother, sister. 
It's like her in law. 

1033
00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:23,560
Yeah, I know which it's. 
Her in laws. 

1034
00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:27,240
Aren't her in? 
Law isn't even Donald Trump. 

1035
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:32,640
Yeah, no, it's it's not that. 
It's not that connected. 

1036
00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:36,640
Yeah, but. 
I think she probably wanted to 

1037
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:40,080
specify. 
Yeah, clearly with all of. 

1038
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:43,960
This said also. 
Then she also gets harassment 

1039
00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:48,400
and stuff about, like the 
allegations about her being in a

1040
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:50,360
former relationship with Taylor 
Swift. 

1041
00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:54,760
Like, yeah, it's just so weird. 
And I wonder what his family 

1042
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:57,400
thinks of that, if they're even,
like, aware of that, too. 

1043
00:59:58,120 --> 01:00:00,160
Wow. 
I'm surprised she's. 

1044
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:04,280
Never just gotten on a live 
stream and like lost her shit 

1045
01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:07,400
and yelled at people and said 
shut the fuck up. 

1046
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:09,640
Yeah, I mean, I do think it's 
really. 

1047
01:00:10,280 --> 01:00:14,520
I I do think though that like, 
she does have real like issues 

1048
01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:19,920
with Ivanka and Jared because 
eventually, like it gets a 

1049
01:00:19,920 --> 01:00:24,640
little bit more contentious 
after the January 6th 

1050
01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:28,400
insurrection, Carly tweeted. 
Accepting the results of a 

1051
01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:30,840
legitimate democratic election 
is patriotic. 

1052
01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:34,720
Refusing to do so and inciting 
violence is anti American. 

1053
01:00:34,720 --> 01:00:37,960
And then someone responded and 
wrote tell your sister-in-law 

1054
01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:40,840
and brother-in-law, which like 
obviously she's already doing 

1055
01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:43,840
that if she's posting something 
publicly, like she knows Ivanka 

1056
01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:46,840
is going to see it. 
To which Carly responded. 

1057
01:00:46,840 --> 01:00:48,160
I've tried. 
Period. 

1058
01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:53,960
So I'm sure behind closed doors 
that has was super awkward and 

1059
01:00:54,200 --> 01:00:56,600
tough for her. 
But back to a few months earlier

1060
01:00:56,600 --> 01:01:00,760
Carly actually became one of the
most high profile investors to 

1061
01:01:00,760 --> 01:01:03,040
purchase a share in West 
Magazine. 

1062
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:08,480
So she's getting more and more 
like infiltrated in the investor

1063
01:01:08,480 --> 01:01:11,200
scene. 
Then in March, it's reported 

1064
01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:14,600
that they went house hunting for
a home in upstate New York. 

1065
01:01:14,600 --> 01:01:17,640
In either what, Woodstock or 
Bedford. 

1066
01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:20,760
I'm not sure if they ever 
actually settled on somewhere 

1067
01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:23,160
later on. 
I love Woodstock. 

1068
01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:25,040
Yeah, they seem. 
To love. 

1069
01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:30,800
Upstate New York, but later on 
they too purchased a house in 

1070
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:35,880
Miami for $23.5 million. 
They purchased a mansion and 

1071
01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:41,400
then they also purchased a $42.5
million penthouse apartment in 

1072
01:01:41,400 --> 01:01:47,920
Manhattan, which is 7200 square 
feet and includes 5 bedrooms and

1073
01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:52,600
7 1/2 bathrooms and a major 
outdoor terrace that is around 

1074
01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:58,920
5100 square feet. 
So they're living in. 

1075
01:01:59,440 --> 01:02:01,000
Luxury. 
These two. 

1076
01:02:01,000 --> 01:02:03,520
This is insane. 
Yeah. 

1077
01:02:03,520 --> 01:02:04,640
Oh, yeah. 
And then also like. 

1078
01:02:04,640 --> 01:02:06,560
What the heck? 
Back to the. 

1079
01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:10,920
Politics of it all, Carly. 
Actually actively campaigned for

1080
01:02:10,920 --> 01:02:13,520
the Biden Harrison 
administration. 

1081
01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:16,600
I imagine that was probably a 
little awkward too, but I almost

1082
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:19,840
feel like I almost get the sense
maybe I shouldn't say this. 

1083
01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:23,200
Like, Ivanka kind of didn't even
want her dad to win the 

1084
01:02:23,200 --> 01:02:28,480
presidency because it was like, 
just too much drama. 

1085
01:02:28,480 --> 01:02:33,320
Maybe. 
But yeah, I mean it's. 

1086
01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:35,040
Pretty strong of Carly. 
To do that. 

1087
01:02:35,040 --> 01:02:37,040
To stand up for her beliefs 
regardless. 

1088
01:02:38,800 --> 01:02:42,440
But I mean it's. 
Totally her right to everybody 

1089
01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:45,000
can. 
Yeah, it's good. 

1090
01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:49,120
And then in March, Carly. 
And Josh welcomed their first 

1091
01:02:49,120 --> 01:02:52,320
child together, a baby boy named
Levi. 

1092
01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:58,760
And then, in 2022, in May, Josh 
Joshua Kushner officially became

1093
01:02:58,760 --> 01:03:05,040
a billionaire at age 36. 
Oh my goodness, I know then in 

1094
01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:08,120
20. 23 Carly and. 
Josh attended to Met Gala 

1095
01:03:08,120 --> 01:03:12,320
together where Carly debuted a 
very visible baby bump revealing

1096
01:03:12,320 --> 01:03:15,440
that they are pregnant with 
their second child and then they

1097
01:03:15,440 --> 01:03:18,400
welcome their second son, Elijah
Jude. 

1098
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:23,160
And then most recently Carly 
purchased ID magazine from Vice 

1099
01:03:23,160 --> 01:03:26,680
Media Group and actually became 
the CEO of magazine. 

1100
01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:30,680
So she didn't really climb the 
ranks. 

1101
01:03:31,240 --> 01:03:34,800
And yeah, they do seem. 
Like they're both. 

1102
01:03:34,800 --> 01:03:38,000
Super driven. 
What is their life like? 

1103
01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:43,040
Oh my gosh. 
And then actually this is not. 

1104
01:03:43,040 --> 01:03:47,160
Important, But in December, I 
liked a tweet about Taylor Swift

1105
01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:51,880
being named Person of the Year, 
which makes me wonder if Carly 

1106
01:03:51,880 --> 01:03:53,960
and Taylor maybe patched things 
up. 

1107
01:03:55,840 --> 01:03:58,600
Wow. 
But that is Carly and Josh I. 

1108
01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:02,480
Feel like I still don't really 
know them, but it is interesting

1109
01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:08,560
to get just a little glimpse 
into the lives of the Super rich

1110
01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:12,640
and curious. 
And you know, even they have 

1111
01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:16,440
some conflict similar to the 
average American family and they

1112
01:04:16,480 --> 01:04:20,720
do. 
I can relate for sure, yeah. 

1113
01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:24,040
I cannot help but feel. 
A little bit bad for Carly that 

1114
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:31,080
she is always like bearing the 
brunt of yeah, answer to or 

1115
01:04:31,360 --> 01:04:35,600
answer for her in laws when like
she's made it very clear that 

1116
01:04:35,600 --> 01:04:39,120
she doesn't agree with them, 
which I'm sure is very awkward 

1117
01:04:39,120 --> 01:04:41,120
for her. 
Yeah, I think so. 

1118
01:04:41,360 --> 01:04:42,280
I know I. 
Don't I? 

1119
01:04:42,360 --> 01:04:43,720
Don't I? 
That's why I'm saying like, I 

1120
01:04:43,720 --> 01:04:45,800
feel like I would be really 
annoyed if I was her. 

1121
01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:48,800
Yeah, I can't even imagine. 
And. 

1122
01:04:49,000 --> 01:04:51,040
Yeah, and then the whole Gaylor 
thing, too. 

1123
01:04:51,040 --> 01:04:52,360
Like people, people. 
We don't. 

1124
01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:54,000
I mean, I don't know what the 
truth is. 

1125
01:04:54,000 --> 01:04:55,160
We don't know her. 
We don't know her life. 

1126
01:04:55,160 --> 01:04:58,480
But just all these people 
talking about her and like, 

1127
01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:01,440
putting words in her mouth. 
It must be just so frustrating. 

1128
01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:05,080
I mean, I guess there. 
Is an argument like, I have 

1129
01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:07,920
definitely seen people wonder, 
like can anyone who's a 

1130
01:05:07,920 --> 01:05:12,120
billionaire be the good person? 
But I maybe. 

1131
01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:13,600
I mean, I just now a 
billionaire. 

1132
01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:17,800
Yeah, I think so. 
I mean, I don't. 

1133
01:05:18,240 --> 01:05:20,680
I think there are people that 
donate a lot of their money to 

1134
01:05:20,680 --> 01:05:22,360
charity and try to use it for 
good. 

1135
01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:26,280
So I don't think that it's 
impossible. 

1136
01:05:26,440 --> 01:05:29,080
Yeah, that is interesting. 
Definitely. 

1137
01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:31,240
Different from our other 
episodes. 

1138
01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:36,760
So thanks, Mel. 
Yeah, next. 

1139
01:05:36,920 --> 01:05:39,200
Episode. 
Wait, wait, wait. 

1140
01:05:39,320 --> 01:05:43,280
Yeah, What are the odds they 
stay together? 

1141
01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:47,040
You know what? 
I actually think it's probably 

1142
01:05:47,040 --> 01:05:53,880
50. 50 As much as I hope that, 
you know, they've made it 

1143
01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:56,840
through, I feel like they got 
together when she was so young 

1144
01:05:57,480 --> 01:05:59,040
and they're just, that is really
young. 

1145
01:05:59,160 --> 01:06:02,240
There's like there's a little 
bit too much money in there and 

1146
01:06:02,800 --> 01:06:04,920
I don't know. 
I know. 

1147
01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:08,240
You know, but then again, they. 
Do his. 

1148
01:06:08,240 --> 01:06:10,560
Family. 
And he seems to be pretty 

1149
01:06:11,560 --> 01:06:17,120
religious traditional, so maybe 
he would be less likely. 

1150
01:06:17,120 --> 01:06:19,040
To. 
Get divorced. 

1151
01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:21,600
But do you think he's really? 
I mean, there's no way to know 

1152
01:06:21,600 --> 01:06:23,200
but like. 
How religious? 

1153
01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:25,880
I don't know. 
He be if he was actively dating 

1154
01:06:25,880 --> 01:06:28,600
someone who wasn't the same 
religious as him, like, and I 

1155
01:06:28,600 --> 01:06:30,480
almost have felt like the 
younger generation probably 

1156
01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:32,640
didn't really care that much. 
I don't know. 

1157
01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:34,000
I'm not the one that researched 
him. 

1158
01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:34,560
I don't. 
Know. 

1159
01:06:34,640 --> 01:06:40,640
Yeah. 
But I yeah, I hope they. 

1160
01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:43,040
I hope they stay together and 
they are really cute. 

1161
01:06:43,040 --> 01:06:45,440
Yeah, it does seem like. 
Appearances are very important 

1162
01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:48,600
to them. 
I hope they do stay together. 

1163
01:06:48,920 --> 01:06:54,400
But you never know what these 
people, these rich people, it 

1164
01:06:54,400 --> 01:06:58,800
does seem kind of 5050. 
But I I hope the best for them. 

1165
01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:01,200
I'm, you know, putting that out 
into universe. 

1166
01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:03,600
Cool. 
Well, yeah. 

1167
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:07,320
What are we doing next week? 
Do you want to tease it to our 

1168
01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:09,800
audience? 
Yeah, next week. 

1169
01:07:09,800 --> 01:07:13,840
It's kind. 
Of a sad episode and it's about 

1170
01:07:13,960 --> 01:07:19,760
two Co stars who fell in love on
the TV show from the 20 tens. 

1171
01:07:20,760 --> 01:07:22,360
All right. 
All right. 

1172
01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:26,200
I think I know. 
I think you do know. 

1173
01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:32,520
I have a. 
Guest but but you'll be. 

1174
01:07:32,520 --> 01:07:35,040
Teasing. 
It Thank you so much for 

1175
01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:37,760
listening. 
Yes, thank you. 

1176
01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:41,320
And we'll get back together next
week. 

1177
01:07:41,320 --> 01:07:42,040
All right. 
Bye. 

1178
01:07:45,480 --> 01:07:57,640
Is your heart filled with pain? 
Shall I come back again? 

1179
01:07:58,240 --> 01:08:00,400
Tell me. 
Dear. 

1180
01:08:01,560 --> 01:08:03,880
How are you Lord?
