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How's everybody doing this 
morning? 

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Good good. 
For those of you that do not 

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know me, I am a decade long 
friends to the Clarks, love the 

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Clarks. 
And so I'm pinch hitting today. 

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They sent out a message 
yesterday. 

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It was like, hey, I was like, 
sure, I love my Salt church 

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family. 
So I'll come in and help you 

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out, Mr. John Michael. 
And so I feel like I was already

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preparing a word and I had two 
directions that then I was going

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to go in and I picked one this 
morning. 

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So hopefully it's the right one.
After I've followed the Lord 

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long enough to know that 
normally He, I will choose 

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correctly. 
Do you know how much He loves 

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you? 
And so I've, I've discerned in 

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ministry a long time ago that He
loves you a whole lot, just 

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loves you so much that he will, 
he will speak to a hard headed 

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man like me and be like, this is
exactly what they need to hear 

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today. 
You ever noticed that in church,

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the Holy Spirit will just give 
you the word that you need in 

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your season. 
He's good like that. 

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And so I want to talk to you 
this morning about unlimited 

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forgiveness. 
There's a there it says limited 

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forgiveness. 
I want to talk to you about 

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unlimited forgiveness. 
So if you could turn to Matthew 

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chapter 18. 
Matthew chapter 18. 

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I was putting together some 
things for some future 

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teachings, but I was going over 
the questions that was that were

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asked of Jesus or Jesus asked 
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Have you ever located those in 
the Scriptures? 

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I think it's mean you can gain 
some great insight through 

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questions, right? 
Here's a leadership tip. 

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A leader that can't be 
questioned does questionable 

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things. 
And so you, you see these, this 

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dynamic develop in the life of 
Jesus as he's on earth, where he

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will ask his disciples some 
questions and the disciples will

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ask him some questions and then 
people will ask him questions. 

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And those answers are gold. 
And so questions are the 

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location are locators. 
And so we can pause and think 

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through. 
Let me let me give you a few 

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questions Jesus asked his 
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Who do people say that the Son 
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Who do you say that I am? 
Why are you afraid? 

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Do you still not understand how 
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What were you arguing about on 
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Do you love me? 
Do you believe that I can do 

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this? 
How about some questions people 

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ask Jesus? 
What must I do to inherit 

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eternal life? 
Who is my neighbor? 

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Are you the one who is to come 
or should we expect someone 

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else? 
How can someone be born when 

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they are old, born again when 
they are old? 

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Lord, if you are willing, can 
you make me clean? 

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In Matthew chapter 18 we come 
across a question that Peter 

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asks Jesus. 
Matthew chapter 18 is is a great

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chapter if you would read it. 
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having faith as a child in the 
parable of the wandering sheep 

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and then how to deal with sin 
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And then at the very towards the
very end, Peter comes and asks 

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Jesus a question and this is 
where we will find ourselves 

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today. 
He says, Lord, how many times 

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shall I forgive my brother or 
sister who sins against me? 

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Up to seven times. 
OK, so Peter's been walking with

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Jesus for quite some time. 
He's seen him do amazing things 

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and he gets to this point where 
Jesus's teachings are pretty, 

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they're straightforward, aren't 
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They're, they're, they're hard 
to understand and on purpose 

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because the Kingdom operates 
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If you figure that out, the 
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boundaries and rules and 
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And so the the disciples are 
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trying to figure this out. 
And Peter has discerned, hey, 

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look, Jesus probably wants us to
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I wonder how many times I should
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And so I don't know if Peter was
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was like, Hey, what's a good 
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I'm going to ask the Messiah 
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And so he approaches Jesus and 
he says, how many times should I

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forgive my brother or sister? 
7 times. 

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Now, I don't know if he chose 7 
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completion or he chose 7 because
he wanted to be the head of the 

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class. 
And he's like, hey, 7 times 

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would be great. 
You know, like, hey, if if I sin

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against Don one time, he's like,
OK, I got you PD, I'll let you 

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go. 
I forgive you, but seven times, 

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Don 7 times. 
Would you forgive me 7 times 

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Doing the same thing? 
Seven times? 

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So Peter's like, shoo, man. 
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should 7 * 7 times. 
That's good. 

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OK, Jesus, how many times should
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7 times. 
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like Peter. 
Go to the head of a class. 

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Peter, you got it right. 
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understand how to move in 
unlimited forgiveness. 

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The Lord shows us a key right 
here is cooperation. 

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I want to talk to you this 
morning about how to move from 

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keeping score to losing count. 
I want to move you from this 

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understanding of keeping score 
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That seems like a lot to what if
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keeping score to losing count? 
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story. 
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and I want to, I want to welcome
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understanding here, in order to 
move from keeping score to 

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losing count, you have to 
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And I believe Peter was doing 
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Peter was cooperating with the 
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Why? 
He was asking a question. 

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He had discerned something. 
He had, it opened up his heart, 

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his understanding. 
He wanted to grow in this area. 

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So he asked the Lord a question.
He puts a, a, a measurement on 

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it, which I don't think is bad. 
He puts a human measurement on 

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it and he's saying, Lord, what 
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What am I supposed to do? 
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understanding is order to move 
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You have to cooperate with the 
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It sounds simple, but simple 
things not done lead to not 

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growing. 
It's the simple things that trip

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us up. 
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Lord, the Lord is. 
Have you ever noticed this with 

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in your life with walk following
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He's always moving you to 
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He's moving you from faith. 
What does the scripture say from

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faith to faith to glory to 
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Do you know that the faith you 
have today is not going to get 

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you through the season that 
you're going to face tomorrow? 

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Why? 
Because you have faith for 

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today, Jesus wants to give you 
faith that you are victorious 

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for tomorrow. 
That's why he moves us from 

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faith to faith, glory to glory. 
That's why he moves us from 

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keeping score to losing count. 
Jesus is relentless on helping 

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us transform into the image of 
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He is pushing us towards this 
understanding, to this 

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understanding. 
So Peter comes in and he 

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cooperates with the Lord. 
You can grow so fast in the 

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Kingdom of God if you will 
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He guides us into all truth. 
If you will yield your heart not

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to your pastor, but to the Holy 
Spirit, if you will yield your 

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understanding, if you will yield
yield your, your, your hearing 

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to the Lord, He will grow you. 
When you start to say, you know 

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what, don't really know 
everything. 

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Have you got to that point? 
Look, do you know that the sign 

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of spiritual maturity is not, is
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repenting more. 
We have this warped sense of 

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spiritual maturity where we 
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you don't have to confess your 
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but you miss Whoa, whoa, whoa, 
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Spiritual maturity is realizing 
that while without the blood of 

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Jesus I will would be sunk, 
without the word of Jesus I 

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would be toast. 
The sign of spiritual maturity 

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is understanding how far we are 
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the character of Jesus. 
That's true spiritual maturity. 

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You know, what do you call it? 
It's humility my friends. 

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God opposes the proud but gives 
grace to the what to the humble.

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Do you know how you get more 
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Grace comes from cooperating 
with the Holy Spirit and saying 

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to the Holy Spirit, I don't 
understand and that you live in 

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me and you will guide me into 
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So Peter asked a question. 
Jesus gives him an answer. 

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I want to talk to you about the 
question. 

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These are on your nose, the 
question, the answer, the heart,

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the consequence, and the point. 
And so Peter asked the question.

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So the first point is that you 
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And the answer is the parable of
the unmerciful servant. 

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I'll be in verse 22. 
Let me start. 

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Jesus asked Lord. 
Peter asked, Lord, how many 

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times shall I forgive my brother
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Up to seven times. 
Jesus answered, I tell you not 7

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times, but 77 times. 
What? 

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That got Peter's attention, 
didn't That just got your 

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attention. 
So not 7 * 7 times what? 

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And so those of you that are 
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how many is that then 400? 
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want to move you from limited 
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forgiveness. 
That's what He's trying to tell 

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you. 
I'm trying to teach you 

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something that to be honest with
you this morning will set you 

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free. 
I mean, you want to talk about 

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walking in the freedom of 
Christ, live a life of unlimited

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forgiveness. 
Who you talk about walking into 

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the into the fullness of Jesus. 
Learn how to operate from 

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unlimited forgiveness. 
And he gives us some keys in 

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this particular parable, he 
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Therefore the Kingdom of heaven 
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settle accounts with his 
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As he began the settlement, a 
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gold was brought to him. 
And since he was not able to 

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pay, the master order that he 
and his wife and his children 

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and all he had had to be sold to
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So there you got a king. 
You got it, unsurmountable debt.

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And the king wants his. 
He wants the payment. 

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And so the master ordered. 
You go out there, your wife and 

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children. 
You have to sell everything to 

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repay the debt. 
At this, the servant fell on his

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knees before him. 
Be patient with me, he begged, 

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and I will pay back everything. 
I will pay back everything. 

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The servant's master took pity 
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let him go #2 Limited, unlimited
forgiveness requires our 

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reflection. 
It requires a moment of 

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reflection. 
Do you remember when you came to

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the Lord and you truly 
understood that you sinned 

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against God? 
Do you remember that? 

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The weight of sin. 
I remember sitting in my bedroom

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listening to a televangelist 
that I probably wouldn't listen 

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to today. 
He shares the gospel. 

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And all of a sudden my heart, my
mind understood the way to sin. 

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And I was like, wow, I sinned 
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Insurmountable debt. 
I can feel it. 

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Do you feel it? 
And I also remember the weight 

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of sin being lifted off of me. 
In this particular parable Jesus

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is sharing, he's saying you have
a servant has this debt he can't

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pay. 
He says, look, you got to sell 

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it all. 
You owe me this money, son, you 

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owe me this money. 
Go get it. 

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I care what you have to do. 
Get me this money. 

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Servant falls on his face and 
says, oh, just I'm so sorry. 

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I can't, I can't take this. 
Then the king is merciful and 

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lets him go. 
That's the gospel right there. 

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Sometimes we can get to the 
place where we forget that and 

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we get back into the counting 
of, of cults to counting, not 

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taking count and not losing 
count. 

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And it comes through this moment
of reflection. 

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I was doing some house blessings
for the church I had. 

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I don't know if you know, but in
October my wife had a stroke. 

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She had a couple of blood 
vessels deep within her brain. 

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It's called an ABM and the blood
vessels burst and she had a 

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brain hemorrhage and the brain 
hemorrhage of the brain bleed 

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caused a stroke in there. 
And she's, she's in month 5 of 

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an epic recovery, learning how 
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It was crazy. 
It flipped my life upside down 

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and thank the Lord that she's 
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We thought we lost her for a 
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But anyways, in the midst of the
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room and I was reading in James 
where it says call the elders of

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the church to come pray for the 
sick. 

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And I sat in my house and I was 
like, you know what? 

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I'm going to text elders of 
Lighthouse and I'm going to have

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them come over here and pray for
my beautiful wife. 

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And I sent a couple texts out 
from before you know it, I got 

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10 people in my living room 
praying and contending for 

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healing for my my bride. 
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that moment, in that in, in, in 
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We took communion and broke 
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I say all that because as I sat 
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Sometimes we don't get the 
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invite people into our house. 
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elders to come and pray. 
So I sat there and I was like, 

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you know what? 
I know that there are people in 

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the body of Christ that all 
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invitation. 
So I put this thing out there. 

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I was like, hey, I'll come into 
your house and I'll bless your 

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house. 
But I wasn't just going to knock

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on people's door. 
I was going to go in the houses 

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that that would welcome me. 
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with them. 
We go over there and anoint the 

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house with oil and all this kind
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It's great. 
Well, anyways, I was visiting a 

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friend in, where is it Glenn's. 
Do you know where Glenn's is? 

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OK, well, I've been in, lived in
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30 years or so. 
And I hadn't been there in like 

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15 years. 
And it was bad enough. 

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It could have been 10-15 years, 
but man, this is back where I 

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was, my stomping grounds. 
And you ever go back to a place 

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where you know, you haven't been
in a while and then you're like,

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oh, wow, this looks so familiar.
Wow, wow. 

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So I'm going to this house and 
like, wow, this looks so 

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familiar. 
I remember hanging out, man, 

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whatever happened to that dude? 
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Like kids in high school or 
whatever, you're like, man, 

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whatever. 
And I drove by this house, it 

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was a trailer with a garage. 
And literally I had a moment 

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with the Lord where I saw myself
when I was 17 years old, running

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where I wasn't supposed to run, 
doing things I wasn't supposed 

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to do. 
I literally stopped the car. 

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It's amazing to me how you're 
going to do something for 

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someone else and the Lord does 
something in you. 

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That's how he who refreshes 
others will him himself be 

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refreshed, right? 
So I literally stopped the car 

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and it and it's on the back Rd. 
and looked into the rearview 

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mirror and nobody was there and 
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And I remembered something Back 
when I was 16 years old, I ran 

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with people I shouldn't have run
with. 

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I mean, I was lost. 
Do you remember being lost? 

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I was lost. 
I was lost, lost. 

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And I had two friends that we 
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Do you have like solid friends 
that you would like in this 

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context? 
When I was growing up, it was 

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like we we were going to we were
going to ride hard and die hard 

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kind of friends. 
But I have those friends now. 

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But we're we're Kingdom brothers
now. 

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And thank you Jesus for the flip
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But I had these, these boys, we 
would do, we would do everything

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together. 
And so one of my friends, he is 

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like, hey, I know this dude. 
He's a couple. 

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He's probably 22 years old. 
We were 16 or 17. 

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He's got, you know, he, he, he 
has got some things that we want

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to partake in that we can't 
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Come on over. 
And so this 22 year old, he's 

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trying to act like he's cool to 
a bunch of 16 year old. 

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We're hanging out in his garage 
doing things we're not supposed 

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to do, drinking things we're not
supposed to drink. 

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The guy leaves and says, hey, 
I'll be back. 

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But before he leaves, he tells 
us the story of the shot glass 

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he has. 
And he says, you see the shot 

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glass. 
This shot glass has been passed 

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down. 
From generation to generation to

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generation. 
The shot glass is like 100 years

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old. 
It's to my prized possession, 

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blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. 
He puts the shot glass gone. 

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He leaves. 
I pick up the shot glass and I 

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start mocking the shot glass 
because I've had some wrong 

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spirits. 
You know what I'm saying? 

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I was partaking in the wrong 
spirits. 

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And so I take that shot glass 
and I'm just messing around and 

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I toss it to one of my friends. 
You ever play toss with somebody

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and they're not playing toss 
back? 

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That's what I was doing. 
I toss them that shot glass, it 

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bounces off them, hits the 
ground and shatters. 

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So now 16 years old, lost, we 
decide won't get out of there, 

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get out. 
So I take the shot glass. 

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We we put it in there and we 
hide it. 

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And then we jet. 
And now we're staying in the 

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tents outside of my friend's 
house. 

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And come three hours later, we 
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Now, that was 30 something years
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So to me, it felt like those 
bullets were just, like, flying 

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right over my head. 
You know, I'm not in the 

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military. 
I felt like they were coming 

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right over the tent. 
You know, we all freak out, get 

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out of the tents, run into the 
woods. 

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And then we devise a plan. 
The next day, we're going to go 

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to this man's house, and there's
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One of us is going to go to the 
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on the porch. 
One of us is going to be in the 

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woods with a gun, and one of us 
is going to tell us when it's 

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clear. 
I was the person that was going 

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to tell them to pull the 
trigger. 

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Morning wakes up, wake up, wake 
up, look at our brothers. 

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Hey, we're going to do this. 
It's there. 

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You ever have a plan that works 
accordingly? 

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Most planes don't work out. 
This one does. 

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Man comes out, friend is there, 
my friend has a gun, his hand is

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on the trigger and he is waiting
for me to say pull the trigger. 

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16 years old looking at him and 
something inside me and I will 

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tell you today it was God. 
If you tell him to pull the 

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trigger you will spend the rest 
of your life in prison clear as 

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death. 
I turned to him and I said don't

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pull the trigger and it was as 
if a weight lifted off my 

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friend. 
He was like, I was just about to

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pull the trigger. 
I think to myself 30 years 

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later, that one decision could 
have wrecked my whole life. 

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Do you realize what you have 
been forgiven of? 

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Do you know that two out of the 
three? 

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Me and one of my friends are 
both pastors of the churches. 

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I'm driving to go bless this 
house and I have a flashback of 

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the goodness of God in my life. 
I am married, been married for 

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20 years. 
I got two kids. 

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Joy, she's 16D2 he's 9. 
I am living the dream. 

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I have more than enough. 
God has been good to me and he 

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was good to me back then and I 
could have made that decision 

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that would have wrecked my life.
Spend some time today, now, now 

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listen to me. 
Don't spend the rest of your 

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life thinking about what he has 
saved you from. 

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You know what I'm saying? 
Like don't, don't make it into 

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something that it's not. 
I'm not saying stay there for 

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the whole day. 
I'm saying remember what you 

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have been forgiven of. 
Remember how his hand has been 

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upon your life. 
Remember that you are an 

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unmerciful servant. 
Remember that you have a debt 

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that you cannot pay back. 
Remember that the blood of Jesus

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speaks a better word. 
Remember that you are brand new 

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creation in Christ Jesus. 
Remember that the enemy was 

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looking to take you out, but God
brought you in. 

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Look. 
Remember what He has done for 

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you because it's in the remember
and the reflection of Wow I. 

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I deserve the wrath of God, but 
Jesus's blood has set me free. 

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My life could have been total 
mess. 

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And now I stand here at Salt 
Church on a Sunday preaching 

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about the gospel and the good 
news of Jesus Christ. 

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Because the Holy Spirit that 
that I didn't even recognize 

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until I was in my 20s, decided 
that He was going to tell me 

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when I was 16 years old that if 
you pull that trigger, your 

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whole life will be different. 
I tell this to young people all 

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the time. 
You think those decisions you 

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make right now don't have an 
impact 10 to 15 years from now? 

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You better slow down before you 
speed up. 

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What happens in this parable is 
that the merciful, the the 

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servant. 
What? 

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What happens? 
Let me let me go there. 

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I almost started preaching 
there. 

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Pastor Alex, sense his love. 
He would be proud of me. 

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He's like the PD you're 
preaching. 

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Verse 16 as the servant fell on 
his knees before him. 

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Be patient with me, he begged, 
and I will pay back everything. 

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The servant's master took pity 
on him and cancelled the debt 

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and let him go. 
Verse 28 The heart of the matter

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But when the servant went out, 
he found one of his fellow 

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servants who owed him 100 silver
coins. 

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He grabbed him began to choke 
him. 

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Pay back what you owe me he 
demanded his servant. 

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His fellow servant fell to his 
knees and begged him, be patient

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with me and I'll pay it back. 
But he refused. 

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Instead he went off and had the 
man thrown into prison until he 

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could pay back the debts. 
They would be like me. 

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I, I was a youth pastor for 
seven years. 

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And I'll tell you what, I love 
the youth. 

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I mean, I had, I had one youth, 
his name was Jerry Huffman. 

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And Jerry Huffman was a mess. 
He was just a mess. 

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And I remember just being like, 
you know what? 

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Jerry was me. 
I don't want to take a Jerry to 

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Pennsylvania, to some camp and 
the dude talk non-stop for seven

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hours. 
I thought it was impossible, 

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like, be quiet. 
I brought him into the camp and 

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within 30 minutes, he had his 
first scuffle hit a guy in a 

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fight. 
That was on a Sunday. 

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On Thursday, he was called to be
a missionary. 

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I have been forgiven a lot. 
So when I looked at Jerry, I was

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like, you know, I love you, 
Jerry, you are a knucklehead, 

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but I love you. 
I love you. 

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Do you know what happened to 
Jerry? 

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Jerry's mom got cancer. 
She beat it the first time. 

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Then Jerry brings all her all 
the all the family to church and

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they stay a season in the 
church. 

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Then Jerry's mom goes to be with
the Lord. 

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She loses her battle with 
cancer, but she is pain free. 

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Now in the presence of Jesus, 
Jerry disappears. 

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Where's Jerry? 
Go look for him. 

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Can't find him. 
This is back during COVID where 

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it was everything was weird, 
right? 

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Thank the Lord we're past COVID.
I'm leading youth and somebody 

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says, Pastor Daniel, there is 
some guy out there smoking a 

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cigarette and wants in the 
church. 

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And I was like, well, praise the
Lord, they're at church. 

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All right, let me check this 
out. 

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Do you know who it was? 
It was Jerry. 

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Jerry had disappeared. 
Now he's back. 

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I said Jerry put out the 
cigarette. 

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Come on in. 
Jerry comes on in and I hugged 

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Jerry and I'm like, how are you 
doing? 

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And he's just not doing well. 
I mean, he's been through a lot 

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of stuff, doesn't have 
community, doesn't have a 

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family. 
I hugged Jerry. 

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Where have you been? 
Oh man, I missed you so much. 

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Well, everybody around us, 
Jerry's here, Jerry's here. 

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We start worship. 
Jerry's eighteen time at this 

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time, can't even come into the 
bird, but I'll let him in 

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because he's all my dime. 
I got him. 

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Yeah. 
Worship starts. 

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Jerry goes straight to the to 
the front and just begins to 

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worship Jesus. 
We taught Jerry how to get into 

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the presence of the Lord. 
Jerry would come to the church 

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because the church is the place 
where he's supposed to be safe 

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and Jerry just let it all loose 
on that altar that day and his 

452
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:32,840
hands are raising. 
I remember being in the front 

453
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:38,440
row singing get him Jesus, get 
him, not get him in a bad way. 

454
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,920
Engulf them and overwhelm them 
with your love. 

455
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:44,640
It's love that leads you to 
repentance. 

456
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:47,800
It's understanding how much God 
loves you that you'll correct 

457
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,440
your life if you try to correct 
your life by yourself. 

458
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:53,200
Good luck with that. 
I've tried seasons with that. 

459
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:54,960
Correct your own behavior. 
Uh huh. 

460
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:58,680
Get into the presence and, and 
understand how to receive the 

461
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:01,800
love of God. 
Your life will be transformed. 

462
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:04,680
It's so much easier. 
Jerry understood that. 

463
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:06,240
He understood the presence of 
God. 

464
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,280
He understood it and he was 
just, he was just worshipping. 

465
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:11,960
After the service, we got to 
pray for Jerry. 

466
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:14,600
I hug Jerry and I was like, I 
love you. 

467
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:17,680
You know what I didn't know is 
that would be the last time I 

468
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:22,040
saw Jerry. 
I was scrolling through Facebook

469
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:30,440
and I saw his obituary and I'm 
man, I broke. 

470
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,720
I start weeping. 
Jennifer is like, what's wrong? 

471
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:38,760
I was like, Jerry's dead. 
He's gone. 

472
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:42,920
And I go try to look up his 
stuff. 

473
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:47,040
You ever try to track a family 
that's fragmented? 

474
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:49,200
It's hard. 
I mean, I was like a 

475
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:53,080
professional investigators try 
to figure out what leads did 

476
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:57,640
this and who leads to that end 
up going to and we didn't even 

477
00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:04,200
host, man, we didn't even get to
do the funeral. 

478
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:12,080
So landed driving to this place 
during COVID. 

479
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:15,840
Go to this church, bless their 
heart. 

480
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,360
They're doing the best they can.
They probably got it in an 

481
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:21,960
e-mail on Wednesday. 
They have a pastor there on 

482
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:23,280
Friday. 
Just trying to support. 

483
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:24,760
Look, I'm not player hating 
them. 

484
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:26,320
They were trying to do the best 
they could. 

485
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:30,600
It's during COVID where you had 
to be like 6 feet apart and then

486
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:34,600
you had to have masks on and 
their heat was out. 

487
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,200
Do you know how long Jerry's 
funeral was? 

488
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:42,520
12 minutes. 
There's pictures up there. 

489
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:48,800
I'm sitting in there. 
I was so mad to the point where 

490
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:51,440
they were like, does anybody 
have any, anything to say? 

491
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:55,360
Oh, I had a lot to say, but I 
don't think Jesus wanted me to 

492
00:32:55,360 --> 00:33:00,400
say one bit of it. 
And I left, got into my car and 

493
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:03,440
just bawled. 
I bought, I had to pull over 

494
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,800
three times. 
Matter of fact, the third time I

495
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,080
pulled over. 
This is why a little Lord walks 

496
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:10,520
you through hard stuff, doesn't 
he? 

497
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:13,640
He's always there. 
The third time I pull over to 

498
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:15,800
cry and I don't cry. 
How many men in here like, don't

499
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:17,240
cry? 
Like you see me cry, something's

500
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:19,360
wrong. 
I don't cry. 

501
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:24,280
I could not stop crying. 
So I pull over and soon as I 

502
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:26,680
pull over into this parking lot,
start crying. 

503
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:30,800
I look to my right and sure 
enough, it was a lady that goes 

504
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:34,320
to our church. 
Her son that was that was on 

505
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:39,520
drugs was high as a kite and I 
had to call the cops so that 

506
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:42,920
they could get to her. 
And I'm like, wait, this what? 

507
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:51,480
Jesus, what's going on here? 
Hard, hard. 

508
00:33:52,360 --> 00:34:02,120
So I get home and I just reflect
on the brokenness of humanity, 

509
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:06,600
the realness of it, and how much
got, you know, But you know 

510
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:12,480
where Jerry is. 
Jerry checked out early, and he 

511
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:16,000
checked out early because he got
on some drugs and he Od'd and he

512
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:17,440
did things he wasn't supposed to
do. 

513
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:21,120
But you know where Jerry is. 
Jerry's in heaven. 

514
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:26,719
Thank you, Lord, that, Jesus, 
that Jerry was forgiven. 

515
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:36,440
Thank you, Lord, that that the 
Lord would use my life because I

516
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:40,440
had done things I wasn't 
supposed to do, run with people 

517
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:44,120
I wasn't supposed to run with, 
but had grace for. 

518
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:53,000
You can pick this one had grace 
for those folks and Jerry Still 

519
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:56,679
I, I mean, I and I'll share this
with you this morning. 

520
00:34:56,679 --> 00:34:59,760
I do believe that's why I 
stopped being a youth pastor. 

521
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:04,280
Like if you could trace now we 
have it. 

522
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,200
The verse has awesome. 
He's Pastor Alex. 

523
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:07,320
You've heard him preach. 
He's awesome. 

524
00:35:07,720 --> 00:35:13,480
But after Jerry, something in me
was like, I can't, I can't do 

525
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:17,920
that anymore. 
But this isn't a counselling 

526
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,000
session. 
You can pray for me there now 

527
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:25,400
verse 29 his fellow so so 
limited forgiveness requires our

528
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:29,360
reflection and forgiveness is 
more about the heart than 

529
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:32,520
grievance. 
Forgiveness is about the heart. 

530
00:35:32,720 --> 00:35:37,680
The deal with the individual 
that was forgiven is what they 

531
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:42,680
forgot that they were forgiven. 
They tried to keep score instead

532
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:46,680
of losing count. 
It's like you have been forgiven

533
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:50,560
this huge debt and when you 
don't have to repay it, you go 

534
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:53,360
look for people that owe you 
something so that you can get a 

535
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:56,800
return on your investment. 
That's not how this thing works.

536
00:35:57,120 --> 00:36:02,640
Jesus shares this parable and 
saying I want to, I want to give

537
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:07,960
you an understanding on how to 
live in this place of unlimited 

538
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:09,800
forgiveness. 
What do you mean 7 times? 

539
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,240
No, no, no, no. 
See, you're asking the wrong 

540
00:36:12,240 --> 00:36:15,040
question, Peter. 
You're asking the wrong 

541
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:17,000
question. 
Do you know that when you follow

542
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:20,280
Jesus, if you ask him the wrong 
question, you might get the 

543
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:22,840
wrong answer? 
You're asking the wrong 

544
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:27,400
question, Peter. 
It's not 7 times, it's 7 * 70. 

545
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:30,680
What do you mean though? 
What if this person has done 

546
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:34,360
something against me that is 
just wrong and and they should 

547
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:37,600
and it should be justice? 
No, he's saying choose mercy. 

548
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:42,120
You don't understand, Lord, they
did something that was illegal. 

549
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:47,200
He's saying no, no, no, no, no. 
I don't categorize sin. 

550
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:50,160
Sin is sin. 
You have been forgiven a debt 

551
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:54,840
that you cannot repay. 
And what you need to do is you 

552
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:57,360
need to forgive and let 
everybody else go. 

553
00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:00,120
But that doesn't make sense. 
What can I tell you? 

554
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:02,640
Coming to Jesus doesn't make 
sense either, does it? 

555
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:07,680
It bypasses the logic and reason
that we have in our minds. 

556
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:11,160
But somehow we know. 
Somehow, somehow we know. 

557
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:16,120
And we have faith that God, that
Jesus died and God raised him 

558
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:18,840
from the dead. 
And that faith inside of us 

559
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:22,960
causes us to come alive. 
And we're like, yeah, but why do

560
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:26,120
we leave that? 
And then when we get to 

561
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:29,080
forgiveness, we're trying to use
our logic and reason. 

562
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:33,560
Jesus is saying, I want to show 
you something different. 

563
00:37:33,720 --> 00:37:36,760
I want to say, but Pastor 
Daniel, you don't know what they

564
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,200
did to me. 
I'm sure it was terrible, but 

565
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:43,880
God is the one that's in charge 
of having your vengeance, not 

566
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:47,440
yours. 
That's not your responsibility. 

567
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:49,360
But how do I do it? 
How do I do it? 

568
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:52,240
Well, Jesus says he will help 
you. 

569
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,080
That's what he's trying to help 
Peter with. 

570
00:37:55,240 --> 00:37:59,600
He's saying I will help you, but
it's a matter of the heart. 

571
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:07,600
Don't don't lose touch with the 
with your emotional connection 

572
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:09,880
with the heart does. 
Am I trying? 

573
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:13,440
I'm trying to make sense there 
like sometimes we can the the 

574
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:18,120
fancy word would be bifurcated. 
It's like we're separating 

575
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:21,160
ourselves. 
We're we're running two lanes 

576
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:24,440
here. 
That's to be separated from 

577
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:26,440
something. 
No, no, what I want you to do is

578
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:30,800
come get in touch with God's 
story in your life. 

579
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:35,320
Pause and reflect what he has 
set you free from. 

580
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:39,320
Now, you might be going to 
church and this will be the this

581
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,080
will be the testimony of my 
kids. 

582
00:38:41,240 --> 00:38:43,880
They'll be trying to figure out 
what they need to be forgiven 

583
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:46,680
from Oh, they stole some 
Cheerios or something. 

584
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:50,200
You know what I'm saying? 
Now don't get don't get wrapped 

585
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:51,160
away. 
Well, I don't. 

586
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:54,840
I didn't try to kill Someone 
Like You did, PD Don't do that. 

587
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:58,880
That's not. 
No, no, that's my story. 

588
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:03,200
Your story might be different, 
but get in touch with God's 

589
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:06,480
story for your life. 
Realize that you have been set 

590
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:12,240
free and forgiven, and extend 
that grace to others, and you 

591
00:39:12,240 --> 00:39:15,960
will begin to walk in unlimited 
forgiveness. 

592
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:19,960
Here's the deal. 
There's a consequence to this. 

593
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:23,160
And this is where I feel the 
weight of this parable. 

594
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:26,880
Because it takes a turn, doesn't
it? 

595
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:28,640
Then the master called. 
Verse 32. 

596
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:31,080
Then the master called the 
servant in. 

597
00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:36,360
You, wicked servant, he said. 
I cancelled all the debt of 

598
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:40,680
yours because you begged me to. 
Shouldn't you have had mercy on 

599
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:44,480
your fellow servant? 
Just I had, just as I had on 

600
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:48,160
you. 
In anger, his master handed him 

601
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:51,640
over to the jailers to be 
tortured until he should repay 

602
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:58,600
back all he owed. 
There is a consequence for 

603
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:01,360
unforgiveness. 
I mean, you don't hear that 

604
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:02,960
much. 
I mean, you might with John 

605
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:03,760
Michael. 
I don't know. 

606
00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:05,920
He's pretty straightforward. 
I like him. 

607
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:10,880
There is a consequence for 
unforgiveness in your life, and 

608
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:14,280
it's death. 
All sin leads to death. 

609
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:21,040
Unforgiveness will limit your 
ability to walk in God's 

610
00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:26,840
promises in your life. 
It is a barrier, it is a hang 

611
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:29,360
up. 
It is something that will keep 

612
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:34,000
you from walking in. 
The fullness that Jesus has for 

613
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:37,720
your life is unforgiveness and 
what you. 

614
00:40:37,720 --> 00:40:41,680
What most believers have is they
are trying to use their logic 

615
00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:48,760
and reason instead of relying on
the faith in the truth that 

616
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:52,960
Jesus has proclaimed. 
There is a consequence for this.

617
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:58,320
There is a there is a preferred 
future that you will not walk in

618
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:02,920
if you don't forgive people 
freely. 

619
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:09,440
Now I want to spin it on you to 
say that there is so much 

620
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:15,960
freedom in walking a life that 
is full of unlimited 

621
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:18,400
forgiveness. 
Now listen, I'm going to be 

622
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:22,960
tested on this word, and so I'll
be careful when I say this, but 

623
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:28,120
I have been walking in unlimited
forgiveness for years, and it is

624
00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:35,520
the truth that has set me free. 
Now listen, I know that I know 

625
00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:40,160
that I know that I know that I 
am not worthy of what Jesus has 

626
00:41:40,240 --> 00:41:46,240
given me, but I know that I know
that I know that His blood has 

627
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:50,320
set me free. 
And the blood of Jesus is on the

628
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:56,320
doorpost of my heart. 
And if you sin against me, I 

629
00:41:56,320 --> 00:42:01,240
will freely forgive you. 
And you know what I do? 

630
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:04,600
I'm intentional. 
And do it before I even leave 

631
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:09,160
the house. 
Because if you will let people 

632
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:16,000
go before you even step foot out
of the out of the doorpost of 

633
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:22,160
your own house, you will be in a
much better spot because Jesus 

634
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:26,760
has has set us free. 
So it has it. 

635
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,560
Look, and I'll finish with this 
in verse 35. 

636
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:33,720
This is how my Heavenly Father 
will treat each of you unless 

637
00:42:33,720 --> 00:42:38,040
you forgive your brother and 
sister from your heart. 

638
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:41,560
I have a couple of applications 
there for you. 

639
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:46,440
The first one is evaluate your 
understanding of God's grace in 

640
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:48,760
your life. 
Pray and reflect on the debt you

641
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:52,800
have been forgiven #2 in the 
context of your heart. 

642
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:56,520
Identify any bitterness or 
resentment that you may harbor 

643
00:42:56,520 --> 00:43:00,320
and contemplate and how it 
affects your heart relationship.

644
00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:07,960
Identify any bitterness. 
Do you spend some time saying, 

645
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:12,960
hey, I like this Psalm? 
I think it's one Psalm 132. 

646
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:19,800
David says search my heart. 
Oh Lord, reveal to me anything 

647
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:26,480
like it's the Holy Spirit's job 
to search. 

648
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:34,880
It's your job to confess, right?
Holy Spirit, search my heart. 

649
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:38,760
Your response? 
Confess. 

650
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:44,200
We get that when it comes to 
giving our heart to the Lord. 

651
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:47,400
Confess with your mouth that 
Jesus is Lord. 

652
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:50,360
Believe in your heart that God 
raised him from the dead and you

653
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:52,840
will be saved. 
Yeah. 

654
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:56,840
What are you doing? 
Holy Spirit draws you in. 

655
00:43:57,360 --> 00:44:02,120
Jesus is the answer. 
You confess and ratify what he 

656
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:05,920
has revealed in your heart in 
your walk with Jesus. 

657
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:08,800
It's the same way we live in a 
fallen world. 

658
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:10,360
The people are going to prod 
you. 

659
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:12,920
People are going to do things 
that aren't right on that. 

660
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:15,280
The evil in this world is 
unprecedent. 

661
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:17,280
It's crazy. 
It is crazy. 

662
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:20,560
There are people out there that 
are going to do you wrong. 

663
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:27,000
And I'm telling you, if you wait
until the moment to try to 

664
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:30,800
operate in to in limit and 
unlimited forgiveness, you're 

665
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:35,600
going to lose it every time. 
But if you will predetermine and

666
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:41,760
be intentional about your 
stance, you will not trip up 

667
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:46,120
because you will say, oh, that's
a trap from the enemy. 

668
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:52,200
I will not relent to that mess 
right there. 

669
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:55,560
So if you could, could you stand
this morning? 

670
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:57,640
Did you get anything out of 
that? 

671
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:06,080
OK, good. 
Worship you Jesus. 

672
00:45:14,090 --> 00:45:19,930
I'll finish with one last story.
Have you ever witnessed the 

673
00:45:19,930 --> 00:45:24,650
power forgiveness in your life? 
It's amazing. 

674
00:45:26,250 --> 00:45:34,450
My dad was in the military and 
was gone a lot and we didn't 

675
00:45:34,450 --> 00:45:37,730
have the best relationship, but 
we didn't. 

676
00:45:39,240 --> 00:45:40,960
It wasn't terrible. 
He was a great guy. 

677
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:43,680
Now he went to be with the Lord 
when he was 52 years old, which 

678
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:47,320
is crazy to me because I'm 48. 
Back when it seemed like he was 

679
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:49,480
old, but now I'm like, whoa, 
it's just around the corner. 

680
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:57,120
Jennifer and I had just gotten 
married and when I was like the 

681
00:45:57,120 --> 00:45:59,680
first McKee that gave their 
heart to the Lord, the first 

682
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:03,320
call I got from my parents about
coming to the Lord was you 

683
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:05,800
better watch that church. 
They'll take your money. 

684
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:12,640
That was the first call. 
I remember hanging up the phone 

685
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,120
and be like bag, bag that just 
got real. 

686
00:46:15,720 --> 00:46:20,760
Like I was looking for where to 
go, boy, I got they're going to 

687
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:25,080
take your money And I remember 
being I feel like it was a test 

688
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:28,320
of the Lord. 
Do you follow me or do you 

689
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:33,320
follow them? 
I said, I choose you, Jesus, I 

690
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:36,080
follow you. 
They can have all the money. 

691
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:38,280
All my money. 
Geez, I give it to you all. 

692
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:40,960
I don't know. 
You saved my soul. 

693
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:43,920
What is that worth? 
So I kept walking it out. 

694
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:50,680
And then I saw my parents begin 
to change their perspective 

695
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:53,400
because you know what they saw? 
They saw fruit. 

696
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:58,600
They were like, Dang, my son 
might be giving them their 

697
00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:01,600
money, but transformation is 
happening. 

698
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:05,280
When he talks to me, he's kind, 
he's loving. 

699
00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:08,120
They saw it. 
They saw it from afar, and they 

700
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:12,960
just observed. 
So then I find my bride, my 

701
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:17,200
treasure, my heavenly treasure, 
Juniper, and we decide we're 

702
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:20,800
going to get married. 
And then my parents come up from

703
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:24,320
Florida and I don't know. 
I love weddings. 

704
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:25,960
Do you like weddings? 
I love weddings. 

705
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:27,760
I don't like funerals. 
I like weddings. 

706
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:29,640
Weddings are nice. 
And so it gathers all these 

707
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:34,000
people together. 
My dad, you know, I was going to

708
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:37,200
hang out with my dad and get 
married the next day and I was 

709
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:41,840
like, something in me was like, 
you got to just let him go. 

710
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:46,720
You got to forgive him. 
He did the best he could. 

711
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:50,520
It was the Holy Spirit you got, 
you got stuff, right? 

712
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:52,720
You don't have any stuff. 
You have stuff. 

713
00:47:52,720 --> 00:47:56,040
But in relationship, especially 
in family, there's just stuff. 

714
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,600
And the Lord was saying you got 
to get rid of that stuff. 

715
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:02,360
I was like, I don't really want 
to do it, dad. 

716
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:03,880
I don't want to. 
I don't want to do it, Jesus, I 

717
00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:05,720
don't want to. 
You got to do it, Holy Spirit. 

718
00:48:05,720 --> 00:48:10,000
You got to do it. 
So outside of my dad's camper 

719
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,960
around a fire, he had a couple 
beers. 

720
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:14,800
He used to like to drink 
Milwaukee's Best. 

721
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:17,520
I don't know if you eat it, 
whatever, terrible beer, 

722
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:19,640
whatever. 
He had a couple beers. 

723
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:22,920
And at the time I didn't, you 
know, I don't drink. 

724
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:25,920
I don't drink now, but I was 
like, you know what? 

725
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,520
I have a beer with my dad. 
I felt like the Holy Ghost was 

726
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:30,680
like, it's OK, you can have a 
beer. 

727
00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:33,960
I was like, OK, this is weird. 
Sat around the fire. 

728
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:35,720
You ever have this awkward 
conversation? 

729
00:48:35,720 --> 00:48:37,640
Guys have this awkward 
conversation all the time. 

730
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:40,040
Maybe ladies, they maybe do it a
little easier. 

731
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:43,280
Guys were just like Stonefall, 
Just look at the fire. 

732
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:45,000
Just look at the fire. 
We got something to talk about, 

733
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:46,440
Don. 
We're just looking at the fire. 

734
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:49,160
I got that, you know, So I'm 
just looking at the fire and I'm

735
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:52,360
sweating and I'm like, is this 
the beer or is this, I don't 

736
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:53,720
know, maybe I shouldn't have 
checked it. 

737
00:48:53,720 --> 00:48:55,760
And I was everywhere, all one 
time. 

738
00:48:57,160 --> 00:48:59,720
And I remember taking a deep 
breath and I said this to my 

739
00:48:59,720 --> 00:49:01,720
dad. 
I looked at my dad in the eyes. 

740
00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:05,320
He always taught me that. 
And I looked at him and I said, 

741
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:09,160
dad, I love you and I forgive 
you. 

742
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:14,680
You did the best you could and I
am so thankful that you're my 

743
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:17,680
dad. 
Threw it out there. 

744
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:21,200
I will never forget my dad's 
face. 

745
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:27,200
He didn't cry just like I don't 
cry, but his face was just like 

746
00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:33,240
he couldn't. 
He pauses and he begins to cry 

747
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:38,120
and he looks at me and he says, 
son, I'm so proud of you. 

748
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:43,160
I'm so thankful for what God is 
doing in your life and I'm so 

749
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:44,720
thankful that you're about to 
get married. 

750
00:49:44,720 --> 00:49:46,560
What a great we have this 
moment. 

751
00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:51,440
Fast forward six months after my
marriage, my dad goes to be with

752
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:57,560
the Lord. 
Do you know that I found his 

753
00:49:57,560 --> 00:50:04,080
journals that journaled and I 
flipped to the page where I got 

754
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:07,400
married and he journaled about 
our experience and our 

755
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:13,600
conversation around that fire. 
And he said my son is doing so 

756
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:18,200
well. 
Matter of fact, my son has 

757
00:50:18,200 --> 00:50:29,440
reignited my faith in God, the 
power of forgiveness, the debt 

758
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:37,560
was paid by Jesus and living in 
the understanding on unlimited 

759
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:39,920
forgiveness. 
When somebody doesn't deserve 

760
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:42,160
it, it's when you're supposed to
do it the most. 

761
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:45,400
Can I tell you it's not going to
make sense? 

762
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:46,960
So here's what we're going to 
do. 

763
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:49,440
Just raise your hands in the air
if you're comfortable. 

764
00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:51,120
Lift your hands as an act of 
surrender. 

765
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:54,480
Put your hands out like this. 
We're just going to get free 

766
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:59,960
this morning because I know that
the Holy Spirit is reminding you

767
00:50:59,960 --> 00:51:06,640
of somebody that may have done 
something to you that He is 

768
00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:11,240
encouraging you to let go. 
And what he's doing is he's 

769
00:51:11,240 --> 00:51:15,600
saying, son or daughter, it's 
time for you to relinquish 

770
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:23,560
control and just let them go. 
I have forgiven you. 

771
00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:27,520
Now it's your time to extend 
that mercy. 

772
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:33,480
We deserved judgment. 
He gave us mercy. 

773
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:36,960
The individual that has trans, 
that is, has done something 

774
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:41,800
against you, deserves judgment. 
And what you're going to do is 

775
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:46,240
you're going to extend mercy. 
Now, there might be a time after

776
00:51:46,240 --> 00:51:48,960
this service where you're going 
to have to maybe have a 

777
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:52,920
conversation with somebody, but 
right now you can just let them 

778
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:55,000
go. 
So Holy Spirit, we come to you 

779
00:51:55,000 --> 00:52:00,000
this morning. 
And if search is so, Lord, would

780
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:02,400
you say that with me? 
Search my heart, Lord. 

781
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:08,280
There you go. 
Search my heart, Lord, if 

782
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:15,640
there's anyone that I need to 
forgive, remind me of who they 

783
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:20,040
are. 
And then you just pause and you 

784
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:27,730
listen. 
And if the Holy Spirit says son 

785
00:52:27,730 --> 00:52:32,050
and daughter, you're free, 
you're good, then you say, 

786
00:52:32,690 --> 00:52:35,410
praise the Lord, that's what you
do. 

787
00:52:35,930 --> 00:52:39,650
You thank Him because the 
unlimited forgiveness you're 

788
00:52:39,650 --> 00:52:44,530
walking in is not because you 
have it all worked out. 

789
00:52:44,530 --> 00:52:47,840
It's because He has graced that 
to you. 

790
00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:50,560
So you just thank Him. 
Lord, I thank you that I don't 

791
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:52,520
have any sin. 
Again, I don't have any thought 

792
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:55,160
against anybody. 
Here's the second part. 

793
00:52:55,600 --> 00:52:59,680
If you have a name or there's a 
picture of somebody that has 

794
00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:07,400
popped in your mind, then you 
just quietly say I forgive them.

795
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:11,080
Say that with me, I forgive 
them. 

796
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:15,760
Now, if you want to, you can put
their name on it and that 

797
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:20,960
personalizes it. 
I forgive so and so. 

798
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:31,000
This is what I'm confident in. 
If you mean that and you declare

799
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:38,120
that and you believe that, then 
he has forgiven you. 

800
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:45,800
So Lord, I pray today that you 
would help us move from keeping 

801
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:52,920
score to losing count, that we 
would stop today, that we would 

802
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:58,680
stop operating in worldly wisdom
that says we need to keep score 

803
00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:03,080
and we would operate in the 
Kingdom reality that we are 

804
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:07,880
called to lose count. 
And that when people would 

805
00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:14,040
encounter us, be it family, 
friends, coworkers, strangers, 

806
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:19,640
that they would encounter the 
love of God that would then lead

807
00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:22,960
them to repentance. 
It's the kindness of God that 

808
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:25,720
leads them to repentance. 
Can I tell you this? 

809
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:30,520
I have led more people to Jesus 
by being kind than any fancy 

810
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:34,480
sermon I've ever put together. 
It's the kindness of God that 

811
00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:41,920
unlocks His love in their life. 
The kindness of God leads people

812
00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:45,520
to repentance. 
Lord, may they look upon us and 

813
00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:47,800
see the kindness and goodness of
God. 

814
00:54:49,480 --> 00:54:54,960
Let me ask this last question. 
Maybe you're in here today and 

815
00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:59,400
you've never asked for 
forgiveness. 

816
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:05,240
You never taken that step. 
Can I tell you the Holy Spirit 

817
00:55:05,240 --> 00:55:10,160
has used this parable as the 
from the unmerciful servant to 

818
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:14,040
communicate to you that there's 
a debt that you could never pay,

819
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:19,320
never, ever. 
And that you have a king that 

820
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:24,320
came and paid your debt for you.
He stood in the gap for you, and

821
00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:30,720
he didn't just stand there. 
He willingly sacrificed his his 

822
00:55:30,720 --> 00:55:34,000
life so that you could be set 
free. 

823
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:37,960
The good news is he didn't stay 
dead. 

824
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:44,600
He conquered death, hell and the
grave so that you could have 

825
00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:48,760
life in him. 
And that if you would confess 

826
00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:54,400
and trust in that finished work.
He says you are a brand new 

827
00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:58,000
creation. 
So maybe you're living your life

828
00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:03,280
counting the cost are taking 
score. 

829
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:09,120
Jesus is saying come to me son 
or daughter, and I will show you

830
00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:11,600
the new way, the more excellent 
way. 

831
00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:15,160
And how do you do that? 
You simply confess and believe 

832
00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:19,520
that Jesus is the Lord. 
So all eyes close, how heads 

833
00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:21,960
bowed. 
Is there anybody in here this 

834
00:56:21,960 --> 00:56:25,960
morning that wants to take that 
step of faith that you would 

835
00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:28,720
know beyond a shadow of a doubt 
if you left this room this 

836
00:56:28,720 --> 00:56:33,320
morning that you and you didn't 
make it through the day that you

837
00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:37,640
would be with King Jesus? 
So you can settle that account 

838
00:56:37,640 --> 00:56:40,960
right now right here. 
And the word says today is the 

839
00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:43,480
day of salvation. 
So in the count of three and 

840
00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:47,760
that's special about the number 
three, except it's the third day

841
00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:52,120
that Jesus was rose again. 
One, the Holy Spirit is drawing 

842
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:55,720
you to make that Step 2. 
He's encouraging you. 

843
00:56:55,720 --> 00:56:59,640
It's your time. 3 All across 
this room, how many? 

844
00:57:00,240 --> 00:57:02,360
I see that hand. 
I see that hand. 

845
00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:06,480
Thank you. 
Thank you. 

846
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:13,320
Let's all repeat this prayer. 
Lord Jesus, thank you for saving

847
00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:18,320
me. 
Thank you for doing for me what 

848
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:24,600
I could never do for myself. 
Thank you for preparing a way 

849
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:30,360
for me to come to you today. 
I believe in your death, your 

850
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:38,040
burial and your resurrection. 
I confess my sins and ask for 

851
00:57:38,040 --> 00:57:42,880
your forgiveness in Jesus name. 
Amen. 

852
00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:43,880
Amen. 
Amen. 

853
00:57:43,880 --> 00:57:45,920
Amen. 
All right, Praise the Lord. 

854
00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:48,120
Maybe we can get out of here 
before we get. 

855
00:57:48,120 --> 00:57:51,440
Is there anything out there? 
Donna, you want to close this 

856
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:52,760
up? 
That's fine. 

857
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:55,880
All right. 
OK well Lori thank you for 

858
00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:58,120
today. 
We thank you for the weather 

859
00:57:58,120 --> 00:58:01,200
that is going to relent so that 
we can go home and not drowned 

860
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:02,960
in Jesus name, Amen.
