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I'll just start with a quick 
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I was sitting over there and and
you know, sometimes any of you 

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ever get in your own head a 
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Anybody, just me, OK, Yeah, I'm 
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service. 
And, you know, sometimes the, 

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the tendency is for a minister 
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feel like there's a lot of 
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And just for service, I'm 
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thinking, I just don't know. 
And I started to pray and I 

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said, God, please just make this
about you and Take Me Out of it.

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And both services now people 
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responded before I ever got up 
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It's just a reminder to me that 
God is good. 

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And, and if you're here today to
hear a great sermon or anything 

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like that, I mean, you know, I, 
I hope it's OK, But but more 

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than that, I hope you walk away 
from here knowing that God is 

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good and that he's with you. 
And I hope you walk away knowing

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his word and hearing his word 
because it's all you need. 

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All you need is the presence of 
God and His word and His 

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guidance in your life. 
You don't need some, you know, 

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fancy pastor or fancy worship 
team telling you anything. 

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You just need him. 
And so that's my prayer. 

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I don't say it in any way. 
I don't need any of you to come 

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say anything to me after. 
Don't unless you're saying God 

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is good because God is good. 
We're starting a series called 

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Be Humble. 
This is something I think we all

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struggle with. 
Nod your head if you're super 

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humble, raise your hand and show
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Yeah. 
Now our world really does 

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struggle with humility, doesn't 
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And just an all, I mean, even 
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know, I was going to open 
talking about something I saw on

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social media, but let me just 
say, like sitting there thinking

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that that my part of this really
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Yeah, it's a preach the word and
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the truth of the matter is what 
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clever or smart I am is the fact
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to you. 
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I do laugh. 
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culture, you guys probably know 
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media. 
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By the way, thank you to 
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birthday a few weeks ago. 
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I'm so sorry. 
I'm a terrible person. 

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I didn't say thank you on social
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teaches you that, that I mean, 
did it even happen if you didn't

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put it on social media? 
Did you really take that cool 

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vacation if you didn't show it 
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All right, I, I will, I will 
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make if any other pastors are, 
are watching, I apologize, but 

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one of my pet peeves is pastors 
who speak and then they take 

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quotes of theirs and they post 
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don't just put the quote there 
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that, they said it. 
And a lot of times their picture

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with it. 
I, it's come on, guys, like 

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we're, we're putting some of 
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we're promoting ourselves to 
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And even at 1.11 church put a 
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their pastor and it was actually
just scripture. 

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And I thought your pastor didn't
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That's God's word. 
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we're giving credit to somebody 
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even do? 
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that, but seriously, that's the 
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And the, the pressure is that we
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media. 
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everything's OK. 
I'm not suggesting that you go 

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post your deepest darkest hurts 
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That won't work out well. 
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that really emphasizes me, 
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We're we're going to do a four 
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2 and it's called be humble 
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God has given us a different 
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In a world that tells you that 
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in a world that tells you that 
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to tell everyone how great you 
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God says be humble, be humble. 
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him, not in what you can 
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And so I want to call you to 
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and listen, this is so deep. 
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It's in the church, it's in our 
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I want to call you something 
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So we're in Philippians chapter 
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Philippians is another letter of
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Philippi. 
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from in prison. 
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the way, if you can hear me 
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church and you think, man, this 
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That's not the case. 
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the gospel, but he was 
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prison and, and would find 
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authorities didn't like what he 
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preaching the word. 
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But instead of sitting there and
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he would encourage the church. 
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one of those letters In chapter 
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He says, this is my prayer that 
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more in knowledge and depth of 
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to discern what is best and be 
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of Christ, filled with the fruit
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through Jesus Christ to the 
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All right, Paul didn't say I 
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more so that you can know what's
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yourself. 
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know more and more so that you 
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that you can honor God with who 
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Do you see the difference there?
Less of me, more of him stand 

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with me. 
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through 11 and this is the 
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This is something I've read 
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times and and it's Philippians 
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It says therefore, if you have 
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united with Christ, if any 
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common sharing in the Spirit, if
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then make my joy complete by 
being like minded, having the 

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same love, being one in spirit 
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Do nothing out of selfish 
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Rather in humility value others 
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not looking to your own 
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interests of others in your 
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Have the same mindset as Christ 
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nature, God, did not consider 
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be used to His own advantage. 
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by taking the very nature of a 
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in human likeness and being 
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humbled himself by becoming 
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a cross. 
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the highest place and gave him a
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above every name, that at the 
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bow in heaven and on earth and 
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tongue acknowledged that Jesus 
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God the Father. 
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Humility is in short order in 
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Humility is countercultural. 
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teaches you not to be humble. 
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How can we do that? 
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counterculturally? 
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it in Philippians chapter 2, 
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to know Jesus and to follow His 
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Jesus set the example. 
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perfectly. 
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going to study this today. 
We're just in the first few 

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It's to follow Jesus, to be 
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live. 
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chapter 2 and I just want to 
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We ended last week all standing 
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communion and I said we are one 
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talk about our unity in Christ. 
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any encouragement now there's 
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then there's the word then and 
then there are three things that

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were called to. 
So it says therefore if you have

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any encouragement from being 
united with Christ, if any 

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comfort from His love, if any 
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any tenderness and compassion, 
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being like minded, having the 
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and one in mind. 
Guys, humility starts with not 

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finding our value and identity 
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being united with the body of 
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Him. 
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that's Him. 
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It's not about how great of a 
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It's about how we can glorify 
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At the end of the Scripture, the
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of God the Father. 
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praise. 
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callings. 
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The first if is if you have any 
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with Christ. 
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encouragement from being united 
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Now you may read a different 
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but the basic idea here is, is 
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that that Jesus allows this. 
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It says the term embraces 3 
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those in distress #2 
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resolve, and #3 earnest appeal 
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So, so #1 any of you going 
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need comfort and distress, Any 
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through something and needed 
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You have 100% Jesus wants to 
help you through #2 it, it, it 

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says encouragement that 
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How do we get through those 
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How do we get through the 
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how to put the, the foot next 
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Jesus gives us strength and #3 
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Jesus calls us to make it 
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And so, so #1 if there's any 
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good news for you. 
Jesus is not distant. 

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The God of the universe is not 
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We, we live in a world. 
Once again, if you want to go 

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see the President, IIA, couple 
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football game, but we went to 
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And you know how close we got to
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We got outside the fence a long 
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If you want to go see the 
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lot of money or unless you find 
yourself in a lucky spot, you're

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not getting anywhere close to 
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If you're a big fan of athletes 
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in the the 90s, we went to a 
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We went to a Reds game in 
Houston, and we just happened to

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stay in the same hotel as the 
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And so after the game, they came
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there as Barry Larkin walked 
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And I just thought, yeah, that 
stuff doesn't happen much 

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anymore. 
You're not getting anywhere 

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close to the World Series 
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James or, or any of those 
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I mean, they are in a different 
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Here's the good news, guys. 
Our God, our Savior, Jesus 

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Christ is not distant. 
He's not sitting up in some 

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comfortable place watching us 
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If you're going through it, he's
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He's walking with you. 
He knows what you're going 

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through and, and he's with you. 
No matter what you walk through,

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you never walk alone because God
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So it says if there's any, any 
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have any encouragement 
strengthening in Christ and, and

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listen, the the answer is yes, 
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How many of you would say, yes, 
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helped me through a tough time? 
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at all the hands that are up and
understand that that's who our 

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God is. 
He's with us, He strengthens us,

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He helps us through. 
All right #2 He says if there's 

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any comfort from His love, love 
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Have you ever been having a 
really bad day and then somebody

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does something, shows you love 
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I know I've shared the story 
before I grew up, I wanted to 

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play basketball my whole life. 
I really thought I was going to 

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be a basketball player spent 
hours every day playing 

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basketball, dreamed of being a 
college and pro basketball 

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player and I'll never forget my 
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I've been playing for four years
in high school I was our second 

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leading scorer. 
I'm not bragging guys. 

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We my team wasn't any good. 
We really weren't if the fact 

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that I was a second leading 
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weren't any good. 
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school, I had all these dreams. 
I spent hours and hours 

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practicing. 
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bench the entire game watching 
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points. 
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coach says, hey, go in. 
It's ridiculing. 

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I mean, life. 
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I wanted to just hide. 
I wanted to crawl under the 

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bench. 
I didn't want to walk into the 

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game where we were getting beat 
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I just wanted to be done. 
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up and I started to walk off the
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And my dad came up and he 
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he said, I love you, son. 
Oh, you know what that does for 

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you? 
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Ever. 
I appreciate you guys. 

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Every once in a while, I'm 
having a tough day and it never 

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fails that that one of you sends
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and on the flip side, if I'm 
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said, I'm just kidding, you guys
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Love is comforting and we serve 
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And in fact, let me tell you the
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My dad gave me the big hug. 
I didn't. 

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I felt a little better. 
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I went home. 
I felt completely like a 

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failure. 
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dreaming of this one thing and 
it became a reality at that 

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moment that it just wasn't 
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And I'll never forget. 
God clearly said to me, I didn't

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hear it, but I heard it through 
my sister playing the piano. 

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She's playing a song that says, 
child, I love you how I love 

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you. 
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I knew that God was telling me I
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found in basketball, it's found 
in me. 

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If there's any comfort from His 
love, guys, if you've never felt

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the comfort of His love, you're 
missing it. 

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He loves you more than you will 
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Some of you may feel like you've
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loved. 
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Jesus Christ were standing here 
in person, He would come to each

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and every one of you. 
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would want to tell you today is 
this, I love you. 

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Our God is God of love and 
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If you have any consolation from
Jesus, strengthening, 

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encouraging, if you have any 
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The third is if any common 
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Now here's I told you, God is 
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He's not sitting up in heaven, 
you know, comfortable while we 

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are struggling. 
God has sent his very spirit to 

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be with us all the time. 
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there's any common sharing in 
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accepted Christ as your savior. 
So we know Jesus walked the face

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of the earth that that's that's 
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Jesus was a man that walked the 
earth and and he died and he 

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ascended to heaven. 
Scripture tells us, but then he 

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sent us his Holy Spirit. 
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are a believer, is with you 
always. 

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He's always working, leading 
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Just this week I'm sitting at 
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Spirit said, hey, go do this. 
I didn't hear a voice, an Angel 

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didn't show up. 
I just felt the Spirit leading 

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me to go do something. 
That's the work of the Spirit. 

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If you haven't felt that, guys, 
open your heart to the Spirit. 

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God's Spirit wants to lead you 
and guide you. 

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He's with you to teach you how 
to live, to teach you how to 

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treat each other to to correct 
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The Spirit is with us. 
If you have any common sharing 

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in the Spirit. 
The 4th, if there's any 

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tenderness or compassion, the 
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affection and mercy. 
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the affection of God, if you 
feel the compassion of God, none

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of us, not one person in here 
deserves to be here today. 

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Not one of us is good enough in 
our own strength and power and 

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record. 
Not one of us. 

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If you put our life real in 
front of us, we we would all be 

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embarrassed and ashamed, but 
through the grace and the mercy 

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of Jesus Christ, we're made 
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I talked about this last week. 
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of His grace and His compassion,
and we're called to have that 

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same compassion. 
Ephesians 4 says be kind and 

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compassionate to one another, 
forgiving each other just as 

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Christ forgave you. 
None of us belong here if it 

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wasn't for the compassion and 
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So, so Paul says 4 ifs, if, if, 
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rhetorical. 
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but he but he knows God is good.
God does give you strength. 

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God does encourage you. 
God does give you comfort. 

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God does lead you and guide you.
God does all of this. 

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Yes, the answer is yes. 
Let me just say this if you 

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haven't felt all of those 
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It's not because God's not 
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because you're missing it. 
Open your heart and surrender 

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and you will feel it. 
If for ifs they're, they're, 

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they're given, then. 
So if God is so great, if God 

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has done all that, what do we do
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Make my joy complete by being 
like minded, having the same 

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love, being one in spirit and 
one of mind and of one mind. 

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And what Paul saying here is in 
light of everything God's done 

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for you, that that we should 
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together with the body of 
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All right, so the world says 
look out for yourself, promote 

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yourself, take care of yourself,
make sure you're OK. 

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God says I've got you, seek my 
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Christ. 
He says if all four of these 

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things, and the answer is yes, 
yes, yes, yes, then be like 

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minded, have the same love, be 
of 1 spirit and one mind. 

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How? 
How can we be unified? 

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How can a bunch of look around 
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Go ahead, take a look around. 
It's OK. 

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It's not awkward. 
Just look at some people. 

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You probably noticed that we're 
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right? 
If you talk to people in the 

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room, you would notice we're all
different, right? 

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We all have different taste in 
music. 

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We all have different. 
Some of us like different sports

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teams. 
Some of us don't even like 

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sports. 
Well, you don't have to be 

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hateful. 
I mean, we're all different. 

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How can we be one? 
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be 1. 
Because we all have the 

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consolation of Christ. 
We all find our strength and 

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encouragement in Christ. 
Why can we be 1? 

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Because we're all loved by 
Christ. 

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We all have the same love in the
same grace. 

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How can we be 1? 
Because we're all filled with 

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the same spirit. 
We're one. 

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We're brought together in 
Christ. 

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Be like minded the unified What 
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3 things. 
The then three things #1 having 

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the same love. 
We are called to have the same 

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love. 
We talked about agape agape 

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love. 
We're called to have the same 

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love. 
We're not all called to love the

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same music. 
We're not all called to have the

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same opinion of architecture or 
style. 

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We're not all called to root for
the same football teams or any 

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of that stuff. 
We are called to have the same 

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love. 
In John 13, Jesus said a new 

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command. 
I give you love one another. 

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As I have loved you, so you must
love one another. 

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By this everyone will know you 
are my disciples. 

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If you love one another. 
I didn't say Jesus didn't say, 

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hey, if you put a Christian 
T-shirt on, if you call 

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yourself, if you sing the right 
songs, if you do this, Jesus 

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says the thing that will 
identify you as a member of the 

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body of Christ. 
The thing that people will know 

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that you're following God is if 
you love well, how can we all 

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love the same? 
Well, we're all loved the same 

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by God as I've loved. 
You love one another, guys. 

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I, I really, I mean, I've got my
opinions. 

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I've got my opinions on music. 
I've got my opinions on a lot of

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things. 
You know what I care far more 

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than any of that is that we're a
people that love well, that we 

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know God's love for us and that 
we love others. 

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Well, that's what we should be 
known for. 

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Have the same love not you have 
to figure it out. 

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You have to you know, you have 
to find your interpretation 

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because that's what our world 
says that there's a lot of 

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different interpretations of 
what love is. 

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I mean love is this, but no, no,
no, no, as God loved you love 

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others the same love. 
It's simple. 

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Once again we look to Christ the
second being one in spirit. 

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This is another from a 
commentary. 

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This expresses the state of 
being one sold soul as in your 

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inward soul, a deep inward unity
where the affections, 

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convictions and purposes of 
believers are harmonized by the 

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Holy Spirit. 
It's it reaches past 

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intellectual agreement and to a 
shared spiritual vitality 

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binding disciples together in a 
common life sourced in Christ. 

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Have one love everybody love 
with the love of Christ #2 be 

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one in spirit. 
Once again, it doesn't say we 

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all have to look the same. 
We all have to act the same. 

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We have to all have to like the 
same things. 

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It says we should all have the 
same spirit, the same deep 

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spirit, the same guiding force 
that we want to glorify God by 

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building His Kingdom. 
Be unified in spirit. 

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The third thing it says is of 
one mind. 

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It's probably the toughest 1. 
I have 4 boys and a wife. 

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And so if we're driving around 
and I say where do you want to 

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go for dinner, guess how many 
places I get? 

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And it's sometimes 4 to be 
honest, because usually two of 

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the boys will try to band 
together so that they can have 

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more than the others. 
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Every time I say where do you 
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And I get four or five different
answers. 

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And we are not of the same mind 
when it comes food. 

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Our staff, by the way, we have 
to have a system for figuring 

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out lunch because we don't all 
agree on where we should go eat 

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every week. 
So we have a, a very detailed 

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system that I came up with for 
where we're going to go to lunch

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because we're not always of one 
opinion when it comes to lunch. 

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But I do want to tell you that 
we are of one mind that we want 

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to glorify God and we want to 
focus on him. 

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We can argue over Panera or 
Chick-fil-A or any of those 

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places. 
We can argue all you want, but 

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we're to be of one mind. 
That means one focus. 

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That means our our focus is on 
Christ. 

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You can have different opinions,
but we should have one mind 

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focused on him and his glory. 
And so if God is good, listen 

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today, the first half of this 
message is just all about God's 

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goodness. 
And if you're new here, I want 

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to tell you that God is good, 
that God loves you. 

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If you're walking through 
difficulty today, I want to tell

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you that God wants to strengthen
you and encourage you and help 

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you through. 
If you're hurting and you need 

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comfort, I want you to know that
our God is the God of comfort. 

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If you don't know what you're 
going to do tomorrow or how to 

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approach something, I want you 
to know that the Holy Spirit is 

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with you. 
God loves you, He's good. 

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So what are we called to? 
We're not called to all be super

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Christians. 
We don't all have to sell 

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ourselves. 
We don't have to be the best. 

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We don't have to convince 
everyone that we're great. 

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You know what we need to do? 
We need to join together and we 

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need to glorify God by being 
1:00. 

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Not that we have to always agree
on everything. 

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One of the things I love about 
our church board, we don't 

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always agree on everything. 
I feel like we are of 1 heart 

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and one mind and one spirit that
we want to glorify God. 

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We're called to humility, we're 
called to unity worship team, 

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come up, come up, come on up. 
I had a friend in college and 

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high school. 
I've talked about him before. 

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His name was Kevin. 
His dad was a pastor as well and

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I've had a lot of friends 
through my life. 

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One of the things that I've, I 
think was very unique to Kevin 

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and I's friendship is that Kevin
and I mostly hung out doing 

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ministry. 
I mean, we would hang out and 

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watch games and do all that 
stuff. 

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But I told you last week that I 
went to visit a guy named Dennis

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in the Tribeca Healthcare and, 
and Kevin would always go with 

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me and, and we would go visit 
him and we'd go visit other 

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people and, and, and the 
beautiful thing about our 

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relationship is it wasn't built 
on the fact that we had all the 

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same interests. 
It was built on the fact that we

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have the same God, we have the 
same purpose. 

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And so today I want to call you 
to something at the beginning of

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this series, be humble. 
The world tells you, take care 

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of yourself. 
Put yourself first, promote 

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yourself. 
God says find your value and 

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identity. 
And me, trust me, stand with me.

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Maybe today God is reminding you
of his goodness. 

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Maybe today He's speaking to 
you. 

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I'd invite you to respond to His
Word. 

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If there's a part of today's 
word that that speaks to you, 

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I'd encourage you just to 
respond. 

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However that is, put your hands 
up, come to an altar, whatever. 

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Maybe God's calling you to stop 
being all about yourself and to 

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join the body of Christ to seek 
His glory, not yours. 

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That's you today. 
Respond. 

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The altars are a good place to 
come and pray. 

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They're always open. 
It's not a place of shame, it's 

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a place of victory. 
You can pray in your seat, you 

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can put your hands up, you can 
go talk to someone, you can pray

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with someone. 
Whatever it is, we serve a good 

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God and God is calling us to 
unity and humility because it's 

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the best way. 
Father, speak to us, lead us, 

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help us to respond to you in 
Jesus name, Amen.