Hi, welcome to the latest episode from Mrs. Mia's Dungeon.
I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, and today I have a special guest
from you. This is Tishy and Tishy Tell us
about yourself. For one, I'm 46 year old, 46
years old biologically, my little age ranges from anywhere
from one to four, 5:00-ish depending on the day when I can
get into the into my headspace and stuff like that.
Basically up in Northeast Ohio area and been in the lifestyle
for probably close to close to 20 years now.
OK. And as far as into the the age
play side of things. So do you consider yourself just
an into age play itself or into ABDL?
To me it's it's all the same, the ABDL part of it.
I'm actually more AB as far as the adult baby side of it.
There is some aspects of the DL side that that I find fit me as
well. But as far as anything, I live
the lifestyle when I can. You know, we're all adults in
in, in the kink world, you know, and I try to represent that.
At least we try to be. Yes, we try to be that.
That is true. Yeah, so you have a a dungeon
where you're at and you said they specifically have a littles
room that caters to you. Yes, back the the play space
that I, that I, that I play at a lot when they when they were
first opening, they actually reached out to my littles group
here that I belong to and actually asked for input from
the littles community to actually help set up the room to
make it more comfortable for the actual littles in the community
and stuff like that. They pride their self on being a
safe space for everybody in the kink community.
So we have a local group here as well.
And, you know, he was saying that, you know, a lot of my my
parties that we host, you know, they're very sex positive.
And he said that a lot of the adult babies, they, they don't
find them very appealing simply because they're more asexual.
Do you find that to be true? Yes, and actually that is
actually a big debate. It's actually in the ABDL
community whether you know it's a sexual thing or not sexual
thing. This the the dungeon that I
belong to is a sex positive space as well.
So yes, you know, on any given night, you know, maybe 123
littles last night, we actually only had one little running
around in the dungeon last night.
I personally don't usually with during the play parties I'm a
lot more than just a little. So I'm usually not in little
space when I'm at the dungeon, but it's nice to know that if I
do fall into that space, like coming out of subspace or
something like that, I there's been tendencies for me to fall
into little space. From there, I have that option
to have go into a room that's dedicated to where I can nurture
that side of myself. You know, to me it seems so
cathartic for so many people. I had a a young man, he comes to
see me often and he is just a little doll.
He's so precious, so sweet. You know, he's a 24 year old
little virgin and you know, there's certain aspects where
I've asked him, you know, and he's we're we're actually going
to bring that up to a different episode as well about his
feelings and thoughts on adult baby.
But what kind of LED you down that path?
At what age were you trying to identify with an age play role?
It's crazy getting involved in in the saying.
I personally it was due to medical issues with me.
I was in a go Kart accent when I was 1414 and 15 ish.
So for me at that point I had this I was having to wear at
night, I was having nighttime accidents.
Didn't understand why. I kind of hid it from my
parents, from everybody I knew until I moved out when I was 19,
I think was when I moved out and got my own place and stuff like
that. And then I started getting
deeper into the Internet and I started realizing that there's
people out there that are in similar situations as me.
You know, I was always under the stigma that, you know, diapers
for for adults were, were for older people, you know, the
elderly and stuff like that. But I realized that there was
other people like me that that had medical conditions that
still had to wear or, and then I found that there were people out
there that just enjoyed it and, and they found comfort in it.
And as the time grew on or went on, I began to realize that when
I was wearing, I was more comfortable, more relaxed.
You know, I didn't have to worry about, OK, where's the bathroom
or stuff like that. So it became, I became more on
the DL side of things to start with about mid 20s.
Later in my 20s is when I was first introduced to the AB side
of things. I don't know if you have ever
heard of it. It was called Diaperspace was it
was the site that used to be around that I became part of
where I met a former mommy of mine.
You know that you know, she she would mommy me and stuff like
that. And that's how I got introduced
to the AB side of. Things.
That's awesome. And then it it just kind of
snowballed from there. It always seems to snowball,
doesn't it? Oh, and that that's with
anything it. Is it's with anything,
especially when you're in some type of kink element into your
life and it can be so, so fulfilling.
It is like I said, without this community I really don't know
where I would be, not only the AB community, but with just the
kinken community in general. Like I was saying, I am more
than just into the ABDL side of things.
I am sadomasochist. I, I love the, you know, both
being on the receiving and giving side of, you know, impact
play, Violet wand play, wax play, fire play on the receiving
and the needle play. I haven't learned, I haven't
dabbled into learning needle play yet, but that's on my
that's on my next list. You sound like a fun girl.
I. Try.
I try to be. I try to be.
I love the versatility. So you like to get spanked
wearing a diaper? Actually, no, I don't.
When it comes to spanking and stuff like that in little space,
I, I, I hate it. I am absolutely terrified of it.
I don't know. But when it comes to like the
impact scene and stuff like that, spanking is OK.
I don't get where that came from, but you know, I tend to
not get too many spankings when in little space anyhow because
I'm a good girl. Where she was.
Comes to that. That's awesome.
Everybody tries to say that I'm not, but I really AM.
Well, see, you got those cute little dimples.
I can't imagine why you'd be a bad girl.
So so so tishy. Are you currently single?
Are you in a relationship? I am currently single.
I have been single for about 3 years now.
I am actually talking to a potential daddy.
We haven't actually met yet but he's someone fairly localish.
Hopefully things work out, but my last relationship I had kind
of shelved my little side 'cause I was mommy to my ex for the
three years that we were together.
So. So this past three years has
been really trying to re engage myself with my little side, get
more back familiar with her and try to get coax her out more.
Which is difficult considering it.
I do have an adult life, unfortunately.
Unfortunately. I can't.
I can't live at 24/7. But I also have two kids though
too, so that also complicates things too.
Those darn kids. You know, I wouldn't change a
thing in the world. I love my kids to death.
And fortunately they both, they both know about me and that I am
transitioning. So then that went really well.
Actually. The oldest took it a little
harder, but they didn't. They didn't like disown me or
not talk to me anymore or anything like that where you
hear a lot of stories of kids or parents or whatever basically
disowning somebody for coming out.
Yeah, it's sad. Well, it sounds like you're very
fortunate with all of that, so. I have been, I have been very
blessed with when it comes to coming out, even with my family,
not just my kids, There is some resistance a little bit, I mean,
nobody's flat out, you know, disowned me or anything like
that. But for the most part, it's
been, I have had, knock on wood a a very fortunate experience
when when it comes to that, that road that I've gone down.
That's awesome. That is.
So do you find it that you can date anyone in like the vanilla
lifestyle or do you know, do you specifically look for people in
there? OK, you already answered that
question. I see even when I tried to look
outside of the kink world, I have come to the realization
with my with my last, with my last marriage, you know, my last
divorce, which was 10 years plus ago, that I can't hide any part
of me for in order for me to be happy, I have to be out.
I have to be. I can't shelter or hide or close
off any part of me. And unfortunately that does
require me to say it, you know, not only about the diaper issue
because I'm incontinent, you know, and I have to wear at
night, but I am very active in the King lifestyle, in King
community. I am financial investor in the
local club here. I am actually on the board of
the local club that meets there and help run it.
I'm very invested in the community and bettering the
community here in in Northeast Ohio.
That's awesome. That's super.
We had a gentleman who came down recently from Ohio to one of my
events and you know, we were talking about who who we know in
Ohio. So now I have you to add to the.
List. Yes, you do.
You know, in past interviews I had interviewed Mama Peach.
I don't know if it's, I haven't seen her.
I, I mean, I've been, I, I, I, I see them, there's stuff on the
set life all the time and stuff like that.
So, and actually the the interview that you did with her
is actually what made me contact you and, and stuff like that.
That's so great. She's such a beautiful soul.
She's just absolutely incredible person.
She really is. I told her from what I yeah,
she's in South Florida. I told her.
I said you got to make it up here.
I got to meet you. But you know, she has this, you
know, she's got children, obviously.
You know, she's she's, I believe she's in her early 40s.
But you know, she's married to her husband, who is her adult
baby. And, you know, they share an
absolute beautiful relationship. They.
Do. They really do.
And that's something to cherish. Unfortunately, you know,
fortunately for them, unfortunately for a lot of
people in this community, they don't find that connection.
You know, it is so hard to it is so hard to find that connection
in this community because the the proportions are so out
balanced versus caregivers for to littles.
You know, you know, I struggle, you know, that's one of the
things that I did struggle with for a while is will I ever feel
accepted? Will I ever feel loved?
Will I ever find that that caregiver that I that I desire
and I still do to this day. You know, like I said, I am
talking to to a potential at the moment.
So hopefully that'll that'll work out and stuff like that.
But you know, only time will tell with that.
So is there more littles there than you do have caregivers?
Oh by far. And then that's anywhere you go
the the the littles outweigh the caregivers probably 100 to one
if not more if not a greater number.
My my local group LEAP or Lake Erie Age Players is as was
started back in 2013. It was formerly Cleveland's
Little Toy Box, which we at some point there I was running that
by myself. There was some things that got
brought up. So we decided to form a board
and when we decided, when we did that and formed the board for
the Littles group, we decided to rebrand it.
So we renamed it to Leap. We do right now it's been
quarterly parties, play parties which are held at a local, at
the local dungeon which we bring in or we're getting anywhere
from 4045 people or littles to our parties and for a 5 hour
event, you know, and I would say probably 99% are littles when it
comes to the Wow. Well, that's awesome still.
I mean, you know, that you can all unify and come together in a
great community. It's always such a positive
thing. You know, it is, it is one of my
friends is a, is a daddy in the community.
And, you know, we've, we've spoken briefly about it because
a lot of people, like you said, it's still a stigma for a lot of
people. And, you know, to me, it's, it
was summed up very, very well by one of my clients that I see
when he said, you know, at the end of the day, everyone needs
care. And I was like, you know, there
you go. You know, it doesn't matter the
king it is, you know, it's being treated with basic humanity and
compassion and, you know, just human dignity.
You know, no matter the case, 'cause you're not hurting
anyone, you know? A diaper change doesn't hurt
that we know one of our No, you're absolutely right.
There's so many more things that that a person could do that
would be so much more detrimental.
Exactly. So their well-being than the
regressing or to the age play or diapers or whatever.
Even if you know the king community, you know, you people
can you could turn to drugs, you could turn to alcohol.
You know those things will hurt you, possibly kill you.
You know, regression. It's not going to kill you.
I mean it it's it's a way to escape reality.
Really it is. And that's why I look.
At it. Without the drugs, yes.
You're absolutely right. That's great.
So where do you see yourself in the next 5 years with
everything? That's a hard question.
I mean, I'm no matter what, I'm still going to be in the
community. Like I said, I have found my
home. I have found my calling and I
consider my king family, my my ABDL family, my dungeon family,
they're my chosen family. The as a matter of fact, the one
the song is one of my anthems right now, Frozen Family,
because I heard that recently and it it fits.
You know, blood may be thicker than water, but water is more
consistent in my opinion. Right.
You know, I know I, if I'm having a bad day, I can, I can
pull up my phone and message 2030 people and, and you know,
be fine Whether and I do that with my family, I don't know if
I'm going to get a response. Well.
You know, half my family is scattered across the United
States. And then, yeah, you here.
You have your kink community and they embrace you.
Yes, very much so. That's great.
So is there anything that you would tell someone that was like
you and the ABDL community that hasn't gotten yet their foot in
the door or dip their toe in the water or the pool of kink?
Don't be afraid, OK? It, it maybe it, it's a scary
world to, to, to step outside your comfort zone.
But everybody's been there before, everybody in especially
in the AB lifestyle, ABDL lifestyle, everybody's been
there before. You know, I was there once going
to my first munch, first meeting, you know, get out there
and put yourself out there, meet these other people.
You're not alone. There are plenty of others that
are out there out here that do are into the same things you
are. And that goes with anything, not
just the ABDL side of things. You know, that goes for for the,
the impact side of things or the needle play side of things or,
you know, just in general. I mean, I see so many things,
you know, these days that, you know, if it's not illegal, what
harm is it? Exactly you.
Know and and as long as you you know boundaries and know how to
respect people, then that's all there is.
You know, consent is key to everything.
Consent and communication. Very much so, and.
And one of the things, you know, for me, you know, when, when we
get new littles coming to the other group or messaging in our
group and stuff like that. I, I've always wanted to offer
if they want to meet, you know, one-on-one to get a, a, to be
able to put a name to a face or have a face that, that they can
recognize when they come to one of the bigger events and stuff
like that. So that they have a little bit
of familiarity when they do show up to an event.
Because I didn't have that. My first event was blind.
I walked into it, you know, Oh God, am I, you know, what am I
doing? I think, I think I actually sat
in my car for an extra 10 to 15 minutes before I actually went
in and got the courage to go in on my first one.
So. Well, good for you.
You took that step and now here you are.
Yeah, yes, that's awesome. Very much so.
It's been, it's been a long journey, but I I wouldn't change
it for a little world. That's super well, Tishy, thank
you so much for joining us. And we certainly appreciate, you
know, telling, telling us your story.
It's it's so important. Not a problem and and if anybody
ever wants to reach out to me, you know, I am tishy on fetlife.
My message box is always open. I don't close my message box,
you know and it like I said and that goes with anything for the
the the king community. You know like I said, I'm I'm
mainly an ABDL, but I am also a masochist.
I'm also into the, the BDSM stuff.
I newly trans myself, you know, I've been out for eight years
and plus to my friends, but I just recently took the plunge
and actually started on my HRT journey.
So I'm, I'm in the community. I have, you know, I I'm here to
support others, not just myself. That's super.
That's that's just a fabulous way to look at it.
It really is. But thank you again and I, we
look forward to speaking with you again in the future.
All right. I would love to all.
Right. Thank you.