1 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:09,800 Hi, welcome to the latest episode of Mistress Mia's 2 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:12,120 Tension. I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, 3 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:15,760 and my Co host is here with me, the Barbie. 4 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:17,720 Hi. Yeah. 5 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:25,520 So Goldentagen, Barbie and I were just having a discussion. 6 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:27,280 She was at the party. I was. 7 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:32,360 Ruby wanted to have her top her. That was shocking. 8 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:38,480 I thought it was a trap. And then she's like, Oh, well, 9 00:00:38,480 --> 00:00:41,120 you know, Barbie, you can look through my toy bag. 10 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:47,280 Ruby's toys are so scary for me. Pulled out was a rubber flogger 11 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:52,120 with like razor blades. Like what the fuck? 12 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:57,600 I was like, this is a medieval torture device. 13 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:02,200 Like my bag is just full of like like heart-shaped paddles and 14 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:04,200 stuff. And then I look into Ruby's bag 15 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:05,640 and I'm like, there's dead people in here. 16 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:09,440 I can't. She keeps theirs in the trunk, 17 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:10,760 not in her bag. Barbie. 18 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:16,440 Yeah, Ruby's hardcore. She is much more than I Ruby is 19 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:19,800 more of a brutalist and I'm more of a centralist, I feel. 20 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:26,040 And, you know, we, we each bring something unique. 21 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:30,720 Yeah. I think to our, to our talents, 22 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:34,560 you know, in the dungeon. I think we all have our own. 23 00:01:37,960 --> 00:01:40,320 What's the word I want to use? Vibe. 24 00:01:40,960 --> 00:01:46,600 Yeah, you can use vibe. And I think that, you know, when 25 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:50,680 we're in there, we all have our own unique way of doing things, 26 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,200 you know? So you were just saying really? 27 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:57,960 Or you're like a sensualist and you know touching other people 28 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:02,800 to you is an intimate act. Well, that's my issue sometimes, 29 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:07,120 like with playing with people, like some I'm friends with Ruby, 30 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:09,960 but like I don't, I feel like I'm not super close with Ruby. 31 00:02:10,199 --> 00:02:12,880 So like when we were doing it, I didn't really know what to do 32 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:15,760 because I was like, well, I don't, I don't want to touch her 33 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:17,320 because that feels inappropriate. 34 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:20,040 But then I'm like hitting her and then I'm like, so I hit her 35 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:24,680 for probably like 5 minutes and then I was like all that because 36 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:28,000 like I usually only play with like people. 37 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:32,880 I'm like, like involved with and so that makes it very different. 38 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:35,000 Like when you're like like sleeping with somebody you 39 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,120 playing with like and get very intimate. 40 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:39,840 And the only other person I really play with that parties is 41 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:43,760 an old friend of mine. And like it's different because 42 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:47,360 I've known them forever and I don't know, I just get so 43 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:49,360 nervous and I'm just like, I don't know what to do. 44 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:53,600 I don't want to be rude. I don't want to violate this 45 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:57,720 woman. Well, you know, and Ruby was 46 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:01,200 talking about it with all of us on a Sunday after the party. 47 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:04,720 And she was like, you know, I wanted Barbie to get in the 48 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:07,160 practice. She's like, and I really needed 49 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:09,560 to be topped, you know, I really needed to feel. 50 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:11,920 It was not the best. Submissive. 51 00:03:11,920 --> 00:03:15,800 Yeah, but you know, you know, the thing of it is you all don't 52 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:17,320 know each other that well, like you said. 53 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:19,440 And that makes all the difference, especially. 54 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:25,480 For me, like with playing, like call me a prude if you like, I 55 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,280 don't know, I just get all like locked up when it's someone I 56 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:31,200 don't know. But like also it's with clients, 57 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:33,760 it's a bit different for me as well because it's private. 58 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:37,120 You know, we're in the dungeon by ourselves, you know, the 59 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:41,000 lighting, so the music's there. So being like more touchy with 60 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:43,720 a, with a client is a bit different for me as well than it 61 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:47,440 is like somebody that I'm like somewhat friends with. 62 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:49,680 Like it almost feels weirder. To like. 63 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:52,040 To like, touch someone like you're friends with. 64 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:54,760 And so I feel bad because like, she's like, do you want to 65 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:56,280 practice? And I was like, yeah. 66 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:59,200 And then we get up there and like 20 million people are in 67 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:03,720 the room and they're all standing there holding toys of 68 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:10,440 rubies and the passing me toys. And I was like, and one of them 69 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:13,920 kept trying to hand me the scariest rubber dragon tail 70 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:16,320 ever. And I'm like, do not hand me the 71 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:18,959 scariest toy I've ever seen in my life. 72 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:21,920 Well, because I didn't want to. I didn't want to hurt Ruby. 73 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,440 And I know Ruby likes all the toys she owns because she uses 74 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:27,360 them all herself, she said. But I was just like, look, I 75 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:31,000 don't have the experience to use a rubber dragon tail. 76 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:34,080 But I think Ruby wanted me to practice because she saw me mess 77 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:39,320 up a whip in the dungeon twice. So I was too close to my friend 78 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:41,640 and I missed twice. And she was like Barbie. 79 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:45,640 And I was like, I saw her. And then later she was like, do 80 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:48,560 you want to come practice? I was like, got to say yes, she 81 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:56,000 saw me fuck up earlier. You know, it happens, you know, 82 00:04:56,000 --> 00:05:00,400 and I know that, you know, you're, you're so new to this. 83 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:04,680 But as I tell people, when you go in there, you listen to 84 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:09,080 clients, you gauge their their reactions, you listen to what 85 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:14,240 they want and you try to make their fantasy reality, you know, 86 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:16,480 and I think that's, that's the key. 87 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:19,840 I think you get an A for effort and you're going to make 88 00:05:19,840 --> 00:05:22,160 mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes. 89 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:24,720 You know, there's that learning curve. 90 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:28,560 Because I am I am new. I'm still under a year of doing 91 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:31,960 it professionally, so I feel like I'm still in that stage 92 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:34,240 where it's like, yeah, some things you just can't prepare 93 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:36,320 for till you interact with it. That's true. 94 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:40,560 You know, can't, can't prepare someone for every single variant 95 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:43,760 of like situation out there. Sometimes things just happen, 96 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:46,640 you know? You know, I have a very good 97 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:50,160 friend of mine and she came out of state because she really 98 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:54,440 wants to be a professional Dom. And, you know, we talked about a 99 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:58,800 lot of different things and it was really, you know, when she 100 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:02,600 asked me specific things, I was just like, well, you know, the 101 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:06,800 only way you can really get the experience is by doing it 102 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:10,000 yourself. You know, I said, let's run ads. 103 00:06:10,280 --> 00:06:13,600 You know, we will. I'll reach out to a couple of my 104 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:18,280 local regulars and, you know, you can just kind of, you know, 105 00:06:18,280 --> 00:06:20,600 watch and participate and you can help me. 106 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:24,480 And she learned a lot is what I, I really believe she did. 107 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:27,000 I think that she felt more confident about it. 108 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:30,240 You know, the one kind of client that we didn't get though, and 109 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:33,560 she really wants to learn more about is cross dressing. 110 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:36,480 Oh, you know that was we did that on my. 111 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:39,160 First day, I think, yeah, we had a lot of clients, my first. 112 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:40,120 Day. Yes. 113 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:43,000 Yes, we did. I got to see a variety. 114 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:48,480 Of things you sure did and he was a fun crossdresser too. 115 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:52,520 Sweets pie he was because you remember he came in he already 116 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:55,400 had his heels like he dressed up I. 117 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:57,040 Think he already had like booty shorts on? 118 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:59,680 We put a little leotard on him. Yeah, he. 119 00:06:59,920 --> 00:07:03,000 Also wanted to do the back bed. Yeah, he was in there most of 120 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:04,560 the night. See. 121 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:07,440 And that's so easy. Love the back bed clients. 122 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:08,920 Right I. Love it. 123 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:11,920 We have a client that that goes in the back bed for what, two 124 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:13,800 hours? Yes, that's all he wants. 125 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:19,160 That's all he wants, just in the back bed for two full hours and 126 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:22,200 like, we'll like hit him with a flogger here and there just to 127 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:26,680 keep him on his toes, but right. And then I'll take, you know, 128 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:30,120 the, the latex Lube that's, you know, good for the latex back 129 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:33,160 bed anyway. And I'll pour it on him, and 130 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:35,280 I'll rub him and I'll tickle him. 131 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:38,600 And you know, because you can still feel, you know, while 132 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:41,480 you're under there. But he says, you know, his mind 133 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:43,840 just shuts down. He said he's almost fallen 134 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:45,640 asleep several times. I. 135 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:48,360 Liked it when I was in there, I just didn't have the earplugs in 136 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:50,360 so it freaked me out because I thought my eardrums were going 137 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:53,040 to fly out of my. Head Yeah, yeah, he can't stand 138 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:55,640 there very long at all without your earplugs. 139 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:58,080 No, it was pretty nice. Like I feel like if I could 140 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:01,400 control it myself from the inside, I'd like it, you know 141 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:03,000 what I mean? I wish there was like a way to 142 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:05,800 do that right? Because I think what I dislike 143 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:09,040 is having to have someone there. I don't know why, maybe I am a 144 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:12,520 prude. No, I I totally get it because I 145 00:08:12,520 --> 00:08:15,480 remember how you were telling me you're like, yeah, when I do an 146 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:18,120 edible, I just go in the shower. Turn the lights off. 147 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:19,880 Sit in the sit at the bottom of the shower. 148 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:22,600 Turn the lights off. I'm like, yeah, it's funny 149 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:23,960 because people like, oh, do you smoke? 150 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:27,840 Not with people. Me getting high is a private 151 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:33,360 experience. Yeah, you know, do you feel like 152 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:36,039 it's a vulnerable point? I don't. 153 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:37,960 I think I just like being by myself. 154 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:40,760 Yeah, I guess I was just like experiencing it by myself. 155 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:42,159 Yeah. I'll make myself a little 156 00:08:42,159 --> 00:08:44,520 dinner. I'll take my little edible and 157 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:47,680 then I'll go find a nice little corner to sit in and then I'll 158 00:08:47,680 --> 00:08:52,200 see you in six hours and then I go to bed. 159 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:56,160 I wish I could say the one time that I had edibles was a 160 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:59,800 pleasant experience, but it was a horrible experience. 161 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:03,760 Gave me some edibles at the party and I didn't get high. 162 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:07,760 I got sleepy, but Rabbit took some and it didn't hit him until 163 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:10,560 he got home and then he felt like it would never end. 164 00:09:10,560 --> 00:09:13,040 He's texting us like guys, I am so high, right? 165 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:18,280 Now, Oh, God, yeah. You know, a client had given me 166 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:22,760 some about a year and a half ago, and I had never, never even 167 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:25,040 had an edible. And I thought, oh, OK, you know, 168 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:27,360 a little cookie. So I had a cookie. 169 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:28,720 And I was like, well, that's weird. 170 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:31,600 This really hasn't taken effect. I think you told me this and I 171 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:33,440 was on your way to the mall. I hit you. 172 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:36,240 Yeah, and I forgot that I had even taken it because my back 173 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:37,600 was bothering me. Yeah. 174 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:39,320 And I thought, oh, it'll relax me. 175 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:43,040 So I laid down for like an hour and then I got up to go to the 176 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:47,000 mall and Bree was with me and I was driving and I started seeing 177 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:49,440 like tunnel, like a tunnel in my mind. 178 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:52,280 And I was like tunnel vision. I was like, oh Lord, I was like, 179 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:53,720 what's wrong? What? 180 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:56,920 What is so? This is so amusing to me. 181 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:59,880 Like so. I've been hiding them all. 182 00:09:59,880 --> 00:10:02,400 I was so fucked up. No, I was driving. 183 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:04,240 I was on the. Illegal Mia. 184 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:07,440 I was on the Interstate. I'd forgotten I had taken it, I 185 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:09,960 was so drained. I am once. 186 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:13,040 I took an edible and my sorry, I didn't mean they're up, but no, 187 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:16,880 me and my friend, we were at her house and she lived a mile away 188 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:19,840 from a Wendy's. So we took the edible and I said 189 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:22,840 in like 20 minutes later I was like, let's go to Wendy's before 190 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:24,440 the edible hit. So we have food. 191 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:26,640 Yeah. And we drive up there, we get 192 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:29,280 our food, and as I'm leaving the edible, it hits. 193 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:33,720 And I was like, oh God. So I had to drive the mile back 194 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:35,560 to her house. I literally felt like I was 195 00:10:35,560 --> 00:10:37,440 playing a video game. It's probably some of the best 196 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:41,440 driving I ever did because I just was focusing so hard on not 197 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:45,200 messing up. Well, you know when it hit me 198 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:49,560 and I realized I just started dying laughing like so hard. 199 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:51,440 I get. Into giggle fits too. 200 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:54,680 So I was on my way to the mall and I said, hey, let's go to 201 00:10:54,680 --> 00:10:58,280 Culver's. And I mean, I never, when I go 202 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:01,080 to Culver's, I usually just get a little ice cream, that's it. 203 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:04,360 But man, I got like a peanut butter and chocolate shake. 204 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:07,000 I got the cheese curds, some French fries. 205 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:10,920 I was like, God, I'm hungry. You know, that happened to me 206 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:14,840 and me and Charles at one of your parties a few parties ago. 207 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:17,760 So a girl was like, do you want to hit my pin? 208 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:19,160 And we were like, how strong is it? 209 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:20,560 And she was like, not strong at all. 210 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:23,080 We didn't know she was a a giant Stoner. 211 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:24,840 Oh my God. So we took little hits. 212 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:27,440 We got the munchies so bad before the party. 213 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:29,800 We were fucking up that charcuterie board and the party 214 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:33,320 hadn't even started yet. We're like, we have to replace 215 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:36,480 all this. He was fucked up. 216 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:39,800 He came out pretty quickly. His did not. 217 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:44,520 He was so fucked up. He came out and he was like Mia. 218 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:50,760 I'll smoke drugs, I'll smoke a pin with somebody like a vape, 219 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:54,080 like the weed vapes, because you get you're not high long. 220 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:55,600 Yeah, that's the thing about edibles. 221 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:59,280 You're high so long that it's like if I got took an edible 222 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:02,480 with somebody, we're both going to be high for so long. 223 00:12:02,680 --> 00:12:05,280 And that just sounds like hell. I was like, if you want to be 224 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:08,240 high together, someone just needs to go get one of the pins 225 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:10,080 or something because I don't like smoking a joint. 226 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:13,040 That's just yucky. It makes me want to throw up. 227 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:19,440 Wow, I used to love it when my niece introduced me to what is 228 00:12:19,440 --> 00:12:21,960 it the the vaporizer. What do you think? 229 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:24,840 What do you call those where you put water in it? 230 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:26,360 Diffuser. Diffuser. 231 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:27,760 There you go. I love diffuser. 232 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:31,960 And she would put ice in it and God, it was amazing. 233 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:35,320 Sometimes I'll I'll boil water and I'll put my face over the 234 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:38,400 boiling water to see my face. See. 235 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:41,080 Yeah, A. Good sweat is good for the skin 236 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:45,080 sometimes. It is, but inhaling it to me has 237 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:48,280 never bothered me. But that edible, I was sick all 238 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:51,600 through the day, all through the night, and I didn't feel right 239 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:54,600 until the next day. The only time I ever got sick 240 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:57,240 off an edible, it was so psychosomatic. 241 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:00,480 I had just convinced myself I needed to throw up and I didn't 242 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:02,440 throw up. And I was like, you don't throw 243 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:05,080 up, you're going to get sick. And I was like, I just convinced 244 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:06,960 myself I had to throw up. And then I did it. 245 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:08,760 And then afterwards I'm like, I'm still high. 246 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:12,200 That didn't work. Oh my God that sucks. 247 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:15,800 It was so weird too. My brain just like, convinced 248 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:18,920 itself this had to happen and it did not need to happen. 249 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:22,560 God bless SO. Back to the party. 250 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:26,400 Back to the party, tell us what was your take on it? 251 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:30,360 The party was really fun. It was much more condensed space 252 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:33,640 wise and I feel like that was really beneficial for the party. 253 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:37,480 I felt like it it forced people to kind of mingle and be around 254 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:40,760 each other because it rained for the first hour or two. 255 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:44,120 So like all the outside area like was unavailable. 256 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:48,000 And so like I noticed people were like talking to each other 257 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:49,640 a lot more than you'd usually see. 258 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:51,840 Like they like a lot of small talk. 259 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:54,400 Yeah, they really engaged and it was your idea. 260 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:58,040 You told me you're like, you know, put the put the tents over 261 00:13:58,040 --> 00:14:01,400 closer to the house, close off that side yard and it worked. 262 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:03,520 It worked. Better because if you had like 263 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:06,440 300 people showing up to your party, we would need all that 264 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:09,600 space. But if we're only having like 75 265 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:13,840 people, you know, yeah, it's like it's easy to just condense 266 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:15,320 it, force them all to bump elbows. 267 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:17,560 That's what the cut these kind of parties are for anyways. 268 00:14:17,560 --> 00:14:20,320 Yeah, we've had less than 100 all through summer. 269 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:23,520 It's it's been crazy, but it works. 270 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:26,560 It works out because. They're more consistent and oh, 271 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:29,120 I can just catch the next one. But when you go back to doing 272 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:32,000 them sporadically, people will be more inclined to go to them. 273 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:34,920 Oh yeah, well I'm not having any this winter so they're going to 274 00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:36,600 be shit out a lot. I thought you're doing one in 275 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:38,560 October. Well, it's still fall true. 276 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:41,600 You know, are you going to do one in February then? 277 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:43,680 No, February is my birthday. Oh. 278 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:46,240 Happy birthday. Thanks you too. 279 00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:49,640 So you coming back in March or something? 280 00:14:49,680 --> 00:14:51,800 Probably March or April. My birthday month see. 281 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:55,760 Yeah, it's right there. I knew it was right there, but 282 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:58,240 yeah, you know, fuck that. I don't want to do anything 283 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:00,120 during the winter. I don't think you know. 284 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:03,120 Yeah, I mean. It's a lot of fucking work. 285 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:05,560 It is. And honestly I like, I run 286 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:10,200 events and stuff too, and December holidays, not a good 287 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:13,320 time for events. Like people just don't go big. 288 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:16,120 People are saving up for holidays, they're travelling. 289 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:19,680 Like no one wants to spend the door fee on things like yeah, 290 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:22,920 like we're only having a show in December. 291 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:25,880 Like, we weren't going to, and we decided to have a show in 292 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:29,840 December just because so many people want to be in our shows. 293 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:32,000 So we're just going to do a showcase or something like yeah. 294 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,120 But. No, the party was really fun. 295 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:38,240 We we closed off some like the kitchen from like the living 296 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:41,200 room and it kind of made it like a little bit of a viewing area 297 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:43,840 for like the the orgy bed we had. 298 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:46,400 Yeah, that were a tank, right? Yeah, and I think honestly, 299 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:49,720 having that kind of like area would be cool because I, I 300 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:52,440 noticed people were more likely to like play with each other 301 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:55,120 too, because they were all forced to sit there and look. 302 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:56,560 At each other, Look at each other. 303 00:15:56,560 --> 00:16:00,440 Exactly. So tell us, you know, I know 304 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:03,200 what you do on the side, but a lot of people don't realize you 305 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:04,760 do drag shows. I do. 306 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:08,280 I do drag shows and I do performance art and I'm also a 307 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:11,960 normal artist too. Right, of course you are. 308 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:15,360 I have all the jobs parents don't want your kids to have. 309 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:20,280 Drag queen, dominatrix and artist making Mama proud. 310 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:23,840 Right, So what do you do in your drag shows? 311 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:28,560 Well, so I run and I've run a group called the Sapphic Stage 312 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:31,240 and we've only put on two events so far. 313 00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:33,200 We're very new to like the scene. 314 00:16:33,480 --> 00:16:36,680 And so our first one went really good. 315 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:38,600 We had like over 100 people show up. 316 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:42,680 We didn't do anything too crazy because you know, the venue was 317 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:45,480 kind of strict. Like they were like, they paid 318 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:47,880 well, but they were kind of like, you can't do this. 319 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:51,280 Like you need to look classy, see, like, you know, so it was 320 00:16:51,280 --> 00:16:54,600 definitely everyone had to be like fully covered and like, not 321 00:16:54,600 --> 00:16:57,360 that we're like doing nudie shows or anything like that, but 322 00:16:57,360 --> 00:17:00,360 you definitely had to like, it was a bit more effort, you know, 323 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:02,200 to do it. And they also like were very 324 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:04,079 picky about what events they host. 325 00:17:04,079 --> 00:17:06,480 So we didn't really have a lot of creative freedom, but it was 326 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:09,079 a lovely venue. We did enjoy working there, but 327 00:17:09,839 --> 00:17:12,920 we got booked at a different venue, which is really nice 328 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:16,079 because this venue is like one of the punk venues around. 329 00:17:16,079 --> 00:17:19,240 They, they told us you can do anything you want as long as 330 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:20,880 like you clean up your mess when you're done. 331 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:23,319 And we were like, don't tell us that, right? 332 00:17:23,319 --> 00:17:26,000 So we, we were able to do so much more. 333 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:30,680 Like we had a whole fire show. We had someone doing a human 334 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:33,600 pincushion act and it was freak show themed. 335 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:37,120 It was a drag show, freak show. So that's why we had like so 336 00:17:37,120 --> 00:17:40,320 many different kinds of people. We had a girl doing aerial 337 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:42,600 performances. She like hung from a hoop and 338 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:46,640 then she hung from chains like and she we were all like wearing 339 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:48,800 like 8 inch stripper fetish heels. 340 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:50,000 I. Don't know how you do it. 341 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:53,040 It was crazy. And then, of course, you know, 342 00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:57,280 Rabbit was in it and Rabbit wore his little clown costume and he 343 00:17:57,280 --> 00:17:59,640 had the little pasties on and was running around the room and 344 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:02,920 everyone loved it. It honestly was such a cool show 345 00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:05,400 that like people were like, this is one of the best shows the 346 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:07,400 city has seen in like a hot minute. 347 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:10,960 I was like, yes. I can imagine why it would be. 348 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:13,480 I mean they, they. We put in the effort and I was. 349 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:16,120 Gonna say just the costumes alone were crazy. 350 00:18:16,360 --> 00:18:18,880 No. And it was so cool because like, 351 00:18:19,320 --> 00:18:23,160 like, because we're a bunch of like girls or like a fab people 352 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:25,440 like doing drag, which is not very popular. 353 00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:28,960 So we were really excited that our events have just been going 354 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:33,160 so well because it's kind of like a, well, we're going to do 355 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:36,640 it too, you know, right, Because a lot of the people I book had 356 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:40,200 issues getting booked and with like more traditional drag 357 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:43,160 Queens that are men, they just, they really wouldn't book us. 358 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:46,680 And if they did, they would only book one of us per show kind of 359 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:49,360 thing. Like just as a like a like, oh, 360 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:52,600 there's one, you know what I mean, just to include. 361 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:55,120 But we were like, no, we, I think we need to make our own 362 00:18:55,120 --> 00:18:57,920 space at this point. But we kind of did it and now 363 00:18:57,920 --> 00:19:00,120 we're, we're really demolishing at it and we're really. 364 00:19:00,120 --> 00:19:01,960 Excited about it. That's so exciting. 365 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:06,480 I know it is super cool and our next one's Halloween and of 366 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:08,600 course like it's going to be insane. 367 00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:11,120 Like I've already, they're already all thinking of things 368 00:19:11,120 --> 00:19:13,120 they want to do. We're probably going to buy a 369 00:19:13,120 --> 00:19:16,800 few tarps for that show with the amount of bloodshed that. 370 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:21,240 Might happen, right? Well, now you need to go like to 371 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:23,360 bigger cities. That's the plan. 372 00:19:23,360 --> 00:19:28,520 Like my Co host who runs it, she's moving to LA in January so 373 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:33,560 she's hoping to maybe bring some shows over there and there'd 374 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:39,120 just be two sex of it. And but yeah, our next show, our 375 00:19:39,120 --> 00:19:41,960 next big show after the Halloween one is going to be in 376 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:44,360 February, hopefully. We're hoping to do like a 377 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:47,560 Valentine's Day burlesque show. We think that'd be very. 378 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:49,440 Cute. Oh, I'm sure it will. 379 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:52,880 Without a doubt. I know it's so exciting because. 380 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:57,000 All of the girls commit so hard, like they're all my friends and 381 00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:58,840 I love them. And you'll be like, hey, guys, 382 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:00,240 can you be in the show? And they're like, yes. 383 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:02,320 And we're going to commit to the bit so hard. 384 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:03,880 We're going to do like everything we can. 385 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,160 And it's just like, yes, thank you. 386 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:11,680 So aside from that and your other job is being a dominatrix, 387 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:17,400 what are the perks? Well, I I like that, like the 388 00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:21,800 schedules flexible and it's honestly just, it's a fun, it's 389 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:25,600 a conversation starter. I don't mention it a ton, yeah, 390 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:30,440 but it is, it is interesting to have like, not it, it feels like 391 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:32,400 not a real job, but it is a real job. 392 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:34,120 Yeah. It is just funny. 393 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:37,120 Like when people are like asked what you do, I'm always like, 394 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:39,320 well, what do I say? Do I say drag queen or 395 00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:41,160 dominatrix? Both sound bad and both have a 396 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:43,240 lot of questions tied to it. Oh shit. 397 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:48,120 I, I usually just, I usually just say, oh, I'm a freelance 398 00:20:48,120 --> 00:20:50,320 artist or something like that. And that also has a ton of 399 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:53,320 questions tied to it. All right, so I'm going to tell 400 00:20:53,320 --> 00:20:58,560 you a story. So I've gone to my podiatrist, 401 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:01,640 yeah, probably about nine months ago. 402 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:04,840 Nice guy. I knew him from years ago 403 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:10,800 because he knew what I used to do with my family business, you 404 00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:16,640 know, 20 plus years ago. And so he came in, he's like, I 405 00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:19,000 know you. And I said yeah, you know, I'm 406 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:22,720 such and such from this. And he's like, oh, OK, So what 407 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:25,240 do you do for a living now? Yeah. 408 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:30,800 Well, the family business was not dominatrix work. 409 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:34,600 It was not BTSM. It was in the medical field. 410 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:37,320 So I told him, I said, well I'm a dominatrix now. 411 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:41,440 And he's like, oh, oh, really? He said. 412 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:43,440 They have those types of things here, huh? 413 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:46,320 I said yeah. I get that reaction too. 414 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:48,880 Like here, Here. Yeah. 415 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:53,240 Yeah, for real. And so, so that conversation was 416 00:21:53,360 --> 00:21:57,040 was rather funny, but I told him, I said, look, when you cut 417 00:21:57,040 --> 00:22:00,720 into my toes, I have to have pretty feet, so you can't take a 418 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:05,560 lot of my toes. So a lot of the toenail itself. 419 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:11,480 So anyway, so he was super cool about that and and I had to go 420 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,840 back. So I went back to him because 421 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:19,960 I've had this one issue with my foot and he didn't recognize me 422 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:23,800 again. And I was like, you know, 423 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:27,800 doctor, you know what I do for a living because he asked me again 424 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:32,720 and he's like, and I looked at his nurse. 425 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:36,840 I said cover your ears. And I said, doctor, I'm a 426 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:40,480 dominatrix, remember? And he's like, oh, yeah, yeah, 427 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:44,840 yeah, OK, OK. And he's like, So he's like. 428 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:49,400 And then the nurse heard and the nurse is like, Oh my God, is 429 00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:50,840 that what you do? That is so cool. 430 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,640 She's like, do you get anybody with ABDL fetish? 431 00:22:56,760 --> 00:23:00,680 And I said actually I do so. Explained to the doctor what 432 00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:01,880 that meant. Yes. 433 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:03,280 And he's like, yeah, what is that? 434 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:06,120 And she's like, oh, it's adult baby diaper lovers. 435 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:09,280 She's like, I watched an episode of that on CSI. 436 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,360 That's so funny. Is that not hilarious? 437 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:16,720 And so she was going on a little bit and then he's like, well, 438 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:19,400 he's like, what are your some of your strangest clients? 439 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:20,960 You know, what are some of your strangers? 440 00:23:21,120 --> 00:23:22,400 Always the question. They go to. 441 00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:24,320 What's the craziest? Thing you've ever done? 442 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:26,760 Craziest thing, but I told him, I said, well, you know, there's 443 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:28,560 a lot of different things that people like. 444 00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:30,560 I said, but you know, you're a foot man. 445 00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:32,640 I'll tell you. I said Boss Leonato is one of my 446 00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:35,160 favorite things and I said it's impact on the feet. 447 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:37,240 I said. And a lot of times it involves a 448 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:40,160 cane and he's like. Get out of here. 449 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,120 I did some of that today. Right. 450 00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:47,920 And so when I did that, he was like, oh, that's so cool. 451 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:51,280 He's like, so you're basically sending me clients and patience. 452 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:52,920 I said, yeah, I'm sending you patience. 453 00:23:53,360 --> 00:23:56,840 And so we continue on to conversation and he's like, you 454 00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:58,720 know, I would really love to learn more about this. 455 00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:01,880 And I said, well, you listen to our podcast, Mr. Smea Sunshine. 456 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:03,600 He's like, oh, I'm going to do that. 457 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:07,920 He's like, you know, some of my friends, they, they went to some 458 00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:11,600 party here locally and they didn't know that a dominatrix 459 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:14,200 was actually the Hostess it. Was your party wasn't. 460 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:17,640 It yeah, it was my party and I was like, you know, Doctor, I'm 461 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:20,680 the only dominatrix in town that throws big parties. 462 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:21,560 That's so. Funny. 463 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,000 Yeah, and I said So what were their thoughts? 464 00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:28,200 He says they had a fun time, but just really wasn't for them. 465 00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:31,800 It happens, it happens, he said. I think there was a little bit 466 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:35,600 too much BDSM, but I think that he wanted to refrain from 467 00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:39,320 telling his nurse that his friends were swingers, so that 468 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,520 makes sense. Yeah, he didn't throw that part 469 00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:45,920 in there towards me, but. It's always funny seeing the mix 470 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,240 of swingers and kingsters, you know? 471 00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:51,480 Yeah. You know, say, say a group of 472 00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:55,400 10, you know, you got five couples that are, you know, into 473 00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:58,680 just swinging. There's always one out of those 474 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:03,600 five that they're kind of like, I don't think this is for me. 475 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:07,240 I mean, we literally had one of the most vanilla scenes years 476 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:14,480 ago when someone was just being tied in Shibari on my couch and 477 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,840 a couple walked in and they're like Nope, Nope. 478 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:18,880 We're leaving. And I'm like, really? 479 00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:20,960 Really. Yeah, very. 480 00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:24,080 Paid to get in. And they just left. 481 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:28,000 What, what, what did they, what did they expect? 482 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,680 What did they expect? Well, my thing of it is it's a 483 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:32,960 big house. We have outdoor spaces. 484 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:37,480 We have indoor spaces, you know, and getting tied up seems very 485 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,160 standard. Very standard. 486 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:40,640 And she was. And it wasn't like they were 487 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:42,200 hanging her up. She was just standing there. 488 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:45,760 She was laying down, actually doing shibari, you know, he was 489 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:50,080 working his way down. And, you know, attractive girl. 490 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:51,720 Hey, not a big deal. I guess. 491 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:55,280 Yeah, whatever. It was pretty crazy, honestly. 492 00:25:56,080 --> 00:26:02,200 But but anyway, the the doctor, he left the room and I had to 493 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:05,800 get an injection in my foot. And so I was asking the nurse. 494 00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:09,440 I said, so how long for this to actually wear off because my 495 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:11,920 foot is just a little numb. She said, well, you know, varies 496 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,600 from every person. I said, well, is it OK if I, you 497 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:17,800 know, go home and let my slave boy rub my feet for a few hours? 498 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,720 She says I am so jealous, so funny, isn't that? 499 00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:24,320 Funny, I like how you said slave boy instead of saying can I go 500 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:26,040 home and like have someone rub my feet? 501 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,640 You you specifically were like, I'm gonna say slave boy I. 502 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,840 Didn't even think about it. Just literally just, you know, 503 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:34,440 rolling off the tongue. Yeah, fuck that. 504 00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:36,400 I mean I called the. Client a bitch boy today. 505 00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:40,080 See I did. I had to go pee mid session and 506 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:42,680 he was tied down and I just went wait right there and bitch boy 507 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,600 I'll be right back. I came back. 508 00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:50,000 I was like, did you miss me? I hate when I have to go to the 509 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,720 bathroom during the scene. It it happens, I mean it was a 510 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,120 three hour long session. So I had to go. 511 00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,120 So it happens. I'll turn away the pros and 512 00:26:57,120 --> 00:26:59,440 cons. I was like, can I wait another 2 513 00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:00,640 1/2 hours? And then I was like. 514 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:02,960 Nope. Yeah, I'm just gonna go and. 515 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:05,920 It'd been very convenient. If he wanted him, he wanted you 516 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,560 to piss on him. But no, I know Barbie's. 517 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:11,080 Like I'm not in a mental state where I think I could piss on 518 00:27:11,120 --> 00:27:13,840 someone I know. Just send them outside by the 519 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:15,640 pool. I go out there just. 520 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,080 Pour some hot water on them. He would know the difference. 521 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:21,760 I'm just kidding. I would do no such thing. 522 00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:28,000 You know when I did? When I did phone sex, a lot of 523 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,800 people would call and say, can you go and pee and let me 524 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:33,800 listen. And I'm like, fuck, yeah, I can. 525 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:36,440 Sure. I just got my bottle of water I 526 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:38,880 always had and I just went over, right over to the toilet and 527 00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:40,960 just like stopped it, started it. 528 00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:45,680 If they wouldn't hear me Jack off, I would take lotion like a 529 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:49,960 big glob, put it to my hands. Oh yeah, go to town on my hands. 530 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,960 You know, they don't they, they just want the fantasy. 531 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,240 Yeah, that's what people. Want the fantasy? 532 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,200 That's nice. That's what it's about. 533 00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:01,680 It's about serving the fantasy and doing the fetish that they 534 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:03,280 want. You know, it's not really about 535 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:05,640 like the specifics of it sometimes. 536 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:07,200 And that's kind of what's fun about it. 537 00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:10,080 You can take, like, little liberties with what's going on, 538 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:11,640 you know? Exactly. 539 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,840 You know, it's fun. At that party, there was this 540 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:18,480 cute little boy reminding me of a little twink, but he was 541 00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:21,200 bisexual. He's the cutest bisexual man. 542 00:28:21,360 --> 00:28:25,480 God, yeah, He was sexy. He's got the cutest, just cutest 543 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,720 look about him. And then, of course, he whipped 544 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:31,680 out his big, massive Dick. And I was like, damn. 545 00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:36,240 And so to watch him participate in a three-way while I'm 546 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:39,960 standing up on the balcony watching that, I'm like, I stand 547 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:43,080 there and I'm like, I peaked. I'm like, how good is my life 548 00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:46,440 right now, right, you know? This is how I feel sometimes. 549 00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:48,280 Seriously, it's a great fucking life. 550 00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:52,880 Like, especially like, you know, like it's just, it's just fun 551 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:54,560 because my friends will be like, do you have work tomorrow? 552 00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:56,680 And I'm like, yeah, I got to go to work for an hour. 553 00:28:56,680 --> 00:29:00,840 It's going to be so hard. It was so funny at the party. 554 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,000 All my friends were like, oh, we have to go. 555 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,000 We have to be a bit like 7:00 in the morning. 556 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:08,000 I'm like, guys, I have work tomorrow too. 557 00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:11,800 I have to wake up and look pretty and then I have to go in 558 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:13,960 for an hour. Guys, it's. 559 00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:16,920 So hard, guys. It's so. 560 00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:19,040 Difficult. I have to go and let a man like 561 00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:28,240 massage my feet for an hour, like my life is hard to go hit 562 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:31,080 somebody for an hour. Guys, gosh, I know. 563 00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:32,440 I love it. I love it. 564 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:38,840 Well, I had, I've had, I don't really, I do tell people I do 565 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:42,840 this, but I'm very like, it's interesting who I tell because 566 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:46,080 my friends know I do this, but I don't really just tell anybody. 567 00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:49,680 But I feel like a lot of people assume, you know, that I'm into 568 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,280 stuff in some sense, especially with the kind of costumes I 569 00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,000 wear. Yeah, but I tested. 570 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,640 I think I might have told you this, but we all went to the 571 00:29:56,640 --> 00:30:00,440 club and there was a guy with us and he's a photographer. 572 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:04,560 He had come to our shows and I had already heard through the 573 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:07,560 Grapevine that he was trying to hit on my friend, but she's 574 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,280 asexual, so she wasn't interested. 575 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,920 And she was like, yeah, he mentioned pegging like three 576 00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:13,960 times while we were hanging out. And I was like, that's funny. 577 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:16,240 So I tested out. I was like, I'm just going to 578 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,920 tell him a dominatrix if he asked what I do for a living. 579 00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:23,360 And I did in his brain, I swear to God, short circuited in that 580 00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,040 moment. And he was like, well, what do 581 00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:27,560 you do? And I went well you know I hit 582 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:30,320 people a peg men. Like I said that to be a bitch 583 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:34,600 and he probably mentioned it like like 8 times. 584 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:37,280 He wants you to peg him, Yeah. But he wouldn't say that. 585 00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:39,920 He was mentioning pegging and he wanted me to bring it up and I 586 00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,440 wouldn't. I think I already said this on 587 00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:44,720 the podcast. But no, I don't recall this. 588 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:48,080 Well, he then we were at the club and he, we were talking to 589 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:51,080 some couple outside of the bathroom and my friends were in 590 00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:53,880 the restroom and he goes, yeah, she picks people for a living. 591 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,320 I was like, well, I just went, what are you talking about? 592 00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,600 I'm like, Oh my God, I do remember. 593 00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:02,080 You don't. Tell strangers that. 594 00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:04,640 What is Oh my. Jesus, it was so. 595 00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:07,520 It was so annoying, but he was sweet. 596 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:09,520 But then my friends later were like, yeah, he's sweet. 597 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:10,520 And then I told him what happened. 598 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,240 They were like, we don't like that, but like, I'm trying to 599 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,520 like, try to work it in and see how people react. 600 00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:19,880 Like some people react normally. They think it's really cool. 601 00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:21,880 They want to know, like a fun story or two. 602 00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:24,200 Yeah. But then there's people like him 603 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:26,680 that are just like, oh, you do that. 604 00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:28,800 And then it's like brain off, penis on. 605 00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:30,960 And then there's like, oh really? 606 00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:34,360 Right. They start talking like 607 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:37,520 scooby-doo. They're just. 608 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:42,040 Drooling out of their mouth. Can I Jack off right now? 609 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,800 No, that's like I was talking to my friend. 610 00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:47,400 I was like, at what point when I'm dating someone do I 611 00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:50,480 disclose? My God, it's like I. 612 00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:52,520 Imagine it'd have to be pretty early on. 613 00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:54,040 Right on. Yeah, you have to tell them. 614 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,480 That I'm like, if I tell them too early they might not respect 615 00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:58,440 me anymore. You know what? 616 00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:00,200 I date them then. Exactly. 617 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:04,160 You know what I really hate is that most everyone in my 618 00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:05,760 immediate family, they all know what I do. 619 00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:10,320 Yeah, but my oldest sister always thinks that I do types of 620 00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:13,960 sex work in a sense, and I'm just like, ignorant. 621 00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:16,120 It is. And I'm like, why would you 622 00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,000 think that? I mean, I'm happily married. 623 00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:20,320 I'm not gonna be fucking somebody. 624 00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:23,000 That's the. Reason that stops me from being 625 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:26,840 more open about it, yeah, is because I have a lot of friends 626 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:31,760 who are who are sex workers, but they're like only fans, girls, 627 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:33,240 which there's nothing wrong with that. 628 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:37,280 But there is a big difference between in person sex workers 629 00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:40,880 and then online sex workers. And then even like my stripper 630 00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:42,440 friends, they're also sex workers. 631 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:45,080 But it's very different to work in a strip club. 632 00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,160 I mean, I know some strip clubs are some strippers are turning 633 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:49,480 tricks, but I'm not talking about them. 634 00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,040 I'm talking about your standard strippers that Just Dance for 635 00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:54,640 the money. There is a big difference kind 636 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,640 of between that and then what we do because I feel like what we 637 00:32:57,640 --> 00:33:03,600 do is so much more invasive and it's and it's like to just a 638 00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:06,800 different degree than them. And so I feel like I don't know, 639 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,480 I get, I don't like telling people because like I don't want 640 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:12,920 people to assume I'm fucking them, you know, because we see 641 00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:14,880 them in person and it's hard to explain. 642 00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:18,000 It's like, no, I'm not, I'm not having sex with these men. 643 00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:21,320 I know they're paying to see me, but like, and I know I have to 644 00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:24,240 go like in there with them, but I'm, I'm not touching them, I'm 645 00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:26,440 not sucking their Dick. I'm not fucking them. 646 00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:28,680 And that's just what I don't want to have to answer to 647 00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:30,800 people. And that's why I kind of keep it 648 00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:33,080 like low key. That's why I barely like being 649 00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:35,520 called a sex worker because I'm like, no, you don't understand. 650 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:40,160 I see these in person, guys. I can't, you can't call me that. 651 00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:43,200 I know technically nowadays it all falls under that term, but 652 00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:45,440 like no. It's too wide of an umbrella 653 00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:50,440 that has nothing to do with us. When you call yourself that and 654 00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:53,480 you sell pictures online, yeah, people know you're not fucking 655 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:55,160 them. But when you call yourself that 656 00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:58,840 and you see clients in person, privately in a room, yeah, 657 00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:01,560 they're gonna assume that about. They're gonna be definitely. 658 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:03,840 Yeah, because if you say you're a sex worker, I work at a strip 659 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:05,280 club, they know you're not doing that. 660 00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:09,679 But for us, hell, even some clients that show up don't even 661 00:34:09,679 --> 00:34:11,440 believe us when we say we don't fuck you. 662 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:13,679 You know what I mean? Oh yeah, I show that straight up 663 00:34:13,679 --> 00:34:14,880 the rip. Yeah, you tell them that 664 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:16,480 straight off the rip and they think you're lying. 665 00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:18,040 And then they show up like, oh, you're for real. 666 00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:22,239 And we're like, yes, why would we lie to you? 667 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:26,000 Yeah, well, you know, and they think that by telling us, 668 00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:29,400 they'll tell us via text. They always say, well, I'm not 669 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:31,199 affiliated with any law enforcement. 670 00:34:31,199 --> 00:34:35,560 And my response is always, well, that's fine if you are, because 671 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:37,199 running anything. Exactly. 672 00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:39,159 So I don't care if you're a cop or not. 673 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,800 And I said we cater to BDSM fetishes and fans. 674 00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,400 It's always funny they try to pull the quick wink wink on us. 675 00:34:45,679 --> 00:34:47,320 I'm not a cop. Don't worry guys. 676 00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,600 And we're like, OK, cool. We're not prostitutes still. 677 00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:56,000 But they think that basically that pretty much gives you a 678 00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,760 free pass. Like you won't be arrested. 679 00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:01,960 They won't be arrested. So it's like all is good. 680 00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:05,000 I'm like, no, it's not good. There's a thing all over here, 681 00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,920 no? We like BDSM and fetishes. 682 00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:10,880 If you want to sleep with somebody, there are girls who do 683 00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:12,400 that exactly. We do that. 684 00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:15,640 All the way all over, all over. Just not here. 685 00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:17,600 I respect girls. Who do that? 686 00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:20,280 I personally don't think I could, but like, yeah, take 687 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:23,720 takes grit to be able to be, you know, prostitute or a hooker, 688 00:35:23,720 --> 00:35:24,680 you know, I couldn't. Do it? 689 00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:26,680 Absolutely. I mean, we've talked to 690 00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,920 different people before, you know, I know that I've met one 691 00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:34,160 or two at different places in. Time I have friends who used to 692 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:37,360 hook and yeah, they're like, yeah, it's not the best, but you 693 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:40,080 know, you make good money and it's kind of easy and you're 694 00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:43,040 like, yeah, I guess that's how you how you need to do it. 695 00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:45,960 But everyone has their limits and everyone has things they're 696 00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:48,200 willing to do. And yeah, like, like for me, 697 00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:52,320 example, I feel like I have more like, I have more like reserved 698 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:55,640 tendencies, especially when it comes to kink and playing and 699 00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:58,080 all sorts of stuff. But that's just a personality 700 00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:02,080 thing for me, you know, I'm very content just sitting by myself 701 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,720 at a party and not playing and just having a good time. 702 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,480 I was going to say. And if anything, I always find 703 00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,640 that we do a lot of role-playing. 704 00:36:09,720 --> 00:36:13,080 That's such a huge thing. I'm still getting used to the 705 00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:16,200 role play because I'm so used to like, the negotiation 706 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:18,840 beforehand. Yeah, because I for me, that's 707 00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:22,400 kind of like a security blanket. Like when I can sit the guy down 708 00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:26,280 and I can ask exactly what he wants to do, like, what are his 709 00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:28,480 limits? Like go over like the red, 710 00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:30,400 yellow, green. Like for me, that makes me feel 711 00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:32,600 like, OK, so I know what I'm going to do. 712 00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:35,360 I can plan it out in my head how the scenes going to go. 713 00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:39,120 But when it's the role play once that like from the jump, don't 714 00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:43,120 even want you to acknowledge that like you know there he's. 715 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:45,040 Coming in for a certain reason, rather. 716 00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:47,440 Than yeah, they're like me, he'll be like, OK, he's gonna 717 00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:49,760 come in and you don't need to say anything to him. 718 00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,560 Just go ahead and start and I'll be like, well let's see what 719 00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:55,200 what does he want to do? And. 720 00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:58,280 She's like just. Go with the flow. 721 00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:00,720 And I'm like, there's no flow. He hasn't told me anything. 722 00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:03,400 Pull his hair. Pull him down on the floor. 723 00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,720 She gave me like and I did the exact rundown you told me to do. 724 00:37:06,720 --> 00:37:08,040 She like, gave me a small script. 725 00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:12,800 She's like when he comes in just yell at him, grab him by the 726 00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:14,880 air, throw him on the floor, make him take off his clothes. 727 00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:16,480 And I did. And then I just tied him down 728 00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:21,160 when she told me to and she was like do CBT for an hour, OK? 729 00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:26,960 And I did it. Beat the shit out of him. 730 00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:28,320 Well, it's so. Fun. 731 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:32,480 The other role play, one that me and Ruby did we we were both 732 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:37,520 lost because halfway through he couldn't get pegged. 733 00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:41,480 He didn't like pain and so we were, but we were deep in role 734 00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:43,400 play where we were playing characters. 735 00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:47,240 So we were kind of like, we can't really ask him what he 736 00:37:47,240 --> 00:37:50,960 wants or what he wants to do. So that was, that's why like 737 00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:54,080 sometimes, like I like, I don't mind role-playing, but I do like 738 00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:58,560 having that little beforehand interaction a little bit just so 739 00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:01,120 I can figure out what we, what we can do. 740 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:04,200 You know, and I think in all the years I've done this, I've had 741 00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:08,760 maybe five people that have come in, they have handed me an 742 00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:12,440 envelope with an entire list of dos and don'ts. 743 00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,560 That's. Would love that. 744 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,720 Would you love that? Well, yeah, I would love you 745 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:20,640 have to tell me. Well, yeah, just even if you can 746 00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:25,040 verbally say it just like, okay, so I like Impact, but I don't 747 00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:29,800 like CBT and I would like to get pegged, but I don't want it to 748 00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:33,160 be a giant dildo. If a man came in and said that 749 00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:36,680 to me, I would be like perfect. I know exactly how the sessions 750 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:38,840 going to go. I know exactly how we're going 751 00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:40,280 to start and how we're going to end it. 752 00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:44,000 I can fill in all the little in betweens or if a man came in, it 753 00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:47,840 was like, I really like CBT, but I don't want to hit be hit any 754 00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,320 bit where else. And I also like feet. 755 00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:54,520 Perfect. I know what we can do, but when 756 00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:56,320 they come in and you're like, what do you want to do? 757 00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:58,360 They're like, well, I'm down for anything. 758 00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:01,520 Don't say that. God, and that's the truth. 759 00:39:01,720 --> 00:39:04,200 And then you start naming things and like, well, I'm not really 760 00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:07,000 into that. I'm like, so you're not. 761 00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:10,720 All right, let's send it on that note. 762 00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:14,120 So you ready? Yes, All right. 763 00:39:14,720 --> 00:39:17,240 And until then, may all your fantasies become. 764 00:39:17,240 --> 00:39:18,400 Realities.