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Welcome to the episode of 
Husbands Watching Housewives. 

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I'm Scott. 
And I'm Joe. 

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And we just watched the season 
19 premiere 19 of The Real 

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Housewives of Orange County yes.
How is it that I know there's 

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the season number and like I 
just. 

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I know well, I was on the screen
every time we like that's. 

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True like. 
Fast forwarded or pause I. 

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Also, I also looked it up 
because I had to get the artwork

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for editing this episode 
together. 

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So like, I need a Season 19 
thing. 

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And yeah, so I got it. 
I made sure. 

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But also I thought they were 
making a big deal, that it was 

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like the 20th season. 
It's 20. 

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There's gonna. 
Yeah, yeah. 

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Weird like that it's like 20 
years but like it's only been 19

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seasons. 
I guess that's because they 

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cross years. 
Sometimes I don't know. 

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I don't. 
Oh, right. 

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Yeah, it's like 3 years. 
And they also had like had a 

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little bit of a pause with 
those. 

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I don't know. 
But it's not, it's not one of 

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the ones where I'm like, I know 
every single season because I've

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been, I've not been watching 
every single season and I'm like

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Beverly Hills or Atlanta or 
whatever. 

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True. 
Anyways, OC, excellent season 

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premiere. 
Yeah, it was a very good season 

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premiere. 
I, I was a little nervous about 

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watching this after we started 
watching Miami because Miami 

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where we don't have any sort of 
basis or any horse in the game 

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or whatever, dog in the race, 
whatever the expression is like 

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this one. 
I feel like, oh, well, we know 

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who the players are and they 
haven't changed. 

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So they're like a new, There's 
no new wife, there's no one. 

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Well, there's a new well friend.
Come along. 

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But but still like this episode 
at least and I don't even when 

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does she come in. 
I don't even know. 

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I'm glad. 
I'm glad it wasn't this episode.

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Yeah, yeah. 
But like, there's no one new, 

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there's no Alexis this season 
like right off the bat to get 

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things kicked off. 
So it's pretty much picking up 

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where we left off from last 
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So there's nothing really truly 
unexpected. 

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So I didn't know how I would 
feel like I felt like I needed 

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to be more on top of it than I 
am with Miami because Miami I 

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can just sit back and watch and 
be like, OK, this is cool. 

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All right, Alexia Dido and then 
no. 

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And Marisol said that. 
But this I feel like I should 

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have more opinions and I don't 
really. 

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No, I have thoughts. 
Yeah. 

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I feel like, like you're saying 
I feel more connected to the 

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show and to these women. 
And like, you know, one of my 

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favorites is on the show. 
And so I was more anxious about 

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like, oh, because I I care more 
about them and I know them 

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better. 
And so it just, yeah, it made 

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me, I mean, I was already like a
little anxious today in general.

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So, but like, I was like really 
excited about it. 

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I'm, you know, still like, have 
enthusiasm and yeah. 

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I just feel like because we know
who they are, we should have be 

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able to be a little bit more 
insightful about it. 

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But you know, when it comes down
to it, it's still Housewives 

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show but. 
We have insight. 

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We were talking about it a bit 
during the commercials. 

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Be insightful. 
No, we have to like, we're not 

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here to break the mold. 
It's like offering, you know, we

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know what we do. 
We offer opinions we have, you 

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know. 
Yeah, I'm not. 

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I'm not trying. 
So you know a lot. 

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You know, like you. 
Know it's like my new like calm 

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it down so. 
My MY1 take away and I I know 

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I'm be proven wrong that's why I
don't want to say it. 

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I feel really bad for Katie. 
I don't know why I feel so bad 

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like it feels like a pile on and
it just feels like I don't know 

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when when Katie explains her 
actions, at least the ones we've

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seen so far, it seems logical. 
Let like this person reached out

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to me and they said that they 
had the same experience. 

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And so like I wanted to back up 
my kid who is being attacked so 

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I directed her to the right 
place to do that. 

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But the more and more I see it 
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this episode, I just feel like 
Katie isn't she's a little too 

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stoic. 
Like she's like, it's as though 

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she knows something is that her 
behavior isn't right or that 

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she's trying just something 
doesn't feel right. 

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But at the same time, the women,
I think they're really coming 

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after her heart and with or 
without reason, I don't know. 

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Gina is definitely putting 
herself in the middle of it all 

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for I guess assuring herself 
another season. 

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I don't know, it seems a little 
early to be playing that game, 

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but like Gina's being in the 
middle of all this and I don't 

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understand why. 
Because Gina brought her on and 

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so I feel she feels responsible 
for the havoc she has. 

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Not like with the whole idea of,
you know, she's my friend. 

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They weren't like really close 
friends, but she was connected 

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to her. 
I'm so used to there, I'm so 

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used to there being that whole 
just being BS that like, oh, we 

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brought, I brought her on. 
She's my friend, no. 

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Let me finish the thought. 
She's connected to her, SO it's 

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like you were associated with 
this person. 

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It's something to do with like 
the BS of like she was my 

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friend. 
I met her and like mom and mommy

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and me. 
That's bullshit. 

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It's more so you brought this 
havoc into the friend group and 

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now I'm pissed at you. 
Especially when she started 

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saying things that oh, but 
Heather said that Katie told me 

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that you're only friends with me
because you want my real estate 

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contacts. 
So and also because Katie is 

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hurting her best friend Emily. 
Gina especially is going to get 

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involved because it Emily 
matters to her. 

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Yeah. 
So think that's why she's so 

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she's really pissed off on 
behalf of herself and also on 

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because of her best friend. 
If Katie was targeting mainly 

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Tamra, it wouldn't not the Gina 
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It just wouldn't be the same 
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But you come from her best 
friend who's going through a 

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difficult period in when you 
know with her kid, then it's 

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going to amp her out because as 
we saw in the flashbacks, Gina 

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has been there. 
So that's why I think she's so 

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fired up about it. 
My feeling is I do not like a 

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pylon. 
It's very uncomfortable to watch

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one person be singled out that 
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And I'm sure it's a possibility 
that we it will be proven that 

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she is a liar because things 
aren't adding up. 

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And it's beyond even like, you 
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Drew over here, Drew's lies as 
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But it's they're harmless, you 
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Or white lies. 
Yes, I'm I'm cousins with 

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Michael Jordan. 
Katie is spinning and spinning 

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and spinning. 
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to you. 
She's getting in over her head 

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and she's drowning and the 
spinning and the lies. 

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And I don't think she's a bad 
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I don't think it's being 
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I don't quite know her motives. 
I don't think that that's, and 

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that's it. 
It's just she's really dug 

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herself in deep. 
And I don't blame them for not 

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trusting her, you know, so, but 
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It's for me, it's just 
uncomfortable to watch. 

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And I, you know, I'm not. 
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It's just I like it. 
I feel like when Emily and Gina 

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sat down with her and I did 
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it where even Katie was like, 
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Any professional she's like what
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But Gina was right. 
Like it would have given her 

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time to prepare and everything. 
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I feel like Emily and Katie kind
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Jen's party, that was like, hey,
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So I was pissed off. 
You broke that by bringing up my

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kids at the reunion. 
I was pissed off. 

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And even Emily was like, that's 
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about doing it. 
So it seems like they're almost 

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upset with Katie for not abiding
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being a housewife. 
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peace at the finale party and 
then they started watching the 

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episodes back and things started
coming out and whatever, 

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whatever, whatever. 
And then we said it last year, 

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last year, last year, Emily came
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the things that she dug up about
her and her custody issues and 

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whatever didn't it's like it 
didn't. 

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She should have done it. 
Yeah, yes. 

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It's going so low when it has 
nothing to do with your point. 

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The point should just be you 
lied about what my boy said 

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about Heather not and why did 
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It's that tit for tat makes you 
you're bringing it down to her 

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level. 
Just if you're in the truth, I 

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always say this, live in your 
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It's just it's the truth. 
You don't need to like to dig so

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deep and ruin someone and I so 
it's two things. 

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Emily shouldn't have done that 
with Katie, but Katie shouldn't 

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have directed the nanny, the ex 
nanny to the podcast and 

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basically decided to hear let me
CC you on this e-mail. 

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You're connected. 
I agree, but I also, I don't 

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know part of me, and it's a very
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rooting for Katie in that. 
It's only that, Oh, I'm sorry, 

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I'm not housewifing the way that
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I'm housewifing my own way and 
that is by being a little extra 

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dirty in like exposing all this 
bullshit behind the scenes in an

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Internet by being real of. 
What bullshit is she really 

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exposing? 
That well, then Emily's trying 

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to hide the fact that this 
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this, that Katie's daughter 
didn't make this up, that her 

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kids did say this. 
The nanny is saying that this 

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happened. 
I think there could be reason 

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why that nanny is an ex nanny. 
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yeah. 
But I don't think it would be 

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one thing if there was bullshit 
to expose. 

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I haven't seen that, so I can't 
be on Katie's side with that. 

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I think she should have just 
left it at I was pissed. 

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So I got revenge on you by 
directing your ex nanny to a 

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podcast so she could talk 
horribly about you just be a 

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just own that. 
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As far as the Tamra stuff of I 
can, I don't know why I never 

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spoke to that person. 
I don't know their name. 

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But then I know these bloggers 
names and it's just she's too. 

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This is also a problem. 
She's too entrenched in the 

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outside of housewives. 
Yeah, yeah. 

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Working with bloggers, going on 
podcasts, what have you. 

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You just need to the show should
be the show. 

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And you adding drama and pulling
it from social media and 

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bloggers, it just gets it so 
dirty and muddled. 

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And I don't want to see that. 
I just want to say you have a 

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beef with Emily because of XYZ 
with Heather, XYZ not. 

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And then I spun some shit with a
podcaster and a Blogger and, you

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know, I got I'm Dming people. 
She's just too deep in it. 

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Yeah. 
And she's drowning herself. 

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It's it's not. 
Good. 

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She got her Housewife Season 1 
orientation from the entire cast

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of New Jersey. 
Yeah. 

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So it was directly from, yeah. 
From Jenny Jazz, yeah. 

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But no, I mean Margaret too. 
She's healthy as well there. 

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You're right. 
That's very. 

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That's a very. 
Very. 

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She's not, she's still, she's 
not housewiving, right? 

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She's just not. 
There's one thing to be said 

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about doing it your own way. 
There's another way about 

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There's another thing to be said
about doing it the dumb way, and

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she's not doing it in a smart 
way. 

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I I, I agree with you there. 
I guess what I'm trying to say, 

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though, is that like, there's a 
very nuanced difference between 

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the way Emily's talk talking 
trash and making her look bad. 

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And it's in the way that Katie's
chosen to go about it. 

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But they're both, at the end of 
the day, really low. 

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And so why, like to pick nits 
and like, make all these, you 

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know, nuances about, oh, well, 
you went low in a way that we 

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just agreed we don't go low. 
No, you went low, so I went low 

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with you. 
But anytime it involves kids, 

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like on both ends, like I said, 
it's just you just. 

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But you get what I'm saying? 
I told you what you were saying.

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Yes. 
Yeah. 

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So. 
But I can, yeah, I feel bad, but

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I'm also like, I'm feeling bad 
from a distance because I think 

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this is really going to blow up 
even further into her face. 

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OK, Bette Midler, from a 
distance. 

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From a distance. 
From a distance. 

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Katie looked like my. 
Friend, God is watching you, 

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Katie, God is watching you from 
a distance. 

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So. 
We started out, oh, it was the 

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Katie. 
Oh, it was, wasn't it? 

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It was Katie and Shannon going 
shopping. 

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Cars. 
Car. 

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I didn't understand that too. 
I have 5-6 years and I want 

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another one. 
You mean? 

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Since she had them in the past 
is what she was saying. 

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Got it. 
So she keeps getting another 

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one. 
She keeps updating it. 

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Not she has a fleet of BMW news.
I don't think so. 

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OK, I all I know is I definitely
want to make sure our next 

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dramatic like breakdown of 
what's going on in our friend's 

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life is is done at a car 
dealership like. 

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I'm sure too, She and Shannon 
probably took some pictures for 

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social media and you know, I 
they sure they like. 

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Come down to Donaldson BMW where
the housewives fight, whatever. 

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The While We're Here, I thought 
we could talk about Emily, 

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because what is that car door? 
Where I mean where they must be 

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really running out of like 
destinations to be all like, 

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hey, I'm going to get my I need 
someone to fill the air in my 

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tires. 
How about we go to the BMW 

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dealership? 
Let me call service ma'am. 

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Also to hear a grown woman be 
like, is there someone who can 

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put air in my tires? 
Like, yeah, it's called you go 

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to or go to the TikTok shop and 
get that thing that I felt 

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scandal for and. 
Is has had Earl like left her 

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life by then. 
Probably. 

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Was it Earl? 
Yeah, Earl, even still involved.

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With they visited each other and
then they just grew apart. 

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That was the the ending of Love 
Hotel. 

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What was the timing with 
relation to the filming, do you 

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know? 
Had to be before. 

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Yeah, that's right. 
Yeah. 

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I think she probably went to 
Love Hotel straight after the 

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reunion and then. 
Oh, yeah, Yeah. 

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So Earl never taught her how to 
put air in her tires. 

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Yes, I've told you this in the 
past. 

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I in high school, this girl was 
dating a friend of mine and she 

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said and she I can't do her 
voice. 

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So that like making it extra no,
even though she's not that 

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whiny, but she's like, she was 
just all like, oh, at lunch 

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today, will you teach me how to 
pump gas? 

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And I was like, are you kidding 
me? 

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Teach you how to pump gas? 
Like if we were from like Oregon

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or New Jersey, where you weren't
allowed to do that, fine. 

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We're from California, do you 
not? 

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Look. 
Oh do. 

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You not look at your parents 
when they do it, OK? 

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You go out there, you open the 
thing, you put like, it's not 

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that hard. 
Can you pump your own gas in 

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Jersey? 
Jersey was one of the states. 

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I don't know if they still can. 
I know the pandemic changed a 

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lot of that for Oregon and 
Jersey. 

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Right, I would be and it. 
Might have just been certain 

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counties in New Jersey that 
wouldn't allow you to do it. 

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I don't remember the details, 
but yeah, it was always a trick 

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going to Oregon for work where I
was like, oh, right. 

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I I'd be wait, I'd be late for 
the airport and like I gotta 

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wait for this guy to pump my 
gas. 

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I feel like, yeah, I've seen 
that before. 

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Maybe when we were in Portland, 
yeah, way back when, 2018. 

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Yeah, they definitely had to 
pump our gas then. 

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But anyway, yeah, not knowing to
put air in your tires, MRR, I 

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mean, not had put the right 
amount of air, that's excusable,

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but you should at least be able 
to put air in your tires. 

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It's pretty standard ugly. 
So. 

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Speaking of air, Gina connected 
with the wind. 

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What was that even did? 
She paint with all her colors of

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the she may. 
Have that. 

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She liked the wind. 
Did. 

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Was she blowing kisses in the 
wind? 

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So many winds. 
So where did she connect with 

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the wind she would abolish? 
She went to Bali. 

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Why? 
Did she abolish? 

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Probably to think and you know, 
she was in turmoil last season. 

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I'm not making fun of it because
there was a lot of shit going 

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down with traps. 
His ex making them past it but 

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now OK. 
Did you and I both not gasp? 

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We let out the gayest gasp ever 
when we were like, and then we 

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decided to move back in 
together. 

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We're not going to go. 
What do you mean? 

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Yeah, like after everything you 
put us through last season. 

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You put us through. 
You had to get away. 

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You had to separate for your 
children because of the toxicity

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of Travis's ex so that you 
couldn't be together or live 

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together, and now you're living 
together. 

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And you renovated your kids room
to give them more space and then

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you move them. 
And then you left. 

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I know you're a real estate 
agent, but come on. 

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I mean, I actually. 
I like eat the backsplash in her

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ass. 
Very. 

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Nice. 
Yeah, it was very nice. 

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I have to say I'm very happy for
her. 

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I do think that the conclusion 
she came to was a very natural 

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and at least in my mind, natural
an adult. 

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Like I shouldn't be sacrificing 
my own happiness because of this

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other person's. 
Right. 

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She could. 
I could lose Travis and it's not

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worth it. 
But on the other hand, that X is

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always going to be in their 
lives because of the children. 

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Until they're 18, I mean. 
This is a restraining order we 

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don't know about but. 
I'm sure other stuff will come 

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out, yeah. 
Yeah, but no, I mean, I'm very 

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happy for them, even though in 
Paris is kind of boring. 

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But maybe he'll be more 
exciting. 

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I. 
Mean he's. 

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Not that I need him to be 
exciting. 

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No, no, he just needs to be 
reliable and and come in and and

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then run his finger. 
Across the the counter. 

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And I'm masculine, a very 
masculine mask. 

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Totes mask. 
Totes mask. 

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Totes mask. 
So I mean, that's really what 

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was going on with Gina other 
than, you know, being the center

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of. 
Like the Katy? 

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The diplomat or trying to she. 
Was in the center where she 

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definitely was like she was the 
she was a moderator. 

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And all these things. 
She was the Whitney. 

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She. 
Was in the center of the circle 

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jerk trying to make all these 
things happen. 

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Let me tell. 
You I know now she was the 

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Whitney, she of the narrating, 
the whole Katy stuff and my baby

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Whitney, I mean Whitney from 
Salt Lake, which is coming back.

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Mormon wives, Yes. 
Yeah, that was that was OK. 

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Bravo. 
Thank you for letting us know. 

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It's coming back. 
But you could have put in at 

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least a a bit more effort just 
to show a little budding flower 

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coming out of this. 
Well, there are. 7 if you notice

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them because seven house was. 
Oh, I didn't notice that. 

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Interesting. 
Yeah, you were paying way too 

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much attention. 
Someone was pointing it out on 

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Instagram. 
You here, I thought you were 

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just being more observant than 
me. 

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It was really that hot up here, 
did you? 

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You're like, oh, it's not that 
hot downstairs. 

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The air conditioning is like 
Arctic. 

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We came upstairs. 
It is enough enough here. 

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It's not, I mean, it's just the,
the air is not moving. 

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What were we saying? 
Who knows? 

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We're done with Gina. 
Gina, we're talking about 

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Heather. 
No, but we can talk about 

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Heather. 
I mean, Heather, basically, we 

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found out that the house that 
was going to make her a Real 

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Housewife of Beverly Hills was 
going to take too long to 

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renovate and they might as well 
just give it up now and. 

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It seems your storyline is 
renovations and houses and and 

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not being in OC unless she's 
working. 

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Yeah, yeah, that sucks what they
did to the house. 

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Like to them, I mean, that's 
probably a tactic that's way 

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more prevalent out there is, oh,
we'll go ahead and demolish 

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everything and then be like, oh,
we're over budget. 

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And you're stuck with us now 
because why would you want to 

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change? 
You know, Right. 

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Well, do they know the rows were
like, we just leave this. 

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Yeah. 
But like, who? 

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Who's gonna buy that? 
I guess someone who wants a 

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deal. 
And someone who wants a complete

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renovation and comes in with 
their own person and. 

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You know, yes. 
Because they basically stripped 

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it down. 
Now they just have to build it 

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up. 
So that's true. 

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That's. 
They probably ran all along, but

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00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:09,840
yeah, that was seems to be 
Heather's only real. 

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00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:15,240
Right. 
So Emily's story is, it's sad 

398
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for sure with her son. 
Yeah, sad's not the right word. 

399
00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:21,520
I mean, it's definitely. 
It's sad for her as a mom. 

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Yeah. 
I felt for her when she was 

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crying to Gina and, you know, 
just feeling like you're not 

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doing what you can to protect 
your child in this case, being 

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like making sure they're eating 
and having nutrition. 

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And you know, it's just, it's, 
I'm sure it must be tough. 

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00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:40,320
Oh no, I'm sure. 
I think why I'm saying is like 

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sad is like there's there's like
there would be nothing they're 

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they're doing about it. 
Like they're definitely. 

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00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:47,440
Right, right. 
They're being, they're being, 

409
00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:49,440
yes, yeah. 
But we see trailer, though, that

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she and Shane are at odds. 
Even in this one scene, he was 

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like, oh, it's all mental. 
Like he's came to snap out of it

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and start eating. 
That's always the worst when 

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someone just all like, oh, it's 
all up here. 

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It's. 
Yeah, if that that's right, 

415
00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:05,680
that's why it's an issue is that
it's all up here. 

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00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:08,000
We need to, you know, do 
something about. 

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00:21:08,360 --> 00:21:10,680
That well, but he is, you know, 
he's Mormon at the end of the 

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day, so. 
I don't know what that has to do

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with it. 
I mean, I'm sure. 

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Sometimes we like, you know, 
just like it's. 

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Let God take care of it. 
Or yeah, it's like it's mind 

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over math. 
Sorry. 

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You want to get these? 
Not heavily. 

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I'm gonna. 
Get these golden tablets, 

425
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they'll tell us what to do. 
Put on my undergarments. 

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00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:33,920
Let's let's see, let's see what 
Demi has to say about it from. 

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From Disney World, Disneyland. 
From Disneyland. 

428
00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:40,000
Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, I was like
from Mormon wise. 

429
00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:43,840
Oh yeah, she was at Disneyland. 
No, it is, it is very, it's a 

430
00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:46,040
very unfortunate and it's, you 
know, it's. 

431
00:21:46,120 --> 00:21:47,520
I've never heard of the 
disorder. 

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00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:50,640
You know, that's, I wonder how 
prevalent it is and. 

433
00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:53,360
Well, what's interesting when 
she later on said that like that

434
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goes hand in hand often with 
being on the autism, autism 

435
00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:59,280
spectrum. 
Which I totally was like oh that

436
00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:01,040
makes sense. 
It does especially, you know, 

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00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:04,120
because you always hear about 
people, you know, being very 

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00:22:04,120 --> 00:22:08,840
sensitive to sound or smell or 
taste and and then you find out 

439
00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:11,120
like, Oh well, he never or 
texture, you know, So that's 

440
00:22:11,120 --> 00:22:13,280
thing is like, oh, well, that 
would make me really dislike 

441
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food right away. 
Like if I was very particular 

442
00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:18,240
about a certain smell or taste 
or texture, like I'm not putting

443
00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:19,680
that in my mouth. 
Get that away, you know. 

444
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So you're like, you have too 
much smell like too like walking

445
00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:25,280
into a restaurant probably would
be hard for him because it's 

446
00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:27,560
like so much food smells at 
once. 

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I often, you know, because 
you're somewhat of a picky eater

448
00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:34,880
or you have been known to be 1. 
I often, when I first started 

449
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,640
dating you, I was just very much
like, oh, God, I wasn't like, 

450
00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:40,240
like, rolling my eyes, but I was
like, he's exaggerating, blah, 

451
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:42,440
blah, blah. 
But now I do feel like a lot of 

452
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:44,480
it is related to your sense of 
smell. 

453
00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:46,880
Yeah. 
Because like, you can smell like

454
00:22:47,120 --> 00:22:50,080
rotting chicken a mile away and 
be like, you're like, well, 

455
00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:53,240
it'll be an empty chicken 
container in the garage, and 

456
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:55,280
you'll be in the house and be 
like, if something smells bad, 

457
00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:58,440
like, what the Hell's going on? 
So I definitely think for you 

458
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:02,000
that, like smell and and then 
for anyone, smell and taste go 

459
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:03,560
hand in hand. 
But I think you have an acute 

460
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,840
sense of smell. 
So that makes it so that like 

461
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,080
you don't necessarily want to 
eat things that other people 

462
00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:10,760
would, right. 
So I imagine if that was 100 

463
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:15,560
times or X times more powerful 
for whatever reason, that you'd 

464
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:17,440
definitely be like, yeah, white 
rice, please. 

465
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:20,640
Yeah. 
Maybe a little bit of soy sauce,

466
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:22,920
yeah. 
Yeah, but imagine if soy sauce 

467
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:25,640
made you nauseous or really set 
you off. 

468
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:28,040
So no, it's it's unfortunate and
I'm, I know we're 

469
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:32,360
oversimplifying and apologies to
anyone who's who is really 

470
00:23:32,360 --> 00:23:33,600
dealing with us. 
We're not trying to be 

471
00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:38,840
insensitive, but like trying to 
wrap our, you know, non right 

472
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:41,600
disordered brains around. 
Yeah, it's, it's interesting for

473
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:43,920
sure. 
And to see that that Gina had a 

474
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:46,520
similar experience with her 
child and it's just it's, you 

475
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:51,120
know, tough raising kids in the 
way to do the best for them, I'm

476
00:23:51,120 --> 00:23:53,200
sure. 
And then something's out of your

477
00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:55,280
control. 
You can't easily fix it. 

478
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:58,240
That must be really rough. 
One thing I thought they're 

479
00:23:58,240 --> 00:23:59,880
twins, right? 
Yes. 

480
00:23:59,920 --> 00:24:01,760
So that was something that I was
thinking about it. 

481
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:04,520
I had mentioned it while we're 
watching, but like, it must also

482
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:08,360
be interesting to have twins and
they seem to be identical twins.

483
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:12,360
They seem to be so yeah, it's. 
One of those things where like 

484
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:16,120
you'd, and I know this isn't 
true again, but like you'd, it's

485
00:24:16,120 --> 00:24:19,280
one of those case studies I'm 
sure where it's like what causes

486
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:22,400
1 twin to develop one thing and 
not the other. 

487
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,720
And I know there's biological 
differences perhaps. 

488
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,240
Not exact. 
Exactly. 

489
00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:30,520
So it's just interesting and I 
think that must also weigh on 

490
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:34,080
her as well as like, well, 
everything's fine with him. 

491
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,360
So what's what happened over 
here? 

492
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:38,760
Just must amplify it even more 
and. 

493
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:42,520
You go to like a what did I do 
or what didn't I do scenario and

494
00:24:43,120 --> 00:24:44,400
yes. 
There's like, oh, I must have 

495
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:46,960
dropped him on his head when he 
was, you know, just stupid 

496
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:50,440
things like that that really 
probably don't have any relation

497
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:52,560
to do with, you know what, 
what's causing this. 

498
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:57,960
So, yeah, it's sad, but they're 
going to go into it more and 

499
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,120
we're going to learn a lot I'm 
I'm sure. 

500
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:03,280
But you're right. 
Seth was being very, not very 

501
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:04,320
dismissive. 
That's Seth. 

502
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:06,680
Shane. 
Shane being just you, you had to

503
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:08,040
think about it. 
For the idea was like, that's 

504
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,400
not exactly the stuff. 
Around slave, Yeah, yeah. 

505
00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:15,120
He was being like, this is 
easily fixed and we just got to 

506
00:25:15,120 --> 00:25:18,320
like, you know, eat the wheat 
beans and I or paid him 20 bucks

507
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:21,760
to like eat this burnt crap. 
And, you know, I don't think 

508
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:24,160
he's taking it as seriously as 
she is. 

509
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:27,600
But he could also just be trying
to be reassuring and like, you 

510
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:30,440
know, hey, it's not as big of a 
deal and maybe it turns out that

511
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,080
it is. 
Maybe he comes around, but maybe

512
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:33,520
takes a lot to get him to come 
around. 

513
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:35,520
Well, she's saying in the People
magazine using an article that 

514
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:39,840
they had to go into therapy, you
know, the maybe both she and she

515
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:43,040
and the entire family. 
So it's definitely we'll see 

516
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:45,960
that play out so. 
Speaking of seeing therapy. 

517
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:48,040
Oh wow, I just like, stepped 
right into that. 

518
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,640
I really just did. 
Our girl Tam. 

519
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:52,080
No, our girl Tam. 
Yeah. 

520
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:54,080
The thing that's the hardest 
about watching this is that 

521
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:59,800
because we listen to two TS in a
pod and we are fans of the of 

522
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:03,280
the pod, we were listening when 
it happened and we were kind of 

523
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:06,120
part, not part of it. 
Like we we knew this in real 

524
00:26:06,120 --> 00:26:06,600
time. 
I. 

525
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:09,640
Really remember our reaction to 
that where we just like, I know 

526
00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:13,000
we were driving to work. 
Well, we'd, we'd heard about it 

527
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:15,440
and so we saw it on like Tik 
Toker and social media that 

528
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:17,280
morning that people were coming 
for her. 

529
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:20,680
So we listened to that. 
Episode like what her? 

530
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,360
What, what, what the big deal 
was. 

531
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:25,800
And yeah, she stepped in it. 
But the thing that I feel worse 

532
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:29,240
about is that I feel like in the
time since that happened, you 

533
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:33,040
know, since this is all filmed, 
she's kind of been through it 

534
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:35,920
and she's kind of answered what 
needed to be answered. 

535
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:38,960
And now this being. 
Now it's really starting from 

536
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:41,840
scratch again. 
I remember that time when Tamara

537
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:45,120
she was on the spectrum and 
everyone hated her and people 

538
00:26:45,120 --> 00:26:49,320
were on the spectrum like lost 
their their shit on her and. 

539
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,400
And so there's a whole number, a
whole new pool of people that 

540
00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:54,040
are who didn't know about this 
because. 

541
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:55,520
They're not going to get your 
social media. 

542
00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:57,320
Yes, yeah. 
And then on top of that, there's

543
00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:59,920
going to be people that are just
Tamara haters to begin with or 

544
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:01,800
use an opportunity to be like. 
Yeah. 

545
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:04,520
Oh, Tamara. 
It's so. 

546
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,840
It's so, it's so. 
It's like, it's like calling 

547
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:11,520
Kyle vile, like you're not. 
It was clever the first time. 

548
00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:14,960
Now it's not anymore. 
Yeah, but we still enjoy it when

549
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:17,360
people call call them tree 
stumps. 

550
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:22,320
Well, that was just, I mean, 
yes, that was a classic 

551
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:23,200
Margaret. 
Yeah. 

552
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:27,160
My thing with and looking at 
her, you know, as much as I like

553
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:30,960
Tamra, I think the good thing is
that she's in therapy and she 

554
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:33,120
realizes there's a problem. 
She's trying to fix it. 

555
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:37,600
My one thing, and I hope this 
improves is that she just takes 

556
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:40,000
and she's going to hate this 
Teddy. 

557
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:43,960
She's going to hate this like 
she's listening to this take 

558
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,560
more accountability. 
Like, yes, these bad things 

559
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:51,520
happen to you, whether it be 
Simon or your daughter or other 

560
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:56,320
people coming on the show really
to attack you, but you control 

561
00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:58,560
all you can control is your 
reaction. 

562
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:02,200
And when your reactions come so 
hard, you have to be able to say

563
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:06,360
like, I was wrong for that. 
Like she did it on the they 

564
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:08,120
were. 
I was listening to them recap 

565
00:28:08,120 --> 00:28:12,240
the valley and she was saying 
they're talking about Janet and 

566
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:13,720
saying that, you know, she's 
like, I've been there. 

567
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,600
You know, I've been playing in 
the villain and trying to move a

568
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:19,440
story and there are times I just
did things just to move story 

569
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:22,760
and I acknowledge it and, you 
know, apologize for it. 

570
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:28,680
And that wasn't right. 
And so she needs to can continue

571
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:33,280
to do that, acknowledge like her
part in this and how she is 

572
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:36,880
reacting to someone coming at 
her or to these difficulties in 

573
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:38,800
her life. 
You know, it's, it's good 

574
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:44,400
because it explains so explains 
a lot of who she is and not 

575
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:46,720
trusting people thinking they're
going to leave her or turn on 

576
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:48,720
her. 
But you also have to be like, 

577
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:52,560
but I didn't react well. 
And now I'm learning how to and,

578
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,360
and, and, and the first step is 
being in therapy. 

579
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,040
And she's been there for a few 
months. 

580
00:28:57,040 --> 00:29:00,560
And so, you know, there was, and
I'm sure it was a much longer 

581
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:01,840
session. 
We didn't get everything. 

582
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:05,200
Yeah. 
So maybe she did say more things

583
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,360
than I remember. 
The therapist is the therapist 

584
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:10,320
is like, but what could you have
done better? 

585
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:13,240
You know, like Erica's 
therapist, like she really will 

586
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:16,920
say point out. 
Yeah, but you know, what about 

587
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:18,760
you? 
Like what are you doing to 

588
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:22,520
rectify this? 
What I'm more what I'm worried 

589
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:29,560
about is that two things like I 
tend to I believe that Tamara's 

590
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:31,600
genuinely. 
Going totally. 

591
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,840
Totally. 
Like it would be the weirdest 

592
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:37,280
long game. 
Like when we were offseason, I 

593
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:39,320
started doing a therapy and 
talking about my podcast so that

594
00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:40,920
when we started filming again, 
dah dah dah dah dah. 

595
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:44,040
Like plant of the seeds, Yeah. 
Say what you will about all 

596
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:47,320
these, you know, you know, 
machinations that people think 

597
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:50,240
housewives do. 
No one is that smart. 

598
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:52,320
No to. 
Be like I'm going to start doing

599
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:54,320
this. 
I mean, unless she has like APR 

600
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:56,120
team or something but who's 
going to do? 

601
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:57,480
I don't believe that for a 
minute. 

602
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:02,040
So I, I, I worry that people are
going to be coming for her over 

603
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,720
genuinely trying to deal with 
her shit. 

604
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:09,320
Yes, and then prove herself. 
Yes, and and adding you know who

605
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:11,560
in a bit will only compound 
that. 

606
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:13,920
Right, which doesn't make it any
better. 

607
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:19,400
But that being said, I agree 
with you that she's just, she's 

608
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:23,720
not just she's putting a lot on.
I'm in therapy and it's like, 

609
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,720
OK, that's good that you're in 
therapy, but you. 

610
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:31,560
Can't if you learn from therapy 
and what do you need to let go 

611
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:34,480
of? 
Like like letting go of how 

612
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:38,400
deeply hurt you were by Simon or
by your daughter, etcetera, 

613
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:40,040
etcetera. 
Not that I've ever been in 

614
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:41,560
therapy. 
Sam. 

615
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:44,840
So I probably am talking, well, 
I'm definitely talking out my 

616
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:48,440
ass, but I feel like sometimes 
people who are in therapy, it's 

617
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:50,360
it's like they're like rich 
people. 

618
00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:53,800
It's like wealth whispers if 
you're in therapy and it's 

619
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,560
actually working, you don't need
to talk about it. 

620
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:58,640
It should be soft. 
Like everybody, Yeah. 

621
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:00,680
Like I don't need. 
It's like you're not vegan, 

622
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,040
you're not in Barrys Boot camp, 
you're not doing CrossFit. 

623
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:04,680
I don't need to hear about it 
every time. 

624
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,960
So like, if it's really working,
I'm not saying keep it to 

625
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:09,480
yourself, we're happy to hear 
about it. 

626
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:11,840
Let's share about it. 
But it doesn't need to be your 

627
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:16,080
entire storyline, so to speak. 
And I am worrying that this 

628
00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:18,880
entire season is going to be, 
well, I'm in therapy and it's 

629
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:20,640
like. 
Well, but it's going to be other

630
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,520
stuff when you know, once. 
Gretchen gets. 

631
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:24,240
There exactly. 
And then also fighting you. 

632
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,760
Won't even say her name. 
I'll say her name. 

633
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:33,520
She's right there. 
Her face is just the work she's 

634
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:37,160
done like in the makeup she has 
like in this clips I've seen so 

635
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:39,440
far. 
I'm just like it just seems 

636
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:45,480
puppity and and not in a not. 
In a good Madam way, not a good 

637
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:48,000
Madam other other gay way. 
Way no. 

638
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,600
So see our TikTok for that. 
If you're wondering what I'm 

639
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:52,440
talking about, yeah. 
So anyway. 

640
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:56,600
So, yeah, so I, I looking 
forward to see where this goes 

641
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,840
with Tamra. 
And Speaking of Tamra, who like 

642
00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:05,240
can't exist without Tamra 
freaking Jen, yes, like I love 

643
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:07,880
when the editors were like put 
like an image of Tamron. 

644
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:13,160
Jen cannot talk about anything 
except for like screwing Ryan, 

645
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:17,800
their wedding, how much sex they
have, and then Tamra and how 

646
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:21,320
Tamra's come after them and 
they're her targets and then. 

647
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:26,640
Just to make again making 
another housewife your soul, 

648
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:28,080
kind of. 
Your reason? 

649
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:31,920
Reason to be on the show just 
like and maybe it won't stay 

650
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:35,320
that way all season, but seeing 
how she probably pairs up with 

651
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:38,160
Gretchen. 
She okay, so everyone he was 

652
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:42,800
saying last year that Tamara 
brought Alexis on to her Shannon

653
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:46,360
one, let's reiterate people 
let's go back. 

654
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:49,760
They were already talking to 
Alexis before she started dating

655
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:52,640
John Jansen. 
It worked out well for them that

656
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:56,040
she did start dating John 
Jansen, but it wasn't Tamra 

657
00:32:56,200 --> 00:33:00,640
executing a move to try to hurt 
Shannon period. 

658
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:05,200
Meanwhile, on the flip side, 
Jen, as she said in the in the 

659
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:07,360
trailer, sent an SOS to 
Gretchen. 

660
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:12,760
Oh my God, Tamra help and 
Gretchen like saw the the bat 

661
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:18,400
signal and like come came 
running cause here's the I say 

662
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:22,600
here's the thing a lot why 
hasn't Gretchen come back until 

663
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:25,560
now? 
Production didn't want her. 

664
00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:29,960
Where was Gretchen when Tamara 
wasn't on the show? 

665
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:32,440
Why wasn't Gretchen brought back
then? 

666
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:38,960
Because Gretchen without Tamara,
nothing happening so. 

667
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:41,640
Yeah, I can see that. 
Yeah, and Jen making her whole 

668
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:43,640
story about like, how Tamara's 
hurt her. 

669
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:45,960
Lame. 
What else are you doing? 

670
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:48,000
Are you gonna open that yoga 
studio again? 

671
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:50,080
Are you? 
Have you paid back your your 

672
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,280
debts like? 
Yeah. 

673
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:53,840
Are you getting married in a 
bikini? 

674
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:56,160
Oh, that's so fascinating. 
Like she is. 

675
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:59,440
So she is as dull as she is 
pretty. 

676
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:02,520
I guess you're calling. 
You're very pretty then. 

677
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:06,760
She's very pretty but very dull.
Way too tan calm down on the 

678
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:11,360
Tanner girl the. 
Thing that I'm I guess I don't I

679
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:14,639
don't want to fault Jen yet 
because I think you're right. 

680
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:17,520
I I want to say like, Oh well, 
her wedding will be part of her 

681
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:20,719
storyline, you know, fine. 
But I think that she will be 

682
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:23,480
embroiled in the midst of a lot 
of the interpersonal drama with 

683
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:26,000
the other women, which is 
something I'm always asking for.

684
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:29,360
I'm always saying like, I'd 
rather have housewives be part 

685
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:31,960
of the drama with each other 
than to be out there on their 

686
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:34,000
own. 
So as long as she doesn't remain

687
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:39,040
A1 Tamer pony, I'll be fine. 
Like if she can move on and like

688
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:43,639
be part of the drama with 
others, cool, I'm into it. 

689
00:34:43,639 --> 00:34:47,480
But if it does end up being all 
in service of like, you know, 

690
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:51,159
Oh, I showed you Tamara then. 
You're not showing me anything, 

691
00:34:51,159 --> 00:34:52,960
girl. 
Also, I think she's going to 

692
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:55,920
drop Katie hard. 
Seems like she already has. 

693
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:57,280
Yeah. 
The fact that she's like, well, 

694
00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:59,600
I don't remember saying. 
How do you not remember calling 

695
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:01,240
someone to call an artist? 
Yeah. 

696
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:05,880
How do you not remember that if?
You are so like, Oh well, like I

697
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:07,720
don't. 
I remember saying that and then 

698
00:35:07,720 --> 00:35:11,920
you just went along with saying 
it like, you know, like I. 

699
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,600
You were talking some shit. 
I yeah, I know. 

700
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:16,480
Yeah. 
It's like in Real Housewives of 

701
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:17,800
New York. 
Like we were out on the patio 

702
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:21,280
talking shit about each other. 
I probably. 

703
00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:25,560
That's The thing is again, even 
if I'm like in a like torrent of

704
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:29,200
like trash talking about a 
friend, if called on it, I'm 

705
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:31,320
like, well, I don't remember 
saying that specifically, but I 

706
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:34,160
probably did like. 
But con artist is so strong. 

707
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:36,800
It's not like, oh, I didn't like
her dress or I think she which 

708
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:41,360
that was bitchy con artist. 
Yeah, yeah, it's a really hard 

709
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:42,960
label to put on somebody. 
Yeah. 

710
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:44,800
So if we're to not remember 
that, it's like. 

711
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:48,440
And the reason you would call 
someone that, you'd have to have

712
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:51,400
some backup to that. 
It's not just like, oh, then she

713
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:53,560
cut me off in traffic one day. 
She's a con artist. 

714
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:57,040
It's like, no, there's a reason 
you would call someone a con 

715
00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:59,040
artist. 
So, yeah, you're right. 

716
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:02,080
She's so, so, so flaky. 
So flaky. 

717
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:03,520
Yeah. 
I don't. 

718
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:06,000
I don't. 
I don't get her. 

719
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:09,280
And also what she said about 
Katie of saying that. 

720
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:13,280
What? 
Basically saying that Katie says

721
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:17,160
a lot of bullshit but she lets 
it go because they're friends. 

722
00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:19,600
That's just really weird, you 
know? 

723
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,600
Like, I accept it. 
I know she's probably lying, but

724
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:24,640
you know. 
One thing I noticed she. 

725
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:27,120
Bought me a coffee. 
One thing I noticed when they 

726
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:32,800
went to Shannons rehab, I mean 
Shannon Spa, was that a lot of 

727
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:34,640
them hadn't seen each other 
since filming. 

728
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:38,200
Yeah. 
And so I think that very, it 

729
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:41,200
kind of drove home to me a 
little bit like, oh, I let a lot

730
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:44,480
of stuff go because we haven't 
seen each other and she's my 

731
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:48,080
only ally on the show other than
maybe Shannon. 

732
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:52,120
But Shannon seems to drop them 
both pretty quick it seems. 

733
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:57,720
I think Shannon, like they, they
did social media for Bravo, they

734
00:36:57,720 --> 00:36:59,680
paired them up and Shannon and 
Jen together. 

735
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:01,600
So I think they're cool. 
It's like Katie, who was by 

736
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:03,040
herself and Gretchen was by 
herself. 

737
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:06,600
Got it. 
So yeah, I just think John's 

738
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:11,680
gonna go with the popular team 
and I don't think she has a lot 

739
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:13,040
of loyalty. 
Well. 

740
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:15,920
I mean, she doesn't necessarily 
need to either. 

741
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:19,200
I mean, yeah. 
And then to be acting all like, 

742
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:22,480
you know, shocked that, you 
know, I thought Tamara and I 

743
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:23,480
were friends. 
Like did you? 

744
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:27,080
OK, and this whole story I do 
not believe this for a second 

745
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:30,600
that Tamara was like I was at at
Brian's talking about like 

746
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:34,680
screwing him or like she was 
showing him her her boobs like I

747
00:37:34,720 --> 00:37:37,520
just. 
I believe that a form of that 

748
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:39,960
may have happened where it was 
just like it wasn't even 

749
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:42,480
flirting. 
Or maybe just joking. 

750
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:46,920
I just don't believe Jen. 
Oh, believe Jen. 

751
00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:48,920
I believe women, but I don't 
believe Jen all. 

752
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:51,960
Right. 
Fair. 

753
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:54,880
No, I mean, I think there's a 
shred of truth to it. 

754
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:57,280
Like, I don't think Jen would 
just make that up. 

755
00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:01,160
Ryan would have he told her 
we've said this before, like 

756
00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:06,400
true she I'm sure Ryan just like
the other day on Miami when like

757
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:09,880
Jodie interrupted Lisa's 
confessional. 

758
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:13,480
I'm sure Ryan is sitting off to 
the side be like hey baby bitch 

759
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:14,920
to that. 
Hey babe, don't forget about 

760
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:16,800
that. 
Yeah, like Ryan's taking the 

761
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:20,160
notes for her too, so she can 
regurgitate it in her 

762
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:21,800
confession. 
No, they were talking about it 

763
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:23,800
on 2 TS. 
Some people are not good at 

764
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:27,760
confessionals and they use like 
their glam or friends or 

765
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:31,160
whatever like sitting there to 
give them stuff to. 

766
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,280
Remind them. 
Or just to, like, give them, 

767
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,280
like, witty comebacks. 
Yeah, yeah. 

768
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:39,360
I was telling Jeff that when we 
first started the podcast, I, 

769
00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:41,560
when we were watching the show 
earlier, we first started the 

770
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:44,240
podcast, I, we wouldn't share 
our thoughts that when we came 

771
00:38:44,240 --> 00:38:47,520
upstairs that it'd be like fresh
and we go, let me go. 

772
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:51,960
But then after we've done 100, 
well, this is our 56th episode 

773
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:53,560
of our second year. 
OK. 

774
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:55,880
So I think we have like 190. 
We're going to be here our 2nd 

775
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:57,560
200th episodes. 
And we should. 

776
00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:59,120
Get a cake and we should get a 
cake. 

777
00:39:00,240 --> 00:39:03,400
I don't remember all the stuff. 
So like I find if we talk about 

778
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:06,240
a little bit before, oh right, I
remember that. 

779
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:08,640
Yeah, it doesn't like, you know,
ruin. 

780
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:11,720
No, it doesn't ruin anything. 
It makes me wonder though that 

781
00:39:11,720 --> 00:39:14,000
like, maybe he's just there 
reminding her. 

782
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:16,000
Like, yeah, remember. 
Reminding her. 

783
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:17,880
Again, if we. 
Puppeting her. 

784
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:20,720
We're not going to say that like
there's this brilliant 

785
00:39:20,720 --> 00:39:24,360
machination of like manipulation
of, you know, oh, I have a 

786
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:27,440
storyline I'm going to work on. 
Ryan isn't going to be smart 

787
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:31,320
enough to be like. 
Brian far enough or he's smarter

788
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:35,080
than. 
Don't say it. 

789
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:36,600
Don't say you're going to get us
in trouble. 

790
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:40,160
Yeah, I would say I think Jen is
easily LED. 

791
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:42,520
That's what I'm saying. 
True. 

792
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:46,920
Whether it be Ryan or Gretchen 
or the mailman, I think it's 

793
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:50,600
just yeah. 
I mean, yeah, she didn't she 

794
00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:52,360
live in Utah, If we've seen 
things. 

795
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:54,920
The Mormon wives. 
No, I mean I'm serious. 

796
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:56,680
Well, it's her nothing. 
Easily. 

797
00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:59,120
I think she said like her 
husband was pretty control. 

798
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:01,120
Yeah, I can't. 
It's at all. 

799
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:04,320
No, and I really don't mean that
any like knock on Jen. 

800
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:07,800
I'm just saying that like, you 
know, it it, it if you're in a 

801
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:10,280
marriage and someone just takes 
care of everything, like she 

802
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:13,080
didn't know how to pay bills. 
And right, she didn't have like 

803
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:16,320
a checkbook or yeah, yeah it. 
Makes sense that there could be 

804
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:17,880
like, oh, I just do whatever he 
tells. 

805
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:20,400
Not whatever he tells me, but 
like he's mentioned it. 

806
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:21,920
Yeah, that makes sense. 
I'll go go with. 

807
00:40:22,240 --> 00:40:24,400
That so it's funny because 
again, she had so much more 

808
00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:28,840
story with all of that in the 
fallout from because last year 

809
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:30,840
was her second season, right? 
Yes. 

810
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:34,880
Yeah, she had more to talk about
and trying to figure her stuff 

811
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:38,760
out and the bills and, you know,
the whole stuff with Gina and 

812
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:42,760
the house and and all that and 
being evicted and so and. 

813
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:45,320
Now she was and Katie. 
Exactly. 

814
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:47,720
Sorry, I didn't mean to cut you.
Off No, that's the. 

815
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:52,880
That's OK, we got to that point.
Sorry, I've been cutting an 

816
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:54,320
awful lot, but I know I'm 
really. 

817
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:57,320
Oh, in the beginning I was when 
I was trying to make that point 

818
00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:58,880
about Katie. 
And yes, I was. 

819
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,880
That's why I said listen to my 
point, all that my furniture. 

820
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:03,920
But no, that was totally fine. 
You see, when I married two 

821
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:05,960
people, Oh my. 
He's so. 

822
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:07,520
He's so. 
Controlled. 

823
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:09,560
He's just like, he's just like 
Ryan. 

824
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:15,160
Disgusting. 
She did a disgusting tonight. 

825
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:16,480
That's. 
So disgusting. 

826
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:18,960
Would you rather? 
Would you rather? 

827
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:23,320
Would you rather have Ryan in 
his underwear or Terry Dubrow in

828
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:25,960
his underwear? 
Terry Dubrow and they would say 

829
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,840
like Jesse from Valley in his 
tripping chores. 

830
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:32,880
That's a hard one because I just
think I'd rather have Ryan over 

831
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:35,640
this droopy drawer. 
I'd take Jesse over Ryan. 

832
00:41:35,720 --> 00:41:39,680
Ryan has a lot of face. 
Ryan's face is what ruins it. 

833
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:42,720
For me, it's extreme face. 
Yeah, and. 

834
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:46,360
It's very Yeah, it's, it's, it's
he's got beady eyes. 

835
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:48,600
It's. 
It's a little reptilian. 

836
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:52,080
That's get out of my head. 
The word I was the same. 

837
00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:54,960
How does me too mean? 
No, no, I'm not saying he's a 

838
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:58,160
horrible looking person. 
I'm just saying I don't think 

839
00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:00,280
that Tamara was trying to get 
with that. 

840
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:04,440
Well, but if you believe all 
these rumors that they're 

841
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:08,040
swingers and like and. 
One of those rumors come out 

842
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:11,720
when what's her name joins the 
show and they tried to say that 

843
00:42:11,720 --> 00:42:13,360
Tamara was having an affair. 
Yeah. 

844
00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:15,880
That's true. 
Again, coming in, she hasn't 

845
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:19,120
gotten here and I'm already like
smack talking this chick. 

846
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,640
Or so Shannon. 
Yes. 

847
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:25,440
Her daughter's cat has a beret 
done. 

848
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:33,240
As you start a large cat, yes, 
her daughters are in various 

849
00:42:33,240 --> 00:42:35,640
places. 
He settled her case with John. 

850
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:38,320
Jansen what you knew that after 
after the reunion, the. 

851
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:42,880
Writing that I paid for girl. 
Also, if you think you're gonna 

852
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:45,320
stick to a $16,000 bushes, 
you're crazy. 

853
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:49,680
Do you know Alexis? 
Although I can't imagine, I 

854
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:52,840
don't know. 
They're not gonna go like super 

855
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:56,560
Yeah, you can have a perfectly 
fine wedding for less than that.

856
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:59,560
We had a perfectly fine wedding 
for less Much much. 

857
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:01,840
Less than that. 
But I'm just saying like if we 

858
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:06,640
had a like if God forbid we ever
had divorced, marriage number 2 

859
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:08,360
is not even getting half of what
we got. 

860
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:13,360
Oh my gosh, the energy, like 
the, the money, the love. 

861
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:15,320
That's why we're like, we'll 
always be together. 

862
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:19,520
Yes, that's why we'll always be 
together. 

863
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:24,880
But anyway, sure. 
Yeah, I don't really see nothing

864
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:27,000
else. 
I mean, she was just really 

865
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:29,160
trying. 
Trying to be Zen. 

866
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:31,800
Yeah, trying to be Zen, show 
that she's not drinking. 

867
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,320
Oh, I made a joke crack about it
earlier. 

868
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:38,520
But I really do believe, like 
people like after the last 

869
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:41,360
reunion, even they were saying 
like when Shannon went to rehab,

870
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:44,240
it wasn't truly a rehab. 
It was just like a Wellness 

871
00:43:44,240 --> 00:43:47,120
Center, like a spa. 
And you think it was this place,

872
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:50,000
this gold door? 
Place, I mean it's one seems to 

873
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:53,600
support the other, they wouldn't
they seem to get a really. 

874
00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:56,200
Good brand. 
Deal out of the whole thing and 

875
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:57,480
some publicity. 
I mean it. 

876
00:43:57,640 --> 00:43:59,760
I had never heard of it and and 
but. 

877
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:02,200
Also, I don't, you know, I'm not
looking at Us Weekly for see 

878
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:05,120
where Julia Roberts is going on 
her spine, nor are you looking 

879
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:08,640
for retreats in Escondido. 
Or San Marcos, but I'm sure they

880
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:10,120
seem like a blast to all other 
customers. 

881
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:11,600
You may. 
Not want to come this day, 

882
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:13,480
right, Julia? 
Oprah. 

883
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,080
Yeah, and then Jen, like, oh, 
Oprah. 

884
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:18,960
Might be there, wasn't it Jen? 
It was, and her daughter didn't 

885
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:23,000
know who Oprah was. 
And that's when you just say get

886
00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:26,840
the to the YouTube girl. 
I mean, that's that if you're a 

887
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:28,320
teenager. 
Today. 

888
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:30,880
Maybe I could see why you 
wouldn't know. 

889
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:34,320
But Oprah, like even the name 
Oprah, you don't hear that very 

890
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:36,240
often. 
It's not like her name was Jenny

891
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:39,680
Jones. 
Like it's it's Oprah. 

892
00:44:39,720 --> 00:44:44,160
So, Sally, Jesse Raphael. 
More Hypovic. 

893
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:49,440
Ricky, like you see somewhere, 
would have encountered that name

894
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:54,240
at some point, but maybe her 
children aren't into all that. 

895
00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:57,160
Yeah, Everly. 
Is that her name? 

896
00:44:57,920 --> 00:44:59,680
Leigh. 
Oh. 

897
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:01,360
That's that's a pretty name, 
but. 

898
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:05,080
That whole anytime you put Lee 
as Leigh. 

899
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:07,840
It's just, I don't know Lee as 
Leigh. 

900
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:11,720
But like when you're doing like 
Ashley Everly? 

901
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:15,160
Child, I don't. 
I don't need that. 

902
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:17,280
We don't need it. 
No, Ashley spelled A. 

903
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:22,120
SHLEYI mean if you're smart and 
beautiful and. 

904
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:24,320
One of our best friends, 
obviously. 

905
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:29,200
Obviously, probably her. 
I recommended. 

906
00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:34,320
Ashley, make your alter ego 
Ashley to their people. 

907
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:34,960
Off. 
Yeah. 

908
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:36,680
When you're feeling saucy, 
you're like, well, they'll 

909
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:37,800
never. 
Know who I am? 

910
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:41,960
I'm Ashley, sorry you're an ash 
league of your own. 

911
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:44,800
So, but everything's kind of a 
pretty. 

912
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:46,840
Name. 
I would never name our child 

913
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:49,000
that that. 
No, I'm not yearning for that. 

914
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:51,320
No, that's not good. 
That's not. 

915
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:53,280
A contender? 
No, no, but it is the last. 

916
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:56,400
Name. 
Someone's last name? 

917
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:58,600
Oh, I got Yeah. 
Who? 

918
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:02,600
Probably a baseball player. 
Seems like a baseball player. 

919
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:05,880
Left a baseball player. 
We are losing the thread here. 

920
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:08,240
Yeah, and I think we've pretty 
much covered everything. 

921
00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:15,360
Yeah, yes, being all the ladies.
Yeah, again, it's a great start.

922
00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:19,120
Yeah, we clearly have more. 
Opinions about this I look how 

923
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:20,680
you started. 
Obviously I don't have a lot of.

924
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:22,120
Opinions. 
And we're like, let's go deep. 

925
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:24,200
Yeah, we really do. 
I mean, we've gone for freaking 

926
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:25,880
ever. 
Here, we're at 47 minutes. 

927
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:28,280
Oh, gosh. 
So yeah, no, it's fine. 

928
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:32,360
I mean, I again, I think, I 
don't know, let no one's 

929
00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:34,080
listening now anyway. 
I mean, I don't think anyone 

930
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:36,000
would get this far. 
But like you heard on that 

931
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:39,800
earlier, Miami, we're not doing 
too good with our views on 

932
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:43,400
Miami, which makes me think our 
views on our shows are 

933
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:45,000
proportionate to the ratings and
stuff. 

934
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:47,960
I'm not. 
I think we're being ghastly 

935
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:50,720
about how great Miami is. 
That's all I'm saying because 

936
00:46:50,720 --> 00:46:53,440
like it is, seems to be a 
recurring. 

937
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:56,920
Theme about Oh my gosh, Miami 
and then I'm like this, this is 

938
00:46:56,920 --> 00:47:00,800
what we're getting with. 
Miami, SO I'm open minded to it 

939
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:03,000
and we're watching it, but like 
no for sure, but like I 

940
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:06,320
genuinely. 
Enjoyed this episode and these 

941
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:08,880
women, even the ones I don't 
necessarily like, I feel more of

942
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:13,680
a even if I'm not liking you, 
I'm not liking you strongly as 

943
00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:15,960
opposed to just being like, I 
don't like that Stephanie chick.

944
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:18,040
I get it. 
You're rich, right? 

945
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:21,600
But with this one, like, oh, 
yeah, I'm shaking a fist to the 

946
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:24,720
sky. 
The OC Sky or Escondido. 

947
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:26,240
That's where they were at the 
end. 

948
00:47:26,240 --> 00:47:27,760
Yeah. 
All right. 

949
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:29,960
Well, I mean, this is good. 
And then we're going to get 

950
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:33,080
Atlanta back on the reunion, 
right on Sunday. 

951
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:36,560
That'll be good. 
And then we're back to Miami and

952
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:38,040
then this. 
We had a cadence going. 

953
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:39,200
I love it. 
Good. 

954
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:41,560
We'll talk about it next time. 
It's all next time.

