Hello my loves and welcome to another podcast episode of Busy
Glowing up. I'm so excited to be back.
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and I'm so happy that you are enjoying the podcast.
So today we're going to be talking all about becoming the
dream girl that every man looks at and is like wow she is
different from all the other women I have met.
There is a few main characteristics that a man looks
for in a woman that when he sees it he automatically thinks wow
she's different from any woman I have ever seen.
So today I'm going to be sharing all of the secrets with you guys
on how to embody this energy so that you can start attracting
high quality men. So the men in your life, they
raise up to your standards. They start doing more for you
because what happens is when you shift within yourself.
Yourself concept, which is what I talk about on a daily basis,
is when you level up within yourself, naturally what starts
to happen is the men in your life, they start to see you as
higher than them. If you're stuck over some guy
that you're obsessing over and you're putting him on a pedestal
and you see him as this person that is unattainable to have
that it's so hard to get his attention.
And whatever you're going through right now, when you
start to do this process, you're going to start to notice really
quick that he's going to be the one pursuing you.
He's going to be the one chasing after you because this is all an
energetic shift that we are going to be making.
Starting off, the biggest thing you need to do is first identify
what this version of you looks like.
Write this down. Ask yourself who is the version
of you that your dream man would want to date?
What does your man's or dream man?
Whether you have like a current man in your life that you're
interested in or you are wanting to manifest a Newman into your
life, a high value man, a provider man.
Ask yourself what would his version of a dream girl look
like and get really clear. Does she go to the gym?
Does she prioritize her mental health?
Does she go after her goals? Is she ambitious?
How does she speak about herself?
How does she view herself? Does she criticize herself and
tell herself that she's good enough and that she's not worthy
or that she's not pretty? Of course not.
This woman knows she's a badass bitch.
She knows that she has plenty of options.
She knows that she is a blessing.
Every man that encounters her, she brings so much value into
his life. Men love being around her
because her presence is so magnetic that this man, he feels
his best self around her. He wants more.
Need to tap into this dream girl energy.
Dream girl energy means that you don't put any man on a pedestal.
You don't see any man as out of your league or not good enough
or you're not worthy of having them.
You have to have an abundance mindset and know that you can
have any man that you want and that having a man in your life
that you're interested in obsessing over you is the
easiest thing ever. I'm giving you the steps on how
to become this version. And it's up to you to really
implement and show up as this version of yourself and dedicate
yourself to no longer going into old habits and laser focused on
becoming this new version. And I want to make it clear that
you're not doing this for any man.
You're doing this for yourself because you owe it to yourself.
You only have one life and you deserve to spend this life
loving yourself, putting yourself up on that pedestal,
and having men adore you and love you for who you are.
I still want you to be your authentic self around these men
because a man can easily sense when you're inauthentic or
you're trying to be something you're not, or you're trying to
do and say the right things to get him to like you.
It's very inauthentic and it's fake and it is very repelling.
I'm giving you these steps so that you have a clear vision of
what this dream girl energy looks like and then I want you
to incorporate it into who you are already and start showing up
as this 2.0 version of yourself. Number one.
She gives herself all the validation she needs.
If a man is inconsistent or does not provide reassurance, doesn't
put an effort, makes her feel unsafe or question her worth and
value, she pulls back her energy and she reaffirms to herself her
worth and value. She uses affirmations to tell
herself this can be used right in any point in time, whether
you're in a relationship with a man, you are in the early stages
of dating a man, or you are in a situation ship and no contact
situation. Whenever you are feeling shaken
with your worth and value, you're overthinking.
It's time for you to go all in on self concept.
That is the number one time for you to do the self concept work.
And what I mean by self concept work is I don't want you to get
like too confused with how this really works.
Self concept is just telling yourself and reaffirming who you
are choosing to identify with a certain framework of beliefs.
You don't have to believe these affirmations right off the
start, right? If you are someone that has a
really low self worth, you have a negative self talk.
You don't think highly of yourself, None of that matters.
But you have to choose to tell yourself now, in this present
moment, that you are worthy of love.
That you are incredible, That you are a high value woman.
That you bring so much value to the table that any man would
dream of having a woman like you.
That you are the dream girl. So when you find yourself
stressed in that situation, the fastest way to step into that
next level version of yourself, this high value woman, is to
start reaffirming your worth and value.
I don't chase after any single man because I know that I have
plenty of other men that would be going above and beyond to be
with me right now. If this man isn't stepping up to
the plate, I have no problem dismissing him and pulling my
energy back from this because I know that I don't have to chase
after no man. I don't have to work for love.
Love comes to me naturally and if I'm not getting that from a
man, I'm going to go and find another man because I know that
I can have whatever I want #2. She trusts men have the best
intentions towards her until proven otherwise.
If that's the case, I get it. If you are stuck in a pattern of
always dating inconsistent men or you're in situation ships
where men don't want to commit or that they hurt you or they
cheat on you, that's now in grade in yourself concept where
you somewhere in yourself concept.
Now you have beliefs of men are cheaters.
Men hurt me. There's no good men out there.
I struggle to find a man that I have a good connection with.
It's really hard for me to connect with men.
Even though it's not playing in your mind 24/7.
Trust me, deep down it's there because you wouldn't be
experiencing poor treatment and poor behavior and inconsistency
from men if you didn't have these beliefs, right?
Because This is why self concept is so important.
This isn't just like some little spell, love spell or method
whatever. This is how you're creating your
reality and there is science backed behind this.
Read the book Psycho Cybernetics if you want to understand how
yourself perception, how yourself image dictates what you
attract into your life, the people you attract, the
treatment you receive and everything.
This is life changing you guys. And this isn't just for women
only. I know I have some men in my
audience. Same thing goes for you.
You have to have a good mindset around women.
You have to have good beliefs around women.
If you're telling yourself that all women are bad and you can't
find a good woman nowadays and they're just not interested in
you, you're going to continue to attract that.
So be careful with what you are telling yourself because
yourself talk creates your reality and the patterns are
going to keep repeating for you. And the same situations are
going to keep happening until you make the conscious effort to
change within yourself, to change your beliefs, your
pattern of thinking. And my favorite way of doing
this is killing off the old version of you.
It's pretty much you're just going to have this mental
conversation within yourself where you're telling yourself
the old version of me that accepted poor treatment that was
always stuck in these shitty dating patterns with men.
I'm killing off that version of myself and I will never put
myself in a position again with a man that makes me feel not
good enough or that I have to chase or be in my masculine
energy. I am not that type of woman.
I am a high value woman and I will never settle for less
again. And then you now choose to tell
yourself the new story. I love men.
Men respect me. I have a great experience with
men. You can revise your entire life
story with men and tell yourself.
I always attracted great men into my life.
I always had a great relationship with men.
All of my exes, they were good to me.
And I know how hard it is to tell yourself that, especially
when your exes were terrible. But if you don't get to a place
where you can forgive and move on from your past and the hurt
that you've experienced in your relationships, you're going to
carry it on with you into new relationships.
You can find your dream man who checks off all your boxes.
But if you're still carrying those old wounds and old
beliefs, you're going to self sabotage your relationship.
And I see it happen all the time.
And that's why a lot of people, they try to manifest their ex
back. You know, it's not always the
acts that they're manifesting back that was at fault.
It's actually, you know, you took your shadows with you and
you started to project that onto that other person.
So if maybe you were cheated on in the past with your ex or you
just had a really bad experience in a past relationship, the
chances are you may project that onto this next person.
You're going to assume that it's going to be similar situation,
that he's going to do the same thing, and then he's going to
cheat on you. This pours through your energy
and then yourself talk starts to change.
And then you're telling yourself, he's going to leave
me, he's going to cheat on me, he's going to hurt me, he's
going to find someone else. And guess what he does because
you manifested that to happen based on yourself talk.
This stuff is extremely powerful stuff.
It's not just some sort of love spell or a little trick to get
someone to fall for you. This dictates your reality in
all areas of your life, right? I've worked with a lot of women
who they are so beautiful, they're so successful.
But the only thing like they have really great beliefs when
it comes to their self concept. They're they have a really great
beliefs when it comes to their job and their success.
They have a really good beliefs around their health and fitness.
But when it comes to men, they have a really poor beliefs
around that. They think that men are out
there to hurt them, that it's really hard for them to find
someone that they're always going to be cheated on, that
they're going to be left, they're going to be abandoned
and they continue to attract that because their reality is
just going to their brains are programmed to give them more and
more of that because that's what they are entertaining in their
mind. And here's one thing I want you
to understand. You can have a perfect self
concept. You can you can see yourself as
their dream girl and I am so amazing.
I am incredible. Men love me all of that.
But if you also believe that, you know, eventually men leave
me. They don't want to commit to me.
They find someone else, they're going to cheat on me.
They find themselves stuck in these patterns for years, for
decades, attracting these exact experiences that they are
assuming and playing out in their mind.
And it is not until they make a conscious decision of whatever
happened in the past. I am leaving that in the past.
Because I'm leaving that old identity, that version myself
behind. Because I know that we are
constantly shape shifting. We are always changing.
And I no longer have to label myself as someone that
experiences these things. As a matter of fact, I can
choose to have a completely different experience with men
and choose to believe a completely different set of
beliefs. Therefore, I'm going to attract
and find more and more of that in my reality.
Only then is when they start to attract these great men that
want to do the most for them, that are genuine men.
They make their intentions clear.
They provide safety for her and she doesn't worry anymore.
So going back to my second point, this next level version
of yourself, she has to trust that men have the best
intentions towards her until they do something to change
that, right? You have to go into it trusting
and believing. This is something that everyone
must do. People that go into marriage,
they get married, they don't know if one day their partner is
going to do something to hurt them or not, but they choose to
believe that that's not going to be an experience for them and
therefore it isn't. Or people that they go in with
the mindset of something bad is going to happen, they're going
to hurt me, they end up experiencing it.
You're shooting yourself in the foot by dating a man and then
entertaining the story of he's going to do something to hurt me
and I'm going to get hurt and I'm going to end up alone.
Don't do that. Please don't do that.
And here's another thing, if you don't trust men, you're going to
be doing behaviors that signal that you are insecure and it's
going to pour out through your energy.
And then the man is going to pick up on that insecurity
within you. And you never want to be
insecure around a man because that instantly puts him up on
the pedestal. It makes you not feel good about
yourself. You degrade yourself and
yourself worth. And ultimately that's not dream
girl energy. A dream girl, she never feels
jealous or intimidated by anyone.
So that means you trust a man, you're not checking his social
media following, you're not entertaining stories of when
he's not talking to me, he's talking to other girls or he's
doing something shady behind my back.
He's he's going to hurt me. She doesn't like to feel
stressed. So she's not going to go out and
do behaviors like checking his social media and stressing about
a man. That's just going to make her
energy even more drained and she's going to be more stressed
out. And when you are operating this
way, he doesn't have to know. He feels it.
He energetically feels it. This is how people who are, you
know, being ghosted or in no contact when they shift their
energy, their self concept, that's when the man starts
pouring into her. That's when he starts giving her
more attention. That's when he's like, oh damn,
there's something different about her.
You don't have to go posting on your stories or trying to get
back at him. There's no reason to do that.
One, you are able to just do it by simply shifting your energy
and obviously it's going to be great because it feels good for
you too. Going into #3 this dream girl is
the type of woman that is not intimidated by any other woman.
She believes no other woman compares to her because she is
extremely grounded in her worth and value.
She sees herself as irreplaceable.
She embodies dream girl energy. She already knows what a dream
girl looks like for a man. She knows that.
And here's the truth. The truth is that men struggle
to find these types of women. A high value woman who's
integrated in her feminine energy, who has done the inner
work, right self concept is inner work, who is soft, yet at
the same time she's independent where she's regulated.
Her emotions aren't all over the place.
I'm telling you right now from I've spoken to many men around
this topic and they all say the same thing that it's really hard
for them to find a woman like this.
So the second they do, they're like, I'm ready to put a ring on
it because that this woman is rare and I know if I screw up,
I'm never going to find a woman like her ever again.
When you show up as a high value woman like this, every single
man, he's going to be doing absolutely everything to win you
over because he knows naturally, there's plenty of other men that
are competing to win you over. This type of woman, she knows
that if a man does something one time to disrespect her or cross
her boundaries, she's not afraid to walk away.
And the. This instantly makes him
obsessed with her. And he's going to try to make it
up. He's going to try to do
absolutely everything he can to get her back and win her over
because he knows losing a woman like that is detrimental.
He has an immense fear of losing you going into point #4 she is
the type of woman who makes her man's life easier.
Men want a woman that makes his life a lot easier.
The thing is, be hard to get and easy to be with.
When you're in the dating stages, you should definitely
not be overly accessible. Saying yes to everything.
It's late at night and he says let's hang out or he plans out a
date that's pretty low quality, like a coffee date.
And you say, yeah, let's do it. No, that's instantly diminishing
your value and you want to make it seem like you have plenty of
options when you're in the early stages of dating.
Don't be that girl that doesn't have a roster.
Like you can't just be going on a date with a man one time and
being like, I'm committed to him.
That's it. This is the man I want because
how is he going to win you over like that when like you already
decided that he won you over by him simply existing?
That's not dream girl energy especially also like here's the
thing about situation ships. For all my girl, he's in
situation ships and I've spoken to men about this too.
And here's what they told me. If he's in a situation ship, he
has other options, right? Because guess what?
Situation ship means there's no commitment.
You're not the only girl he's talking to.
I'm sorry to break the truth to you.
So if you're in a situation ship right now for months on end, not
getting commitment and this is the only man that you're talking
to and you're only committed to him and you're treating him like
he's your boyfriend and all that, except there's no label on
it. You need to lay down the hammer
with him and say, hey, it's either you commit to me or I'm
out. Because a high value woman does
not just stick by the sidelines and waits for a man to commit to
her when he's ready. She communicates her boundaries.
And I made a podcast episode on that.
So you can definitely check that out.
This is going to help you immensely when it comes to
establishing boundaries and the right man.
He's going to be like, yeah, I'm in.
I'm going to commit to you. And if he's not wanting to
commit and he's like, yeah, well, I'm just not ready for
anything right now. And, you know, maybe in a few
months. Major Ick, like what?
What about that is giving masculine energy?
You have to get to a place where you're just like men like that
turn me off. There is nothing about that that
makes me want to entertain that. And that's another thing that
happens with the self concept work.
When you raise your standards, your value, a lot of the time
the men that you're entertaining that are just kind of low
quality, you're going to be turned off by them.
I have a lot of clients that they start doing the self
concept work and they're trying to manifest a specific person
back. Yeah, they get him back, but
then she's kind of like, no, I'm not too interested in him
anymore. Actually, I think I can do
better than him, to be honest. He's not all that.
I don't know why I was putting him on this pedestal and seeing
him as this really special individual.
He's just a regular schmagular guy.
It's not the guy that changed. It was her perception of him.
This is why if you want a man to obsess over you, you have to
change your perception of yourself and then also of him.
You can't view him as he's higher up than you and that he's
this really great person and all that.
A high value woman. She does not fantasize about a
man and how incredible he is and how great he is and thinks how
no other man compares to him. There's no reason to act that
way. And the people that find it
really hard to have the man that they want obsessing over them
and treating them like the prize, it is all something they
share in common. They create this fantasy, the
story of him in their mind of how great he is and how special
he is and how much of value he brings into her life and how
life is so much better with him in it.
And now that he's not there, a part of it, she feels so lonely
and sad. I want you to think really hard
about this. Tell me, what did he provide for
you that you can't provide for yourself or that another man
can't provide you with? You're telling yourself, oh,
it's because I can't find a connection with anyone else.
I've never had a love like this before.
That's not true. It's only true because you're
setting that limitation in your mind.
There are billions of people on this earth and you think that
there's only going to be one person that you're going to have
a loving connection with. Here's the thing, every single
person you date, you're going to have a different love
connection. You think right now this person
that's ghosting you and being inconsistent and unsure about
you, that person you're so hung up on is the best love you're
going to have. The truth is that you are so
caught up on this one man that is preventing you from finding a
man that's willing to come into your life and love you like
you've never been loved before. Trust me, you think that this
man is the best you're going to have and that is just far from
the truth. You need to work on your mindset
around men if this is how you feel about your situation
because thinking like this is keeping you stuck.
It's keeping you stuck because that's not how you're going to
get this man to change whatsoever.
That's not how you're going to get the man you want obsessing
over you. And that's also not how you're
going to attract your dream man or a high value man into your
life that gives you Princess treatment.
Trust me. Second, I raised my standards
and myself concept and what I believe I deserve.
I attracted my man who I'm now with, and he literally goes
above and beyond for me, for me just existing.
Like he plans a vacation for us every single month and we go on
vacation every single month because we can.
And I'm only sharing this with you because I want you to know
that that is available for you too.
There's nothing stopping you from having that, except for you
putting yourself in this limitation, this bar that is
telling you no. I can't be happy until I have
this man. I can't be happy until this man
makes me feel good about myself. No more seeking validation from
other men. And trust me, the second that
you let that man go and you're no longer spending your whole
day worried about him or you're trying so hard to get him to
want you and like you and you just stop with that energy,
trust me, he's going to be chasing after you, but you're
probably going to love yourself too much to the point that
you're just like, I deserve better and I'm going to go find
better. And I genuinely want that for
everyone. I totally got sidetracked there.
But going back to what I was saying is that a man wants a
woman that is hard to get where there's other men competing for
her. She's highly desired by other
men. She has options and he wants to
win her over, right? When you trigger a man to fight
for you and work hard for you, he's going to value you more.
He's going to be like, holy shit, I am lucky to have this
girl. I feel so special to have this
girl. Having this girl and having her
go out with me. Everyone's like wow, he's so
lucky. Like what did he do to win a
girl like this? That's the type of energy you
want to have and then you want to be easy to be with.
So this means that you are worry free when you're with him.
You're not anxious, you're not stressed, your body language is
not all like arms crossed and shy.
You are just your authentic self.
You're playful with him, you joke around with him, you're
flirty with him. You know how to make him feel
good when he's around you. And I'm going to be teaching
this in my upcoming program. If you're interested, you can
download my free master class and then that way you can be on
my e-mail list for when that launches.
Because I'm going to be going off about stepping into your
feminine energy, really embodying this self concept and
understanding how men fall in love with you so that you can be
his dream girl. When you have the ability to
make a man feel good when he's around you and make him feel
like his best self, he's going to want to put a ring on it.
Like straight up, if you make him feel better about himself
when he's with you. And that's not all by just
complimenting him and putting him on a pedestal.
It's just you have this energy and this energy is attained
through self concept work. You just embody this.
It's just who you are at a core level.
He's going to be like, wow, I just want to be with her all the
time because her energy, her feminine energy, it just makes
me feel so good. I feel like a man when I'm
around her. Men love that stuff going into
#5 She has an abundance mindset when it comes to men.
She knows there is plenty of high value men who are willing
to give her everything and want to commit to her instantly
because she knows she has a lot of value.
She knows she has a lot to offer and she knows what she's
deserving of. That means she'll never place a
man on a pedestal. And if a man does something
that's disrespectful or not aligned with what she wants, she
has no problem removing herself from the situation.
She has no problem walking away. And she doesn't necessarily
like, don't go telling a man if you do this, I'm going to leave
you or, you know, if you hurt me, I'm going to break up with
you or I'm going to, I'm going to get revenge.
It's not dream girl energy, right?
Silence speaks louder than words, right?
So you just are, you believe. And here's the thing, men mirror
back to you who you are. So if you just naturally uphold
these standards for yourself, of you believe that you're
deserving of a man that goes above and beyond for you.
You're just used to Princess treatment.
You're used to a man going above and beyond for you.
It's just ingrained in your subconscious mind, yourself
concept of having amazing relationships and men doing the
most for me is normal for me. So, you know, if you can't
provide that for me, guess what man?
I'm going to go find another one.
I'm going to find a different man that's going to provide that
for me. You don't have to go tell him
that. It just, it seeks out through
your energy and the way that you carry yourself, the way that you
speak, he's just going to automatically know that you
know, he can't mess with you. He can't.
He sees how much you love yourself and how much you value
yourself. So he knows that he has to show
up as his best self around you every single time because you're
not the type of woman that's going to tolerate it, that
you're not just going to accept poor treatment.
That's just not who you are. You have to love yourself so
much to the point that you would never hold on to a man that
makes you feel less, that treats you poorly.
And this takes a lot, you know, it's a lot of women.
They struggle to leave a man. They say, yeah, I'm going to
leave. But they they don't have it in
them to leave because they're scared, because they are so
caught up with the thought of what if this is love?
What if this is the best I'm going to get?
What if I won't find anyone after that and I'll be lonely
for the rest of my life? You got to get to a place where
you're like, I'd rather be alone than deal with a piece of shit
like that. Never again.
And when you love your independence, you love yourself,
you enjoy spending quality time with yourself.
Leaving someone that disrespects you or hurts you, it's not going
to be hard for you because you love yourself too much.
Going into number six, she has no problem communicating her
needs with a man and what she requires from him.
She doesn't do it in a demanding way.
She knows how to communicate her needs in a neutral way.
She doesn't demand or guilt trip if he's been inconsistent with
her or he just did something that was disrespectful, she's
going to bring it up in a way that is just very
straightforward of, hey, you know, I don't really like that
you said that. I don't appreciate that.
And that's just not something that I want to continue to carry
further in our relationship. Or if he's being inconsistent,
ask him, hey, is everything OK? I've noticed a change in your
energy and then you tell him that, you know, consistency is
something that you require and don't go telling a man after
like 2 dates that you need consistency because that's too
early. And I'm going to go in this in
my feminine energy course, all of this stuff.
But if you are just getting to know someone and you are already
like checking your phone of like he hasn't texted me in a few
days and you know, why is he not texting me or planning our next
date? You need to calm down bestie.
You need to chill. I love you, but that is stemming
from anxious attachment. If this man is a stranger, he
doesn't owe anything to you. And if you have other men in
your life, you have other options.
You wouldn't be so hung up on this one man if he texted you or
not. You would have the mindset of if
he texts me, cool. If he doesn't, that's fine too.
Like there's no need to be in this like worry chasing energy
because it's just diminishing your own feminine energy.
It's stressing you out and it's continued to perpetuate this
situation of where you feel like he's not texting you.
That's where your focus is going.
You're more focused on why isn't he reached out, Why isn't he
doing this? Why isn't he doing that?
And you're going to keep getting more of that.
If you can just let that go, know how to regulate yourself
and be non reactive to what he is or isn't doing, you're never
going to struggle. Like that's just the truth
because you're in this unbothered state where no man's
presence can make or break you. That's when you call your energy
back. That's when you have power and
that's when you're extremely magnetic and desirable to men.
If you're really early into it dating and you know it would be
a red flag if he's texting you every day and calling you every
day, in my opinion, like a high value man, he just doesn't work
that way, especially when he's busy, he's successful, he has a
high demand job. Men also they wonder like how
often should I text her? You know men, they don't want to
come across desperate either. So if he's not texting you every
day, maybe it's because he doesn't want to seem desperate
too, but give him space because the more space you give him, the
more he has time to think about you.
If you're in his face and always accessible to him, when, when is
he going to have the time to think about you and admire you?
You're not giving him space. So be comfortable with giving a
man space. Men fall in love with you.
The more that you can, you know, just allow him to miss you and
you're not always bombarding him.
And that also comes in with your energy too.
If you're, you don't have to say anything, even if you're not
texting him, but you're in this desperate energy of like, why
isn't he texting me? Why isn't he called me?
That's just going to make him not want to text you and call
you like, because unconsciously, like he feels that energy from
you. I don't know how else to explain
it. He picks up on that energy and
he can feel it just like when he can pick up on that energy.
When you call your energy back, you focus on yourself.
You love yourself. You do yourself concept work.
You do the inner work. And he's like, I'm like thinking
about her. You know, there's something
mysterious about her. I like her.
She has like this good energy to her.
This is all an energetic thing. This is not strategy.
This is not playing games, this is mastering yourself and your
emotions so that you can positively attract the
experiences that you want. When it comes to your loving
relationships, always remember that you need to be pulling your
energy back when you feel like you're overextending yourself
where you were overly focused on a man.
That's what you have to pour in on all yourself concept and
reinforce your beliefs and values.
So a great way to start implementing this and having
actionable steps is grabbing a piece of paper and writing down
so that it's clear for you. Write down who is the version of
you your dream man would want to date and see as his dream girl.
Ask yourself what does the dream girl look like for your dream
man? What type of woman would he see
and be like? Wow she is just everything I
could have ever asked for. How does she act?
How does she show up? How does she act around Herman?
How does she talk about herself? How does she conversate with
him? How does she make him feel?
And then also get clear with yourself concept of who do I
need to become in order to become the version of myself
that naturally has the love that she wants, that has men
obsessing over her, that she sees herself as the dream girl.
What does the dream girl or dream version of myself really
look like? Write it down on paper.
Get clear on what needs to shift, what you need to start
embodying, and then you have to become it.
Life is a mirror. The men in your life are a
mirror and they're going to mirror back this energy when you
become your own dream girl. And then you also become the
dream version that your dream man wants.
They're going to instantly start to perceive you in that way and
show up as they would for their dream girl, right?
A man that sees his dream girl, he's going to treat her like the
love of his life. He's going to go above and
beyond for this type of woman. He's not just going to overlook
her. Also write down what are her
standards, what are her boundaries, what does she expect
from men and what does she believe she deserves?
What are things that she would never entertain?
How does she establish boundaries and communicate her
needs? And then another great way to do
this is by going on YouTube and searching self concept sleep
affirmation tape or dream girl affirmations, sleep affirmation
tape and listen to these affirmations while you sleep.
And they're naturally going to impress your subconscious mind
with these new beliefs. And then you're going to just
start to wake up in the morning and you're going to feel like
this version. Eventually you're just going to
become this version and you're going to notice yourself start
to think and feel and show up very differently on a day-to-day
basis. Thank you so much for listening,
you guys. It was so much fun for me to
make this episode. I really hope that you picked up
a lot of Nuggets from this. This work is seriously life
changing and I want you all to become your own dream girl.
You deserve it. You only live once in this
lifetime and you deserve to show up as your best self and feel
the most confident and magnetic version of yourself.
So definitely implement these steps, try it out, give yourself
the chance to really sink into this new self concept.
And I'm so excited for how things are going to turn out for
you. Remember, you're not doing this
for anyone. You're doing this for yourself
because you owe it to yourself to feel confident and good about
yourself. Once again, thank you to
everybody who is rating the podcast 5 stars.
I really appreciate it. And feel free to send me a DM on
Instagram at Live Marima and tell me what you think.
I'd love to hear your guys''s feedback.
Thank you so much for listening and I will see you in the next
episode.