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Welcome to the Illuminate Church
podcast. 

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We hope today's message is 
encouraging to you. 

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Well, welcome everybody. 
Welcome If you're watching 

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online, welcome to all you up in
the mezzanine way up Yonder. 

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It's great to have you here in 
the House of the Lord together. 

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I love Sundays, Amen. 
Last Sunday we were away 

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celebrating my son, who's here 
today, graduating. 

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College. 
And congratulations to all the 

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graduates, high school and 
college. 

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By the way, big week happening. 
Well done take. 

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Time to celebrate. 
It's worth it. 

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That's a long journey. 
It's worth it. 

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It's an expensive journey, and 
Gee, OK, Hallelujah. 

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But I wanted to honor Pastor 
Drew for filling the pulpit last

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week just spitting fire. 
We we were moving the piano this

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morning a little bit further 
back and a tennis ball popped 

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out. 
So we're like, Pastor Drew, one 

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of your pieces of chaos is over 
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So thank you, Pastor Drew, for 
your heart to serve. 

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He's back in there with the 
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Now. 
They have team time during the 

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second service where they pray 
and fellowship and all sorts of 

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good things happen back there. 
So anyway, so today we continue 

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our series Unrest. 
Has it been helpful, yes or no? 

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Helpful? 
Yeah. 

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What are you going to say? 
No, That would be awkward for 

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all of us. 
Mostly for you. 

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I want to begin by telling you 
what one of my favorite things 

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in ministry is to do. 
It'll be 30 years in ministry 

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this coming August. 
And one of my most favorite 

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things is to officiate weddings 
and specifically that I get the 

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absolute best seat in the house.
No one has it better than me. 

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I'm standing right there with 
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All of y'all come and sit out in
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Hours and hours because we're 
running a little late typically.

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And then the moment everybody is
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of any wedding. 
Some of you may say it's the 

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kiss that uses. 
The bride and groom's favorite 

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part? 
But my favorite part is when our

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honored guest arrives, everyone 
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direct view of the best moment 
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Do you love this moment? 
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So touching. 
It's so powerful. 

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I remember standing and watching
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there's a guy next to me, 6 foot
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He's a big, brawny dude. 
He was a bouncer at a bar before

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he knew Jesus. 
You don't mess with this guy. 

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He's tough, he's rough, he's 
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What's up, Bob? 
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down the aisle, Cindy. 
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this moment. 
When they lock eyes and this 

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journey is not culminating, it's
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happening. 
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to take two people out of 8 
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to each other. 
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I love that arrival. 
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today in this message called 
Welcome the Bride, is that when 

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you practice the Sabbath every 
week, you get to have a moment 

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like this. 
Where you've been going through 

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your week, all this stuff's been
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stops. 
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you get the welcome to bribe. 
We're going to talk more about 

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that in just a minute. 
But today I want to to begin, I 

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want to remind you what we 
learned in Week 1, many, many 

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weeks ago in this series called 
Unrest. 

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Remember, we are unlearning the 
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way that others rest. 
I have some resource material 

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here to help you in case you 
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Some of you want more than what 
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You want high academia? 
You want you just want to go 

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deeper. 
I've referenced this book. 

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My favorite book on the Sabbath 
is called The Sabbath. 

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There it is. 
Abraham Heschel. 

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He is a Jewish rabbi who passed 
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But he left us this treasure 
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He calls it Sabbaths are our 
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space we go to, it's time with 
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So highly recommend that book. 
The next one is called the Rest 

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of God by Mark Buchanan. 
A fabulous book if you like the 

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breakdown of the Scripture in 
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Some of the things I've taught 
with are from this book, an 

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incredible book about the rest 
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And then you have this book 
called Rest, which is a secular 

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book. 
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Let me get this right, Alex 
Sojung and Kim Peng. 

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It's a great book. 
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Christian, there's no theology 
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it, this is what's fascinating. 
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that God has told us they're 
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science. 
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science, they're learning it in 
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Great book. 
And then a new book that was 

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just published this week. 
It's called Unrest by Me. 

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30 years it took in ministry to 
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That's the reason that I wrote 
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put it in my heart. 
To write, and for no other 

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reason alone except that he 
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anxiety and it was debilitating.
And I know that I'm not the only

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one. 
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better share the cure, not hoard
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And so we wrote this book so 
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anyone who needs to learn how to
rest, which is anybody with 

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lungs, right, Then you can learn
from what is in this book. 

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We're selling them here at the 
church today, but they're not 

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here because they got destroyed 
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here. 
No joke. 

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They were being transported. 
We got a note that says, hey, 

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all the books have been 
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I'm like, is this spiritual? 
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And so they, they're, they're 
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So all we're doing today is pre 
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There's a big old line after the
first service, pre selling the 

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book. 
They're $10. 

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I want you to know, and this is 
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are as a church, who I am as a 
pastor, that all the proceeds of

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all the the books sold here at 
the church go to the church, not

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to Tim and Christine's lunch 
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When? 
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We're not trying to make money 
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book. 
There is, I need to be just 

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candid with you, an Amazon 
version of this where you can go

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buy the book on Amazon. 
And the the idea is not that you

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would buy those books. 
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The money goes to the church. 
It actually pays just for the 

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making of the book more than us 
having proceeds to do ministry 

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with. 
But if you buy a book on Amazon,

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I do want to be clear, it does 
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So if that weirds you out and 
you don't want to do that, don't

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buy it on Amazon, right? 
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are going to make dozens and 
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All I'm trying to say is that 
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it now, nor will it ever be any 
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The Lord put this on our heart 
to share and we wanted to share 

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it with you. 
If it's helpful to you, if it's 

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helpful to somebody you know 
who's dealing with anxiety or 

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whatever the case needs rest, 
please get this into their 

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hands. 
There's also a digital cop of 

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the digital version available at
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One other thing, this is going 
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I hope that doesn't sound weird.
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I'm not going to sign any. 
Books, it's number one. 

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It's very presumptive of me to 
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You would want me to sign a book
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it just feels like it crosses a 
line into celebrity that I'm not

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interested in and I, I, I don't 
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name on the book? 
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What value does it have? 
What's in the book is those out 

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of is what is of value. 
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So don't ask me because then 
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Conversation like I'm I'm not 
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Not signing your book, Bruno, 
this is your copy. 

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You want me to sign it? 
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Some of you already went online 
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I'm getting pictures of people 
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just, it's touching. 
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I'm grateful that the Lord is 
using it to help people find 

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abundant life in Jesus. 
That was a quiz you failed. 

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In Jesus. 
All right, so all right, in week

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1, remember I was teaching you 
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concept of rest and embracing 
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Sabbath. 
It's like marrying the Sabbath 

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in week 1, I asked you, 
everybody here, get married 

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today. 
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today and he's like I for the 
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today. 
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And if you don't know what that 
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here in this trail. 
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remember that God made Sabbath 
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Genesis chapter 2 verse 3 says 
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made everyone say made it holy. 
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he rested from all the work of 
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Later on in the 10 commandments 
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keeping it holy. 
Everyone say keeping so God made

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the Sabbath holy. 
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Exodus to keep the Sabbath holy.
How do we keep the Sabbath holy?

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You marry the Sabbath. 
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you are set apart one to 
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Ephesians chapter 5 speaking 
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Look at this. 
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How? 
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gave himself up for her to make 
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washing with water through the 
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himself as a radiant church 
without staying a wrinkle or any

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other blemish. 
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to God. 
Jesus asked husbands to sanctify

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their wives, to lead them from 
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Just as Jesus did when he went 
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tomb, He led us from sin and he 
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God our Father. 
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were taking that day and leading
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This day I'm making our keeping 
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God makes it holy, we keep it 
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And you may say, well, shouldn't
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And the answer is yes. 
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Sabbath. 
It's so that we are trained on 

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what to do the rest of our days 
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On that day, The Sabbath day, 
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On the other days you work, but 
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holiness. 
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Sabbath that one day for the 
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Fawn Horne, you're here today. 
We were talking about this one 

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time in a group, like, shouldn't
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And the answer is kind of yes. 
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different about the Sabbath is 
just like, you love your kids 

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every day, and don't you parents
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Say yes, even if you don't mean 
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Believe it on their birthday, 
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day. 
You highlight, you accentuate, 

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you focus on that child. 
You know my wife, Christine, I 

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love her every day, all the 
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But since today is her actual 
birthday, happy birthday to you.

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Happy birthday to you, Lauder. 
Yay. 

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Yeah, y'all pray, pray for me. 
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anything, but it just fit the 
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So I had to, right? 
I had to. 

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It's from the Lord. 
Amen. 

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Yeah. 
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her. 
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It's the same thing with the 
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Every day we're walking in 
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Every day we're walking away 
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But on the Sabbath, you stop 
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and then it spills over to the 
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this honored guest each week, 
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Now, I've been teaching this 
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five weeks now. 
I don't even remember what week 

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we're on. 
And it's been about why, why, 

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why? 
Why they convincing you that you

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need this Sabbath rest? 
I haven't been convincing you. 

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The word of God has been 
convincing us we need the 

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Sabbath rest and I've heard from
any of you will like how give me

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some how everyone say how, how 
right. 

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Four things all centered on the 
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#1 you have to prepare for the 
wedding. 

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Everyone say prepare. 
I made a mistake one day and 

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looked at bride.com talk about 
way too much information on one 

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pink page. 
It's like overwhelming and what 

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what I learned and I have it 
here I I printed it out is that 

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there are 77 steps to a wedding 
day prep list 12 months out find

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a fiance. 
I'm kidding. 

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Step one, right? 
No, Determine your budget. 

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That's the first step, which is 
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budget determines the rest of 
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And for many people, the budget 
is the buzz kill. 

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I have so many dreams, but 
here's reality. 

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So we're going to have the 
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Good kids mark it down. 
Make a guest list a year in 

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advance. 
Hire a wedding planner. 

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Decide formality. 
Select a venue. 

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The caterer 11 months out, 
choose a color theme. 

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We're going to be mauve with 
white. 

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Start thinking of overall 
design. 

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And then it says, hire vendors 
who book up quickly. 

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Listen to the list. 
Photographer, band, DJ, 

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videographer. 
No. 

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Efficient. 
You know what happens? 

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Hey, we're getting married in 
two weeks. 

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Are you free? 
That's not what y'all did. 

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Cindy is very planned. 
Cindy, you probably had 97 steps

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fly. 
Wedding around. 

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Europe, you booked your wedding 
around my schedule. 

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So nice. 
It must be nice. 

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OK, ten months out, start 
shopping for your wedding dress.

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Book hotel rooms. 
Nine months out, say send. 

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Save the dates. 
I'm skipping a bunch. 8 months 

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out, register for gifts. 
Yeah, select bridesmaids 

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dresses. 
Meet with the potential florist.

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Five months out, Book 
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Book a honeymoon. 
Buy or rent the grooms with 

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tuxedo. 
Begin premarital counseling. 

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Yes, yes, yes. 
Four months out, Choose your 

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cake. 
Very important. 

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Buy wedding bands. 
I'm skipping lots of things. 

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Three months out, Order the 
invitations. 

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Great. 
Two months out, first dress 

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fitting. 
Got to wait till you get close 

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to the wedding to make. 
Sure it's the. 

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You know I ain't going to get in
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All right, Pick your marriage 
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Word of counsel from an 
officiant who's done probably 

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100 weddings. 
Don't wait till the last minute 

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to get your wedding marriage 
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officiant signs. 
It it is legible otherwise Gavin

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and Sarah will call you and say 
our wedding license was rejected

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because they couldn't read your 
handwriting. 

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I said well then you're not 
married yet. 

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So Yep, whole thing over it says
assemble gift bags one month out

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and just, you know, remember the
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OK. 
Anyways, take care of things 

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like final week, refreshing hair
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This must be for the ladies. 
Getting your eyebrows done, 

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manicure, pedicure, getting a 
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Pack your bags, clean your ring,
practice your vows out loud. 

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Write your partner a note the 
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Eat a healthy meal. 
Drink water good night's sleep. 

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Stay off the feet. 
Drink even more water. 

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Take your dress and veil out of 
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Somebody steam them if nothing. 
OK, it's a lot. 

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I read just a small portion and 
probably if you've been through 

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the process yourself, you're 
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steps. 
It felt like 6 billion steps to 

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get to that. 
Moment, All I'm trying to say is

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the wedding day effectiveness is
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preparedness. 
And if we do all of this work 

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for 1/2 hour service and then a 
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what should we be doing for the 
24 hours a week that we spend 

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with the Lord? 
Certainly not nothing. 

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I I want to say to you that your
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absolutely tied to your Sabbath 
day preparedness. 

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We need to prepare for the 
wedding they had to prepare in 

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the old days. 
Exodus chapter 16. 

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Let me just read some of them. 
We'll get some context. 

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Each morning everyone gathered 
as much as they needed, and when

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the sun grew hot, it melted 
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What's the IT the IT is manna. 
This is heavenly bread that 

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showed up on the ground each 
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The Lord was teaching them, I'm 
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you're going to collect this 
bread daily. 

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On the 6th day, however, they 
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omers for each person, and the 
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and reported this to Moses. 
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the Lord commanded. 
Tomorrow is to be a day of 

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Sabbath rest, a holy Sabbath to 
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So bake what you want to bake 
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Save whatever is left and keep 
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So they saved it until morning 
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not stink or get maggots in it. 
Yummy. 

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Eat it today, Moses said, 
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the Lord. 
You will not find any of it on 

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the ground today. 
No mana on the ground on the 

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Sabbath day, six days you 
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But on the 7th day, the Sabbath,
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So usually on regular days they 
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worth. 
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that extra would rot and get 
maggots in it. 

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But on Friday, the preparation 
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the scriptures and you've seen 
the word preparation day. 

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That's the day before the 
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They were told to gather twice 
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Go ahead and get enough for 
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Saturday as well. 
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You got to get ready. 
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from this, and really both of 
these could be messages in and 

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of themselves if we would did a 
deep dive. 

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First of all, if they were not 
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provision. 
It didn't show up on the Sabbath

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day. 
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theologically about being a 
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were prepared, the provision 
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When you're not prepared and you
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should have been prepared. 
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day, if you have prepared, then 
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What does that mean? 
Well, some of us have this 

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notion in our hearts that makes 
it hard to rest because we 

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think, if I don't do it, there 
won't be provision. 

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I've got to get something done 
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And God's saying, if you will do
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when you get to the Sabbath, 
you'll see that it's already 

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been provided for. 
Your peace, your output, your 

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productivity, your fruitfulness,
your ability to rest all comes 

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when we make preparations to do 
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In our house, we used to do our 
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Washing bathrooms, washing 
baseboards, doing laundry, you 

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name it. 
Whatever your chores are, we're 

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doing the same thing at our 
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But when we started practicing 
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because Friday into Saturday is 
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When we Sabbath because Sunday 
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Right, everyone understand you 
following me? 

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So there's a flurry of activity 
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the Sabbath. 
Getting the meal ready, getting 

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the house ready, getting the 
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Ready. 
Getting all everything in its 

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place and then everything ceases
and we're able to rest and let 

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the chores just be what they 
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I'm going to show you something 
that may be considered a graphic

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photo to many of you, so you may
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peek. 
I'm giving you warning right 

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now, but this is our sink during
the Sabbath. 

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Is anyone breaking out on hives?
Yeah, I get it. 

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Listen, it's interesting when 
you have permission to have this

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happen, it feels totally 
different, like it's supposed to

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look like that. 
This means that we're honoring 

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the Sabbath. 
This means that we're ceasing 

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our regular labor and laboring 
with the Lord in rest. 

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And it's a beautiful thing. 
It's a wonderful thing, but it 

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happens because we're prepared. 
And then the chores pile up And 

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after the after the Sabbath is 
over, then we just get busy. 

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Sundays we're doing laundry and 
whatnot, and it works out for 

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us. 
By the way, I'm going to talk a 

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lot today about what we do as a 
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I want you not to hear legalism 
and feel like you got to do what

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we do. 
You just got to listen to the 

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Lord HBO here, Believe and obey 
and do what's right for you and 

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your household, whatever that 
looks like. 

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And everything I'm saying is 
also ideal state. 

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Like some Saturdays it goes 
perfectly this Friday, Saturday,

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just this week, perfect. 
Great Shabbat, great family 

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devotional, great rest, 
restoration, great eating. 

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But some weeks it's just a train
wreck. 

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We don't even make it to the 
table. 

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Some weeks we're in Boston. 
So eliminating a graduation or 

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whatever, you know, so don't get
legalistic and don't get like, I

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got to be perfect, right? 
Right. 

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Excellent. 
So we need to plan, prepare for 

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the wedding. 
Secondly, we need to welcome the

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bride. 
Everyone say welcome. 

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It's the name of the message, 
but it's also the second point 

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here. 
In the Hebrew culture and the 

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Jewish culture, there is a song 
they sing called Lacha Dodi. 

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Everyone say laja Dodi. 
Yeah. 

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Did you get that? 
Excellent. 

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If you did it right, there 
should be something on the 

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person in front of you is back. 
It means come, my beloved. 

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It's been sung for hundreds and 
hundreds of years as the 

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traditional Jewish Sabbath 
begins at sundown on Friday 

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night, you gather, the Jewish 
people gather in the synagogue 

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to begin the Sabbath. 
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the synagogue, they sing the 
Locha Dodi. 

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And at the very last verse, you 
can go watch YouTube videos of 

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this. 
I have. 

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It's interesting. 
The very last verse, the entire 

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congregation stands up and turns
around and faces the doors as if

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someone. 
Is about to arrive, and that 

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someone to them is the Sabbath. 
The Sabbath's arriving. 

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Our guest has come. 
It's just like we do at 

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weddings. 
We stand and turn around because

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the honored guest is here. 
It's this moment that's special 

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and powerful. 
So I'm going to read in English 

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the words to the song. 
I'm going to make this motion 

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like this at some point, and 
you're all going to stand up and

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turn and face the doors and the 
mezzanine. 

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I don't know what you're going 
to do because I wasn't planning 

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on that. 
Just look at the exit sign or 

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whatever. 
You'll figure it out. 

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But it's only going to have 
meaning to you if you have 

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expectation in your heart that 
the Lord God wants to give you a

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gift on the Sabbath. 
And when you begin your Sabbath,

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that gift arrives and you get to
unpack it each week. 

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This beautiful time, 24 hours 
soaking with the Lord, soaking 

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with family and friends and 
nature and whatever brings you 

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restoration. 
It doesn't have to mean laying 

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on a couch. 
Here are the words. 

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Come, my beloved. 
To greet the bride, let us 

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welcome Shabbat. 
Observe and remember were 

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uttered as one, so we heard it 
from the singular one. 

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God is 1 and God's name is 1, 
reflected in fame and splendor. 

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And then praise Come shrine of 
our sovereign royal city, rise 

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up from destruction and fear no 
more in your dwelling in the 

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tear filled valley. 
That's our week, right? 

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The tear filled valley. 
For with God's compassion you 

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will be upraised. 
I almost raised my arms. 

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Come awake, rise up from the 
dust, dress yourself in this 

456
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,120
people's pride. 
By the hand of Jesse's son of 

457
00:25:21,120 --> 00:25:24,000
Bethlehem's tribe. 
Bring my redemption without 

458
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:28,080
further delays. 
Come awake, rise up from the 

459
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:28,880
dust. 
Don't stand. 

460
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:30,560
Dress yourself in this people's 
pride. 

461
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:34,360
By the Oh, I just read that one.
Rouse yourself, Rouse yourself, 

462
00:25:34,360 --> 00:25:37,320
for your lamp is lit. 
Let the flame rise up and glow. 

463
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:40,520
Awake, awake. 
Utter songs of praise for God's 

464
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:46,200
glory is revealed to your gaze. 
Come, do not be embarrassed. 

465
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:48,640
Do not be ashamed. 
Why are you downcast? 

466
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:51,840
Why do you moan the poorest of 
your people trust in this. 

467
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:56,120
The city will be rebuilt as an 
ancient days come. 

468
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:59,560
Your despoilers shall be 
despoiled, your tormentors 

469
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,480
removed. 
Far away God and you will 

470
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:07,040
celebrate together a bride and 
groom in joyful embrace. 

471
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:16,960
Come, face the door. 
Welcome the bride. 

472
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:20,120
Come. 
In peace, crown your spouse. 

473
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:23,640
Surrounded by gladness and 
joyous shouts, come to the 

474
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,120
faithful, the people you 
treasure with pride. 

475
00:26:26,120 --> 00:26:29,080
Come, my bride. 
Come, my bride, come. 

476
00:26:34,150 --> 00:26:37,230
The first wedding I ever did, I 
forgot to have the people stand 

477
00:26:37,230 --> 00:26:41,750
to greet the bride. 
So the next wedding I had 

478
00:26:41,750 --> 00:26:45,630
everyone stand and I was sure I 
was going to make everyone stand

479
00:26:45,710 --> 00:26:48,790
to the extent that I forgot to 
have anyone ever sit down. 

480
00:26:50,310 --> 00:26:52,350
So they just stood for a really 
long time. 

481
00:26:53,640 --> 00:27:01,960
And I only tell you that to say 
now be seated at our home on 

482
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:05,320
Friday nights, we prepare the 
table and I bring out this 

483
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,680
stole, which is just a priestly 
garment. 

484
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:12,560
You've probably seen it in more 
traditional churches, a pastor, 

485
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:15,600
a reverend, whatever, wearing 
the, the the robes. 

486
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:17,400
And then they'll have a stole 
around their neck. 

487
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:20,720
And the stole represents 
priestly covering and I wear it 

488
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:24,800
to begin the meal and to end the
meal to remind us that we are 

489
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,760
covered by the Lord. 
And I am a representation of 

490
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:29,920
that as a priest of my home to 
my family. 

491
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:37,240
And so I put on the stove and we
hold hands and we pray. 

492
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:42,800
And as we pray right before we 
eat the dinner, I say, hey, 

493
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:46,040
let's remember this is ideal 
state doesn't always happen 

494
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,200
exactly right because. 
People are people. 

495
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:56,320
I say, let's take a breath and I
say, Lord, we cease all of our 

496
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:59,360
regular work and enter into your
rest. 

497
00:27:59,360 --> 00:28:03,200
And you can feel the atmosphere 
change as it's happening, as 

498
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:06,280
this is going on. 
You feel like the weight is just

499
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:10,760
melting off, no matter how many 
times we've done it and we're 

500
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,000
entering the rest. 
And then I'll pray something 

501
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:17,320
like this. 
Come, Lord Jesus, meet with us, 

502
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:21,680
be with us, and then whoever is 
there, we have different people 

503
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:26,080
take turns lighting these two 
candles that we have, and we 

504
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:29,360
light them as representation of 
God's presence with us. 

505
00:28:29,360 --> 00:28:32,520
And very rarely we will turn and
face our door. 

506
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,160
And sometimes, even more rarely,
we'll go and open the door as if

507
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:40,840
to say, come on in Sabbath, 
we've been waiting for you. 

508
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:44,640
You're our honored guest. 
We need you. 

509
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,400
We're glad that you're here and 
we personify the Sabbath, which 

510
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:52,720
really is the rest, the powerful
presence. 

511
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:56,040
Of the Lord. 
Meeting with us over this 24 

512
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:57,800
hours. 
At the end of the meal, I put 

513
00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:00,360
the stall back on and I place it
on all the children's head 1 by 

514
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,120
1. 
And I pray a blessing over them.

515
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:06,320
And they used to be tiny little 
heads and now they're grown up 

516
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:09,760
heads. 
And then at the end of the meal,

517
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:12,920
they, we, we all gathered around
mommy and all the kids placed 

518
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:17,680
their hand on mommy. 
My wife Christine and I probably

519
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:20,320
sit on her head and we pray a 
blessing. 

520
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:24,920
The Sabbath has begun. 
And we rested that for the next 

521
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:31,320
24 hours by welcoming the bride.
And as wonderful as it is to see

522
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,280
a bride walk down the aisle, 
it's the same feeling but 

523
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:38,160
different each Friday when we 
begin the Sabbath. 

524
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:40,840
And it can be for you as well. 
Amen. 

525
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:46,160
Prepare for the wedding. 
Welcome the bride, and the next 

526
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:50,840
part is to put a ring on it. 
No, Huggy, no. 

527
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,280
Kissy till I get a. 
Wedding ring. 

528
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:56,520
Anyone remember this song? 
Don't give me no lines and keep 

529
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:58,680
y'all. 
Exactly. 

530
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,760
It's a, it's biblical. 
It's 100% accurate. 

531
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:04,720
I believe in this song. 
Right? 

532
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:15,120
Or there's this one. 
I'd better stop when I 

533
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:16,520
officiate. 
Weddings We get to the ring 

534
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:22,760
portion and I'll take a ring and
say, you know, the ring is an 

535
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:29,400
unbroken circle of love. 
So poetic it it's one because 

536
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:34,400
the two are. 
One right And then I. 

537
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:37,240
Literally say like and blah blah
blah blah blah. 

538
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:39,520
Like. 
All of that is poetic and nice. 

539
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:42,600
Like OK, whatever, we get it. 
But let me tell you what the 

540
00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:46,240
ring really can mean for you. 
And those of you that have done 

541
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:53,200
your weddings might remember 
these words, but the ring will 

542
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:58,000
hit stuff sometimes. 
Or you'll be sitting in traffic 

543
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:01,800
on I-4 and you'll see it there, 
right? 

544
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:05,040
And I tell the couple I like, 
listen, when you see the ring, 

545
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,440
feel the weight of it, hit it 
against something I wanted to 

546
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:13,680
remind you of right now, 25 
years from now, I want you to 

547
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:17,240
remember right here. 
So we pause and I say, take a 

548
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:19,560
look around because you've been 
rushing through things. 

549
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,840
I mean, wedding mornings are 
busy mornings for the bride. 

550
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:29,560
The groom's like, I got dressed.
And so they look around, they 

551
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:32,840
look at each other, they take in
the beauty. 

552
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:36,640
And I say when, when you for 
years now, when you feel this 

553
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:41,160
ring, see this ring, I want you 
to remember the beginning, the 

554
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:46,560
joy of your weddedness, the 
purity of what's happening here.

555
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:50,480
Remember past glory? 
Like, Oh yes. 

556
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:53,600
I say. 
But I also want you to know that

557
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,520
this ring that you now put on 
your finger is the only thing 

558
00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:01,720
that's not changing out. 
Meaning you're going to change 

559
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:05,520
outfits literally thousands of 
times in and out of your 

560
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:09,600
clothing. 
Not to be eating weird, but one 

561
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:12,880
garment, one article never 
changes. 

562
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:17,520
It stays on your finger all the 
time. 

563
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:23,280
When you get old and saggy and 
your body changes, it's 

564
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:25,120
happening. 
I feel it happening. 

565
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:31,640
This doesn't change. 
And so the ring reminds you of 

566
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:36,840
the permanence of what God has 
put together and the promise of 

567
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:40,040
what he's put together. 
And not just that, here's the 

568
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,520
other promise. 
When you're having a bad day, 

569
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,240
you're out there in the world, 
you feel your ring. 

570
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,480
You're like, man at home. 
There's somebody who loves me. 

571
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:53,800
I'm going home to a safe place. 
I'll be next to in the bed, the 

572
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:58,680
warmth and the strength of my 
spouse and your ring reminds you

573
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:04,560
of that promise of future glory.
Past glory, future glory. 

574
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:11,640
Here's the last thing. 
When you're married and you walk

575
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:18,000
into a place and your hand is in
your pocket or hidden, all the 

576
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:23,720
single people in the room go. 
Interesting. 

577
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:29,960
Is this person an opportunity? 
Maybe a future spouse and then 

578
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:33,440
you take your hand. 
Out of your pocket and you rifle

579
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:40,560
it through your hair. 
Or move your hat. 

580
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:44,840
Or scratch your. 
Arm and the whole room goes. 

581
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:51,960
The. 
Universal knowledge is that 

582
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:57,160
you're off the market, you're 
taken, you're spoken for, you 

583
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,760
belong to another, and that one 
belongs to you. 

584
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:09,280
And so no kissy, no touchy, off 
the market. 

585
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:13,719
That's what the ring symbolizes.
Past glory, future glory. 

586
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:18,719
You belong to another. 
The Sabbath is the same thing as

587
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:22,360
a wedding ring. 
Exodus chapter 30 verse 12. 

588
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:24,840
Then the Lord said to Moses, say
to the Israelites, you must 

589
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:30,120
observe my sabbaths. 
This will be a sign between me 

590
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:34,440
and you for generations to come,
so you may know that I'm the 

591
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:39,560
Lord who makes you holy. 
The Sabbath, when we practice it

592
00:34:40,679 --> 00:34:43,280
week after week, reminds us of 
our. 

593
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:47,239
Salvation Psalm 51 says return 
to me the joy of my salvation. 

594
00:34:47,639 --> 00:34:50,679
Remind me what it was like at 
the beginning when your grace 

595
00:34:51,679 --> 00:34:56,679
invaded my heart and your love 
overwhelmed me and I received 

596
00:34:56,679 --> 00:35:00,880
you as my Savior. 
Remind me of that time from the 

597
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:02,720
beginning and and what it really
does. 

598
00:35:02,720 --> 00:35:06,560
It takes you back to the garden 
where there's unbroken 

599
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:10,440
fellowship with the Lord our God
because of Jesus sacrifice. 

600
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:16,360
Past glory. 
We remember our purity. 

601
00:35:18,240 --> 00:35:22,440
But when you Sabbath and spend 
time with the Lord and set aside

602
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:28,360
supernaturally, you are 
saturated in the promises and 

603
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:33,680
the permanence of. 
God, I wonder how differently we

604
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:38,800
would live if we rightly 
accounted for heaven and the 

605
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:40,720
glory that awaits us. 
You've heard me say it before. 

606
00:35:40,720 --> 00:35:42,840
These are not my words. 
I stole them from somebody else,

607
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:45,840
but you cannot threaten me with 
heaven. 

608
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:48,240
Meaning I'm not. 
Afraid to die because the 

609
00:35:48,240 --> 00:35:53,480
greatest thing ever is about to 
happen when that moment comes 

610
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:55,920
decades and decades from now in 
Jesus day. 

611
00:35:56,720 --> 00:35:58,080
I'm not saying. 
Bring it on. 

612
00:35:58,080 --> 00:35:58,800
Let's. 
Go right. 

613
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:07,720
Future glory becomes part of 
your knowledge, part of your 

614
00:36:07,720 --> 00:36:13,280
existence, when you practice 
spending time in rest. 

615
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:18,120
With the Lord your God, and not 
only that, but the world will 

616
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:20,880
know when you act differently on
your Sabbath than most people 

617
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:24,160
act that you belong to another 
that you're taking. 

618
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:25,520
They're like, man, your family's
weird. 

619
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:26,880
You don't do any chores on a 
weekend. 

620
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:28,480
You guys just laying around in 
lounge chairs. 

621
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:31,840
What are you all doing? 
Like, hey, we're Sabbathy, what 

622
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:33,880
is that? 
I'm glad you asked. 

623
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:38,160
We're different on purpose. 
We're different for a reason. 

624
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:40,320
And not only does it speak to 
the world, but you better 

625
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:43,320
believe it speaks to the devil. 
Who looks around like a prowling

626
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:47,160
lion, seeing whom, seeing whom 
he may devour. 

627
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:51,160
Get those words out right. 
And he's going around to see who

628
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:52,960
he can devour. 
And he looks at your family. 

629
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:56,000
He's like, yeah. 
And then you start Sabbath. 

630
00:36:56,000 --> 00:37:00,000
Thing and he looks around like 
the demons are like this family 

631
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:04,680
is taken. 
This family is spoken for. 

632
00:37:06,720 --> 00:37:10,480
They're practicing the Sabbath. 
They're resting in God. 

633
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:13,720
They're finding their source and
strength, not in what they do 

634
00:37:13,720 --> 00:37:17,920
and what they can produce, but 
in the one who made them and can

635
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:21,960
give them life. 
Past glory, future glory. 

636
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:25,440
I'm taken. 
Put a ring on it. 

637
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:29,360
Here's the final one. 
The two become one in Sabbath, 

638
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,040
just as in marriage, the 2 
become one. 

639
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,520
And it's interesting. 
They say the older you get, the 

640
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:34,920
more you start to look like each
other. 

641
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:37,960
Maybe I'll find out where, you 
know, climbing that ladder. 

642
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:42,200
But certainly identity is 
transformed when the 2 become 

643
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:43,920
one. 
So it is with the Sabbath. 

644
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:47,200
Your identity will be 
transformed more and more into 

645
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:50,360
Christ likeness as you Sabbath. 
Let me say it another way to 

646
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:52,840
you. 
No one marries up. 

647
00:37:58,240 --> 00:38:00,000
Have you heard this phrase 
before you married up? 

648
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:04,680
Somebody say that to you. 
It's usually said to the dude by

649
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:06,560
the way. 
I don't know why that is. 

650
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:09,800
What's up with that? 
Right. 

651
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,680
Hey, come on up here. 
Turner's. 

652
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:15,600
Yeah. 
I didn't prepare you on purpose.

653
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:23,040
Oh yeah. 
Y'all can do better than that, 

654
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:32,010
Mike and Joanne Turner. 
Now, I know y'all love me and I 

655
00:38:32,010 --> 00:38:34,210
love you, but you're going to 
have to just love me through 

656
00:38:34,210 --> 00:38:36,210
this, OK? 
So come stand right here in the 

657
00:38:36,210 --> 00:38:37,730
nice bright light where all of 
America. 

658
00:38:37,730 --> 00:38:40,450
Can see you. 
How you feeling? 

659
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:41,960
Nervous. 
Don't. 

660
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:42,760
Yeah. 
I love you too. 

661
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:45,040
You sound different up here. 
Yeah, I look shorter too. 

662
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:47,000
Whatever. 
I thought you'd be bigger. 

663
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:49,560
I know me too stand side by 
side. 

664
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:54,640
All right, so typically how this
goes is that you you you make 

665
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:58,640
some assessments as humans and 
you say, wow, here is a 10 this 

666
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:04,840
woman of character or that's 
your son clapping beauty, 

667
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:06,720
bravery, wisdom, all of these 
things. 

668
00:39:06,720 --> 00:39:08,920
She's a 10 and then. 
You look to the other side, 

669
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:17,720
you're like. 
And in your humanness, you say, 

670
00:39:17,720 --> 00:39:22,840
well, here's a 5 Wait, wait, 
wait, wait, wait. 

671
00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:26,320
And so then we make this 
statement. 

672
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:29,360
Hey, Mike, you married up, 
right? 

673
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:31,560
I'm going to tell you it's a lie
from the pit of hell. 

674
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:34,520
And it's been repeated too many 
times to too many. 

675
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:35,760
Couples. 
Here's why. 

676
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:40,960
If Joanna is A10 and she oops I 
can't bear hide the mic and she 

677
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:47,240
is then a ten. 
In all of their wisdom, beauty, 

678
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:50,360
glory, brightness, bravery, 
boldness. 

679
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:56,560
Would never pick a 5A10. 
Only ever picks 10s. 

680
00:39:57,160 --> 00:40:01,400
You understand what I'm saying? 
And a 10. 

681
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:03,920
Doesn't pick the other one based
on pity. 

682
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:08,120
The 10 picks A10 because in all 
reality the 10 used all of his 

683
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:12,400
tenness to win that tenness. 
They're both 10s is what I'm 

684
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:14,600
trying to say. 
Thank you all you. 

685
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:24,000
Have a seat Jesus, the King of 
kings is A10 and when you 

686
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:28,200
practice the Sabbath and spend 
time with your Lord, look at me.

687
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:33,600
He looks at you, spends time 
with you to remind you that you 

688
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:38,800
also are a 10. 
The. 2 become one. 

689
00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:43,280
You gave a clap like you're 
going to believe it later. 

690
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,640
You need to believe this now 
because it's the reason God 

691
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:51,120
brought you here. 
Now when you Sabbath and spend 

692
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:53,000
time with those. 
Certainly before Jesus we were 

693
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:54,680
all zeros, at least in our own 
mind. 

694
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:58,600
I don't think that the Lord saw 
us as zeros, but we were lost, 

695
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:03,920
broken, hurt, angry, arrogant, 
prideful, sinful, you name it. 

696
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:08,640
And then the moment we met 
Jesus, he says the old is gone, 

697
00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:11,760
the five, the zero and the new 
is here, the 10. 

698
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:21,240
It's been applied to you to the 
sacrifice of Jesus Christ and 

699
00:41:21,240 --> 00:41:25,720
he'll remind you of that. 
You're a 10 when you Sabbath 

700
00:41:25,720 --> 00:41:28,840
because Monday, Tuesday, 
Wednesday, Thursday. 

701
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:30,880
Sunday, whatever days you're not
Sabbath. 

702
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:38,920
They'll tell you you're 0. 
Am I right the mirror? 

703
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:44,200
Will tell you you're 0 and when 
you Sabbath the Lord will tell 

704
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:47,960
you a 10. 
I have some scripture to go to 

705
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:49,600
that, but first I want to tell 
you a story. 

706
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,920
True story happened maybe five 
years ago. 

707
00:41:57,040 --> 00:42:00,520
I wake up on a Sunday morning 
and I have a text from a friend 

708
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:05,480
who's living in Africa. 
So he wrote this in his morning,

709
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:08,280
but for me it came like at 2:00 
in the morning. 

710
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:09,760
I don't even know he's like 9 
hours ahead. 

711
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:14,200
So I wake up to this text and I 
just want to read the text as it

712
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:16,440
is. 
But part of me, I've been 

713
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:19,120
dealing with some. 
So just let me drink this. 

714
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:25,000
Thank you. 
I'm going to read the text as 

715
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:26,680
is. 
This is him speaking to me. 

716
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:30,480
I which is him. 
Believe when people suddenly are

717
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:33,840
thrust upon my heart it's for a 
reason and so I usually start 

718
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:36,840
praying. 
Rarely do I get visions though, 

719
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:40,440
but when I have they have been 
life changing so I don't want to

720
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:43,680
just blow this off. 
I was praying for loved ones the

721
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:48,160
other night and you me suddenly 
came to the forefront of my 

722
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:50,680
mind. 
So I focused my mind, heart and 

723
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:54,280
soul on you in prayer. 
Isn't that precious? 

724
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:56,320
Shouldn't we pray for others 
like that? 

725
00:42:57,120 --> 00:43:00,960
Several minutes, several minutes
later, as I'm praying, I come to

726
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:04,080
realize I'm watching an old man 
on his knees, bent over with his

727
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:08,280
face near the ground. 
I was curious, so I got down 

728
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:10,480
close to see what he was doing 
down there. 

729
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:15,760
I put my face right next to his 
and saw he was an older 

730
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:19,040
gentleman and then saw what 
looked like a rectangular wafer 

731
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:22,080
or cracker or cookie on the 
ground before him and it was 

732
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:26,760
crumbling before my eyes and he 
was picking up small morsels and

733
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:31,080
eating them crumbs. 
Really at that point I wondered 

734
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:33,440
who he was and where we were. 
I looked down and the ground was

735
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:36,200
a very old marble or stone with 
a pattern to it, maybe three 

736
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:39,880
colors. 
I looked up and I looked up and 

737
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:42,200
around and in all directions as 
far as I could see. 

738
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:44,560
The flooring went on and on and 
on. 

739
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:47,240
We were alone and seemingly 
nowhere. 

740
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:50,160
At this point I realized I was 
still praying for you. 

741
00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:55,680
And as if out of a fog or haze, 
I came to realize I was coming 

742
00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:58,320
out of a vision. 
I can still see it all like it 

743
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:01,800
was just a second ago, but 
honestly I have no idea if it's 

744
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:06,440
for you or me or what. 
Y'all. 

745
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:12,440
As I was reading this text, 
almost simultaneously the Lord 

746
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:15,240
is revealing to me the meaning 
of this before I even knew that 

747
00:44:15,240 --> 00:44:16,360
he didn't know what it was 
about. 

748
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:18,680
I thought he was going to 
explain it later in the text but

749
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:22,360
he's like I don't know what it's
for but I knew immediately the 

750
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:25,640
lore was downloading to me so I 
texted him back immediately. 

751
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:28,560
These are my exact words to him 
that morning. 

752
00:44:29,240 --> 00:44:32,840
I said eating crumbs when we've 
been invited to the table. 

753
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:37,480
That's what I heard immediately.
God could be saying to us. 

754
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:40,120
I have so much more for you my 
son. 

755
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:46,000
Choose it now or in 30 years we 
will still be crumb eaters. 

756
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:49,840
I'm not sure what to make of the
three colors, except it may. 

757
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:53,640
Reveal the Trinity, The 
undending pattern of the floor 

758
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:56,400
is what gave me a sense of the 
timeless trap of being a Crumb 

759
00:44:56,400 --> 00:44:58,680
Eater. 
It's an identity crisis. 

760
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:03,280
Crumb Eaters live daily feeling 
unworthy, feeling undeserving. 

761
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:06,160
Which we were. 
But now, as a son or a daughter,

762
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:08,840
we are so deserving. 
Not because of anything I've 

763
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:12,000
done, we've done, but because of
whose name we bear. 

764
00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:14,560
The enemy bows at the name of. 
Jesus. 

765
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:19,280
Provision jumps off trees into 
my hand at the name of Jesus. 

766
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:22,800
I'm not sure yet either if the 
vision is for you or for me, but

767
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:25,440
like Nebuchadnezzar, you could 
have dreamed the dream in 

768
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:29,720
relation to me as I was the 
interpreter God wanted you to 

769
00:45:29,720 --> 00:45:33,560
bring the vision to. 
No matter, as both of us need to

770
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:38,960
live as sons and not as beggars.
I wrote the text. 

771
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:46,560
I wrote that text at 6:10 AM. 
At 6:17 that morning, I noted 

772
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:48,120
the time because of what 
happened next. 

773
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:52,360
I was reading my daily devotion 
and I follow a reading plan so I

774
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:55,360
don't just pick a scripture, 
it's already picked for me. 

775
00:45:57,040 --> 00:46:00,400
And this is what I ran into that
morning 7 minutes after this 

776
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:03,480
text of the vision. 
Galatians chapter 4 verse 4. 

777
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:09,440
But when the set time had fully 
come, God sent his Son, born of 

778
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:12,920
a woman, born under the law, to 
redeem those under the law, that

779
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,760
we might receive adoption to 
sonship. 

780
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:20,680
Because you are His sons. 
God sent the Spirit of His Son 

781
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:24,200
into our hearts, the Spirit who 
calls out ABBA Father, so you 

782
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:26,440
are no longer a slave, but God's
child. 

783
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:32,880
And since you are his child, God
has also made you an heir. 

784
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:45,160
When you Sabbath, you ruin the 
enemy's plan, which is to give 

785
00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:49,640
you an identity crisis that you 
are a crumb eater and therefore 

786
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,520
you need the toil every day. 
You don't have time to rest 

787
00:46:55,080 --> 00:47:00,120
because you need to get busy and
you need to keep busy and you 

788
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:07,480
run yourself ragged. 
These last two things I've 

789
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:13,040
taught you put a ring on it and 
the two become one, I believe 

790
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:15,760
are what actually cured me from 
anxiety. 

791
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:20,200
Yes, it came through the 
practice of Sabbath, but as I 

792
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:23,040
Sabbath I remembered the joy of 
my salvation. 

793
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:28,080
As I Sabbath I remembered the 
future glory that awaited me. 

794
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:31,280
As I Sabbath, I remembered that 
I didn't belong to the spirit of

795
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:35,880
fear, but I belonged to my 
Father and that he's called me a

796
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:38,680
son. 
I'm not a crumb eater hanging on

797
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:41,240
by a thread. 
I have the glory of heaven 

798
00:47:41,240 --> 00:47:44,040
deposited in me in the Holy 
Spirit. 

799
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:46,960
And as I soaked in that, it took
a while. 

800
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:53,480
Wasn't like it took a while. 
I'm standing here as living 

801
00:47:53,480 --> 00:48:00,360
proof that debilitating anxiety 
was removed, eradicated, 

802
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:04,760
extracted from my life. 
Because of the Sabbath. 

803
00:48:05,720 --> 00:48:10,720
Because of the Lord. 
So I'll just say this to you. 

804
00:48:10,720 --> 00:48:12,240
What? 
What's your story? 

805
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:19,440
What do you need healed from? 
I think you'll find your answer 

806
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:24,240
in the Sabbath. 
Maybe not in the 24 hour period 

807
00:48:24,240 --> 00:48:27,200
exactly that I'm talking about, 
but as you practice Sabbath, 

808
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:31,200
you're going to unlock the 
supernatural of God into your 

809
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:37,200
life and remember your identity 
and remember His identity and it

810
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:41,080
will carry you through. 
Let's pray. 

811
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:44,440
So you bow your head and close 
your eyes. 

812
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:48,480
Would you just ask the Lord, 
what is it that I'm supposed to 

813
00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:55,040
hear today? 
Why did you bring me? 

814
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:56,920
What are you trying to cure me 
of God? 

815
00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:04,480
And you can go ahead and just 
bold that are you calling me to 

816
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:12,080
Sabbath Lord? 
Just ask him if you're here 

817
00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:14,360
today and you've never received 
Jesus as your Savior. 

818
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:19,320
I don't mean this as heavy as it
sounds, but I it's a truth. 

819
00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:26,560
There is no rest outside of a 
relationship with Jesus, whether

820
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:28,280
that's on this earth or 
eternally. 

821
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:33,440
But rest can be found as you 
receive Jesus as Savior. 

822
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:36,040
And the Bible makes it clear. 
It says if you confess with your

823
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:38,880
mouth and believe in your heart 
that Jesus is Lord, you will be 

824
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:41,840
saved. 
And so we're going to pray a 

825
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:46,480
prayer today to let you do that.
If you want to choose Jesus as 

826
00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:49,920
Savior this morning, whole 
church, would you just repeat 

827
00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:54,440
this out loud with me saying 
Father in the name of Jesus? 

828
00:49:55,360 --> 00:50:00,000
I recognize that I am a Sinner 
in need of a Savior. 

829
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:07,120
And I confess and I believe that
Jesus is Lord and receive Him 

830
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:11,360
today as my Savior to lead my 
life. 

831
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:16,720
And grant me rest. 
Thanks for joining us today. 

832
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:19,760
We hope God is speaking to your 
heart through this message. 

833
00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:22,760
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834
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:29,280
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835
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:31,000
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