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And today we're doing different 
type of episode. 

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We hinted at it last time we're 
catching up on our couples. 

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We've had what 30 couples now. 
Yes. 

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Wow, crazy will 3030 1030 woman.
Our last episode was about 

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robbing Chris say yes. 
Yes, yes, yeah, I was just 

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listening to that. 
Oh you were and it is kind of 

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funny that we're putting that 
out. 

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Out because I feel like I sound 
younger. 

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Like yeah. 
So funny how even though they've

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been, I don't know when a woman 
was that like 2019 I think 

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there's 2020 actually. 
Was it really? 

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Yeah. 
Maybe it's 2019 like wow. 

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Like I feel like a different 
person. 

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Really? 
Yeah, I do feel like you speak 

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deeper lately. 
Yeah, I had a really 

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high-pitched voice. 
Yes. 

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Back then yeah. 
I don't know. 

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Um, I enjoy those episodes not 
to toot my own horn, but I 

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thought it was funny. 
And yeah, so we are catching up 

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on the couple's if I recover 
because some things have 

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happened since then we want to 
revisit them but we're not doing

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all 30. 
That would be way too much and 

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some of them there's really 
nothing to say. 

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So yeah. 
We just picked some she would 

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get into it. 
Yeah. 

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Who should go first? 
Well, okay. 

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What do we do? 
Let's just get into it. 

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And let's forget that people. 
Are you? 

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Okay, I have already forgotten 
who should go first, though. 

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I guess you can. 
Are you doing BJ? 

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Yeah. 
Yes, I didn't do all mine, like 

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an order, but you can just start
with that. 

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All right, give this was our 
first episode of the podcast. 

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Wow. 
When Dean and BJ which I kind of

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decided on a whim but it's funny
because it was our first 

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episode. 
I feel like people still 

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associate this couple with the 
Podcast. 

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Yeah. 
Looks like people still like 

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reach out and send it which is 
so cute. 

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Yeah. 
Like send us stuff. 

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Like did you see this? 
Did you see that? 

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Yeah, this point is like they're
going to keep doing this stuff. 

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I don't think we're ever gonna 
get any answer, you know, but I 

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wanted to share some reactions 
from that initial episode, let's

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hear it, but had a lot to say so
our one listener Rochelle said 

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besties, you know that's her 
baby daddy. 

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I saw a pic of the Her on 
Snapchat, Daily Mail. 

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Unfortunately did not blur her 
face and while you guess it it's

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100% BJ's face on that. 
Little girl, what? 

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I'm glad it hasn't got caught by
other big news Outlet news 

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outlets because I know Mindy and
BJ. 

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Have worked hard to keep her 
face out of the media. 

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I don't doubt whether bio or not
that he's the Father which I 

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think. 
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Like even if he's not the 
biological dad, he's acting like

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he's the dad. 
Like I can't imagine if she 

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married somebody else. 
Like he would be comfortable 

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with like a Dad? 
Yeah, and Mindy and BJ have 

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always had a complicated 
on-and-off relationship, but it 

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seems like it's been more open 
recently but IDK LMAO, I'm gonna

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happen here. 
I love them so much and wish 

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them the best, but there's 
something more layered and 

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complicated going on with them 
and the kids and then our other 

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listener movie X manic on 
Instagram sub. 

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Mmm, I feel like their 
relationship is extremely 

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unrealistic and probably very 
Very heavily based on the fact 

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that Mindy is still not over 
b.j. 

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And BJ is kind of using her as 
an emotional support system as 

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he's not able to form these 
types of connections with the 

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women that he's constantly 
hooking up with. 

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Yeah, it's like she's waiting 
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That he finally, finally 
realizes that she's the one for 

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him and whereas he's still 
playing this clueless one who 

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isn't willing to settle in his 
meanwhile, wasting all of her 

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years for his own personal 
benefit, it's even evident in 

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all. 
Mindy's writing for her shows 

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that she's still not really over
him, especially the two main 

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characters in never have. 
I ever a mini version of her and

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BJ, p.s. 
I also need to add that in the 

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episode of The Mindy Project. 
That BJ was featured in that 

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Mindy, also decided to play play
on the whole storyline of being 

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close friends. 
But oblivious, to the fact that 

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there is more her characters, 
her character plays, the girl 

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that BJ is trying to date that 
feels uncomfortable with how 

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close he feels with his female. 
A male friend, is basically a 

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total parody of the real-life 
relationship. 

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It's also to add. 
I also add that I wrote this 

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wrong, but also something AB 
that b.j. and the female friend 

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get together. 
And the end none of us is, as a 

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Galilee. 
Maybe something Mindy is also 

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hoping for interesting, but 
yeah, I feel like everybody. 

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Really believes that he's the 
father. 

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I I still stand by. 
I don't think he is. 

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Hmm. 
Like I think he acts like the 

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dad but because that would be 
really shitty and weird of him 

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to pretend he isn't. 
But yeah. 

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So are our episode came out in 
August and right after gotta be 

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so came out, bad timing. 
I guess BJ was interviewed for 

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People magazine. 
It was just one last thing 

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section and he was asked about 
The last time that he missed 

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somebody and he said I was 
visiting family in, Cape Cod, 

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Cape, Cod and I missed. 
My god daughter. 

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Katherine we facetimed and she 
would call and yell at me. 

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Come home right away or I'll be 
very angry. 

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Hmm, that's her daughter. 
Mmm. 

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All right, I will have to stop 
the episode right there. 

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