1 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:11,000 Hi, welcome to the latest episode of Call Me Mistress. 2 00:00:11,040 --> 00:00:14,680 I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, and I've got with me Madame Liv. 3 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:19,040 Good morning. Madame Liv and I, we haven't 4 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:24,640 gotten to do an episode in quite some time and we right now today 5 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:27,400 we want just to talk about some basics. 6 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:34,480 And I thought, I just thought, hey, Liv, let's get on Grok and 7 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:38,000 ask Grok. What are the most common BDSM 8 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:41,200 questions that people ask about on the Internet? 9 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:45,920 And the number one question was, what does BDSM stand for and 10 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:47,800 what does it involve? Oh, that. 11 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:50,600 Was easy. That's easy, right? 12 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:55,160 So bondage, domination, sadism and masochism. 13 00:00:56,080 --> 00:01:01,240 So Liv and I always do bondage, you always do discipline. 14 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:06,600 I try to. Yeah, and I know I'm a sadist. 15 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:08,760 I'm pretty fucking mean sometimes. 16 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:12,520 Liv's been really fucking mean at times. 17 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:16,160 Too, It depends who comes in. It depends, yeah. 18 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:20,120 It's like I would that be considered a switch if I can 19 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:22,960 switch between sadist or dominant? 20 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:28,200 Yeah, I mean, I'm a switch because I mean, I think you 21 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:32,480 could be dominant no matter what, But you know, sadist is if 22 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:35,240 you really want to hurt someone. And there's been times where. 23 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:39,360 Sometimes I do get turned on. Yeah, by really hurting someone. 24 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:41,360 Yeah, I don't know why, but it's only if they want it though, 25 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:44,280 Yeah, otherwise I feel guilty belly and my feelings will get 26 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:46,720 hurt for them. I think it's just the power 27 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:50,120 aspect of things. I think it's power, yeah, it's 28 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:53,040 the high. Yeah, it's high, for sure. 29 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:58,360 And then masochism, where honestly, you want to get hurt, 30 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:01,280 you want to feel pain. And we've had a lot of people 31 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:03,200 that are like that, yeah. So. 32 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:10,120 Yeah, so that's the easy enough question now #2 it says why do 33 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:14,320 people practice BDSM? So why do you think? 34 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:17,840 Liz, I wouldn't say that's an as easy to answer as the other 35 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:18,960 question. No. 36 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:21,680 Because I feel like everybody goes for it for different 37 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:26,080 reasons, obviously, to be one with themselves, yeah. 38 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:30,160 So Grok basically said common curiosity, right? 39 00:02:30,920 --> 00:02:35,640 Endorphin rushes, emotional intimacy, stress relief, or 40 00:02:35,640 --> 00:02:37,840 exploring fantasies. Yes. 41 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:39,960 All of the above. All of the above. 42 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:44,800 Yeah, we see just people on a more of a professional basis 43 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,400 with a lot of things. That's true because you know, in 44 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:50,120 your last episode you had Master Cauldron. 45 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:54,520 He even said if it's for 5 minutes or five years, I put my 46 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:55,600 all into it. He does. 47 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,680 He's emotionally put into himself into it, and a piece of 48 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:01,640 him is with his sub. I believe that in all ways. 49 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:03,640 I can say. That to watch them go through 50 00:03:03,640 --> 00:03:05,040 that, you know. I can say. 51 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:08,720 You're the one in charge of how much they can go through in it 52 00:03:08,920 --> 00:03:11,800 where the line is drawn. You know, I agree with you in 53 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:14,520 that aspect. So yeah, so yesterday a lot of 54 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:17,480 people, they wish me happy birthday and they were super 55 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:21,120 sweet. And there was people obviously 56 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:24,880 that we've seen professionally. And, you know, I look at them 57 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:29,280 and I'm like, like Sir Doofus, I love him, love him, love him. 58 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:31,960 And you're right, that is an emotional connection. 59 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:37,760 That whole Abd that whole ABDL scene, it's, it goes beyond that 60 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:40,960 because if you were to call me tomorrow and say, Mia, I'm out 61 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:43,480 of gas, I'm on the side of the road, I don't know what to do, 62 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:45,680 blah, blah, blah, blah. I would be there in a heartbeat 63 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:49,960 for him, you know? So I think that you developed 64 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:53,120 this, this friendship and this connection with people that you 65 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:55,120 see obviously. Absolutely. 66 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:57,440 So. Or you're not doing it right. 67 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:01,960 Yeah, yeah, very true. Or they're total asshole we. 68 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:05,080 Don't we still develop some sort of connection? 69 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:10,200 It'll just be those are the ones you become a sadist and make 70 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:15,480 them eat their pubes. Yeah, our Pew beaters. 71 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:19,320 The ones that you remember though, I mean, he might not 72 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:21,920 have been connected to in the way that we normally connect 73 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:23,680 with ourselves, but he definitely is remembered. 74 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:27,720 Man, he has reached out to me, I told you, and he's all about. 75 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:29,360 Yeah. He's losing weight, he's doing 76 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:31,120 really well, so. Yes. 77 00:04:31,280 --> 00:04:32,840 Which means we resonated with them. 78 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:38,680 Huge, huge yes. So here's the next question. 79 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:42,600 What are the most common BDSM activities or fetishes? 80 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:48,440 So common in general or common for us? 81 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:51,040 I think in general. Well, I don't know. 82 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:56,760 Well, it says spanking, blindfolding, bondage or 83 00:04:56,760 --> 00:05:00,120 role-playing. So and then it says and how they 84 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:04,840 differ from more advanced ones. So we've had some really like 85 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:10,400 big role plays. We had one, one time and you 86 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:14,880 know, he came in and he was told us that when he was 30, he went 87 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:18,840 to swim in his apartment pool at 2:00 in the morning. 88 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:23,120 And we basically spanked him and did a role play with him the 89 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:26,000 whole time. And it was almost like his face 90 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:30,040 even went back 40 years. He was in that mindset. 91 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:34,000 Yes, and after the session Liv looked at me and she's like, at 92 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:35,880 first I didn't think you were playing with. 93 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:38,800 At first I thought he wasn't playing. 94 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:40,720 I thought he just went senile and didn't know what was going 95 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:43,000 on. I was like, wait, aren't we 96 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:45,080 supposed to be doing this? But he was just got into 97 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:46,480 character just as fast as you did. 98 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:52,080 So I was like, OK. And that was so fun. 99 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:54,120 That was fun to watch. Now I wouldn't be able to do 100 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:56,440 those things. I'm not very talkative. 101 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:58,960 I am not able to do. That is because you could hear 102 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:03,800 my submissiveness in my voice. Oh, I didn't think about that. 103 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:06,920 So I just don't talk. I speak with my actions. 104 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:09,360 Yeah, I get that. I understand that. 105 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:14,200 I had a gentleman ask me the other day, he's like, I like 106 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:16,600 verbal humiliation and degradation. 107 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:20,640 And I said, well, I think I'm going to stay in the session 108 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:22,800 because you'll be coming here for the first time. 109 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:25,760 I said I'll be there anyway. I said, but I'll tell you nasty 110 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:27,640 mean to you verbally the whole time. 111 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:30,320 And he's like, oh OK, that works. 112 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:34,480 So I told him I'm like, So what time do you want to come you 113 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:39,000 little dried up faggot? And it's like, now that's what 114 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:45,800 I'm talking about. So anywho, so #4 is BDS in the 115 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:49,040 same as abuse? And how is consent? 116 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:54,440 Handled it can be it's teetered, you know, teeter into abuse real 117 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:56,400 easy. It's all about communication, 118 00:06:56,960 --> 00:07:00,640 and consent isn't always communication. 119 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:03,360 You can say, yeah, I want you to do this, but you're not actually 120 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:06,320 sharing what you like. We don't like, you know, it's 121 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:09,360 about communication. Yeah, and that's why we give 122 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:13,200 people safe words. You know, we had a gentleman not 123 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:15,640 too long ago and you said, oh, do you know the safe words? 124 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:18,560 But I've seen him before. But he told you no, he didn't 125 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:21,600 know the safe words. And I was like, motherfucker, 126 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:25,880 you making me look bad? We're like green. 127 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:28,120 You're not going to be saying green because we're going to see 128 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:30,120 you. And you might say, oh, I'm 129 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:33,400 green, everything's good. He might not say that at all, or 130 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:36,760 she might not say that at all. But then Yellow will stop and 131 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:38,760 assess. We'll slow down with the scene 132 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:43,520 and handle it and then read everything stops and we're done. 133 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:47,040 It's all over. And yeah, so I mean, I don't 134 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:49,480 think we've ever gotten to a point where it's like we've 135 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:51,400 never talked to them about everything. 136 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:53,320 It's just something that we always do. 137 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:57,320 But I'm like you, I think I've watched people in the lifestyle 138 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:01,880 and I've seen it online and there's a lot of people that I 139 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:04,240 mean, even colder. And we were talking about that, 140 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:06,760 you know, we, we did that interview together. 141 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:10,560 And he was the first to say, you know, there's people that do 142 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:13,600 abuse people. And some people consent to the 143 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:14,640 abuse. Yeah. 144 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:18,200 You know, so it's just how far are you willing to go? 145 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:20,760 Yeah, that's true and. Making sure you choose the right 146 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:24,080 Dom for you, because you know you could have a soft Dom when 147 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:25,600 you're needing something a little bit hard and. 148 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:29,760 Just depends on who it is and I guess the connection you develop 149 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:33,000 you know? You know, it's just like going 150 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:35,000 to for your first day of school you're not going to be friends 151 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:35,679 with. Everybody. 152 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:38,440 No, you're not. Each person is not for you. 153 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:40,679 Yeah. Each Dom isn't for you. 154 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:43,280 You can try out different Doms and see how well they work for 155 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:46,200 your personality and your preferences. 156 00:08:46,680 --> 00:08:50,640 You know, I did, I'm going to say I did a session with someone 157 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:55,400 a few months back. It was just me late at night, 158 00:08:55,680 --> 00:08:58,520 blah, blah, blah. Anyway, I said, so Are you ready 159 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:00,760 to start your scene? And he's like, let's not call it 160 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:02,320 that. And I'm like, OK, what do you 161 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:04,760 want to call it? And he's like, just you and me 162 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:10,880 doing our thing. Like, no, it's a scene, you 163 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:17,400 little weirdo. No, he wasn't weird. 164 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:22,440 He wanted to not think of it as being an actual profession. 165 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:24,640 Yeah, and he didn't want to think about as being 166 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:27,120 role-playing or anything. A lot, you know, I noticed that 167 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:29,680 was, I don't remember who asked that said that they just wanted 168 00:09:29,680 --> 00:09:33,680 it to be about me and and him. And I didn't understand that 169 00:09:33,680 --> 00:09:36,400 whenever we said it, he wanted it to move beyond professional. 170 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,120 But like this is professional and I just couldn't wrap my head 171 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:40,320 around it. But maybe you're talking about 172 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:43,240 the same thing of, hey, we just want it to feel like we're doing 173 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:45,040 this together. Yeah, we are. 174 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:47,080 It's not just a professional, it is a professional setting. 175 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:49,680 But we are doing this together. I'm going through things just as 176 00:09:49,680 --> 00:09:50,960 much as you're going through things. 177 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:56,080 Yes, the next question is how do I start exploring BDSM as a 178 00:09:56,080 --> 00:10:00,800 beginner? Inquiries about safe, safe entry 179 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:03,920 points like communication with partners, trying light 180 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:05,840 activities, or finding communities. 181 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:09,160 Yeah, that's that's pretty much it, you know. 182 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:12,040 I would also put in there research. 183 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:13,920 Yeah. A lot of research, a lot of 184 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:18,160 reading to get to know what you're kind of stepping into 185 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:21,120 versus just coming in and thinking, oh, it's just abuse or 186 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:24,360 oh, it's just, you know, handcuffs, you know, like to 187 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:28,400 really dig in and what it means. So research joining the 188 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:31,960 community, I wouldn't even practice with your partner until 189 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:34,520 you get enough research in your head for it and try out 190 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:37,600 something light. For instance, being blindfolded 191 00:10:37,680 --> 00:10:41,960 while having sex or being blindfolded while doing a task 192 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:43,960 and being made to complete that task. 193 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:46,360 Very light. You can't really hurt somebody. 194 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:48,960 You can't hurt them mentally. You don't want to put anything 195 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:53,160 mental strains on anybody just yet, just to things light. 196 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:56,400 Yeah, we always try to go slow with people. 197 00:10:57,520 --> 00:11:01,240 Yeah, absolutely. And, you know, just like you 198 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:04,400 said, blindfold during sex, you know, when you're with your 199 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:09,560 partner at home doing things like that, you know, I think 200 00:11:09,560 --> 00:11:12,560 that's that's one of those things where people always ask 201 00:11:12,560 --> 00:11:15,240 me. There was a question between 202 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:16,560 Tony and I. He'd asked me. 203 00:11:16,560 --> 00:11:19,160 He'd called me one day. First time I got to talk to him, 204 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:23,480 you know, and he told me that his wife really wants to explore 205 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:26,000 her spot, her bisexual side. Who's Tony? 206 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:30,480 Tony is the gentleman that lives in New York and we've had, you 207 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:33,720 know, multiple e-mail exchanges over the last three years and I 208 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:37,240 never got to talk with him. And so he called me one day and 209 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:43,960 he, he's opened up a little bit to his wife, but you know, he 210 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:47,160 told me that he doesn't really desire anymore to be bisexual, 211 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:50,360 to explore with men or anything because he's very content in his 212 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:54,200 marriage. His thing is he wants to submit 213 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:58,920 and be submissive and he can't be that with his wife because 214 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:03,880 she's not a Dom. She's very much submissive and 215 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:05,600 they just don't have that connection. 216 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:10,640 So I told him, I said, well, I asked him what does she want to 217 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:14,640 do as far as her, you know, personal exploration. 218 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:18,960 And he said that she wants to explore her by side. 219 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:22,760 And I said, well, you know, if you want to do that for her, if 220 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:26,480 she's not ready, as far as, you know, seeing a woman or anything 221 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:30,640 like that, I said, put some really soft clothes on. 222 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:34,960 Don't let her feel your body hair, but you know, restrain her 223 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:39,120 gently with something very soft, you know, make it very erotic 224 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:44,400 blindfolder so to do a lot of sensory play and like make it 225 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:49,960 like, you know, rubbing her with feathers or you know, very just 226 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:52,040 light. Stuff but soft. 227 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:56,160 Now it depends on their dynamic. But dressing up like a woman 228 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:58,440 with her blindfolded, that could mess up a little bit too. 229 00:12:58,440 --> 00:12:59,960 You got to shoot. He'd have to, really. 230 00:13:00,560 --> 00:13:02,280 No, I wasn't saying dress up like a woman. 231 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:05,160 We said put on something soft. Yeah, I, you know, I was 232 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:06,640 thinking. I guess I was thinking of like a 233 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:08,960 negligee for some reason. Yeah, Silky. 234 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:14,280 No, I was just thinking like soft so he so that she couldn't 235 00:13:14,280 --> 00:13:17,720 feel his like body hair or anything masculine per SE. 236 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:21,720 Because I said, you know, wear gloves, you know, even if it was 237 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:25,200 latex gloves or something, you know, just something that she 238 00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:28,520 didn't feel any roughness on his hands or anything like that. 239 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:33,840 And use a lot of words. Yeah, imagine you touching her 240 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:35,840 or. Imagine that, yes. 241 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:40,520 A lot of mind fuckery. Yes, exactly. 242 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:45,000 All right, Liv, next question, what is the difference between 243 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:49,760 Dom sub, top and bottom? You know I struggle with this 244 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:52,680 one. OK well I'll answer this for you 245 00:13:52,680 --> 00:13:54,800 then. I'm a Dom in real life 246 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:59,800 throughout my whole life, and you are switch because you sub 247 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:03,040 in your your personal life, your sub. 248 00:14:03,680 --> 00:14:07,600 Now, if we have someone who comes to us and says, Hey, I 249 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:11,760 want you to teach me how to be a dominant, We can't teach anybody 250 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:16,320 because it's kind of ingrained that like you either have or you 251 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:18,800 don't, but we can teach them to top someone. 252 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:22,320 OK, I see. You know, just like if you were 253 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:24,880 a Dom in the dungeon, but somebody wants to come in and 254 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:28,360 top you, you could be a bottom to someone. 255 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:32,520 I see. Yeah, honestly, those those two 256 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:37,360 words, top and bottom, we didn't use those those words 15 years 257 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:41,000 ago in the lifestyle at all. Maybe they just wanted something 258 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:43,880 else have as a middle ground. Yeah, yeah. 259 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:47,000 You know, it's like, it's like something else. 260 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:53,240 It's kind of like years ago we didn't have, you know, we only 261 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:57,800 had like nurses, RNS and LPNS then, well, who else would take 262 00:14:57,800 --> 00:15:00,480 care of patients? Well, then we had Cnas and it's 263 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:03,680 like, oh, we're CNA certified nursing assistants. 264 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:06,200 OK. Then after that, now they have 265 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:09,120 Med techs. So it's like it's like they 266 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:13,360 develop new roles to minimize little middle. 267 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:14,960 People that they're needing, yeah. 268 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:20,160 Exactly. Next question, what question 269 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:22,920 should I ask a potential BDSM partner? 270 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:28,120 Oh, that's a good one. So it says focus on negotiation 271 00:15:28,120 --> 00:15:32,640 like limits, aftercare needs, preferences for dominance and 272 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:35,840 submission, and past experiences. 273 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:40,880 What do you think? Past experiences, making sure we 274 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:43,600 journal to keep track of all the information. 275 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:46,680 You know, things are easily forgotten when you read it back 276 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:48,200 over, you're able to remember it better. 277 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:51,480 OK, yes, I remember what you were like in that moment versus 278 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:53,560 not remembering everything. So I would say making sure we 279 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:56,720 have a journal, definitely negotiation talk about their 280 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:59,480 mindset at that particular time. That's a good one. 281 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:03,320 Because you know what, sometimes you might be, maybe you're a 282 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:05,160 pain slut. And then today you're just, 283 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:07,960 you're really wanting something a little more softer. 284 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:11,680 You can't just come in and have a hard scene, so you need to 285 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:14,600 negotiate that as well, which I guess would be negotiation. 286 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:19,800 Yeah, yeah, that's very true. I like that, you know, we're, 287 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:22,440 you know, because I've been in the dungeon with you and you 288 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:27,200 always tell them after you ask them after you say where's your 289 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:29,520 where's your mindset right now? How do you feel? 290 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:32,760 Yeah, and just to make sure I didn't cross any lines. 291 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:34,080 Oh, absolutely. No. 292 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:36,120 Do I need to give you a little more aftercare and not, you 293 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:39,400 know, like, did I hurt your mental state or did I hurt you 294 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:41,600 physically? Where is the aftercare going to 295 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:43,560 be? All right, the next question why 296 00:16:43,560 --> 00:16:47,560 do people enjoy pain or humiliation in BDSM? 297 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:52,160 Is that it's explanations often tie into psychological aspects 298 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:56,320 like subspace or endorphins or emotional release. 299 00:16:56,760 --> 00:16:59,960 Debunking myths of pathology, so. 300 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:02,600 I mean, I agree with that as well, but you know, everybody's 301 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:06,560 reasons are different. So in some ways, some people 302 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:08,960 want to be punished for things that they've done in the past. 303 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:11,079 Yeah. To be released from that or 304 00:17:11,079 --> 00:17:13,480 because, you know, whenever you have guilt that you've done 305 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:16,280 something, it'll sit with you and you can't release it into 306 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:18,280 the world. And this can help you release 307 00:17:18,280 --> 00:17:20,480 it. Yeah, which is, I don't know if 308 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:22,520 that's a good thing or a bad thing, but I know it's possible. 309 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:28,000 But yes, it does help with the traumas, reliving things and 310 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:31,120 being able to work through that in a safer environment. 311 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:35,280 Yeah, I agree. I agree with that. 312 00:17:36,600 --> 00:17:39,560 The next question is what is aftercare and why is it 313 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:42,360 important? It says post play emotional and 314 00:17:42,360 --> 00:17:46,280 physical support is a reoccurring topic including 315 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:49,600 cuddling, hydration, or just debriefing. 316 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:55,720 I know that it was funny. I did this really heavy scene 317 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:59,960 before you and I met and I went to give the guy a piece of 318 00:17:59,960 --> 00:18:02,120 chocolate and he's like I can't have chocolate, I'm allergic. 319 00:18:02,120 --> 00:18:05,000 I'm like, go with that and really bad aftercare, then fine, 320 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:11,240 because he was like, he was blindfolded. 321 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:12,760 You know, we're ending the scene. 322 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:16,040 So I was like, here's a piece of candy if you want some candy. 323 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:19,360 I said, you know, just relax, you know, we'll take the 324 00:18:19,360 --> 00:18:21,440 blindfold off, blah, blah, blah. And I was just helping him 325 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:23,960 because I thought maybe he had a little low sugar. 326 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:27,600 That's what my rationalization was because a lot of times, you 327 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:30,040 know, how people fast before they come in, before they were 328 00:18:30,040 --> 00:18:31,720 doing like pegging or anything like that. 329 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:34,880 Yeah. Be a little light headed not 330 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:36,680 feeling this. Yes. 331 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:40,080 Maybe we'll keep those little packs of crackers if they make 332 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:41,480 those salads or keeping that in there. 333 00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:42,840 Yeah, that'd. Be a good idea. 334 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:45,640 Here's you some cracker. Peanut do a fucking snack 335 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:47,840 basket. Yeah, with crack packs of 336 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:52,200 crackers and take your water or some crackers, put smells of 337 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:54,480 peanut butter in it would be really good juice and peanut. 338 00:18:54,480 --> 00:18:58,040 Butter, definitely. Be really good for sugars and 339 00:18:58,040 --> 00:19:00,880 stuff. Yeah, that, that's a great idea. 340 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:04,240 That's fine. I have to care, be happy. 341 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:10,720 Speaking of strap on, I got a new strap on just for me and my 342 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:15,120 personal use. That's cool. 343 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:20,840 I'm thinking about is your partner's beauty hole opening. 344 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:24,840 But that's beautiful hands around those waist. 345 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:30,960 But I got something better. I got an actual belt harness so 346 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:34,640 I could put right there around his waist and I don't even have 347 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:36,520 to hold on to him. Especially if it's a hot and 348 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:39,120 sweaty scene, I could just hold on to the handles. 349 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:42,040 Oh, that's cool. Yeah, like he's my little. 350 00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:43,640 So you don't. It doesn't feel like you're 351 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:45,800 grabbing a female, it feels like you're just grabbing the ring. 352 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:47,640 Yeah, I like that. That's actually really good. 353 00:19:47,640 --> 00:19:49,080 Isn't that cool? Yeah. 354 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:53,920 Yeah, $9, cheap and easy. But yeah, I got instead of an 355 00:19:53,920 --> 00:20:00,360 harness, I got actual strap on panties to wear because not only 356 00:20:00,360 --> 00:20:03,640 am I going to give it to you know who, but I told my Sissy 357 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:05,640 I'm stretching that little cunt hole. 358 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:08,280 You're going to be humiliated, you're going to be degraded, and 359 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:11,120 I'm going to stretch you open like you're my filthy little 360 00:20:11,120 --> 00:20:18,880 whore. Love that for you, so happy. 361 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:25,160 All right, remind me. I have to show you a video of 362 00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:28,000 what I did. I don't want to see no booty 363 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:29,480 holes. There's no booty holes. 364 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:32,600 I promise it's I did a a demo of a toy. 365 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:33,400 Oh. OK. 366 00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:38,960 It's funny. And the last question, Liv, any 367 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:41,880 you would have eaten this up. Normally when I bring this up, 368 00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:44,800 you're like, oh, tell me. No, what? 369 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:46,880 I've been just kind of on the slump side. 370 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:50,560 I'm firing. Bummer. 371 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:52,840 I love you when you're pegging life. 372 00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:56,120 Thank you. I should have a bumper sticker. 373 00:20:56,360 --> 00:21:01,680 The peg life. The peg life better. 374 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:06,160 Oh, beg for it, peg for it. Yes, there you go. 375 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:11,640 Beg for the peg. That's a good one, I like that. 376 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:13,680 One really good one. I like that one the best. 377 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:18,680 All right, and the last question, how has media like 50 378 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,800 Shades of Grey influence perceptions of BDSM? 379 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:26,840 It says discussions about inaccuracies, increased interest 380 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:31,520 and the need to separate fiction from real, safe practices. 381 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:36,160 So we've often brought this up about 50 Shades of Grey and to 382 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:39,880 me it's not realistic. I think it can be I. 383 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,880 Can be, yeah. I don't think that. 384 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:45,880 I think people kind of sit on a lot because they're like, oh, we 385 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:47,520 don't have 50 Shades of grey because it gives the wrong 386 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:50,280 impression of the community. But, you know, if you really 387 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:52,960 look at it through the community's eyes, not through 388 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:55,440 vanilla's eyes, it's like, I could see that working. 389 00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:58,080 They should just gave a little more context, some for some 390 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:01,400 things, explain things a little bit better. 391 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:03,720 Yeah. That would be because. 392 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:07,440 It gives the vanilla world a little bit of a misconception, 393 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:10,280 but you know that's only because there's not any explanation. 394 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:13,720 People said they really loved the books and there was a book 395 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:17,640 outside of the traditional 50 Shades and it was just about 396 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,760 Christian being a submissive. Yes, that came out. 397 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,400 Yeah, and I didn't, I didn't read those, but. 398 00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:26,120 Me neither, I watched the I watched the movie when it came 399 00:22:26,120 --> 00:22:27,120 out. Though, OK. 400 00:22:27,120 --> 00:22:28,440 Yeah. Because a lot of people, they 401 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,680 raved about the books and they liked the movies. 402 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:34,880 And there was a lot of, you know, my friends that I was able 403 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:38,880 to meet because of 50 Shades and that they actually got into the 404 00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:41,240 swinging lifestyle and the BDSM lifestyle. 405 00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:45,760 I just said, you know, during 50 Shades, there's a point where 406 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:50,160 Christian Grey flips her over and he's got a spreader bar on 407 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:53,120 her ankles. And all I could think was, Oh my 408 00:22:53,120 --> 00:22:56,200 God, he's going to break her ankles because you just can't 409 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,720 flip. You know, she was kind of 410 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:01,560 unknown at this point, like. What was going to be? 411 00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:04,080 What was going to happen She. Couldn't move her body properly, 412 00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:04,840 but. Exactly. 413 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:09,200 You know, that's, again, misperceptions of things. 414 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,680 Yeah, but it's for a movie. We it's still a movie, still not 415 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:15,760 real life. And you know, there's things 416 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:17,560 about murder too. You know, Nothing's always 417 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:19,160 correct. Yeah. 418 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:22,880 Have you ever watched people give birth on movies? 419 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,600 You're like, that is not how that fucking happens. 420 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:28,840 Wow, You know what I mean? It's kind of the same thing. 421 00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:30,880 It's like they're just telling a story. 422 00:23:31,120 --> 00:23:33,320 It doesn't have to be exactly the way it needs to be. 423 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:35,080 That's true. They're probably another story 424 00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:35,960 that's going to come out. Maybe a? 425 00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:37,840 Little bit better. You know, except now and you see 426 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:39,880 somebody like, wow, that look, really look like she gave birth. 427 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:43,040 And sometimes you'll be like she sweat. 428 00:23:43,360 --> 00:23:44,840 Her makeup didn't even run down her face. 429 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:48,640 You and I have watched a lot of different types of genre but 430 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:54,440 specific about BDSM and I was still more impressed with Nicole 431 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:57,320 Kidman in Baby Girl. Yes, I think that had a really 432 00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:00,040 good take on BDSM. Yeah. 433 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:01,720 It's all silent. It didn't explain anything. 434 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,520 It was just actions that you could see. 435 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,160 Yeah, like and it explained it through the actions. 436 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:09,720 Yes. And it was it's, you know. 437 00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:14,240 I think you were able to relate to it too, because it was so 438 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:17,880 relatable, because it was like, that's how I want to feel. 439 00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:21,160 Talk about me specifically. Yes, you specifically. 440 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:23,600 I didn't know we were talking about me as a who. 441 00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:26,680 No, because you've talked about being a sub before and you're 442 00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:29,120 like, I want to feel like a puppy. 443 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:32,880 I want to feel like you know. Feel like I want to work for 444 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:36,640 something and a dog, you know? Works for it, begs for it. 445 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:39,280 You know he jumps on you when he gets excited. 446 00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:42,120 And I'm not saying I want to jump on them, but just the the 447 00:24:42,120 --> 00:24:46,200 idea of puppy play does it. I don't think puppy play as in 448 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:48,440 like furries. No. 449 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:52,400 I'm not thinking that type of puppy play, but definitely if I 450 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:56,720 was to look at how I would sub, I would say puppy because of how 451 00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:59,200 I want to be praised and treated. 452 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:04,280 Yeah, you know, Bri often told me this, and this is before I 453 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:06,680 always had one Chihuahua. I had one Chihuahua for 18 years 454 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:11,080 and I could always picture this because she would wait by the 455 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:16,760 window until I returned home and I would put Brie in a scene and 456 00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:21,040 leave her locked up in the dungeon for days, days. 457 00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:24,640 And she would say to me, you know, I feel like your lost 458 00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:28,680 puppy waiting and just hoping because I don't know how long 459 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:31,320 it's been, but just waiting for you to come back. 460 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:36,560 And I've often read stories like that on the Mistress Mia's 461 00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:42,080 Dungeon podcast show. But that's, and that's what 462 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:45,440 always resonated with me because you've said, yeah, I want to 463 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:49,640 feel like a puppy in a sense, not the actual dog, but it's 464 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:51,920 their mindset. Yeah. 465 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,960 So I just thought it was interesting and I loved and baby 466 00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:59,040 girl how we ordered her a milk here. 467 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:00,960 They're at dinner. It's a dinner party. 468 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,920 It's a work a work party. Everybody's drinking wine and 469 00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:05,360 champagne. At the end of the night. 470 00:26:05,360 --> 00:26:08,520 He orders her milk and her Co workers. 471 00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:09,840 Like, you're not going to drink that, are you? 472 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:13,160 And she's like, yes. And she just starts gulping it 473 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,560 down. Yeah, yeah. 474 00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:21,040 Being a puppy in a sense for BDSM, you know, it's almost like 475 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,640 whenever you learn a new trick or what the Dom wants you to 476 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:27,080 learn, then you get treated with, you know, little. 477 00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:29,840 Treats. Be a dog treat or you get 478 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:32,800 treated with good girl or things like that. 479 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:37,560 These it's all puppy esque. Yeah, and I love the exchange 480 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,040 when he's like, come here, just come here. 481 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:43,320 And then he's going to give her that piece of candy, I mean. 482 00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:46,320 And he he told her to eat it out of his hand and then spit it 483 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:48,040 back out. Yeah, you can't have it 484 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,960 completely. Yeah, that was so good. 485 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:53,840 It was hot. It was so fucking hot, and it 486 00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:58,440 was like this nasty hotel, you know, and she's crawling on this 487 00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:01,520 nasty fucking floor. And it's like, oh, that's all I 488 00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:03,640 could think about because it was just hot. 489 00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:09,360 And I was thinking of myself being a Dom myself and making my 490 00:27:09,360 --> 00:27:13,000 sub do that. Yeah, I guess that's how you 491 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,160 know if you're a Dom or sub. Which one do you resonate with? 492 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:18,240 Exactly. Do you resonate with the guy or 493 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:20,960 the girl? But I liked that it wasn't about 494 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:22,200 him. Yeah. 495 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,080 And I still want to know what he got out of it. 496 00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:26,840 And I love the fact that he wasn't all that. 497 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:31,520 He wasn't some hot, you know, I mean, he to me, yeah, I liked 498 00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:34,200 him because he kind of had that thug way about him. 499 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:38,360 You know, wannabe. Yeah, like a wannabe thug, you 500 00:27:38,360 --> 00:27:41,280 know, he just had like, the rough look, like you could 501 00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:45,960 imagine him with, like, a tattoo under his clothes, body art, you 502 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:47,680 know, and. Even through that rough 503 00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,560 toughness, he still saw her. Yeah, he did. 504 00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:51,480 And. What she needed. 505 00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,680 Yeah. And I think he started getting 506 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,800 frustrated with her at that one point in the hotel. 507 00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:01,880 And I don't remember what he said to her, but he was like, do 508 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:03,880 you want to do this? Do you want to do that? 509 00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:06,440 Look, what are you doing? Because she kept like going back 510 00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:07,600 and forth on. It Yeah. 511 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:09,720 It's like you got to make up your mind, yeah. 512 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,960 Yeah, that was great. And she didn't want to 513 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:16,160 relinquish that control. Well, she was going to just try 514 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,080 and sleep with him, but then he like, grabbed her wrist and be 515 00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:20,280 like, no, this is not what we're doing. 516 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:21,920 Yeah. And then I, you just see her 517 00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:24,040 crave it more and more and more. Yeah. 518 00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:26,560 It makes her work for it more and more and more. 519 00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,640 Exactly. Exactly. 520 00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:36,440 Anywho, you know, I often get a lot of emails and I've gotten a 521 00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:41,240 lot of emails in the past month from Subs and it's pretty much 522 00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:43,320 all male Subs. I think I've had one or two 523 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:48,680 women writing. There's one hot woman and she's 524 00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:53,840 she's in Brooklyn, I think. But you know, she's Latin. 525 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:56,760 You can, she's beautiful. But you know, she writes me. 526 00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:00,400 We talk periodically. She's very much a submissive and 527 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,240 but I thought, oh, she's, she's hot. 528 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:05,320 I would dominate her in a heartbeat. 529 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:10,280 But then I think about all these sub males and then I'm like, 530 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:15,640 gosh, it'd be so great to just have a, you know, farm a farm. 531 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,800 Like an Ant farm, you just watch them through the glass. 532 00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:23,520 Male slaves. Well, you know, I keep saying, 533 00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:27,880 you know I live. You just look at me like what 534 00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:29,640 the fuck? A farm. 535 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:33,160 It makes me think of like Egypt when they built the pyramids. 536 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:36,120 Yes, exactly that. Was not good for our history 537 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,760 though. Hope you know Moses saved a 538 00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:42,240 bunch of people that way. Yes, yes, however you're wanting 539 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,080 to. Restart Dark History. 540 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:49,200 Well, you know, slaves still exist today in all parts of the 541 00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:53,160 world still in existence. However, I would want willing 542 00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:56,280 participants to be my slaves. But. 543 00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:59,920 Joining of it is white, so I mean, there are blacks and 544 00:29:59,920 --> 00:30:02,480 Mexicans and every now and an Asian. 545 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:05,280 Yeah, but I guess it's primarily white. 546 00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:06,760 So yeah, let's bring in this farm. 547 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:10,120 Can't call us racist. We'll just beat them. 548 00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:15,640 Oh, too fun. All right, yeah, let's beat the 549 00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:17,440 fuck out of them. Who wants to be in line? 550 00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:21,840 And someone messaged us and left a review on the podcast. 551 00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:24,560 They want some fucked up Fridays. 552 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:27,360 Like they want them. They want them bad. 553 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:33,680 So Kylie has graciously agreed that she is going to tribute 554 00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:38,400 herself to come in and going to dominate her and, you know, 555 00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,920 ridiculousness. I just watched an episode 556 00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:43,360 yesterday. Fucking hilarious. 557 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:48,000 The guy and another guy, they were like, like brawling right 558 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:50,520 there in the driveway by a car and they were kind of like 559 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:52,880 pressed up against the car. Well finally the guy got him in 560 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,960 a headlock and he was hitting him with a dildo and then 561 00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:57,640 hitting him with the dildo in the face. 562 00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:01,440 He ends up flipping him over, pulling his pants down and they 563 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,600 couldn't show it. But he started. 564 00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:07,000 Fucking him with the dildo in the driveway up against this. 565 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:09,240 Car, my God. It was. 566 00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:13,640 Ridiculous, yes, but they? Couldn't show the penetration, 567 00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:16,720 they only showed it to the audience and I was like holy 568 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:18,160 fuck balls. Wow. 569 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:20,920 Yeah, I think it was an episode with Matt Rife on it. 570 00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:24,320 I fucking love Matt Rife. You do too. 571 00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:26,520 Yes, of course I. Do Oh my God, I didn't know. 572 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,000 I didn't know if you like to do in stand. 573 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:32,360 Up I love how he does stand up. I love how he singles out 574 00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:35,000 disabled people in like the best way. 575 00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:37,760 Yes, and they love it yes, of course, because it's great 576 00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:41,560 notice just like everybody else, you know, and not for being oh, 577 00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:42,680 they're just like everybody else. 578 00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:45,080 No, they're fucking not. And that's what's great is he's 579 00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:47,480 literally, you know, I don't know, he just does things in 580 00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:50,000 such a great way. He does, he does. 581 00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:51,640 I I totally love it. He's got. 582 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:53,480 To be really smart to be able to handle it all too. 583 00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:56,960 Oh my God, yeah. Come back at things without it 584 00:31:57,080 --> 00:32:00,360 and sometimes he will be a little bit either racist or 585 00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:04,160 sexist or something, but he just does it so like gracefully that 586 00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:07,160 it just works. Yes, yeah, he's awesome. 587 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:10,040 You know he's been doing stand ups since he was 14. 588 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:12,880 I know that cool is on while in and out. 589 00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:15,880 Oh, OK. And he would not the cutest 590 00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,320 little kid on Wildin now. Oh my God, that's funny, I have 591 00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:20,960 to watch that. He was a little weirdo. 592 00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:23,760 That is hilarious. He actually, there was actually 593 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:27,280 one that was going around that he touched Zendaya's face during 594 00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:29,960 one of their, their, their, they're going back and forth, 595 00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,360 touched Zendaya's face to get her to spit out the water. 596 00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:35,760 And all of her teammates came out and said, no, don't touch. 597 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:38,440 Nobody touches her. And no, it was, I don't know, it 598 00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:40,240 was just funny. That is funny. 599 00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:42,520 But yeah, he was not always cute. 600 00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:46,920 Yeah, well, he's hit his. He's hit his time. 601 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:48,560 Though he's hit his peak, hasn't he? 602 00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:49,800 Yeah. Well, I don't know. 603 00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:52,120 He's still peeking. He's still going up. 604 00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:54,880 You know, I love it that he's so transparent too. 605 00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:59,840 He went and he was talking about how we actually had kind of like 606 00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:03,120 a breast job done because he said yeah on one of his. 607 00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:06,160 He was talking about how he was always self-conscious about like 608 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:10,240 his nipples and his areolas and he had all that redone. 609 00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:12,840 I think they were big and pointy. 610 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:15,880 Like a girl nipple. Yeah, maybe I I don't, I don't 611 00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:17,040 think he was that. So he had. 612 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:18,400 About it. One flaw. 613 00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:20,240 Well. No, he doesn't have any more. 614 00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:21,640 He wouldn't have plastic surgery. 615 00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:23,880 He thought he had one flaw and couldn't hold that one. 616 00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:25,760 No, couldn't do it. He's like, no, I got to be par 617 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:29,240 banged. It's great. 618 00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:32,720 All right, Liv, I think we've bored them enough with our silly 619 00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,800 antics. So until then, Liv. 620 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,400 This has been the latest episode of. 621 00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:38,480 Will me, mistress?