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Hi, welcome to the latest 
episode. 

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Call me Mistress. 
I'm your Hostess. 

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Mistress Miaz, I have a special 
guest. 

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He's here with us. 
Let's call him Bouncy Ball Man. 

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Thank. 
You for having me on? 

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You are so welcome. 
So we have known you for a few 

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years now. 
We met on Fat Life and you are 

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kind of like borderline 
rubberist slash bouncy balls 

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slash a little latex and it's a 
really fun kink. 

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So when you came in to their 
last session it was hot as fuck 

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outside. 
Now you bring these bouncy balls

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and one has like a built in 
pocket pussy. 

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OK, so I don't have it was 
actually AB12 all the one that 

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had OK. 
Say it. 

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So a lot, a lot of them I get 
there's like a special site that

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sells specific inflatable toys 
for adults. 

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Yeah, what is that site? 
It's called Soshu and Amsterdam.

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We just have to like dig through
the Internet to like find stuff 

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like that. 
And I know I was like, no, I 

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brought one up to you that is 
like a Valentine wall that has 

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like a dodo on it. 
And I was telling you about it, 

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but I didn't get it because it's
like over $100. 

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I'm saying I can just buy a dodo
for like 20 bucks, like 9. 

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That's just like $10. 
Like stick it on top pop of a 

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yoga ball and use that. 
And but for me, it actually came

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from a really more wholesome 
place. 

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It actually started like 
probably wait before anyone even

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knows what sex even is probably 
Like for me, it started like I 

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was in preschool school, like I 
was like watching TV. 

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This was like probably 2000, 
2001 and and I was like watching

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like some preschool show and I 
saw like this like TV show. 

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I was in synologic. 
She was like way older, like in 

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her 20s. 
She was like super energetic, 

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like all this stuff and like, 
and she was bouncing on this 

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fancy ball and it was like I was
like soup enamored by it's like,

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I've never seen this kind of toy
before. 

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Wettest. 
This is like super cool. 

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I will I want wine 1. 
And I thought it was just that 

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like a couple of years later, I 
ended up like convincing my mom 

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to get me one on my rest in 
peace. 

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And at first it was just, hey, 
hey, I, I love it. 

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It was my favorite toy, one of 
my favorite toys growing up. 

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But up. 
And then I accidentally 

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discovered that the rubber that 
these balls are made out of, 

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they feel kind of good when you 
rub them against shoes again. 

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Your Dick. 
Now at first I thought at first 

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like as a kid, you you're 
thinking, ohh, it's obviously 

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not textual to you. 
It's just like thinking this 

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just feels good. 
It just feels not nice. 

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But then as I got older and 
under puberty, I realized like 

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this feels it was a lot less of 
just feeling good and more like 

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feeling good. 
Yeah. 

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You. 
Had a sexual awareness towards 

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it. 
Now the one I had as a kid, I 

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ended up because I was like 
getting too small for me because

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I was finally eating that gross.
But but then it was around this 

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time when I discovered what 
masturbation was and what porn 

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was. 
And well, I didn't learn about 

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traditional porn. 
I did discover that this wasn't 

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my niche to be. 
I really wouldn't even call porn

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or barely even softcore porn of 
just women like you were doing 

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in a bikini outsider. 
I just like cleaning with 

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cleaning like you with bouncy 
ball or maybe just a beach ball 

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or balloon or whatever. 
And it wasn't again until I was 

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an adult when I when I was able 
to like an adult size wine and 

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then. 
Like, Oh my God, yeah, wake this

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bad boy back up. 
Yeah. 

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Well, I think a lot of 
rubberists feel that way too, 

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whether it's a bouncy ball or 
latex clothing or even a latex 

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back bed. 
I mean multiple people. 

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They consider themselves 
rubberists because they like to 

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rub their penis on rubber and 
latex. 

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For me, I guess the reason it 
felt good for me is because it's

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like the rubber, it really kind 
of felt in a weird way, felt 

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kind of like human skin. 
And it felt like super smooth. 

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Yeah. 
It's like, if you're like 

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rubbing it against it, it's kind
of like a dry young thing. 

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Gotcha. 
Now have you ever used the Sheen

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spray where you know, brightens 
the rubber and it softens it a 

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little bit? 
Have you tried that before? 

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I actually haven't. 
In fact, I never even heard of 

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that. 
Yeah, I'll send you a link so 

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you can see it because we put it
on our like our vac bed and our 

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rubber stuff and it just 
brightens it up and it 

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conditions it as well. 
Really works great. 

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People like it. 
So you were doing the session 

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with outside and here I was 
sitting in PVC pants. 

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I was out as fuck and I'm 
watching this and I was like, 

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I'm at one end of the pool, you 
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pool. 
And then at one point, hey, can 

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we use this float? 
And I thought, oh, they're just 

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going to get on the float, you 
know, get in the pool, whatever.

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Next thing I know I'm like 
bouncy ball boy is fucking that 

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float. 
You're like, whatever we did. 

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That was honestly the first time
I ever done that. 

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That was awesome. 
I was like, we're done this 

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before but hey, first time for 
everything so. 

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So you want to hear something 
really funny? 

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So my British friend comes over 
and she's out back and I said, 

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hey, I saved your float. 
I said I had this rubberized 

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over the other day. 
She says, Oh my God, did he fuck

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my float? 
No, he fucked my float. 

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He raped that float, that rope 
didn't. 

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That float didn't ask for it. 
He raped. 

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So it was great. 
So anyway, so you you started 

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off as a kid, you were doing 
this and then it just kind of 

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evolved and here you're an 
adult. 

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You found this site and now you 
still go to the rubber bouncy 

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balls and now they have an adult
sizes. 

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And when we saw him the first 
time, we're like, holy shit. 

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It really was. 
Because I remember as a kid, you

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know, it was like the old 
fashioned rubber balls and it 

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had the handle, you know, I was 
like, oh, this is cool, you 

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know? 
But now for adults? 

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Fuck. 
I mean, like I still you do you 

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use it for fun? 
Like like, hey, I I use it like 

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as a chair when I'm gaming 
thing. 

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Like one time I was like hanging
out with a friend and we were at

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a park or something and we were 
we just like raising each other 

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on on them and it was like not 
sexual at all at all. 

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It was just us playing on them. 
I'm just having fun. 

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Here. 
We are you and bikini and me 

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like just with a shirt on on 
with my Dick out out on them. 

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So like it can be like versatile
for. 

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For me, it's kind of like when 
we use back massagers for an 

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actual back massager and not 
putting it on our pussy. 

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I never think that's a ball 
time. 

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All right, so, so tell us what's
what else is on the site. 

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You got to post the site too by 
the way. 

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You guys send it to me. 
There are plenty things there 

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are. 
Their main thing are like beach 

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balls with also basically like 
flashlights inside them. 

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They call them like 
strategically place holes or H 

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SPHS. 
They have like ride rolls, which

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are just kind of like 
inflatable, like tube tubes. 

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And then I could have like a 
bunch of like random stuff that 

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that personally I'm not 
interested in. 

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But hey, to each their own. 
Yeah, most of the stuff that I 

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owe my bounty balls, most of 
them just come. 

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Off Amazon like. 
I can get like 20-30 bucks a 

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beat. 
Same here. 

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Same here. 
Wow. 

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OK, Yeah, it is 100%. 
So this is something we've 

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talked about before. 
We've talked about going from 

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talk to other people in the kink
lifestyle. 

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It's so hard to date when you 
have a kink fetish. 

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So this is where you're at in 
your life where you're you're 

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almost 30 and you want to date. 
Is this going to be something 

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right off the RIP? 
You're going to say, hey, by the

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way, I'm going to bouncy balls. 
That's something I want to talk 

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about because it was like curse 
from someone who is mostly in 

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the vanilla world and like 
rarely goes in a kink world. 

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I mostly just use that life as 
like kinky Facebook and I just 

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sometimes scroll on it. 
Personally I think like kink is 

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more just become like mainstream
and people think they're just 

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too afraid to say yeah have 
y'all seen book talk? 

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Most of the books people are 
reading nowadays are just porn. 

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Yeah, they're kink. 
Yeah, for sure. 

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Yeah, it's kind of like cross 
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People don't realize how many 
men are really into cross 

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dressing. 
BDSM and just kink in general 

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has to become like, wait, like 
more mean chain. 

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And so I think like if I was to 
ever like if we ever sat me and 

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a partner ever sat down, like we
talked about like, oh, what 

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we're into be like sexually, it 
would be like a lot less 

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uncomfortable than it would say 
like 20-30 years ago. 

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So what else is something that 
you'd like to talk about with 

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your boss fetish? 
Yeah, and. 

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I think I don't know, I kind of 
want like you're, you know, like

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because you were the main person
and when we were doing our 

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session is like soft on. 
I know we were talking about it 

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when we first met because I know
like for a lot of people, like 

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when they think of I think like 
a dominate tricks, they think of

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leather whips. 
That's I'm going to beat the 

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shit out of you if you forget to
call. 

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But like some people, people 
like that too much to handle. 

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And for me personally, that that
was too much. 

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And like, I'll be honest, like 
when I first met you and you 

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like when you first came in, 
like with your full gear and I 

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was thinking like, could I 
really bring this up to someone 

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like her? 
When we first met, there was 

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like, oh, there, and could I 
really bring this up? 

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You like when I saw your 
pictures I was thinking okay she

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looks like stereotypical Dom. 
She would literally. 

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Beat the shit out of you. 
Yeah, if I, and then I kind of 

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like explain like what a soft 
Dom was kind of like kind of the

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same thing, but more of like 
like nurturing kind of more like

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a big sister kind of vibes. 
Not incestuously, of course, you

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know. 
And for people who are new to 

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king, people who can't for like 
trauma survivors or people who 

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dealt with sexual assault or, or
on autism spectrum, which I 

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checked several of those boxes 
for better or for worse. 

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I guess the best way to sum it 
up is like, instead of the dawn 

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to subscribe is like, oh, 
instead of like do what I say or

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else I'm going to whip you. 
It's more like, oh, do this for 

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me. 
Come on. 

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I know he got this. 
Oh, so yes, I remember you like 

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you when you, I'm not trying to 
interrupt you, but you remember 

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when you came in, you wrote down
a list and that was really 

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helpful for us. 
You wrote it on your phone. 

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You wrote just to let the 
audience know. 

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You wrote us this long list of, 
hey, you want us to be 

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encouraging, You want words of 
encouragement, and was that 

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something that we accommodated 
you with? 

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OK. 
That was kind of like it because

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like it's like that was like my 
very first session with a 

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dominatrix ever again, just like
look from your photos. 

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I was like super nervous, like 
could someone like this well as 

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hurt me? 
Because like, like I said, this 

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kind of dominant nearing is all 
thing is a lot for people who 

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have been through like trauma 
and like more or sexual assault.

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And like I have said, I have 
like I just said, I kind of 

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checked a lot of those boxes. 
I sadly have dealt with sexual 

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assault in my past and one of 
the things I'm learning is to 

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like build trust. 
In fact, I'm going to be blunt 

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and say like even during our 
session, even though you made me

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feel like super safe and seeing 
I was afraid, afraid, Oh well, 

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this will she hurt me. 
But that's more of a me thing 

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than a well. 
I wouldn't say punishments. 

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I would say like humiliation, 
like with soft arms. 

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It's more like like teasing kind
of stuff like that. 

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It was fun. 
And it's also about like making 

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sure like the Dom is and it's OK
as well. 

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Well, not just to like I wanted 
to check in on you and make sure

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that you were OK, so. 
Where do you see yourself in the

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next 6 months? 
What would you like to do? 

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I think what I would like to do 
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like before we started 
recording, we were talking about

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me getting a relationship and 
just about self worth. 

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It's something that seems like 
I'm really just lacking on like 

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we talked about. 
It's just like, hey, being in 

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your late 20s, you, you thought 
that by now you would be in a 

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relationship. 
And like not even just in a BDSM

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relationship, just relationship 
in general when like many of 

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your friends are married or in 
long lasting relationships. 

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And by now you thought you would
be there too. 

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And well, the only thing you 
have is an actually actually 

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dumped you over tax and probably
he's forgotten about you. 

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So I say like one of the things 
I would want to work on like the

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next six months, main thing is 
trying to build up that 

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confidence and say, Hey, I want 
to do you want to get in a 

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relationship? 
But in order to do that, I would

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need to like, like build up my 
comments because like I now know

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what I want and what would make 
me happy. 

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And now I just need to make 
myself more appealing. 

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I wouldn't say it that way. 
I would say more like don't got 

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a better word. 
And you know, with each woman 

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that you meet and you go out, 
just have coffee. 

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Don't put a lot of pressure on 
yourself. 

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But you know, you know, when you
meet that person, if it doesn't 

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click, it doesn't click and you 
move on to the next one. 

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And then after you've gone 
through several, you can say, 

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Hey, I found the right person. 
And I'm so glad it didn't work 

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out with all the other bitches 
from the past. 

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You know, you were talking about
that one girl. 

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You're like, oh, she's 
passionate. 

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You know, she, she goes on 
social media every day. 

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Honestly, you don't want a woman
who goes on social media every 

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day and you don't. 
And you don't want a woman who 

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takes a ton of fucking pictures 
of herself in selfies. 

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And here's a picture of my 
coffee. 

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Oh my God, you know you don't 
want it because those are called

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cunts. 
That's why people do come to see

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us. 
Because there's something about 

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doing a session where, you know,
we want you to have self 

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reflection. 
We want you to document your 

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progress and you know, that's 
something that you that you 

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should go and think about, you 
know, each day, you know, if you

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need to journal, treat yourself 
for something like that. 

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And ultimately you're going to 
get some headway. 

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You're going to build 
confidence. 

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And you know, I know it is 
stereo. 

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It's so stereotypical. 
When people reach out to me, 

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they're like, oh, you're 
dominatrix, are you going to 

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beat me? 
No, fucker, I don't want to beat

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all of them. 
I only want to beat the ones who

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really want to get beaten up. 
You know, it's kind of like when

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different people come in and 
say, you're not going to film 

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me, are you? 
And I'm like, no, And that's how

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real Doms should be. 
You know, there's so many Doms 

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that are wannabe Doms, mainly 
men Doms. 

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It is when when they get in the 
lifestyle, they're like, oh, I'm

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22, I'm a Dom. 
It's like, bitch, they could be 

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a hole in the ground. 
They wouldn't know the 

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difference. 
But the point of it is being a 

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Dom, you are guiding someone, 
you're mentoring them, you're 

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helping them. 
That's what we do. 

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We want you to see your full 
potential. 

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We want you to be the best 
person you can be to help you in

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your life. 
Because if you're built up here,

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well, you're going to find 
somebody in a partner built up 

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to that point. 
You don't need some broke 

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asshole with no job and no car. 
You need someone that matches 

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your full potential. 
Don't sell yourself short. 

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Every day, three positive 
affirmations of your yourself in

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the mirror. 
I'm the fucking shit. 

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Because it's one thing that 
you've done today that you know 

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you've done, you've accomplished
anyway. 

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You just need to value yourself 
and you need to see your 

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yourself worth. 
That's my point in all of this. 

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OK, now today you're going to do
a session. 

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And did you bring your bouncy 
balls? 

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During the dungeon. 
See. 

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Boom. 
And there's some clear floor 

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space there as well, if you 
didn't want to go outside. 

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Yeah. 
Because I know it's probably 

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cold outside. 
You came in from outside. 

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Was it chilly? 
OK, well, I can turn on the 

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outside lights if you want to go
outside too. 

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You do whatever makes you happy,
OK? 

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There's no more pool floats to 
fuck. 

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Just say I'm just tease. 
I just tease. 

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I put them away for the party. 
All right, so you can find Mr. 

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Bouncy Ball on Fat Life as 
what's your your full name on 

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there? 
Bouncy ball Batty. 

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Bouncy ball Batty and like I 
said, you're under 30, you're 

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single, you're straight, and 
you're looking for a cute little

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white girl. 
So you never know, your white 

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girl might be out there. 
Wow. 

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OK, anyway, we that there could 
be a funny spin off to the and 

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find your matching ball with 
matching bouncy ball bitch. 

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You need to find your matching 
bouncy ball bitch. 

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Fuck yeah. 
You know, you should start a 

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Groupon fat and call it like 
mobile rubberist bouncy ball 

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fetishes or enthusiasts. 
All right, so you're going to 

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send me the link to the 
Amsterdam fetish and I'm going 

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to order the bouncy ball website
and I'm going to send you the 

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link to the Sheen shine stuff 
for your balls. 

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All right, So thank you for 
joining us. 

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It's been fun, it's been 
special, it's been unique. 

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Thank you so much for having me.
Always, always. 

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Yeah, a little squishy, too, 
like a bouncy ball. 

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Yeah. 
So until then, this has been the

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latest episode of Call Me 
Mistress.