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Welcome to the Illuminate Church
podcast. 

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We hope today's message is 
encouraging to you. 

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To be here with you, you know, 
we're in a series called the 

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seven Habits of Jesus people. 
If you were here last week, 

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Pastor Tim kicked it off for us 
that what it means to be a Jesus

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person, a Jesus follower means 
you're going to be a little 

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peculiar, right. 
So all week long I've been 

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talking to people and every now 
and again the phrases come out 

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like you're so peculiar. 
And never before has that felt 

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good. 
Really, honestly, because that 

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is kind of strange, but it's OK.
What it means is we're going to 

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be different than the world 
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And if you are here this 
morning, I want to tell you 

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you're on a good path. 
You're already on a good path 

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because you're here. 
And especially if you're a young

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adult, if you're between the 
ages of 18 and 30, whatever the 

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qualification is, I want to say 
something to you right now. 

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I want to say to you that the 
Lord says you're on a good path 

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and don't let anyone deter you 
from the path that you are on. 

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Don't let the attraction, the 
allure, the false draw of what 

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the world says will satisfy you,
allure you away from this 

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peculiar path. 
And if you're, if you're a 

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student and you're getting ready
to go to camp, the Lord is 

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priming your heart. 
Yes. 

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And so I say this to the young 
adults and to the young people 

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in our midst, that you are the 
next generation of leadership 

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for where the world is going. 
And if you haven't noticed, it's

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a little unstable. 
The only stable thing that you 

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will find that you can stake 
your life to is the eternal 

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power, presence and promise of 
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And so for that, I say you're on
a good path. 

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And so this morning, as we take 
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we're going to get to the first 
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Last week, the stage was set. 
If I haven't introduced myself 

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yet, I don't think I have. 
My name is Christine. 

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I'm one of the pastors here at 
Illuminate Church. 

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My husband is Lee Pastor him and
together the Lord is birthing 

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and growing a hell shaking 
ground, taking battleship of 

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believers of Jesus, people that 
are getting there that are 

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willing to be peculiar. 
And if that is you, you're in 

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the right place. 
And if you're here checking it 

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out, you're in the right place 
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But what we want to do this 
morning is we're going to delve 

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into what does it mean to be a 
Jesus person, to have habits 

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that make us like Jesus. 
I don't know if you've noticed, 

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but it's never been so easy to 
waste our lives. 

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Anybody noticed? 
And I have had lots of 

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conversations lately with some 
of you young adults, been in my 

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home and two separate occasions,
2 of them said I wish nobody had

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ever given this to me. 
I wish that I could have a flip 

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phone, right? 
And so as a parent of a wide age

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gap, I would say to you that we 
were parenting someone when 

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these came on the scene, our 
oldest and now we're parenting a

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12 year old. 
And what we learned in between 

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is we didn't know anything, 
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Isn't that the gift of an age 
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When you have a much older and 
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second chance, so to speak. 
And so while our 12 year old, we

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love you. 
We promise we will coach you 

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faithfully. 
And true, he's constantly 

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asking, when can I get a phone? 
And the young adults around me 

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are saying, help me break free. 
And it's not just you young 

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adults, It's all of us. 
It's all of us tethered to this 

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onslaught of information that 
makes us feel like we need more 

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stuff. 
And now I'm not. 

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I'm not only comparing myself to
the people in my life around me,

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but I'm comparing myself to 
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And AI, right? 
So never before has it been so 

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easy to get divided, to get 
pulled into unnecessary 

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conversations, to get 
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Never before has it been so easy
to waste our time, but what 

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Jesus is calling us to see is 
that when we waste our time, we 

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actually waste our life. 
And so the first habit of Jesus 

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people, the habit that we want 
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that Jesus people have a rule of
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Everybody say rule of life. 
If I've already lost you because

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I had the word rule in it, stay 
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It doesn't mean some rigid set 
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What it means is a determined 
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determined and set course based 
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That's the first part of our 
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A rule of life involves values 
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practices. 
So if you want to know what is a

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rule of life, it's when you have
values that are specific coupled

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with practices that are 
specific, and it results in an 

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outcome that you set out to get.
So a set of values supported by 

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a construct of consistent 
practices that ensure those 

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values are fulfilled. 
That's what a rule of life is at

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its most basic level. 
So let's start with some values.

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How many people value like a 
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You're like a morning person. 
Don't be shy. 

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I need to see hands. 
Like right out of the gate, 

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you're out of the bed. 
Some of you, some of you might 

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supply it with coffee, right? 
Do I have coffee drinkers? 

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Yeah, that's a practice. 
How many of you value like kind 

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of some flexibility, You're kind
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and hey, yeah, nothing wrong 
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So as you see, different values,
different practices, not right 

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or wrong, we're just, we're not 
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How many people value health to 
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exercise is a part of your every
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Yeah, we got some unenthusiastic
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No. 
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If you value working out, give 
me your attention. 

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How many people are like, get in
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morning? 
Like I'm a get it done in the 

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morning or I'm never going to do
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Yeah. 
How many people are like, get it

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done at night, get it done at 
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It doesn't matter when. 
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So whatever your value is, it's 
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Right. 
So what we're acknowledging 

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today is that we all have 
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In fact, I would say you have a 
rule of life whether you know it

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or you don't. 
Even if your rule of life is 

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chaos, you have a rule of life. 
And so today we're slowing down 

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to ask ourselves some 
intentional questions that God 

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is asking. 
And I would start with these two

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right up front. 
Is your rule of life happening 

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to you or is it set by you? 
Are you being intentional? 

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Am I being intentional or am I 
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me? 
The second one is, is my rule of

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life helping me become more like
Jesus or is it helping me fit in

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more with the world? 
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building on last week's message,
whether you were here or not, 

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you're not going to blend in 
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peculiar. 
And Jesus, people don't blend in

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with the world. 
We stand out because he has a 

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message he is sending through 
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So today, we are taking the time
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lives to be sure that we create 
an intentional, conscious plan 

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that puts us on the path to 
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It's a rule of life. 
My dad has a rule of life. 

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He will be 85 this December. 
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And I'm going to tell you he 
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principled and structured people
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I mentioned he's almost 85. 
I think at this point he could 

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go out and climb on a ladder and
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Both physically and skill wise. 
He's that guy. 

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He's a mathematical genius. 
He was an early computer 

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programmer. 
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almost 85, he still mows his 
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I've got a picture here of some 
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And he grows them partially 
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also grows them from my mom. 
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And one of his values is to make
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And she loves these roses. 
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cultivates them. 
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with him this past weekend. 
He was an educator for a number 

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of years. 
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that's how he finished. 
And when he retired, he became a

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stained glass artist. 
I want to show you a few of his 

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beautiful pieces. 
He is a Craftsman to the NTH 

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degree. 
I'll show you another one. 

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Here's a beautiful lamp. 
And then I've got one more. 

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This one might be my favorite. 
He taught himself how to do this

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and this is who this guy is. 
He is literally a get after it, 

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make the most of your life kind 
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And I was spending time with him
last weekend and we were just 

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kind of shooting the breeze. 
You know, I'm visiting and just 

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want to hear about what's going 
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And he shows me this binder. 
It's like a, you know, a 2 inch 

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binder. 
And he brings it out and he 

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starts flipping through it and 
he's showing me that he's 

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tracking everything he's eating 
and how he's wearing a glucose 

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monitor and how much it spikes, 
how long it takes to come down. 

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He's not diabetic, OK, he's not 
diabetic, but he loves to master

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and conquer anything. 
So he's conquering right now, 

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intermittent fasting, aikido 
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And his goal is to be like 0 
flat line on his glucose spikes.

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Are you getting the picture? 
So this man has a set of values.

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He has a rule of life. 
He has practices that support 

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his values. 
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Don't stop moving. 
Don't stop growing. 

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Don't stop learning. 
Make the most of every season of

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your life. 
Keep it really organized. 

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That's in there too. 
But he has practices that 

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support his values. 
And as a result, at 85, he is 

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physically and mentally 
incredibly fit in more ways than

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I can count. 
This is the power of a rule of 

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life. 
When you have values and you put

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practices with them and you 
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life, you will have an outcome. 
You will have fruit. 

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The thing is though, Jesus 
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different. 
It's peculiar. 

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It's different than the rest of 
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Jesus people have a rule of life
that results in transformation 

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and we become like Jesus. 
Did you know that Scripture 

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tells us in Romans chapter 8 
that this was God's plan, that 

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we would be transformed into the
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You know God speaks through 
creation. 

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He shows us in canyons and 
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He reveals Himself. 
But his greatest artistry is in 

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the creation of you and I and in
the transformation of our lives 

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by the Holy Spirit. 
We begin to bear His image and 

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we take his hope and His love to
a broken and hurting world. 

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This is God's plan if we will 
accept and receive and embrace a

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rule of life that makes us Jesus
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But just in case you're 
wondering, well, what's in it 

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for me, let me tell you what you
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Jesus people have a rule of life
that results in an intimate, 

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knowing and being known kind of 
relationship, always near to an 

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eternal, powerful, loving God. 
Does that sound good? 

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Where every need is met, yours 
and those around you. 

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Where your steps are guided, 
your wounds are tended to and 

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healed. 
You have strength and power and 

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comfort in constant supply. 
And when you choose a Jesus rule

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of life, you have shared 
mission, You have eternal 

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impact, you have purpose beyond 
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And you don't have any shame. 
Because the love and the 

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lifeblood of Jesus takes away 
everything and anything that's 

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of us and replaces it with 
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There's no dumb questions. 
There's laughter and delight and

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joy. 
Are you getting excited yet? 

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Flowing between you and God And 
what Crystal was talking about 

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earlier, That firm foundation, 
when it gets shaken, when you 

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face difficult situations, you 
won't be alone and they won't be

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wasted. 
This is the fruit of a Jesus 

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people rule of life. 
So maybe you're asking, OK, OK, 

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I'm interested. 
You've got me, I'm listening. 

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What's the difference between a 
rule of life that makes us good 

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people, nice people, disciplined
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Because there's distinction. 
If we're going to choose a rule 

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of life that transforms us into 
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good and nice and disciplined, 
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submitted and faithful and 
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be distinct. 
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we're going to cover is 3 
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as a Jesus person. 
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would you close your eyes and 
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who knows us through and through
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simple. 
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way, however you want to do it. 
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I'm saying it to Holy Spirit, 
have your way in my words. 

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I step aside. 
I ask you to come and transform 

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each one of us, including me 
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We want to meet with you. 
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Jesus people is that Jesus 
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their values and their practices
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Where do we go? 
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Not in the culture, not even 
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Jesus's rule of life, right? 
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anywhere first other than the 
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chapter 6. 
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scripture that I'm going to use 
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give you a tool for building a 
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is going to be in there. 
It is in the message notes 

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inside of the app. 
If you don't have the app, you 

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can go to illuminate dot church,
Illuminate dot church and pull 

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up the message notes. 
I highly recommend it. 

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But we're going to read Matthew 
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If you'd like a Bible in your 
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If you didn't bring one, our 
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We've got one over here. 
I love that you want the Word in

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your hands. 
We want the Word in your hands 

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and in your heart and 
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We've got hands up all over the 
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getting you Bibles. 
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background. 
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gospels, the gospels, Matthew, 
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the New Testament. 
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account of Jesus, how he lived, 
who we loved, how we spend his 

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Jesus rule of life, we are going
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Are you with me? 
You're with me as we're getting 

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there to Matthew chapter 6, as 
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to listen for two things. 
I want you to listen for values 

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and I want you to listen for 
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So if we're going to find our 
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word of God, let's do it 
together this morning, Matthew 

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chapter 6 beginning in verse 1. 
And I want you all to talk back.

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Can you be a talk back kind of 
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Holy Spirit highlight to us 
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Jesus said to his disciples, 
watch out, don't do your good 

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deeds publicly to be admired by 
others, for you will lose the 

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reward from your Father in 
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Does that sound like a value? 
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your heart matters. 
That's a value of a Jesus 

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person. 
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that sound like something? 
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give to someone in need? 
Don't do as the hypocrites do, 

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blowing trumpets in the 
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attention to their acts of 
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I tell you the truth, you have 
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They have received all the 
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But when you give, does that 
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practice? 
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When you give, give to someone 
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Give your gifts in private and 
your Father who sees everything 

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will reward you. 
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about praying. 
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that? 
Come on, talk back. 

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It's a practice. 
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hypocrites who love to pray 
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in the synagogues where everyone
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I tell you the truth, that's all
the reward they will ever get. 

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But when you pray, when you 
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Right now, we're going to hear 
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shut the door behind you and 
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Then your Father, who sees 
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There's a value in here about 
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part of who we are, being 
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first before we go and do any of
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make it obvious. 
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theme in verse 17. 
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hair, wash your face so that no 
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fasting. 
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Your Father, who knows what you 
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who sees everything will reward 
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And here's a great value. 
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earth, where moths eat them and 
rust destroys them, where 

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thieves break in and steal. 
Store up your treasures and 

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where in heaven, where moths and
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thieves do not break in and 
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one passage, just from Matthew 
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build a very strong rule of 
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He wants us to give to the 
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treasure heaven's eternal 
rewards over the earth's flash 

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in the pan rewards, and then He 
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We can't do good things for 
people's attention, for their 

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approval. 
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love for God, because God sees. 
God rewards, not because he's 

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watching you, because he loves 
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really great rule of life. 
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I'm supposed to find my 
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Word, but I'm not very familiar 
with the Bible, how am I 

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supposed to do this? 
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today, decide you want it and 
borrow someone else's rule of 

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life that has been living this 
and has been in the Word and has

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built something that's worth 
copying for now, borrow it, copy

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it and just start doing it. 
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Word, you will grow, you will 
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make it your own, but don't wait
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Borrow something from someone 
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As Paul said, follow me as I 
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me. 
Yes, so we're also going to give

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you tools in this series to help
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The next six weeks are going to 
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we're going to get down into 
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Next week is about reading the 
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How convenient? 
Isn't God amazing? 

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Yes. 
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chapter 6, verse 24. 
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value. 
No one can serve 2 masters, for 

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you will hate one and love the 
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You will be devoted to 1 and 
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You cannot serve God and be 
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So the first point was we're 
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practices in the word, not in 
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Jesus, people have a rule of 

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life where their values match 
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There's no division, there's no 
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So what is Jesus saying? 
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going to serve God, but money is
calling your name and it has 

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your attention, you're going to 
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It won't work. 
You can't have two masters. 

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We can't have two sets of 
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We can't have values that are 
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or practices that are 
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Are you hearing the invitation 
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We have to have practices that 
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person, a Jesus follower, will 
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ourselves. 
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this earth, he did not see, say,
or do anything unless it came 

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from the Father. 
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We're going to stop for just a 
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valued a love relationship with 
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If we want to look for a place 
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don't have to look any further 
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He spent time with the Father. 
You know, we can find a phrase 

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or a version of a phrase like 
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Jesus went out to a mountain to 
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He spent the night praying to 
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He often withdrew to lonely 
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Jesus went up on the mountain by
himself to pray. 

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He went out in the desert by 
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He got up, left the house early 
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secluded place and was praying 
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Do you hear a theme? 
Where did Jesus go when stuff 

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was happening? 
He went away to be with the 

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Father. 
He prioritized the relationship 

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with the Father. 
Jesus didn't have a separate 

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strategy or a separate 
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pain. 
When John the Baptist, his 

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cousin and forerunner, was 
beheaded, Jesus went out to 

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grieve and be with the Father. 
When Jesus had to make a big 

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decision about choosing the 12 
disciples that the church would 

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be built upon, he spent the 
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When Jesus was being exalted and
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an earthly king, and the crowd 
wanted to make him the King, he 

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got away to be with the Lord. 
And when he faced the ultimate 

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suffering of bearing the the 
knowledge he was going to go to 

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the cross, he wrestled in the 
garden in prayer with God. 

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He said, I know this is what I 
came here to do. 

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I know this is what we agreed 
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But if there's any other way, 
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And in that exchange, in that 
time alone with the Father, he 

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exchanged his will and said, no,
you're right, there is no other 

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way. 
Let's go. 

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So what did Jesus do at any 
decision after a hard day, after

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an exciting day, when he was 
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Everything he did was based on a
big value of being with his 

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Father, practicing, taking time 
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So if we're looking at our own 
rule of life, how do you prepare

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for a giant move, A launch of a 
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Where do we go when our heart is
broken? 

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When grief plunges us into pain?
Where do we go for wisdom? 

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Where do we go when everything 
is falling apart? 

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Where do you go when 
everything's going great? 

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Jesus had a value that matched 
his practice and his value was 

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Father first, relationship 1st, 
and everything else comes 

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second. 
Good, bad, ugly, everything in 

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between. 
I'm not moving until I've been 

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with you. 
He had a value that was 

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supported by His practice. 
And in Matthew chapter 6, that 

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same verse, the same passage as 
we were looking at, at the very 

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end of the chapter, there's one 
more value we want to grab onto 

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from Jesus. 
And Jesus is talking in this 

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section of scripture. 
After he talked to them about 

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praying and fasting and serving,
and he taught them the Lord's 

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Prayer, He said, you're going to
face day-to-day life where 

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you're going to need clothes and
food, You're going to need 

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provision. 
And when you face these things, 

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you're going to want to take 
care of it yourself. 

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You're going to have anxiety and
worry over where it's coming 

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from. 
Anyone identify with this? 

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Yeah, we're, we're all my honest
people. 

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Anyone identify with providing 
for yourself? 

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And then Jesus takes them 
through this exercise and says, 

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do you see the lilies of the 
field? 

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Nobody got up and dressed them 
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God did it. 
And do you see the Sparrow? 

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00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:40,320
Do you see them flitting around?
Do you see them toiling to eat? 

452
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,920
And of course they said no. 
And Jesus then said, when you 

453
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:48,720
face this life, this crazy 
upside down life, you're not 

454
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:51,600
going to provide for yourself. 
You're going to have to make a 

455
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:54,480
choice, though our God is 
willing to provide for you. 

456
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:58,360
And then he says this verse in 
Matthew 6, verse 33. 

457
00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:04,840
But seek first his Kingdom and 
his righteousness, and all these

458
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:09,160
things will be added to you. 
And So what is Jesus saying? 

459
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:12,680
He's saying that if we say we 
trust God, like if we would say,

460
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,720
yeah, I trust God, that's a 
value. 

461
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:20,000
But then I'm self-sufficient 
toiling and striving to provide 

462
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:23,800
everything for myself. 
Is my value matching my 

463
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:27,600
practice? 
No, what Jesus is saying is you 

464
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:29,520
have an opportunity to put God 
first. 

465
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:31,320
Seek the things that matter to 
him. 

466
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,960
Build a Jesus rule of life and 
then you will not only have what

467
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:38,920
you need, you will have peace or
you can do your rule of life 

468
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:40,840
your way. 
You can have this discord 

469
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:43,320
mismatch and you'll have anxiety
and worry. 

470
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,400
Because when we say we believe 
in something and we value 

471
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:50,440
something and we do something 
else, it creates a like a chasm 

472
00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:53,720
in our being because we know 
we're not matching. 

473
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:57,120
The whole is interrupted. 
There's no integration of the 

474
00:26:57,120 --> 00:27:00,280
parts. 
And so Jesus people have a rule 

475
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,280
of life where the values and the
practices come from the Word of 

476
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:05,160
God. 
And because they come from the 

477
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:08,280
word of God, and as we grow and 
mature, our practices and our 

478
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:11,120
values match. 
Then what we have is peace and 

479
00:27:11,120 --> 00:27:14,720
provision, power, effectiveness,
and all the things that God has 

480
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,480
promised. 
And this is what Jesus people do

481
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:25,360
Amen. 
Jesus people prioritize, not 

482
00:27:25,360 --> 00:27:28,560
compartmentalize, our 
relationship with the Father. 

483
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:30,800
And that leads us to the Third 
Point. 

484
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:34,960
Because even if we build our 
habits, our practices, and we 

485
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:37,920
grab our values from the word 
and we make them match, if we 

486
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:41,440
don't invite the Holy Spirit to 
lead, we're toast. 

487
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:45,120
So our Third Point we cannot 
live without is that Jesus, 

488
00:27:45,120 --> 00:27:49,400
people have a rule of life that 
allows the Holy Spirit to lead 

489
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:51,800
and transform. 
And I'm going to be really 

490
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:53,400
candid with you because I love 
you. 

491
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:56,600
We can't cheat this. 
We can't cheat it. 

492
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:00,760
We can't cheat the fact that we 
can't muscle change from the 

493
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:03,520
outside in. 
We can't read enough books on 

494
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:06,480
self help. 
The only thing that truly 

495
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:10,600
transforms us into the image of 
Christ and sets us free is the 

496
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:13,720
Holy Spirit. 
And what Jesus is building here 

497
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:18,160
at Illuminate Church are Jesus 
people living and walking by the

498
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:20,760
Spirit. 
At the end of my days, what I 

499
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:25,160
want to be known for is a life 
that was led and could only have

500
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:29,840
been lived by the Holy Spirit, 
by the amount of His presence, 

501
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:33,560
of the way He changed me and 
transformed me into His image of

502
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:35,200
the things that He called me to 
do. 

503
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:38,280
That the only way I could have 
lived it is by the power and 

504
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:41,680
presence of the Holy Spirit. 
And that is a value that I hold.

505
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,880
And if you're here today and 
you're saying I don't know what 

506
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:49,160
that means, I'm glad you said it
and I'm glad you're being honest

507
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:51,600
and you are in completely the 
right place. 

508
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:53,240
Let me explain it to you this 
way. 

509
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:57,160
When God created you, He created
you with a body and a spirit. 

510
00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:01,000
And the body is the part of us, 
the flesh parts of us that 

511
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:04,000
desires things our own way. 
Like, you know, the Burger King 

512
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:08,480
motto, You can have it your way.
Your body really loves that 

513
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:10,920
motto. 
But your body is going to die 

514
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,760
and decay. 
And the part of you that lives 

515
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:17,280
eternally is your spirit. 
So at any given time, your 

516
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:22,080
spirit that longs for and loves 
your eternal home is trying to 

517
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:25,520
lead you and guide you to line 
up with the Holy Spirit. 

518
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:28,840
But at the same time, your flesh
is trying to win. 

519
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:31,320
Can everybody see it? 
You're at war within yourself. 

520
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:36,200
So to be led by the Holy Spirit 
means we are going to have to 

521
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:40,680
crucify our flesh. 
In fact, Galatians 5 talks about

522
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:43,080
this. 
We are crucifying the flesh, 

523
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:47,720
dying to ourselves, getting a 
lifeblood transfusion, Jesus's 

524
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:52,120
blood into ours. 
Our DNA changes, we change from 

525
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:55,000
the inside out. 
The kind of rule of life that 

526
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:58,680
allows that to happen is one 
that is led by the Spirit. 

527
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:02,440
And so today we're going to take
just a little look at our fruit 

528
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:07,520
because the fruit, the output is
how the Holy Spirit leadership 

529
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,600
is displayed. 
So today, if we break it down 

530
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:13,640
into two lists, they're found in
Galatians chapter 5. 

531
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:19,080
Starting in verse 22, we're 
going to see that Jesus people 

532
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:22,040
produce a certain kind of fruit.
So if you want to know if you're

533
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:26,360
being led by the Spirit, let's 
look at our fruit in verse 22 it

534
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:30,400
says, but the fruit of the 
Spirit is Lovejoy, peace, 

535
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:37,400
patience, kindness, goodness, 
faithfulness, gentleness and 

536
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,560
self-control. 
Does this sound good? 

537
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:42,720
I don't think you're really 
hearing me if you're not 

538
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:47,240
screaming. 
Yes, and I say this earnestly. 

539
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:52,160
What would it be like if your 
life were overflowing with love 

540
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:59,560
and joy and peace and patience 
and kindness and goodness and 

541
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:04,360
gentleness and faithfulness? 
Where you were on the path that 

542
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:07,840
you want to be on and not having
trouble swerving off of it? 

543
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:11,760
That's faithfulness. 
And who would not like a little 

544
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:15,760
self-control? 
That I could be doing what it is

545
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:17,800
my heart wants to be doing, 
right? 

546
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:24,120
This is the fruit of a life led 
by the Holy Spirit, and whenever

547
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:27,200
and wherever you see this kind 
of fruit, you know that your 

548
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:32,160
rule of life is flourishing. 
But if there is a contrast, it's

549
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:36,240
the one led by our flesh, by our
body, by our Burger King motto. 

550
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:40,200
We've got to be sober about what
this looks like. 

551
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:42,840
We're going to back up a couple 
verses. 

552
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:45,080
Galatians 5, verse 19 through 
21. 

553
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:49,000
Now the deeds of the flesh are 
evident, which are immorality, 

554
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:56,640
impurity, sensuality, idolatry, 
sorcery, enmities, anyone 

555
00:31:56,640 --> 00:32:01,520
getting depressed, strife, 
jealousy, outbursts of anger, 

556
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:05,560
disputes, dissensions, factions 
envying drunkenness. 

557
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:10,160
This list is long, carousing and
things like these of which Paul 

558
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:13,480
has forewarned them. 
If you practice these things, 

559
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,440
you're not going to inherit the 
Kingdom of God. 

560
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:19,200
Do you think it's interesting 
that he uses the word practice? 

561
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:24,480
Do you think it's interesting 
that it uses the word practice? 

562
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:30,480
Because we are at any given time
putting values and practices 

563
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:34,760
being led by the Holy Spirit, or
we are putting other practices 

564
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:36,800
in place and here is what we 
will get. 

565
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:40,200
The choice is simple. 
Whenever and wherever you see 

566
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:44,520
strife and jealousy, anger 
that's out of control, anger 

567
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,960
that's a tool or a weapon 
instead of a dashboard light, 

568
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:54,640
any place you find yourself 
stuck in habitual sin, this is a

569
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,920
place where your rule of life is
not working. 

570
00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:02,880
The job of the Spirit, the 
indwelling gift of the presence 

571
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,440
of God. 
When you are saved, you become a

572
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:09,760
temple for the Holy Spirit, and 
that Holy Spirit's job is to 

573
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:16,280
live in you, guide you, and as 
we yield, produce good fruit to 

574
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:17,960
become Jesus. 
People, we're going to have to 

575
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:19,640
embrace. 
This is a mystery. 

576
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:21,960
Is anyone else? 
Like, if we're being honest, 

577
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:27,520
this is pretty mysterious, but I
can testify again and again and 

578
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:30,240
again to the truth of this 
miracle. 

579
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,880
You can be born again. 
You are a new creation. 

580
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:37,600
You're born into the Spirit, and
over time you will learn to let 

581
00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:41,000
the Spirit lead you. 
You can build a rule of life 

582
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:45,800
that supports this value and you
will be transformed. 

583
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:50,920
So we are going to be a kind of 
people, a Jesus peculiar people 

584
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:54,040
that have a rule of life. 
We're going to look to the word 

585
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:56,080
to find our values and our 
practices. 

586
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:59,200
And because we find them there 
and we grow in maturity, they're

587
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:01,280
going to match. 
And we're going to let the Holy 

588
00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:04,360
Spirit lead and we're going to 
be transformed into some 

589
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:08,000
peculiar, wonderful people. 
This is the invitation to us. 

590
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:11,800
We just took a trip, our family 
and another family, all of our 

591
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:15,080
kids home from college. 
We went out to Utah and we went 

592
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:19,480
to one of my bucket list dream 
places, Bryce Canyon, Zion, 

593
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:24,080
Moab, Arches. 
And when I say to you that I was

594
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:30,639
moved by God at the majesty, the
wonder, the depth, the variety, 

595
00:34:30,639 --> 00:34:33,600
No2 structures looked the same 
in any place. 

596
00:34:34,159 --> 00:34:37,639
We were at one point this giant 
Canyon called Dead Horse Point, 

597
00:34:37,639 --> 00:34:40,920
and we had hiked and hiked and 
hiked and we got to the overlook

598
00:34:41,159 --> 00:34:46,760
and I wept at the fullness and 
the majesty and the regality of 

599
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:50,040
the presence of God. 
It was an amazing trip, but one 

600
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:53,280
of the things I was surprised by
is we didn't know anything about

601
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:54,920
this region. 
We're picking where we're going 

602
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:56,800
to stay. 
We picked a vacation rental 

603
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:59,880
spot, and we picked it because 
it was centrally located. 

604
00:34:59,880 --> 00:35:03,520
We could stay in one spot and do
a bunch of things, but we knew 

605
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:06,960
nothing about the city. 
And this city we were in had no 

606
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:11,000
food, like no grocery stores, no
restaurants. 

607
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:12,560
Like maybe you're familiar with 
this. 

608
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:14,560
You're a city person. 
This is no big deal. 

609
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:16,960
I mean, a country person to a 
city person. 

610
00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:22,600
I was surprised. 
So as we're driving around, I'm 

611
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,280
looking at them like, where are 
these people getting food? 

612
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,400
But you look at their large 
properties and you see 

613
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:30,600
greenhouses and you see gardens 
and you see that they're 

614
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:34,120
cultivating the land because 
they want to eat, right? 

615
00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:38,320
And we're not used to this. 
But we need to borrow something 

616
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:41,240
from this truth. 
Those people living out in that 

617
00:35:41,240 --> 00:35:43,400
area, if they want to eat, 
they're going to eat what they 

618
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:45,880
grow. 
They're going to eat what they 

619
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:48,360
produce. 
And the truth that I believe the

620
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:51,200
Holy Spirit wants us to really 
get this morning is you're going

621
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:54,720
to eat what you grow. 
You can make a pit stop. 

622
00:35:54,720 --> 00:35:56,880
You can eat off of someone 
else's tree. 

623
00:35:56,960 --> 00:36:00,120
You can come in and be around 
great people and get some good 

624
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:02,400
fruit. 
But day in and day out you are 

625
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:04,200
going to eat what you're 
growing. 

626
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:08,680
So why not grow good fruit? 
Why not grow the fruit that 

627
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:12,720
satisfies not only you and 
everybody around you, Right? 

628
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:19,200
Thank you Lord, so let's borrow 
as we wrap up our time here. 

629
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,960
Let's borrow something from 
agriculture and apply it to our 

630
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:25,280
spiritual lives. 
I've got Sierra in my in the 2nd

631
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:27,400
row here. 
She knows all about trellises, 

632
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:32,920
but a trellis is a structure 
that is used to provide support 

633
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:36,880
to help guide to protect 
flourishing and productive 

634
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:39,840
plants. 
There's so many shapes. 

635
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:42,240
I started looking into this and 
looking at the varieties. 

636
00:36:42,240 --> 00:36:43,760
I've got some pictures here for 
you. 

637
00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:46,680
The first one is a Raspberry 
plant. 

638
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:50,200
I love me some raspberries, but 
they're building this structure 

639
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:54,160
to create and guide all of the 
plants to grow up and flourish 

640
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:58,560
and be nourished. 
This next one here would work 

641
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:00,440
for any kind of vertical growing
plant. 

642
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:03,240
It's not real sturdy, but you 
could see you could grow some 

643
00:37:03,240 --> 00:37:06,400
light, simple things and that 
trellis is going to guide and 

644
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:10,960
shape and help that plant grow. 
I think my favorite picture is 

645
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:13,880
this one. 
Isn't this gorgeous? 

646
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:18,280
And you look at this trellis and
with the intention of what it 

647
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,880
has done, not only has it 
created function, but it's 

648
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:24,680
beautiful. 
Did you know that the structure,

649
00:37:25,240 --> 00:37:29,520
the rule of life, your values 
and your practices can produce 

650
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:35,120
fruit that is so beautiful that 
people want to stop and know 

651
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:39,400
what is going on? 
And so in our discussion, we've 

652
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:43,040
talked about a rule of life. 
And what I'm suggesting is let's

653
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:45,920
build a trellis. 
Let's build a structure with 

654
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,240
intention. 
And so let's look just a little 

655
00:37:48,240 --> 00:37:52,560
bit more at what trellises do. 
A trellis can do this amazing 

656
00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:55,800
thing that creates an 
opportunity for every part of 

657
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:57,680
the plant to get nourishing 
light. 

658
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:01,440
Isn't that amazing? 
A trellis is strong and sturdy, 

659
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:04,960
but you've got to train your 
plant to use the trellis. 

660
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:08,280
Have you ever seen someone take 
a, a plant and like tie it up to

661
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:10,520
the trellis? 
Because how many know that if 

662
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:12,560
we're left to our own, we're 
going to go off on our own, 

663
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:15,480
right? 
But a good trellis with a good 

664
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:20,320
caretaker, which by the way, we 
have the best gardener caretaker

665
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:25,640
ever, Father God, who trains us 
to our trellis, if we will put 

666
00:38:25,720 --> 00:38:30,880
the trellis in place, that that 
trellis can help us grow heavy 

667
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:33,320
productive fruit. 
Because without that trellis, 

668
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:36,280
heavy fruit growing on a vine 
will crash to the ground, it'll 

669
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:40,080
rot, the bugs will eat it and 
nobody will get, nobody will get

670
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:43,600
the benefit from it. 
So in agriculture, A trellis 

671
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:47,240
guides, a trellis supports a 
trellis keeps the fruit from 

672
00:38:47,240 --> 00:38:50,800
falling and being wasted. 
It makes it easier to harvest. 

673
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:55,760
And in your spiritual life, your
trellis are the practices that 

674
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:59,840
you match with the values that 
grows beautiful, incredible 

675
00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:01,960
fruit. 
Because if you have a trellis, 

676
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:05,760
you have a bunch of practices 
without many values, you're not 

677
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:09,760
going to grow anything. 
And if you have some values 

678
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:13,640
without any structure or any 
support to your life, there 

679
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:18,040
might be a bud of fruit. 
How many have ever experienced 

680
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:19,400
this? 
Been to a conference, been to a 

681
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:22,560
camp, been to a Bible study, 
been through something and 

682
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:26,840
there's a surge of fruit, but 
there's nothing there to support

683
00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:29,200
it. 
And it dies and falls to the 

684
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,080
ground. 
And we think to ourselves, why 

685
00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:32,560
was it real? 
What happened? 

686
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:36,080
It was real. 
But a rule of life is a set of 

687
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:40,400
values with practices that are 
consistent that produce an 

688
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:43,360
amazing fruit. 
So I'm going to share with you 

689
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:47,200
this morning my rule of life. 
And I'm going to ask for a 

690
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:50,200
tremendous amount of grace in 
knowing that I feel very 

691
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:53,920
vulnerable presenting this 
because I'm not putting myself 

692
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:56,840
forward as a person that has 
everything figured out. 

693
00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:00,880
But if we don't share with you 
what we have learned, how will 

694
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:04,760
we bring you along, Right? 
So here is my rule of life. 

695
00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:10,440
It's also in your message notes.
I won't have time to go over 

696
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:14,920
everything today, but I want to 
go over just a few things in my 

697
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:18,600
rule of life. 
My first love is God, and the 

698
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:21,680
rest of my life flows from 
there. 

699
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:26,040
There's nothing more important 
to me than my love relationship 

700
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:28,600
with God. 
And even as important as the 

701
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:33,120
other 4 categories are, if I do 
the other 4 without the first 

702
00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:39,080
one, it will be very easy for me
to drift and drift and drift in 

703
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:42,680
my values, right? 
Either become legalistic or say,

704
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:45,240
did that really matter? 
Maybe it doesn't matter so much.

705
00:40:45,240 --> 00:40:48,120
I'm going to put this over the 
truth of the Word of God. 

706
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:53,240
So in my rule of life, even 
though they're equally laid out 

707
00:40:53,240 --> 00:40:57,800
there, there is an order the I 
see God comes first. 

708
00:40:57,800 --> 00:40:59,600
I start and end each day with 
God. 

709
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:01,400
Super simple. 
God, I love you. 

710
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,520
Thank you for this day. 
At the end of the day, let's 

711
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:05,920
talk about what happened or I 
just want you to know you're my 

712
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:07,840
shepherd. 
Why? 

713
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:12,120
Because in the season of my life
when everything is chaotic, if 

714
00:41:12,240 --> 00:41:15,080
there's nothing else I can count
on, I know that I'm going to run

715
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:17,640
into this practice at the 
beginning and end of my day, 

716
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:19,800
right? 
It's good to have a trellis that

717
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:23,120
I know is sturdy and is going to
be there and having a reading 

718
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:26,440
plan, reading the Bible, having 
extended time in a prayer 

719
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:28,240
closet. 
You remember in Matthew chapter 

720
00:41:28,240 --> 00:41:31,720
6 when Jesus said don't do all 
your praying publicly? 

721
00:41:31,720 --> 00:41:33,760
Do you remember he said, 
actually go in and close the 

722
00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:37,720
door? 
There's a private, intimate 

723
00:41:37,720 --> 00:41:41,720
place where everything slows 
down, where I pour out my heart 

724
00:41:41,720 --> 00:41:46,280
to him. 
I don't do this perfectly, but 

725
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:49,120
it is an intimate, sweet space 
and something no one is ever 

726
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:51,960
going to talk me out of. 
You're never going to talk me 

727
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:56,120
out of reading the Bible, having
worship in my heart and on my 

728
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:57,960
mind. 
You're never going to talk me 

729
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:01,320
out of cultivating gratitude 
because I've been in a love 

730
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:03,680
relationship with Him and it's 
too sweet and it's too good. 

731
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:07,160
And even when I get off track, 
my trellis is going to me back. 

732
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:11,960
My community, my family, my 
husband, my core friends are 

733
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,840
going to bring me back because 
as a rule of life, I seek God 

734
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:18,280
first. 
I'm going to live relationally. 

735
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:21,840
And that means when we have 
meals around our table, we put 

736
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:25,320
phones away, we try to home cook
meals and be around the table 

737
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:27,640
more than anything else. 
That's just my personal 

738
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:29,640
preference. 
You're going to see food on here

739
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:32,680
a lot. 
Maybe that's a problem when you 

740
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:35,520
get to our mission matters most.
I love to take care of people 

741
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:37,640
with food. 
I love to make meals. 

742
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:40,760
I love to do whatever I can. 
It's the way God's wired me. 

743
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:43,800
So as you find your rule of 
life, when you get to living out

744
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:47,680
the Great Commission, don't make
it mine, make it yours. 

745
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:51,560
Who are you? 
How did God uniquely wire you to

746
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:54,440
love your neighbors, to build 
relationships? 

747
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:59,800
And one thing I want to point 
out, especially as all my kids 

748
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:06,720
are in the service, it is my 
value and I hope it's yours, 

749
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:11,240
that the integrity of my life, 
at the end of my days, my kids 

750
00:43:11,240 --> 00:43:15,080
would say that's not just 
something she taught you, it's 

751
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:18,680
something she taught me. 
And in the integrity of your 

752
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:25,520
life, thank you, Lord, the 
integrity of your life is that 

753
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:29,160
every part of who you are would 
be integrated to a complete 

754
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:31,480
whole. 
You know, I've shared this with 

755
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:33,560
you and I want you to linger in 
it at home. 

756
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:36,880
I'd love for you to take the 
blank one and the instructions 

757
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:40,160
that are in the message notes 
and go to lunch with somebody 

758
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:43,760
and talk about the Holy Spirit 
birthing your rule of life. 

759
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:49,480
Right, Since we started this 
message talking a lot about my 

760
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:52,680
dad, I want to end it there. 
You know, I told you my dad is a

761
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:55,800
mathematical genius, but what I 
didn't tell you is that he was 

762
00:43:55,800 --> 00:44:00,720
my 10th grade geometry teacher. 
Anybody here in or around 10th 

763
00:44:00,720 --> 00:44:05,320
grade, how many of you want your
dad to be the dork who is 

764
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:07,880
running the overhead with the 
Yeah. 

765
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,720
OK, so I said that lovingly. 
I'll tell you the story. 

766
00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:15,160
So I loved my dad and really 
loved him being my teacher. 

767
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:18,720
It was kind of amazing and I 
loved the subject. 

768
00:44:18,720 --> 00:44:20,640
I loved seeing him in his 
genius. 

769
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:23,640
But what was funny is my friends
really thought he was kind of 

770
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:25,560
goofy. 
So there was this thing called 

771
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:28,960
an overhead projector where you 
scroll the plastic. 

772
00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:32,680
Yes, yes. 
If you're older or at my age, 

773
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:36,480
you understand if you're not. 
We didn't have technology, so we

774
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:39,520
had plastic and we wrote on it 
with markers. 

775
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:42,640
Well, you're supposed to like, 
erase it with an eraser, but my 

776
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:47,000
dad would lick his finger and 
erase it and then put it back on

777
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:48,520
his mouth. 
So at the end of the day, the 

778
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:50,200
kids were like, Oh my gosh, your
dad's such a dork. 

779
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:52,160
He has blue like all over his 
lips, blah, blah, blah. 

780
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,640
And one day in class, this kid 
said, Mr. Bachman, you're such a

781
00:44:55,640 --> 00:45:00,400
dork. 
And he goes, that's Mr. Dork to 

782
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:04,360
you. 
I loved it. 

783
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:08,760
I loved having as a teacher. 
But in geometry, there is a term

784
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:11,440
called congruence. 
Everyone say congruence. 

785
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:15,640
Congruent is when you're 
studying 2 shapes and they have 

786
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:19,000
the same qualities. 
They're equal in shape and size.

787
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:22,240
And one of the parts of the 
definition that I love the most 

788
00:45:22,240 --> 00:45:25,440
is that when 2 shapes have 
congruence, it doesn't matter 

789
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:29,440
how they're flipped or turned. 
They're always equal. 

790
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:35,200
And the rule of life that Jesus 
is inviting you to live is that 

791
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:39,960
your life, no matter how you're 
flipped or turned, no matter how

792
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:45,240
you are flipped or turned, is so
congruent with His that you have

793
00:45:45,240 --> 00:45:50,120
everything you need and you bear
His image through every aspect 

794
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:52,760
of your life. 
This is the goal of the rule of 

795
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:54,920
life, to make us congruent with 
Jesus. 

796
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:57,480
And I am not saying that you're 
going to be perfect. 

797
00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:02,360
I am clearly not perfect. 
But what I am saying is that 

798
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:07,200
Jesus people work consistently 
and fight for true integrity, 

799
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:10,960
that there is a completeness to 
whatever is being described. 

800
00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:14,200
This is a lifelong journey and 
we don't accomplish it. 

801
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:17,960
Remember who does the 
transforming the Holy Spirit. 

802
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:21,920
self-sufficiency is not a value 
found in the Word. 

803
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:25,640
In fact, utter and complete 
surrender and complete 

804
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:28,360
dependency on God is what is 
found in the Word. 

805
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:32,960
So if this is stirring in your 
heart and you're ready to look 

806
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:36,160
at the fruit of your life, let's
just kind of close your eyes and

807
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:39,120
get into a posture. 
It's not religious, it's 

808
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:43,960
focused. 
So we said that if we want to 

809
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:48,200
know how we're doing in the Holy
Spirit LED flesh and spirit 

810
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:49,480
battle, we would look at our 
fruit. 

811
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:52,320
So Holy Spirit, would you help 
us examine our fruit? 

812
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:56,120
If you're looking at the fruit 
of your life and you're saying I

813
00:46:56,120 --> 00:47:00,640
want more Jesus fruit, maybe 
it's that you have competing 

814
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:04,400
values. 
Maybe it's that you have a value

815
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:08,960
system that is stressed and 
rubbing up against another set 

816
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:14,240
of values. 
Maybe it's that you have a set 

817
00:47:14,240 --> 00:47:18,720
of values, but you're in a 
situation at work or a living 

818
00:47:18,720 --> 00:47:22,080
situation where you don't have 
the support and structure of the

819
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:24,160
people doing life the way you 
are. 

820
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,360
Maybe you have the right values,
but you don't have the 

821
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:35,120
practices, whatever it is. 
Holy Spirit, would you speak now

822
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:39,840
to each of us? 
And what I would say to you is 

823
00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:44,680
all is if all of this is ringing
a bell of you saying I have 

824
00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:47,320
never given my life over in full
surrender. 

825
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:51,120
I've never been reborn and made 
new. 

826
00:47:52,240 --> 00:47:55,200
And the invitation to you is, 
let's start there. 

827
00:47:55,200 --> 00:48:00,200
I'm going to ask everyone to 
pray out loud in just a moment. 

828
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:02,680
What I'm asking you is if the 
Holy Spirit is stirring you to 

829
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:05,400
say, I've been around church, 
I've been around religion. 

830
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:13,480
I have never ever understood the
complete rebirth, transformation

831
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:15,480
by the Holy Spirit through the 
blood of Jesus. 

832
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:19,440
And if you're saying today, I 
want you, Jesus, to be my 

833
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:23,320
shepherd and my rabbi, and I 
want to follow you, then when we

834
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:26,760
all pray, you're going to pray 
this with us for the very first 

835
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:29,160
time. 
If everyone would say, Jesus, 

836
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:35,080
you have opened my eyes to the 
truth of who you are. 

837
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:42,240
You are the only way, you are 
the only truth, and you are my 

838
00:48:42,240 --> 00:48:45,840
life. 
And today I receive the free 

839
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:55,600
gift of your blood in exchange 
for my sin, and I'm washed anew.

840
00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:04,680
I declare that you our you are 
my Savior and I want you to be 

841
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:10,040
my Lord and Jesus, we thank you 
for all those being saved by 

842
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:13,200
Your Holy Spirit and for 
everyone else wherever you are. 

843
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:17,040
Would you just talk to Him, tell
him what you want, what you, 

844
00:49:17,240 --> 00:49:20,840
what you are hearing from Him, 
and where you want to join Him? 

845
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:22,440
It can sound something like 
this. 

846
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:27,000
You've stirred my heart, Holy 
Spirit, help me find the values 

847
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:31,880
and the practices in Your Word. 
Help me not leave this here and 

848
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:35,560
walk away and forget, but to do 
Your Word. 

849
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:41,440
It's in Jesus name that we pray 
with great gratitude. 

850
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:46,440
We love you in Jesus name, Amen.
Thanks for joining us today. 

851
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:49,520
We hope God is speaking to your 
heart through this message. 

852
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:52,480
If you'd like to connect with 
us, you can text connect to 

853
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:59,040
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854
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:00,720
Have a great week.
