1 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:08,600 Welcome to the latest episode of Mistress Mia's Dungeon. 2 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:12,000 I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia. And you know my Co host, it's 3 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:16,040 the Barbie. She she even does the wave like 4 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:18,800 nobody can see you, Barbie. Nobody. 5 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:20,720 But when you say hi, you have to wave. 6 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:21,400 Really. Fast. 7 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:25,400 We're we're not recording yet. They will be getting a visual 8 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:27,760 very very soon. Now I gotta start looking cute 9 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:30,680 when we film. Yes, you. 10 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:33,960 You won't be having your shirt on that, says big fat goth. 11 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:39,360 I'll wear my normal clothes that don't make me look homeless I 12 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,520 guess. You guys, I suppose I'm. 13 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:44,000 Just going to wear a banana costume every episode. 14 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:45,480 They're just going what the fuck is happening? 15 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:48,880 Right, you dress as a banana, I'll dress as an orange. 16 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:56,160 We'll be the fruity bitches. It's so stupid. 17 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:59,000 It is stupid. That's why it was funny. 18 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:04,120 All right, so I have to do a shout out for Tony. 19 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:09,760 I love Tony, and I told Tony that when I go up to Vermont in 20 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:13,960 October, I've told people along the way, hey, they can come in. 21 00:01:13,960 --> 00:01:17,240 They can stop and see us, not you and I. 22 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:19,960 But you know, I'll make a stop for them. 23 00:01:19,960 --> 00:01:23,160 I'll see them. And I told Tony, I said, hey, 24 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:27,040 I'll meet you in Albany and we can have a coffee together. 25 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:31,080 And if you're feeling extra submissive, I will go and take 26 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:34,400 your coffee into the bathroom and TT in your OH. 27 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:37,160 My God. So he can have a little TT of 28 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:39,160 Mia Oh. My God. 29 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:43,000 He would love a little piss play. 30 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:46,160 I'm sure he would love it. Just I just imagining you 31 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:49,080 carrying the little cup into the bathroom and then having to like 32 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:49,800 it's. Casual. 33 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:52,960 We'll be at a coffee shop. Would it be mixed in with his 34 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:54,880 coffee at least? Or just Oh yeah. 35 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:56,880 No, no, no, it'd be mixed in with his coffee. 36 00:01:56,880 --> 00:02:00,760 I'm taking his coffee cup, OK? Obviously, yeah, I'm not going. 37 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,640 To share my, you know, macchiato or whatever the fuck I'm going 38 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:06,960 to drink, you know? I'm not a coffee person, you 39 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:08,680 know I. Wasn't I didn't start drinking 40 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:11,720 coffee until I was, you know, 43. 41 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:16,280 Yeah, I tried to avoid caffeine, but when I do go get coffee, I 42 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:18,760 get one of those like really girly drinks. 43 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:21,280 Oh yeah, 'cause. I'm a basic bitch at heart. 44 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:24,640 Well, you know, I always like the mom and pop coffee shops 45 00:02:24,640 --> 00:02:27,160 around us. So you can pay $12.00 instead of 46 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:32,000 four look. Bitch so I can get higher 47 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:35,400 quality besides the fake shit. No, I'm just kidding. 48 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:39,560 I like real whipped cream, you know? 49 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:43,920 But anywho, yeah, Creme brulee, you have to try that. 50 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,120 I can't even spell that word. OK. 51 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:51,000 Sweet Jesus. OK, all right. 52 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,680 So anyway, so Tony wrote me. Hi Tony. 53 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:56,320 I think Barbie really cracks herself up. 54 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:58,920 I do. I think I'm the funniest person 55 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:01,800 on earth. Oh my God, you're totally the 56 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:05,560 funniest, right? All right, so Mistress, I was on 57 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:09,160 vacation last week so I missed all the episodes, but I'm I'm 58 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:11,640 back at work today and I love playing cat shop. 59 00:03:11,920 --> 00:03:14,720 I'm absolutely loving you and Barbie together. 60 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:16,520 Thank you. Isn't that nice? 61 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:19,800 I start the new job next week, so then I'll have a better idea 62 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,000 of what my schedule be like going forward. 63 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,680 Talking about piss. I've never done anything with 64 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:29,760 piss before, but I'd be willing to try some coffee and piss for 65 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:32,280 you, Mistress. Aw, Tony. 66 00:03:32,920 --> 00:03:34,760 He wants to drink your piss coffee. 67 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:37,280 How sweet. Is I love you, Tony? 68 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:39,760 Yeah, Tony is a sexy motherfucker too. 69 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:41,320 Is he? He is. 70 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:46,560 He is really sexy. So then my favorite couple that 71 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:49,120 comes to the party is one of my favorite couples because we've 72 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:52,840 got a lot of favorite couples. Every couple is our favorite 73 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:54,960 couple. Not all of them. 74 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:56,400 Some of them are motherfuckers, but. 75 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:03,880 I got a DM about piss today so we can we can circle back to 76 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:05,680 that. Ohh you wanna you wanna go ahead 77 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:08,560 and tell me that we. Can, but we can I can tell it 78 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:10,240 after your story. Alright, 'cause we don't have to 79 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:12,400 go in order. Alright, OK, that's true. 80 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:16,360 We don't. Hey Mia, sounds like the party 81 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,000 went well. I hate we missed it. 82 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:19,480 Looking forward to seeing you all soon. 83 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:22,920 I have a suggestion for a podcast episode as it's 84 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:26,040 something that we struggle with and would love some advice on. 85 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:29,160 I'm sure there are other people who would find it helpful too. 86 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:34,080 Now they have told me that in their arrangement, they're both 87 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:38,120 kind of switch, but she's found herself that she's become more 88 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:41,120 dominant. And you know, when I met them, I 89 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:44,880 could tell, you know, who really was a Dom sub in the situation. 90 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:49,000 And he's very submissive. And what was funny was I 91 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:52,680 immediately when they came down after this last party, they came 92 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:55,600 over the next day just to like, visit. 93 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:57,800 And, you know, at this point, we're in the sunlight, we're in 94 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:01,240 the daytime, we're by the pool. And he immediately goes down. 95 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:03,160 He just glances at my feet real quick. 96 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:05,760 And I was like, pervert, you little subway. 97 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,840 Yeah, pervert, Why you looking at my toes, you dirty fucker? 98 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:14,320 But you know, he does that clearly because he likes feet. 99 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:17,960 And he didn't realize I caught him and in the conversation I 100 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:19,800 said look, I already know you like feet. 101 00:05:19,840 --> 00:05:22,640 I got you looking at my feet. But anyway, I thought it was 102 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:26,560 funny, but the question she asked me was how to incorporate 103 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:29,320 kink into daily life. When regular vanilla life is 104 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:34,160 creating resistance such as work schedule, kids, family, limited 105 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:38,560 times for scenes, etcetera, the dynamic has transitioned from 106 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:43,200 switching to my husband being more submissive and myself being 107 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:45,680 more dominant. I especially struggle with 108 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:48,920 keeping my dominant side active and using it. 109 00:05:49,280 --> 00:05:52,240 I'm still a switch occasionally, but it doesn't fit well into our 110 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:56,200 dynamic anymore as I don't crave to be submissive very often. 111 00:05:56,560 --> 00:06:00,320 We're trying to transition into this new dynamic and can keep it 112 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:03,640 going for about a week and then it just seems to fizzle out for 113 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:06,440 a while until something sparks interests again. 114 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:08,640 Yeah, she said. I hope that makes sense. 115 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:12,240 Yeah, it does. So you can give your take on it 116 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:13,760 if you like and then I'll throw my 2. 117 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:16,800 Cents I'm trying to think like, you know, incorporating it into 118 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:20,280 your everyday life, especially like when there's like other 119 00:06:20,280 --> 00:06:23,120 people around that you can't necessarily know, like have no, 120 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:25,400 you do things. You can always wear things 121 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:27,800 people can't see, you know what I mean? 122 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:30,320 Like he can always wear something small, like a little 123 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:33,480 lock around his like, you know, neck or something, and you have 124 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:36,320 the key or even like if you wanted to be crazy, he could 125 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:39,840 even be somewhat caged and you can cold as key and he can go to 126 00:06:39,840 --> 00:06:42,800 work with that fucking cage on and you can have that key with 127 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:44,720 you and you can send him little pictures of it during the day. 128 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:46,880 Be like have your key, like stuff like that. 129 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:50,440 Or you know, you can wear sexy underwear or make him wear shit 130 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:53,280 you know. Yeah, how about making him wear 131 00:06:53,280 --> 00:06:54,040 panties? That's. 132 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:55,440 What I'm saying make him wear panties. 133 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:58,320 Yeah, make him wear a little bralette or something like that. 134 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,400 Yeah, right. You can even write like your 135 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:03,720 name on his back and when he goes to work, like his name's on 136 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:05,160 there. I mean, your name's on there. 137 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:08,720 So you know like you claim him like property of so and so. 138 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:12,080 Right, right. Even with like Sharpie put it 139 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:14,280 over the top. Put it on his thighs, and every 140 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:16,720 time he, like, goes to the bathroom, he can see it, you 141 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:19,240 know? Yeah, Something fun like that. 142 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:20,400 Yeah. You can get him a little 143 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:23,320 matching like chain bracelets that aren't that are very 144 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:24,800 discreet but he'll know what they. 145 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:27,960 Are you know exactly? There's there's plenty of like 146 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:31,240 discreet things you can do to keep it going and also y'all can 147 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:33,360 text each other and be kinky during the day. 148 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:36,240 So what? The. 149 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:41,120 Fuck are you doing? Sorry, we have Charles in the 150 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:44,600 corner doing charades. He didn't want a mic, but now he 151 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:47,360 wants to put in his input and now he's in the corner waving 152 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:50,120 his arms. We gave him a, We gave him the 153 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:52,320 option for a. Mic and he said no. 154 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:57,240 He just wanted to listen and say I said write it on his pubis, 155 00:07:57,240 --> 00:07:59,680 and you're doing the little motion there like you cross your 156 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:02,440 belly. So Charles, what would you have 157 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:04,240 her write on? On his belly? 158 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:07,440 Yeah. OK. 159 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:11,520 Yeah, yeah, right. It's sexy. 160 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:15,360 Yeah, stuff like that or like they typically you see like more 161 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:18,000 girls wearing it because girls wear more necklaces, but they 162 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:23,600 even make really discreet like collar type necklaces that like 163 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:25,320 you can wear out. Like I know there's some like 164 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:29,400 Infinity collars that you only know it's a collar if you know 165 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:31,800 like kink, everybody else will just think it's a necklace. 166 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:33,720 You know, you can always do stuff like that too. 167 00:08:34,159 --> 00:08:36,720 And then, you know, text each other, be a little kinky over 168 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:39,840 text, you know, that's kind of fun as well. 169 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:43,559 Yeah, You know, I think that those are all really good tips. 170 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:46,520 I think, you know, if you want to take it up the next level, 171 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:49,160 you know, on a Friday night, fucking drug his ass and the 172 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:50,600 next morning he's chained to the bed. 173 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:53,800 The next level, Mia said. Take it to the next level and 174 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:57,840 skip like 8 levels we went from. Maybe wear a pair of panties to 175 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:03,520 get roofied. A little Benadryl goes a long 176 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:09,040 way, little Zana. Remind me? 177 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:13,760 Not to accept drinks from you. I'll wake up in the slave box. 178 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:20,520 I can't leave now, bitch. But you know, it's I'm joking 179 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:26,760 aside, but I'm really not. I am here of my own free will, I 180 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:33,000 promise. You know, my husband and I had 181 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:36,240 that dynamic. You know, I've also I always. 182 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:39,880 Like drugging him I. Have drugged him once before. 183 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:42,720 CNC kind of it was. Fun. 184 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:44,640 He wanted it. We we planned it. 185 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:46,360 Ahead of time. Randomly. 186 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:50,240 I'd hope so. He told me that was his fantasy, 187 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:51,000 and that's what. Happened. 188 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:52,880 I feel like that's kind of similar to people who are in the 189 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:57,720 kidnapping. Abduction, it was, you know, it 190 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:02,080 was an adult and yes, I've done that before, but it was, you 191 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:04,360 know, it was a fun scene. That's what they wanted. 192 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:07,720 So, Charles, is there a way that I fucked with you that it's kind 193 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:14,320 of like a mind fuck Jesus, like Barbie's giving you the mic and. 194 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:17,560 I'm trying to point it at him from across the road like here 195 00:10:17,560 --> 00:10:19,440 boy. Get up and talk into microphone. 196 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:24,920 Yeah, You a little bit broken, weren't you? 197 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:27,400 Broken down. And you know Charleston. 198 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:34,680 That's so fucking funny. I was already broken when we 199 00:10:34,680 --> 00:10:36,280 met. What the fuck? 200 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:42,880 Oh my God, it didn't. It did not take much work. 201 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:44,200 Oh. God, you know what it? 202 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:46,920 Was Charles is just like, you know, I'm 48 years old. 203 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:50,320 I've been through so much shit. I have fucked so many women. 204 00:10:50,560 --> 00:10:52,960 It's kind of like I'm just going to program myself to. 205 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:55,080 Like I'm just going to go sit in the corner, man. 206 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:57,360 Do you need something while I'm out? 207 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:04,040 But you know, I, it really just goes back to connection And I, I 208 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:07,880 like the banana couple because they have such a cool energy 209 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:10,440 about them and they're so sweet. You know, they grew up in a 210 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:12,320 small town. They live in a small town. 211 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:14,480 You know, they work for their families. 212 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:19,040 And, you know, they said to switch it up a lot of times they 213 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:21,160 would, you know, they would draw. 214 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:25,320 I forget what they were doing. They were like drawing names or 215 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:28,680 whatever what they were doing, whether it was a switch or Dom 216 00:11:28,680 --> 00:11:32,360 for that night or, you know, sub or Dom, yeah, they would switch 217 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:33,760 it up. I don't remember what they said 218 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:39,280 they did specifically, but ultimately she's so cute. 219 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:43,480 She's talking about me. I'm just kidding. 220 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:44,600 She's talking about her little dog. 221 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:50,400 I got to take a picture of that, but but ultimately, you know, 222 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:54,240 they're such a cool couple and their dynamic is just so sweet 223 00:11:54,680 --> 00:11:59,200 and and it's endearing because they want to make it special for 224 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:01,160 one another, you know, and that's. 225 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:04,400 Really, effort is the biggest thing in any relationship, 226 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:07,880 especially in sex life, because anytime you hear about people, 227 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:11,080 especially vanilla people's, like sex life issues, it can 228 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:14,840 always seem like it'd be fixed if like one or both parties just 229 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:18,240 put in more effort or even took the time to ask what the other 230 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:21,480 person wants or like, you know, what they're interested in, you 231 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:24,200 know? It's so cool that this couple is 232 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:28,640 like actively searching for advice to make their sex life 233 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:31,400 more appealing and to make it more fun for both of them. 234 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:34,840 And the fact that they're exploring enough to even change 235 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:37,920 the dynamic over time. Because I feel like sometimes 236 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:42,440 people get so stuck in their one dynamic and they stop exploring 237 00:12:42,440 --> 00:12:44,360 'cause they just stay there and they get bored of it. 238 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:47,280 But the fact that they're continuously exploring and 239 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:50,640 evolving is like, really cool. Yeah, absolutely. 240 00:12:51,560 --> 00:12:59,040 You know, and the fact that, you know, programming his mind to be 241 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:02,720 a submissive in a sense, you know, it's so new to to both of 242 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:06,040 them that to me, I think that's, there's a lot of technique to 243 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:06,800 that. Yeah. 244 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:09,040 You know. Make him pack the lunches if 245 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:12,200 that's what y'all do. Yeah, make him, make him make. 246 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:14,160 Him be a little housemaid. Exactly. 247 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:18,360 Make him do things that you know are so. 248 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:22,040 Make him drop you off and pick you up from work, even if it's 249 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:27,400 out of his way. Listen to Barbie like she's not 250 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:29,160 even a serious relationship and man. 251 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:33,040 She's hopping this shit out. That's great though. 252 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:37,520 Those are fabulous ideas. Make your husband your servant. 253 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:42,040 I'm just kidding. Yeah, you know what's really 254 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:45,040 funny is, you know, I'll tell my husband, you know, just random 255 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:46,200 shit. And he's like, really? 256 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:49,200 Is there anything else I can do? I'm like, oh, abso fucking 257 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:51,120 lutely. Here, let me give you a list, 258 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:53,520 little bitch. You mean my houseboy? 259 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:56,000 Shut the fuck up. You know, he'll sometimes he'll 260 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:59,160 kind of step back and of course it's after he has an orgasm, you 261 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:02,200 know, the same day. And I'm like, you remember how 262 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:04,160 privileged you were that I fucked you? 263 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:07,280 You remember how privileged you were that I put you in the back 264 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:10,760 bed or tied you up? You remember these things, then 265 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:14,000 he it just clicks on him very, very quickly, like. 266 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:17,040 Oh, see, I do that with my guy friends, but they don't get 267 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:20,080 anything from me. Yeah, I'm just, I'll call them 268 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:22,480 and I'll be like, hey, I have to put something up, can you come 269 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:23,880 over and do that? And they'll just be like, yeah, 270 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:26,040 sure. I'm just like, OK, cool. 271 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:28,440 So I love having people like that. 272 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:31,280 My big suggestion is tease and denial. 273 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:34,240 Don't let him come. Yeah, yeah, don't let him come. 274 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:37,200 Let him be submissive. It's also so much fun. 275 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:39,840 It is. It is right. 276 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:41,920 It is. It's fun for both parties 277 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:46,680 because you know you feel desired because he wants you and 278 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:50,200 then he feels he wants you because you know he wants you. 279 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:52,200 And that's just, it's just such a fun dynamic. 280 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:53,840 It's so cool. I feel like there's like a 281 00:14:53,840 --> 00:14:55,320 million things you could do with it. 282 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:59,760 Some control the fucking orgasms, you know, make him 283 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:03,440 right before he comes. Let him know this is a fucking 284 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:08,200 privilege. And you know, I keep wanting to 285 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:11,000 call her by her name, and I'm not going to say her name, but 286 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:16,640 Miss Banana, you need to control every fucking aspect of his life 287 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:20,240 and you need to make little parts of his life miserable at 288 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:23,840 times. Charles laughs, and he knows 289 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:26,520 that I'm right. You know, it's winter time. 290 00:15:26,520 --> 00:15:29,040 Make him wear those fucking stockings under his pants. 291 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:32,240 You know do. Things like I said, a cage. 292 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:36,560 There you go, you can. Buy the non like insane cages 293 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:38,840 that are just slightly uncomfortable you know? 294 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:41,400 Absolutely. But that that's kind of a lot of 295 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:44,560 guys think that's being as hot, like getting caged and you 296 00:15:44,560 --> 00:15:49,480 having the key. 100 percent, 100%. 297 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:54,520 So now, yes, tell us what you're going to tell us about the piss 298 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:57,320 play. Oh, it wasn't a big story, but I 299 00:15:57,320 --> 00:16:01,040 posted a picture on fat like I think last night actually. 300 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:04,480 And it was me and two friends. And obviously if you listen to 301 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:08,040 the podcast, you know, we're all Goths and we had our crazy 302 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:10,720 makeup on. And I said something like, it 303 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:14,520 was a really stupid caption. I was drinking wine and I said 304 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:17,640 hot Goths near you looking for someone to sacrifice. 305 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:22,280 I saw that I commented on it. And I'll pull it up. 306 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:27,320 So I got I got a few DMS over it, but I will say I'll start 307 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:29,000 with the PIS one, then I'll go to the other one. 308 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:30,840 But you. You all look dynamite in it. 309 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:32,160 Thank you really. Did I? 310 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:36,720 I'm 98% sure this person has messaged me before but I can't 311 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:39,320 remember. But they said can I set up a 312 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:41,560 session with the three goth goddesses. 313 00:16:41,760 --> 00:16:46,280 Mind you, my two friends do not like, they're not dominatrixes 314 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:49,840 or anything. They're just there where you 315 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:53,280 kick me, beat me with belts and whips and I drink all of your 316 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:58,080 golden showers. I was like, well, that's a lot. 317 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:00,440 That's a lot. But you know what, Barbie and I 318 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:02,920 will do that. Mia will do that. 319 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:05,960 Oh, do you still have a problem with being? 320 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:07,880 I don't know. I haven't done it yet. 321 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:10,440 We'll see how I feel later. You know I was going. 322 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:13,839 To it's so hit or miss for me to tell if I'm going to be OK with 323 00:17:13,839 --> 00:17:16,680 it or not. Depends on the day and then this 324 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:18,160 guy. Depends on the day I love. 325 00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:22,079 It this guy is a Dom and his profile talks about how dominant 326 00:17:22,079 --> 00:17:25,880 he is and then the message title is will you hurt me? 327 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:30,560 And then the message is, I have a need to release a part of my 328 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:33,360 soul that I don't want anymore. A good feel. 329 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:40,400 Can you stop I'm talking please now I'm going to start over 330 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:44,200 please. This Dom messaged me going will 331 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:46,920 you hurt me? I have a need to release a part 332 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:50,640 of my soul that I don't want anymore and a good female Dom is 333 00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:53,840 my best solution. Please dominate me Mistress. 334 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:56,880 Why are you listed as a Dom? List yourself as a sweat. 335 00:17:57,280 --> 00:17:59,640 Oh, girlfriend. If you're going to be in my DMS, 336 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:03,560 will you hurt me? Stand the fuck up. 337 00:18:05,120 --> 00:18:07,440 No, she, no, I'm just kidding. I'm being mean 'cause I think 338 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:09,080 it's funny. Oh, it is hilarious. 339 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:15,640 Oh, it's it's since we're doing DMSI got this DM from this girl. 340 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:19,640 And the way it was worded, it sounded like someone was running 341 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:23,120 the account for her. Like listen how she worded it. 342 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:26,600 I wanted to ask if you're looking for a sub of any kind. 343 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:29,400 Here's my and then they said here's blank stats. 344 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:31,960 I'm not gonna say her name, but it's written in third person. 345 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:38,720 And then she goes height 54 weight 150 I she likes loving, 346 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:42,000 caring, but is most importantly wants to be dominated, loves 347 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:47,360 meteorology, nature and long walks sexuality, pansexual. 348 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:50,640 But I would so I responded and I don't usually respond to people, 349 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:54,320 but I'm so curious because the profile is also worded like this 350 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:56,280 is ran by somebody. They're like if you're 351 00:18:56,280 --> 00:18:59,640 interested in any of the slaves like something like what the 352 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:02,640 fuck is this? So I respond being like, hey, 353 00:19:03,520 --> 00:19:05,880 thanks for the message. Who am I talking to? 354 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:08,560 Like, is she running this account? 355 00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:10,320 And then she's like, oh, yeah, I run this account. 356 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:13,360 I was just trying to be quirky. And I was like, well, girl, I 357 00:19:13,360 --> 00:19:15,480 thought I was talking to like, a vending machine or something. 358 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:17,560 I had no clue what was happening there. 359 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:19,960 I thought someone was trying to sell me something. 360 00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:21,760 I got scared. Girlfriend, she wrote. 361 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:23,440 Me too. Did she really? 362 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:26,440 She did same thing. She did, yeah, but I have her 363 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:29,600 number and I exchanged text messages with her. 364 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:30,240 She's. Cute. 365 00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:32,040 I'm not judging. Her, but the message Beautiful. 366 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:34,840 The message threw me off hard because of how it's written. 367 00:19:35,240 --> 00:19:37,400 Here's her stats. Like we're talking about like a 368 00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:38,760 third party. And I was like. 369 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:41,800 Well, you know, here's the thing. 370 00:19:42,120 --> 00:19:44,240 And you know, a lot of trans people do this. 371 00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:47,880 Yeah, they'll say transfer. Contacts they'll say I have, I 372 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:50,920 have my dead name and a lot of times they'll talk about 373 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:52,640 themselves in third person with yeah. 374 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:56,200 Because their profile was like so and so's back and I, I was 375 00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:59,080 just, well, I mainly asked because I wanted to make sure I 376 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:01,520 wasn't speaking to an existing dynamic. 377 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:03,120 Yeah. Because I do like that kind of 378 00:20:03,120 --> 00:20:04,040 stuff. Disclosed. 379 00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:05,520 Yeah. Because it's fine if your 380 00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:09,120 partner runs your FET and like goes to and talks to people for 381 00:20:09,120 --> 00:20:10,120 you. That's fine. 382 00:20:10,120 --> 00:20:11,640 That is a big part of people's dynamics. 383 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:13,720 Yes, I need to know because I don't. 384 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:16,440 Because if I'm think I'm talking to her but in real life I'm 385 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:18,160 talking to her boyfriend or her girlfriend. 386 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:19,840 Like I need to know who I'm speaking with. 387 00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:22,120 That was actually something I asked her to. 388 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:26,880 I didn't say that, but I said So what dynamic would or what part 389 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:28,520 would your girlfriend be playing? 390 00:20:28,560 --> 00:20:31,680 Yeah, there was something about the girlfriend in there and I 391 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:34,560 think I just got confused by it all, but she was really sweet. 392 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:37,560 I haven't responded to her again just because I haven't thought 393 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:41,280 of anything, but is she like interested in booking or was she 394 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:43,440 just looking for? She's actually looking for a 395 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:46,560 lifestyle fun, like friends, you know, play. 396 00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:48,560 I wouldn't mind. I was going to message her 397 00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:51,200 because I don't really play with people I don't know. 398 00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:53,080 And I was going to tell her like, hey, I mean, if you want 399 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:56,000 to come to the parties and you we want to get to know each 400 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:57,920 other over time, we can consider that. 401 00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:00,360 Because I really, I don't play with strangers. 402 00:21:00,360 --> 00:21:02,080 I'm pretty consistent about that too. 403 00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:05,520 Yeah, You know, she's mid 20s. She's a college student and her 404 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:09,720 girlfriend is actually in another state in college, and 405 00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:12,800 she doesn't drive. She said she grew up in a very 406 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:15,040 strict home. I said, oh honey, I will teach 407 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:17,280 you how to drive. It's a trans girl that's sad 408 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:18,720 and. It's that's crazy. 409 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:21,080 Well, maybe we can scoop her up, bring her to some party. 410 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:23,080 That's what I said. Look, see. 411 00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:24,360 Yeah, we want to bring her in the. 412 00:21:24,360 --> 00:21:26,560 Fold. Well, yeah, and, and my whole 413 00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:29,160 thing about not playing with like random people, it's just a 414 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:31,360 personal preference. Oh no, that's fine. 415 00:21:31,360 --> 00:21:34,440 I I told her that I'm more than happy to do like a BDSM scene 416 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:35,960 with. Her Oh yeah, I'll do normal 417 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:38,960 stuff with her, but I don't get into like those true lifestyle 418 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:42,560 dynamic stuff until I'm like close her friends with somebody. 419 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:46,200 She sent me a hot little. Video she asked me if I wanted 420 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:49,160 some and I'll this should I say yes and you did right? 421 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:50,600 I didn't. I haven't responded yet. 422 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:53,800 You got to She sent me. One I don't pay. 423 00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:55,720 For that. I don't pay for fat. 424 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:58,040 No, no, no, no. Oh, it was a text message. 425 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,040 She sent it to me. I gave her my phone number, OK. 426 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:02,080 Cool. Yeah, she sent me a little booty 427 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:04,160 bump. You know, little little booty 428 00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:05,960 bounce. Yeah, there was nothing wrong 429 00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:07,760 with what she sent. It just confused me. 430 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:12,240 Well, I told, I told her that my sub boy, my little foot boy over 431 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:18,320 here would want to hit that. I think about 58% of everyone at 432 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:23,120 your party would hit that. Yeah, say 80%, quite truthfully. 433 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:25,640 I mean a hot blonde girl like walks in. 434 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:28,160 Yeah, and. We're going to beat off people 435 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:30,480 with a stick. And her words were yeah. 436 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:33,640 Especially she's like you want pics and videos on my girl. 437 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:36,240 Yeah, her words were. I've got enough cake to go 438 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:38,360 around. I bet she does. 439 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:41,720 I bet she does, right? She, sure enough, does OK. 440 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:43,400 Maybe she'll enjoy the glory hole then. 441 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:48,160 Naughty, naughty. I love that. 442 00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:51,200 That'd be some hot videos. We got to, we got to set that. 443 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:52,840 She want to be in the girl on girl section. 444 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:56,080 Throw a little Dick in the neck. Right, yeah, she said. 445 00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:59,880 She's pansexual. They like Charles is rubbing his 446 00:22:59,880 --> 00:23:03,000 hands like I need a good blowjob. 447 00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:07,280 And pansexuals like everybody too. 448 00:23:07,360 --> 00:23:10,800 Right, they're down to clown. More down than the bisexuals. 449 00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:14,480 Absolutely. I always joke that pansexuals 450 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:16,040 and bisexuals are the same thing. 451 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:17,960 You just pick whatever flag you like better. 452 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:22,760 They're they're basically the same thing. 453 00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:27,760 Yeah. Pansexuality kind of came around 454 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:31,200 back in the day when people still thought bisexuality didn't 455 00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:34,960 include trans people. But now bisexuality has and 456 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:37,960 always will, like, include transsexual people. 457 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:39,960 So now they're basically the same thing. 458 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:43,360 I think there's very small differences, but the, the Venn 459 00:23:43,360 --> 00:23:46,120 diagram of some of the sexualities overlap so hard. 460 00:23:46,120 --> 00:23:49,080 So it's kind of down to like what you just want to identify 461 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:50,120 as. Yeah. 462 00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:52,600 That's why I always joke. You just pick whatever color 463 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,560 flag you like the best because it all it's so. 464 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:58,440 True because it's so true. I'm a little buy bracelet. 465 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:01,800 That's hilarious. I love it. 466 00:24:02,360 --> 00:24:06,680 So there was a question that Charles had and and we were 467 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:09,080 talking about this and he's like, what would you consider a 468 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:11,720 body count? Would it be penetration? 469 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:15,360 Would it just be oral? You know, would it be if it's, 470 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:19,840 you know, actual intercourse, would it be, you know, full of 471 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:21,840 penetration? Would you consider? 472 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:25,960 I feel like I feel like whatever, I guess, like then 473 00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:29,000 like if you go into like, oh, penetration within lesbians, I 474 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:32,120 feel like specifically with like girl on girl or like femme on 475 00:24:32,120 --> 00:24:34,880 femme sex. If you're both like eating each 476 00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:37,760 other out to like completion, y'all both been inside each 477 00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:41,160 other, whether with implements with your fingers, like I count 478 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,120 that as sex. Like if you're both giving each 479 00:24:43,120 --> 00:24:46,120 other like oral and you're fully naked and it's a bunch of stuff 480 00:24:46,120 --> 00:24:49,400 happening like that's sex. Like I feel like it's not 481 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:53,680 classified the same as like, you know, a boy and girl having sex 482 00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:55,840 because there's penetration or like two guys. 483 00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:58,520 So it's a little different, but I that's how I would count it. 484 00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:00,760 You know what I mean? Like if someone folks with a 485 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:04,320 strap like a girl, that's sex. That's just how girls have sex. 486 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:05,160 You know what? I. 487 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:06,520 Mean. Yeah, Yeah. 488 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:08,840 That's how I feel about. It I think you said earlier, 489 00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:11,120 rubbing bits together. Yeah, if your bits touch, that's 490 00:25:11,120 --> 00:25:13,360 sex. Yeah, bumping uglies. 491 00:25:13,360 --> 00:25:16,880 That's why they call it that. Well, Charles, I think your 492 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:21,960 numbers just went up. Specifically with like if 493 00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:25,280 there's two people with vaginas, I that's that's my rule for if 494 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:27,440 you slept with them. Yeah, like scissoring. 495 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:30,120 It's it's sad. You know, a lot of my lesbian 496 00:25:30,120 --> 00:25:32,520 friends have told me scissoring just does not work. 497 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:38,480 I've never tried it but they say it's a lot of work and that it's 498 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:43,520 mostly like show and I'm like Makes for good videos I guess. 499 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:46,400 Well, you know, I think it would be really cool if they had like 500 00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:49,400 a like a double headed dildo doing the scissoring I mean. 501 00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:53,480 That like they make these grinding pads now, like for 502 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:56,120 masturbation that you can like strap to a pillow. 503 00:25:56,120 --> 00:25:58,480 I wonder if you could put something like that in there. 504 00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:01,240 That'd be really cool. Have you ever scissored anybody, 505 00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:03,200 Mia? Oh, absolutely. 506 00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:04,680 Really. Oh yeah. 507 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:05,680 Did it work for you? No. 508 00:26:06,120 --> 00:26:10,120 No, now it was more or less we're rubbing each others clits, 509 00:26:10,120 --> 00:26:12,240 so yeah. Yeah, it's like you could do 510 00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:13,280 that easier with your. Hands. 511 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,200 Exactly. Exactly. 512 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:18,200 I think more just the the ceremony of it is what was high, 513 00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:20,360 you know? Whenever I would get involved 514 00:26:20,360 --> 00:26:23,600 with a woman, for some reason I always got, you know, beautiful 515 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:25,360 black women because I love black women. 516 00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:28,640 But they were all fucking pillow princesses. 517 00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:31,160 Yeah, I don't like. Pillow princesses. 518 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:35,640 Yeah, so many of them were and. And they acted just like dudes. 519 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:40,200 It was like after that orgasm, it's like, yeah, OK, I'm done. 520 00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:43,600 Yeah, I, I like, I like people who put an effort. 521 00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:45,800 So like if I'm putting an effort, you put an effort. 522 00:26:46,120 --> 00:26:49,320 But we were just doing like the Tinder thing, you know, It was a 523 00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:51,800 hit at our, you know. Those are the kind of girls that 524 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:53,520 need the like the touch me knots. 525 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:55,040 You know what I mean? That I told you about. 526 00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:57,920 Yeah, yeah. I've noticed like girls who are 527 00:26:57,920 --> 00:27:00,520 used to like masculine lesbians are like that. 528 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:03,840 Like girls who are used to dating like real Butch girls and 529 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,400 stuff Like they, they kind of fall into that little bit of a 530 00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:09,080 gender role where the Butch usually doesn't like getting 531 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:13,040 touched and but the femme does. So it kind of ends up being like 532 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,920 pillow Princess territory. But I've also never understood 533 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,200 the appeal of being a pillow Princess. 534 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,600 Yeah, I don't know. But you know, when you're 535 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,960 describing it like that, I was more or less the Butch in the 536 00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,640 relationship. Well, I've had hookup, like not 537 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,400 hookups, but I've had times where I've like slept with like 538 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:33,600 one of my partners and like, I was more of a pillow Princess 539 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:35,640 just like, but like not all the time. 540 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:37,560 Like there'd be like sometimes I'm like, I'm just gonna lay 541 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,200 here, bitch. You do whatever you need to do. 542 00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:42,680 I'm tired. But like, I couldn't imagine 543 00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,440 being like that every time. Like just get bored. 544 00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:48,000 Yeah, it get it get really monotonous. 545 00:27:48,120 --> 00:27:49,880 It makes me feel like they don't like sex. 546 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:55,640 Yeah, like, I don't know, I I was involved with someone and he 547 00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:57,240 would always like to see me with other women. 548 00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,040 Well, we had a long distance relationship. 549 00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,720 A cook a bit. Yeah, he was very much a cock. 550 00:28:02,120 --> 00:28:06,840 So I would record, you know, my relations with men and women and 551 00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:10,040 that kind of thing. But yeah, yeah. 552 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:11,960 He loved that shit and it was fun. 553 00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:15,360 But eventually I was just like, yeah, you know, women are great. 554 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:17,480 And I consider myself a little bi. 555 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,920 Yeah, maybe a little pan, however you want to describe it, 556 00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,040 you know? But ultimately, you want some of 557 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:23,680 that Dick. Yeah. 558 00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,080 You know well. You can have a genital 559 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,040 preference and still be bisexual. 560 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,720 Exactly you can. And I tell people that all the 561 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:35,080 time because I do I, I prefer like Dick, honestly. 562 00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,640 I was gonna say, you know, when it comes to oral though, I 563 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:41,000 always like to feel a man's face versus a woman's. 564 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:43,200 Yeah. It's bit of the. 565 00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:45,640 But the power thing? For me, maybe so. 566 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:48,680 I think I like when I think I like when men go down on me a 567 00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:51,280 bit more, not because men are quote, UN quote better at it, 568 00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:53,840 but because it's it's it feels more powerful. 569 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:55,600 Like, yeah, get down there, bitch with a girl. 570 00:28:55,600 --> 00:29:01,440 I'm like, oh, sorry, Ally. You know, one of my friends from 571 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:04,760 school that we we were close friends for the longest time 572 00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:07,240 after I got married, for some reason she thought it would be 573 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:10,240 cool to come in my bathroom. I was taking a shower and like 574 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:12,240 basically try to molest me in the shower. 575 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:16,000 After you got married or after? After I got married and I was 576 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,760 like, no, and she's just straight up stripper and I 577 00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:22,200 really love her and care about her, but I just wasn't down with 578 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,320 that, you know? Yeah. 579 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:25,480 It's just not fun. I don't. 580 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:31,080 It's not I, I will say like, you know, girls, I think maybe 581 00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:34,000 because I've, I've always been like, queer in some sense. 582 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:37,520 I never understood it, but I never understood straight girls 583 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,840 who basically, like, are all over each other. 584 00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:42,880 It's literally insane. Like, I used to know straight 585 00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:46,400 girls that would, like, cuddle naked when they slept, like out 586 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:47,880 of each other's house. I'm like, oh, we're just 587 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:49,680 friends. Or like they would change in 588 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:51,800 front of each other and just be naked and grab each other's 589 00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:53,800 tits. And I'm like, Oh my God. 590 00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:56,600 Maybe I think of it differently because I'm actually attracted 591 00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:59,080 to women. So it means something if I'm 592 00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,080 like, engaging with. Yeah. 593 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:03,520 But I always thought that was so weird. 594 00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:05,480 And I'm always like, I feel like they're closeted. 595 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,280 Because yeah. What like I knew girls who would 596 00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:11,400 full on and make out with their best friends the second alcohol 597 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:15,200 touched their bloodstream. And I'm like, you are bisexual. 598 00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:18,240 Like just I've said this a million Times Now. 599 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,800 The world would be a better place if people just admitted 600 00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:24,960 they were bisexual, but I don't. I've never been a fan of like 601 00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:27,800 unwanted touch, even from like my girlfriends and stuff. 602 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:32,840 Like I never liked when girls would smack my butt or like grab 603 00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:36,720 at my butt or sit on my lap or hang off of me like some of my 604 00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:40,360 really close friends. I don't mind like cuddling for 605 00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:44,760 watching a movie, but not like intense spoon like romantic 606 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:46,560 cuddling. It's more like I have my arm 607 00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:48,040 around you and I have my head on you. 608 00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:50,160 Like, just like friendly stuff. Friendly stuff. 609 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:52,680 I've never. I had a girl in high school once 610 00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:56,400 run up behind me and smack me on the ass and it triggered such a 611 00:30:56,400 --> 00:31:00,520 primal fight or flight in me. I was like, you are so lucky I 612 00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:03,920 saw who you were because I almost freaked out on you 613 00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:04,520 because. Yeah. 614 00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:07,360 For me, it feels it's the same if a man does it. 615 00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,440 Yeah, like it. Even in the club. 616 00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:11,920 Like if a girl's like trying to be nice and she, like, touches 617 00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:14,360 me, it feels the same as if a man did it. 618 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:16,560 And I'm like, you got it. You cannot touch me like that. 619 00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:17,960 And I'm not allowed to act the same. 620 00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:19,960 Yeah, because, oh, it's a girl. Girl. 621 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:22,680 Gay men do it too. Well, I hate when gay men touch. 622 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:25,040 Me, I hate that. Yeah, oh, I just don't like 623 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:28,920 don't touch strangers. Let's fun fact PSA don't touch 624 00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:32,440 strangers. So true. 625 00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:33,920 I think we're going to end it on that now. 626 00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:40,640 So informative. So if there's topics that you as 627 00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:43,000 our listeners want to listen to and what Barbie and I would 628 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,440 discuss, let's get down to it, yeah. 629 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:47,000 We'll do it. Feel free to send us the 630 00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,360 messages on FET with some topics. 631 00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:53,080 What's your Fetlife name? Oh, Mistress Mia Ray. 632 00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:55,640 Yep, and I'm B under score Barbie. 633 00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:58,240 There you go. Feel free to cuss us out there. 634 00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:03,920 OK, all right bitches. Until then, may all your 635 00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:05,960 fantasies become. Reality.