1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,800 The more that you obsess over yourself, the more. 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:05,840 That you prioritize yourself. You put yourself first. 3 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:07,640 You choose yourself. The more people will. 4 00:00:07,640 --> 00:00:08,920 Obsess over you. Prioritize. 5 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:09,640 You. Choose you. 6 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:12,920 And everything in between. The truth is. 7 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:15,720 You cannot expect for someone to be madly in love. 8 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:18,080 With you if. You are not madly in love. 9 00:00:18,080 --> 00:00:22,160 With yourself if you ever. See a relationship dynamic where 10 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:24,400 the man is just. Obsessed with his. 11 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:26,920 Girlfriend or his wife and he caters. 12 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:29,960 To her he is. Willing to do anything for her. 13 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:32,080 And it's like a pattern for this woman. 14 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:35,360 No matter what man comes into their life, they're always 15 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:37,400 getting treated like a queen. The reason? 16 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:40,440 Is because they are. Valuing themselves that way, 17 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:43,240 they are holding those beliefs about themselves. 18 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:46,800 It is not the person that they are changing, it is the energy 19 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:50,400 that they are vibrating within themselves that is making this 20 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:54,640 confidence and belief within themselves, making men want to 21 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:57,640 show up and adore them and the way. 22 00:00:57,640 --> 00:01:00,400 That you do that. Is by putting yourself. 1st 23 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:02,160 every. Single time. 24 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:04,200 No matter what situation you're in. 25 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:07,480 No matter. Who it is you are always going 26 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:09,560 to choose. Yourself 1st and the people 27 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:11,480 that. Choose themselves first. 28 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:16,120 Always have people. Going after them now, I do want 29 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:18,760 to explain if you are already in a committed relationship, 30 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:21,960 obviously it's so important to respect your partner and treat 31 00:01:21,960 --> 00:01:25,800 them good and still love them. But if you are. 32 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:28,640 Placing them up on that pedestal and you are not valuing 33 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:29,960 yourself. You're like looking at this 34 00:01:29,960 --> 00:01:31,400 person as if. They are God. 35 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:33,880 And you're looking at yourself like I'm like the luckiest girl 36 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:34,960 in the world. To have a guy. 37 00:01:34,960 --> 00:01:37,480 Like him, girl? No. 38 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:39,320 He's. Lucky to have you. 39 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:41,280 And when you view. Yourself that way. 40 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:43,840 He's going to show you every single day. 41 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:46,440 How lucky he feels to have you because. 42 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:49,120 That is the energy that you are emanating. 43 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:51,440 Hello my loves and welcome to another. 44 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:53,720 Episode of Busy. Glowing up. 45 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:55,880 I'm really excited. For today's episode because. 46 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:57,960 We're going to be talking all about manifesting. 47 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:02,360 Love, but also. Creating this extremely magnetic 48 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:06,480 self concept within ourselves. This podcast episode. 49 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,639 Is going to teach. You exactly how to. 50 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:12,360 Manifest love and relationships using the formula that I teach 51 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:14,400 within my love Manifestation blueprint. 52 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:16,280 Which I have just released if you. 53 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:19,880 Haven't checked it out. It is an amazing program if you 54 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:23,240 are looking to attract and call in love into your life. 55 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,600 OK, so let's get into. It how do we? 56 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:28,920 Attract somebody back into your life. 57 00:02:28,920 --> 00:02:30,960 How do we call in new? Love. 58 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:32,280 How do we? Change. 59 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:36,000 The way people are. Showing up and treating us? 60 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:40,920 The answer is going to always come back to you and the way 61 00:02:40,920 --> 00:02:42,880 that you think and feel about yourself. 62 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:44,000 Because the way that you think and. 63 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:47,800 Feel about yourself creates your reality, I want to remind you. 64 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,040 Whatever is. Going on right now in your 65 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,920 relationships, how men are showing up in your life, the 66 00:02:52,920 --> 00:02:54,880 experiences that you've had in the past. 67 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:59,320 Are all created by the Thoughts. And beliefs that you have been 68 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:04,520 holding on to as of right now, but you can easily shift this 69 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:06,480 and when you make the shift within yourself. 70 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:10,760 You also attract. New experiences, new people. 71 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:13,840 Or you attract. Those same people back into your 72 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:16,520 life, but they show up as a completely different person. 73 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:21,160 It always reflects back to the way you are. 74 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,320 Viewing yourself and feeling about yourself. 75 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:26,880 If you've noticed that you have been attracting very similar 76 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:30,760 patterns in your relationship and you are feeling very similar 77 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:33,120 with each single person that you are with. 78 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:35,560 Whether it be that? You are feeling like you are not 79 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:37,880 good enough. That they might find someone 80 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:40,840 better. That they don't care for you, 81 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:45,560 Even if that person deeply loves you and they spend every single 82 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:48,000 day reassuring you and telling you how much they love you and 83 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:50,600 care for you, and they're going to stick by you if you continue 84 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:53,000 to think every single day. You don't love me, you don't 85 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:54,960 care for me, you're going to go find someone else. 86 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:57,080 I know you're going to leave me. They are. 87 00:03:57,080 --> 00:03:59,880 Going to do that. Because you are manifesting for 88 00:03:59,880 --> 00:04:03,880 that experience to happen. See, this happens unconsciously 89 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:07,280 when we are just thinking things over and over, playing these 90 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:10,000 stories in our head. Whether they're positive or 91 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:13,680 negative, they eventually manifest. 92 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:16,640 I'll give you 2. Examples of how this happened to 93 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:21,160 me and one of my relationships I was unsure. 94 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:25,120 How to leave this relationship? I was no longer happy, and I 95 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:26,680 was. Like I just hope. 96 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:28,800 That maybe they'll just. Choose that they. 97 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:29,960 Don't want to be with me anymore. 98 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:31,720 The relationship was. Going great. 99 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:32,760 I just didn't want to be with them. 100 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:34,800 But I was just like in my head playing the story. 101 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:37,840 I want them to leave me. I just want them to go because 102 00:04:37,840 --> 00:04:39,600 for some reason I didn't want to be the one to end it. 103 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:41,600 I don't know why. I always feel bad. 104 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:44,520 Being the one to end things so. I decided I was like. 105 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:46,240 Well, let's manifest for them to leave me. 106 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:50,200 And that happened and when it. Did I was shocked. 107 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:53,080 Because then I didn't feel good when it happened because and 108 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:55,960 then it affected myself concept and I was like oh like why am I 109 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:58,320 not good enough? But then I realized earlier on 110 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:02,680 like you wanted this and another example. 111 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:06,120 That I did this. Was when things ended. 112 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:08,560 I started working myself. Concept building myself, concept 113 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:11,440 becoming really confident within myself, to the point where I was 114 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:14,960 just naturally thinking thoughts like I am the best they'll ever 115 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:17,840 find. I am extremely magnetic, like 116 00:05:17,840 --> 00:05:19,960 they're just gonna miss me like crazy. 117 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:23,120 I know that I'm irreplaceable. I know they can't help but think 118 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:24,200 of me. It's just natural. 119 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:26,920 And I wasn't trying to manifest them back, even though I was 120 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:30,160 aware how manifestation works. Those were just the thoughts. 121 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:33,440 That were coming out as I was working myself concept and as a 122 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:35,400 result this person came back. But they were like. 123 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:37,400 Obsessed to the point that I was like. 124 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:39,240 Who is this? Person because they're 125 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:44,160 completely different. And that really gave me a really 126 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:48,200 great understanding of how important your thoughts and 127 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:50,280 beliefs are. Your. 128 00:05:50,280 --> 00:05:53,240 Thoughts are literally. Dictating how this person is 129 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:56,560 showing up right now because the second I changed up my thoughts 130 00:05:56,880 --> 00:05:59,600 and started leveling up myself and I started viewing myself as 131 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:02,400 like you are so amazing. You are so incredible. 132 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:05,280 People love spending time with. You like, you change people's 133 00:06:05,280 --> 00:06:07,920 lives like. Being in a relationship with me 134 00:06:08,280 --> 00:06:09,960 is like life changing for the other. 135 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:12,600 Person I don't want to sound too. 136 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:14,440 Cocky. Like, I genuinely think everyone 137 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:15,840 should feel this way about themselves. 138 00:06:15,840 --> 00:06:18,160 Because if you have. A self concept like this your. 139 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:20,080 Relationships will always be like. 140 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:22,720 People reflecting that back to you because you are creating 141 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:26,080 your reality based on your thoughts and beliefs, I 142 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:28,440 genuinely want you to view. Yourself this way because. 143 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:32,040 Like, you only get one life. Why spend your time thinking how 144 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:34,600 somebody doesn't care for you, doesn't want you, They're going 145 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:36,680 to move on, find someone better when you can Just choose to 146 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:39,080 think the complete opposite and be like, no, I know I'm hard to 147 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:41,600 replace. I know how much value I bring. 148 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:47,040 I know that I am an amazing individual. 149 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:50,600 I'm literally incredible when you start talking to yourself. 150 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:53,440 Like that throughout. The day like I'm serious, spend 151 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:56,600 like 5 or 10 minutes just telling yourself the story. 152 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:00,160 Of who? You now are how you want people 153 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:03,320 to view you and they're going to view you that exact same way. 154 00:07:03,840 --> 00:07:05,520 So when I teach people. How to? 155 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:07,880 Shift their self concept we work on. 156 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:10,920 How are you currently viewing yourself and how are you 157 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:13,040 currently thinking other people are viewing you? 158 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:14,200 What are they thinking about you? 159 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:17,400 And also it's getting? Clear with what are. 160 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:19,480 Things within yourself that you want to change. 161 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:23,360 Who do you no longer want to be? Like, pick up the habits that 162 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:25,320 you have. Had in previous. 163 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:27,680 Relationships where you're just. Like, I don't want to be that 164 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:29,000 person anymore. I don't want to do that. 165 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:31,280 So whether it's you have a habit. 166 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:34,720 Of like going through their following or being. 167 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:37,600 Obsessive with what they're. Doing when they're not talking 168 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:39,920 to you and you're just like letting your insecurities. 169 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:43,200 Pour out, choose today that you. Don't want to be that person 170 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:45,920 because honestly. If you are really. 171 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:51,040 Stuck in that space of checking what they're doing and like 172 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:53,720 obsessing over them. You are just. 173 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:56,040 Signaling to yourself that you don't feel good enough. 174 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:57,960 That's where that behavior is coming from. 175 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:01,400 It's not that other person, it's you. 176 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:05,120 It's something within you that's being triggered and that's where 177 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:07,520 it you need to flip it and be like I don't. 178 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:11,400 Care to stalk? Them I know my worth and value, 179 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:14,560 and if they're doing things behind my back, I don't care. 180 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:18,080 I don't have time to waste my energy on something like that. 181 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:21,280 It's just not worth my time. And once you start viewing 182 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:24,560 yourself as like someone that is a high value individual, you 183 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:27,800 don't have time. To do that like you are the 184 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:30,080 prize here, OK? Someone that views themselves as 185 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:32,240 the prize. As people are lucky to have a 186 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:34,080 relationship. With you, you're not going to be 187 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:37,360 obsessing and stalking them and seeing what they're doing on 188 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:40,559 their phones and stuff. You have this mindset of. 189 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:43,320 You better show up. To me in this specific way and 190 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:45,520 if you do something that's. Like, disrespectful? 191 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:46,920 You're out. I don't care. 192 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:49,480 I genuinely will not put up with that. 193 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:52,440 A practice that I really. Like doing for shifting 194 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:54,560 yourself. Concept is every morning when 195 00:08:54,560 --> 00:08:56,440 you wake up and you're getting ready. 196 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:58,680 For the day. Is to put on like some 197 00:08:58,680 --> 00:09:02,280 affirmations and just listen to them and let them help you feel 198 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:04,080 really good within yourself. Or you can. 199 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:05,760 Even just. Tell yourself compliments. 200 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:07,920 Like Tell yourself how amazing you are. 201 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:08,960 How? Beautiful you are. 202 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:11,400 How great you. Look in the outfit that you're 203 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:14,560 wearing and just build. That love for yourself. 204 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:18,880 Your confidence is everything. That's why self concept is 205 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:21,960 really important. When you're feeling good within 206 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:28,280 yourself magnetically, you will draw in everybody to show up 207 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:29,560 and. Reflect the way that. 208 00:09:29,560 --> 00:09:31,320 You are thinking and feeling about yourself. 209 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:34,400 I'll give you an example so you understand how this kind of 210 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:35,760 works. Let's say you're going to the 211 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:39,160 gym and you're not feeling confident and you're just like 212 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:41,240 comparing yourself. To the other people. 213 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:42,640 Around you're like, oh, that girl. 214 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:45,400 Looks really good. Like, I wish I had a butt like 215 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:47,360 her. I wish. 216 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:50,040 That I had this girl's hair like she looks beautiful. 217 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:51,880 I wish I had confidence like this other girl. 218 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:54,840 Naturally when other people. Look at you. 219 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:56,600 They're going to. Pick up that vibe. 220 00:09:56,600 --> 00:09:59,560 Where you're comparing yourself, you don't feel good within your 221 00:09:59,560 --> 00:10:03,240 skin, You're just looking around the room and you're not 222 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:07,560 embodying yourself now. If you were to. 223 00:10:07,560 --> 00:10:11,440 Shift yourself concept and you hold the mindset of. 224 00:10:11,680 --> 00:10:15,480 You are so attractive, you are obsessed with your body. 225 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:19,360 You know that your energy is magnetic, like when you walk 226 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,800 into a room, people are like, Oh my God, who is that girl? 227 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:24,920 Like I want to talk to her. There's just something about her 228 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:27,360 that I can't get enough of. Like I feel this. 229 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:29,040 Certain type of way around this girl. 230 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:31,320 I love it. I need to get to know her and 231 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:34,360 you just stop entertaining the. Voices of like, what about that? 232 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:35,800 Person. What about that person? 233 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:37,160 Oh, I hope I look good right now. 234 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:39,680 I hope other people aren't thinking that I'm not. 235 00:10:39,680 --> 00:10:41,920 Attractive or whatever. Your limiting beliefs are 236 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:46,000 instead you're just like I don't give a shit when anyone thinks I 237 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:49,440 know that I'm the shit. I am putting myself up on that 238 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:51,400 pedestal. I'm literally obsessed with 239 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:53,960 myself. I want you to walk around and be 240 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:55,680 obsessed with yourself and you will see how quickly. 241 00:10:55,680 --> 00:10:57,000 People will start. Obsessing over you. 242 00:10:57,360 --> 00:10:59,720 That man that goes to you. That man that you're in no 243 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:01,400 contact with. You want him obsessing over you. 244 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:03,960 Start obsessing over yourself. That's it. 245 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:07,760 You will see how quickly he changes and he's going to be 246 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:09,680 begging to. Have you back? 247 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:13,000 So how do we start? Obsessing over yourself, right? 248 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:15,720 What I. Like to do is. 249 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:18,600 Kind of fake it. Maybe right now you're in a 250 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:22,280 place where you've never felt really confident within 251 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:24,000 yourself. You've always struggled. 252 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:27,560 With your self esteem, that's where you need to kind. 253 00:11:27,560 --> 00:11:32,160 Of develop this alter. Ego and create this new story to 254 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:33,240 like. How does she dress? 255 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:35,280 How does she look? What does she? 256 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:38,000 Think about herself. How does she think other people 257 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:41,560 view her? So for example if you want to 258 00:11:41,560 --> 00:11:44,480 create an alter. Ego where you're like this girl 259 00:11:44,560 --> 00:11:46,120 Views. Herself as a model. 260 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:48,800 Like she has this catwalk to her. 261 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:51,000 Like when she's walking, even in public. 262 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:53,240 People are just like. Looking at her like. 263 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:55,600 Crazy because she has this walk to her. 264 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:57,520 She. Has this amazing style. 265 00:11:57,760 --> 00:11:59,160 Her hair is. Perfect. 266 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:02,440 And she smells like so delicious. 267 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:06,440 It can be whatever you want like start creating this alter. 268 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:09,280 Ego of yourself that you would. Literally become obsessed. 269 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:12,000 With a version of yourself that you would just. 270 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:14,880 Look at and be like. I would date her. 271 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:17,400 Right. If you wouldn't date yourself, 272 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,120 if you wouldn't be. Attracted to yourself? 273 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:20,280 Why? Would anyone else be? 274 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:23,160 Attracted. To you, it all starts with your 275 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:25,560 own energy. So when you really understand 276 00:12:25,560 --> 00:12:27,760 that the way that you're thinking and feeling about 277 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:30,160 yourself is how other people are going to show up and reflect it 278 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:30,920 right back. To you. 279 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:34,040 Is how you're going to have people completely shift the way 280 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:35,920 they are showing up and treating you. 281 00:12:36,560 --> 00:12:38,880 Even if you. Are in a relationship. 282 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:44,520 It is so important to maintain a strong self concept, like for 283 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:46,360 example if you are dating someone. 284 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:50,680 That is very successful. That is always being approached 285 00:12:50,680 --> 00:12:52,920 by. Other women, you need to make 286 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:55,240 sure you're maintaining that self concept where you are still 287 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:57,960 putting yourself up on that pedestal, that man you are with 288 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:00,600 that may be very. Successful have a lot of like. 289 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:03,520 Woman that are attracted to him, you're not going to be 290 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:07,240 threatened by it because someone that values themselves and puts 291 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:10,440 them up on that pedestal is not going to be insecure about 292 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:12,360 others. Because you see yourself as the 293 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:14,000 best. Point blank. 294 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:17,920 Period. That man that all these other 295 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:19,880 women are obsessed with, he's going to be obsessed with you. 296 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:21,280 Because you're. Different. 297 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:24,360 You're not kissing his ass and being like, what can I do to 298 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:26,960 make you happy? You're like, no, this is who I 299 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:28,400 am. You make me happy. 300 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:31,880 You do things for me, OK? Like. 301 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:34,560 Your world revolves around me now. 302 00:13:34,560 --> 00:13:36,320 That's how things are around here. 303 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:39,120 OK. I was once dating this athlete 304 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:42,760 and a lot of women. Would try to approach. 305 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:46,520 Him and they'd always be looking at him and stuff and not once. 306 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:49,720 Did I ever get triggered by it like there'd be times? 307 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:52,640 Where they'd actually walk up to him and like try to like talk to 308 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:57,080 him and like get him away from me and I wouldn't like I 309 00:13:57,080 --> 00:13:58,200 wouldn't do anything about. It. 310 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:02,280 I'd just laugh because that's. It it just didn't bother me 311 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:05,200 because I know the most. Attractive. 312 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:08,920 Thing a woman can do is not be intimidated by other women 313 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:11,480 approaching their man because the man is like. 314 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:14,600 What's up with this? Girl, why is she not like trying 315 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:18,040 to chase after me and make this? Girl go away. 316 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:19,520 Like she's just going to allow it. 317 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:22,200 She's not threatened by it. Who does she think she is? 318 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:26,680 Like, trust me, once you have that energy to you, that man's 319 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:29,560 not going to let you go because that. 320 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:32,520 Is. Extremely attractive, magnetic 321 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:34,680 energy. And the funny part is, when that 322 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:37,960 girl was talking to him, I just like not even pay attention to 323 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:39,800 it. And the funny part was, not once 324 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:42,040 did I like, entertain the thoughts of like, what if he's 325 00:14:42,040 --> 00:14:43,880 into her? What if she's prettier than me? 326 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:46,280 What if he's gonna leave me for her? 327 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:49,760 I was just very. In my own world, because that's 328 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:53,080 just the way I am. I do what I. 329 00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:56,560 Like to do I think about what I want to think about and I'm just 330 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:59,080 kind of the center of my world. I wasn't always like this. 331 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:02,080 But I just decided. That that's who I am now, and I 332 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:05,200 revolve my life around me. And I realize the more I do 333 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:08,040 that, the more people revolve their life around me, too. 334 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:11,360 So after he was done with this conversation with this girl, 335 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:14,080 'cause she was like trying so hard to talk to him, he came 336 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:15,880 back and he's like, I'm so sorry. 337 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:18,680 About that. She she knew me from somewhere 338 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:21,040 and like, she was so annoying and I was just like thinking 339 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:22,640 about you the whole time and how. 340 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:24,560 I just would. Rather be talking to you right 341 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:27,120 now. I'm like, yeah, I know, don't 342 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:29,080 worry, I was thinking the same thing. 343 00:15:29,160 --> 00:15:31,680 But if instead I'd get mad at him and be like. 344 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:34,760 How dare you do that like you. Left me alone with. 345 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:37,720 These other people. And you're talking to this girl, 346 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:41,360 It's not attractive and it also it just screams out your 347 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:44,760 insecurities. It really does like. 348 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:47,840 There is nothing more attractive than being with someone that's. 349 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:51,040 Super secure. Within themselves that's able to 350 00:15:51,040 --> 00:15:53,120 regulate themselves in a way that. 351 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:57,040 They're so put together. Like nobody is going to break 352 00:15:57,040 --> 00:16:00,640 you. That's how strong you are and 353 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:03,240 that's where the self concept work comes in. 354 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:07,160 Is so important to hold. Good beliefs about yourself. 355 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:09,840 And be confident because the 2nd that you are just kissing 356 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:12,400 someone else's ass and trying to change yourself. 357 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:15,160 So that they like. You and you're not feeling good 358 00:16:15,160 --> 00:16:17,000 within yourself. It's going to be. 359 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:19,640 Such a struggle to have. People show up in the way that 360 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:23,520 you want them to, so you need to make the changes within yourself 361 00:16:23,520 --> 00:16:26,800 if you really want that other person in your life to change. 362 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:31,040 So when I started dating this guy, I wasn't used to dating 363 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:33,280 someone that people are extremely. 364 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:36,400 Attracted to that, everybody. Wants to be around like this 365 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:38,240 person. Had a very. 366 00:16:38,480 --> 00:16:42,840 Magnetic personality to them. So I had to readjust myself 367 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:45,040 concept and get myself. To a place where? 368 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:47,280 I'm unbothered. I'm not jealous. 369 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:50,680 I'm not insecure because I knew that in order to maintain this 370 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:53,200 relationship, I need to step into the most confident version 371 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:55,600 of myself because I'm not going to keep someone around. 372 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:59,080 If I'm being extremely insecure and always seeking out 373 00:16:59,080 --> 00:17:02,360 validation, I need to create that security within myself. 374 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:04,920 This guy that I was. Dating. 375 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:08,960 He was very used to, always. Being the one to break up with 376 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:10,560 woman. He'd always have. 377 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:14,280 Woman like cater to him and put him on the pedestal. 378 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:16,240 He was so. Used to always being. 379 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:19,240 Treated like the prize. And that kind of. 380 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:21,800 Boosted his ego. So when he met me and I was 381 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:24,960 like, no, we're not doing that. That's not how this works with 382 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:26,240 me. He. 383 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:29,680 Got with the memo, and it's not like I was in his face, like I 384 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:33,240 am the prize and I'm the best you'll ever find. 385 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:37,400 Like don't do that what I was. Doing is I was just. 386 00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:40,920 Having this little internal dialogue with myself, concept 387 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:43,080 happening where I was like, yeah, like. 388 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:45,880 He views. You as his dream girl like he 389 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:48,760 knows that he will never come across a girl like. 390 00:17:48,760 --> 00:17:50,320 You so he's so. Fucking lucky. 391 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:52,800 To have you like he is just grateful for. 392 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:56,640 Every single minute he gets to spend with me because I'm rare, 393 00:17:57,320 --> 00:18:00,040 like point blank, period. I'm irreplaceable. 394 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:04,400 So I just know he's going to treat me like a queen because I 395 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:06,440 view myself as a queen. Why wouldn't he? 396 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:07,600 You know? And so. 397 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:09,080 As a result. Like he had no. 398 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:11,720 Choice, but to reflect that he was so used. 399 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:15,280 To having a girl put him on the pedestal and cater to him and 400 00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:18,200 remind him on how special he is. But no, no, no. 401 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:22,720 In my world, you are going to put me on the pedestal and value 402 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:26,800 me right, 'cause like as a woman, it's so important to have 403 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:29,600 a man be the one to pursue. You go after you. 404 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:32,680 Put in the work for you and really make you. 405 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:35,440 Feel like? The Queen that you are. 406 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:39,520 And so when I was holding these beliefs about myself, I didn't 407 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:42,080 have to say a thing. He was just showing up in the 408 00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:42,960 way. That I was. 409 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:45,360 Treating myself. Right, like I was. 410 00:18:45,360 --> 00:18:47,040 Already treating myself like a queen. 411 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:49,360 Viewing myself like a queen. I held beliefs that. 412 00:18:49,360 --> 00:18:50,480 Men. Always. 413 00:18:50,480 --> 00:18:51,640 Go out of their. Way for me. 414 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:54,400 So obviously he was. Going out of his way for me 415 00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:55,880 because everyone is you pushed. Out. 416 00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:57,600 They're just. Reflecting the thoughts and 417 00:18:57,600 --> 00:18:59,800 beliefs that you have about. Yourself SO step. 418 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:03,760 One to this formula. Is to work. 419 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:07,920 On yourself concept. Literally obsess over yourself. 420 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:10,480 Start to. Find evidence and proof. 421 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:13,560 Of why you are. Choosing to view yourself. 422 00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:15,080 This way little. Technique that. 423 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:18,840 I like to use is I will go. And find evidence, I would think 424 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:22,360 a thought and be like men are always so affectionate to me, 425 00:19:22,360 --> 00:19:25,840 they go out of their way for me and they just love and value me. 426 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:28,240 And I would try. To go. 427 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:31,440 Back to a time where I can see that experience, where I had 428 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:34,040 that experience and then it's so much easier for your brain to 429 00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:35,320 pick it. Up and be like, yeah, that's 430 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:39,840 true, but if you are. Using like self concept 431 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:42,680 affirmations and telling yourself that you are a love 432 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:44,560 magnet that you are. Worthy. 433 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:47,840 Of love and commitment. But let's say in the past you've 434 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:50,720 never experienced commitment. You were always dating men that 435 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:54,320 were disrespectful, that they were not meeting your 436 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:58,280 boundaries, then that's OK too. I don't want to put out a 437 00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:00,680 limiting belief that if you can't find evidence of something 438 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:03,560 and you affirm for it, it's not going to happen if you continue. 439 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:06,200 To just tell yourself. The story on a loop. 440 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:09,360 Men commit to me. I am always loved and 441 00:20:09,360 --> 00:20:11,720 prioritized. I get Princess treatment. 442 00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:14,840 It's just natural for me, like that's the bare minimum around 443 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:18,520 here. Naturally, you will step into 444 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:20,640 the version of. Yourself that believes that to 445 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:22,440 be true. Even if you've never experienced 446 00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:24,840 it before. That's the same thing with the 447 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:27,840 example that I gave with obsessing of yourself and 448 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:32,520 building that confidence. If you're walking around, even 449 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:35,480 at your house or if you go out in public and you are kind of 450 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:38,000 being a little delusional and just stepping into that alter 451 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:40,000 ego where you feel confident, where you. 452 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:43,440 Feel like you? Are the main character naturally 453 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:45,120 you. Will start to. 454 00:20:45,120 --> 00:20:48,040 Become that person. This is very logical. 455 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:51,120 And a lot of. Celebrities actually have alter 456 00:20:51,120 --> 00:20:53,720 egos. For example, I've heard actors 457 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:57,080 when they're acting, they step into an alter ego version of 458 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:58,760 themselves. Right where they are. 459 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:03,040 Playing out this character even though they might have 0 460 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:05,480 similarities with this person they are acting. 461 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:09,680 They're able to act it to AT. To the point where some actors. 462 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:13,040 They start to create new characteristics that this. 463 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:15,840 Character. They are now adapting into their 464 00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:19,320 actual personality. To summarize that whole 20 465 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:23,400 minutes where I went on a rant on self concept, Work on your 466 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,640 beliefs. OK, remind yourself every 467 00:21:25,640 --> 00:21:29,200 morning on who you are, how you now want to view yourself, how 468 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:32,040 you now want people to view you. Create affirmations. 469 00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:33,800 Tell yourself those affirmations. 470 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:36,080 Or you can listen to affirmations on YouTube. 471 00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:38,280 Whatever you like. When you were going out in 472 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:42,720 public, step into that alter ego of that confidence and start 473 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:45,120 showing up as her. Even when you are talking to 474 00:21:45,120 --> 00:21:46,880 your specific person or something like that, or you're 475 00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:48,760 going on a date, step into that alter ego. 476 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:50,920 Become the most confident version of yourself. 477 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:53,920 Even if you're not feeling like her right now, that's OK. 478 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:57,960 Naturally you will become her. Now we're going to step into the 479 00:21:57,960 --> 00:22:00,160 second part. Of the. 480 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:04,280 Formula that I teach in The Blueprint, which is creating new 481 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:07,840 assumptions about the person that you are manifesting. 482 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:12,200 If you're manifesting a specific person to change the way they 483 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:17,040 are showing up, or if you want them to act a certain way, you 484 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:20,440 need to change. The beliefs that you have about 485 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:23,720 how they are. Currently showing up and acting 486 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:26,400 towards you. This means letting go of any 487 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:28,920 resentment that you have. A lot of people. 488 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:31,720 That are manifesting a specific person back and there's. 489 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:33,480 Like a lot of. Circumstances that have 490 00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:36,480 happened, it's really important to just forgive. 491 00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:38,120 What has? Happened in the past. 492 00:22:38,120 --> 00:22:41,200 Maybe that means forgiving yourself, forgiving them, and 493 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:44,160 just coming to the conclusion you know what, maybe this was 494 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:46,880 meant to happen. I was able to. 495 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:49,040 Learn from the situation and as a. 496 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:51,960 Result I was able. To readjust myself, readjust the 497 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:56,320 beliefs that may have triggered me in some sort of way in the 498 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:57,400 past. And I'm going. 499 00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:01,080 To shift the way. I am viewing the situation for 500 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:02,760 me. A way that I. 501 00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:06,440 Like to kind of. Let go of the past is to view. 502 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:10,520 That person as they didn't know any better sometimes. 503 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:13,280 I'll just look at people as just a soul. 504 00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:16,400 That came on this earth. I know I'm getting a little. 505 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,560 Esoteric with you guys, but. That's really. 506 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:24,320 All that we are, I look at people as just the soul that 507 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:26,160 they are. I let go of like their 508 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:28,840 appearance, their looks. And I just see them for. 509 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:32,240 This soul. That chose to come on this earth 510 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:35,880 and experience life, and that life is not perfect and people 511 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:39,240 make mistakes and I'm choosing to believe. 512 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:43,200 That their soul. Is making these mistakes so that 513 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:46,600 they can learn from it, so that they can grow from it because 514 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:47,960 that's. What life is about? 515 00:23:48,360 --> 00:23:51,960 We're not on this planet to be perfect and. 516 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:56,360 Always make the best. Decisions in life, but we learn 517 00:23:56,920 --> 00:24:00,400 through our mistakes. How to re evaluate ourselves? 518 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:04,000 How to make better decisions so when you're able to create? 519 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:07,320 That level of. Forgiveness within yourself, no 520 00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,080 matter what that person did to you. 521 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:11,240 There has been things in my life that I. 522 00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:14,000 Was just. It was really hard for me to 523 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:15,000 let. Go of it. 524 00:24:15,120 --> 00:24:19,240 And I was like, how can you do something like that and I just 525 00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:22,120 chose to view them. As a lost soul. 526 00:24:22,120 --> 00:24:24,160 Like they didn't know any better. 527 00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:28,000 And it's OK. Like I forgive you. 528 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:33,400 It really helps to just let. Go and release the anger. 529 00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:34,840 That you have towards. Them. 530 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:39,600 And from there you're gonna choose to view them from a 531 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:42,320 different perspective. And that's why I really. 532 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:46,200 Like the process of. Letting go of any resentment 533 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:48,680 because then it's like a clean slate. 534 00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:52,640 You're choosing to see them from a different lens, and when you 535 00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:57,200 do this they naturally will start to show up differently. 536 00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:00,280 Because this is how. The law of assumption works. 537 00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:04,560 What you assume about yourself or another individual is. 538 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,840 Exactly how they're. Going to reflect. 539 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:09,680 Back to you. So if you're manifesting this 540 00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:14,000 person to come back and love you and prioritize you, make you 541 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:18,600 feel chosen and just show up in the way that you want them to, 542 00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:23,160 you need to start holding beliefs like they love me, they 543 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:25,560 deeply care for me. They see how? 544 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:30,840 Valuable I am, they realize that I am extremely hard to replace, 545 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:33,160 that they're never going to find someone like me. 546 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:36,200 They realize that I. Literally changed their life for 547 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:41,240 the better and that to them losing me is like losing 548 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:45,800 $1,000,000 for example if someone lost $1,000,000 lottery. 549 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:49,520 Ticket they would be. Thinking about that their entire 550 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:52,600 life, I want you to view. Yourself as that lottery. 551 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:57,840 Ticket losing you is extremely detrimental, like nobody's ever 552 00:25:57,840 --> 00:25:59,080 going to. Forget about you. 553 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:01,120 OK, they're going to be thinking about you for the rest of. 554 00:26:01,120 --> 00:26:04,080 Their. Life and how they wish that they 555 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:05,520 could. See that lottery ticket? 556 00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,440 One more time and just. Have access to it. 557 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:12,360 The thing is, only after you've worked on yourself concept and 558 00:26:12,360 --> 00:26:15,320 you have built your confidence back up is when you start to 559 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:19,000 work on changing the assumptions that you have around your 560 00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,560 specific person. I see a lot of times. 561 00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:25,120 People try to just. Throw their self concept work 562 00:26:25,120 --> 00:26:27,040 under a rug. They're like, no, I feel good in 563 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:28,720 myself concept. I don't need to work on that. 564 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:31,280 And then they go manifesting their specific person back. 565 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:33,680 They come back, but again, they're giving hot and cold 566 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:36,280 treatment and it's triggering the fuck out of them and the 567 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:38,200 reason why is because they did not. 568 00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:41,320 Thoroughly do their self. Concept work and that's why in 569 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:45,160 the blueprint I make it extremely clear you need to do 570 00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:49,080 self concept work first and get yourself to a point where. 571 00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:50,440 It's just like of. Course they want me. 572 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:51,520 Of course they want to be with me. 573 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:53,560 I am the prize. I love myself. 574 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:54,920 I'm literally obsessed with myself. 575 00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:57,800 Then when you are feeling that confident within yourself, 576 00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:01,600 you're seeing yourself as that fucking girl, the dream girl. 577 00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:06,680 Then you go on to shifting your assumptions around them and 578 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:08,840 telling yourself how much. They care for you. 579 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:10,800 How much? They see how valuable. 580 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:13,040 You are. How much you've impacted their 581 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,480 life, How they? Love you and care for you. 582 00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:17,760 That's when you. Take this. 583 00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:21,400 On this episode went a little longer than I. 584 00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:26,360 Expected, but I really believe that this podcast episode. 585 00:27:26,360 --> 00:27:29,680 Went a little longer than I was anticipating. 586 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:35,160 But there was so. Many gems in this episode and I 587 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:36,960 really want you. To like, take. 588 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:40,680 All this in and implement it. Because this is life. 589 00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:44,240 Changing this is exactly what I teach my clients and through 590 00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:46,560 this work. They're able to, really. 591 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:49,600 Step into the most confident version of themselves, where 592 00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:53,360 maybe in their past they've never felt this confident and it 593 00:27:53,360 --> 00:27:55,880 just makes me. So happy to see people. 594 00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:59,600 Step into their most authentic self and be unapologetic. 595 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:00,960 About it. And as a. 596 00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:02,920 Result. They always attract. 597 00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:04,840 The love they want they. I always have people. 598 00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:06,360 Showing up in the way that they want. 599 00:28:06,360 --> 00:28:09,600 Because it is just. A change within yourself that 600 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:12,080 needs to be made and so I really. 601 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:16,080 Hope that you receive. So much value from this. 602 00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,640 Podcast episode. And really, implement everything 603 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:22,880 that I talked about and you will experience the changes within 604 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:25,360 your life too. If you haven't already, feel 605 00:28:25,360 --> 00:28:28,360 free to check out the Love Manifestation Blueprint, which 606 00:28:28,360 --> 00:28:31,040 is my new program that I have just launched. 607 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,080 Where? I go over this exact. 608 00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:36,400 Step by step formula, so if you're interested. 609 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:37,960 Feel free to check that. Out. 610 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:40,920 But I just wanted to say thank you so much for listening and. 611 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:43,840 As always, I'm so. Grateful for each and everyone 612 00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:46,640 of you rating the podcast five stars. 613 00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:50,760 It means so much. I love making these episodes and 614 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,040 I will continue to make more and more. 615 00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:56,080 So again, thank you so much for listening and I will see you in 616 00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:57,320 the next. Episode.