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Are You Lonesome Tonight? 
Do you miss me tonight? 

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Are you sorry? 
We drifted does your mail. 

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Hi guys. 
Welcome back to the podcast 

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where we're talking about love 
and relationships and breakups 

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other people's. 
Yep and times. 

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Our own. 
Yeah, sometimes sometimes if I'm

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going through something like 
this podcast, really helps me. 

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And I'm not, I'm really not just
saying that. 

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Like, I've been with him, I've 
been in my head lately, the past

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couple weeks. 
Like I just in my feels about 

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stuff. 
Mmm. 

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And feeling like, oh, gosh, like
I can't figure it out. 

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Yeah. 
Oh, and then really restless. 

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And then, I'm like, you know 
what, all these people had 

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failed relationships as well. 
Yep, they still are very cool. 

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Interesting people on their own 
100%. 

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It's been inspiring. 
I'm now by the way if not to 

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start diving into my life and 
I'm kill and we're cousins, 

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we're not the significant 
lovers. 

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We talked about the Centennial 
owners because we're cousins. 

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Yeah, don't know. 
We've done some cousin 

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relationships. 
Oh yes, yes. 

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Yeah. 
Well we have another someday. 

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Maybe, but yeah. 
Albert Einstein. 

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Yeah guys. 
That's an amazing episode 

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coolest. 
Definitely haven't listened to 

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these fly. 
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And I'm not even saying just 
saying this Mel, that's one of 

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my favorite. 
It actually is a very 

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interesting story. 
Yeah, it's got drama. 

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It's got letters. 
Mmm, I love whenever we get like

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actual written things from first
person from the people. 

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It's so, it's like, you're going
in their head that one super 

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intimate. 
It. 

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Like a movie. 
So I highly recommend you guys 

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check that out. 
This second least popular is the

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Jane Austen woman. 
You guys think that these people

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are born. 
They're not dead. 

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Yeah. 
No, no, there was a pirate Jane 

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Austen was hungover. 
Go hear it? 

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Yeah. 
Albert Einstein, premarital sex.

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Yep. 
It's a little slut guys. 

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Yeah, it's really honestly. 
There's like, there's stuff in 

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those episodes. 
Are like more salacious? 

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Yep. 
Then the modern day one? 

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Yes, check it out. 
I beg of you. 

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Premarital sex and cousin sex. 
Okay. 

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Okay. 
I'm not saying I condone that. 

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I'm just saying it's in the 
episode. 

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Yeah. 
Anyways, this couple that were 

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covering today is Iconic because
of the movie that they met on, 

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which is Ryan Gosling. 
Rachel McAdams you know them 

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from The Notebook. 
Yes Noah and Allie and that 

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movie is just the epitome of 
romance. 

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And I feel like because they 
dated in real life, people 

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really love this couple together
wish that they were still 

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together because of the movie 
and so I didn't know anything 

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about their actual relationship 
as yeah. 

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Real human being separate from 
their characters so I'm excited 

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to die. 
I've into it. 

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I'm excited to all. 
I really know. 

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Is that MTV movie award? 
Show when they won best kiss and

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they ran across the stage and 
she jumped up and yeah, it is. 

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Am I going to get to watch that 
again? 

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Yay, I don't know. 
I don't even think. 

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I knew that they were dating, 
though. 

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I thought they just put on a 
great show. 

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That's what I thought this is. 
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And I also it made me so bitter 
because I always wish Kristen 

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and Rob would do that like, what
the heck Ryan and Rachel did it?

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And they don't get you like, 
they looked so confident and it 

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was so sexy. 
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And she will be loved by Maroon 
5's plastic and you see, Hilary 

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Duff and Lindsay Lohan in the 
audience will talk of will get 

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it to Italy because if anyone 
doesn't know, Robert, Pattinson 

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Kristen Stewart, one like 54 
times and they never actually 

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kissed. 
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I mean, so the first time he 
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Actually their best one. 
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Is it okay if I talk about? 
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They like slowly edged closer 
and then she pulls away. 

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I think that's the best one 
because there's still like a lot

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of tension. 
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seems while I am. 
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year they just keep not kissing.
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awkward. 
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They did this little bit where 
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other. 
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And then he like grabbed her and
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down and goes one. 
Take you backstage. 

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Well, that's that. 
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wasn't even there. 
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out with herself. 
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Yeah, it's just like just. 
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and watch the Rachel McAdams, 
and Ryan Gosling, one and cry. 

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Yeah, I mean, that one is like, 
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watch that clip. 
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I would use to describe this 
couple are silly. 

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Oh, cool romantic and I couldn't
really think of a third word and

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I don't know if this makes 
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inconvenient. 
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All right I got it so now I 
think I'm sure it applies. 

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Mmm. 
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a case of when careers and 
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Do not mesh with a lot. 
It does have work gets in the 

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way. 
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Definitely happens a lot for 
actors. 

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Oh, for sure. 
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Kind of like LOL and true which 
he's in. 

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Yes. 
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really. 
But I think at the end I want to

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bring it back to that. 
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So Ryan Gosling, who's this guy,
he was reminding me of Robert 

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Pattinson actually a lot like I 
felt like he was A Canadian 

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Robert Pattinson. 
He was born, November 12, 1980 

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and Cornwall Ontario, Scorpio, 
just like me. 

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He's his dad is Thomas, Ray 
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He was a traveling salesman for 
a paper mill, which meant he 

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moved around a lot. 
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Check. 
We could have a drinking game 

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for our podcast like drink. 
Every time someone moved around 

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a lot when they were young. 
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And his mom, Donna. 
Secretary in his older, sister 

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Mandy's four years older than 
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And I didn't know this that he 
was raised very strictly, Mormon

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his family, not Mormon now but 
they were when he was young and 

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so like hot religion very 
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of his life when he was growing 
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That's interesting. 
They aren't anymore. 

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Yeah, I know so but he was very 
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He really struggled with rules 
and authority and he got into a 

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lot of fights because a kid His 
nickname was trouble. 

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Jump, this thought was really 
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He talked to GQ magazine in, 
like 2007, about his starting 

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point in, like, what got him 
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And he said that he did a backup
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for a girl where he started 
dancing, like, very 

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provocatively on stage and it 
got him a lot of attention. 

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He said I go up on stage and 
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Dry humping, the state he's 
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grabbing stuff, I'm licking, my 
fingers, I'm going to grown 

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women and trying to grind their 
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Meanwhile, I'm like, what have 
been, you know, I was born 

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inherently filthy and then we 
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And we go out on the front page 
of the newspaper and because I 

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was so young and what I was 
doing was so sexual people 

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really liked it, they really 
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won that. 
I got on a TV show that was like

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Star Search. 
My It's were like you have to 

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come up with a real routine and 
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do. 
It's my thing. 

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And they were like, but it's 
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And my little mind, I was giving
the people what they wanted who 

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are you as my parents to keep 
the people from getting their 

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medicine? 
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move. 
I made up a routine routine that

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I didn't have the move in. 
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until I figured it out and then 
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sure it wasn't an actual 
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Then I went on the show and I 
did the move and I-10 God. 

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Well, I bet his little kid he 
didn't really know what it 

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meant. 
No, no, that's so weird. 

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Isn't it? 
Anytime how like people were 

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always like rewarding him from 
acting like hyper sexual, which 

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is like. 
That is a thing that like adults

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do like reward kids for like 
what they're not supposed to do 

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because they think it's funny. 
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performing, he did it Elvis 
tribute act with his sister at 

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weddings and even performed in 
the local Ballet company as 

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well. 
But despite having a Really big 

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personality apparently really 
struggled at school and had no 

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friends, and he wasn't bad 
grades and he got tested for 

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ADHD. 
He didn't end up taking any 

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medicine or getting diagnosed 
but his mom pulled him out of 

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school and fifth grade to 
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And he spent, I think they went 
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like, very quickly and then 
spent the rest of homeschooling 

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just learning about topics that 
he really liked like as well 

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roaring The Beatles and then a 
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Does interesting, hmm. 
And then at age 12, he went to 

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an open casting call in Montreal
for the Mickey Mouse Club and 

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was given a two-year contract to
be on the show and he moved to 

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Orlando, Florida. 
But apparently, he really wanted

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to do that move like on the show
thumping. 

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Yes. 
Oh my God. 

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And they said, no, you can't do 
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So he was very much on the 
sidelines because he refused to 

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do much else. 
Oh my God. 

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And he, apparently, he wasn't as
talented as other people. 

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Oh, she'll like Britney Spears, 
Justin Timberlake, Christina 

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Aguilera so here isn't featured 
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And then in his second season, 
his mom had to move back to 

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Canada for work. 
And she actually lived in a 

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trailer park and Justin 
Timberlake's, mom became his 

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legal, guardian and took him in 
what? 

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And he would send all of his 
money back to his family. 

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That's crazy. 
JT's mom. 

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Yeah, they were really good 
friends. 

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Wow. 
We also have Timberlake and 

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Jessica Biel episode. 
Yeah, yeah, we talked about the 

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Mickey Mouse Club manner. 
Go check it out that Mickey 

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Mouse Club. 
Yeah, we got busy. 

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Britney Spears episode. 
We do we should sew around this 

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time though. 
Like you know Ryan was kind of 

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providing for his family in a 
way, hmm, But he didn't really 

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mind it. 
He told GQ, I hated being a kid.

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A lot of kids feel like they got
forced into being a child actor,

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but I wanted it because I wanted
to be an adult. 

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Dolt. 
Wow, it's kind of sad that is 

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sad. 
Hate to hear that. 

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Know that around 15. 
He moved back to Canada after 

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the show ended and he had small 
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Like Are You Afraid of the Dark 
and goosebumps and was also a 

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reoccurring role on the teen 
drama D breaker high for one 

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season and then at 17 he dropped
out of high school and moved to 

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New Zealand to start and a 
leading role of a show called 

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young Hercules. 
Mmm. 

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How was it kid show, but he 
started to lose interest in it 

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because I guess he cared too 
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And he didn't want to care too 
much, which reminds me of Rob in

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a way. 
Yeah, I could see that. 

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So then he said he wasn't going 
to do TV. 

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He moved to LA, he wanted to be 
a serious actor for movies. 

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And he struggled at first 
because his background was 

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mostly kids programming, but he 
started to take a really dark 

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roles to remove that stigma. 
He played a Jewish Neo-Nazi in 

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the movie, The Believer. 
And he played an aspiring 

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teenage murderer, and the movie 
Murder By Numbers, which on 

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that. 
He met Sandra Bullock and they 

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dated for like two years. 
Wow, wow, wow. 

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And he played an imprisoned 
murderer in the United States of

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Leland so he's, you know, no. 
Nobody's like dark goals, he 

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really flipped it. 
Yeah, he's really pretty easily.

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Wow. 
We're not easily. 

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But and then some words that I 
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be kind of hipster rebellious in
his 20s. 

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He was really into graffiti art 
and tagging stuff in a la la. 

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Oh my goodness, Ryan Gosling. 
He's been described as having a 

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soothing demeanor. 
Goofy, intense yet laid-back, 

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strong-willed yet. 
Oddly prepared to throw it all 

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up in the air. 
Making me very attracted to him.

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Well, I already was he is sexy, 
is hubba-hubba, Miss, Rachel 

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McAdams. 
Oh, she's a beauty. 

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She is a beauty. 
Oh my gosh, incredibly talented,

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she's what they call a character
actor. 

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Right. 
She transforms into the role. 

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Yeah, I feel like she doesn't 
think like yeah. 

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Regina George, you know. 
So different from a lie in the 

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notebook were, yeah, the time. 
I'm Traveler's Wife. 

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Yeah she really does transform 
and great. 

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She looks great with every 
single hair color too. 

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I know she does every single one
love her. 

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Also a Scorpio is interesting to
any group you score before 

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November, 17 1978. 
So she's actually let's see. 

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I think I knew that two years. 
Interestingly though, as I was 

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doing this research, a lot of 
people like didn't really know. 

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How old Rachel McAdams was hmm 
throughout must like much of her

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career. 
Like I saw things that said they

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were, he was 25, she was 29 and 
that I saw articles that said 

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she's 30 and then other ones 
saying we thought she was 30 but

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she's actually 28 like people 
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injured. 
Yeah, always different age. 

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You would think that someone's 
famous. 

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That's like common knowledge. 
I know at least in the case of 

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Lana I don't know why when she 
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she was a year younger than she 
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And then, then it seems like it 
was corrected. 

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Or she started saying how she 
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Or I don't know. 
Yeah, I just had to pick one. 

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Yes, time. 
I think she's only I think 

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Rachel's only two years older 
than Ryan. 

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Okay. 
For a while. 

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It seemed like she was four, 
huh? 

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Maybe he caught up? 
Wow. 

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What the heck? 
So yeah, she was born in London,

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Ontario. 
So they're both Canadian. 

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What have bonded over that. 
Her dad was is named Lance. 

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He was a truck driver. 
Her mom was a nurse Sandra and 

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she's two younger. 
Siblings Kayleen who's 4 years 

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younger than her and her brother
Daniel. 

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Okay, lean. 
That's what my sister Caitlin 

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wanted to go by. 
Yeah, I forgot but nobody called

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her that you can't give yourself
a nickname. 

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Never works out. 
You know what, though? 

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She had a pretty normal 
childhood didn't move around a 

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lot. 
Okay, nice. 

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And I feel like I got that from 
her. 

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She seems pretty down to earth. 
It seems and yeah, in many ways.

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Yeah, she but she did have a 
very successful skating career. 

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As a young kid, not a career but
she did it. 

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Competitively figure skater, 
from age four, she won a lot of 

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competitions and she was even at
age 9 given the chance to train 

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professionally in Toronto. 
But she turned it down because I

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think she would have had to 
move. 

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Wow. 
And in the Summer she would 

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attend feeder. 
Camp. 

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And she like, Ryan hated school 
and would frequently pretend to 

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be sick so that she wouldn't 
have to go to school. 

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And she would stay home and 
watch soap operas, and she loved

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the Oprah Winfrey, Oprah, 
Winfrey Show. 

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Oh, I love over to. 
So I really relate to her. 

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She was very active. 
She played soccer volleyball. 

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Badminton is on the student 
council and she worked at 

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McDonald's, so, so wholesome. 
Yeah, she had like a really 

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strong work ethic Ugh. 
And unlike Regina George. 

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She was not popular, and 
apparently, she was teased in 

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high school because she didn't 
shave her legs. 

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She didn't know that. 
Like she was not that people 

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have to, but she didn't know. 
Like she was, so, that's so 

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sweet. 
She was like, my mom never told 

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me. 
Yeah, yeah. 

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So, uh, I, that is a struggle. 
I remember like having to tell 

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my mom. 
Like, I think I would like to 

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shave my legs. 
I always wanted Another sister 

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for that reason. 
Oh, and I also had to say that 

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about makeup because when you're
young you don't have any money 

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or like a little bit you need a 
ride to yeah. 

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Store to buy makeup forever and 
I'ma be like, I kind of liked 

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wearing makeup in the play. 
Could I wear it and made me wear

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me go away. 
My mom was like you have to put 

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some really, don't you care 
about what you look like. 

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Yeah, I had to ask for 
everything, it was more the bra.

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That was the thing. 
That was hard that Is hard. 

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I don't remember actually think 
I just blacked out about that. 

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My mom bought me some but they 
were so uncomfortable. 

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That I only wore it once and 
then like for the rest of this 

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guy just did a tank top on me. 
Nice. 

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Yeah. 
I feel like my first bra was 

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like a little too big. 
Oh really? 

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Yeah, I was too small. 
Yeah. 

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Shaving my legs though? 
I don't think my mom told me to 

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do it either. 
I think. 

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Yeah, I just like found a razor 
and did it. 

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Oblique of my leg up, look 
really bad. 

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Yeah, but I remember girls like 
talking about it and us being 

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like, wait, wait, are we 
supposed to do that? 

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What's happening? 
Yeah. 

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Because like, you don't like, 
when you're a kid, you don't do 

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it and then a certain age, you 
just start yelling and like, you

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don't even care about having 
Bob. 

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Yeah, it's yeah, body hair is so
I hate the pressure with things.

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It's so annoying. 
Be free girls. 

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Okay. 
Anyway, since then she 

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originally planned to study, 
cultural studies at the 

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University of Western Ontario. 
But her Drama teacher encouraged

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her to pursue drama at York 
University. 

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So she went to college and 
unlike actual like other people 

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we've covered, she did a full 
four years. 

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Got her Bachelor's of Fine, Arts
degree and acting. 

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And while she was there, she did
some film to she films that MTV 

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pilot for a show called shotgun 
love dolls. 

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Hmm. 
And right, after graduating, she

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made her Canadian film debut in 
a movie called. 

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My name is toninho. 
What do you mean films in Italy?

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And she took her first like 
International or just like 

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flight in general. 
I think she had been all the 

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fight once before that was like 
a half hour but she took her 

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first real flight to Italy all 
by herself. 

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So happy for her. 
I'm 22 years old and then 

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shortly after College. 
She landed the role in the film.

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The Hot Chick. 
Oh my God. 

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So that's like her big. 
I was me and my sisters. 

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We loved that movie movie little
yeah, wow, that was early in her

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career, really early. 
Yeah. 

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Wow. 
I feel like that is such a 

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Unless taken path but like the 
actors who like go to school for

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it. 
Yeah. 

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They like kind of like Joe all 
win. 

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Then you have it. 
Sometimes seems like really 

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quick success after graduating 
because also Mezcal did that to.

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Yeah but we do here on this show
I think he's been so many people

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that do like one year and they 
drop out. 

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Remember, Brad Pitt dropped out 
like right at the end. 

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Yeah, I think he had like three 
weeks left or something. 

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That's insane. 
That's do. 

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But I know just finished. 
Spanish like you don't know. 

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I mean he's driving. 
Yeah it worked out but it's 

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crazy but she's been described 
or I would describe her to as 

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being reclusive. 
Oh, silly cute, regimented, 

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hard-working organized and 
strong-willed. 

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And I have to say like I saw an 
anecdote about how when she was 

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up-and-coming like, you know, or
really like hot in her career 

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like you know, after the new 
yeah. 

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After Girls. 
She was given the opportunity to

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be on the cover of Vanity Fair 
Photograph by Annie Leibovitz 

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which oh, yeah, huge deal. 
And she was supposed to pose 

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with Scarlett Johansson and 
Keira Knightley. 

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But they would have had to posed
topless and she agreed to do it.

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And then she walked into the 
photo shoot and decided that she

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didn't really want to anymore. 
And, wow, she just left like 

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Welling. 
That takes a really strong 

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person. 
Yeah. 

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To change their mind like that. 
And be comfortable saying, like,

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actually I'm not comfortable. 
Durable. 

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Yeah. 
And just leave that is really 

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strong-willed especially in 
Hollywood to. 

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Yeah. 
That's a huge deal to be on the 

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cover of. 
Yeah they're like but she could 

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for her and like if she did it 
like that would be that would 

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have been cool but like she just
didn't want to do anything. 

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She's uncomfortable with yeah. 
Good for her. 

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Yeah. 
I've seen videos of her lately 

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too. 
And I mean to each their own. 

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Like I think whatever you want 
to do in Hollywood is fine but 

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like yeah she's really like 
aging gracefully and I feel 

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weird saying that Yeah, but like
she doesn't seem like she has a 

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lot of like, botox or anything, 
huh? 

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Yeah. 
And like, I mean, yeah she does.

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But well, it's nice to see. 
I don't think people should feel

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like there's anything wrong with
just being yourself, you know. 

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Yeah, change anything. 
And we all get older. 

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Yeah. 
So it is nice to see that. 

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Yeah, it's refreshing. 
Yeah, you like people? 

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Yeah, she just seems very 
authentic and she's such a great

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actress. 
She seems like so good. 

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I'm sure she has like some wild 
streaks once in a while in her 

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life but it's interesting 
because Ryan Gosling seems like 

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kind of a bad boy. 
This is an interesting pairing. 

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I mean, I don't think he's like,
Johnny Depp or something, but 

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yeah, kind of wild. 
Yeah, it's pretty painting. 

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Yeah, I think they both share 
like real serious work ethic 

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though. 
At least was acting. 

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Like I think they both really 
dive fully into their roles and 

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are both super talented. 
And was that their downfall? 

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I think I might have been. 
I mean, we don't know like, 

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let's, let's yeah, let's hear 
the story. 

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It's walk through it together 
and decide. 

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So the notebook this is, you 
know, Nicholas Sparks, such a 

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romantic film. 
I remember every watch it. 

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Yeah, I haven't seen it in and 
I've watched like a few Clips to

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prepare. 
I waited for you for seven years

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and now it's too late. 
I wrote you 365. 65 Butters, it 

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always quote, it wasn't over, 
it's still not over passion and,

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but I quote that about like the 
snow. 

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Yeah, I think people love that 
movie cuz like, it's such a 

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fantasy. 
Your yeah, young love. 

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Like being able to endure your 
whole life and the idea of like,

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lost love to say yes, but you 
never stopped caring about them.

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I think is definitely the best 
Nicholas. 

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Barks movie me too. 
Yeah. 

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What would you say is second? 
I mean I haven't seen them all. 

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So I don't know if I can say, I 
don't know. 

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Walk to Remember. 
Yeah I think that it was good 

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sad. 
They all like have some like 

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dying thing. 
I mean I guess in this one not 

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really but because our older 
yeah I think like the other 

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thing that I That always makes 
me think about this movie is 

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just the idea that like, you can
have a love that sticks with you

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even years later like, you know,
when you have a friend like you 

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broke up a year ago. 
Get over it. 

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Yeah. 
Some people still think about 

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that. 
Yeah. 

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Love from like years ago. 
You know, any years ago? 

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Even the mom in that movie? 
She like drives to the junkyard 

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with Ali and she's like, look at
that man. 

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Like now I want to re-watch it. 
Oh my God. 

457
00:25:15,500 --> 00:25:19,300
I do feel like in real life 
though, they wouldn't get back 

458
00:25:19,300 --> 00:25:22,000
together. 
I know that's the thing, but I 

459
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:23,400
don't think he's like, I don't 
know. 

460
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,400
It's kind of sad because her 
fiance James Marsden, was such a

461
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:29,000
nice guy. 
He was like there wasn't 

462
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:32,100
anything wrong with it? 
Yeah, it's also really handsome.

463
00:25:32,100 --> 00:25:34,100
Yeah. 
I kind of feel like, if I were 

464
00:25:34,100 --> 00:25:36,800
her I would be like tortured 
about it. 

465
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,300
But I'm I just stayed with him. 
I know. 

466
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:44,100
I mean, it's like it's tied 
together for like a summer. 

467
00:25:44,100 --> 00:25:48,100
Yeah, I know. 
She laughs and now we're just 

468
00:25:48,100 --> 00:25:51,000
talking with them. 
Movie is such a big part of, 

469
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,600
like the relationship. 
That's why people are at school.

470
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:57,300
They really had amazing 
chemistry and like you see a 

471
00:25:57,300 --> 00:26:00,400
movie or show sometimes people 
have it and sometimes they 

472
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:03,200
don't, it doesn't necessarily 
mean that they're dating in real

473
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:07,900
life but some people are really 
good at the romance. 

474
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,500
Yeah, and they had it. 
Yep. 

475
00:26:10,500 --> 00:26:13,800
And I just want to talk about 
the history of the movie for a 

476
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,900
little bit, so I liked it. 
It based on a book by Nicholas 

477
00:26:16,900 --> 00:26:21,200
Sparks, which came out in 1996. 
And two years later, the film 

478
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,200
rights were purchased by new 
line Cinema. 

479
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:27,000
And actually originally Steven 
Spielberg was interested in 

480
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,600
filming it with Tom Cruise 
playing. 

481
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:32,100
Oh wow. 
That's different would have been

482
00:26:32,100 --> 00:26:34,500
really different. 
Can you guys picture that the 

483
00:26:34,500 --> 00:26:35,600
notebook? 
Yeah. 

484
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:37,200
Starring. 
Tom Cruise. 

485
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:39,800
I can picture it. 
I can't. 

486
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:41,600
But yeah. 
It wasn't a house. 

487
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:51,900
Yeah, and I yeah, I was It over.
Yeah, I was like, Ryan, Gosling.

488
00:26:51,900 --> 00:26:55,100
That would be like, he pokes up.
And, yeah, yeah. 

489
00:26:55,700 --> 00:26:59,700
So, but Steven Spielberg backed 
out for other reasons, and it 

490
00:26:59,700 --> 00:27:02,300
went through several directors 
until ended up with Nick 

491
00:27:02,300 --> 00:27:07,700
cassavetes, mmm, originally or 
allegedly, George Clooney was 

492
00:27:07,700 --> 00:27:11,200
then going to play Young. 
Noah, what was he doing? 

493
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:14,600
Young enough to dinner? 
No, heck then, and Paul Newman 

494
00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:16,800
was Play older Noah but George 
thought. 

495
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:18,800
That Paul didn't look enough 
like him. 

496
00:27:19,100 --> 00:27:21,800
Wow. 
So that didn't happen and 

497
00:27:21,900 --> 00:27:25,200
forecasting. 
They had considered a few 

498
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:26,000
people. 
I guess. 

499
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:29,500
Cassavetes wanted someone who 
was not handsome, not are not 

500
00:27:29,500 --> 00:27:32,600
too handsome which Drew him to 
Ryan. 

501
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:34,600
But I think Ryan is very 
handsome. 

502
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:37,800
Yeah, he is. 
But I think the fact that he had

503
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:43,300
played these darker roles had an
appeal because yeah, there is 

504
00:27:43,300 --> 00:27:44,800
something kind of dark about 
know. 

505
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,900
Noah and cast of Eddie said I 
just thought he was weird 

506
00:27:48,900 --> 00:27:51,000
enough. 
Sorry Ryan that he could just 

507
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,700
take one look at someone and 
believe that he would know that 

508
00:27:53,700 --> 00:27:57,800
that was the person for them but
a few other people were 

509
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:03,100
considered including Kevin 
zegers Damien and Gossip Girl. 

510
00:28:03,300 --> 00:28:06,700
Oh, okay, you must have been 
young. 

511
00:28:06,900 --> 00:28:08,800
Probably, maybe he just looks 
young. 

512
00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:10,800
So, yeah, he was young on 
Gossip, Girl. 

513
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:13,200
Mmm. 
He's hot guy. 

514
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:16,200
Yeah, he is hot. 
Henry. 

515
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:20,100
Cavill. 
Okay he's also a hot considered 

516
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:27,000
doesn't get it. 
Yeah and also James Madison was 

517
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,900
considered a low he got the 
second TV. 

518
00:28:29,900 --> 00:28:33,300
Yeah guy so he's still got a 
pretty good roll that's a 

519
00:28:33,300 --> 00:28:35,800
good-looking men weren't talking
about right now. 

520
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:40,700
These are all very handsome guys
who but maybe for a male 

521
00:28:40,700 --> 00:28:44,500
director, it's harder to know 
like what is too handsome, you 

522
00:28:44,500 --> 00:28:47,600
know. 
So to get into character, Ryan, 

523
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:50,800
moved to Charleston. 
South Carolina for two months. 

524
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:54,400
He wrote on the Ashley River and
made Furniture himself. 

525
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:57,400
What the heck that is? 
So Robert man, isn't it getting 

526
00:28:57,400 --> 00:28:59,600
into the role? 
He really immersed himself. 

527
00:28:59,700 --> 00:29:02,400
Did someone pay for his lodging 
there? 

528
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:04,600
He just do that on his. 
I don't know. 

529
00:29:04,700 --> 00:29:07,600
I must have had some money. 
Yeah, that's true. 

530
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:12,700
But so I could cast the role of 
Noah they had to find their 

531
00:29:12,700 --> 00:29:17,600
perfect Ally and I Yes, they had
brought in 10, really big 

532
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:20,700
actresses and a lot of them read
with Ryan. 

533
00:29:21,100 --> 00:29:25,200
Some of them were Jessica Biel. 
Wow, again, check out our 

534
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:28,600
Jessica Biel episode, Ashley 
Judd. 

535
00:29:28,900 --> 00:29:32,900
Oh, Reese Witherspoon. 
Okay, I can really see that. 

536
00:29:32,900 --> 00:29:34,700
Yeah, I can picture that. 
Yeah. 

537
00:29:34,700 --> 00:29:39,200
And apparently supposedly but 
it's been debated. 

538
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:44,000
Britney Spears really wow, 
fellow Mickey Mouse Club ER 

539
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:48,000
yeah. 
And even though I think Rachel 

540
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:52,400
did have success with the hot 
chick, she ended up being a 

541
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:56,000
last-minute audition and 
cassavetes didn't even know who 

542
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,100
she was. 
So this is like the movie came 

543
00:29:58,100 --> 00:30:00,500
out the same year as me and 
girls, which he had filmed right

544
00:30:00,500 --> 00:30:03,600
before the notebook. 
I like no one knew ya Yin has 

545
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,600
yet. 
So and the hot chick. 

546
00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:09,700
She does play like a main 
character, but you don't see her

547
00:30:09,700 --> 00:30:13,400
that much. 
Yeah, it's more about my God. 

548
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:14,800
What's his name? 
Rob Schneider. 

549
00:30:14,900 --> 00:30:16,000
Yeah, yeah, yeah. 
Neither. 

550
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:19,600
It's more about Rob Schneider 
than hurt but she, yeah, it's 

551
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:21,400
not really like Freaky Friday, 
where it's even. 

552
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,800
Yeah, the to make body swap. 
Yeah. 

553
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,200
Yes, I'm Nick. 
Cassavetes didn't know who she 

554
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:26,900
was. 
Yeah. 

555
00:30:27,700 --> 00:30:29,900
And apparently, she was the only
actress who when they went in 

556
00:30:29,900 --> 00:30:32,800
for the audition. 
She didn't want to, like, talk 

557
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:35,600
about it before, like, she just 
went into the scene. 

558
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:39,400
They were all blown away, 
especially by her chemistry with

559
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:45,200
Ryan, and she got the part. 
So, Reese Witherspoon didn't get

560
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:49,000
the part and no, it's not 
because everybody gets rejected 

561
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:53,400
sometimes your big names, like, 
Reese Witherspoon. 

562
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,000
I can't picture. 
Jessica Biel in the film. 

563
00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:58,600
I know I would have been 
different. 

564
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:03,900
Jessica, Biel, and Tom Cruise. 
Oh my God, I wonder if it would 

565
00:31:03,900 --> 00:31:07,500
still be such a classic. 
I know you. 

566
00:31:07,500 --> 00:31:12,300
No way to know, you know. 
So despite their chemistry, Nick

567
00:31:12,300 --> 00:31:15,700
cassavetes. 
He's told VH1 in 2014 that they 

568
00:31:15,700 --> 00:31:20,800
didn't get along on set. 
Oh, this is everybody says they 

569
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:24,400
were enemies to lovers and 
there's only really been like 

570
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:28,200
few remarks that indicate that. 
So I don't know if it's super 

571
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:32,200
like, blown up because it is 
such a clickbait. 

572
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:34,100
Yeah. 
Headline, like they hated each 

573
00:31:34,100 --> 00:31:36,000
other. 
Yeah, I don't know. 

574
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:38,100
This is what's really don't get 
along. 

575
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,900
Nick said they were really not 
getting along one day on set, 

576
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,800
really not right. 
Came to me and there's 150 

577
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:48,700
people standing in the big scene
and he says, Nick come here, 

578
00:31:48,900 --> 00:31:51,500
he's doing a scene with Rachel 
and he says, would you take her 

579
00:31:51,500 --> 00:31:54,300
out here and bring in another 
actress to read off camera with 

580
00:31:54,300 --> 00:31:56,500
me? 
I said, what does I can't? 

581
00:31:56,500 --> 00:31:59,100
I can't do it with her. 
I'm just not getting anything 

582
00:31:59,100 --> 00:32:01,700
from this. 
What? 

583
00:32:01,700 --> 00:32:03,900
Well, that's just one day 
exactly. 

584
00:32:03,900 --> 00:32:06,400
Maybe they. 
Okay because if they I don't 

585
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:09,200
know if they were dating yet or 
if anything had happened yet but

586
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:12,900
then you can have a conflict. 
Yeah, I don't. 

587
00:32:13,100 --> 00:32:16,700
Think they were dating but maybe
they were attracted to each 

588
00:32:16,700 --> 00:32:18,900
other and that led to tension. 
Yeah. 

589
00:32:18,900 --> 00:32:21,000
Sometimes that can make you 
annoyed with somebody. 

590
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:23,100
Yes. 
Definitely how much you want to 

591
00:32:23,100 --> 00:32:24,000
fuck them. 
Yeah. 

592
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,900
But then like if you're really 
if she was really into him and 

593
00:32:26,900 --> 00:32:29,600
then he like hit on someone else
or something I could see being 

594
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:32,000
like enjoyed. 
That's so true. 

595
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:35,500
I just made that up. 
Yeah, exactly. 

596
00:32:35,900 --> 00:32:38,300
So true. 
Yeah that you know, sexual 

597
00:32:38,300 --> 00:32:41,100
frustration that can really make
you angry. 

598
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:44,600
Yeah, Nick. 
Also said, we went into a room 

599
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:46,700
with a producer. 
They started screaming and 

600
00:32:46,700 --> 00:32:49,300
yelling at each other. 
I walked out the director 

601
00:32:49,300 --> 00:32:53,200
further revealed that they 
emerged from the fiery encounter

602
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:55,700
and they announced. 
All right let's do this. 

603
00:32:55,700 --> 00:32:58,700
Allowing the rest of production 
to be smooth sailing. 

604
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:00,400
Hmm. 
Sounds like maybe they also were

605
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:03,000
just arguing about artistic 
differences. 

606
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:06,400
Like how they wanted to portray 
both really into it. 

607
00:33:06,900 --> 00:33:10,800
Wow, I want to know what the 
argument was. 

608
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:14,500
I know Ryan later said, Said 
about working with Rachel, we 

609
00:33:14,500 --> 00:33:16,200
inspired the worst in each 
other. 

610
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:19,400
It was a strange experience, 
making a love story and not 

611
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:25,900
getting along with your co-star 
in any way, in any way in any 

612
00:33:25,900 --> 00:33:30,600
way and she said we weren't 
throwing vases at each other so 

613
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:33,800
it wasn't loathing but our 
relationship was not what you 

614
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:34,900
saw. 
On the screen. 

615
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,200
I would say that we were both 
well professional. 

616
00:33:39,500 --> 00:33:43,300
And then they dated control 
volume is, but they weren't 

617
00:33:43,300 --> 00:33:45,700
dating during the filming. 
They were hand dating when the 

618
00:33:45,700 --> 00:33:51,800
movie came out, what they didn't
date for a while, but I did want

619
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:54,800
to show you a clip from when 
they were promoting it and like 

620
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:58,400
we can analyze, okay, their 
chemistry, let me see. 

621
00:33:59,100 --> 00:34:03,900
Something I've never asked 
about. and it's this movie is 

622
00:34:03,908 --> 00:34:09,100
not that steamy but it's but 
there's a real Affection that 

623
00:34:09,100 --> 00:34:12,100
develops obviously on screen 
between the two of you but you 

624
00:34:12,100 --> 00:34:14,600
don't know each other when you 
begin a movie, right? 

625
00:34:14,699 --> 00:34:18,100
And yet you're going to have to 
do love scenes together. 

626
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:21,900
So how do you get to know one 
another? 

627
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,300
Well, you just, you know, you 
have loved Saints and their 

628
00:34:25,300 --> 00:34:29,100
private time. 
That's not true. 

629
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:34,800
No, it's because it's because 
it's sort of a makes you sort of

630
00:34:35,100 --> 00:34:36,100
mildly. 
Uncomfortable. 

631
00:34:36,100 --> 00:34:38,699
I would think about how do you 
How we going to do this? 

632
00:34:38,699 --> 00:34:40,500
Do you sit down. 
Have a conversation about it 

633
00:34:41,199 --> 00:34:42,500
sometimes? 
Yeah. 

634
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:45,500
What's the time we would have a 
conversation? 

635
00:34:46,300 --> 00:34:48,800
How are you going to do this? 
How am I going to do that or 

636
00:34:49,300 --> 00:34:56,600
well, sort of what's your sign 
or or you know about that licks?

637
00:34:56,600 --> 00:35:00,900
I mean what are you doing? 
No, I think I was more nervous 

638
00:35:00,900 --> 00:35:03,900
about it and she was she was 
kind of people really 

639
00:35:03,900 --> 00:35:07,100
comfortable. 
I was I mean I just yeah. 

640
00:35:08,500 --> 00:35:12,300
I knew he was going to be a gym.
I mean I was pretty sure he was 

641
00:35:12,300 --> 00:35:18,800
going to be a gentleman and you 
never know but what would not 

642
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:24,800
being a gentleman fee? 
He asked Being a little bit more

643
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:26,700
aggressive in the scene than you
did anticipated. 

644
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:37,100
I, I don't know, I think, I 
think you sort of have to jump 

645
00:35:37,100 --> 00:35:41,900
in before you can jump out. 
So, you know, we did, we did the

646
00:35:41,900 --> 00:35:46,400
first scene and we sort of said,
you know, anything you're sort 

647
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:50,400
of worried about anything you 
want to talk about and we think 

648
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:53,100
we were both sort of on the same
page instinctively. 

649
00:35:53,100 --> 00:35:55,900
And I think what was interesting
also about the way that we did 

650
00:35:55,900 --> 00:35:58,400
the film is that we shot the 
last part first? 

651
00:35:58,900 --> 00:36:00,300
And then we did the first part 
last. 

652
00:36:00,300 --> 00:36:03,000
So we had an opportunity to sort
of really connect and get to 

653
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:04,500
newish. 
Not a large. 

654
00:36:04,500 --> 00:36:05,200
Yeah. 
Yeah. 

655
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:08,100
Not a lot but it's very awkward.
Yeah. 

656
00:36:08,300 --> 00:36:10,400
Yeah. 
They seem pretty nervous. 

657
00:36:10,500 --> 00:36:13,300
They did. 
I mean, maybe just being on TV 

658
00:36:13,300 --> 00:36:15,500
and talking about it, but yeah. 
Yeah. 

659
00:36:15,500 --> 00:36:18,500
I don't like, they definitely 
don't seem like they're dating 

660
00:36:18,500 --> 00:36:23,700
their, yeah. 
Like who like the interviewer 

661
00:36:24,100 --> 00:36:26,900
was a bit flustered to like, 
you'd as in question and they 

662
00:36:26,900 --> 00:36:30,700
didn't answer right away. 
He starts adding to the question

663
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,100
nervously does. 
Maybe I'm reading too much into 

664
00:36:33,100 --> 00:36:34,900
it though. 
I think Ryan seemed to attract 

665
00:36:34,900 --> 00:36:37,800
its original because he was a 
kind of tapping on her chair. 

666
00:36:39,100 --> 00:36:41,000
And like, what do you guys 
think? 

667
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:45,100
Is touching someone else's 
assigned side. 

668
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,200
Like, cutting your finger and 
the pot. 

669
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:51,700
Yeah, you know. 
I think it's it's contact. 

670
00:36:51,700 --> 00:36:54,300
It's suggest a little bit of. 
Yeah. 

671
00:36:54,900 --> 00:36:57,900
Intimacy meeting her halfway. 
Yeah. 

672
00:36:58,900 --> 00:37:04,700
But so yeah, they were not 
dating there and later they had 

673
00:37:04,700 --> 00:37:08,700
reconnected in 2005 so the movie
came out, 2004 1. 

674
00:37:08,700 --> 00:37:11,300
So this is what's crazy who 
years after filming. 

675
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:14,100
Ryan told e-news, I don't know 
what happened. 

676
00:37:14,100 --> 00:37:16,700
Two years later I saw Her in New
York and we started getting. 

677
00:37:16,900 --> 00:37:19,500
We started getting the idea that
maybe we were wrong about each 

678
00:37:19,500 --> 00:37:24,900
other. 
What they made their debut on 

679
00:37:25,100 --> 00:37:28,500
June 4th 2005. 
My ninth birthday. 

680
00:37:28,500 --> 00:37:33,200
Oh wow. 
At the MTV Movie Awards where 

681
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:36,200
they walked on the red carpet 
and then this is the famous 

682
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:38,200
cast. 
Let's let me Scott it. 

683
00:38:03,100 --> 00:38:05,600
It's so cute. 
That doesn't just make you 

684
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:11,000
believe in love your jacket off.
He he like gives Like the little

685
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,800
finger of like come here and 
then he jumps up and down like 

686
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:19,200
to prepare mmm and like he grabs
her hair and at then at the end 

687
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:23,900
he kisses her forehead or yeah. 
He's like holding her around. 

688
00:38:23,900 --> 00:38:32,100
His waist was my pleasure so 
romantic I love it. 

689
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:36,000
That the crowd was green me. 
I'm like, I would be doing 

690
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:42,300
something like that. 
They seem so cool. 

691
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:48,900
They did both beautiful. 
Oh, I wonder if they still have 

692
00:38:48,900 --> 00:38:52,300
this trophies. 
I wonder that Mom. 

693
00:38:52,300 --> 00:38:54,500
It makes me sad. 
They're not together anymore. 

694
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,500
That's killing me. 
I know just watching that. 

695
00:38:58,500 --> 00:39:02,500
So then they even went to the 
Teen Choice Awards that year 

696
00:39:02,500 --> 00:39:05,700
where they also won best kiss 
and they kissed again, not on 

697
00:39:05,700 --> 00:39:09,300
stage, I think probably carpet 
know, maybe they cuz it's Teen 

698
00:39:09,300 --> 00:39:11,200
Choice Awards. 
Had that, yeah, I didn't know 

699
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:14,100
that. 
You sure they're photographed. 

700
00:39:14,100 --> 00:39:20,000
In December in SoHo, New York on
December 20th where she has her 

701
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:23,600
hand wrapped around his arm 
while she's on her phone. 

702
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:27,000
So like yeah, they're together. 
Wow. 

703
00:39:28,100 --> 00:39:32,000
It's so crazy. 
Yeah, like yeah, yours later. 

704
00:39:32,300 --> 00:39:36,200
Then in February, they tended 
the 76th, annual Academy Awards 

705
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:39,900
together and he's photographed. 
Giving her a kiss. 

706
00:39:39,900 --> 00:39:43,000
We just really interesting 
because that's cute. 

707
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:48,300
He's not as affectionate anymore
like he's been with Eva Mendes 

708
00:39:48,300 --> 00:39:50,900
for years if it's together and 
they really hardly make 

709
00:39:50,900 --> 00:39:54,500
appearances anymore. 
So he's a lot more private today

710
00:39:54,700 --> 00:39:58,000
and then in August of 2006, he's
profiled in W magazine. 

711
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:05,200
Thin and by Marshall, hey, men 
and Marshall human rights 

712
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:08,200
Gosling and says he had no idea,
they would become an item while 

713
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,700
they were filming. 
We were together long before we 

714
00:40:10,700 --> 00:40:13,700
were physically together. 
He says, all I knew is that she 

715
00:40:13,700 --> 00:40:17,500
was a force to be reckoned with 
how I was going to reckon with 

716
00:40:17,500 --> 00:40:18,700
it. 
I had no idea. 

717
00:40:18,700 --> 00:40:21,800
She was not someone you can ever
dismiss or put into any 

718
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:24,100
category. 
She's many things. 

719
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:28,000
That's beautiful. 
And when asked if their 

720
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:31,200
relationship was anything like 
the notebook, he said, yeah, 

721
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:33,400
every time I come home, Rachel 
screams. 

722
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:36,300
Why didn't you write me Gosling 
jokes? 

723
00:40:36,300 --> 00:40:39,800
Citing a particularly wrenching 
seen from the tearjerker. 

724
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:43,900
Every morning, I put arrows 
outside her bedroom and I build 

725
00:40:43,900 --> 00:40:48,000
her a house every week still, he
won't comment on engagement or 

726
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:50,100
marriage. 
Rumors, ask her. 

727
00:40:50,100 --> 00:40:53,600
He says that when I suggest we 
call her to do just that he 

728
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:56,900
quickly changes the subject. 
Object to his reading habits. 

729
00:40:57,100 --> 00:41:01,400
Hmm, interesting. 
They always got to ask about 

730
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:04,200
that. 
I know he talks about her a lot 

731
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:08,200
more than she talks about him 
and interviews, or back in the 

732
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:12,500
day, she's private. 
She is, she really is, she's 

733
00:41:12,500 --> 00:41:16,600
about the work, you know. 
So then they attended the 13th, 

734
00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:21,100
annual SAG Awards in the Critics
Choice Awards that year in 2007,

735
00:41:21,700 --> 00:41:24,100
and they were extremely 
affectionate on the red carpet. 

736
00:41:24,100 --> 00:41:27,100
Wow. 
And he's kissing her head a lot,

737
00:41:27,100 --> 00:41:30,900
no signature. 
And she had her couple e blond 

738
00:41:30,900 --> 00:41:33,500
hair with pink streaks. 
Cool. 

739
00:41:33,500 --> 00:41:37,100
And she can do any hair style. 
She can crazy. 

740
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:42,300
So lucky. 
So then in February 2007, Ryan 

741
00:41:42,300 --> 00:41:45,300
is profiled by The Observer 
magazine, and it's revealed that

742
00:41:45,300 --> 00:41:48,500
him, and Rachel have actually 
been long-distance, most of 

743
00:41:48,500 --> 00:41:51,600
their relationship. 
He lives in LA and she lives in 

744
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:56,000
Toronto what, but I think they 
both Spend a lot of time in both

745
00:41:56,000 --> 00:42:00,200
places that same month Ryan is 
nominated for best actor at the 

746
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:04,100
Academy Awards for the first 
time for his film half Nelson, 

747
00:42:04,100 --> 00:42:08,400
who's nominated for best actor 
and he attends the Academy 

748
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:13,000
Awards and walks red carpet with
his mom and his sister Rachel's 

749
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:15,700
not there. 
That's a bad sign. 

750
00:42:15,700 --> 00:42:22,100
Yeah, you're in a relationship. 
Yeah, to not go with your man to

751
00:42:22,100 --> 00:42:24,400
the Oscars. 
That's true. 

752
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:27,600
I mean his first time being 
nominated, that's huge. 

753
00:42:28,100 --> 00:42:30,700
Normally, I would say like, oh 
well you don't know, she could 

754
00:42:30,700 --> 00:42:34,200
have something going on but 
that's a big deal. 

755
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:37,000
Wow, I mean she might have I did
try to see like she filming 

756
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:42,700
something a month later. 
It's March and she's he's doing 

757
00:42:42,700 --> 00:42:45,900
press for his new film The 
fracture and he was asked about 

758
00:42:45,900 --> 00:42:49,900
Rachel and he said, she's kind 
she Me to do so much. 

759
00:42:49,900 --> 00:42:52,000
She's the most Discerning person
I've ever met. 

760
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:56,000
She'll read a script 100 times. 
She's Relentless Relentless and 

761
00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:59,500
she looks stunning. 
Hmm, so it seems like they're 

762
00:42:59,500 --> 00:43:01,900
still together. 
And then in April, Rachel is 

763
00:43:01,900 --> 00:43:05,500
profiled in Elle Magazine and is
asked about Ryan's selection of 

764
00:43:05,500 --> 00:43:08,100
acting roles. 
And she says, he's very brave. 

765
00:43:08,100 --> 00:43:11,000
I don't think he sees the point,
unless you can find out what 

766
00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:13,100
he's made of every time. 
Hmm. 

767
00:43:14,500 --> 00:43:17,800
Meanwhile Ryan attends the 
premiere of his film The 

768
00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:20,700
fracture and once again Rachel 
does not join him. 

769
00:43:20,900 --> 00:43:22,900
Hmm. 
So there's more speculation that

770
00:43:22,900 --> 00:43:26,300
they're not together and when 
asked where she is, he said, 

771
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:28,300
she's working, we go back and 
forth. 

772
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:30,000
That's just the way it is right 
now. 

773
00:43:30,700 --> 00:43:33,800
Okay. 
But then, a few days later Ryan,

774
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:36,000
attends, another screening for 
the film. 

775
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:41,300
And again, goes with his sister 
and his mom and people ask, 

776
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:43,700
where is Rachel? 
And he's even asked if there's 

777
00:43:43,700 --> 00:43:45,400
any truth. 
Earth to the breakup rumors and 

778
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:50,100
he says, no idea, no comment. 
Oh my God, I just want to say 

779
00:43:50,100 --> 00:43:54,400
this reminds me whenever I go to
a family party without my 

780
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:58,100
boyfriend. 
It's not goes, I love you guys. 

781
00:43:58,100 --> 00:44:00,900
But everyone's like, where's 
your boyfriend, boyfriend? 

782
00:44:00,900 --> 00:44:04,300
And I feel like they're being 
skeptical or something, but it's

783
00:44:04,300 --> 00:44:06,300
tough because we both live in 
New York. 

784
00:44:06,308 --> 00:44:08,900
And so when we're home, like, he
has to see his family. 

785
00:44:08,900 --> 00:44:13,500
So when I'm with my families 
with his feelings, but but I've 

786
00:44:13,500 --> 00:44:15,100
never been out of Red carpet, 
whatever. 

787
00:44:15,100 --> 00:44:18,100
So, I can't imagine what that's 
like, but I can picture people. 

788
00:44:18,100 --> 00:44:23,300
Just being like, where's your 
already having trouble? 

789
00:44:23,300 --> 00:44:26,300
They yeah. 
They must like the fact that no 

790
00:44:26,300 --> 00:44:29,100
idea actually. 
Remember when, remember, when I 

791
00:44:29,100 --> 00:44:32,000
got dumped like, right before 
Christmas, everybody was asking 

792
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:33,600
me, like, where's your 
boyfriend? 

793
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:40,800
And I have to say, I was like, I
just got dumped, people are 

794
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:44,900
really nice to me. 
Yeah, people Are like when you 

795
00:44:44,900 --> 00:44:48,100
say, you just got broken up with
you, people are like, oh yeah, 

796
00:44:48,100 --> 00:44:49,200
they really. 
Are you here? 

797
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:52,300
And I'm like how cool, how 
you're such a nice girl that on 

798
00:44:52,300 --> 00:44:55,200
the red carpet? 
Yeah, I would wonder. 

799
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:57,900
I bet that's happened at least 
once, but I've never heard of 

800
00:44:57,900 --> 00:44:59,000
it. 
I wonder if there's ever been a 

801
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:02,600
celebrity where they asked, 
where's so? 

802
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:05,400
And so, and they're like, 
they're fighting back tears. 

803
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:08,000
Got we, I just got done. 
Yeah, just broke up. 

804
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,200
Yeah, that's so hard. 
Yeah, they have to act like 

805
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,900
everything's fine. 
I do think it's a Telltale sign 

806
00:45:12,900 --> 00:45:14,600
though. 
If there's been multiple, Apple 

807
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:18,100
high-profile. 
Yeah, and the partner is not 

808
00:45:18,100 --> 00:45:22,000
there. 
Even if they are together, it's 

809
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:26,700
just okay, that's sad. 
Yeah, yeah, okay. 

810
00:45:28,300 --> 00:45:32,200
So, meanwhile, a source tells 
People magazine Ryan is really 

811
00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:34,800
controlling, he has been 
directing her life, including 

812
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:37,400
her career choices. 
One that can get old. 

813
00:45:38,300 --> 00:45:40,500
I wasn't expecting that. 
Yeah, it wasn't expecting it 

814
00:45:40,500 --> 00:45:43,600
either. 
Damn, so meanwhile, there are 

815
00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:46,100
tabloid reports that they aren't
broken up, but that they were 

816
00:45:46,100 --> 00:45:50,300
taking a break, Nia wants 
distance so that he In focus on 

817
00:45:50,300 --> 00:45:53,700
his Sig sizzling career in that,
Rachel is not taking it. 

818
00:45:53,700 --> 00:45:57,200
Well, another source says that 
Ryan is in love with her, but it

819
00:45:57,200 --> 00:46:00,100
didn't work out because of their
conflicting schedules. 

820
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:02,200
I would not be okay with it 
either. 

821
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:05,000
No, me neither. 
Who wants to hear? 

822
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:06,800
I need a break. 
A break is a break up. 

823
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:09,200
Yeah. 
Agreed, break is break up. 

824
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:11,300
I mean, yeah. 
You could get back together, but

825
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:12,900
it's still a break up. 
Yeah. 

826
00:46:12,900 --> 00:46:15,400
You know, if you're on a break, 
you're free to do whatever you 

827
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:18,400
want. 
I think that that's the 

828
00:46:18,700 --> 00:46:21,500
timeless. 
We are friends. 

829
00:46:21,500 --> 00:46:26,600
They break know, we were on a 
break. 

830
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:30,500
I think a break is a way to 
cushion the blow. 

831
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:34,300
Yeah. 
Not like catastrophizing the 

832
00:46:34,300 --> 00:46:37,000
idea because it is painful. 
You think death? 

833
00:46:37,100 --> 00:46:39,300
The end of? 
Yeah and ship it. 

834
00:46:39,300 --> 00:46:42,200
Is it really is. 
I feel like whoever initiates a 

835
00:46:42,207 --> 00:46:47,000
break though they are just too 
afraid to end it but they want 

836
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,500
to deep down. 
Yeah, you know or more. 

837
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:51,300
They want to have their cake 
needed to exactly. 

838
00:46:51,300 --> 00:46:56,300
They want to leave the door open
for maybe but and it may be like

839
00:46:56,300 --> 00:46:58,200
sometimes a break is good and 
it. 

840
00:46:58,200 --> 00:46:59,300
Yeah. 
Needed. 

841
00:46:59,300 --> 00:47:04,800
But you cannot go into a break 
thinking that like it's a break.

842
00:47:04,900 --> 00:47:08,500
He's not a timeout. 
Like it is, it is a breakup. 

843
00:47:09,300 --> 00:47:13,100
Yeah, I know I'm thinking about 
this. 

844
00:47:14,500 --> 00:47:19,500
Because like it's just not it's 
not fair, I think it's cruel to 

845
00:47:19,500 --> 00:47:23,600
tell someone like I'm not going 
to talk to you or like that's 

846
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:25,800
just not greedy. 
She's not how you treat your 

847
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:28,600
significant other and to give 
them. 

848
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:31,000
Hope that. 
Yeah we well because I think it 

849
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:34,200
would be really hard to move on 
if you're in a break with 

850
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:36,800
someone because you're like, oh 
yeah I'm gonna get back together

851
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:41,400
with them in a month from now. 
So yeah maybe it gives you time 

852
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,400
to get used to the idea of 
living without them to I don't. 

853
00:47:45,300 --> 00:47:48,800
That's true. 
They definitely happen. 

854
00:47:52,300 --> 00:47:54,100
People have debated this for so 
long. 

855
00:47:54,100 --> 00:47:58,200
They still happen. 
So then met Ryan goes on a boy's

856
00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:00,000
trip to Miami with the 
boisterous. 

857
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:02,100
We have with a guy named Zach 
Shields. 

858
00:48:02,100 --> 00:48:05,400
I think that's a Telltale sign 
and oh yeah, that's break up. 

859
00:48:05,500 --> 00:48:08,400
That's not good. 
Oh no, this guy's Zach. 

860
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:12,400
He is one of Ryan's good friends
at the time he's actually the 

861
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:14,800
boy then boy friend of Rachel's 
sister. 

862
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:16,400
Kaylee Kaylee. 
Yeah. 

863
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:21,000
So he's even seen traveling with
Zach and Kayleen, Rachel sister 

864
00:48:21,300 --> 00:48:24,700
at tired, that's weird. 
It's later revealed that Ryan 

865
00:48:24,700 --> 00:48:29,100
and Zack have secretly formed a 
band not even go to Israel that 

866
00:48:29,100 --> 00:48:32,800
summer to record music together 
but meanwhile Rachel's back in 

867
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:39,400
Toronto prepping for The Time 
Traveler's Wife so that's so 

868
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:41,600
hard. 
All this is going on is just 

869
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:45,800
prep for movie. 
I mean yeah as exciting but I 

870
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:48,000
feel like that would be hard. 
I know. 

871
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:51,100
Yeah. 
At least like it would distract 

872
00:48:51,100 --> 00:48:54,000
you but I guess like you're 
still in Toronto to like that's 

873
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:56,300
yeah, probably as memories with 
him there. 

874
00:48:56,300 --> 00:49:00,200
Yeah. 
So then Ryan and Rachel both 

875
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,900
attend, the Toronto Film 
Festival in September, but they 

876
00:49:02,900 --> 00:49:06,000
go for their respective movies. 
I don't even know if they cross 

877
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,300
paths. 
With each other, Rachel was 

878
00:49:08,300 --> 00:49:09,900
there for her film, married 
life. 

879
00:49:09,900 --> 00:49:13,200
Ryan was there for Lars and the 
Real Girl, and they don't want 

880
00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:17,100
the red carpets together. 
Oh God, but maybe they already 

881
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:20,200
Gather Ryan apparently takes 
home a mannequin from the event,

882
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:23,000
which like I think there's a 
mannequin in his movie and he 

883
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:26,000
tells her reporter a reporter 
asked what Rachel thinks about 

884
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:28,600
it and he says she's not happy 
about it. 

885
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:32,000
Hmm. 
So hmm. 

886
00:49:32,500 --> 00:49:36,600
But then in October, Ryan is 
profiled in GQ magazine for an 

887
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:40,700
article called The Loner by Alex
Papa demmas, which I was like, 

888
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:44,900
why is that familiar? 
He interviewed us works. 

889
00:49:44,900 --> 00:49:48,200
This is, oh my On. 
I remember that. 

890
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:49,800
Yeah. 
We've met this guy and he 

891
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:53,000
interviewed us. 
The good on you for remembering 

892
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:54,200
that. 
I don't know if I would have. 

893
00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:55,400
Yeah. 
I was like this seems. 

894
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:58,400
Yeah, really familiar. 
Yeah, we got interviewed for 

895
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:01,400
another bite of Twilight and 
we'd have masks on. 

896
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:04,500
Yeah, it's kinda awkward was 
really hungry his stomach. 

897
00:50:04,500 --> 00:50:06,500
Okay. 
He's not, he's really nice guy. 

898
00:50:06,500 --> 00:50:09,700
He was you have Hana school, 
he's legit journalist. 

899
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:12,300
Hmm. 
All right, so what did he say 

900
00:50:12,300 --> 00:50:13,400
so? 
Well first, I thought it was 

901
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:16,000
funny like the interview takes 
place in a coffee shop and the 

902
00:50:16,008 --> 00:50:19,700
waitress already know Knows that
Ryan wants meatloaf before he's 

903
00:50:19,700 --> 00:50:25,200
order it but he's been staying 
in an apartment in La nearby 

904
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:29,900
where he's doing experiments but
declines to elaborate, okay? 

905
00:50:31,500 --> 00:50:33,900
I mean anything, I know they're 
painting this picture of this 

906
00:50:33,900 --> 00:50:37,500
like kind of wacky dude. 
And on the notebook, he says, I 

907
00:50:37,500 --> 00:50:40,500
mean, God Bless The Notebook. 
It introduced me to one of the 

908
00:50:40,500 --> 00:50:44,200
great loves of my life but 
people do Rachel and me a 

909
00:50:44,207 --> 00:50:47,000
disservice by assuming we were 
anything like the people in 

910
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:48,400
that. 
Movie Rachel. 

911
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:52,000
In my love story is a hell of a 
lot more romantic than that. 

912
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:56,200
Mmm, that's nice. 
He's really gushing about her 

913
00:50:56,500 --> 00:51:00,200
and then Alex reveals that Ryan 
and Rachel have broken up. 

914
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:03,600
A few months before and Ryan 
apparently says that it had 

915
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:05,900
nothing to do with the media 
attention it didn't have 

916
00:51:05,900 --> 00:51:09,900
anything to do with people's 
obsession with them and I think 

917
00:51:09,900 --> 00:51:12,300
he even says it didn't have 
anything to do with conflicting 

918
00:51:12,300 --> 00:51:15,300
schedules but he isn't sure what
else to say. 

919
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:18,100
And then he says the only thing 
I remember, Remember is we both 

920
00:51:18,100 --> 00:51:22,800
went down Swingin and we called 
it a draw and he adds women are 

921
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:25,100
mad at me. 
A girl came up to me on the 

922
00:51:25,107 --> 00:51:26,800
street and she almost smacked 
me. 

923
00:51:26,900 --> 00:51:30,000
Like how could you how could you
let a girl like that go? 

924
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:32,200
I feel like I want to give 
people big hugs. 

925
00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:34,700
They seem so sad. 
Rachel and I should be the ones 

926
00:51:34,700 --> 00:51:36,700
getting hugs. 
Instead we're consoling 

927
00:51:36,700 --> 00:51:39,400
everybody else. 
Interesting. 

928
00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:42,300
Wow, I appreciate the honesty 
thing. 

929
00:51:42,300 --> 00:51:47,100
It wasn't because of conflicting
schedules or the Press, I know. 

930
00:51:47,500 --> 00:51:50,100
Yeah, yeah. 
Like maybe they just had 

931
00:51:50,100 --> 00:51:54,000
personality differences. 
And then in December, it's 

932
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:56,800
rumored that Ryan is maybe 
seeing Michelle Williams, who 

933
00:51:56,800 --> 00:52:00,600
had recently gone through a 
breakup with Heath Ledger and 

934
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:03,600
him and Michelle were spotted in
Greenwich, Village together in 

935
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:06,600
New York and then weren't they 
in that movie Blue Valentine's 

936
00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:09,600
together. 
They were about that. 

937
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:12,100
I don't remember when that was 
fit those later. 

938
00:52:12,100 --> 00:52:16,800
Yeah, I think that was later is 
like 2012 or something. 

939
00:52:17,700 --> 00:52:25,000
It's so true to restaurant. 
So then it's 2008 and the Press 

940
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:28,700
starts referring to highlight. 
Yeah, carry on. 

941
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:35,100
I was thinking about the Press 
starts, referring to Ryan and 

942
00:52:35,100 --> 00:52:40,400
Rachel as friendly X's because 
also attends Ryan's DJ debut 

943
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:43,100
because he starts DJing every 
week in l.a. at some Club. 

944
00:52:43,100 --> 00:52:44,800
Oh wow. 
The Green Door lounge in 

945
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:46,700
Hollywood. 
That's nice of her. 

946
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:49,500
You didn't have to do that. 
Yeah it seems like they're 

947
00:52:49,500 --> 00:52:54,000
getting along like she arrives 
here as at 9 p.m. and she 

948
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:58,100
arrives a little bit later and 
showing her support and then 

949
00:52:58,100 --> 00:53:01,600
they talked while when he was 
away from the DJ stand, this is 

950
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:04,000
a friend. 
They looked like good pals, he 

951
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:08,300
seemed happy to see her, wow, 
but I think it's because they're

952
00:53:08,300 --> 00:53:11,400
getting back together because 
then they're photographed in 

953
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:15,800
Toronto, having breakfast and 
engaging in a lot of PDA where 

954
00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:17,600
she's sitting on his life. 
Lap. 

955
00:53:17,700 --> 00:53:19,900
They're kissing. 
I'm shocked miling. 

956
00:53:19,900 --> 00:53:25,600
Yeah this is over. 
It's not all never over it. 

957
00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:36,000
Still isn't over so see pictures
She's reaching around the back 

958
00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:39,900
of his head and kissing him. 
No, it's sweet. 

959
00:53:41,300 --> 00:53:43,600
And this picture he's kissing 
her cheek. 

960
00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:45,100
She is. 
She sitting on his lap? 

961
00:53:45,100 --> 00:53:50,200
Yeah it's so cute. 
Oh, she's laughing. 

962
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:52,900
She has her arm around him. 
Sitting on his lap still. 

963
00:53:53,700 --> 00:53:57,100
Wow, there gazing into each 
other's eyes. 

964
00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:03,500
It's so cute. 
Really kissing if they seem 

965
00:54:03,500 --> 00:54:06,300
really in love. 
But I know it doesn't last 

966
00:54:06,300 --> 00:54:08,800
forever. 
I know and then a source tells 

967
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:11,100
us weekly. 
They've been talking a lot. 

968
00:54:11,100 --> 00:54:13,000
Their friends are quite pleased 
that they're getting back 

969
00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:15,600
together and are trying to give 
them space. 

970
00:54:15,700 --> 00:54:20,700
Hmm But then hate to tell you 
guys by November it's believed 

971
00:54:20,700 --> 00:54:26,100
that they are broken up again a 
source birthdays that's so true.

972
00:54:26,500 --> 00:54:29,300
It's so true. 
Wonder why a source tells Just 

973
00:54:29,300 --> 00:54:31,500
Jared that Rachel is too 
controlling. 

974
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:34,700
Saying this is a second. 
Wait, yeah, she's to control us 

975
00:54:34,700 --> 00:54:36,100
but he was you controlling for 
it. 

976
00:54:36,100 --> 00:54:38,800
So we heard before and I thought
they broke up. 

977
00:54:39,100 --> 00:54:41,900
They broke up the first time 
because of their busy schedules 

978
00:54:42,100 --> 00:54:45,700
and that's the problem again. 
They're both too controlling. 

979
00:54:46,100 --> 00:54:49,400
Yeah. 
And so I want to, you know, ask 

980
00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:51,700
you guys like have you ever been
called controlling before? 

981
00:54:51,700 --> 00:54:54,400
Like what is controlling mean? 
Yes. 

982
00:54:54,500 --> 00:54:56,200
You know, you have. 
Yes. 

983
00:54:56,200 --> 00:54:58,900
Called you controlling my 
family. 

984
00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:00,900
Oh, really? 
Many times? 

985
00:55:00,900 --> 00:55:06,600
Yeah, I sent I think people call
me control, but like here's the 

986
00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:12,700
thing, here's the thing. 
If he's too controlling or if 

987
00:55:12,700 --> 00:55:17,300
she is but I feel like sometimes
you have to be when like you 

988
00:55:17,300 --> 00:55:19,700
need to get stuff done like 
maybe. 

989
00:55:19,700 --> 00:55:21,900
Yeah. 
Like controlling in the sense. 

990
00:55:21,900 --> 00:55:24,600
It's like okay we're planning a 
trip like we need to plan our 

991
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:29,300
Jack, you know. 
Yeah, it's really only a problem

992
00:55:29,300 --> 00:55:32,400
when two people are controlling,
I think Well, that maybe that 

993
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:35,700
sounds bad because I don't think
anyone should be too 

994
00:55:35,700 --> 00:55:40,400
controlling, but some I think 
more laid-back, people kind of 

995
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:43,400
appreciate it sometimes. 
But when two people are 

996
00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:46,000
controlling, I feel like you can
really butt heads. 

997
00:55:46,100 --> 00:55:47,700
Yeah. 
So it sounds like maybe that was

998
00:55:47,700 --> 00:55:48,800
an issue. 
Yeah. 

999
00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:50,800
Both have been labeled 
controlling. 

1000
00:55:51,300 --> 00:55:53,900
Like maybe they couldn't decide 
on even simple. 

1001
00:55:53,900 --> 00:55:58,400
Things like where they want to 
go on vacation or like. 

1002
00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:00,700
It seems like they both are 
strong-willed. 

1003
00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:04,600
Maybe I didn't want to 
compromise mmm-hmm. 

1004
00:56:04,700 --> 00:56:07,400
Yeah. 
And I do think one of you been 

1005
00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:11,100
called that. 
I think, like, I've been called,

1006
00:56:11,100 --> 00:56:14,400
like, bossy before, really? 
And by who? 

1007
00:56:14,700 --> 00:56:17,900
I don't even know, like, I guess
like maybe by friends. 

1008
00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:23,400
Yeah, maybe also my family. 
Like, if I have Things that I 

1009
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:27,100
feel like need to get done like 
all like mmmm. 

1010
00:56:27,100 --> 00:56:29,200
Get them done. 
But hmm. 

1011
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:31,800
I appreciate that. 
You need that. 

1012
00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:33,100
Yeah. 
Like, you need someone who's 

1013
00:56:33,100 --> 00:56:35,000
like whipping people into. 
Yeah. 

1014
00:56:35,300 --> 00:56:37,400
He would be willing to shake it.
Like, come on. 

1015
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:38,200
Yeah. 
It on your feet. 

1016
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:39,600
Like, let's see. 
Yeah, yeah. 

1017
00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:42,800
I move on like let's yeah, I 
guess sometimes in 

1018
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:45,700
relationships, people can be 
controlling and that they hold 

1019
00:56:45,700 --> 00:56:48,600
their partner back from the rest
of their life. 

1020
00:56:48,700 --> 00:56:50,800
We're like yeah. 
Maybe they limit their partner 

1021
00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:52,700
going out with friends or like 
Ooh, yeah. 

1022
00:56:52,700 --> 00:56:55,400
That that I think is where it 
can get like, really unhealthy. 

1023
00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:57,500
And yeah, that I'm saying this 
happened with them. 

1024
00:56:57,500 --> 00:57:02,500
But, yeah, but yeah, there's 
different like there's different

1025
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:06,100
Realms of being controlling like
you could there is the really 

1026
00:57:06,100 --> 00:57:08,500
bad one where it's like, no, you
can't hang out their friends. 

1027
00:57:08,500 --> 00:57:10,600
Yeah, that's really bad. 
But then there could be just 

1028
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:14,600
like her saying. 
Oh, I thought we were gonna go 

1029
00:57:14,600 --> 00:57:16,600
to exactly only party or 
something. 

1030
00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:17,700
Yeah. 
He's like, no. 

1031
00:57:17,700 --> 00:57:20,000
I want to do this and then he's 
like, well, this is important to

1032
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:23,300
me and then, yeah. 
Controlling. 

1033
00:57:23,300 --> 00:57:24,500
Yeah. 
Weaponized. 

1034
00:57:24,500 --> 00:57:27,800
Guess is often times the woman 
because of said, oh like you're 

1035
00:57:27,800 --> 00:57:29,400
being possessive. 
You're holding me back. 

1036
00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:31,400
And it's like, you're just 
trying to. 

1037
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:34,400
Like, she's just trying to have 
a standard. 

1038
00:57:34,500 --> 00:57:37,100
Yeah, you to live up to where 
it's like in this relationship, 

1039
00:57:37,100 --> 00:57:40,400
like at times, you need to be 
like, if you say you're gonna be

1040
00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:43,100
here, you have to be here and 
maybe it's just not a match 

1041
00:57:43,100 --> 00:57:46,600
because if, if he doesn't want 
to do those things then. 

1042
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:48,700
Yeah, exactly. 
It just doesn't work out. 

1043
00:57:48,700 --> 00:57:52,700
Yeah, if you have like, feel the
need to control somebody, Buddy,

1044
00:57:52,700 --> 00:57:57,700
in order to do what you want to 
do with them. 

1045
00:57:57,700 --> 00:58:01,200
Like yeah you need you don't 
want like guys you need somebody

1046
00:58:01,900 --> 00:58:03,900
that's gonna just beat. 
They're like yeah. 

1047
00:58:03,900 --> 00:58:05,400
Have to control them. 
Yeah. 

1048
00:58:05,400 --> 00:58:07,300
You don't have to tell them what
to do. 

1049
00:58:07,500 --> 00:58:10,600
You definitely do need to come 
from my some and relationships 

1050
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:14,500
though and do need to pick. 
It's such a such a balancing. 

1051
00:58:14,500 --> 00:58:19,500
Yeah, it really is Yang Yang, 
you know, balance is the key, 

1052
00:58:19,500 --> 00:58:22,100
it's hard. 
So like so many things. 

1053
00:58:22,300 --> 00:58:25,400
Like this is true but also 
things like this. 

1054
00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:32,700
Are we doing? 
Yeah, I do feel like I hate that

1055
00:58:32,700 --> 00:58:36,500
word controlling though mmm 
because it's so - yeah. 

1056
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:41,500
We weren't there like we don't 
know, but yeah, it sounds like 

1057
00:58:41,500 --> 00:58:47,000
two very strong will the people.
Mmm, who aren't willing to 

1058
00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:50,400
compromise with each other? 
Hmm, I do wonder. 

1059
00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:53,700
I mean, I usually don't believe 
in astrology, but our Scorpios 

1060
00:58:53,700 --> 00:59:02,300
controlling. 
And then the other thing about 

1061
00:59:02,300 --> 00:59:05,600
conflicting schedules is like, I
know, like he had said like, it 

1062
00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:10,800
wasn't but Can I sad to me? 
Like if you're just Dad to 

1063
00:59:10,800 --> 00:59:17,000
someone a schedule I know I hate
all just outside forces like 

1064
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:19,500
that cause relationship to end 
that kills me. 

1065
00:59:19,500 --> 00:59:23,500
So unromantic thing like this 
work. 

1066
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:25,400
Yeah. 
Blah. 

1067
00:59:25,500 --> 00:59:28,600
So busy but you know what? 
I know they are movie stars. 

1068
00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:34,200
So their work is different and 
they were both like just rising 

1069
00:59:34,200 --> 00:59:36,200
stars. 
And yeah how do you pass up a 

1070
00:59:36,200 --> 00:59:39,300
movie at Time. 
Just beginning. 

1071
00:59:39,400 --> 00:59:42,800
Oh, I'm not going to be able to 
see my boyfriend for months. 

1072
00:59:42,800 --> 00:59:45,300
Yeah. 
I take this role and I feel like

1073
00:59:45,300 --> 00:59:49,000
everyone around them is probably
telling them to prioritize the 

1074
00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:50,700
role. 
I don't think anyone would say 

1075
00:59:50,700 --> 00:59:55,800
like, no, no, no, you should 
stay home with Brian or stay 

1076
00:59:55,800 --> 00:59:56,900
home with her, you know. 
Yeah. 

1077
00:59:56,900 --> 01:00:00,200
Well actually that brings up a 
good point because there was a 

1078
01:00:00,207 --> 01:00:03,800
blind item in 2009 which people 
believe is about their 

1079
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:06,300
relationship. 
And it says four years ago, this

1080
01:00:06,300 --> 01:00:09,200
couple was a hot item. 
In Hollywood, everyone was 

1081
01:00:09,200 --> 01:00:12,000
crossing their fingers that this
relationship would last their 

1082
01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:15,600
chemistry, the chemistry between
the two were undeniable in the 

1083
01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:17,800
popularity of the couple was 
pretty big. 

1084
01:00:18,100 --> 01:00:18,900
Mmm. 
Why? 

1085
01:00:18,900 --> 01:00:21,400
Oh, why didn't they? 
Last for, whatever reason, the 

1086
01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:25,200
agent of the female persuaded 
her to call it, quits sounds 

1087
01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:28,900
like a modern-day Jane Austen 
novel, the female, the whole 

1088
01:00:28,900 --> 01:00:31,500
life, didn't lie. 
And now the damage is done, we 

1089
01:00:31,500 --> 01:00:33,700
hear she was wishes with all her
heart. 

1090
01:00:33,700 --> 01:00:37,400
That things were different. 
That is so Dana. 

1091
01:00:37,600 --> 01:00:44,800
Thin so persuasion. 
But yeah, like I guess like if 

1092
01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:47,200
she is getting all these big 
Parts but then she's like a 

1093
01:00:47,207 --> 01:00:49,900
whole but Ryan like, yeah, you 
know. 

1094
01:00:49,900 --> 01:00:52,300
Yeah, the relationship is 
falling apart. 

1095
01:00:52,300 --> 01:00:54,300
I could see the age of being 
like snap out of it. 

1096
01:00:54,300 --> 01:00:58,600
Yeah, yeah. 
And I think maybe in the past a 

1097
01:00:58,607 --> 01:01:02,500
woman would be encouraged by her
friends and family to step down 

1098
01:01:02,500 --> 01:01:09,000
from her career but I feel like 
today, no it would seem Week or 

1099
01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:12,000
something because kind of give 
up your career for a 

1100
01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:14,200
relationship. 
I don't really know what the 

1101
01:01:14,207 --> 01:01:16,000
right thing is. 
Like I wish it could be a 

1102
01:01:16,000 --> 01:01:19,800
perfect balance but I know I 
don't know and they're both 

1103
01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:23,200
young like they're kind of our 
age at this time but hey they 

1104
01:01:23,200 --> 01:01:27,900
feel younger for some reason. 
Oh yeah, we are young. 

1105
01:01:27,900 --> 01:01:32,300
Yeah but like they both like 
would later go on to be with you

1106
01:01:32,300 --> 01:01:35,800
know, Partners who they then 
have spent many years with and 

1107
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:38,100
had kids with and it seems like 
they both Sounds like their 

1108
01:01:38,100 --> 01:01:42,000
person and maybe this was a 
relationship that gave them the 

1109
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:45,700
experience to lead to that. 
Which, yeah, everybody, you 

1110
01:01:45,700 --> 01:01:49,900
know, most people have that kind
of relationship, but it just 

1111
01:01:49,900 --> 01:01:53,200
seems like at this time, like, 
this was not a relationship that

1112
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:55,600
was like, meant to be there 
forever person. 

1113
01:01:55,700 --> 01:02:01,300
Hmm. 
So, you know, if it was meant to

1114
01:02:01,300 --> 01:02:05,100
be, maybe the conflicting 
schedules wouldn't have been 

1115
01:02:05,700 --> 01:02:10,700
yeah, as conflicting but in 
December of 2008, so I'm going 

1116
01:02:10,700 --> 01:02:13,200
back a little bit. 
Okay, A source. 

1117
01:02:13,200 --> 01:02:16,500
Close to the couple says, Ryan 
is still close to the McAdams 

1118
01:02:16,500 --> 01:02:19,800
family and he still speaks to 
Rachel, but there are both 

1119
01:02:19,800 --> 01:02:22,200
openly single. 
He still loves Rachel. 

1120
01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:25,500
And Rachel, still loves him, and
the timing is off, and they 

1121
01:02:25,500 --> 01:02:27,600
can't make each other happy. 
Right now. 

1122
01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:31,600
And at this time, Rachel is busy
filming a movie and London. 

1123
01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:35,700
While Ryan is still doing his 
weekly DJ Gig in La. 

1124
01:02:36,500 --> 01:02:39,800
I can see if you're Rachel, 
you're like, you can't come to 

1125
01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:41,500
London with me because you're 
DJing. 

1126
01:02:41,500 --> 01:02:44,400
Yeah, I don't know. 
Is this really your passion? 

1127
01:02:44,400 --> 01:02:49,600
I thought acting was yeah. 
Yeah, we do. 

1128
01:02:50,900 --> 01:02:54,300
So this is a month later, it's 
reported. 

1129
01:02:54,300 --> 01:02:57,800
That Rachel was seen kissing her
co-star from the I'm Traveler's 

1130
01:02:57,800 --> 01:03:01,700
Wife, Josh, Lucas. 
Who she wants a date for a few 

1131
01:03:01,700 --> 01:03:05,100
months in 2009? 
Oh, I didn't know that and 

1132
01:03:05,100 --> 01:03:07,700
that's it. 
Like, it doesn't seem like they 

1133
01:03:07,700 --> 01:03:14,000
ever get back together again. 
2011, he gots with Eva Mendes 

1134
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:17,400
who he's still been with all 
these years later, okay? 

1135
01:03:17,400 --> 01:03:19,700
Kids, with, I would love to 
cover them someday. 

1136
01:03:19,700 --> 01:03:25,400
They seem like a beautiful 
couple and but a little bit 

1137
01:03:25,700 --> 01:03:30,600
later in 2016, 16 Rachel McAdams
is promoting the most recent 

1138
01:03:30,600 --> 01:03:34,300
Doctor Strange movie and 
apparently there were rumors at 

1139
01:03:34,300 --> 01:03:38,300
one point that Ryan was going to
be considered the lead role that

1140
01:03:38,300 --> 01:03:41,300
franchise and she was asked 
about this and asked if she 

1141
01:03:41,308 --> 01:03:44,100
would have any hesitations 
working with him given their 

1142
01:03:44,100 --> 01:03:49,500
history together. 
So like cuz I'm yeah as that. 

1143
01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:52,000
And she responded. 
No, not at all. 

1144
01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:53,700
I'd love to work with Ryan 
again. 

1145
01:03:54,200 --> 01:03:56,900
I didn't know that Benedict was 
signed. 

1146
01:03:57,000 --> 01:04:00,300
On when it came across my plate.
So he's the only Doctor Strange.

1147
01:04:00,300 --> 01:04:03,200
I've known of hmm. 
So very like professional. 

1148
01:04:03,300 --> 01:04:06,400
Yeah there but it seems like 
there's no bad blood, that's 

1149
01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:08,200
good. 
And at this point, Rachel was 

1150
01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:11,900
now dating Jamie Linden, who is 
now her long-term partner? 

1151
01:04:11,900 --> 01:04:13,600
And she has two kids with now 
so? 

1152
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:18,000
Well, things seem good. 
Also in 2016, they both go to 

1153
01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:21,500
the Oscars. 
Rachel was nominated for best 

1154
01:04:21,500 --> 01:04:26,700
supporting actress and Ryan was 
for her movie Spotlight and 

1155
01:04:26,700 --> 01:04:28,500
right? 
In was there because his film 

1156
01:04:28,500 --> 01:04:32,500
The Big Short was nominated for 
best picture and they sat only a

1157
01:04:32,508 --> 01:04:36,100
few tables away that there's no 
evidence that they interacted 

1158
01:04:36,100 --> 01:04:39,200
inside today. 
They both have two kids. 

1159
01:04:39,200 --> 01:04:41,200
They both are in happy 
relationships. 

1160
01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:44,900
It seems yeah. 
I get the sense that they really

1161
01:04:44,900 --> 01:04:47,500
did love each other. 
Like they've said it but that 

1162
01:04:47,500 --> 01:04:50,700
they were maybe too busy and 
just didn't just didn't work 

1163
01:04:50,700 --> 01:04:51,500
out. 
Yeah. 

1164
01:04:52,100 --> 01:04:55,400
Wow, it happens. 
But I really wondered going back

1165
01:04:55,400 --> 01:04:58,700
to lala land. 
When Ryan was filming that 

1166
01:04:58,700 --> 01:05:01,200
movie, if it reminded him of 
Rachel. 

1167
01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:06,400
Yeah, I would think I almost 
feel like she could have been in

1168
01:05:06,400 --> 01:05:10,600
that movie. 
Yeah, I don't know if she sings.

1169
01:05:10,600 --> 01:05:14,300
But yeah, I mean because that 
movie is about like two people 

1170
01:05:14,300 --> 01:05:17,500
who are in love but they both 
have such ambition, that kind of

1171
01:05:17,508 --> 01:05:19,900
Tears, them apart and the end of
the movie. 

1172
01:05:19,900 --> 01:05:22,800
Oh my God. 
Spoiler they see each other 

1173
01:05:22,800 --> 01:05:26,600
again and then it like flashes 
through like out of been with 

1174
01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:28,900
them. 
Them breaks my heart. 

1175
01:05:28,900 --> 01:05:33,100
It really seems like that's 
similar to his relationship with

1176
01:05:33,100 --> 01:05:35,800
Rachel. 
Yeah, I wonder if you thought 

1177
01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:38,100
about her. 
He must have drawn on that 

1178
01:05:38,100 --> 01:05:40,100
experience a little bit. 
Must have. 

1179
01:05:40,200 --> 01:05:41,900
Don't you ask? 
Yeah. 

1180
01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:44,300
Did this remind you of Rachel 
McAdams? 

1181
01:05:44,300 --> 01:05:52,900
Yeah, lala land. 
Yeah, she's in the academy. 

1182
01:05:53,700 --> 01:05:55,400
She must be because he's 
nominated. 

1183
01:05:55,400 --> 01:05:57,900
Yeah true. 
I mean I think Both, you don't 

1184
01:05:57,900 --> 01:06:00,800
know if she was in Mean Girls. 
It seems like during their 

1185
01:06:00,800 --> 01:06:06,700
relationship, he had a little 
bit of a more budding career 

1186
01:06:06,700 --> 01:06:08,400
just because he had an Oscar 
Nom. 

1187
01:06:08,500 --> 01:06:09,800
Mmm. 
But yeah. 

1188
01:06:09,800 --> 01:06:14,200
She's equally like she's in so 
many things but now I do think 

1189
01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:16,000
they're both like a very 
equally. 

1190
01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:20,700
Yeah, acclaimed actors. 
Mmm, I must feel like when they 

1191
01:06:20,700 --> 01:06:26,800
first dated they were pretty 
equal that me. 

1192
01:06:26,900 --> 01:06:30,600
Rose downwind skyrocketed her 
and Time Traveler's Wife to, but

1193
01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:35,200
I feel like recently he's a 
little bit more high profile but

1194
01:06:35,400 --> 01:06:39,200
she still has that huge rate. 
It's not made it still has that 

1195
01:06:39,200 --> 01:06:41,600
huge name recognition. 
Yeah. 

1196
01:06:41,600 --> 01:06:45,800
Going on. 
I don't know the Family Stone so

1197
01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:47,800
that love them. 
I love them. 

1198
01:06:50,400 --> 01:06:53,000
She's great. 
Yeah, she really is a different 

1199
01:06:53,000 --> 01:06:55,600
character in that one thing. 
Yeah, my God. 

1200
01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:58,700
She's like, kind of She become 
movie. 

1201
01:06:58,700 --> 01:07:02,600
She's really sweet, guys. 
Yeah, she's like, Vanessa 

1202
01:07:02,600 --> 01:07:05,300
Hudgens level. 
This is beautiful. 

1203
01:07:05,500 --> 01:07:08,200
Yeah, yes, she seems really 
sweet too. 

1204
01:07:08,300 --> 01:07:12,800
Oh, well, it seems like they're 
both in good relationships. 

1205
01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:14,900
Yeah, families. 
Now some happy for them but it 

1206
01:07:14,900 --> 01:07:16,900
is kind of sad it is. 
Yeah. 

1207
01:07:16,900 --> 01:07:20,000
Now I think people really just 
Pine for them because of the 

1208
01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:25,700
notebook and like I totally 
understand that you know, they 

1209
01:07:25,700 --> 01:07:27,500
had amazing chemistry. 
Stream. 

1210
01:07:27,500 --> 01:07:33,900
Yeah, like kiss on stage, I 
know, but I think, you know 

1211
01:07:33,900 --> 01:07:37,300
what, like it's one of those 
relationships where it led them 

1212
01:07:37,300 --> 01:07:41,000
to something else and that's 
okay, it doesn't have to be 

1213
01:07:41,000 --> 01:07:43,700
forever. 
Yeah, happens. 

1214
01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:48,500
And it will live on and film 
forever true and that's it. 

1215
01:07:48,600 --> 01:07:51,000
Likely. 
Thank you Mal likelihood, 

1216
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:54,000
they'll get back together. 
I'm going to put a pretty low. 

1217
01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:56,800
Yeah 2%. 
Yeah. 

1218
01:07:57,100 --> 01:08:00,400
Yeah. 
Also three percent maybe you 

1219
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:04,800
shanz is like older 8 years old 
like the couple in the notebook 

1220
01:08:04,800 --> 01:08:08,900
you know. 
Yeah it seems slim chances. 

1221
01:08:08,900 --> 01:08:12,000
Yeah that would be shocking. 
I don't think even though they 

1222
01:08:12,000 --> 01:08:14,200
got together when they were 
young I don't think it's like 

1223
01:08:14,200 --> 01:08:16,000
the movie were like they're 
pining. 

1224
01:08:16,000 --> 01:08:18,899
After like that's that's the 
thing in real life. 

1225
01:08:18,899 --> 01:08:23,800
Like sometimes that first love 
young love or whatever, like it 

1226
01:08:23,800 --> 01:08:26,800
really isn't your big love. 
Yeah. 

1227
01:08:26,899 --> 01:08:28,700
Not always. 
Wow. 

1228
01:08:28,700 --> 01:08:31,700
Well, thank you Mel. 
That is so interesting. 

1229
01:08:31,700 --> 01:08:35,000
I didn't know any of that. 
So cool. 

1230
01:08:36,300 --> 01:08:39,000
Do you want to tease next 
episode? 

1231
01:08:39,000 --> 01:08:41,899
Next bonus, are a nice. 
Bonus episode is going to be 

1232
01:08:41,899 --> 01:08:45,399
another story about marriage, 
okay? 

1233
01:08:45,500 --> 01:08:52,200
And making a long marriage work,
and it is between a Australian 

1234
01:08:52,200 --> 01:08:55,300
celebrity and the other person 
is British. 

1235
01:08:55,399 --> 01:09:00,500
Alright, so Cool in Australian 
cool. 

1236
01:09:00,500 --> 01:09:04,500
That will be on patreon next 
week and just want to say thank 

1237
01:09:04,500 --> 01:09:06,399
you so much. 
Everyone, that's listened. 

1238
01:09:07,100 --> 01:09:11,800
If you enjoy the show, we're 
told giving five star review, 

1239
01:09:11,800 --> 01:09:15,200
helps. 
Yes, please algorithm and such 

1240
01:09:15,200 --> 01:09:18,300
and if you don't enjoy it, don't
don't don't have. 

1241
01:09:18,300 --> 01:09:20,700
Don't worry about it. 
Yeah, save yourself some time. 

1242
01:09:20,700 --> 01:09:23,600
Exactly myself of coffee 
something else. 

1243
01:09:23,600 --> 01:09:26,700
Yeah, we hope you guys have a 
great week. 

1244
01:09:26,899 --> 01:09:29,700
Like whatever you're going 
through and your love life. 

1245
01:09:29,700 --> 01:09:32,399
Because you got this. 
Yeah, you got it. 

1246
01:09:32,399 --> 01:09:36,000
And you're not the first one 
mmm-hmm, and you're beautiful 

1247
01:09:36,000 --> 01:09:40,899
smart and oh, we love you. 
Guys will get back together next

1248
01:09:40,899 --> 01:09:43,399
week. 
I'll get back together next 

1249
01:09:43,899 --> 01:09:44,700
week.