Hi, welcome to the latest episode.
Call me Mistress. I'm your Hostess.
Mistress Miaz, I have a special guest.
He's here with us. Let's call him Bouncy Ball Man.
Thank. You for having me on?
You are so welcome. So we have known you for a few
years now. We met on Fat Life and you are
kind of like borderline rubberist slash bouncy balls
slash a little latex and it's a really fun kink.
So when you came in to their last session it was hot as fuck
outside. Now you bring these bouncy balls
and one has like a built in pocket pussy.
OK, so I don't have it was actually AB12 all the one that
had OK. Say it.
So a lot, a lot of them I get there's like a special site that
sells specific inflatable toys for adults.
Yeah, what is that site? It's called Soshu and Amsterdam.
We just have to like dig through the Internet to like find stuff
like that. And I know I was like, no, I
brought one up to you that is like a Valentine wall that has
like a dodo on it. And I was telling you about it,
but I didn't get it because it's like over $100.
I'm saying I can just buy a dodo for like 20 bucks, like 9.
That's just like $10. Like stick it on top pop of a
yoga ball and use that. And but for me, it actually came
from a really more wholesome place.
It actually started like probably wait before anyone even
knows what sex even is probably Like for me, it started like I
was in preschool school, like I was like watching TV.
This was like probably 2000, 2001 and and I was like watching
like some preschool show and I saw like this like TV show.
I was in synologic. She was like way older, like in
her 20s. She was like super energetic,
like all this stuff and like, and she was bouncing on this
fancy ball and it was like I was like soup enamored by it's like,
I've never seen this kind of toy before.
Wettest. This is like super cool.
I will I want wine 1. And I thought it was just that
like a couple of years later, I ended up like convincing my mom
to get me one on my rest in peace.
And at first it was just, hey, hey, I, I love it.
It was my favorite toy, one of my favorite toys growing up.
But up. And then I accidentally
discovered that the rubber that these balls are made out of,
they feel kind of good when you rub them against shoes again.
Your Dick. Now at first I thought at first
like as a kid, you you're thinking, ohh, it's obviously
not textual to you. It's just like thinking this
just feels good. It just feels not nice.
But then as I got older and under puberty, I realized like
this feels it was a lot less of just feeling good and more like
feeling good. Yeah.
You. Had a sexual awareness towards
it. Now the one I had as a kid, I
ended up because I was like getting too small for me because
I was finally eating that gross. But but then it was around this
time when I discovered what masturbation was and what porn
was. And well, I didn't learn about
traditional porn. I did discover that this wasn't
my niche to be. I really wouldn't even call porn
or barely even softcore porn of just women like you were doing
in a bikini outsider. I just like cleaning with
cleaning like you with bouncy ball or maybe just a beach ball
or balloon or whatever. And it wasn't again until I was
an adult when I when I was able to like an adult size wine and
then. Like, Oh my God, yeah, wake this
bad boy back up. Yeah.
Well, I think a lot of rubberists feel that way too,
whether it's a bouncy ball or latex clothing or even a latex
back bed. I mean multiple people.
They consider themselves rubberists because they like to
rub their penis on rubber and latex.
For me, I guess the reason it felt good for me is because it's
like the rubber, it really kind of felt in a weird way, felt
kind of like human skin. And it felt like super smooth.
Yeah. It's like, if you're like
rubbing it against it, it's kind of like a dry young thing.
Gotcha. Now have you ever used the Sheen
spray where you know, brightens the rubber and it softens it a
little bit? Have you tried that before?
I actually haven't. In fact, I never even heard of
that. Yeah, I'll send you a link so
you can see it because we put it on our like our vac bed and our
rubber stuff and it just brightens it up and it
conditions it as well. Really works great.
People like it. So you were doing the session
with outside and here I was sitting in PVC pants.
I was out as fuck and I'm watching this and I was like,
I'm at one end of the pool, you are at the other end of the
pool. And then at one point, hey, can
we use this float? And I thought, oh, they're just
going to get on the float, you know, get in the pool, whatever.
Next thing I know I'm like bouncy ball boy is fucking that
float. You're like, whatever we did.
That was honestly the first time I ever done that.
That was awesome. I was like, we're done this
before but hey, first time for everything so.
So you want to hear something really funny?
So my British friend comes over and she's out back and I said,
hey, I saved your float. I said I had this rubberized
over the other day. She says, Oh my God, did he fuck
my float? No, he fucked my float.
He raped that float, that rope didn't.
That float didn't ask for it. He raped.
So it was great. So anyway, so you you started
off as a kid, you were doing this and then it just kind of
evolved and here you're an adult.
You found this site and now you still go to the rubber bouncy
balls and now they have an adult sizes.
And when we saw him the first time, we're like, holy shit.
It really was. Because I remember as a kid, you
know, it was like the old fashioned rubber balls and it
had the handle, you know, I was like, oh, this is cool, you
know? But now for adults?
Fuck. I mean, like I still you do you
use it for fun? Like like, hey, I I use it like
as a chair when I'm gaming thing.
Like one time I was like hanging out with a friend and we were at
a park or something and we were we just like raising each other
on on them and it was like not sexual at all at all.
It was just us playing on them. I'm just having fun.
Here. We are you and bikini and me
like just with a shirt on on with my Dick out out on them.
So like it can be like versatile for.
For me, it's kind of like when we use back massagers for an
actual back massager and not putting it on our pussy.
I never think that's a ball time.
All right, so, so tell us what's what else is on the site.
You got to post the site too by the way.
You guys send it to me. There are plenty things there
are. Their main thing are like beach
balls with also basically like flashlights inside them.
They call them like strategically place holes or H
SPHS. They have like ride rolls, which
are just kind of like inflatable, like tube tubes.
And then I could have like a bunch of like random stuff that
that personally I'm not interested in.
But hey, to each their own. Yeah, most of the stuff that I
owe my bounty balls, most of them just come.
Off Amazon like. I can get like 20-30 bucks a
beat. Same here.
Wow.
OK, Yeah, it is 100%. So this is something we've
talked about before. We've talked about going from
talk to other people in the kink lifestyle.
It's so hard to date when you have a kink fetish.
So this is where you're at in your life where you're you're
almost 30 and you want to date. Is this going to be something
right off the RIP? You're going to say, hey, by the
way, I'm going to bouncy balls. That's something I want to talk
about because it was like curse from someone who is mostly in
the vanilla world and like rarely goes in a kink world.
I mostly just use that life as like kinky Facebook and I just
sometimes scroll on it. Personally I think like kink is
more just become like mainstream and people think they're just
too afraid to say yeah have y'all seen book talk?
Most of the books people are reading nowadays are just porn.
Yeah, they're kink. Yeah, for sure.
Yeah, it's kind of like cross dressed.
People don't realize how many men are really into cross
dressing. BDSM and just kink in general
has to become like, wait, like more mean chain.
And so I think like if I was to ever like if we ever sat me and
a partner ever sat down, like we talked about like, oh, what
we're into be like sexually, it would be like a lot less
uncomfortable than it would say like 20-30 years ago.
So what else is something that you'd like to talk about with
your boss fetish? Yeah, and.
I think I don't know, I kind of want like you're, you know, like
because you were the main person and when we were doing our
session is like soft on. I know we were talking about it
when we first met because I know like for a lot of people, like
when they think of I think like a dominate tricks, they think of
leather whips. That's I'm going to beat the
shit out of you if you forget to call.
But like some people, people like that too much to handle.
And for me personally, that that was too much.
And like, I'll be honest, like when I first met you and you
like when you first came in, like with your full gear and I
was thinking like, could I really bring this up to someone
like her? When we first met, there was
like, oh, there, and could I really bring this up?
You like when I saw your pictures I was thinking okay she
looks like stereotypical Dom. She would literally.
Beat the shit out of you. Yeah, if I, and then I kind of
like explain like what a soft Dom was kind of like kind of the
same thing, but more of like like nurturing kind of more like
a big sister kind of vibes. Not incestuously, of course, you
know. And for people who are new to
king, people who can't for like trauma survivors or people who
dealt with sexual assault or, or on autism spectrum, which I
checked several of those boxes for better or for worse.
I guess the best way to sum it up is like, instead of the dawn
to subscribe is like, oh, instead of like do what I say or
else I'm going to whip you. It's more like, oh, do this for
me. Come on.
I know he got this. Oh, so yes, I remember you like
you when you, I'm not trying to interrupt you, but you remember
when you came in, you wrote down a list and that was really
helpful for us. You wrote it on your phone.
You wrote just to let the audience know.
You wrote us this long list of, hey, you want us to be
encouraging, You want words of encouragement, and was that
something that we accommodated you with?
OK. That was kind of like it because
like it's like that was like my very first session with a
dominatrix ever again, just like look from your photos.
I was like super nervous, like could someone like this well as
hurt me? Because like, like I said, this
kind of dominant nearing is all thing is a lot for people who
have been through like trauma and like more or sexual assault.
And like I have said, I have like I just said, I kind of
checked a lot of those boxes. I sadly have dealt with sexual
assault in my past and one of the things I'm learning is to
like build trust. In fact, I'm going to be blunt
and say like even during our session, even though you made me
feel like super safe and seeing I was afraid, afraid, Oh well,
this will she hurt me. But that's more of a me thing
than a well. I wouldn't say punishments.
I would say like humiliation, like with soft arms.
It's more like like teasing kind of stuff like that.
It was fun. And it's also about like making
sure like the Dom is and it's OK as well.
Well, not just to like I wanted to check in on you and make sure
that you were OK, so. Where do you see yourself in the
next 6 months? What would you like to do?
I think what I would like to do really in the next 6 months is
like before we started recording, we were talking about
me getting a relationship and just about self worth.
It's something that seems like I'm really just lacking on like
we talked about. It's just like, hey, being in
your late 20s, you, you thought that by now you would be in a
relationship. And like not even just in a BDSM
relationship, just relationship in general when like many of
your friends are married or in long lasting relationships.
And by now you thought you would be there too.
And well, the only thing you have is an actually actually
dumped you over tax and probably he's forgotten about you.
So I say like one of the things I would want to work on like the
next six months, main thing is trying to build up that
confidence and say, Hey, I want to do you want to get in a
relationship? But in order to do that, I would
need to like, like build up my comments because like I now know
what I want and what would make me happy.
And now I just need to make myself more appealing.
I wouldn't say it that way. I would say more like don't got
a better word. And you know, with each woman
that you meet and you go out, just have coffee.
Don't put a lot of pressure on yourself.
But you know, you know, when you meet that person, if it doesn't
click, it doesn't click and you move on to the next one.
And then after you've gone through several, you can say,
Hey, I found the right person. And I'm so glad it didn't work
out with all the other bitches from the past.
You know, you were talking about that one girl.
You're like, oh, she's passionate.
You know, she, she goes on social media every day.
Honestly, you don't want a woman who goes on social media every
day and you don't. And you don't want a woman who
takes a ton of fucking pictures of herself in selfies.
And here's a picture of my coffee.
Oh my God, you know you don't want it because those are called
cunts. That's why people do come to see
us. Because there's something about
doing a session where, you know, we want you to have self
reflection. We want you to document your
progress and you know, that's something that you that you
should go and think about, you know, each day, you know, if you
need to journal, treat yourself for something like that.
And ultimately you're going to get some headway.
You're going to build confidence.
And you know, I know it is stereo.
It's so stereotypical. When people reach out to me,
they're like, oh, you're dominatrix, are you going to
beat me? No, fucker, I don't want to beat
all of them. I only want to beat the ones who
really want to get beaten up. You know, it's kind of like when
different people come in and say, you're not going to film
me, are you? And I'm like, no, And that's how
real Doms should be. You know, there's so many Doms
that are wannabe Doms, mainly men Doms.
It is when when they get in the lifestyle, they're like, oh, I'm
22, I'm a Dom. It's like, bitch, they could be
a hole in the ground. They wouldn't know the
difference. But the point of it is being a
Dom, you are guiding someone, you're mentoring them, you're
helping them. That's what we do.
We want you to see your full potential.
We want you to be the best person you can be to help you in
your life. Because if you're built up here,
well, you're going to find somebody in a partner built up
to that point. You don't need some broke
asshole with no job and no car. You need someone that matches
your full potential. Don't sell yourself short.
Every day, three positive affirmations of your yourself in
the mirror. I'm the fucking shit.
Because it's one thing that you've done today that you know
you've done, you've accomplished anyway.
You just need to value yourself and you need to see your
yourself worth. That's my point in all of this.
OK, now today you're going to do a session.
And did you bring your bouncy balls?
During the dungeon. See.
Boom. And there's some clear floor
space there as well, if you didn't want to go outside.
Yeah. Because I know it's probably
cold outside. You came in from outside.
Was it chilly? OK, well, I can turn on the
outside lights if you want to go outside too.
You do whatever makes you happy, OK?
There's no more pool floats to fuck.
Just say I'm just tease. I just tease.
I put them away for the party. All right, so you can find Mr.
Bouncy Ball on Fat Life as what's your your full name on
there? Bouncy ball Batty.
Bouncy ball Batty and like I said, you're under 30, you're
single, you're straight, and you're looking for a cute little
white girl. So you never know, your white
girl might be out there. Wow.
OK, anyway, we that there could be a funny spin off to the and
find your matching ball with matching bouncy ball bitch.
You need to find your matching bouncy ball bitch.
Fuck yeah. You know, you should start a
Groupon fat and call it like mobile rubberist bouncy ball
fetishes or enthusiasts. All right, so you're going to
send me the link to the Amsterdam fetish and I'm going
to order the bouncy ball website and I'm going to send you the
link to the Sheen shine stuff for your balls.
All right, So thank you for joining us.
It's been fun, it's been special, it's been unique.
Thank you so much for having me. Always, always.
Yeah, a little squishy, too, like a bouncy ball.
Yeah. So until then, this has been the
latest episode of Call Me Mistress.