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Hope you enjoy. Okay so guys, we have a royal
wedding to talk about. So it is April 29th, 2011, it's
8:00 AM and the Queen has bestowed upon William and Kate
their new titles. They both become So they become
the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge, the Earl and Countess
of Strathorn, and the Baron and Baroness of.
How do you say this, Carrickfergus?
Just don't hate me. I hope that's right.
It's. My guess is this is.
The wedding is taking place at Westminster Abbey in London in
front of 1900 guests for the ceremony.
Meanwhile, there are 600 guests invited to a lunch reception at
Buckingham Palace hosted by the Queen after the ceremony.
And then there's only 300 guests who were invited to the evening
dinner hosted by Prince Charles. So I would say like the evening
dinner is like the wedding wet. Like the reception, That's when
they dance and kind of do more of like the party stuff and just
300 people, which is a lot for a wedding, but for them it's kind
of intimate. Crazy.
There's 600 people at the lunch. That's a lot.
I know that's like. A full.
Camp of People Summer camp. But so some notable guests at
the wedding were David and Victoria Beckham, Sir Elton John
and David Furnish, Brown Atkinson who plays Mr. Bean, Guy
Ritchie. Interestingly, if you guys
listen to the last episode, William has a couple exes that
came up a couple times and three of them actually were invited to
the wedding. Jeka Craig who was the
environmentalist that he dated when he was 16 was invited.
His romance, his summer flank from when he was 18.
Rose Farquhar was invited and his summer romance from when he
was 19. Arabella Musgraves also got an
invite to the big event and he even invited.
I don't know if you guys remember but there was an
heiress who he was pursuing while him and Kate were on a
break named Isabella and Ants Reuther.
Go calathrop. She has a big name.
She even got an invite to the wedding.
But you didn't know. She did.
Oh, I mean it's the event of the century like.
I guess that's true. You know.
But Carly, the country bumpkin I know I was.
Just gonna say. I don't think so.
Or maybe she wasn't it just like didn't make the papers but.
She didn't make the cut with all this like she was the.
Best. I feel.
Like, it's crazy to invite access to the wedding, but when
it's like Westminster Abbey with all those people and they're so
far away from like where the altar is, it's like, OK, I guess
I can kind of. See why maybe they'd be invited
and it's not that big of. A.
Not that big of a problem. I think if they went to the
reception with only the like 300 people, maybe that's a little.
Different but. For the Westminster Abbey
wedding part, where it's like the wedding of the century, I
think it's I think it's fine for.
His. Exes to have gone.
Yeah, and like, at this point, he's moved on.
Yeah. You know, if I was Kate, I
wouldn't really feel threatened by an ex in the audience.
Hopefully they were in the back row like.
Really, really in the back. For them, it's probably more of
like, yeah, like you want to be at because you are British and
this is super cool to be at the royal wedding.
It doesn't happen so often. So you're not even thinking of
it as being there to see your next.
You're thinking of it as the Prince and the Princess.
But I asked you guys on Patreon very shortly before recording,
do you consider yourself close friends with any of your exes?
And by close I mean close enough to attend each other's weddings.
And 16% of you said yes that you are and 84% said no you are not.
And I got a couple responses. I hope it's OK if I read them
guys. Allison said.
I guess I wouldn't go anyway because I hate spending money on
weddings but have been invited. Which it does make me.
It does make me think of our last or a couple episodes ago,
Nina de Brev and Ian Somerhalder, how she was
invited. But The funny thing about that
listening back, Caitlin, you were like, oh, it was just a
private small wedding with just a few family and friends.
But it's like, why did Nina make the cut then for the?
Wedding, I guess because like the whole cast was invited so
that's why she kind of probably. Like the main characters at
least. Yeah, yeah.
It was like the main cast of characters were invited, like
all of them, and they all went. So that's why she kind of made
the cut. Yeah, Muna said.
I once heard a quote that stuck with me.
The older I get, the more I found it to be true.
If 2 lovers can remain friends, either they are still in love or
they never really were. I will say there are totally
exceptions to this, but if you think about it, there are some
truths to it. I love I want to repeat that
next episode. I know.
Oh, for your episode. Ooh little sneaky Yanika said.
Not close to my ex. We were together for 3 1/2 years
but very close to his little sister.
She was I think 10 when we met and she has been like a little
sister to me and I still consider her family.
We meet regularly and text almost daily but I never see my
ex and he's not really a topic that naturally comes up when we
meet or chat. Wow.
That's nice. She was.
Able to keep the friendship yeah, it's really sad when you
break up with someone and you no longer get to see their friends
or family that you might have liked so.
It's nice. And then one more response,
Heidi said. The XM friends with is someone I
dated when I was 19 to 20. I think we see, I think we see
that time together as being young and still turned just
transitioning into adulthood. Our breakup was sad but
positive. And after two years of no
contact, which no contact you know it can really be super
healing, we randomly crossed paths again and became solid
friends. Now we're close to our 30s and
both had serious relationships. Since then we are still good
friends and do stuff together because we discovered that being
great friends doesn't always translate to a great romantic
partner. Honestly consider him a friend
for life but have been a part of each other's major life events
just like any other close friend.
But the thought of being romantically involved again?
Yuck. Like emoji?
No, thank you. I think it has to be that way.
All right, I will have to stop the episode right there.
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