1 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:24,280 Hi, welcome to the latest episode. 2 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:27,440 Call Me a Mistress. I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, 3 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:31,000 and today we're going to go over a couple of interesting emails. 4 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:37,240 So for starters, one of my absolute favorite people is 5 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:41,800 Tony. Tony wrote me and we'd spoken 6 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:45,520 right before New Year's Eve. So here we are. 7 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:49,440 And he wrote me a new letter. He said good morning, Mistress 8 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:50,600 Mia. I'm so sorry. 9 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:52,320 I went a little radio silent here. 10 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:54,560 I've been meaning to message you back. 11 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:57,320 I love speaking with you on the phone. 12 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:00,640 It was so nice to be able to have a conversation with you 13 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:03,960 about things that I usually would never talk about or bring 14 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,760 to light. To actually say something out 15 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:09,320 loud and get feedback is so great. 16 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:13,520 Thank you for that. I swear I could talk to you and 17 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:16,960 pick your brain for hours. What you do is so interesting to 18 00:01:16,960 --> 00:01:21,680 me and I love hearing all the details into how the sausage is 19 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:25,720 made. I'm sorry to hear your New 20 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:27,520 Year's Eve plans did not work out. 21 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:30,240 Sounds like your Sissy got called into work. 22 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,920 I hope you guys get to reschedule and make this a 23 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:36,520 reality for you. I think you'll have a lot of fun 24 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:42,760 with them both. Oh, and on my front, New Year's 25 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:47,160 Eve didn't go as planned either. Honestly, we both lost track of 26 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,680 time. I always make a big dinner every 27 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:53,000 New Year's Eve. This year was fried calamari, 28 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:57,160 steak, crab legs, lobster tails and mashed potatoes. 29 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:01,960 By the time we were done cooking, eating and cleaning it 30 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:05,360 was nearly the new year. I still have plans to do what we 31 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:08,039 talked about. I think my wife will really 32 00:02:08,039 --> 00:02:12,680 respond to it. I have tried tying her up before 33 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:16,760 and played around but not like this and I think she will like 34 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:20,760 it and like the change up. I will definitely report back to 35 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:22,280 you and let you know how it went. 36 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:26,640 One thing I wanted to clarify with you is my feelings of 37 00:02:26,640 --> 00:02:30,520 submission. In the podcast you mentioned I 38 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:34,400 wanted to be submissive to men. That's not exactly correct. 39 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:36,720 I've played with men in the past. 40 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,920 You bet. Did I have some fun and really 41 00:02:39,920 --> 00:02:42,840 hot sex and get my ass fucked good? 42 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:48,360 Absolutely, but if I'm choosing I'd rather be submissive to a 43 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:51,040 woman and get my ass fucked with a strap on. 44 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:56,400 For me men were always just the easiest option to be submissive 45 00:02:56,760 --> 00:03:01,120 and scratch that sub itch at the top of the hat. 46 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:05,160 I can go on grinder and find a man and be fucking within 47 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:08,320 minutes, or I can go to the local adult store and fuck 48 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:12,080 around in the booths. The convenience can't be beat 49 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,640 and it's pretty hot knowing that at any moment that it's 50 00:03:15,640 --> 00:03:22,720 available to me every turn. Very tempting, but to be honest 51 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:25,160 it's not something I'm really seeking out anymore. 52 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:28,000 Things change. I went to the adult booths 53 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,920 recently and just wanted nothing to do with anyone. 54 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:34,840 Every once in a while I'll go on Grinder and see if anyone is 55 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:39,080 close because it does turn me on knowing that the option is there 56 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:44,280 and so close, but at this point in my life it's not something 57 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:47,920 really worth pursuing. Don't get me wrong, I still love 58 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:52,200 gay porn and watch and jerk off to gay porn because it's still 59 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:57,320 the best porn. My soft spot is still dominant 60 00:03:57,320 --> 00:04:00,280 women. When I see a mistress clad in 61 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:05,320 leather with a mean look on her face, my knees get weak. 62 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:10,240 Maybe someday I'll have an opportunity to submit to a pro 63 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:13,880 Dom again. Never say never, but I will just 64 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,839 have to be content with porn and some webcam girls. 65 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:19,880 Lately I've been doing the webcam with some Doms. 66 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:23,120 I enjoy the interaction and love taking orders and being told 67 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:26,440 what to do. That's why I enjoy poppers and 68 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:29,520 popper play so much. I can have a Dom give me an 69 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:33,200 orders to take three hits of poppers and hold my breath for 70 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:37,920 15 seconds and I get the thrill of following her commands and 71 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:42,800 the humiliation of it. So enough about me, I always end 72 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:46,560 up rambling. How has your new year gone so 73 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:48,600 far? Are you busy in the dungeon? 74 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:51,360 I hope so. Hopefully we can talk again 75 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:53,720 soon. I really enjoyed it and thanks 76 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:58,600 for taking the time as always to speak and to write to me, Tony. 77 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:08,400 So you know, Tony, I will absolutely apologize because I 78 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:12,120 thought as well that you really wanted to be submissive to men. 79 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:16,920 But now I know it's just the, the female aspect of things and, 80 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:20,520 you know, getting fucked with a strap on, can't say I blame you. 81 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:24,320 It's absolutely one of my favorite things to do. 82 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:28,760 You never have to apologize for going radio silent on me. 83 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:31,720 That's not ever an issue or a thought in my mind. 84 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:36,240 You know when you can write me or you can call me, It's a 85 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:38,200 matter of you having your own time. 86 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:42,520 You have a life. So you know, it was it was a 87 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:45,000 great conversation. I felt like I'm monopolized a 88 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:49,720 little bit too much. But I for the listeners, I gave 89 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:57,640 Tony the advice that his wife wanted to experience her by side 90 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:01,440 be bisexual. And I told him that he really 91 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:09,560 should focus on feeling more like a feminine person when 92 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:12,280 they're in bed together. And I said something like, you 93 00:06:12,280 --> 00:06:16,200 know, tie her up, making it very sensual, making it very erotic. 94 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:20,920 Do sensory play things where she's not going to feel your, 95 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:25,200 your hair, your chest hair or your facial hair or anything 96 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:29,120 like that. It's really just about her 97 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:35,520 feeling a softer side and, you know, feeling as if she is with 98 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:39,960 a female more so than a male. And I know it's difficult. 99 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:43,160 I mean, it's not like an easy to ask like whoo, I can feel manly. 100 00:06:43,840 --> 00:06:46,280 But it's little things that you can do. 101 00:06:46,280 --> 00:06:49,880 It's the sensory play. It's, you know, having her feel 102 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:54,720 very having her feel things very softly and you know, the candle 103 00:06:54,720 --> 00:07:01,640 burning and make it much more sensual and and feminine. 104 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:04,600 I think that's something that she probably wants. 105 00:07:05,280 --> 00:07:08,160 And that was our conversation. We talked a little bit about 106 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:11,280 that and we talked a few other things, but you know, overall 107 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:17,120 was a great conversation. I know you talk about the 108 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:21,600 concept of, you know, being a man, how easy it is to go on 109 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,360 grinder. I've gone on Grinder as a Dom 110 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:28,200 because there's a lot of guys like you who want to see a Dom. 111 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:32,160 They don't really think about the resources in order to get a 112 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:35,600 Dom. And you know, I'll go on there 113 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:37,760 and I'll look at locals and that kind of thing. 114 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:41,280 A lot of men are flakes though. They get really horned up. 115 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:43,440 They start playing with themselves. 116 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:47,400 They go on Grinder and before they come to actually meet you, 117 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:49,080 they've already gotten off. They're done. 118 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:53,880 So it's really a hit or miss because you never know if 119 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:56,480 there's flakes or what have you. You just don't. 120 00:07:56,880 --> 00:08:01,160 Now, here locally, there is a lot of, like, bear men. 121 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:04,960 And, you know, they're fifties, 60s, early 70s even. 122 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:08,520 And they all get together at this guy's apartment. 123 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:12,440 He always posted on Fetlife. And he's like, Oh yeah, you 124 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:16,480 know, here's the gay orgy. And he's even posted pictures. 125 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:20,120 I'm like, fuck yeah, Grandpa, get that Dick. 126 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:24,800 I mean, you know, whatever floats his boat with that. 127 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:27,200 I think it's great. Whatever makes him happy. 128 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:31,160 And you mentioned the whole things with the poppers. 129 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:34,919 When a Dom tells you to do poppers, well, we've had 130 00:08:34,919 --> 00:08:38,840 bisexual guys that have come to do like anal play and that kind 131 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:43,600 of stuff and they bring their poppers and I'll hold the 132 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:47,920 poppers for them, you know, while they had their mask on or 133 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:51,360 why they have their, their hands, you know, in cuffs or 134 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:53,560 whatever. And I'm just like, here it is, 135 00:08:53,560 --> 00:08:59,080 sniff it, sniff it. To me, it's stinks. 136 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:02,640 I don't like the smell of it, but I'm like, you know, in a 137 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:05,800 session, go ahead and do it, you know, just sniff it. 138 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:11,760 It's funny because the reaction and their response is, you know, 139 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:15,560 they relax and it's, you know, they think it's hot and erotic 140 00:09:15,560 --> 00:09:20,080 and they love it. So now I'm there, you know, go 141 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:25,720 ahead and snort it and, you know, get all hot and bothered. 142 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:33,400 Whatever floats your boat. But let's see, there was 143 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:35,200 something else I saw, always saw the poppers. 144 00:09:35,560 --> 00:09:38,760 And then, yeah, an e-mail about the whole concept with Grinder. 145 00:09:39,560 --> 00:09:46,720 I had this kid and he was probably, gosh, he was 24 going 146 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:49,000 on 14. He was just like a little man 147 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:51,120 child. He annoyed the shit out of me 148 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:59,720 and he came to me and told me that when he was growing up, his 149 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:04,640 mother would tie him up in the garage with a collar and leash 150 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:12,280 on and act as if he was a dog. And she would do that for 151 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:18,400 punishment. And I was like, wow, your mother 152 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:25,480 is a medical professional and she would treat her son like a 153 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:31,120 rabid dog or something crazy because she would put a collar 154 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:35,960 and leash on him and put the collar and leash on outside in 155 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:39,400 the garage and tie him up in the garage for punishment. 156 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:47,640 Yeah, I couldn't fathom that. But she also coddled him so much 157 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:53,920 that here he is, you know, 2425 years old, acting like he's a 14 158 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:57,720 year old child. And, you know, he gets fired 159 00:10:57,720 --> 00:11:00,600 from his jobs because he's sexually inappropriate with Co 160 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:04,040 workers or he's made sexual innuendos that are, again, 161 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:08,120 inappropriate. And the kid has just struggled. 162 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:13,240 And when he came over, I think at the second or third time, he 163 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:17,760 brought his girlfriend. And his girlfriend is not 164 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:21,120 dominant. She's very much a switch or even 165 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:25,840 more so submissive. And he was just like, Mr. Smea, 166 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:27,800 I want you to teach her how to be dominant. 167 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:31,400 And I was like, look, if she doesn't want to be dominant, 168 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:37,720 it's not going to happen. And this girl was like, I can't 169 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:40,320 do it. I, I don't have it in me to be 170 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:42,680 like that. You know, I can play a little 171 00:11:42,680 --> 00:11:45,880 bit, but I can't take it to the next level. 172 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:47,640 And that's something that he wanted. 173 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:55,080 So when that relationship failed and it did, it was like 9 months 174 00:11:55,080 --> 00:12:00,160 into it and that was it. When that failed, he was like, 175 00:12:00,560 --> 00:12:08,280 he couldn't find a woman or, you know, a young lady in early 20s 176 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:11,200 to even play with because, you know, they wanted dominant 177 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:14,040 males. They didn't want this kid who, 178 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:16,600 you know, was into puppy play or sysification. 179 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:20,360 They weren't interested in that. And then he couldn't meet anyone 180 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:26,120 in the vanilla world because he would be inappropriate and he 181 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:29,000 would get in trouble. And so he couldn't develop 182 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:34,160 relationships at work in a normal setting because he 183 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:41,680 couldn't behave properly. And then he just had this little 184 00:12:41,680 --> 00:12:45,600 idea that he thought, well, I'm just going to go on grinder and 185 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:48,160 maybe I can just find somebody to play with. 186 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:53,680 Because he tried dating sites didn't work and he didn't want 187 00:12:53,680 --> 00:12:55,920 to do anything vanilla. He wanted to find this female 188 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:59,520 Dom and blah, blah, blah. But he kind of had a personality 189 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:03,360 just kind of off putting. Again, he was very demanding on 190 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:07,520 his girlfriend and, you know, they broke up for that reason. 191 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:13,760 And so then he got on grinder and he messaged me when it first 192 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:15,320 happened. He's like, yeah, you know, I met 193 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:19,480 this this guy in his car in the parking lot and next thing you 194 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:29,040 know, I'm sucking his Dick. And I was like, OK, so you know, 195 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:34,000 no judgement, but it's like I I just, you know, when you don't 196 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:37,520 even say that you're bi or, you know, you really want to explore 197 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:40,560 anything. And you know, to me, there's 198 00:13:40,560 --> 00:13:44,080 some slutty women out there and you can find them, but you got 199 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:48,760 to have game. And, you know, he just did not 200 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:53,320 have any game and he wasn't really offering anything because 201 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:58,400 he wouldn't act like an adult. So last thing I heard, you know, 202 00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:01,000 he got on hormones, now he wants to be a woman. 203 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:10,080 Now he's growing titties. And, you know, it's like, OK, I 204 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:14,200 don't know. It's it's one of those things, 205 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:17,760 you know, so many people probably wouldn't like my 206 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:21,880 opinion on that. But you know, maybe if you don't 207 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:25,040 have game, maybe you just have to switch teams for that reason. 208 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:27,480 I don't know. I haven't been in that position. 209 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:33,680 You know, I've played, you know, with both teams and all three 210 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:37,920 teams, I should say trans, female, male doesn't matter. 211 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:40,800 I mean, people are people, but I think if you have an off putting 212 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:45,000 personality and you can't connect in a normal setting, 213 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:49,880 then you need to take some social cues or, you know, take 214 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:52,240 some classes on social interaction. 215 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:56,040 I mean there are such things, but I don't know. 216 00:14:56,520 --> 00:15:00,640 As long as she, her, they, whatever they're, you know, live 217 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:03,200 their best life. However it may be. 218 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:06,720 It is what it is. Funny story. 219 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:09,920 So you talk about poppers and this is again, I do these 220 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:11,120 things. I don't judge. 221 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:14,080 I really don't give a fuck. People all make their choice and 222 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:18,240 what they do, and that's life, you know, we all make our own 223 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:20,440 choices and the things that we do. 224 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:23,600 So I can't judge anyone for that. 225 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:29,200 You know, I had this people take the free liberty to think that 226 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:34,760 they're so fucking special. And honestly, we're all the same 227 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:36,560 people. It doesn't matter. 228 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:43,080 But this, this asshole decides that he's going to write me 229 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:47,360 because he thinks that I want to hear him come. 230 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:51,480 And he says, oh, your voice is so sexy, Mistress. 231 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:55,880 Man, you know, I love your podcast, but I want to hear you 232 00:15:55,880 --> 00:16:01,160 come and I want to come. And I'm like, yeah, how much you 233 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:06,520 want to pay me to do phone sex? Yeah, I'm not going to be coming 234 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:10,000 on the phone. I'll walk you through it and 235 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:14,760 I'll tell you what a little bitch you are for a week. 236 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:18,840 You know, we can do some fun role play, but don't write me a 237 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:21,800 fucking e-mail and say something effective. 238 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:24,440 I want to come for you, you know? 239 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:27,720 I know you want to hear me come. I'll even send a video or 240 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:33,040 picture. No, no, I'm not this little kink 241 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:36,720 dispenser. It's just, it's so annoying. 242 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:39,520 It really is. And then I had this other guy 243 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:42,080 and he writes me all the fucking time. 244 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:46,040 And he should realize that if I don't respond to his stupid 245 00:16:46,040 --> 00:16:49,400 emails because he's like, hey mistress, were you wearing 246 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:51,640 panties? Hey mistress, do you like 247 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:53,960 pantyhose? Hey, what's your opinion on 248 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:59,920 this? And I'm thinking annoying. 249 00:17:00,840 --> 00:17:02,600 So I've had to block some people. 250 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:06,359 It's just the fact of life. It is what it is. 251 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:13,640 Let's see, you know, Tony asked how my year was going. 252 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:18,520 My year has been weird, and there's been a few issues that 253 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:23,160 have come up. Yeah. 254 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:29,000 You know, you have those people in your life that you've never 255 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:33,520 met that make assumptions on what you do, and then they judge 256 00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:35,760 you for it. And then they put you in social 257 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:44,960 media platforms and yeah, yeah, you know, you try to explain to 258 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:48,240 people if you're a dominatrix, you're not fucking people. 259 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:54,560 No, we're not hookers and people just associate BDSM in the 260 00:17:54,560 --> 00:18:00,160 wrong, the wrong context of of human sexuality. 261 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:09,480 So yeah, I was talking to Layla London on The Curious Girl, and 262 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:12,360 we're actually going to be doing another interview tomorrow. 263 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:16,080 And you know, she is, she's a cool lady. 264 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:23,640 She has a great show. And, you know, we talked in 265 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:27,960 great lengths and we really talked about a lot. 266 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:32,920 And on this this next show, she's going to ask me. 267 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:38,560 I talked to her about being able to read people and know what 268 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:42,080 they like sexually when I see a person when I talk to them. 269 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:46,960 And yeah, I have that, that weird little thing that I can do 270 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:50,480 and just kind of read people just from my own experiences. 271 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:55,480 But sometimes I just want to block that out. 272 00:18:55,560 --> 00:19:01,760 Like, I don't really want to see that with people, you know? 273 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:06,320 But then sometimes I look at celebrities and you look at them 274 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:08,440 and you're thinking, oh, I wonder what he likes in bed. 275 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:11,440 Oh, yeah. You know, it's kind of like, oh, 276 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:14,880 Channing Tatum, he looks like he wants to be put in panties and, 277 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:17,360 you know, for me to sit on his face. 278 00:19:20,120 --> 00:19:23,280 So that kind of thing is kind of fun just to think about. 279 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:26,520 Oh, goodness. Let's see. 280 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:29,440 Oh, when I was thinking about the whole popper thing. 281 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:32,520 So yeah, that kind of brought this up. 282 00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:37,600 It was kind of funny, but years ago when I was doing phone sex, 283 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:47,040 you know, I did it in college after college and and I did it 284 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:49,080 because it was so easy. You know, you log into your 285 00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:52,160 account. Of course, I had a landline. 286 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:55,960 It worked out great. But you log into your account 287 00:19:56,400 --> 00:20:02,520 and it pops up, it pops up what kind of genre you're going to be 288 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:07,040 doing. And so like it would be like 289 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:12,360 college girl cheerleader and then it would be urban. 290 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:17,920 So, you know, you could do like a Jamaican accent or a black 291 00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:22,240 type accent. Then they had country girl. 292 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:24,440 You know, everything was very stereotypical. 293 00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:28,560 Because they wanted those, the stereo role plays. 294 00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:33,600 And then they had trans, you know, so I did all these voices 295 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:37,640 which I can mimic a lot of voices and it's fun to do it. 296 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:41,600 I didn't have an issue with it, but I had this one guy and he 297 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:46,320 would always call me and funny thing, one of their genres was 298 00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:49,680 not a voice. It was being a dominant and it 299 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:52,520 would say BDSM. And I was like, Oh, my favorite. 300 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:59,280 And so this guy would call me and he was a movie producer. 301 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:04,440 And I thought, oh, how cool is this? 302 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:07,160 You know? So he told me who he was and, 303 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:08,920 you know, I looked him up and everything. 304 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:14,720 And then ultimately we talked after and, you know, I gave him 305 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:17,680 my own, my own phone number. And, you know, we talked 306 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:19,840 thereafter and he was, he was really cool. 307 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:21,600 He would send me gifts and that kind of thing. 308 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:27,520 But he was a coke addict. He loved crack cocaine. 309 00:21:28,120 --> 00:21:31,840 And so, you know, he's going to do it regardless. 310 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:35,920 But, you know, he'd call me and he'd want to play with himself. 311 00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:39,560 And you know, a lot of times when people are under the 312 00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:44,240 influence like that, they'll get what we call cold Dick so they 313 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:47,800 don't get a hard on or they, you know, they, they keep trying to 314 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:49,680 play with themselves and nothing happens. 315 00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:56,440 And so when he called me, he didn't have an issue cause a lot 316 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:58,000 of people just don't have an issue. 317 00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:01,600 They don't get the cold Dick. But he'd call me and I would 318 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:06,520 hear him in his car going up to his dealer, getting fucking 319 00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:09,480 drugs, breaking out his crack pipe. 320 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:13,760 And, you know, here Tony's innocent telling me, Oh yeah, 321 00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:17,000 yeah, Loveland, you know, these girls will tell me, oh, use my 322 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:20,000 poppers, you know, So it's like, oh, snort the poppers. 323 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:23,240 Well, this guy was fucking smoking crack, OK? 324 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:27,280 And he would say, Mistress, how many, how many puffs do I need 325 00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:30,040 to get? Oh my God, just do 2 puffs, you 326 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:32,480 know, then I'd hear him, you know, like the fucking lighter 327 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:35,920 and do the pop crack pie. But I was like, this is what my 328 00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:39,360 life has come to. What the fuck am I doing? 329 00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:42,680 No judgement. So don't judge me. 330 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:48,160 You know, people are going to do them regardless. 331 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:51,640 And it's it's a horrible, horrible addiction. 332 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:55,840 Drug addictions, awful alcoholism, horrible. 333 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:59,320 I mean, it's just, it's so sad when addictions take over your 334 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:02,800 life. And ultimately it consumed him. 335 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:06,640 But it's sad because he was a very nice guy. 336 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:11,120 He had all these, you know, great qualities and he's a super 337 00:23:11,120 --> 00:23:12,520 cool guy. He really was. 338 00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:20,840 So we had an interesting week. I'll just jump off that topic. 339 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:27,760 So I see this very passable cross dresser and he comes to 340 00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:32,880 see me once or twice a month and, and he came into the 341 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:36,160 dungeon and we always do like extreme bondage. 342 00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:39,720 And you know, he walks around and, you know, I put him on a 343 00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:42,800 collar and leash and, you know, make him do little things around 344 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:45,440 the dungeon. And it's, it's sweet, it's 345 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:48,200 really cool. He's a super nice guy. 346 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:53,280 And we just talk about different things he's done and I'll 347 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:59,360 usually give him a task to do. So last week I told him to, I 348 00:23:59,360 --> 00:24:02,720 told him to go to Victoria's Secret and get measurement for a 349 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:09,440 bra and be sure to take his, his little gel insert titties with 350 00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:12,520 them so that they could measure his cup. 351 00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:18,000 It was so cute. And he's such a cute guy too. 352 00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:23,760 Such a cute guy. But yeah, we had a great time. 353 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:28,000 We really did. We we talked, we did, we did 354 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:31,440 some rope play and we did a few different things. 355 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:35,520 But yeah, you know, you just got to love the crossdressers. 356 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:39,000 You really do. One of my crossdressers is going 357 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:44,040 to be leaving and moving across country and I don't know when 358 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:46,560 I'll see him. Now he's, you know, pushing 359 00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:49,480 6263. Doesn't look it. 360 00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:52,600 But yeah, I'll miss him while he's gone. 361 00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:01,920 So the other thing I'm going to bring up is I have a cross 362 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:07,560 dresser and I actually posted a video of him on Fetlife last 363 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:12,360 night, and he has a KED shoe fetish. 364 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:22,600 And he brought me a pair of KED's years ago and he started 365 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:26,880 coming to see me when he was like a sophomore in college and 366 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:30,920 just cute, adorable, cute, adorable guy. 367 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:38,000 I, I can't even describe how cute he is, but yeah, so he, I 368 00:25:38,120 --> 00:25:42,000 think the first session that we ever did, you know, he's wearing 369 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:43,080 heads. He wants to dress like a 370 00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:45,760 cheerleader. And I'm like, you're a Sissy. 371 00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:48,080 I think you want a cock in your mouth. 372 00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:53,280 He's like, no, no, no, no, not me, not me. 373 00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:58,680 Well, I was right. And now here it's been, you 374 00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:05,000 know, almost 10 years, and now he wants to have a Sissy party 375 00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:12,720 with Keds as a theme so that he's going to get Keds for all 376 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,520 the attendees. Yeah, you just tell me your shoe 377 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:19,560 size. You tell me your shoe size, and 378 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:24,720 he'll get you a pair of Keds. So it's going to be interesting. 379 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:29,720 He wants to do a few different things and yeah, probably do 380 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:33,920 like lunch and Sissy and stuff like that around the pool and 381 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:37,920 make him walk in his little kids and we'll make him do cute 382 00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,600 little tasks. It'll be really, it'll be quite 383 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,400 fun and that's what he wants to do. 384 00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:49,000 So I'm looking forward to that. But I posted a video of him and 385 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:53,360 I was like, yeah, people comment he wants humiliation, 386 00:26:53,360 --> 00:26:56,720 degradation, tell him he's weak and pathetic. 387 00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:02,800 But in the video he's he's hitting his Dick with one of his 388 00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:07,000 kids. I adore him. 389 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:12,520 He's so fucking cute. And I interviewed him as well a 390 00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:16,360 few months back and he's on the episode of Whitney. 391 00:27:17,120 --> 00:27:20,520 And but, yeah, we talked about different things. 392 00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:26,320 And, yeah, it was interesting, Yeah. 393 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:30,640 But I haven't been too exciting in this episode. 394 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:33,240 I'm kind of losing my voice. I'm getting over a cold. 395 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:36,360 So I don't look my best. I don't feel my best. 396 00:27:36,360 --> 00:27:40,560 So bear with me. But yeah. 397 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:45,920 So aside from that, happy Monday. 398 00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:50,440 And I hope you all have a wonderful, fabulous week. 399 00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:57,960 And yeah, as Tony had asked me how's my, my year going? 400 00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,520 It's been, it's been interesting. 401 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:06,800 I'm having a birthday this month and that should be a lot of fun. 402 00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:11,360 My husband's working on a lovely slave bed for me. 403 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:15,560 It's going to be a convertible bed where you lift the foot 404 00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:20,040 board and he's going to have two compartments, one for him and 405 00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:26,880 one for my Sissy slave. So we'll see how that goes and 406 00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:29,360 I'm really looking forward to it. 407 00:28:29,360 --> 00:28:32,760 He's going to have it padded on the inside and they'll they'll 408 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,520 be a like foam mattress and both of them. 409 00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:38,240 So they'll both be very comfortable and they'll be 410 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:42,640 proper ventilation. And then that way they can sleep 411 00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:47,320 in there and I can do whatever I want on top of the bed. 412 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:54,640 So when that's finally finished, I will be posting pictures of 413 00:28:54,640 --> 00:29:00,360 that and might even do a little video to show you how fucking 414 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:03,840 cool it's going to be. So I'm looking forward to it. 415 00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:08,360 But until then, I appreciate all of you. 416 00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:13,560 You know, I'm always happy to take a valid e-mail with valid 417 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:18,000 questions. Not about your orgasms, not that 418 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,640 I really want to hear you come. That's not my goal. 419 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:27,200 You know, if you're cute and young and you're local, I might 420 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,120 play with you in the dungeon for some fun. 421 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:33,720 That's always good. But if you're going to be gross 422 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:37,480 and appropriate, you have to question yourself. 423 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:41,320 Is this why I'm single? Or is this why my wife will not 424 00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:44,600 play with me because I act like a cock sucker? 425 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:48,520 Yeah. So men respect women. 426 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:54,160 Just be respectful. You know, women are not Bros. 427 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:58,560 You know, they can be hoes, but they're not fucking Bros. 428 00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:01,240 They're not. They're for your entertainment. 429 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:07,960 Maybe submissive women are, but myself being a dominant female, 430 00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:13,480 being a dominatrix, yeah, my, my little goal in life is not to 431 00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:18,600 hear all these men have orgasms, whether it's via phone or see a 432 00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:25,160 picture or even a fucking video. Just not my, my thing, you know? 433 00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:30,880 But but yeah, if you have some interesting ideas on what you 434 00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:34,920 want to talk about or if you want me to reach out to someone 435 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:37,120 to interview, I'm always happy to do that. 436 00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:41,400 One of my friends reached out a couple months back and he's 437 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:46,920 like, why don't you interview, you know, the woman who fucked 438 00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:51,280 what is 1000 men? Bonnie Blue, I think her name of 439 00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:54,080 it is. But I reached out to her and at 440 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:57,280 that time it was like the same day she ended up getting 441 00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:59,240 arrested. So I haven't looked that up. 442 00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:00,880 I haven't seen the outcome on that. 443 00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:07,840 So yeah, the crazy things we do, but I'm looking forward talking 444 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:12,160 to Layla tomorrow and outside of that, that's it. 445 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:20,800 Easy peasy. So if yeah, we'll see how your 446 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,440 year goes. And I wish all of you the best. 447 00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:28,320 And until then, this has been the latest episode of Call Me 448 00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:29,080 Mistress.