1 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:18,640 Welcome to the episode of Husbands Watching Housewives. 2 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:21,120 I'm Scott and I'm Jeff, and we just watched episode of The Real 3 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:22,880 Housewives of Miami. Yeah. 4 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:27,400 And I don't, yeah, I don't see what people like in Miami. 5 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:28,680 I think that's what I'm coming down to. 6 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:30,120 I don't. I don't get what people see in 7 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:33,360 it. I let's see. 8 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:34,960 Yeah. I don't know. 9 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:37,200 I don't dislike it. I'm just not. 10 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,320 It's not as amazing. Right. 11 00:00:40,480 --> 00:00:43,720 It's just there's some good parts, some good points, some 12 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:48,440 moments, but like. Like I think I was oversold is 13 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:51,000 definitely how I feel like everyone was saying, oh, it's 14 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:54,720 it's as good or better than Salt Lake some people. 15 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:55,800 Who said that? Weren't they? 16 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:57,440 You know what they were saying. Excuse me, who? 17 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:01,280 Said that I know this is so weird because like it just seems 18 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:03,200 to be the same things over and over again. 19 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:05,800 Not that the other franchises aren't the same things over and 20 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:09,920 over again, but like the the drama just doesn't seem like at 21 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:11,840 all. The height it's and we always 22 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:15,120 talk about like low stakes drama, but like kind of this 23 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:17,720 just isn't, this is no stakes. Trauma, yeah, like low stakes 24 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:20,840 trauma would be next Gen. NYC where it's just like, it's a 25 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:22,720 little petty. It's a little right, You know, 26 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:25,600 someone might get their feelings hurt, but barely really. 27 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:28,320 And then they just get over by the next episode. 28 00:01:28,960 --> 00:01:32,040 This is just. This is Julia and Gertie going 29 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:34,200 at it back and forth, the same thing over and over again. 30 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:36,120 Lisa and Larsa going at it, same thing over again. 31 00:01:36,320 --> 00:01:39,320 Everyone and I know every housewife show does this. 32 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:41,640 They promise they're going to get over it and they don't get 33 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:45,440 over it and they come back to it over all over again, which, OK, 34 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:48,880 fine, but it's like they're just what they're beefing about is 35 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:51,120 doesn't even seem to be like, what the hell are they even? 36 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:52,760 I don't. Think about, I think it's terms 37 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:57,800 of like Lisa and Larsa. I don't even know what the issue 38 00:01:57,800 --> 00:02:02,920 is of you didn't support me with my breakup with Marcus. 39 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:05,720 You said bad things about my boyfriend and Jody. 40 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:08,440 You're lying about this. You're lying about that. 41 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:10,120 You're a narcissist. You're a narcissist. 42 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:14,320 You know, it just seemed. I don't know what the anger 43 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:16,760 comes from. You know, the clearest thing to 44 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:22,320 me was you were saying nasty things to me or, or, or texting 45 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:25,360 me angry things when I was going through my dad dying. 46 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:27,760 That's the clearest offense I can see. 47 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:32,960 Anything else just seems kind of like superficial, you know, like 48 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:36,240 Jody being friends with Marcus. Barely. 49 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:39,720 Yeah. Is cause for you to get so upset 50 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:43,920 and then slander Jody. I don't know. 51 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:47,560 Yeah, yeah, it just. Yeah, I'm not. 52 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:51,080 And then they get to a good place by the end of the episode. 53 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:53,200 For now. For now, as you say, this could. 54 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:55,880 Change, change. A dime. 55 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:58,840 And I think also because even though there are a number of 56 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:01,480 friends, you know, but there's only the six and you know, the 57 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:05,480 five in the new one, it just seems like their their drama is 58 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:09,240 just recycled. Well, because the friends don't 59 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,960 have drama with them, you know? Yeah, yeah, Marisol and Adriana 60 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,720 and kick your like, in and out and bring out their own natural 61 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:18,440 stuff, right? So yeah. 62 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:20,080 And so that just basically leaves it. 63 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:23,280 So it's this whole Lisa Larsa thing, Julia Gertie thing, and 64 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:25,760 Alexia out there being all like, I'm going to have a narcissist 65 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:27,600 party. So it was. 66 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:30,720 I mean, it's better than an old Hollywood party. 67 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:33,000 I'll start there. And I have to say that the red 68 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:35,920 flag game. Was actually pretty good, yeah. 69 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:38,360 It was actually like for for being a housewives game. 70 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:41,320 I was like, well, this isn't immediately, you know, 71 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:44,840 inflammatory into the situation. If if the red flags have been 72 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:48,040 spread out amongst more people, it would have been better 73 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:50,720 because then they really could have talked about more had this 74 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,000 been so like there would have been everyone would have gotten 75 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:56,840 red flags and they were everyone got in like, you know, shit 76 00:03:56,840 --> 00:04:01,080 talked, but it's just purely was focused on Lisa and. 77 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:03,280 Lisa got defensive and just was went. 78 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:04,640 I went. Too 'cause it did seem like a 79 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:06,240 dogpile, yeah. Yeah. 80 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,600 Also, I think instead of calling it a game, they should have 81 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:12,480 called it an exercise 'cause if this thing was to be like there 82 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:15,160 to like learn about our everyone's narcissistic 83 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:18,200 tendencies, like even including your own and calling it an 84 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:21,600 exercise would be better than a game to seem like they're having 85 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:23,480 fun. There's no fun unleashed. 86 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:26,240 What also wasn't fun was those dumb sayings on the mirror. 87 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:29,840 It was like basically he took his Instagram and put it on 88 00:04:29,840 --> 00:04:34,160 mirrors throughout this very pretty event space they were at. 89 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:38,160 But it was dumb. Like it was so dumb. 90 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:39,640 I mean, I liked. It the only thing you should 91 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:41,640 write on mirrors is your wedding date. 92 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:44,240 Say it. Didn't remind me of the the 93 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:47,760 wedding, our wedding mirror, but also, you know, not like we're 94 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:49,760 the first, certainly not the first to that we. 95 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:52,360 Stole it from the people who had the wedding when? 96 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:53,800 We went and looked at the yeah, yeah, yeah. 97 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:55,200 Yeah, we totally still got it in the. 98 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:56,960 Garage. We should hang that up 99 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:57,960 somewhere. We should. 100 00:04:58,360 --> 00:04:59,800 We should. That's like, just like 101 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:01,880 collecting dust in the garage. We should. 102 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:04,840 Where should we put that? Well, the problem is it would go 103 00:05:04,840 --> 00:05:07,560 with the wedding photo, which is right inside our front door. 104 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:10,320 And that just a little bit more a little too like hello that. 105 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:12,720 'D be a lot of self examination for people though. 106 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:18,280 I mean, I did think it was fun that the women were going 107 00:05:18,280 --> 00:05:20,640 through and reading the you got to see. 108 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:22,920 The I just caught it, I just caught it. 109 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:24,840 He's holding up a mirror for them. 110 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:30,400 Wow. See, yeah, took you a little 111 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:34,040 while there, but at the same time, like they, none of them 112 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:35,800 were taking it. I mean, some of them were taking 113 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:37,720 it to heart, but many of them were not. 114 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:39,800 And, well, Lexi was like, oh, it's the gospel. 115 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:42,920 Like, oh, yeah, that's so me. Like everyone was like, oh, 116 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:44,840 yeah, that's me. Oh, no, that's me, you know? 117 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:46,560 Yeah. Yeah, but I mean, that's the 118 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:48,200 thing. I, I think the ones that were 119 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:51,080 able to say like, yeah, OK, we're all a little narcissistic. 120 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,360 They got so reflection assignment, you know. 121 00:05:53,840 --> 00:05:55,120 I get it you. Seriously. 122 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:56,640 Not Yeah. No, I didn't. 123 00:05:56,640 --> 00:06:00,960 I get it. I thought he just was putting up 124 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:04,160 stuff on on mirror. I didn't get that it was self 125 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:05,040 reflection. It doesn't. 126 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:07,600 It doesn't change the fact that it's still cheesy. 127 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:09,120 It's still. Cheesy and dumb. 128 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:10,800 Also it was like a lipstick on a mirror. 129 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:13,000 Like, like, yeah, it was lipstick. 130 00:06:13,280 --> 00:06:15,800 Yeah, or it might have been. It was some lipstick looking 131 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:17,120 thing. It might have been like nail 132 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:18,000 Polish. What did we get? 133 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,080 Like some. We had a silver, we had a white. 134 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:22,000 Paint Marker. Paint Marker. 135 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,400 Yeah, so it was probably some lipstick colored paint marker, 136 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:26,560 but. That would be off putting if we 137 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:29,880 put that right at our. Yeah, it's really. 138 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:31,920 Weird, and I don't want to put it up up here. 139 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:34,960 Oh, I guess we could. I mean, where else could we put? 140 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:37,080 It that's the problem, we have to put it up here. 141 00:06:37,280 --> 00:06:39,400 But yeah, man, we'll figure something out. 142 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:40,520 Maybe. We need a bigger out maybe. 143 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,360 I was just saying maybe we'll just clean our wedding date off 144 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:47,520 the mirror and we'll put some, you know, Instagram sayings on 145 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:49,040 there. No, we can't clear our wedding 146 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:50,400 date off. Maybe we'll just hang it in the 147 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:53,320 garage so whenever we pull in it, we'll see it hanging in the 148 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:56,480 garage. What you don't see is that we 149 00:06:56,480 --> 00:07:01,720 have like our table assignment board up there above our wet 150 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:03,280 bar. Yeah. 151 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:05,560 See that by you, I mean, like the audience. 152 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:06,360 You, not you. I was. 153 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:09,200 Like, well, I was also. Why are you pointing at the bar? 154 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:11,240 Yeah, I was like, oh, okay, yes, we. 155 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:13,400 Just forget about it 'cause we don't really use that wet bar 156 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:15,920 ever. Well, it gets hot up here. 157 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:17,680 We know this is not an entertaining space. 158 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:20,280 It's not an entertaining space. Again, I was actually thinking 159 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:24,000 of getting or you know, 'cause we went looked at that open 160 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:25,440 House of the model, like our house. 161 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:28,280 I'm thinking maybe I should get an upstairs air conditioner. 162 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:30,520 Or a fan. We could have a fan like right 163 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:31,600 here. We should have a fan we. 164 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:33,400 Should have a fan. It wouldn't. 165 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:36,120 Oh my God, why have we not thought of ever thought of 166 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:38,480 putting in a ceiling fan? Everything else we've added to 167 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:41,160 this house and we've never thought the hot room. 168 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:44,280 Why not put a ceiling fan? And honestly, we want to put one 169 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:46,480 on this end and 1:00 on that end because we have the two can 170 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:48,400 lights in the middle of ruin the symmetry. 171 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:51,120 Yes, that's probably why I never thought of putting a fan up 172 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:53,000 there because. Next tomorrow when you're at the 173 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:55,400 office, Google, like, what would that take to put in the ceiling 174 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:58,880 fan? Next tomorrow I will Google that 175 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:01,120 Ceiling fans are rather inexpensive. 176 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:03,520 Just getting someone to come do it and they'd have to cut in the 177 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:05,960 ceiling and wire. Oh, we got to do that, Yeah, 178 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:07,080 but. You know it's worth doing. 179 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,320 We should have had ants. We should have had the people 180 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:12,720 who did our. Should have that construction 181 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:16,200 company do it, yeah. Yeah. 182 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:19,520 Yeah, and then we would can stop complaining about it being 183 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:21,160 hotter than hey. I know. 184 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:24,240 Although maybe may see again cutting out the middle manage, 185 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:26,880 getting an air conditioner might be the right way to go. 186 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:28,120 We already have air conditioning. 187 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:29,720 We. Have air conditioning, we have 188 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:32,000 central air conditioning, but it does not work up here. 189 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:36,440 It needs to have like we need to have like 1 unit that just pumps 190 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:38,559 it up here and keeps it cool separately. 191 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:40,799 But I'll, I will look into our options. 192 00:08:40,799 --> 00:08:42,520 So we will not bore our hair listening. 193 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:48,640 Yeah, these details. So it's yeah, we so we covered 194 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:50,240 the party. It started with the party. 195 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:54,960 I, I will say Lisa needed to take more accountability for 196 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,240 being late. I like her and all, but that was 197 00:08:57,240 --> 00:08:59,920 just dumb. Like you were two hours late and 198 00:08:59,920 --> 00:09:02,680 Stephanie ended up apologizing to her, which I thought was very 199 00:09:02,680 --> 00:09:03,560 surprising. Right. 200 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:07,040 Good on her. But there should have been more 201 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:11,720 of an apology from Lisa, just as at the end of the episode, she 202 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:14,080 should have, taking more accountability as opposed to 203 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:17,600 saying, like, I'm sorry, I didn't know that you were 204 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:19,840 feeling that way. Just say I'm sorry for my 205 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:23,880 behavior, not like you caused my behavior because you didn't tell 206 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:26,520 me you were feeling a certain kind of way, right? 207 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:28,600 She really used to work on her. Apologies. 208 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:32,040 You know, even her interactions with Stephanie at that party 209 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:35,440 where the like they were clearly trying to like be gloss things 210 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:39,080 over and make nice it. What you said towards the end is 211 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:43,160 that they're really just all kind of vapid like. 212 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:45,960 Varsa and Lisa are so vapid. Yeah, and. 213 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:49,400 So vapid and like, the they're only really. 214 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:51,440 Yeah. I mean, narcissism really is the 215 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:54,400 key here. I mean, no, I don't, I don't 216 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:56,040 like throwing around the word narcissism. 217 00:09:56,040 --> 00:10:00,200 And, you know, that's a serious personality disorder. 218 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:02,360 And like to sit there and just say, you know, they're tossing 219 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:03,840 it around like it's just like, oh, look at us. 220 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:08,000 We're narcissists. Like like there's Jax Taylor, an 221 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:10,320 obvious narcissist and then these there's just vapid 222 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:12,760 housewives who are really self obsessed. 223 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:16,360 Well, that's why it's all, I think it's all right to be self 224 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:19,440 obsessed to a point, especially when the way you make your money 225 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:23,920 is, you know, by being pretty and posting photos on Instagram 226 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:26,720 and endorsing, you know, and being on housewives or on the 227 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:29,680 Valley, whatever it is. That's fine to a point. 228 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:31,880 Like whatever. I think it's good. 229 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:35,200 It's one thing to be pretty, but it's like when you're so stuck 230 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:39,560 on being pretty, the fact that Larsa will actually says it too 231 00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:44,080 is so any any moment it's like, oh, let me pick up my phone, 232 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:47,400 look at myself. I can't imagine that if I was a 233 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:50,400 gorgeous lady, maybe I'm like, oh, I look really damn good. 234 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:53,240 Look at my Tatas, look at my whatever, look at my butt. 235 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:56,240 But I don't think I would just pick up my phone at any. 236 00:10:56,680 --> 00:10:59,600 Whenever some there's like a lull, right? 237 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:01,880 It's like, look at me and like, how many times can you look at 238 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:05,520 yourself in one day? I'm stuck on the idea of you 239 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:07,360 being a gorgeous lady now. Don't you just. 240 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:10,360 I want to describe women as gorgeous women. 241 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:12,400 These now. Gorgeous lady. 242 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:18,560 No, it's not even that. It's also that like they're, 243 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:21,720 it's the competition that like, it's not that they have to be 244 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:24,520 prettier than each other, it's just that like there's only room 245 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:26,680 for one of them to be pretty at a time. 246 00:11:26,680 --> 00:11:31,640 And now it seems like it's just some weird unspoken competition 247 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:33,720 and it. Maybe that's Miami. 248 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:37,160 Maybe it is, there's just there's room enough for everyone 249 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:39,520 to do their own thing. I just don't know why. 250 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:42,600 Like everyone seems to be a little bit up their own. 251 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:44,440 Very much. More up their own and they 252 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:47,960 refuse to acknowledge that it's others can be up their own as 253 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:51,800 well, you know so. It's just they're not seeing 254 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:53,160 each other. They're not hearing each other. 255 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:57,320 I mean, they made some progress at the end when they said we 256 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,880 should communicate better. Yes, you should. 257 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:02,800 And I also because I didn't why I haven't watched. 258 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:04,880 I don't buy that they were ever best friends. 259 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:07,000 Yeah, they're like, it's really surprising. 260 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:08,800 Yeah, like I want to be best friends again. 261 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:11,360 Like if I were just sitting there, I don't know. 262 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:14,960 Maybe they had a common enemy. That might have been Yeah, that 263 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:16,440 could have been the case. Yeah. 264 00:12:16,560 --> 00:12:19,880 So that's also the thing. I was like, I, I, I guess it's 265 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:22,560 true. Like if I were going, I had a 266 00:12:22,560 --> 00:12:26,440 falling out with a friend and you know, I who I was close with 267 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:28,800 and we were having a conversation like that, I would 268 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:31,000 be like, I do want to be best friends again, or I do want to 269 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:34,280 be good friends again, but like to expect it to happen right 270 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:36,480 then and there again, that's maybe one of those things that I 271 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:39,160 think is the, you know, men are from Mars women or from Venus 272 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:42,040 situation that like is that a thing with women or is that just 273 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:44,160 something that we're led to believe from housewife? 274 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:48,120 Yes, a little bit of column A little bit of column B. 275 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:52,120 Because, you know, we have, I mean, it's so with the whole 276 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:54,640 Julian Gertie thing, which we're not going to get into because 277 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:57,280 the last three episodes we've gotten into it over and over 278 00:12:57,280 --> 00:12:57,840 and. Over. 279 00:12:57,840 --> 00:12:59,320 I mean, I was going to touch on it briefly. 280 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:03,800 Yeah, we'll talk on it briefly. But like, I liked how Gertie was 281 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:05,720 saying that. Like what I was wanting from my 282 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:10,680 friends was for them to support me and support us reconciling. 283 00:13:10,680 --> 00:13:14,160 So then of course, Gertie goes overboard and tries to get 284 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:15,120 Larson. Yeah. 285 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:17,520 That was a lot. That was a little bit annoying. 286 00:13:17,800 --> 00:13:19,720 And she was mediating and she was. 287 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:22,560 Interpreting right? And I get it because it was 288 00:13:22,560 --> 00:13:26,280 starting to go South or left whichever direction you wanted 289 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:29,080 to go. When they just start, you know, 290 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:30,280 Larsa was going in the wrong way. 291 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:32,440 But at the same time, if that's the way Larsa's going to go at 292 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:34,920 it, then you got to let her fail or succeed on her and get. 293 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:36,280 To it. It's like they were rehashing a 294 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:39,120 lot of the same things, but at least maybe they could have. 295 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:41,360 They needed to be by themselves. And they finally got there. 296 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:42,760 Yeah. Because that's what wasn't 297 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:44,360 happening. It was always like these fights 298 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:45,400 at parties. Exactly. 299 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:48,400 Exactly. But no with the Julian Gertie 300 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:53,840 thing. I just passive aggressive. 301 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:58,680 Polly, what do you do when your friend doesn't want to move past 302 00:13:58,680 --> 00:14:01,880 an issue and they didn't apologize really fully for 303 00:14:01,880 --> 00:14:05,080 hurting your feelings? That didn't happen, Julia. 304 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:09,240 And that's all I'm going to say. You're just one, being passive 305 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:12,920 aggressive until the guy made you say Gritty's name, and then 306 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:17,280 two, speaking. I'm not. 307 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:21,120 I'm tired Speaking, not facts. You're not. 308 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:23,360 You're you're Yeah, you're not. You're only telling your side of 309 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:25,880 the story, right? Which is like, this happened 310 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:29,280 after you assaulted Gertie and she was really peeved from grace 311 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:31,400 of assault. But that's what happened. 312 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:36,400 So I don't know. Her version of the truth is 313 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:40,240 really muddy. Yeah, very, very strange. 314 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:43,080 They're getting off of them though, the whole social worker 315 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:45,000 thing. I really think it's surprising 316 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:48,760 that they were allowed to have a conversation with a social 317 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:53,240 worker about their adopted children on camera. 318 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:56,040 It makes me wonder if it's actually the social worker 319 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:57,600 that's assigned to the case, or if it's just. 320 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:00,840 A a social worker. Good point. 321 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:03,640 But also makes me wonder, like, you know, is everything legal in 322 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:05,320 Florida? I mean, is that part of their 323 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:08,320 their latest political movement is, you know, we have no 324 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:12,480 regulations? I mean, definitely and yeah, 325 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:16,480 yeah, yeah, I I didn't that scene was really off putting me 326 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:19,000 it. Very seems very strange that you 327 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:21,920 know they would discuss the and again, it's a situation where I 328 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:25,520 thought with adoption you at least you know until everything 329 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:28,280 was final, you can't even show pictures, but maybe they're 330 00:15:28,280 --> 00:15:31,320 showing pictures retroactively because it is final now. 331 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:32,280 Oh, you're true. You're right. 332 00:15:32,280 --> 00:15:33,640 Yeah. Yeah, but it just either way, it 333 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:37,080 just seems, it just feels. Because they weren't on camera 334 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:40,040 like they always have been pictures. 335 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:42,480 We haven't seen them on camera. They weren't filming with them. 336 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:44,880 Right. Just seems really really strange 337 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:48,040 and doesn't feel quite right but. 338 00:15:48,040 --> 00:15:51,080 It's something is off. There it also like if that was a 339 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:53,520 social worker, why wasn't Martina in there with them 340 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:55,280 that's. What I was wondering too, if 341 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:59,800 this is like a court appointed, you know, you have to have this 342 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:02,160 meeting and then you know, in order to move forward with the 343 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:04,800 adoption process. I'm guessing that was a social 344 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:05,680 worker. Yeah. 345 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:08,520 Not the social worker, No. Like it's something you know, 346 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:11,440 created just for the show. Just as I talked to Yeah. 347 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:14,720 And I thought what was a better scene was Gertie and Russell in 348 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:19,760 their therapy finally, like an actual real couples therapy 349 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:23,640 session that they're not tearing each other down. 350 00:16:23,640 --> 00:16:25,800 It's not bullshit. They were actually having a 351 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:31,320 conversation about how they feel and you know, their post cancer 352 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:33,080 lives. And I thought it was really 353 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:34,640 interesting. I didn't know they were high 354 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:37,240 school sweethearts, anything really about them except for 355 00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:41,400 what I've heard, You know, that he was very supportive and, and 356 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:43,520 obviously is. And I like when he said, I'm not 357 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:45,320 a caretaker. I'm not trying to be a 358 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:47,160 caretaker. I'm just really in awe of you. 359 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:49,280 And you know what? You've what you've, you know how 360 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:52,320 far you've gotten and you know, and surviving this. 361 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:53,440 Yeah, Yeah. So. 362 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:55,960 I agree with you. It's rare that there's an actual 363 00:16:55,960 --> 00:17:00,200 like couples therapy session that you believe it might be 364 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:03,080 real, you know, but actually, you know, but also they're not, 365 00:17:03,440 --> 00:17:07,599 they're they're not going to therapy, you know, to get over 366 00:17:07,599 --> 00:17:11,200 something, you know, that's, you know, wrongdoing, right? 367 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:13,960 Basically like making sure they get back on track and they'll 368 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:15,960 get sidetracked. With doing the work so they 369 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:17,920 don't get off. Exactly. 370 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:19,560 Yeah. Like, so you cheated on me. 371 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:22,760 You're like you remember? This bill engine Aiden therapy 372 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:24,400 session with that. Oh God. 373 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:27,079 Weird therapist. I see. 374 00:17:27,079 --> 00:17:29,200 I don't believe any of those. I don't believe any of the. 375 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:32,520 It's purely her story, whereas this I think was, was real. 376 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:35,400 And I think it was interesting how she had that epiphany of, 377 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:38,880 you know, why I'm triggered by certain things because of like, 378 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:40,920 how I, you know, what happened as a child. 379 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:43,800 And they're like, oh, good on you, you know. 380 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:47,040 Yeah. Like an epiphany, an epiphany, a 381 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:49,760 real epiphany in a conventional Who knew? 382 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:54,960 It happens from time to time. I forgot there was some Kiki and 383 00:17:54,960 --> 00:17:57,600 some. For a second, for a second, that 384 00:17:57,600 --> 00:17:58,680 one scene with her and her. Daughter. 385 00:17:58,680 --> 00:18:01,600 And then what's her face? Adriana. 386 00:18:01,880 --> 00:18:03,440 Adriana. She's like studying for 387 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:05,040 something. Yeah, and then she's also being 388 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:08,840 horny for Australians. If I wasn't a Frenchie, I was 389 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:13,440 just like, I, I don't know why. Like on New York, it's 390 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:15,680 endearing. Like with Luanne and Sonia and 391 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:17,560 and everyone like flirt with the younger guys. 392 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:18,760 I was like, OK, that's endearing. 393 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:24,880 Also, like Adriana doesn't seem that like cougary. 394 00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:27,640 I know she's I know she's going to be 60 this year, but it she 395 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:29,000 doesn't look it. Yeah, right. 396 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:34,200 So and she's also like seems like a a nicer person. 397 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:36,760 Maybe not some aerosol, but I think you know, the fact that 398 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:39,840 she has Gertie's back and she was really like supportive of 399 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:41,840 Lisa. I, I like her. 400 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:46,360 I wish there was more of her. I would want more Adriana than 401 00:18:46,360 --> 00:18:48,320 and less Marisol. Oh really? 402 00:18:48,360 --> 00:18:50,200 I'm I like? Her dislike Marisol but I feel 403 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:51,760 like I just I wouldn't want more right? 404 00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:52,720 Right. Yes. 405 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:54,480 OK, I can see that. Yeah, yeah. 406 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:56,800 Get some of that. It's really interesting. 407 00:18:57,040 --> 00:19:00,360 I've been hearing a lot of stuff lately about it was on News 408 00:19:00,360 --> 00:19:02,040 Radio today. They were talking about how, you 409 00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:05,440 know, oh, it's because recently they, they released a bunch of 410 00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:09,160 stats about I think cities in the Bay Area and they're like 411 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:12,400 projected age demographics over the next 30 years and how 412 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:14,640 different regions of the Bay are going to get older. 413 00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:17,280 And like, you know, places right now that are, you know, 414 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:21,040 basically filled with 40 and 50 year olds who have just bought 415 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:22,200 property. Well, they're not going to be 416 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:26,160 leaving that property likely. So in the next 30 years, these 417 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:30,360 places that are now considered kind of young and like mobile 418 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:33,200 are going to become old communities and things like 419 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:34,840 that. So Long story short, or sorry, 420 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:39,120 long story long, as they were saying, is they keep talking 421 00:19:39,120 --> 00:19:42,160 about Wilford Brimley and how Wilford Brimley and Cocoon was 422 00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:44,880 only 47 or something like that. What's. 423 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:48,440 Yeah. And how there's just in the time 424 00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:51,560 from when Cocoon was a thing, of course, he was 47. 425 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:53,720 I think because of his looks he was supposed to be playing 426 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:56,440 someone older. I mean, we're taking a little 427 00:19:56,440 --> 00:19:58,640 for like diabetes. Yeah, diabetes like. 428 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:02,840 Yeah. OK, he was, I think not even 50 429 00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:04,960 when he was in Cocoon. That's what the radio was saying 430 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:06,520 and all that. And so the whole, the whole 431 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:09,640 concept of the way that people are aging these days, there's so 432 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:11,520 much better technology, there's so much health. 433 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:15,640 And just the kind of social view on aging is so different because 434 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:18,880 they were saying that like, you know, in the 80s, someone's 60 435 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:21,600 year old parents were like, well, I got 1 foot in the grave. 436 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:24,760 Whereas now you're 60 and you're like, well, I got 20 more good 437 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:28,120 years plus go through all that. So I might have a 10 year old. 438 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:31,480 Yeah, exactly. You know, people having kids 439 00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:33,880 later, all that stuff has led to a whole different change of 440 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:36,920 what, you know, what you're supposed to be when you're 60, 441 00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:39,400 right? So perception, it is definitely 442 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:42,880 interesting and. Is that a segue into Stephanie 443 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:45,640 and her and her husband? Oh I forgot that even didn't 444 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:48,000 even talk about that. The fact that her husband is 2 445 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:51,160 years younger than her father. That is mind blowing. 446 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:53,080 I can't imagine. Yeah. 447 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:58,880 Like if you were 84, wait, my dad's 85. 448 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:01,200 If you were 83, three. Yeah. 449 00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:03,640 I just can't imagine. Cannot. 450 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:05,880 I just can't imagine. No. 451 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:08,000 Yeah. No, it was a real trip with my 452 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:12,280 ex. His mom is a two years older 453 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:17,320 than my oldest brother. So when so when my mom would 454 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:21,040 talk to her, it was always kind of like a daughterly sort of 455 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,120 things, but also at the same time like, well, we're both 456 00:21:23,120 --> 00:21:26,080 parents situation. So it was always very trippy to 457 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:27,560 be like, oh wow, they're so close as age, but. 458 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:28,800 That's I realized there's a close man. 459 00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:31,120 Yeah, that's my brother. And then, you know, what could 460 00:21:31,120 --> 00:21:33,200 have been Once Upon a time, you know, my mother-in-law. 461 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:37,000 But that, you know, wasn't exactly the same thing as my 462 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:39,120 mother, you know, if they were, you know, that's. 463 00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:42,360 Well, I told you about Catherine Zia Jones, how her father and 464 00:21:42,360 --> 00:21:44,520 Michael Douglas were the same age roughly when they got 465 00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:45,400 married. It's. 466 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:48,280 I mean, it's sort of thing where, like, you know, age 467 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:52,120 differences aren't as big of a thing when you're young. 468 00:21:52,120 --> 00:21:54,240 I mean, it's a big thing when you're younger, but like when 469 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:56,440 you're both kind of in your middle age, it's not a huge 470 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:58,920 deal. Like I guess when there's a 25 471 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:01,800 year difference though, you're always kind of in a spot that is 472 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:04,400 is going to be a little awkward sooner rather than later. 473 00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:07,400 Feel like 10 is like a big difference but like, you know, 474 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,560 25? Well, they say a generation is 475 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:13,600 starts at 12 years. And so that's where like if 476 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:16,640 you're 12 years different, you're kind of on the cusp of 477 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:18,120 like being in different generations. 478 00:22:18,120 --> 00:22:21,320 So like you kind of start to perceive things and you perceive 479 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:25,040 time differently, you know, the way that, yeah, world events, 480 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:26,920 you know, gone by all that stuff. 481 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:31,080 So 12 would be weird, but so you double that and you're 24 years. 482 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:35,440 Well, it's, you know, with us, I think one thing we relate on so 483 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:38,040 many things because we're, so we're two years apart, right? 484 00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:42,280 And we experience things, you know, the 90s, well, the 80s and 485 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:45,680 90s, whatever. And movies like we just have 486 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:48,000 this a lot of the same points of reference, right? 487 00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:50,080 And you really don't have that one. 488 00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:52,000 There's that much of an age difference. 489 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:54,120 Yeah. I mean, I think about that as 490 00:22:54,120 --> 00:22:57,040 well. Like, I wonder if, you know, we 491 00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:59,520 didn't have the shorthand of being able to be like, oh, the 492 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:00,560 90s, you know? Yeah. 493 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:02,000 Or the 2000s. Yeah. 494 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:05,640 You know, we'd find other things to talk about and we'd have 495 00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:08,320 other things in common. And, you know, we just wouldn't 496 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:10,120 necessarily have those things in common. 497 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:14,000 But because of that, we're able to kind of, you know, use that 498 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:15,640 shorthand to keep talking about that. 499 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:18,400 But there's like music that you've never heard and I've 500 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,760 never heard that you listen to, but you know, etcetera. 501 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:22,840 Right. But on a lot of things that we 502 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:24,240 do, for sure, yeah, yeah, for sure. 503 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:28,000 I guess the whole point of that scene also is to say she's a 504 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:31,280 strange member from her sisters, as are her parents. 505 00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:34,080 It feels like these the twin sisters have basically just gone 506 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:37,240 off on their little island and they don't talk to anybody else. 507 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:42,800 It was kind of catty what Stephanie said that like, you 508 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:44,960 know, they were already had a strained relationship with their 509 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,760 parents, but when they had, you know, when they had a falling 510 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:50,680 out with her, it got even worse with the parents because the 511 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:53,600 parents love her so much. That's it's kind of what I read. 512 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:55,640 Yeah. Like my parents think I'm 513 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:57,920 amazing. And so when my sisters got mad 514 00:23:57,920 --> 00:23:59,600 at me, my parents got mad at that. 515 00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:02,600 Also, it's like, you know, I'm so tough and they're so 516 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:05,960 sensitive and like they just, you know, need to toughen up and 517 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:08,680 was the like the parents. The parents are like they're 518 00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:11,720 like like from another planet. It's like, or they're just 519 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:14,440 different and you're. Yeah, yeah. 520 00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:16,920 No judgments here on their parenting, but. 521 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,600 Yes. I did think about that though, 522 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:26,200 like parenting, like telling a little kid not to cry, or like 523 00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:26,840 don't. Cry. 524 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,760 That's how we have toxic males. I know, right? 525 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:34,400 And so it's one thing to be like encouraging. 526 00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:36,960 It's just, it's always the right measurement of it though. 527 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:38,720 So it's like, it's one thing to be encouraging and be like, 528 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,160 call, you know, don't you? Don't, you know, you don't need 529 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:42,800 to cry right here. You can get through it depending 530 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:46,840 upon what it is like encouraging someone to, you know, keep their 531 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:48,720 composure and get through it. That's good. 532 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:50,840 If you're running a marathon and you're, you know, stepping on 533 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:53,200 glass or something, you know, I don't know, there's, there's, 534 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:57,160 there's an instance where like that sort of tough love, I think 535 00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:59,080 is good. But if you know you're just 536 00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,720 being a kid and you just start to cry and someone's like. 537 00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,560 Don't cry. That's it's like, yes, you fell 538 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:06,800 off your bike, you know, you can get back on but if you need a 539 00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:09,960 moment to compose yourself and yeah, I knew that hurt when you 540 00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:12,760 fell on your, you know, off the bike, but let's, you know, clean 541 00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,160 you up and get back on the bike. Yeah, not just like you can't 542 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:17,400 cry. It's like then you can't show 543 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,520 emotion. It's a whole therapy bill 544 00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:20,080 waiting to. Happen. 545 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:23,720 I know so. Yeah, yeah. 546 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:25,680 And that's why you're not closer to your sisters. 547 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:28,840 We we won't be like that if we have kids. 548 00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:31,160 No, we're we're, you know, we're not going to be the people that 549 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,480 are like completely like coddling, but. 550 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:37,880 Also no, there's got to be an in between of coddling and overly 551 00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:39,760 tough love. Yeah, it's called good cop, bad 552 00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:41,520 cop, right? Is that how that works? 553 00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:45,440 That probably will help be how it goes because you know, you're 554 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:48,240 like Willy nilly, anything goes and I'm just like, Nope. 555 00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:50,720 I am not Willy nilly, anything goes. 556 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,000 Well, I just come from a place of no SO. 557 00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:57,000 That's true. And I come from a place of yes, 558 00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:59,240 yes, I come from a place. So sure, why not? 559 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,480 I'm a, I'm a yes and and you're, that's why you don't do. 560 00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:07,320 It And why would you do that? Why would I do improv? 561 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:10,120 That's very true. That seems horrible. 562 00:26:10,120 --> 00:26:11,520 How have we talked about everybody? 563 00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:13,040 We have talked about everybody. All right. 564 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,760 I think it's a good show. I am really tired. 565 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:20,520 I am tired, like my eyes are tired and I'm warm and I need to 566 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:24,040 not be in this room again. All right, well, let's, we'll, 567 00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:25,520 we'll talk about all this next time. 568 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:26,320 Till next time.