1 00:00:07,770 --> 00:00:10,810 Hi, welcome to the latest episode of Call Me Mistress. 2 00:00:11,130 --> 00:00:14,970 I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, and I've got my sidekick. 3 00:00:15,010 --> 00:00:20,930 Me, Madam Liv. OK, how are you today, Liv? 4 00:00:21,210 --> 00:00:23,450 It's a morning, probably need some coffee. 5 00:00:23,770 --> 00:00:25,610 I know you don't have. Your coffee yet? 6 00:00:25,610 --> 00:00:28,370 I know I didn't get it. I was thinking about it, then I 7 00:00:28,370 --> 00:00:30,080 didn't. Wow. 8 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:31,560 Can't wait till my slave gets here. 9 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:33,760 I know. Where is that little bastard? 10 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:37,120 Two more days. He'll be here. 11 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:39,840 Yeah, he better. Behave and do what he's supposed 12 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:41,120 to do. I think he will. 13 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:43,840 I think he'll be, he'll be somebody that pushes his own 14 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:46,160 boundaries like some people be like, I don't want to do that. 15 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:49,480 No, I think he'll do it. OK so I have something really 16 00:00:49,480 --> 00:00:54,480 fun. I have a shock dog collar that 17 00:00:54,480 --> 00:01:01,320 we can put on his neck or around his balls so if he fucks up he 18 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:06,440 can first either get the buzz or yeah. 19 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:09,560 I like that because I he sneeze a collar. 20 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:12,960 I told him he's going to wait at the door at the back door until 21 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:15,880 I'm ready for him because I'll put a collar on before he comes 22 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:18,560 to the house. Well, you're you're sweet little 23 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:23,760 submissive guy Poe. Speaking of coffee, he got us a 24 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:27,760 neat little tea set. I don't give, so tell us about 25 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:29,560 that. Well, I didn't open it right 26 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:32,320 away because I thought that because he said it was for both 27 00:01:32,320 --> 00:01:34,320 of us, I thought maybe would open up together, but he was 28 00:01:34,320 --> 00:01:35,600 like, no, he wanted to see me open it. 29 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:38,920 So I opened it. It was a tea box where you put 30 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:40,840 all your little tea bags. In Yeah. 31 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:42,520 Very pretty. You can see into it. 32 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:43,760 It's very nice. Yeah. 33 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:47,000 When little box was like oh. That's so cool. 34 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,120 And you? Guys like tea selections, like 35 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:51,200 the gummy tea bag or gross tea bags. 36 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:54,800 And then you got a little gag gift, just a little nuts, little 37 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:55,840 balls. Uh huh. 38 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:58,840 That it's like for like an infuser where you can put the 39 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,480 tea particles into it and then soak it in the water. 40 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:04,040 Yeah. And like, tea tea bag in your 41 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:06,240 crop, your tea. I was like, Oh my God, that's so 42 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:09,080 silly. That was great. 43 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:10,680 I. Need to find another one because 44 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:12,600 there was only one in there. We need both have one. 45 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:14,840 Oh my gosh. Dip, dip, dip. 46 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:17,480 Yeah. I was gonna say you can have 47 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:19,120 balls in your teeth if you'd like. 48 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:23,560 I do want balls in my teeth just for the beginning. 49 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:26,720 Well, it's confusing. OK, then I'll do pinkies out for 50 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:30,720 the rest. OK, we can do that. 51 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:34,120 Either from days when we're feeling funny. 52 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:36,640 Right. It was a very special gift. 53 00:02:36,640 --> 00:02:38,800 So thanks for that PO. That was very sweet. 54 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:45,200 He told me, he said that he messaged me and he said, you 55 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:49,160 know, on days where he's just not feeling himself and feeling 56 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:56,480 happy, he listens to some of his favorite episodes and it makes 57 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:58,200 him feel better. I'm glad. 58 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:02,320 And that's where that our just Yabrin makes people feel better. 59 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:04,480 You know, we're just talking. Agreed. 60 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:08,000 Well, Justin told me this last week. 61 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:11,560 Actually told me, he said, you know, it's just nice too because 62 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:13,920 he works long hours. So yeah, I haven't seen him in 63 00:03:13,920 --> 00:03:17,200 almost two weeks. But he said to make himself feel 64 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,800 better, he'll do the same thing. He'll listen, you know, some of 65 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,120 our episodes and. You know, probably it's even 66 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:25,400 better when they've come here and kind of know us a little 67 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:28,120 bit, seeing the dungeon, seeing the yard. 68 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:30,120 They know what we're talking about, can envision it better. 69 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:31,520 Yeah. That's very true. 70 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:33,160 It's. Probably fun to listen people 71 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:34,600 you already know. Yeah. 72 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:36,800 Talk about things that you're on the other side of. 73 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,080 I can believe it. Yeah, I would like it. 74 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:45,200 Well, Barbie hasn't been in a while, but people you know who 75 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:47,560 know Barbie, she's very eccentric. 76 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:50,360 She's quirky, funny as hell. She really is funny. 77 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:51,720 She is. She's witty. 78 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:54,560 I would be very, very witty. She can come up with things on 79 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:55,560 the spot. I'm like damn. 80 00:03:55,920 --> 00:04:00,840 This she does. She's so smart, but she does 81 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:04,360 drag shows. And if she's not doing a drag 82 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:08,200 show, she'll actually help other people like other artists with 83 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:11,840 their actual set for their for whatever roduction they're 84 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:13,960 doing. There's a lot of people that 85 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:20,600 wear the BDSM symbol as well. An Charles was telling me that 86 00:04:21,079 --> 00:04:25,080 someone that he knew that was in the military, he actually wore 87 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:28,800 his BDSM necklace and it said slave on it, but it didn't say 88 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:31,040 slave. It was a symbol for slave. 89 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:33,200 Oh. That's hot in the hot. 90 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:38,160 Oh my God. And so someone else said, hey, I 91 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:40,400 know what that means. You need to tuck that in. 92 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:43,640 No one needs to see that shit. I want to see it. 93 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:45,680 I know you do. I would love to see that, 94 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:48,160 especially in a, in a, you know, in the military when 95 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:49,800 everything's supposed to be structured and you're wearing a 96 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:51,120 little slave. That's hot. 97 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:53,040 We'll see. I'm a little rebel. 98 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:59,120 I have one for my husband and it's a little slave marker as 99 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:03,120 well, but it's written in a foreign language so no one can 100 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:05,280 tell what it is. Well, I like that I can be 101 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:08,160 somebody could tell what it is. Yeah, that's hot. 102 00:05:08,280 --> 00:05:11,560 Absolutely. I had a ring with the BDSM 103 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:14,600 simple, small, Yeah. So I don't think anybody ever 104 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:17,000 really noticed it. Yeah, I was always hoping that 105 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:19,160 somebody would notice it, but nobody ever noticed. 106 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:21,240 It that's fun. Then I lost it when I went 107 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:24,200 swimming in the ocean. Well, I was with a friend one 108 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:28,400 time and we were just walking in the department store and she had 109 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:31,520 the symbol on again, big pendant on her neck. 110 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:35,840 And it didn't, it was just the BDSM symbol. 111 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:40,320 But one guy immediately came up to her and he said, hey, I know 112 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:42,400 what that sign means on your necklace. 113 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:46,600 And she's like, oh really? And he was like, yeah, I know 114 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:47,680 what that means. That's. 115 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:49,240 The best way? Right. 116 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:51,040 You get your little butterflies going. 117 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:53,120 Yeah, it was sexy. Yeah. 118 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:55,080 Yeah, she was single. Why not, you know? 119 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:57,080 You and you're not single just to be noticed that that's what. 120 00:05:57,080 --> 00:06:00,640 It is absolutely, absolutely. Woman or girl or 1. 121 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:10,040 You know what I want? All right, So what do you plan 122 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:13,200 on doing with the slave? Well, I want him to do daily 123 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:16,120 tasks because he'll be here for four days, so I want to have 124 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:18,400 daily things. He does every day that he has a 125 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:21,400 structure lined up for him. He waits at the back door. 126 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:23,680 No shirt. OK, You're not going to wear a 127 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:25,560 shirt and you have to wear all black. 128 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:27,680 He was going to ask for Gray. I said no. 129 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:29,720 I said black. I don't want no color on you. 130 00:06:30,840 --> 00:06:33,840 Then no shirt. And he'll wear a collar when he 131 00:06:33,840 --> 00:06:38,200 comes in, he'll do coffee. He'll get you know, if I want 132 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:40,360 breakfast that day, make me some toast, whatever. 133 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:44,400 And then he'll stand here and wait with us until I tell him 134 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:47,040 what to do. OK, we can always make him a 135 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:49,320 list too. Yeah, well, I want like, well, I 136 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:51,800 have him at whether the notebook, so he'll make his own 137 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:52,920 list. We don't have to do that shit. 138 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:54,560 OK. Make him write the list. 139 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:56,960 All right. Because he's supposed to bring 140 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:58,520 in his notebook. Because that's what I'm starting 141 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:01,640 to do with everybody so that you know, because there's so many of 142 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:05,880 them that want to do this with me, the sub training and stuff 143 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:07,120 that they have to write a notebook. 144 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:10,760 But honestly, I think I only have two right now. 145 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:14,840 Of course, my favorite. And then the other guy, which 146 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,080 I'm I'm not really sure about him. 147 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:20,240 I don't know why I don't feel comfortable bringing that in yet 148 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:21,480 because I don't know him very well. 149 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:25,640 So and then of course, my slave, which I asked PO, I was like, 150 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:30,280 and he was wearing this Binky that's a a ball gag. 151 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:34,400 And I asked him. I was like, I know I already 152 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:36,600 have a slave coming. I would have wanted it to be you 153 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:39,000 first because I've been talking about it forever and asking 154 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:42,400 Charles about it. And I was like, I want you to be 155 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:45,760 my slave when I get back or when for when summertime happens 156 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:48,800 because he's a teacher. So when the summer comes, he can 157 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:52,680 have more time. And he smiled behind his Binky. 158 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:55,320 And I don't know why. It's just the cutest little 159 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:57,400 thing. I was like, Oh my God, come 160 00:07:57,400 --> 00:08:00,920 here. I just, I feel like we have a 161 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:03,960 really good, like, dynamic. Yeah, I don't think I'll 162 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:06,440 probably have that with anybody else just because of the way we 163 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:11,160 learned everything, because I was learning BDSM stuff like how 164 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:13,560 to whip and all those things, like with him. 165 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:16,680 So I won't have that with somebody else learning how to do 166 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:19,000 it with somebody. So we'll have that. 167 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:22,320 I think it's special. Yeah, it's very cool. 168 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:24,760 So I want him to be my slave, and he's excited about it. 169 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:29,160 He's like, Oh my God. Yeah, that's exciting. 170 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:33,559 I'm glad. I think that, you know, the 171 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:38,799 whole concept of being a slave is just like, that's like a such 172 00:08:38,799 --> 00:08:41,280 a big commitment for so many people, you know? 173 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:45,200 Because the ship is like more intense, I guess you could say 174 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:48,120 it is more demanding, more responsibility. 175 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:51,760 Yeah, I want your little bitch to skim the pool and blow the 176 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:55,160 patio. He's my flight, I. 177 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:58,480 Know, I know. If we if we do want some time, 178 00:08:58,480 --> 00:08:59,880 we could definitely make him leave. 179 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:03,000 Yeah. And not leave, leave, but like 180 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:04,280 go do something else. Yeah, let. 181 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:06,960 Like I said, if we get tired of him, let's send him outside 182 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:10,480 looking at him, skim the pool. That'll take an hour and then he 183 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:15,960 can blow the whole backyard. That's another hour, you know, 184 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:18,280 fix the patio furniture especially. 185 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:19,920 If you don't have any sessions going on. 186 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:21,760 Exactly. Because I wanted to be the in 187 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:23,760 there with me with my sessions. OK. 188 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:25,800 I prefer him to be there in with me, my sessions. 189 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:29,040 She'd be blindfolded so that my other Subs that are in there 190 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:31,120 don't feel uncomfortable somebody staring at him. 191 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:33,720 Yeah, but he can listen to everything and he can clean up 192 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:35,320 the mess when we're done. Exactly. 193 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:37,960 And you can tie him up in the corner in that cute little 194 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:40,280 Barber chair and then just like, turn his back around. 195 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:45,880 So he has to listen to it. Yeah, I think that's hot. 196 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:49,160 That is very hot. I love it. 197 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:51,520 And maybe some of the Subs wouldn't mind him watching and 198 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:54,200 he can watch, yeah. And that's a treat that he has 199 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:55,480 to. If you're doing good that day, 200 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:57,760 maybe one of my Subs will allow it and I will allow it. 201 00:09:58,040 --> 00:09:59,400 Yeah, absolutely. But. 202 00:09:59,960 --> 00:10:01,440 Yeah, you're supposed to be here Wednesday. 203 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:03,880 OK. So it would be Wednesday, 204 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:07,080 Thursday, Friday, Saturday, not Sunday. 205 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:08,960 He could have done it Sunday, but I said no, we're not doing 206 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:11,920 it Sunday, sorry. Yeah, Sunday. 207 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:13,840 Is my day my my rest day, you know? 208 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:15,160 Jesus said. On. 209 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:22,600 The 7th day we. Rest that's funny, Jesus said. 210 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:29,680 OK, so you're going to start talking about Jesus. 211 00:10:29,680 --> 00:10:31,000 We're that's a whole other episode. 212 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:32,720 We're going to start talking about that soon, too. 213 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:37,680 Yeah, for sure. But what do you think really is 214 00:10:37,680 --> 00:10:40,200 the difference between like being a submissive and then 215 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:43,880 being a slave? Well, a submissive is more like 216 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:46,600 just, it kind of is. The slave is kind of a 217 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:48,040 submissive. If you think about it. 218 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:50,800 They do the same things. It's just more a more of a 219 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:54,400 commitment, more intense. I think that's it because it's 220 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:56,160 the same. We just have more 221 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:58,160 responsibilities, like I said. Yeah. 222 00:10:58,560 --> 00:11:02,480 But sub is kind of like a game and slave is more real. 223 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:03,920 Yeah. So I'm with you on that. 224 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:07,280 I think that people who. That's in that Subs. 225 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:09,080 Aren't real. No, I know what you're saying. 226 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:11,280 I mean, Subs is Oh yeah, you can leave and go home. 227 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:16,280 I'll see you next Tuesday. But in this situation, I've had 228 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:20,160 this conversation with people before, you know, Brie, for 229 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:22,440 example. Brie was always like, I'm not a 230 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:26,360 slave, I'm not a slave. I'm like bitch I have changed 231 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:31,440 you to the floor, I have not let you leave the dungeon for days. 232 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:34,160 I think most I had her in there one time was three weeks. 233 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:42,000 I said I had my in laws come to visit and they were here for 7-8 234 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:45,280 days and she was locked in the dungeon the whole time. 235 00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:50,920 I gave her a bucket, a gallon of water, and I would take food 236 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:55,080 into her when I had free time. Aside from that, she had some 237 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:56,720 snacks. That was it. 238 00:11:57,360 --> 00:11:59,600 So she lost weight and she was unable to smoke. 239 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:04,440 You know, that's past being just a submissive. 240 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:06,560 That's bitch. You ain't leaving. 241 00:12:06,560 --> 00:12:08,320 You're going to be. My slave, if you call her up 242 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:11,320 right now, just out of kind of her heart, but she is like if 243 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:12,680 you asked her, hey, can you do this? 244 00:12:12,680 --> 00:12:14,080 She'll go do it. And that's kind of slave 245 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:15,680 mentality too. They're like, oh, I'll do this 246 00:12:15,680 --> 00:12:16,920 for you, of course. Yeah. 247 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:20,200 I'll put everything down. Yeah, absolutely. 248 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:24,440 You know, it was different with her when she was being very 249 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:28,000 submissive to me or being a slave to me in a sense, because 250 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:31,360 she was always resentful about calling herself a slave. 251 00:12:31,680 --> 00:12:35,920 But I think it the underlying problem was she when she wasn't 252 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:38,400 sober, I didn't realize when she wasn't. 253 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:41,200 And when she was sober, that was a big problem. 254 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:46,320 But I think it was if she relinquished herself completely 255 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:50,880 to me, it was just that one last thing that she held back doing 256 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:54,200 because she knew that I would not be all for her. 257 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:57,680 And she basically has to share me with my husband and with. 258 00:12:58,000 --> 00:12:59,960 That doesn't make it hard to fully surrender. 259 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:01,240 Yeah. So how can you? 260 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:03,200 That makes sense. Yeah, because she was very 261 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:04,680 resentful of my husband, because she. 262 00:13:04,680 --> 00:13:06,640 Wants to be a full time slave. That's it. 263 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:09,120 Or full time. So whatever you prefer to say it 264 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:10,920 as. Yeah. 265 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:12,760 But yeah, I look at it as like, I don't. 266 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:16,880 Maybe it's just the word slave is I don't like the word slave, 267 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:19,080 but maybe I am one. But I'm over here like I'm kind 268 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:20,200 of bratty. Like if you tell me to do 269 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:22,440 something and I don't want to do it, I'm not going to do it. 270 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:26,080 But I still want to be treated in a way if I don't do it. 271 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:29,240 Like I don't want to do it, but I want to be made to do it even 272 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:31,720 though I don't want to do it. It's an odd feeling when Subs 273 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:33,320 have that mindset. Yeah. 274 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:36,120 So it's easy to detect it in others. 275 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:41,680 Well, a certain somebody asked me the other day, he said, So 276 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:44,480 what are my kinks? And I said, honey, I've known 277 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:48,040 you for years so I know what your kinks are. 278 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:52,840 One, you have a fear fetish. He loves to be scared. 279 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:57,080 So again, I will do breath play with him. 280 00:13:57,080 --> 00:13:59,000 I will scare the shit out of him. 281 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:02,600 And because eventually if I don't scare him anymore, it's 282 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:04,480 not fun. You know, it's not fun for him. 283 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:08,920 It's not fun for me. And besides from the fear factor 284 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:13,960 of things, when he was a kid, he used to find himself when he, he 285 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:17,680 said he was 5 or 6 years old, he would go in animal traps. 286 00:14:17,680 --> 00:14:20,840 You know, he lived out in the woods from where he lived, you 287 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:24,400 know, and it was kind of, it was right in the back of the yard. 288 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:26,520 I mean, people put out animal traps. 289 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:30,040 And he said there was something in him that wanted to get in the 290 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:33,400 animal trap so he'd get in it and then have a hard time 291 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:35,080 getting out. But he loved it. 292 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:40,000 And I think even then he was getting aroused, you know, at 293 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:42,840 such a young age. It was interesting when he was 294 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:43,680 interesting. Yeah. 295 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:45,960 When he talks about it, you know, it's interesting. 296 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:51,120 But then he was saying that there was, there was another 297 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:54,920 time when he was a kid, he, his body had no buoyancy because he 298 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:57,360 had no fat on him. He was very skinny. 299 00:14:57,360 --> 00:15:01,120 He was underweight. And so skin and bones, 300 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:06,960 literally, he said that he was in the pool and he kept like 301 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:10,000 kicking, kicking, kicking. And then he'd find himself up 302 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:14,400 against the pool filter where it would push out from the jet. 303 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:19,200 And he said not only was he struggling to swim, but kept 304 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:22,520 pushing up against it to rub against his Dick. 305 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:25,600 And you know, this is like 1213 years old. 306 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:30,560 Then he's like, oh, and he said he found himself surrounded by 307 00:15:30,560 --> 00:15:34,240 people in a public pool, this happening, and he fucking 308 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,800 ejaculated just that. Wow. 309 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:43,560 So it's like, wow, yeah. But he said that was, it was so 310 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:46,600 powerful with the fact that he could have drowned because he 311 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:49,240 put himself in the deep end, because he knew that he would 312 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:51,920 start getting tired because he still can't float. 313 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:54,240 Even now he cannot float. He just. 314 00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:59,720 Sinks. That's funny, isn't? 315 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:02,480 That funny? Yeah, he's sweet. 316 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:05,280 But anyway, he said. I told him I said the fear 317 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:10,080 factor and he loves extreme bondage so you know, but if it 318 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:13,400 were up to him, if he didn't have to work, he would love if I 319 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:16,920 just had a sell for him and tuck him away from the rest of the 320 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:21,480 world forever cutting all ties, being a permanent slave and that 321 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:22,920 would be it. I would go crazy. 322 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:25,800 You'd go crazy, right? But you know, everybody, they 323 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:28,280 probably need it, you know? They probably need it, Yeah. 324 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:31,960 And it's really just based on environment and what you grow up 325 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:34,120 with. And that was that was something 326 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:37,320 that he just he could deal with. And I think that he would be 327 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:40,480 completely content like that. I had harsh punishments. 328 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:43,520 Yeah. Where we would have to cut the 329 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:46,440 grass with scissors. Yeah, that that was insane when 330 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:49,600 you told me that. I pull the weeds out of the 331 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:51,760 fence. We have 2 1/2 acres, so the 332 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:54,760 fence was all the way around. Yeah, go pull the weeds at all. 333 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:56,840 And it's like grated like a chicken wire. 334 00:16:57,000 --> 00:16:58,200 Yeah. So pulling all the weeds out of 335 00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:02,040 that stickers doesn't matter. Pull it out, rake acorns. 336 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:05,560 And acorns go right through a rake like. 337 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:10,880 Rake the two acres. Yeah, yeah, that's insane. 338 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:14,000 There's a lot of things that, you know, she liked it. 339 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:15,240 Corporal punishment type of thing. 340 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:18,760 Yeah, I don't. I don't like it, but I like. 341 00:17:18,760 --> 00:17:21,480 It but you really like. It's odd because he's like, you 342 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:24,000 really don't like it but I literally will rub my knees 343 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:25,520 together and be wet that far down. 344 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:28,400 It's so weird and I'm like I literally am screaming for my 345 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:30,320 life. Why is this happening? 346 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:34,720 To me it's odd. I know, right? 347 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:38,000 Why do I like it? Well, and you know, I think with 348 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:41,360 like your slave, if we take him outside and he's not doing good 349 00:17:41,360 --> 00:17:44,920 enough job, I need to pull out the bullwhip and you need to 350 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:48,040 practice that bullwhip on him, you know. 351 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:50,160 I gotta test his boundaries on. On pain. 352 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:51,800 Oh, absolutely. The first day, that's what I'm 353 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:53,200 gonna do. I'm gonna test his boundaries on 354 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:54,680 how far I can go. Yeah. 355 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:56,200 And then after that, I'll just be pushing it. 356 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,520 Yeah. I'll be pushing each boundary 357 00:17:58,560 --> 00:17:59,240 each day. Yeah. 358 00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:01,600 A little bit further because I don't want to like, you know, 359 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:03,400 tear him down. I don't know how much. 360 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:06,120 I don't know him now, Lil PO, I don't know if he would be OK 361 00:18:06,120 --> 00:18:08,680 with something like that, but I know I could push boundaries. 362 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:10,400 Yeah. And, you know, it's just more 363 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:12,800 about he already trusts me. So it's just like it makes it 364 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:14,960 easier to push those boundaries because he feels like he can 365 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:17,560 like, surrender in it. But yeah, I don't know about 366 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:18,800 this guy. You wouldn't be able to trust 367 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:19,200 me. I was. 368 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:22,760 Going to say the biggest thing is fantasy, you know, what does 369 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:24,880 your mind say? What would be your ideal 370 00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:26,400 fantasy? And that's something you could 371 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:29,440 ask him, you know? Same with little Poe, you know, 372 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:32,480 ask him, you know, would you be happy at some point? 373 00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:35,440 You know, if you're doing a task and you don't do it well enough, 374 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:37,040 you know, do I need to break out the bullwhip? 375 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:38,280 Is that something that's going to excite? 376 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:39,560 You. I was going to bring out a whip 377 00:18:39,560 --> 00:18:42,560 regardless. Like when Charles, I told you he 378 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:45,880 was painting, he's doing a great job, but even he would point out 379 00:18:45,960 --> 00:18:49,720 things and flaws about it. So it's like he wanted you to 380 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:52,160 see it, but he also hated that he couldn't do it right. 381 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:55,440 And if it was me, you know, I would be like, if I did 382 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:57,400 something wrong and I know I did it wrong, even though it wasn't 383 00:18:57,400 --> 00:19:00,080 my fault, I still wanted like, OK, we need to be punished here. 384 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:02,800 Yeah, you're looking around to see where he fucked up, but you 385 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:06,600 know, he literally, and I've never seen anyone do this, but 386 00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:09,400 This is why I've known other slaves to do it. 387 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:12,680 Now, if you look at the ceiling, it's like it's never going to 388 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:16,880 have a perfect straight line. You know, even if you put, you 389 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:20,160 know, the painter's tape up, for example, you're always going to 390 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:22,800 miss something. So he was going around with a 391 00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:27,680 little tiny artist brush. He is a sub, yeah. 392 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:29,680 He wants it to be perfect. For you, he wants it to be 393 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:30,600 perfect. Yeah. 394 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:33,240 For you though. Yeah, I get it. 395 00:19:33,360 --> 00:19:36,160 And it's it's it's endearing. It's sweet, Yeah. 396 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:37,480 But see, it's awesome. It's almost. 397 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:40,080 Like he gives himself a punishment for it, and I didn't 398 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:41,160 do it right. So now I'm going to do this with 399 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:42,600 a little bitty brush like my mom. 400 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:45,280 Yeah, scissors on grass. That's a lot. 401 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:47,040 Yeah. Just like the little tiny 402 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:49,760 paintbrush, that's a lot. But it's almost like he needed 403 00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:53,040 to be made to do that versus him doing it for himself and he did 404 00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:55,720 it for himself. Wouldn't that be some shit if 405 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:59,360 your boyfriend says, hey, we're on so much acreage, get out 406 00:19:59,360 --> 00:20:00,800 there and cut the grass with the Pierce. 407 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:11,800 I feel like he would not do that to me, but you know, I, I don't 408 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:14,120 ever want to put things past them because I never know. 409 00:20:14,120 --> 00:20:18,000 I know he's testing limits, so we'll see. 410 00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:20,560 Yeah. Is there something you want him 411 00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:24,760 to do at some point? I mean, I always think about him 412 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:27,800 fucking somebody and then tying me up where I can't enjoy it 413 00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:29,720 too. Yeah, that's a punishment, kind 414 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:32,200 of, yeah. Kind of I was going to say, and 415 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:34,560 I've had that conversation too with my partner. 416 00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:37,000 So yeah, I get it. I get it totally. 417 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:39,840 God, the things we talk about I. Don't know, the kinky world is 418 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:41,320 great. I like that we can openly talk 419 00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:42,440 about it. It is. 420 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:46,640 It's so great, but Subs and slaves, yeah, I'm like. 421 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:48,400 The same. There is, it is. 422 00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:51,560 It's so much of the same. You know, people have developed 423 00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:53,680 like the slave contracts. It's like. 424 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:56,560 It's just the word. Exactly I. 425 00:20:56,640 --> 00:21:00,240 Can just say full time slave, yeah, I'm sorry, full time sub, 426 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:02,720 yeah. And then it's the same thing as 427 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:04,560 slave. Yeah, all you're doing is the 428 00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:07,600 same thing. You know, with me, I use the 429 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:10,320 word slave just because I think it's more demeaning to them. 430 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:12,000 And if they if. They like the humiliation. 431 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:14,200 Yeah, exactly. If they like degradation, 432 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:15,280 absolutely. Which? 433 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:19,280 My slave coming in does not like that. 434 00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:22,000 He doesn't like degradation. Or humiliation. 435 00:21:22,120 --> 00:21:24,320 Or it's a degradation. I'm still going to humiliate him 436 00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:25,880 by making him get naked in front of you. 437 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:30,640 Stand there. My poor dogs are going to go. 438 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:35,720 Oh God, another one. Yeah, well, I want, I hope 439 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:37,960 Charles is here so you can be naked in front of Charles too. 440 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:39,520 And he feels uncomfortable. I want to make him as 441 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:42,680 uncomfortable as possible, you know, and he can only be naked 442 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:43,600 up here. I understand. 443 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:46,280 But. Charles wants to be naked too 444 00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:49,280 with a collar, so we could always make both of them go out 445 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:51,640 and do tasks naked in the yard. Know what? 446 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,560 He would probably love that. Yeah. 447 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:56,320 We need to. Just whenever he's here. 448 00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:57,560 I don't know. Is he going to be here? 449 00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:01,640 I don't know yet. He's his iffy. 450 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:03,440 Little Subs and holding our coffee. 451 00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:06,320 I know, wouldn't it be great? That'd be hot. 452 00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:09,440 I I really wish it was PO. I know. 453 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:12,720 I wanted him to be the first one I know you know. 454 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:15,760 But the thing of it is, this other one is just in town 455 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:17,560 briefly. Yeah, he's only here for four 456 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:18,960 days. It's like a practice run. 457 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:20,800 Yeah, See what I would be OK with it's. 458 00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:23,240 But that's The thing is I tried everything on PO first. 459 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:25,400 What was I OK with? What was he OK with? 460 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:28,320 We learned with each other. Yeah, that's what I liked about 461 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:29,880 it, and that's what I wanted him to be my first. 462 00:22:30,360 --> 00:22:32,280 Well, it'll be. OK, yeah, well, I mean I. 463 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:33,880 Post not going anywhere. He'll be here. 464 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,160 Yeah, yeah. He can be their life and a slave 465 00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:39,320 is giving me a lot. Yeah, absolutely. 466 00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:43,320 Hold on, let me reword it. Good idea. 467 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:46,240 All right, kids, I think we've had enough fun. 468 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:49,360 I know I have one guy who keeps writing me and he says please 469 00:22:49,360 --> 00:22:54,240 take off parental control on the podcast because he can't listen 470 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:57,920 to it in certain areas. I'm like, yeah, we can't do it. 471 00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:00,160 We have to take, we have to keep on the explicit. 472 00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:07,200 I was looking at some of our our ratings and we're rating in the 473 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:12,640 top five of sexuality podcasts over in a lot of countries like 474 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:15,480 in Africa, in parts of Europe. That's cool. 475 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:18,280 And we're just yabbering about our life that's going on. 476 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:20,080 Isn't that crazy? I guess people don't really want 477 00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:22,240 to hear about our side of things and. 478 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:24,840 I would think so. Mindsets because, you know, you 479 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:27,400 don't really hear the side of the Dom, you know, and how 480 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:30,040 things are played out in their minds and what it's like. 481 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:31,720 Yeah. So yeah, I could see how, you 482 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:35,000 know, I, I am the Dom. So it's like, but I can see how 483 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:38,200 if it was other way around and listen to the Subs on their 484 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:40,000 side, it'd be cool. Which is like doing the 485 00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,760 interviews, you know? Yeah, and trust me when I have 486 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:46,840 talked to other Doms, so many Doms are fucking cunts. 487 00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:49,080 They're just not nice people. Are you trying? 488 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,440 To say something to me. No, I'm saying you and I. 489 00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:54,360 You and I are rare compared to most because. 490 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:57,680 Yeah, we have a great dynamic. I would think so, but I'm just 491 00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:59,480 saying as people were nice people. 492 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:01,760 Oh yeah. Yeah, You know, I've, I've 493 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:05,440 interviewed a couple Doms over the years and one wanted to have 494 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:09,280 her own religion where they worshipped only her. 495 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:11,440 I mean, that's how much of A narcissist she was. 496 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:12,560 That was a. Cult. 497 00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:13,400 All right. Yeah. 498 00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:15,440 She wanted to start a cult, and there's a lot of them who do 499 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:18,160 want to start cults. And I'm like, yeah, that's 500 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:23,040 that's dumb. Yeah, that's just, that's crazy. 501 00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:24,120 Yeah, I don't think I would want. 502 00:24:24,120 --> 00:24:26,480 That it's weird. Sounds like too much. 503 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:29,520 Yeah, could you imagine the Temple of Live, I mean. 504 00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:32,240 My. Temple is there there. 505 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,440 Your temple's there is right live. 506 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:37,320 We'll end it there and thank you for listening. 507 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:42,360 Go to our loyal fans. I will attach the link on that. 508 00:24:42,360 --> 00:24:46,040 There is some hot dirty pictures on there that we can't 509 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:49,520 necessarily do in the dungeon, but we take pictures and and 510 00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:52,400 little videos and that kind of thing that we do on our personal 511 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:53,320 time. Yeah. 512 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:58,920 So aside from that and and our website on Call me Mistress show 513 00:24:59,120 --> 00:25:02,120 we have videos on there for sale as well. 514 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:05,800 That concludes this episode of. Call me man.