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Welcome to the Illuminate Church
podcast. 

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We hope today's message is 
encouraging to you. 

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Isn't it nice to have just a 
little moment of silence, a 

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little break for the noise when 
it doesn't feel so rushed or 

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busy or hurried? 
Did anyone feel uncomfortable 

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with that silence? 
You're kind of like, what are 

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you doing right now? 
I'm at church and I know how 

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this program goes. 
You're supposed to be talking. 

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I'm supposed to be listening. 
Then anyone feel the urge to 

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just like, grab your phone and 
do something productive? 

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It's kind of like, why are you 
wasting my time, right? 

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Our lives are so full, so full, 
and we have so much to do and so

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much responsibility. 
You know, I was talking to my 

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grandpa the other day and he 
lives not too far from here out 

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in Leesburg. 
And, and he was like, Dave, I'm 

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so glad I'm retired because if I
wasn't retired, I would not have

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time for my social life. 
I was like, all right, that's 

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good to know. 
He's a busy man. 

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But have you ever gone to bed at
night and thought, I don't think

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I've stopped moving all day? 
It's like you wake up in the 

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morning and you go, go, go, go, 
go, and then you lay down at 

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night, get ready to do it all 
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We feel so busy. 
There's so much to do. 

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We have our school, we have 
jobs, we have to pay the bills, 

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right? 
We've got to clean the house, 

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we've got to do maintenance on 
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You know, we've got to live our 
lives and we have our kids, our 

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kids. 
You know, it's like, I feel like

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I work for my kids sometimes. 
They are, they're my little 

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employers, my tiny CEO's and 
they expect their agenda. 

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They want to know what they're 
doing, when they're doing and 

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how they're doing it. 
And I'm the one and my wife and 

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we're supposed to be the ones 
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them, right? 
Like they've got soccer 

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practice, they've got cross 
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They've got to make sure they 
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ready for the day. 
And it's like, can I get a 

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water? 
Can I get this? 

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Can I get that? 
Daddy, can you fix my toy? 

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Mama, can you? 
And by the end of the day, it's 

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kind of like I've done so much. 
And then you clean it all up, 

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right? 
Anybody. 

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Is this anybody? 
You cleaned it all up and ready 

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for the next day. 
It's so much, so much. 

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We're so busy. 
But I have a question for you. 

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In our wild busyness, how do we 
practice devotion to Jesus? 

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How do we pause? 
How do we slow down and actually

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engage in an abiding 
relationship with Jesus? 

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If you brought your Bible or you
have you have it on your device 

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on you version, you can go ahead
and turn to John chapter 15 and 

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that's why you're turning there.
I just want to give a shout out 

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to my people in the mezzanine. 
What's up guys? 

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You feeling good up there? 
I love seeing that mezzanine 

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filled. 
It's such a wonderful church 

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that we're part of and it's 
because God is here. 

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I know that you know that, but 
it's true. 

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And it's because we have 
wonderful pastors. 

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Pastor Tim, pastor Christine, 
you guys are genuine. 

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You're the real deal. 
You are beautiful people and 

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wonderful friends. 
And I, I can say, you know, 

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because I have the microphone 
right now and they would never 

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say they care for you so, so, so
deeply that they're thinking 

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about you. 
And we talked a lot about when 

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we do have our teeth brushing 
time, it's like you're, you're, 

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you're focused on talking about 
the people about what's going on

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in the church And, and there is 
a deep love in their hearts for 

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you, for illuminate each one of 
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And, and I know in our lives, 
I'm very grateful and Elena is 

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to for our friendship and 
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Thank you for being such 
wonderful people and so inviting

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and so warm and for the 
opportunity to speak today. 

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Thank you so much. 
We love our pastors, don't we 

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guys? 
Hey, there's some churches I 

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wouldn't say that about, just 
saying they're the real deal. 

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And also my family. 
I know we know a lot of you guys

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now that we've got three kids, 
Elaine and I do. 

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And, and I want to say that 
worship was my favorite because 

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my favorite worship leader was 
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I'm sorry, Alex, I don't know if
you're here, but sorry, Alex, I,

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I love you too, but it's not as 
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I love that we get to, to serve 
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And we've got three kids, David,
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Verity's five. 
And if you saw the video 

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announcements, just at the very 
end, there's a little girl and a

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yellow shirt carrying a basket 
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That's my daughter. 
She's so sweet and so beautiful.

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And we're just, we're so 
thankful for the family the 

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Lord's given us. 
But today we're going to center 

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ourselves around devotion, 
around learning how to abide in 

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Christ. 
And so let's look at John 

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chapter 15. 
It says, abide in me and I in 

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you. 
As the branch cannot bear fruit 

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of itself unless it abides in 
the vine, neither can you unless

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you abide in me. 
I am the vine, you are the 

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branches. 
He who abides in me, and I in 

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him bears much fruit. 
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nothing. 
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Nothing. 
A branch that's cut off from the

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tree can produce no fruit. 
It dies. 

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It has to abide, it has to 
remain The word abide in the 

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Greek is this word pronounced 
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No. 
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so I know it's right. 
Men know. 

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Do you say that men know what 
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To remain, to stay, to linger, 
to be present, to tarry, to 

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stand, to abide. 
The invitation to abide is not a

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task. 
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Abiding is something that we do 
when we're doing something we're

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enjoying, right? 
Or if we're with someone that we

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love, we want to abide, we want 
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We want to engage in that 
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When Elaine and I were dating, I
would drive from where I live to

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where she lived, which is about 
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deliver flowers to her door 
because I wanted to abide with 

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her. 
I wanted to be with her. 

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It was worth it. 
It was worth that and so much 

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more. 
People come here to this area 

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from all over the world, and 
they spend all of their money to

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abide with whom? 
Mickey Mouse, right? 

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It's so true. 
When you abide in Christ, the 

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noise stops. 
It quiets and silences the noise

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around you when you learn to 
stay, when you learn to remain, 

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to linger with Him, to be 
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You didn't even know that noise 
was there until it stopped, did 

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you? 
Sometimes we don't know the 

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noise we're living in until we 
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Learn to abide. 
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noise. 
Learn to abide in Christ. 

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When you abide in Him, you don't
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And even if you do, you're OK to
show up late because you're with

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Jesus, because he's the most 
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He's all that matters. 
We need to find our secret place

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where we go into the room and 
and we shut the door and we just

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remain with him. 
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What's it like? 
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I think about that story, The 
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Have you read that before or 
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There's this little girl, Mary 
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finds this beautiful, overgrown,
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key and can get in through the 
wall and, and she goes into this

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place and remains and just plays
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the secret place. 
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Nobody knows she's there. 
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And I wonder, do you ever spend 
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you can just disappear under the
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Nobody knows you're there. 
You can just stay, remain, be in

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His presence. 
We often treat our times of God 

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more like the drive through line
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We want efficient, we want 
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We want it quick, don't we? 
Show up. 

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It's my pleasure to give you 
your food. 

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It's my pleasure to take it and 
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it, right? 
We want it quick. 

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But you cannot build a marriage 
in a drive through. 

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You cannot raise your children 
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And you cannot build a deep 
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in a drive through either. 
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It takes being present. 
It takes remaining if we just 

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pause and remain with Him. 
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that abiding relationship. 
Jesus isn't in a rush. 

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He's got all the time in the 
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You want to know why? 
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He's not in a hurry. 
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He's not bound by time. 
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needs us to step in. 
We just need to step into that 

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moment that he's creating for 
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Real intimate love happens when 
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dwell, when we go to that secret
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And so today I want to give you 
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keys. 
We've been in this series about 

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the seven habits of Jesus 
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How many Jesus people in the 
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Amen. 
There's a lot of us 7 Habits of 

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Jesus people, and today we're 
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devotion with Jesus. 
So here's the first key 

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everybody say #1 reading your 
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Reading our Bible. 
Pastor Tim preached the message 

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just a few weeks ago about 
reading the Bible, and it was so

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beautifully crafted and 
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And so if you weren't here that 
Sunday, I'd encourage you go and

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listen to the message. 
Or even if you were, I'd 

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encourage you to listen to it 
again because it's such a 

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challenge. 
It's such an encouragement to 

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spend time in the Word. 
If we want to abide in Christ, 

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we have to have a relationship 
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Do you know what the Bible says 
the Bible is? 

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Did you catch that? 
What does the Bible say that the

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Bible is? 
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316. 
It says all Scripture is 

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breathed out by God. 
It's profitable for teaching, 

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for reproof, for correction, for
training and righteousness that 

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the man of God may be complete 
equips for every good work. 

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And so all Scripture is God 
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That means that the words that 
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are breathed out by God. 
So when we take these words and 

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we read them, we're doing this 
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God, and we begin to declare and
believe and speak out the word 

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of God. 
We are breathing out the breath 

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of God. 
We need the breath of God in our

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lungs. 
Look at this in Genesis 27. 

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Then the Lord formed Lord. 
God formed the man from the dust

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of the ground and breathe into 
his nostrils the breath of life 

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and the man became a living 
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When God breathes, it creates 
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Look at Job 33 verse 4. 
The Spirit of God has made me, 

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and the breath of the Almighty 
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Do you remember what happened to
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Job suffered intensely. 
He bore an intense amount of 

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grief and in Job 33, which is 
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he says, the breath of God gives
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That means it sustains me. 
It's sustained him through his 

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suffering. 
Ezekiel 37 and five says it says

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the story of the dry bones. 
When the dry bones come to life 

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says, thus says the Lord God to 
these bones, behold, I will 

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cause breath to enter you, and 
you shall live. 

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God's breath resurrects things 
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And so do you need the creating,
sustaining, and resurrecting 

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breath of God in your life? 
I mean, do you really need it? 

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We all need it. 
It's here. 

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It's right here. 
And a lot of times this book 

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sits on a shelf in our house 
with a thin layer of dust, and 

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we ignore the power of the 
breath of God. 

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If we would just open it and 
breathe in, we would experience 

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His presence in ways like we've 
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Learn to abide in His word. 
The second thing everyone say #2

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prayer. 
We need to have an abiding 

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prayer relationship with Jesus. 
Conversations with people that 

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you don't know can sometimes 
tend to be really awkward, 

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right? 
Because you're kind of like 

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making conversation. 
You're kind of just trying to 

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figure out you know who's who 
and, and get on with the thing 

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and you know, whatever it is. 
But often times those 

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conversations are short, you 
know, to the point, whatever. 

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And then you kind of reach that 
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If you're an introvert like me, 
you reach that point in the 

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conversation where you're like, 
okay, all right, so and you kind

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of don't know what else to say. 
You know, I read something that 

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if you carry a bottle of water 
around with you or a glass of of

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water or whatever, you know, if 
you're talking to somebody you 

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don't know, just making small 
talk, it's like a great 

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conversation. 
And because you'd be like, oh, 

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I've got to go get some more 
water or I need to go to the 

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bathroom. 
I've had too much water, you 

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know, So if you ever see me 
carrying water when I'm talking 

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to you, you'll know what I'm up 
to. 

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No, I'm teasing. 
I'm teasing, trying to help some

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people out. 
Sometimes you feel the need to 

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carry on the conversation, but 
when you really know someone, 

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the conversations become longer,
they become more intimate. 

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You get to know one another 
better. 

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Many of you experienced this as 
you got to know your spouse. 

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First dates are kind of like 
trying to get to know one 

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another. 
And then little by little, you 

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begin to deepen and your 
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one another and they're longer 
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You become really, really 
familiar with the voice of the 

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person you're spending time 
with. 

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Somebody calls on the phone. 
You're like, hey, what's up? 

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Like you know them. 
Also, you have caller ID. 

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That was like a total 1990s 
thing before we knew who called.

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What did we do before we knew 
who was calling, right? 

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Moms. 
You know your babies cry, right?

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Any moms in the house, you know 
when your baby's crying, you 

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know that's your baby. 
And not only do you know that's 

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your baby, you know what that 
cry means. 

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You know, if the cry is distress
or if the baby's hurt, or if 

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there's just like a tantrum 
going on, or if there's a 

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squabble with the other 
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You know what that cry is. 
And I want to suggest to you 

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that we can be so close with the
Lord, abiding in His presence, 

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knowing Him in such a way that 
we become so familiar with His 

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voice. 
We can hear Him clearly, close 

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enough to hear the whisper. 
So how do we pray? 

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How do we have this engaging 
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Jesus taught us how to pray, and
let's look at what He said here 

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in Matthew chapter 6, verse 6 
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I'm going to read from the 
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It's going to be here on the 
screens for us. 

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Here's what you ought to do. 
Find a quiet, secluded place so 

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you won't be tempted to role 
play before God. 

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Just be there as simply and 
honestly as you can manage. 

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The focus will shift from you to
God and you begin to sense His 

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grace. 
I want to read it again from the

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ESV English standard version. 
It says, but when you pray, go 

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into your room and shut the door
and pray to your father who's 

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who is in secret and your father
who sees in secret will reward 

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you. 
Let's keep going in the message 

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in verse 7 through 14. 
The world is so full of 

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so-called prayer warriors who 
are prayer ignorance. 

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They're full of formulas and 
programs and advice peddling 

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techniques for getting what you 
want from God. 

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Don't fall for that nonsense. 
This is your Father you're 

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dealing with, and he knows you 
better than you, what you need 

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with with a God like this loving
you, you can pray very simply 

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like this. 
Our Father in heaven, reveal who

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you are. 
Set the world right, Do what's 

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best. 
As above, so below. 

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Keep us alive with three square 
meals. 

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Keep us forgiven with you and 
forgiving others. 

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Keep us safe from ourselves and 
the devil. 

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You're in charge. 
You can do anything you want. 

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You're a blazing beauty. 
Yes, yes, yes. 

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According to Lifeway and Barna 
Research, a lot of Christians 

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don't have an abiding prayer 
life, and even some without a 

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prayer life at all. 
More people say they believe in 

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prayer than actually do it. 
Isn't that wild? 

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Listen, 79% of Americans say 
they believe in the power of 

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prayer, but only 31% say they 
pray regularly. 

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Many prayers that we pray are on
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And listen, there's nothing 
wrong with praying on the go 

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while you're going somewhere 
doing something. 

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We should always do praying. 
In fact, the Bible says pray 

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without ceasing. 
But we can't survive on on the 

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go prayers. 
We need abiding prayers. 

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But over 60% of Christians say 
they pray on the go, while 

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they're driving, while they're 
working, while they're doing 

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chores, while they're doing 
other things. 

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Prayer is often transactional 
for people Only 16% of 

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Christians say that their prayer
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relationship with God. 
The rest say that they're asking

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for help, guidance or blessings 
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Transactional prayers. 
You might think that people in 

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ministry, right, like pastors 
and people who serve in church, 

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they, they find it so much 
easier to pray because they get 

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paid to do it, right? 
Like you get paid to pray, 

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Pastor Tim, You get paid. 
It's what's up. 

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I mean, for real, Listen, 70% of
pastors say they struggle to 

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have time in their busy lives to
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It's all of us. 
We are given the same 24 hours a

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day. 
All of us have the same 24 hours

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in a day and it's what we choose
to do with our 24 hours that 

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makes us different. 
Have you thought about this? 

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I'm sure you probably heard 
people say if it's not on your 

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calendar, it's not, it's not 
happening, right? 

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It's not on your calendar, it's 
not happening. 

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Have you ever thought about 
scheduling Jesus on your 

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calendar? 
Have you ever thought about 

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having a meeting with Jesus 
everyday that happens? 

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I mean, you wouldn't not show up
for your meeting with your boss 

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tomorrow morning, right? 
You wouldn't, you're not going 

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to not show up for your team 
meeting and, and, and be there 

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and be present. 
You're going to be there because

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your calendar says you're going 
to be there. 

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So schedule a meeting with Jesus
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Be there. 
We have to build abiding prayer 

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into our lives. 
And when we pray, don't bring a 

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Jesus do list. 
You've ever heard of a honey do 

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list, right? 
It's like all the things that 

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you've done around the house. 
Don't bring a Jesus do list. 

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Simply come. 
We can't show up for prayer and 

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just tell him everything that we
need and not listen. 

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That's not abiding prayer. 
We need to pray abiding prayers.

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Maybe start your prayer time by 
saying, God, what do you want to

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say to me today? 
And then wait, listen, what if 

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He says something? 
What if we're so quick going 

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from thing to thing, drive 
through relationship with God, 

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and we miss the jewels and the 
treasure of what He wants to 

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share with us? 
We have to abide in prayer. 

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It's so important. 
We need ongoing awareness and 

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conversations with God. 
There are also these times that 

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God will call us into deeper 
moments of prayer, deeper senses

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of abiding in his presence. 
We're like Moses, we need to go 

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outside the camp to the tent of 
meeting. 

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Intimacy with God grows behind 
the closed door of prayer. 

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Sometimes you got to shut the 
door. 

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There's intimacy that happens 
when the door is closed. 

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There are times in and my 
marriage with Elena that we go 

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into the room and we close the 
door and what happens in the 

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room behind the closed door 
stays in the room. 

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No one knows what happens behind
the closed door. 

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It's the same with us and Jesus.
Having an intimate relationship 

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with Jesus means you have to go 
into the room and you have to 

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close the door. 
You have to be willing to go to 

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that place. 
Some of you are feeling really 

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awkward by what I just said 
because you're like, how can I 

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have a relationship with Jesus 
like that? 

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That's the kind of relationship 
that he's inviting us into. 

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A deep, loving, passionate, 
beautiful relationship. 

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He's we're his bride. 
He's the bridegroom. 

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We're invited in. 
Don't feel awkward around 

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intimacy with Jesus. 
Go into the secret place, shut 

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the door and be intimate with 
your Father, with Jesus. 

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He is there waiting for us. 
I love this quote from Francis 

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Frangipane. 
He's an author and he wrote a 

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book that I love called 
Holiness, Truth in the Presence 

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of God. 
He says this, every minute you 

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seek God is a minute enriched 
with new life and new power from

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God. 
Give yourself a minimum amount 

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of time, an hour or two each 
day, but don't set a limit, as 

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the Lord may draw you in to seek
Him into the night. 

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And as you continue, day by day,
week by week, until you have 

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drawn near enough to God that 
you can hear His voice, becoming

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confident that He is close 
enough to hear you whisper. 

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If we are going to become a 
holy, we must sever the chains 

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and restraints, the bondage of 
desiring just an average life. 

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We will choose to leave the camp
of familiarity and place our 

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tent in the presence of God. 
It sounds kind of crazy, doesn't

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it? 
Like an hour or two each day. 

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That's a lot of time. 
You're like, how would I build 

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that into my life? 
Listen, you spend an hour or two

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watching TV everyday. 
You spend an hour or two on 

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Instagram, you're doomed 
scrolling YouTube. 

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I'm just saying you have time. 
We have the same amount of time.

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There will be times that Jesus 
will call you into these deep 

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places where you have to set 
something aside to pursue him 

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with greater intensity. 
Are you willing? 

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I mean, will you respond to the 
call if Jesus invited you to 

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dinner? 
Like if if we live 2000 years 

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ago and Jesus says, come to my 
house for dinner and you believe

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in him, right? 
You're not going to miss that 

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dinner. 
You're going to turn up and I'm 

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telling you right now, Jesus is 
inviting you to dinner. 

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He's inviting you to spend this 
time with Him. 

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It's us that are too busy for 
His presence. 

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We need to learn to abide. 
How many of our prayers are one 

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sided? 
How many times do we do all the 

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talking and none of the 
listening? 

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Are we only praying when it's 
convenient or are we willing to 

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inconvenience ourselves to pray,
to spend time, and to abide in 

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His presence? 
Are we seeking His hand what He 

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can do for us, or are we seeking
His heart, who He is? 

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We have to be willing to go to 
that place. 

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And so I want to ask you and 
challenge you, Church, can we 

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commit? 
Are we willing to say I'm going 

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to go to the secret place, I'm 
going to have an abiding prayer 

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life with God? 
Imagine, imagine this, if 

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everyone in this room, let's put
the 9:00 service in the same 

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boat, everyone who comes to 
illuminate church. 

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If we took time this week to 
spend one hour with Jesus, one 

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hour of dedicated time when 
we're pursuing him, when we're 

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abiding with him, what would we 
look like? 

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What kind of church would this 
be? 

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I mean, we would have to get a 
new building, guys. 

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Like we would need to do 
something because revival would 

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break out. 
Because when you spend time with

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Jesus, miracles happen. 
There's breakthrough in your 

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life. 
You begin to get prophetic words

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for people. 
You begin to seek him and find 

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him and people around you were 
changed. 

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That's the kind of church I want
to be part of. 

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Let's not just have illuminate 
Peso on the outside of this 

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building. 
Let's actually be illuminating. 

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Let's shine the light of Jesus. 
We can't shine the light if we 

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don't have it. 
Fill up, be in His presence. 

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Spend that time with Him in the 
secret place #3 everybody say #3

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this is the home stretch. 
We're going to talk about 

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worship. 
Worship, having an abiding 

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relationship with God through 
worship is so valuable. 

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It's such a treasure. 
AW Tozier said this. 

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We're here to be worshippers 
first and workers second. 

451
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:31,800
Bible says in Psalm 95, come, 
let us worship him. 

452
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:36,240
Everyone bow down. 
Kneel before the eternal who 

453
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:41,080
made us. 
I was thinking about when Jesus 

454
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:45,280
goes to dinner at Lazarus's 
house and there's Lazarus who 

455
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,560
just got raised from the dead. 
He's like, I'm back, bro. 

456
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,520
Like, this is great. 
And then we've got Martha, who's

457
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:53,600
working and serving and, and 
everything going on. 

458
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:54,920
And then who do we have over 
here? 

459
00:27:54,920 --> 00:28:01,320
We have Mary sitting at the feet
of Jesus, lingering, abiding. 

460
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,280
And do you remember what she 
does? 

461
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,680
She takes the expensive, costly 
oil. 

462
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,880
This was worth a year's worth of
wages. 

463
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:15,200
This is valuable stuff. 
Valuable. 

464
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:18,080
Think about how much you make in
a year and think about, am I 

465
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:20,000
willing to shatter that at the 
feet of Jesus? 

466
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:24,200
Am I willing to give everything 
to him? 

467
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:29,520
Mary breaks this jar of oil and 
pours it over Jesus's feet and 

468
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:33,480
lets down her hair and, and 
begins to wipe his feet with her

469
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:35,000
hair. 
And you know what happened? 

470
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:39,200
Judas and, and old Judas, you 
know, and the others and they're

471
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:41,960
like, what are you doing? 
This is crazy. 

472
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:45,000
This could have been so, this 
could have supported the 

473
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:46,920
ministry for so many more 
things. 

474
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:50,120
This could have given us so much
more opportunity to further the 

475
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:55,120
work of Jesus in the world. 
And Jesus is like, what's 

476
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:58,640
happening here is significant 
and this is important. 

477
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:03,400
This is worship. 
And I wonder, are you willing to

478
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,120
bring worship that cost you 
something? 

479
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,520
I mean, it's pretty easy, isn't 
it, to show up the church and 

480
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:12,520
sing a few songs? 
Is it easy to give a costly 

481
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:15,320
offering of what you've made in 
your finances? 

482
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:21,280
Is it easy to schedule that time
with Jesus, to take time, a 

483
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,800
couple hours a day and set that 
aside for him? 

484
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:30,800
That time is valuable. 
David, King David said I will 

485
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:32,960
not bring to God that which cost
me nothing. 

486
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:38,800
He's worth everything. 
He's worth more than you have 

487
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,480
everything. 
We can never give enough to show

488
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:44,280
the beauty and the glory of who 
He is. 

489
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,960
But I can give my heart. 
I can give myself. 

490
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:51,800
I can be like Mary and not be so
distracted with the working and 

491
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:55,000
the doing to not realize that 
Jesus is calling me to sit with 

492
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:58,920
him, to be with him, to abide 
with him. 

493
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:04,720
That house where Mary broke the 
oil over Jesus's feet. 

494
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:08,240
The Bible says that the house 
was filled with the fragrance. 

495
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:13,640
Fragrance of worship. 
What's your house filled with? 

496
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:18,880
Is it filled with the fragrance 
of worship or the stench of 

497
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:22,640
media? 
So I was a little strong. 

498
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:27,000
Sorry, that was a little strong.
The stench of media. 

499
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,440
I don't know, It just came out. 
Is it filled with that though? 

500
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:33,080
I mean, is it filled with 
Instagram? 

501
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:36,480
Is it filled with comparison? 
Is it filled with striving? 

502
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:38,920
What's the fragrance of your 
home? 

503
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:45,760
Let it be worship. 
Let it be abiding in worship in 

504
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:49,840
the presence of God. 
So how do we do it? 

505
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:53,600
We talked about a lot of things 
today. 

506
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:56,960
How do we actually do it? 
There's, there's been times in 

507
00:30:56,960 --> 00:31:00,040
my life that that I feel like 
I've I've done really well and 

508
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:03,480
other times that I've not done 
so well, but I seek to do as 

509
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,680
best as I can. 
And I just want to share a few 

510
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,880
things of what I do that maybe 
would encourage you and maybe 

511
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:13,680
give you some tips and tricks to
spending abiding time with 

512
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:15,840
Jesus. 
The first thing is just to find 

513
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,560
a quiet place might be 
difficult. 

514
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:20,320
You might have to leave your 
house. 

515
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:24,560
You might have to go for a walk 
or disappear into your closet. 

516
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:29,120
Find a quiet space. 
Step outside of the noise. 

517
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,360
Don't bring your phone. 
This thing is loaded with 

518
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:34,760
distraction loaded. 
Don't bring your phone. 

519
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:39,200
And when you go in to spend time
with the Lord, maybe set an 

520
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,000
alarm. 
Does anybody have an old clock? 

521
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:44,200
Like an old fashioned clock? 
Like no one? 

522
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:46,480
Yeah, there's one person in the 
back. 

523
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:48,000
Thank you, Sir. 
I see that hand. 

524
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:51,560
If you have an old clock or a 
timer or something like that, 

525
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:56,480
set a timer for an hour and stay
until the timer goes off. 

526
00:31:57,360 --> 00:32:01,520
Remain until the timer goes off 
because everything in you is 

527
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:04,120
going to tell you to get up and 
go because you're so busy. 

528
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:08,240
There's so much to do. 
Just remain until the timer goes

529
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:12,600
off. 
When you pause, when you start, 

530
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:15,840
just just kind of pause and and 
quiet yourself before the Lord 

531
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:18,280
and tell the Lord you're ready 
to listen. 

532
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:20,480
So got him. 
I'm ready. 

533
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:22,480
I'm here. 
I'm going to open my ears to 

534
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:24,400
hear from you. 
I'm going to open my heart to 

535
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:30,080
you, whatever you want, I'm in. 
And then maybe play some worship

536
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:35,240
music, pull up, you know, 
Spotify or if there is something

537
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:36,280
I'm telling you to not have your
phone. 

538
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:37,400
How are you going to stream 
music? 

539
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:38,800
I mean, how do we play music 
anymore? 

540
00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:42,520
Turn on airplane mode. 
How about that and listen to 

541
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:45,120
some worship music that would be
encouraging to you and just sing

542
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:48,360
along with the music and, and 
begin to worship the Lord. 

543
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:51,320
And, and just as you're in that 
space, you can just experience 

544
00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:53,760
his presence and just sing just 
to him. 

545
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:57,560
Nobody's listening. 
Read a chapter 2 of the Bible. 

546
00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:01,000
Don't forget to breathe in the 
breath of God. 

547
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:05,280
Breathe out His breath. 
I love to take my Bible and I 

548
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:08,040
love to say Scripture out loud 
when I'm spending time with him 

549
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:09,640
because I love to hear it. 
I love. 

550
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:11,360
I think it's important that we 
say the Word. 

551
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:13,160
It's important that we memorize 
it. 

552
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,080
If you don't read your Bible 
much or you're kind of just 

553
00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:19,160
finding your way through it, you
can read Romans. 

554
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,560
It's a great place to read. 
It's so encouraging about who we

555
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:23,640
are in Christ. 
You can read the Psalms. 

556
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:25,920
You can read John the story of 
Jesus. 

557
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:30,680
Just take time and then wait. 
Just listen. 

558
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:34,760
Don't do anything else. 
Don't bring any more lists in. 

559
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:37,000
Don't, don't ask him a bunch of 
questions. 

560
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:40,640
Just wait and see if there's 
anything that he would say to 

561
00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:44,160
you. 
And if he does, write it down, 

562
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,280
like take a pen and paper, write
it down. 

563
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:49,520
Just journal something I heard 
from the Lord. 

564
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:52,520
But listen, even if you don't 
hear anything from the Lord, 

565
00:33:53,360 --> 00:34:00,160
just being with Him is enough. 
Just being near Him is enough. 

566
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:04,000
You know they say when you're so
close with someone that even 

567
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:08,120
being quiet is comfortable. 
Just be with Him. 

568
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:15,719
Let him speak, let him wash over
you and then take time and share

569
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:18,800
your heart with Him. 
God, I'm, I'm going through 

570
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:20,560
this. 
I'm, I just really want to see 

571
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:23,520
breakthrough with my kids. 
I really want to, I need this 

572
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,560
job opportunity to open up. 
I need you to help me steward my

573
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:29,199
finances better. 
I want to be bold enough to be 

574
00:34:29,199 --> 00:34:30,639
obedient to what you're asking 
me to do. 

575
00:34:30,639 --> 00:34:33,280
You know, just process these 
things with the Lord and let him

576
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:37,280
speak and, and receive what he 
says to you and just continue to

577
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:39,280
pray. 
That's what this exchange can be

578
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:41,280
like. 
That's what abiding is. 

579
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:43,480
And then when you hear that 
timer go Ding Ding, Ding, Ding, 

580
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,560
Ding Ding, you know that can be 
the end. 

581
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:48,600
But maybe it doesn't have to be.
Maybe you can just stay a little

582
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:50,400
longer. 
Remember when Jesus told the 

583
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:51,960
disciples when they were with 
him in the garden? 

584
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:56,320
Can't you just tarry? 
Won't you just wait with me? 

585
00:34:56,320 --> 00:35:02,720
Won't you just stay? 
Let's receive the invitation of 

586
00:35:02,720 --> 00:35:07,240
our Savior. 
The more you take time to abide,

587
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:12,280
the easier it will become. 
Like I said earlier, everything 

588
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:16,280
in you is going to want to run 
away because your flesh wants to

589
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:19,240
live. 
It wants to to do it's own 

590
00:35:19,240 --> 00:35:20,480
thing. 
It wants to be it's own person. 

591
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:23,400
But what does the Bible say? 
We have to crucify the flesh. 

592
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:28,960
How do we crucify the flesh? 
Abide in Christ, abide in Him. 

593
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:32,160
Take that time when your flesh 
wants to run out the door. 

594
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:36,040
Nope, I'm staying right here. 
I'm going to spend this time 

595
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:38,600
with Jesus. 
I'm going to learn to abide in 

596
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:40,800
Him. 
And the more you do it, the more

597
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,280
often you spend those extended 
abiding times with Him, the 

598
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:47,080
easier they become. 
You become more familiar with 

599
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:49,560
His presence, and you won't want
to miss that time. 

600
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,720
You're going to want to be with 
him as much as you can. 

601
00:35:52,720 --> 00:35:55,200
And when you walk through your 
life, when you go to your work, 

602
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:56,840
when you do your things with 
your family, when you're 

603
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,800
managing your kids and all the 
things you're walking with His 

604
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:04,600
presence in you, it gives you 
strength, gives you power, gives

605
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:07,640
you boldness. 
He's with you. 

606
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:12,160
We're going to end the service 
just a little bit differently 

607
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:17,640
today, and we're going to have a
song that's just going to play 

608
00:36:17,720 --> 00:36:19,680
over the speakers. 
There's not going to be a band 

609
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:23,160
up here on the platform because 
you don't have a band at home. 

610
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:26,960
You don't have Alex in your 
house to lead you in worship. 

611
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:28,720
Maybe you can call him up. 
I don't know. 

612
00:36:28,720 --> 00:36:31,680
He might turn up, who knows? 
But you're not going to have 

613
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:33,920
access to a worship leader. 
You're not going to have 

614
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:35,760
somebody encouraging you. 
You're not going to have a band.

615
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:39,800
But what you can do is you can 
turn on worship music anywhere 

616
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:44,720
you are, in your car, in your 
house, whatever it is, and you 

617
00:36:44,720 --> 00:36:47,480
can begin to worship the Lord. 
This is an opportunity of 

618
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:49,480
something we all can do. 
And so we're going to just, 

619
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:52,440
we're just going to do an 
exercise today together. 

620
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:56,200
We're going to play the song 
over the speakers and we're 

621
00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:59,200
going to get along with Jesus. 
We're going to have abiding 

622
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,960
devotional time. 
This song is about 5 minutes 

623
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:03,080
long. 
It's not too long. 

624
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:07,120
And what I want to encourage you
to do, I'm going to ask 

625
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:08,680
everybody to stand in just a 
moment. 

626
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:13,640
And when you stand, if you want 
to come forward to the altar and

627
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:15,920
you want to kneel at the altar, 
or if you just want to go to a 

628
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:19,480
corner of the room, or if you 
just want to sit back down and 

629
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:23,040
just spend time with the Lord, 
that's completely fine. 

630
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:26,800
Because what we want is for you 
to just abide with Christ and 

631
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:29,800
become familiar with how it 
feels to stop. 

632
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:32,800
Slow down. 
You don't have to sing the song.

633
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:34,240
We're going to have the words on
the screen. 

634
00:37:34,240 --> 00:37:35,840
If you want to read along with 
the words. 

635
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:39,640
It's a powerful song called The 
Secret Place, but you don't have

636
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:41,680
to sing. 
Just abide. 

637
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:46,120
Just be with him. 
Let that be enough. 

638
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:51,240
And then after the song, I'll 
come back up and, and we're 

639
00:37:51,240 --> 00:37:54,840
going to, to pray together and, 
and, and I'll, I'll close this 

640
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:56,480
out. 
But I want to say to those of 

641
00:37:56,480 --> 00:38:00,080
you that might be watching 
online today or this week or 

642
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,800
whenever you're watching, 
because of copyright things with

643
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:06,000
YouTube, we can't actually play 
a song and have it stream 

644
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:08,760
online. 
So we're going to cut the stream

645
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:10,680
right now as soon as I'm done 
talking. 

646
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:12,840
And you can do this quiet time 
as well. 

647
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:17,120
You can just just as soon as the
stream cuts off, just play the 

648
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,480
Secret Place by Hillsong. 
It's the same song. 

649
00:38:19,720 --> 00:38:21,240
And you can engage in this time 
as well. 

650
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:23,920
And so church, I want to ask 
you, let's go ahead and stand 

651
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:30,360
together. 
Lord, I pray that you would 

652
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,720
speak to us. 
I pray that you would teach us 

653
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:37,480
to abide. 
We receive you in Jesus name, 

654
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:44,080
Amen. 
Thanks for joining us today. 

655
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:47,120
We hope God is speaking to your 
heart through this message. 

656
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:50,120
If you'd like to connect with 
us, you can text connect to 

657
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:56,640
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658
00:38:57,080 --> 00:38:58,360
Have a great week.
