Hello my loves and welcome to another.
Podcast episode of Busy. Glowing up, I'm your host, Liv
Marima, and I'm. So excited to be back.
You guys, I know I took some time away from uploading but I
am really excited. For today's episode.
We're going to be doing a bit of AQ and A on my Instagram I.
Asked you guys what? You wanted me to cover in our
Q&A today. And by the way, if you're not
following me on Instagram, it's at Liv Marima.
The majority of the Q&A questions were about manifesting
axes. Moving on from X's how to call
Your power back detachment, and I'm really excited to get into
this because a pattern that I have noticed within these QA
questions is there's so much waiting happening when it comes
to people wanting their exes to come back.
You're waiting for them to call you, you're waiting for them to
text, You're waiting for them to tell you how much they love you.
And that's the thing, the reason why you're not seeing any
movement. Is because you're waiting.
For something outside of you to make you feel a certain way
about. Yourself.
I'm definitely going to dive into that a little bit more
later on in. Today's episode, but.
I want to. Start off with the 1st.
Question that we have and that is how to move on from your ex I
promise you if you. Follow this step by step.
That I'm about to give you for moving on from your ex.
Not only are you going to feel the most magnetic version of
yourself, most confident version of yourself.
You're going to be detached. From your ex, you're not going
to be waiting on them, you're not going to be giving your
power away to them. You're going to be removing them
off the pedestal and as a result, they're going to be the
ones obsessing over you and. This is through the power.
Of self concept work and really doing the inner work and
removing any unhealthy attachments that you.
Have. To men or your exes from the
past. When you start doing this then
you have plenty of options. You know if you want your ex, go
for it. If you want to call in a Newman
that checks all your boxes. Go for it.
Because you're going to have multiple options.
My biggest advice to moving on from an.
X That also really works fast to get.
Them running back. After you if that's what.
You want. Either way it creates detachment
is to look back on all the times that they've breadcrumbed.
You or just did something that gave you the.
Ick. And I want you to think about
that scenario and be like, Oh my God, I can totally do better
than that. Like that is the bare minimum
and get really turned off by that.
Behavior. And I get it because the those
who are manifesting their X fact, they're like, well, why
would I think negatively about my ex?
Because you don't want that version that treated you like
shit and gave you bread crumbs. That's not who we're manifesting
back. We are manifesting a whole new
different person, a completely different identity within this
specific person. And that's the problem that
people have when it comes to manifesting a specific person.
They don't even want to let go. Of the old story.
And the bread crumbs. It's almost like some people
are. So attached to that old.
Version of how they hurt you of the things they said to you.
And unfortunately, manifestation cannot happen if you.
Are stuck to that old. Version and telling yourself on
a day-to-day. Basis what they did.
To hurt you in the past and thinking that you're going to
get anything different in the future, that is just complete
delusion in a bad way. But what happens is when you
look back on all the things. That your ex did that was just.
Bare minimum, like giving bread crumbs, it makes you realize
that you were kind of doing charity.
Work. That you can do way.
Better. And what does that do?
That raises yourself. Confidence in what?
You believe that you deserve. And when you increase your worth
and value and grounded in believing what you deserve,
naturally your exes and the men in your life are going to have
to show up meeting those standards because otherwise
you're completely turned off by it.
And that's what I want for everyone is for you to be turned
off by bad treatment. Why are we attracted to men who
don't text us back, or don't call us, or don't plan?
Any dates like I? Want you to really look within
yourself concept because at this point it doesn't even have
anything to do with that person. Why are you entertaining someone
that gives you bread crumbs? Is it because like and don't
give me the reason of like they're attractive or they have
money? Because guess what?
There's. Plenty of other people that.
Are also. Attractive and have money.
It's just not even worth it to be putting up with something
like that. You're just doing a.
Disservice to yourself. I know sometimes I come across
very strong in my. Podcast episodes, but.
You know, that's sometimes like the motivation we need to really
awaken that within ourselves and be like, wait a minute, like,
what am I doing? And why am I settling for this?
Because girl, trust me. Like, I've been there.
And now that I'm on this other side of it, I'm in my dream
relationship. I'm so happy.
I literally want that. For all of you, because.
Trust me, like at one point I was also in that.
Place where I was like is this the best that I get like just.
Waiting on a text message and a call.
No bestie like you deserve a man that goes out of his way, that
plans the dates that. Pays for your trips that flies
you out takes. You on trips and The thing is
when it comes to this type. Of work, you need to believe
that's available for you. Too.
And that's like another story. Maybe I can go and talk about
that like later on in this. Episode because there's still
other. Questions I want to cover.
But. You know, if you don't.
Believe you're. Deserving of a man that treats
you like a queen. That obsesses over you.
That goes out of his way for. You, you're not going to get it
right. Because at a core level.
Everything that you are experiencing with men is a
creation of your own beliefs. You can't even call in your
dream man or the dream version of your ex.
If you are so stuck. On the old.
Story of how they hurt. You it just can't happen.
And for that to. Shift you have to be.
Disciplined enough to tell yourself the new story?
OK, if he's been dry and inconsistent or you're in no
contact, you need to tell yourself the new story of what
you want to experience with this person and how you want them to
show up, raising your standards and setting that.
Bar up high. And seeing yourself as the dream
girl, as any man is. Lucky to be with you.
Is going to open up a lot of. Doors for you.
It's going to attract very different types of men.
Who treat you very. Differently than what you're
used to, and it's also going to call in your SPS and your exes.
For those who don't know what an.
SP is SP is specific. Person for in the manifestation
community, but it's going to cause them to show up in a very
different way and I want to share.
With you a success story. Because I want you guys to be
really motivated. To do this type.
Of work. I don't want it to be like, oh,
it's so much inner work like. It.
Pays off bestie. Not only does it.
Feel good for you, but you see crazy results.
And this can change your life and your love life for forever.
One of my beautiful clients who took my manifestation blueprint
a few months. Back she started with.
Being in no contact with her specific person, the
circumstances where he was saying he doesn't want to get
back together. With her that it's.
Over for this time, all of that stuff and what she did is she
really went in and did the internal.
Work. She started to do the.
Self concept work and realize wait a minute I can have so much
more. She did not put a limit for
herself. A lot of people just limit
themselves to an SP. But what she did, is she just.
Fully went in on herself concept for those who have taken my
manifestation blueprint you know that I teach manifestation in a
way where we work on self concept our.
Identity the way that we. Think and feel about ourselves
and then the other. Part of it is also.
Shifting the beliefs that we have around or desire a specific
person. She did not make this about him
or this journey that I'm doing this work so I can get him back.
I'm doing this work so I can feel so good about myself, feel
confident, get back to a. Place where?
I'm feeling so good about myself, just like I was before I
even met this man. And by doing that, I know and I
trust. That.
He's going to come back into my life, but not only that, I know
I'm going to be calling in multiple men because I know that
I can not only just get my specific person, but I can have
multiple men showing up and treating me like a queen
because. It's that easy.
I know that I have full control over my reality and the key part
to my client's. Success is that she?
Was not obsessing over the outcome.
She was not checking her 3D every single day and being like,
oh, I did this for a week and I don't see any movement.
I must be doing it wrong or you know, he's never going to come
back, right? Like she was not telling herself
that it's not going to work out when she doesn't see any
movement. She really worked on getting
herself. To a place where she's.
No longer triggered that she continues to enjoy.
Her. Life even without having him in
her life right now. Because here's the thing,
manifesting a specific person doesn't have to be this like,
dreadful, miserable. Process where you put your.
Life on hold and you spend your free time worrying about them
and waiting on a message and telling all your friends about.
How he treated you poorly. And talking bad about your
specific person, right? And the reason why I'm saying
these things is. Because if you are doing.
Any of these things you need to stop right now if you want.
To see results happen within. Your reality when it comes to
your relationships and your specific person.
After she did the. First portion of the blueprint
which is self concept. She also.
Worked around her beliefs around manifestation in itself.
Right, you have to believe that you.
Can get what you want, you have to believe that manifestation.
Is real that you? Can call in the things that you
want regardless of circumstances and to.
Do that. It is as easy as.
Telling yourself I am a master at manifesting.
It is so easy for me to manifest and then put in your person's
name. The more and more you tell
yourself that, the more your mind accepts that, and it's.
Going to start to reflect. Those beliefs, it's going to.
Speed up the process. For you, you can have a great
self concept, you can have great beliefs around your specific
person, but if you also. Struggle with the fact that.
You can manifest someone back. You can do it that circumstances
don't matter then. That could also be the.
Problem and the reason as to why you still haven't seen shifts
happen yet. You need to understand that this
world is a simulation. Like, I don't know how else to
explain it to you, but we live in a world where there is
multiple infinite realities happening all simultaneously.
There's a version of you. That has your specific.
Person, there's a version of you that doesn't, and it's all
happening simultaneously. And the other thing that she was
working on is she was going back into the past.
Right this. Is what I was mentioning in the
beginning. Of this episode she was.
Changing the story of what happened in the past so for the
times where. She was really triggered or.
Her person said something that was triggering, triggering for
her. She would go.
Back and revise it with. A new story with a positive
story. So for example where he said
that he doesn't want to be. With her that he's breaking up
with her, she would. Revise that and change the story
and instead place her focus on the loving moments they shared
and going back into that moment and really feeling it to be
true. And here's the thing, that's
where thought transmission comes in.
When you are thinking about someone in a positive way and
you are feeling these heightened emotions around them.
Positive. Or negative, right?
This is where you have to be careful too, because.
If you're constantly triggered by someone, you're thinking
really negatively towards them. They're picking that up.
They're picking that up from your energy and that's also
keeping them away. But if you do that.
In a positive way where you're feeling like.
Wow, I felt so loved. By him.
I could really feel how special. I am to him and reminding
yourself of all the good memories you shared and you can.
Continue to really focus. On that, you're going to
continue to. Solidify the beliefs of.
The new. Story of how this person shows
up by using the past right if it's hard for you to create.
A new experience of how you want them to show.
Up use the past of the. Good times that you shared with
them and then when you go back and think about them, you're not
going to think about all the times they hurt.
You. You're going to think about all
the good times that. You shared with.
Them and I believe after just I think 2-3 months of my client
doing this. Work she had her specific.
Person reach out to her and say how much he wants to.
Be back together with her regardless of.
Circumstances, regardless of what he said in the past, none
of that stopped her from getting the results that she wanted
because she believed in this process and she stuck to it and
she didn't allow self. Sabotage to take over I see a
lot of. People also self sabotaging
relationships. This is where the identity work
comes in. You know you.
Have to show up as that. Version that has this man
already. Obsessed with you?
That means the version of you that has this man all over you,
obsessing over you, taking you out on dates.
You're not checking his following.
You're not stalking him. You're not spending your whole
day waiting on him to text. You or call you.
You're too busy for that. You have other.
Things going for you, you don't settle for bread and try.
To fill the gap. For a man and plan the dates and
take on that masculine role being stuck in the waiting
energy. Is the worst possible.
Thing you can do because when you are waiting, subconsciously
you're telling yourself you don't have what you want because
if you did have what you want you wouldn't be waiting around
for it. And I get that sometimes it's
hard to, you know, assume and feel like you already have it.
And you know, you don't even have to.
Feel as though you already have it.
If you can, continue to tell yourself the new story, even if
you don't believe it, and fill up your mind with.
The idea of. Having it, eventually those new
thoughts are going to replace the old ones.
If you're in a no contact situation and you're constantly
reminiscing on the fact that you're in no contact and they
haven't texted you yet and it's been how many months now or
whatever your circumstances. Are there's a third party you
need? To stop entertaining.
Those thoughts because yourself talk is what is.
Creating your reality and not what you're saying out loud,
what you were thinking in your mind.
You can't expect to say your affirmations or listen to a
affirmation tape a few times a week but then spend majority of
your day thinking negative thoughts and how they don't want
you and how they moved on and how they don't miss you and how
they hurt you in the past and how they're never going to
change. That's not going to help.
Whatsoever it is about. Telling yourself the new story
every single day and sticking to it.
Regardless of what you see. Out happening on the outside,
regardless of how much time has. Passed because.
Essentially, it only takes 21 days to form a new belief and
understand it's not your thoughts that manifest, it's
your beliefs. So if you have a core rooted
belief that. You will never get your.
Person back or that they're. Never going to want you back.
That belief is going to. Override all of the.
Affirmations that you're saying if you are dominantly thinking
negatively, you simply just cannot entertain those negative
stories if you want to experience something different.
That was like a really. Long Q&A response, but we are
going on to another and actually love this question and somebody
asked how to make him spoil you and do nice things.
For you I absolutely love. Teaching this because it is.
So easy. To have men spoil you and give
you Princess treatment and it all.
Starts with exactly that. You have to believe that it is
effortless. It is easy.
For men to do nice things for you and go.
Out of their way for. You and see you as deserving of
being treated like a queen. You have to radiate that energy.
You. Have to see yourself as worthy.
Of that, you're not the type of. Girl, that just settles.
For anyone like the man that. You choose to be with.
He has to. Meet your standards, and those
standards come with having a man that's very thoughtful.
He doesn't necessarily have to. Blow a lot.
Of money on you either it's about doing thoughtful things
right and for the guys listening.
To this episode I. Really want you to understand
that when you find the right girl.
That. Shows her interest in you.
The way to win her over is to do sweet and kind gestures.
I know that there's a. Lot of stuff out there.
Where men are saying that, you know, girls no longer want a man
that is very romantic and does all these things they want like
this. Asshole who's hot and cold?
And ghosts and play games they want the bad guy.
If you're looking for a healthy and long long term relationship,
that is just not the route to go.
You're going to continue to attract women who are either
very clingy and. Possessive over you or the other
way which. Is emotionally unavailable and
want nothing to do with you when you find the.
Right girl who appreciates. The things that you do for her
and she will do everything she can to mirror back that love and
appreciation to you. But it all.
Starts with being vulnerable and being OK.
To show that. Affectionate and loving side of
you, but also be. Protective over it.
If you do a kind gesture and it's not being appreciated or
you're being taken for granted. You were tracked right away.
And know that OK, this is not the one, but I'm going to
continue to be this version of myself.
Because it feels good. For me, and eventually you will
attract the one that is right for you.
So many people in the dating space try to be someone they're
not. And that's the problem, because
then you're going to attract people who mirror.
Back that exact. Energy to you when you come into
the dating space with an open heart.
You will attract people who also have a very.
Open heart and are loving. You attract what you.
Are and if for whatever reason you call in someone that is not
respectful or taking you for granted, you will completely
shut it down right away. And that's how you know you've
evolved with yourself concept because your standards are up
higher. You know your value.
Back to what I was. Saying before, if you want a man
to spoil you, tell him that. You like to receive gifts?
Tell. Him, the things.
That you like. Men are very simple and you
can't expect for a man to always know what's going through your
head. A lot of women, they get mad at
their man because they're like, Oh well, why don't you do this
for me? Why don't you do that for me?
Have you asked him? Have you told him what you want?
Because sometimes you know, you can't blame them.
Sometimes they just simply don't know.
But I guarantee if you start to communicate your needs to a man,
either he's going to do. It for you or he?
Doesn't. And if he doesn't, then that's
how you know like he's not the right one for you.
Don't waste your time with someone like that.
Don't go trying to someone instead when you pull away and
show that you are not. Afraid to lose.
Them you're not afraid to go off and find someone that will meet
your needs, then that will trigger him to show up in the
way that you want him to, because then it's going to
trigger. That like fear of.
Losing you. And if he's not afraid to lose
you, bestie like he's not it because the man that loves you
and that would do anything for you.
He'd fight. For you.
Simple as that. There is a specific way to
communicate. What you want from a man, and
you want to make sure that you do this in a very sweet,
heartfelt way. You never want to demand
something from a man because that will automatically make
them. Feel as though they are.
Competing with you, it's you're going to be stepping into your
masculine energy. You have to start being
comfortable with asking for things and doing it in a.
Way that is really effortless. In a way, it's not like you're
trying to make him do these things.
You just simply ask for it and you receive it.
And of course, it's really nice to have someone that does things
for you without having to ask. But the way that.
You set the tone for that is by telling them the things that.
You do like so. That they know.
Briefly like what are? Things that they can do to just
put a smile on your face and make you happy and make you feel
like you are just in your feminine energy so you want to.
Portray this idea. To a man that like.
If he does. This thing for you, if he makes
you happy, it's going to make him really happy.
Men want to make. You happy, It feels good.
For them, because when they. See that they do.
Something to put a smile on your face.
It feels good for them. So I want you to get used to the
idea of asking for things and holding the belief that they
like to do things for you. It makes them feel good.
My favorite way to set the tone for.
This is just what you. Expect from your partner not.
Expect but like just. You know ways that you want your
partner to show up. For you.
Is to start the conversation of like, what are things that make
you feel really valued and appreciated in relationships or
like small kind gestures that make you feel really happy?
And then once you hear his, then you know you're going to assume
that he's going to ask the same for you.
And that's where you can say. Well, I really love it.
When you would do like small things for me, like even
surprisingly with flowers once a week, I really want to have.
This flower. Vase in the kitchen where?
It just gets filled with fresh flowers.
Every week that would make. Me, the happiest girl ever.
And I would just feel. So adored by.
You and I think that would continue to keep that
flirtatious connection, continue.
To hold that spark. Between us.
Or you can say something like. I love to receive gifts.
Like for example, I really love when I.
Receive gifts I really love. Jewelry.
It just makes me. Feel so beautiful.
And am I feminine? And I love to know that the
things that I'm wearing are from you so that it always reminds me
of you. See.
Notice how you say. Like how?
Them doing these things for you is always going to.
Circle. Back to them and how special and
grateful you are for them. Trust me, every time you say
this to a man, he's going to be like, what more can I do for
you? Another question that I have.
Here is how to be. Confident around your ex when
you see them, so I'm going to assume that you know there.
Is a lot of people. Out there who have an ex or a
specific person that they see in public.
Whether it's through. Work or events and stuff and the
way that you. Carry.
Yourself speaks volumes. You can completely not say
anything. To your specific.
Person, but if internally you are feeling anxious, you're
feeling insecure, you're overthinking around them, it's
just automatically going to strip away your magnetism and
they're going to just overlook you and they're going to mirror
back that same energy to you. If you want to appear confident
and magnetic around an axe, that you don't really.
Speak to or for whatever. Reason You're seeing them out in
public and you want them to see you that you're doing good you
need. To feel super good without.
Having them in your. Life you want to get.
To a point where you don't even think about them whatsoever.
It's almost like they disappeared from your mind and
your life. Because remember, the more time
you're focusing on someone else and thinking about them
constantly revolving your life around them, the more and more
they're going to look away from you and they're going.
To put the focus back. On to them.
However, when you create. A life where you are.
So happy without them where you finally feel like you don't need
them to be happy and you've fully moved on and you're in a
better place without them is always when you're going to
trigger them to be like Oh my God I miss you.
Think about it like this in a messed up.
Way it feels good for. Your ex or your specific person
to see that you're not doing good without them because.
That. Boosts their ego and they're.
Like, Oh yeah. I made their life so much better
and now that I'm not in. Their life, they're lost.
They're. They're not doing good without
me. Because I placed, I had.
So much importance in their life and I'm just such this great
person, right? They're going to put their focus
on them and feed their own ego and be.
Like oh wow. You know, like this person can't
get over me. They're obsessed with me.
If you want to call your power back, you need.
To get to a place where you. Feel so fucking good without
having them in your life where you being apart from them or
breaking up or the breakup doesn't affect you whatsoever.
If you can level up and glow up and do way better with them not
being in your life, they're instantly going to come crawling
back because then, and even if you're not seeing them out in
public, even if you're in a no contact situation, this is the
same thing. People can feel that energy
shift within you, even if they're on the.
Opposite side of the. World or they're in the same
room with you. Understand that you're connected
to everyone. Especially the people that
you've shared a past with they're.
Always going to be connected to you because you have to
understand that at one point there was like a transactional
energy transfer between you 2. You have to understand that
they're always going to be connected to your energy.
The way to get yourself. To this place is to accept the
past. In order to move on from your ex
and no longer let the. Past dictate your future.
And the past hold you down and make you feel not good enough
and remind yourself on how you weren't chosen or whatever you
need to accept the past and be like.
This is what? Happened and I'm going to just
choose to accept what happened, not overthink it and move on
because what what are my options right now?
I can sit here and be the victim and feel insecure and give them
all my power. Sit here and feel so lonely and
let them. Feel how they hurt.
Me and that my life is not the same without them.
Or I can choose to level up and become the version of myself
that they have not even ever seen before.
The version of myself where I love myself like never before.
Have a complete glow up, raise my standards, believe that I can
do even better than this man, and start walking around like I
am that. Bitch that gets.
Everything she wants because she is the dream girl.
Any man that loses me, that's detrimental to them, that's a
loss for them. And they always realize that
down the road, when you start to have that energy and that
outlook on the breakup, that's when they're going to be running
after you. That's when they see you in
public and they're going to be like, holy shit, she's doing so
much better than me. I look like a total loser now
because you know, my life isn't together.
I'm still the same guy. Like I still.
You know, not much has changed my life.
But look at this girl. Like ever since we broke up,
she's just doing so much better without me.
And guess what? That makes them feel like shit.
And they're going to try to come back and be like, you know what?
Like she's changed so much. Like I want to feel energized.
I want to feel. Good like this too.
And I. Realized how good I felt.
Being in her energy and it really sucks for me to.
See that I brought her. Down you have to understand this
isn't just like a manifestation thing, this is like a
psychological thing. We are always.
Drawn to people that have confidence, that carry
themselves with grace, that think highly of themselves, that
prioritize themselves and don't put anybody on the pedestal,
fortunately. We are also repelled by people
who are people pleasers, who live their lives for others.
Who don't prioritize themselves, Who don't think highly of
themselves. You have to understand that
you're never going to get the love that you want by being the
victim and feeling bad for yourself for what happened in
the past, whatever happened in the past with your exes and all
your past relationships. You have to let that go.
If you are wanting to get married and have a man that
treats you like a queen, you need.
To choose to believe that. You are only deserving of that
and a man like. That is out there.
For you and you are going to. Have it because if you.
Carry on the beliefs. Of well, I was always.
Cheated on the past and all the men that were with me, they
didn't want me or they left me for someone else.
But I want to have my husband. I want to get married.
But every single man that you go into dating, but in the back of
your mind you're thinking, oh, I don't think it's going to work
out. And they're going to be just the
same like every other guy. History is going to repeat
itself. I'm really hurt, scared to get
hurt again. You need to let that shit go.
Because at that point that's just self sabotage and I see it
happen a lot where there's. People that self.
Sabotage their relationships all the time.
They find the right person, but because of the inner work that
they haven't done or they carry on their past hurts onto these
new relationships, these people, it pushes them away.
And then they sit there thinking like where did I go wrong?
Why is my love life never work out for me?
Because you didn't. Shift the beliefs that you.
Originally had when it comes to men and how you.
Believe that relationships work out for you if you if you simply
chose to. Believe that you know not all
men are the same, that men have the best intentions for you,
that they treat you with grace and love and respect, that you
don't have to worry and that it is OK.
For you to feel safe. Around a man.
And that they will. Stay by your side.
Then you will have to experience that, but you have to understand
that every single experience that you have had that went,
that turned negative look back into your thought pattern and
your beliefs. There's also people that are.
In relationships and then they're constantly anticipating
this person is going to leave them and then they eventually.
Do leave because you. Created that in your mind first.
Things were perfectly fine until you chose to continue to believe
that they're going to leave you. What makes you think that you're
going to get anything other than that?
You need to have self-control, and when you are dipping into
that mindset, you need. To also realize that.
You are not your thoughts and that it is.
OK to choose to believe. Something else the way?
To fix this is to. Do nervous system regulation, do
breath work, do EFT tapping, practice self talk and telling
yourself the new. Story like if you.
Have been in really traumatic relationships in the past and
you're afraid of getting hurt. You need to start telling
yourself the new story of. Even though I was hurt in the
past, I am still choosing to believe that there are good men
out there that will treat me with love and.
Respect or if you are. In a situation with your
specific person, even though this person told me that they
never want to be with me and that they lost feelings for me
or that they even found someone else, I'm choosing to believe.
That they still. Love me and that.
They feel a deep. Connection with me that they
cannot find with anyone else. Because I know how much value I
bring into relationships. I know that I change people's
lives for the better, and I know.
That it is hard. To replace me.
I am irreplaceable if. You are able to shift.
The story like that you are going to be manifesting on
autopilot every single time because again, your beliefs.
Yourself talk creates. Reality, you have full control
over this and you need to stop falling back and thinking that
everything that's happening on the.
Outside has. Control over you.
Because it doesn't. It is all created within the
mind first. You need to also look into the
self concept. Of like do I?
Want to be the version of myself that's constantly feeling bad
for herself, that's feeling like the victim, that's feeling not
chosen. That feels like men don't love
me. Why you need to?
Work on your relationship with yourself and also your
relationship with men. Start telling yourself I love
men, men love me. I always get amazing treatment.
I always manifest the things I want easily.
Start changing the way that. You talk to yourself.
And inside my blueprint I. Have this very easy to.
Follow out process on how to do this on a day-to-day basis and
how to really shift these old patterns, these old beliefs, and
start calling in new experiences.
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But I just want to summarize really quickly everything that I
talked about in the podcast that is really going to help you
transcend and shift a lot of the things that you may be going
through right now when it comes to your dating life and your
overall self. Concept number one, you want to
make sure that you are creating a daily routine for.
Yourself where you are. Feeling really good within
yourself and you are not waiting on anyone to make you feel a
certain type of way you are giving yourself.
All of the love that you require or search.
For in a partner because when you can give.
Yourself that love first. Then you essentially you don't
need anyone to. Fill up your cup, you feel
already fulfilled. And so your partner is just
going to be an additional. Part to your life of.
Bringing in that happiness. You want to create that
happiness and confidence from within.
You want to make sure that you are not waiting around for
anyone if you are doing anything that you know.
Suggests that you are. Waiting.
Then you're going to keep finding yourself in that waiting
situation. If you're waiting on a text,
waiting on a call, waiting for them to choose you, you're just
going to continue to manifest experiences.
Where you are. Waiting and you're not seeing
any change, instead what you want to do.
Is tell yourself that you. Are master at manifesting your.
Desire. It is so easy.
For me to manifest my specific person is so easy.
For me to get the things I want, I manifest on autopilot.
I don't have to. Work hard to get.
The things that I want #2 Work on shifting your beliefs around
your past dating experiences, your past relationships, or your
specific person. If you have a pattern of always
being hurt, always being left, always being cheated on in your
relationships, you need to. Close that chapter of your.
Life and. Choose to believe, even though
that was my past. Experience and relationships I
am choosing now to. Believe that.
Finding a loving person that treats me like a queen, that
respects me, that does nice things for me is available for
me and that is the only treatment I receive now from all
the men in my life, if not just one.
You want to get to a point where if someone bread crumbs you or
does things that makes you feel not good about yourself, you get
turned off by it it. Gives you the ick.
Like a man not texting you back or not calling you or texting
you every. Few days that gives you the ick
like. Why do you think that I'm the
type? Of girl that settles for that.
Because babe. Like I'm not that girl, you
know, Go find a girl. That will deal with that.
Because I'm not. I'm out here trying to find a
man that's going to treat me like a queen and spoil me.
And if you can't provide that for me by like, I'm not wasting
my time on you because I. Also have the belief of.
There's an abundance of men out there, you know, even if.
You have a good. Career.
You have money, whatever, but you're not treating me good.
I'm not afraid. To walk away because I.
Also know that I can find other successful men, other men with
money, other men with the. Traits that I I.
Enjoy it within you. I know I can find in someone
else because I'm not going to limit myself.
And here's the thing you have to understand.
Sorry again, I'm kidding. I'm making this podcast long.
Men have an abundance mindset when it comes to women.
Men believe that there is plenty of fish in the sea.
There is so many girls and if. A girl just has like.
Maybe a few things that he doesn't like, he's on to the
next one because he's not wasting his time.
He's going to find his dream girl.
You need to start seeing your dating life the same way like a
lot of women we tend to. Just like accept and forgive.
You know a few times you screwed up, but you know, I really.
Like these other qualities about you so I'm.
Just going to stay with you and hope that you never do it again.
No, because also if you show a man that when he disrespects
you, you're going to stay, he's going to continue to.
Do it. You have to.
Show a man that you are not afraid to walk away and that is
what triggers him to change. That is what triggers him to be
the man that you want him to be. So make sure you keep that in
mind. If you are manifesting a
specific person, you need to go back and change.
And rewrite the old. Stories, for example, if they
told you that they don't want to be.
With you or they broke up with you, whatever the story is.
You need to go back and focus on the good and rewrite that.
You can also. Rewrite it of like.
Even though. They said all these.
Things I know that deep down they don't mean it, and I know
that they're going to change their mind.
I know people can change because that way you're not placing all
this importance and significance on what they said one time.
It makes you have the. Belief that you are.
Open to receive a different outcome from this that it's not
just stuck in this one way of what happened who knows how long
ago and the way that. You do this is by.
Telling yourself. A new positive story start.
Speaking to. Yourself as if you already.
Have the things that you want in your life start speaking to
yourself like you have this man in your life and that you're so
happy and just talking about the dream life.
Already. Because that's really what.
Closes the gap from where you are right now to having the
thing that you want. You have nothing to lose.
There is no reason to reminisce on the past and things that are
hurting you from the past. You need to understand that's
not serving you in any way. And when you continue to do
that, it's just going to continue to prolong this entire.
Process today's episode. Went a little longer than.
Usual, but I really hope that today's episode gave you.
Some more insight on certain things and different
perspectives as. Always please feel free to.
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