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I'm so happy to be amongst you 
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sisters. 
I'm encouraged by the things I'm

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seeing. 
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married. 
That's, that's a, that's a 

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blessing. 
I'm saddened because I, I didn't

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get to hear my brother seen the 
doxology today. 

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It's always a blessing to hear 
him sing. 

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But I know that they're doing 
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So I'm encouraged some new 
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the last time you guys have seen
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I know some of you are aware, 
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I've been elected or selected as
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pastors in my congregation. 
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So I ask for your prayers in 
that regard. 

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I also ask that you pray for 
Miriam, as she's now responsible

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for the children in our church. 
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So I ask that you guys continue 
to pray for us. 

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So today, you know, everybody 
knows it's Father's Day. 

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Happy Father's Day to all the 
fathers in the room. 

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Thank you for. 
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see you, haven't seen you in a 
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you and the baby. 
It's a blessing. 

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But let's pray before we get 
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So it is a Father's Day sermon, 
but we'll flesh it out a little 

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bit. 
So let us lead in prayer. 

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Father God, we give you thanks, 
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Lord, we thank you for this 
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us to come here and fellowship. 
Lord, I ask that you continue to

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bless us and strengthen us and 
that you give me your words 

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today. 
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Let me be filled with your 
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as you have given it to me, to 
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Let it be planted in our minds 
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may go forward. 
Lord, I pray for John, Michael 

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and those that are for traveling
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their men's conference. 
I ask that you just bless them, 

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strengthen them, guide them and 
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Lord, I pray over from our local
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Hampton Roads fellowship. 
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giving the sermon today, Lord, 
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that our church be blessed as 
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Lord, we ask you all this, in 
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So the title of our sermon today
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of our Heavenly Father. 
So our main point is going to be

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because God has adopted us as 
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are called to live as faithful 
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the character of our Heavenly 
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So as you guys know, today is 
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For many, it is a day of joy, 
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For others, it can be difficult.
Some had wonderful fathers who 

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modeled godliness. 
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fathers, harsh fathers, or 
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The good news of the gospel is 
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the best of them, is only a 
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So even myself, I'm just a 
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The greatest privilege of the 
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that our sins are forgiven, 
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It is not merely that heaven 
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And we become his children. 
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primarily on earthly fathers, 
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be faithful children of our 
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So .1 A good child knows the 
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First to John chapter 3 verse 
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the Father has bestowed on us, 
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Children of God and such we are.
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Christianity does not begin with
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It begins with God's love, 
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His sacrifice is the beginning 
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Notice John's amazement. 
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got over the wonder that God 
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family. 
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also we are adopted into his 
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We were not naturally God's 
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our sins. 
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permanent and legally binding. 
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get those same rights as 
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That is what God has done for 
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David sinned grievously, yet he 
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love. 
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surely goodness and loving 
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days of my life. 
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to me, O God, according to your 
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So David understood what God's 
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Even though he understood that 
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Fault a flawed man that he 
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After his sin with Bathsheba, 
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permanently. 
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knew the Father's mercy. 
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his own righteousness, but in 
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A good child knows he can return
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is greater than his failures. 
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world that says we are too 
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Let us not be confused as we as 
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short, we can always fall to the
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Jesus Christ. 
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Father's love. 
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they must continually earn God's
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And that's so sad of me, because
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They obey from fear rather than 
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confidence in his love. 
You do not obey so that God will

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love you. 
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does. 
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For I am sure that neither 
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rulers, nor things presents, nor
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height, nor death, nor anything 
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Creation will be able to. 
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in Christ Jesus our Lord. 
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creation, so not even we 
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the love of God. 
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Father's wisdom. 
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through 6 says Trust in the Lord
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lean on your own understanding. 
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Acknowledge Him and He will make
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Proverbs 3/5 through 61 mark of 
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to trust their parents. 
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the reasons behind a parent's 
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Likewise, there are many times 
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ways. 
Why suffering? 

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Why am I suffering? 
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suffer? 
Why delays? 

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I'm praying so hard for this so 
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not answered yet? 
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Every Christian struggles with 
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That's we're not. 
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walk through walls, right? 
Why close doors? 

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Why not this? 
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Hebrews Chapter 11 verse 8 says 
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called, obeyed by going out to a
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for an inheritance, and he went 
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going. 
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didn't know the destination. 
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leading him. 
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Abraham waited decades for that 
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His wife laughed when she heard 
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was going to have a child. 
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Human wisdom would have said 
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was counted to him as his 
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So when we get into those 
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God, where we don't understand 
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understand why we are going 
through these trials, we have to

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trust that God is going to take 
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We have to believe in the 
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We have to believe that he's 
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going to do. 
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office may cry during a 
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The child believes the parent is
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The parent understands what the 
child cannot in the same way God

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sees what we cannot. 
His perspective is eternal. 

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His wisdom is perfect. 
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God has liberated me from things
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and that the foreshadowing that 
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has led me to where He has now, 
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stayed in those positions, who 
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happened. 
I gave a sermon not too long ago

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and what in one of the sermons I
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who's actually he was the same 
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We grew up together. 
He's actually named after the 

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same person as me, my dad, and 
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Alex got addicted to drugs. 
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Alex wound up in prison and 
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life pretty early a few years 
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But I say to I start to marry 
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you know, I don't know that my 
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different than his if I didn't 
have the Lord and praise God for

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that. 
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guided me in my life, if I 
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faithful to Christ, I don't know
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different. 
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We had the same grandparents. 
We were raised this practically 

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the same other than my my father
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I'm so thankful that I've been 
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led me in my life and we as 
children of God need to be led 

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by Him. 
Faith is trusting God's heart 

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when you cannot trace his hand. 
A faithful child says, father, I

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don't understand, but I trust 
you number .3. 

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A good child obeys the Father's 
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John chapter 14 verse 15 says if
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commandments. 
Jesus does not say if you love 

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He says if you love me, you will
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Love for God is demonstrated, 
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Obedience is the is the visible 
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We must be careful here. 
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Legalism seeks to earn God's 
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The gospel tells us that in 
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Father's favor. 
We obey not for acceptance, but 

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from acceptance. 
We obey because we are love 

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children, not because we are 
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Throughout Scripture, God's 
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obedience, their faithfulness. 
Obedience is not what makes us 

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God's children, but it's 
evidence that we belong to Him. 

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The mark of a true believer is 
not perfect obedience. 

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None of us obey perfectly this 
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The mark of a true believer is 
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A heart that desires to follow 
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when it falls, and continually 
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ways. 
The child of God asks different 

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question than the world asks. 
We ask, what pleases my Father? 

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How can I honor him? 
How can I glorify Him? 

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What would bring Him joy? 
How can I reflect His character 

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in my home, in my workplace, and
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As we were returing Christ, 
obedience becomes less about 

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rules and more about 
relationship. 

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We obey because we know and love
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Amen. 
We as children of God seek to 

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obey Him because we love Him. 
Our hearts desires to please 

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Him. 
One of the main tenants of the 

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of the Solas is what solely day 
of Gloria. 

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To God alone be the glory 
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children. 
They obey even when no one is 

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watching. 
The obedient child understands 

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that the Father's eyes are 
always upon him. 

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He does not merely perform 
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others. 
He seeks integrity before God. 

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Character is who you are when no
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Keep your conduct among the 
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may see your good deeds and 
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visitation. 
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Obedient children. 

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They obey even when it's 
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Anyone can obey when. 
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The true test is when obedience 
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or perseverance. 
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becomes difficult, or do we 
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Faithfulness is often revealed 
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The Scriptures are full of godly
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Last I checked, none of them 
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they were obedient to God, 
received the God breathed 

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Scriptures, and wrote as they 
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And as he said earlier, 66 books
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written God breathed into these 
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Not a single one of them is 
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still wrote the books of the 
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Fishermen, a tax collector, a 
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farmer, Kings, a doctor, 
Educated and uneducated, yet 

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they were obedient to their 
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I'm tired of hearing Christians 
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I can't. 
What do you mean you can't? 

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You don't trust in God when you 
say things like that. 

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You're saying that you don't 
believe and you don't trust in 

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an all powerful God. 
We're taking power from God and 

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we're trying to give it to 
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We're trying to say we know 
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us when we talk like that. 
A fig farmer wrote a scripture, 

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wrote something that we still 
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2000 years ago. 
There are no excuses when it 

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comes to working for the things 
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Men of God, women of God, let's 
go forward and what God has 

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called us to do. 
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inconvenient, sometimes it could
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know how we're going to get 
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But we have to trust in our God 
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obedient children and take us 
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Obedient children obey even when
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Obedience may cost us 
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opportunities, or worldly 
success, potentially even our 

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freedoms or even our life. 
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that pleasing their Father is 
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world can offer. 
Jesus modeled this perfectly. 

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He never rebelled against his 
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He never pursued his own will 
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even in Gethsemane, facing the 
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not my will, but yours be done. 
Are we praying that in our own 

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lives, Brothers and sisters, 
when we're getting down to pray 

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to God? 
Are we saying not my will, but 

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yours? 
Father, can I be how you want me

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to be LED? 
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that he became obedient to the 
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cross. 
Where Adam failed as his son, 

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Christ succeeded. 
Where Israel failed as God's 

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people, Christ succeeded. 
The perfect son obeyed perfectly

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so that disobedient sons and 
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God's family. 
He obeyed perfectly so that we 

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can be made righteous in his 
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Praise God. 
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is not what can I get, get away 
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And if you're thinking like 
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your ways. 
The question is, what would 

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delight my father? 
Every single action, every time 

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you wake up, everything you 
should do should be praying in 

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your mind. 
Does this delight my Father? 

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Do these actions delight my 
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And if not, why am I seeking 
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my father? 
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can I get to sin, but how close 
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How close can I walk with Jesus?
How do I get closer to Christ? 

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A good child does not obey out 
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A good child obeys because he 
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And when he stumbles, he runs 
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his standing rests not of his 
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obedience of Christ. 
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his deepest desire is to hear 
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We want to all hear these words.
Well done, good and faithful 

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servant. 
Amen. 

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Point #4 I know we all got 
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trying not to be too. 
A good child reflects the 

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Father's character. 
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through 2 talks about be 
imitators of God as beloved 

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children. 
Children often resemble their 

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parents sometimes in appearance.
People tell me Carol looks a lot

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like me and I'm like no, she's 
too pretty to be to look like 

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me. 
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in habits, I look at a Laura and
I don't see a lot of resemblance

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in me or Miriam, you know, she 
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side of the family. 
But she does things and she acts

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her in ways that I'm like, man, 
that's Miriam all day. 

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Especially when she's yelling, 
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I'm just kidding. 
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should increasingly resemble 
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The world should see something 
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The way we speak, the way we 
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others should testify that we 
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The fruit of the Spirit should 
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perfectly, for only Christ is 
perfect, but there should be a 

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visible reflection of his light 
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The gospel is not only something
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it's something that should be 
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The gospel should reflect out of
us wherever we are and whatever 

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we do. 
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the world should be able to see 
His grace, truth and love 

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shining through us. 
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Jesus said love your enemies. 
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Because that is what our Father 
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For one will hardly die for a 
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for the good person someone 
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But God demonstrates His own 
love towards us in that while we

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were still sinners, Christ died 
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Praise God that while we were 
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He died for us when we didn't 
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Therefore, how do we reflect 
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We were in enmity with God, yet 
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us to save us, to bring us in 
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How do we treat those around 
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our enemies? 
Do we treat them with love, that

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same grace that God has shown 
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And if not, why not? 
Therefore, love your brothers 

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and sisters in Christ and do the
most loving thing you can do for

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unbelievers. 
Share the gospel of our living 

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God as we have been commanded 
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We also reflect His mercy. 
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being rich in mercy because 
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He loved us even when we were 
dead in our transgressions, made

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us alive together with Christ. 
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When we don't, it's because 
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pride. 
We're saying that we know better

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than God. 
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above God. 
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others, we're saying that we are
better than that person and we 

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are better than God. 
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that same love, love and mercy 
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others. 
The truest evidence that we are 

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children of our heavenly Father 
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but who we are, we are becoming.
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Christian spirit is a loving 
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God's children's bear the family
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their Father loves. 
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Father has loved you, pray that 
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We reflect His Holiness. 
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Holiness is not merely one of 
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His very nature. 
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holy is the Lord of hosts. 
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He is perfectly pure, completely
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from all sin and corruption. 
There is no darkness in Him at 

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all. 
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reflect the character of our 
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This is why Peter writes, be 
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you. 
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your behavior. 
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verse 15. 
God's children pursue holiness 

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because they belong to a holy 
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The pursuit is not an attempt to
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salvation. 
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response of a heart that has 
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So naturally you seek holiness 
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You are no longer in enmity with
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You want to get closer to God 
and he, he starts to bring you 

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in through this this 
sanctification process as you 

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begin to become more holy. 
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life. 
It shapes our thoughts, our 

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words, our relationships, our 
entertainment, our finances, our

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work ethic, and our private 
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Everything should magnify and 
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While we will not reach sinless 
perfection in this life, there 

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should be a growing pattern of 
transformation. 

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The Spirit of God works within 
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True believers stumble. 
We repent and continue pursuing 

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righteousness because the desire
for holiness has been planted 

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within them by God Himself. 
Let's not get stuck in our rut. 

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Let's not get stuck in our 
failures. 

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Let's not get stuck on the 
things that we've done in the 

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past or the mistakes that we've 
made. 

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Let's move forward and seek to 
grow in our holiness to God. 

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The world should be able to see 
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Not a self-righteous or 
judgmental spirit, but a 

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distinct life marked by purity, 
integrity, humility and 

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obedience. 
As we grow in holiness, we 

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display something of our 
Father's character to a watching

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world and bring glory to the one
who adopted us as his own. 

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But like the Holy One who called
you, be holy yourselves also in 

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all your behavior, because it is
written you should, you shall be

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holy, for I am holy first to 
Peter, chapter one, verse 15 

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through 16. 
We reflect His forgiveness. 

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God forgave us at an infinite 
cost, therefore we forgive 

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others. 
Sin is cosmic rebellion, and we 

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know that because the Scripture 
tells us it even affected the 

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ground. 
That's how a travesty sin is. 

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It's against God, but He forgave
us at an infinite cost because 

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He shed His perfect blood on the
cross of Calvary for us. 

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So we need to reflect that same 
forgiveness to those outside as 

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well. 
Be kind to one another, tender 

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hearted, forgiving each other, 
just as God in Christ has also 

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forgiving you. 
Ephesians chapter 4 verse 32. 

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We forgive because He has 
forgiven us in abundance. 

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To hold on to animosity, strife,
anger is to say that our God 

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isn't who He says He is, that 
He's not capable of doing 

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something. 
It's to say that we know better 

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than God. 
It's once again to put our pride

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about what God has called us to 
do. 

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His forgiveness of us should 
humble us to the point of so 

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much forgiveness for others that
we would be astonished at the 

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amount of relationships that 
would be mended if we actually 

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lived out how God has forgiven 
us. 

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Imagine the amount of 
relationships that would be 

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mended in the world. 
Imagine how full the churches 

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would be if us as Christians 
love those outside the way he 

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has loved us. 
Imagine the relationships within

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the church that would be mended,
those people who have church 

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heard, those people who have 
issues with all these things 

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that are going on that they've 
been cast out of a church. 

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Imagine if we forgave those and 
lived in harmony and peace and 

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we extended a a sense of 
humility and leaned on the Holy 

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Spirit in order to forgive those
people. 

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Imagine what what would look 
like in these churches if 

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someone watched your life for a 
week. 

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Would they see a family 
resemblance to your Heavenly 

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Father? 
If not, let's get in prayer. 

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There's no time for excuses. 
There's no time to feel bad for 

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about it. 
Let's get in prayer. 

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Let's get in prayer and fasting 
and say I need to reflect you. 

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My brother has a shirt that says
Jesus is king. 

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And if we are the Princess and 
princesses of our king, are we 

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reflecting that in our daily 
lives? 

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If not, why #5-A good child 
loves his brothers and sisters. 

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First to John chapter 4, verse 
20 to 21 is one of the clearest 

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evidences of being God's child 
is loving God's family. 

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We cannot claim to love the 
Father while hating his 

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children. 
And I'm going to let that sit 

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for a little bit. 
We cannot claim to love the 

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Father while hating his 
children. 

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The church is not merely an 
organization. 

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It's not merely these four 
walls. 

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It's not merely merely this 
congregation. 

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It is a family. 
Every believer is brother, 

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sister, fellow heir. 
This means bearing one another's

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burdens, encouraging one 
another, forgiving one another, 

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and most of all, serving one 
another. 

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The world should see a 
supernatural love amongst 

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Christians. 
Much of the world's skepticism 

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towards Christianity stems not 
only from what we believe, but 

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from the way we treat one 
another. 

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Jesus said that the world we 
would know we are his disciples 

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by our love for one another. 
John chapter 13, verse 35. 

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So how are we doing that? 
This does not mean that we will 

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always agree or that we will 
handle every relationship 

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perfectly. 
In fact, Scripture assumes the 

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opposite. 
The Bible commands us to rebuke,

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reprove, exhort, forgive, and 
confess our sins to one another.

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Genuine Christian love is not 
the absence of correction. 

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It is the willingness to 
lovingly speak the truth for the

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good of another. 
And it's also the understanding 

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that your brothers and sisters 
will correct you and exhort you 

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and rebuke you. 
And you should be open to that 

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correction, exhorting and 
rebuke. 

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So there's a give and take 
there. 

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I should be able to say, 
brother, blah, blah, blah, this 

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is going on. 
I need you to step it up, man. 

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And you should be able to be 
like, he's right. 

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At the same time, when you come 
back to me, like, brother, I 

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need you to grow 6 inches. 
And I'm like, well, I can't. 

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There still should be some 
loving relationship there that 

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we can exhort, rebuke and 
reprove one another. 

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And often times what you see is 
this wall of defense. 

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As soon as anybody comes to tell
you anything, you put up this 

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wall. 
I praise God for the brothers 

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and sisters that pour into me. 
I praise God for my wife who 

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corrects me and says, Alex, I 
praise God for my daughter, my 

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oldest daughter who says, Daddy,
you were that was you did too 

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much. 
And you know, she's my daughter.

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And I know often times guys will
say, what do you know, you're a 

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child? 
But then I have to sit back and 

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think, is she right? 
And praise God for her, for her,

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you know, discernment that she 
can say you went a little too 

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far, you said a little too much.
And so praise God for that. 

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Yet there's a common 
misconception that questioning 

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or correcting A fellow believer 
is unloving. 

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Scripture teaches the opposite. 
We're done with humility, grace,

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and a desire for restoration. 
Correction is one of the 

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clearest expressions of biblical
love. 

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It would be unloving to see a 
brother or sister wandering into

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sin and saying nothing. 
God has not left us to navigate 

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these relationships on our own. 
He has given us the Holy Spirit,

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the Comforter, and the Helper to
guide us in truth, shape us into

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the likeness of Christ, and 
teach us how to love one another

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faithfully. 
As we submitted to His leading, 

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our relationship should 
increasingly reflect reflect the

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supernatural love that Christ 
has shown us, the love that was 

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shown to us between the Father 
and the Son. 

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The ultimate example. 
The quality of our relationship 

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often reveals the reality of our
relationship with the Father. 

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So if we're having tumultuous 
relationships with everyone, 

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that might be a reflection of 
where you stand with the Father.

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If you're loving on people and 
you're forgiving of people, they

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will see that reflection from, 
they know that this is coming 

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from how God has changed your 
life. 

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Number six, a good child 
welcomes the Father's 

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discipline. 
This might be the hardest one. 

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Hebrews chapter 12, verse 5 
through 11 states this. 

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This may be the most difficult 
mark of of spiritual maturity. 

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Nobody enjoys discipline. 
Yes, Scripture teaches that 

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discipline is evidence of 
sonship. 

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For those whom the Lord loves, 
he disciplines. 

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God disciplines because he 
loves, not because he delights 

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in punishment, not because he is
angry with his children, but 

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because he desires our holiness.
One of the greatest privileges 

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of being a child of God is 
understanding the difference 

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between punishment and 
discipline. 

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For those who are outside of 
Christ. 

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Punishment is the just judgment 
of God against sin. 

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God's wrath against sin is real,
holy, and righteous. 

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But for those who belong to 
Christ, something remarkable has

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happened. 
The punishment we deserved has 

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already been carried by another 
Jesus Christ that that 

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punishment for us on the cross 
of Calvary. 

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He shed his perfect blood for us
at the cross. 

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Jesus stood in our place. 
He bore the wrath of God that 

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our sins deserved. 
He drank the cup of judgement so

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that His children would never 
have to praise God. 

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Romans 81 declares there is now 
no fault. 

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There is therefore now no 
condemnation for those who are 

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in Christ Jesus. 
Because Christ absorbed God's 

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00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:23,240
wrath, believers never 
experienced God's correction as 

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00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:26,200
condemnation. 
God is not paying us back for 

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00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,680
our sins. 
Christ has already paid the debt

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in full. 
Instead, what we are 

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experiencing is His loving 
discipline. 

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Hebrews 12 teaches that God 
discipline every son whom he 

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receives. 
Discipline is not the act of an 

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00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:45,040
angry God, it is an act of a 
loving Father. 

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Punishment seeks justice for 
wrongdoing. 

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Discipline seeks growth, 
maturity, and restoration. 

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Punishment says you must pay for
what you have done. 

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Discipline says I love you too 
much to. 

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Leave you where you are. 
Punishment is retributive. 

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00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:07,200
Discipline is corrective. 
Punishment flows from judgment. 

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Discipline flows from love. 
Thank God for God's discipline. 

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When God convicts us of sin, 
closes the door, allows a trial,

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or lovingly exposes an area of 
weakness in our lives, He is not

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rejecting us. 
He is shaping us. 

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He is conforming us into the 
image of His Son. 

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A Father who never disciplined 
his children does not truly love

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them. 
Likewise, our heavenly Father 

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loves his children enough to 
correct them when they wander 

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and praise God for that. 
In fact, Hebrew says that God's 

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discipline is evidence of our 
sonship. 

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His correction is not proof that
he has abandoned us, It is proof

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that he has claimed us. 
He disciplines us because he 

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loves us and He wants us to go 
on the right path, not because 

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he wants us to be punished. 
Like there's some people who 

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would say, when God corrects 
you, do not run from him, run 

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towards him. 
Do not hide in shame. 

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Do not believe the lie that he 
has cast you away. 

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Instead, remember the gospel, 
remember the good news. 

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The Father who disciplines you 
is the same Father who adopted 

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you. 
That is the good news, brothers 

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00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:22,920
and sisters. 
The Father who corrects you is 

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the same Father who sent his Son
to die for you. 

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The Father who exposes your sin 
is the same Father who promises 

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to forgive and restore you. 
His discipline may be painful 

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00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:37,800
for a moment, but is always 
motivated by love and aim at 

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00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:41,280
your good. 
The scars in Christ's hands 

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remind us that our punishment 
has already been born. 

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00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:48,800
Therefore, every act of 
correction from our heavenly 

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Father comes not from wrath, but
from love. 

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00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:55,440
The Father's discipline is not 
evidence that he has stopped 

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00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:58,320
loving you. 
It is evidence that He never 

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00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:02,160
will. 
So as you become stronger in 

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00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,640
your faith, as you get into the 
the Scriptures and as you learn 

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and as you walk and you feel 
that tug and you feel that pull 

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and you feel that correction, 
don't run from it, run towards 

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it. 
Our next point. 

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A good child honors the Father 
above everything else. 

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Matthew chapter 22 verse 37, you
shall love the Lord your God 

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00:34:22,639 --> 00:34:25,320
with all your heart and with all
your soul and with all your 

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00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:27,520
mind. 
And I know that we do a great 

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job on the 1st 2, right? 
Loving God with our heart and 

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00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:33,040
our soul. 
It's that last part that becomes

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a little difficult. 
Loving God with our mind. 

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What does that look like? 
That looks like. 

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Purposefully giving time to the 
things of God. 

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That means studying, reading, 
learning constantly in your 

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scriptures. 
When Jesus asked to identify the

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greatest commandment, he did not
point to a particular religious 

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00:34:51,199 --> 00:34:54,159
activity. 
He pointed to a relationship of 

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wholehearted love and devotion 
to God. 

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And that's in every aspect of 
your life. 

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A good child loves his Father 
above everything else. 

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This does not mean that he loves
his family less, cares less 

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about his work, or neglects his 
responsibilities. 

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Rather, it means every other 
love is rightly ordered beneath 

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his love for God. 
Men and women of God, you 

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reflect God in everything that 
you do. 

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If you say that you love God and
you're a Christian and you go to

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work and you give half your 
energy towards it, you are not 

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reflecting God. 
If you enter into your marriages

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00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:36,040
and you're giving a halfway try,
you are not reflecting the love 

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of God. 
We love God wholeheartedly. 

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00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:43,280
That doesn't mean that we do 
other things less and those of 

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you that are in leadership in 
the things of God, that doesn't 

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mean that you give 1,000,000% to
the church and you don't take 

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care of your families. 
You don't take care of your 

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wives, you don't take care of 
your children. 

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That is not what God has called 
us to do. 

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And I know that's difficult and 
I've, I've seen it and I've been

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there. 
Do not neglect your families for

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00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:06,960
the ministry because ultimately 
that is your first ministry. 

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00:36:07,240 --> 00:36:10,560
And anybody who tells you 
otherwise is lying because I've 

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00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:13,520
had people tell me that too, 
that our ministry is not our 

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00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,120
family. 
So don't let them lie to you. 

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00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:20,400
I'm so thankful because one of 
the things that we do as elders 

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when we get together in our 
church, as we have an 

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00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:26,520
accountability questionnaire. 
And one of those questions is 

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have you been neglecting your 
family? 

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00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:32,040
So we keep each other 
accountable because the last 

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thing I want to do is neglect my
my children and my wife. 

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00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:39,240
You know, we've started doing a 
family devotional on Fridays and

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00:36:39,240 --> 00:36:41,880
we're trying to adhere to that 
as much as possible. 

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As difficult it has become, as 
difficult as it is, it is to 

649
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:48,160
find time to do that. 
It's important that we spend 

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time together in the word as a 
family. 

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00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,760
And you guys who are young 
families, if you can learn from 

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00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:57,640
my mistakes early on, get in the
word now with your children, 

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00:36:57,640 --> 00:37:00,680
with your wives, Spend time 
together in the Word of God. 

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00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:06,200
The the Father's honor becomes 
the controlling priority of his 

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00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,000
life. 
The questions that governs the 

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00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:12,400
Christian life is not what do I 
want, but what would bring glory

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00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:15,520
to my Father. 
That's the theme throughout what

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00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:18,800
brings glory to my Father. 
This was the heartbeats of Jesus

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00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:21,840
earthly ministry. 
Again and again, Jesus spoke of 

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00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:25,200
doing the Father's will, seeking
the Father's glory, and 

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00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:28,800
accomplishing the Father's work.
The perfect Son lived every 

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00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:31,200
moment with his Father's honor 
and view. 

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00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,000
As God's children, we are called
to do the same. 

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The Father's honor shapes every 
area of our life, including our 

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00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:42,600
work. 
We do not merely work for a 

666
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:46,400
paycheck, a promotion, or the 
approval of others. 

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00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:51,000
We work as servants of Christ, 
whether we are managing people, 

668
00:37:51,240 --> 00:37:55,520
cleaning floors, raising 
children, serving customers, or 

669
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:58,480
leading a company. 
We do our work with integrity 

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00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:03,240
because we represent our Father.
Whatever you do, do your work 

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00:38:03,240 --> 00:38:06,920
heartily As for the Lord rather 
than for men, knowing that from 

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the Lord you will receive the 
reward of inheritance. 

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00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:13,680
It is the Lord Christ whom you 
serve Colossians chapter 3, 

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verse 23 to 24, when people at 
work ask me, you must love this 

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00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:19,160
job. 
I'm like, no, I do not. 

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00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:23,680
I can't wait to get out of here.
3:00 cannot come fast enough. 

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00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:27,000
And they're like, but why are 
you so passionate about doing a 

678
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,520
good job? 
My response is because I'm a 

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00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:33,400
Christian, no other reason, 
because I'm a Christian and they

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00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:38,040
go explain God has called us to 
work like we're working for 

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00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:40,480
Christ. 
And early on my dad said, if 

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Jesus was at your is at your 
desk, is he going to say that 

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00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:44,440
you're working as hard as you 
can for him? 

684
00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:49,720
And you'd be surprised how many 
people that will draw attention 

685
00:38:49,720 --> 00:38:51,440
like this guy worked so hard. 
Why? 

686
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:53,000
Because he's a Christian. 
What do you mean? 

687
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:56,800
And there's an opportunity there
for you to preach the gospel not

688
00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:59,240
only just because you're saying 
it, but you're reflecting it. 

689
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:06,120
So I ask, how can we honor God 
through the way we work our 

690
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:09,320
marriage? 
Marriage is not ultimately about

691
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:11,600
personal happiness, and anybody 
who's been married for a long 

692
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:14,440
time knows this. 
It is about displaying the 

693
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:16,880
relationship between Christ and 
His church. 

694
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:21,560
A husband honors the Father by 
sacrificially loving his wife. 

695
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:25,400
A wife honors the Father by 
faithfully loving and supporting

696
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:27,880
her husband. 
The goal becomes more than 

697
00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:31,120
having a successful marriage. 
It becomes reflecting God's 

698
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:35,720
character through our marriage. 
Our marriages should reflect 

699
00:39:35,720 --> 00:39:38,640
Jesus Christ. 
When we wake up in the morning 

700
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:42,480
and we see our wives or we see 
our husbands, are we saying, let

701
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:45,960
me reflect Jesus Christ through 
my actions today and how I love 

702
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:49,400
my wife and how I love my 
husband, how I love my children?

703
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:52,800
Are we doing that? 
That leads right into our next 

704
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:55,680
point, our parenting. 
Children are not merely to be 

705
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:58,920
raised into productive adults. 
They are to be pointed to 

706
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:01,560
Christ. 
Parents honor the Father when 

707
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:05,280
they teach His word, model 
repentance, show grace, and 

708
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:07,080
shepherd their children towards 
faithfulness. 

709
00:40:07,240 --> 00:40:09,320
When is the last time you 
apologized to one of your 

710
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:12,520
children? 
One of the greatest gifts a 

711
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:15,800
parent can give is helping their
children see the beauty of their

712
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:18,800
Heavenly Father. 
Our children are not our 

713
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:21,520
children. 
Ultimately, they belong to God. 

714
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:26,240
It's an honor and a privilege 
that God has allowed us to raise

715
00:40:26,240 --> 00:40:29,600
our children. 
Let us never forget that my 

716
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:32,640
daughters don't belong to me. 
They are created in the image of

717
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:34,520
God. 
They belong to God. 

718
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:38,200
I'm here to shepherd them, and 
the best way I can shepherd them

719
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:40,640
is into the glory and honor of 
Jesus Christ. 

720
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:44,640
Our friendships. 
A good child chooses 

721
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:47,760
relationships that encourage 
love for God rather than compete

722
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:50,120
with it. 
Friendships can become 

723
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:54,120
opportunities to encourage, 
strengthen, challenge, and serve

724
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:57,640
one another in Christ. 
The question is not simply do I 

725
00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:01,440
enjoy the friendship, but does 
this relationship help me honor 

726
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:05,360
my Father? 
And if not, what are you doing 

727
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:07,760
to point the relationship into 
that direction? 

728
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:11,840
Our finances, our money reveals 
what we treasure. 

729
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:15,280
A child who honors God 
recognizes that everything he 

730
00:41:15,720 --> 00:41:20,480
possesses belongs to the Father.
Time, talents, possessions, 

731
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:24,680
savings, investments, and 
resources are all gifts 

732
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:28,200
entrusted by God. 
Generosity becomes an act of 

733
00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:32,280
worship because it demonstrates 
trust in the Father's provision.

734
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:34,520
I never want to stand before 
God. 

735
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:36,320
And he says, What did you do 
with my gifts? 

736
00:41:36,720 --> 00:41:38,560
And I say, oh, I buried them 
because I never knew. 

737
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:40,480
I didn't know I wanted to be 
careful. 

738
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:45,760
Our recreation, even rest and 
enjoyment, can glorify God. 

739
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:48,800
The Christian does not view 
leisure as a realm separated 

740
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:52,000
from discipleship. 
Whether enjoying a hobby, 

741
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:55,280
spending time with family, 
playing a sport, or taking a 

742
00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:59,560
vacation, we receive God's gifts
with gratitude and use them in 

743
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:02,560
ways to honor him. 
In everything we do, we should 

744
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:06,640
be looking to honor God. 
Everything becomes worship when 

745
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:08,520
God is honored above everything 
else. 

746
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:12,120
Worship is no longer confined to
just Sunday mornings. 

747
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:17,120
Worship becomes a way of life. 
Every conversation, every 

748
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:21,640
decision, every dollar spent, 
every hour worked, every 

749
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:25,680
relationship cultivated, every 
act of service, all of it 

750
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:28,960
becomes an offering laid before 
the Father, as Paul writes in 

751
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:31,400
First Corinthians chapter 10, 
verse 31. 

752
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:34,920
So whether you eat or drink or 
whatever you do, do all to the 

753
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:38,600
glory of God. 
A good child understands that 

754
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:42,040
life is not ultimately about 
self fulfillment, personal 

755
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:44,360
achievement, or even earthly 
success. 

756
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:47,000
Life is about the glory of the 
Father. 

757
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:51,240
And when God's glory becomes our
highest aim, we discover what we

758
00:42:51,240 --> 00:42:54,040
were created for. 
The greatest desire of a 

759
00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:56,480
faithful child is not merely to 
receive blessings from the 

760
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:59,480
Father, it is to bring honor to 
the Father. 

761
00:42:59,920 --> 00:43:01,560
This is the heart of true 
worship. 

762
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:06,200
Jesus repeat repeatedly said, I 
do not seek my own will, but the

763
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:09,640
will of him who sent me. 
The Son's delight was to glorify

764
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:12,200
the Father. 
That should become our delight 

765
00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:17,680
as well as children of God. 
Our next point, a good child 

766
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:20,840
longs to be with the Father. 
John chapter 14 verse one 

767
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:23,120
through three. 
One of the marks of genuine 

768
00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:26,400
sonship is longing for home. 
Every believer should have a 

769
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:29,640
growing desire for God himself, 
not merely His blessings, not 

770
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:33,240
merely His gifts, but Him. 
Heaven is glorious because the 

771
00:43:33,240 --> 00:43:35,960
Father is there. 
The Christian life should 

772
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:38,440
cultivate homesickness for 
eternity. 

773
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:43,240
We should increasingly saying, 
Whom have I in heaven but you? 

774
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:47,280
Our desire should. 
Be to be with God one day, to be

775
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:51,600
with God the Father, to be with 
the Holy Spirit, to be with his 

776
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:54,600
Son Jesus Christ, and together 
with the Saints. 

777
00:43:55,080 --> 00:44:01,600
In eternal heaven, the reality 
is that none of us has been the 

778
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:04,720
child we should be. 
We have all disobeyed the 

779
00:44:04,720 --> 00:44:09,680
Father, distrusted the Father, 
ignored the Father, rebelled 

780
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:13,320
against the Father. 
The good news is that Jesus was 

781
00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:15,440
the perfect Son we could never 
be. 

782
00:44:15,720 --> 00:44:20,600
Where Adam failed, Jesus obeyed.
Where Israel failed, Jesus 

783
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:24,520
obeyed. 
Where we failed daily, Jesus 

784
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:27,840
obeyed. 
Then he went to the cross and 

785
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:30,000
took the punishment our sins 
deserved. 

786
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:34,680
Through faith in Christ, our 
sins are forgiven, we are 

787
00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:38,920
justified, we are adopted, we 
become children of God. 

788
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:42,920
The gospel is not merely that 
God saves sinners. 

789
00:44:43,720 --> 00:44:49,760
The gospel is that God brings us
as sinners home, and He makes us

790
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:51,720
righteous before a righteous 
God. 

791
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:58,600
So in closing, on this Father's 
Day, let us remember a faithful 

792
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:03,480
child of God knows the Father's 
love, trust the Father's wisdom,

793
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:09,400
obeys his commands, reflects the
Father's character, loves the 

794
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:14,040
Father's family, welcomes the 
Father's discipline, honors the 

795
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:16,440
Father. 
Above all, and longs to be with 

796
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:20,240
the Father. 
And we do all of this not to 

797
00:45:20,240 --> 00:45:24,120
earn His love, but because in 
Christ we already have it. 

798
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:28,320
Praise God. 
See how great a love the Father 

799
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:31,840
has bestowed on us, that we 
would be called children of God 

800
00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:37,040
and such we are first to John 
chapter 3 and one, there's no 

801
00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:38,800
other. 
There's no greater sacrifice in 

802
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:42,520
the world than what, Jesus? 
Did for us and on this Father's 

803
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:46,880
Day, as you go and love on your 
father's and your husband's and 

804
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:51,400
you reach out to those people, 
remember they are just a shadow 

805
00:45:51,720 --> 00:45:54,320
of the greatest father. 
And those of you who have had 

806
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:58,120
issues or lost fathers, I plead 
with you to the one father who 

807
00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:01,240
will never leave you, the one 
Father that is here for you 

808
00:46:01,240 --> 00:46:04,160
eternally. 
Run to the foot of feet of 

809
00:46:04,240 --> 00:46:05,960
Jesus. 
Run to the foot of the Father 

810
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:09,560
and thank him for what he has 
done for our for our sake praise

811
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:13,800
God, let us pray. 
Father God, we give you thanks. 

812
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:17,560
Lord, we give you thanks for 
being the ultimate Father, an 

813
00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:22,240
awesome Father, an eternal 
Father, our righteous Father, a 

814
00:46:22,240 --> 00:46:25,120
merciful Father. 
And we just thank you, Lord, 

815
00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:27,080
that you have looked down upon 
us, Lord. 

816
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:31,040
And as we were being formed in 
our mother's womb, you knew us, 

817
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:34,920
Lord, and you called us and we 
and you gave us an opportunity 

818
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:37,120
for repentance. 
Lord, we thank you for the 

819
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:40,120
sacrifice that Jesus. 
Made on the cross that he poured

820
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:44,600
off his blood, so that IA Sinner
might be called righteous in the

821
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:46,920
eyes of God. 
Nothing I could do could ever 

822
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:48,800
make me. 
Righteous in your eyes, Lord, 

823
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:51,920
but I thank you for his 
sacrifice, Lord, I thank you for

824
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:55,160
the sacrifice for each and every
brother and sister in Christ 

825
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:58,520
that is here today, Lord. 
And I pray, Lord, and I pray 

826
00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:02,520
that those amongst us here that 
if there are any that are not 

827
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:05,240
saved, Lord, that they run to 
your feet, Lord, that they 

828
00:47:05,240 --> 00:47:08,520
understand that they need you, 
Lord, that they need a good 

829
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:11,640
father, Lord, that they need a 
merciful father, Lord, and that 

830
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:14,320
nothing that they can do can 
make them righteous in your 

831
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:17,120
sight, Lord, that they need to 
repent of their sins and turn to

832
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:19,760
you, Lord. 
I pray, Lord, that those people 

833
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:22,520
today that are, are missing 
their fathers, Lord, or have 

834
00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:25,120
issues with their fathers or 
their fathers have passed away. 

835
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:28,720
Lord, I, I pray for comfort and 
peace, Lord, and that they may 

836
00:47:28,720 --> 00:47:32,000
see you in so many ways today 
that they can just take the 

837
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:34,600
light in knowing that they have 
a greater father, Lord. 

838
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,720
And we ask that you to continue 
to bless this church and this 

839
00:47:37,720 --> 00:47:40,480
congregation, Lord, as they seek
your face, Lord. 

840
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:43,640
Help us to. 
Love one another everyday, Lord.

841
00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:46,800
More in your likeness, Lord, and
that we may turn to you and our 

842
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:49,640
failures. 
Lord, we ask that you just bless

843
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:52,400
John Michael and his family and 
his wife, Lord, as they continue

844
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:55,000
to lead this congregation and 
all the ministries that they 

845
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:57,720
working, Lord, all the things 
that they're doing for men and 

846
00:47:57,720 --> 00:48:00,760
women and families all across 
this great nation, Lord, that 

847
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:03,320
you just bless them as they 
continue going forward. 

848
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:06,520
Lord, I bless the families in 
this church Lord that you 

849
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:10,080
continue to help them grow Lord,
and give them so many children 

850
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:12,920
and help them raise the children
in the ways of God. 

851
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:15,960
That it be so many children in 
this place Lord, that they need 

852
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:18,960
a new place just to fill for the
children Lord that are going to 

853
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:21,680
be raised here Lord, and then 
they just be a blessing to this 

854
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:23,960
community as well. 
I pray over these young 

855
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:26,840
marriages and these new 
marriages Lord that you just 

856
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:29,520
keep them strengthened Lord and 
guide them as they go forward 

857
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:32,520
seeking your face and everything
that they do that they glorify 

858
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:35,280
you and you alone. 
Lord, we ask that we everything 

859
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:38,360
we do, Lord, going forward this 
week, this month, this year be 

860
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,920
to glorify you. 
Lord, we ask you all these 

861
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:42,160
things. 
In Jesus name we pray. 

862
00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:46,200
Amen. 
Thank you, Father.

