Doing all the intros and stuff like that, just like start with
conversation. And with that being said, how
are you doing tonight, gorgeous? I am doing so good.
How are you? I am doing pretty good, pretty
good getting ready for this Thanksgiving cooking and feast
and all that good stuff. The holiday season.
I know. And and and Are you ready for
the holiday season? Oh my gosh, no, I'm not.
It has been so crazy. Me and my roommate just moved
into a new house, so we're just scrambling to get things
situated. We're doing a Friendsgiving
tomorrow, so it's just like getting everything up and ready.
Yeah, it's, it's crazy. Oh my goody.
So who's doing the cookie? Neither of us.
We're ordering family style meals from this place and then
we're having all our friends bring like their favorite
dishes. Oh my God, so.
So somebody going to be ballsy enough to bring a Turkey watch?
I hope, I don't know. I hope not.
Like I'm not expecting anybody to bring a Turkey.
I'm ordering some chicken and some other things, you know,
some ham maybe. But if someone brings a Turkey,
that's great. That'll be awesome.
I told my brother for. Sure, she's OK.
That was a nice hit. The smokers know that he's the
smoker. Oh, yeah.
See, the smokers know it's a smokers lounge.
And we do smoke on this show where we feel like, you know,
but not everybody's smoking. Come on, smokers lounge because
they're like running jokes. They're like, do I have to
smoke? I'm like, no, you, you don't
have to smoke. No, you just have to.
I don't smoke. Just have to talk.
Actually I just had my first experience with weed literally
this last Saturday because I don't smoke, I don't do
anything. I just.
Word. And it was amazing.
I had like two hits of this blunt that one of our friends
had and it was, I was so giggly, I was so high.
And I learned what Cross faded was because I was drunk.
And then I had that that babe, that blunt and I was like
living. It was awesome.
Oh my God, I remember the first time I I smoked.
I was in college and we lived in suites.
So it was like 4 rooms in the suite.
And when my best friend lived over in the across the hall and
every time he had the baddest girls from NC State come over
there to smoke with them. I'm over there drinking and
smoking a black and mild. So one day I'm sitting there
looking, I'm seeing them gigging, then they getting high,
they rolling joints. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I'm that old and we would roll joints.
It was a transition from joints to blunts when I started
smoking. OK people.
So yeah, telling my age if my beard don't.
But the point being, I said fuck it, let me hit that shit and
that's it. Hit that mind for all that and
I've been smoking ever since. There, you know?
If I can have that feeling every time then I would probably smoke
all the time too. But I know there's so many
different strands. There's so much different types
of weed. Like they asked me what I wanted
and I was like, I just want to be calm, cool, relaxed, with a
little bit of energy. And this guy was like, oh, I
have the perfect one for you. Here you go.
I was like, OK, so I don't know what.
You live where it's legal. I live where I I I live where
it's illegal. But we have legal weed which is
the THC shit. Right, right.
But it's not bad but I still want real weed.
I'm sorry I just I just experienced mushrooms at at 49.
So what did you whoa. I have, I've had I've tried
mushrooms. I had one really good experience
and one really bad experience right after the other literally
the next day and I was like never trying that again.
Like, it's just not like you can never get the same effect, you
know? It's so mental.
Like your mental has to be right.
The vibe has to be right. And so because of that, I was
like, I tried it. I can check it off my list.
Never again. Like when people's faces are, I
was just like, OK, this needs to end.
Lord have mercy. So with that being said hello
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Now you see this gorgeous ass lady.
Now she's looking like mild pedestrian a little bit you know
sexy tattooed up housewife ish. But don't let that fool you,
she's she's a ex military, yes tattooed up freaky ass lady.
She can eat pussy, she can deep through a Dick and ride it and
do it all at the same time. She's the wild one.
But I'm going to show up and let her tell you who she is.
Hey guys, I am so Wilder. Thank you so much for having me
on. I'm so excited.
Oh, no doubt it is my pleasure because see I got to ask you
this because I always say swing is the gateway drug to porn.
You know, webcam escort but I'm starting to notice military is
becoming that because it's a lot of military ex military there
it. Is yeah, who knew?
You know, all those years, like Rick Regimen just made our like,
freak just come out as soon as we got out.
Like, I don't want any rules. I want to beat myself and just
have fun and not have to worry about anybody else but me.
That's great. Because it's to me, it's like
this. Is it true that military ladies
are the freakiest ladies? Yeah, probably.
Same with like Catholic school girls.
And I'm both. I went to a Catholic school my
entire life, private school from kinder to high school.
And then I went straight into the military and here I am doing
poor so. Oh.
My God, how many years was you in the military, baby?
I was there for 11 years. I did AI, was a lifer.
I would still be in right now, but some things happened and I
had to get out. So.
Oh, I feel you. I feel you.
And so for you, before we go into The Time Machine, you, you
are a lady that I can see here and say has been making a strong
name in this business. So for you, what is it about
this business that if someone asks you well, what you love
about this business so much, what would you tell them?
Honestly, everybody that I've met so far, like all of my best
friends I met because I started this journey, like all of my
closest friends that I've literally met within the last
year are all in the industry. And you know, I know a lot of
people have different experiences, but my experience
so far has been so wonderful. Like meeting the people and just
getting to travel and meeting everybody has just been really
fucking awesome. Like everybody is so fucking
chill. Granted, there's a few bad
seats, but you know at in my experience, the people have just
been awesome. Yes, the sex is awesome and
everything else and like creating some fun stuff and
like. Having my.
First experiences with certain things has been really amazing
and you know, it's awesome to be able to explore myself and my
sexuality. But honestly, like having the
people in my life now, I wouldn't have them in my life if
I hadn't started this fucking journey.
And it's just been amazing and I'm so grateful for that.
Well, see people now you know what we're about to hear.
They should start the journey. What got Miss Summer Wilder into
the porn business? So it's a super long story, but
the short and sweet of it is is that back in the day I was an
esthetician and I met a creator that lived in my small town in
Texas and I hadn't really heard of what Only Fans was.
I just knew it was porn and her and I got really close and one
thing led to another. She introduced me to some people
and I had just started like exploring my sexuality and my
wants and my needs. You know, like I was in a bad
marriage. I, you know, my ex-husband would
fuck me and I would have to literally roll over and
masturbate like he was in and out.
It was just so ungratifying. It was toxic.
And so again, back to like, having that freedom to explore
and to be freaky without judgement.
And so, yeah, this all happened like about a year and a half
ago, you know? And so it was the right place,
right time. And yeah, it was.
It happened pretty quick, actually.
I had baptism by fire. I shot my first video in the
British Virgin Islands, like on this deserted island.
OK, then we bout to unpack that real fast.
We bout to unpack that real fast.
Because before we go any further, how did you land this
shoot? And Oh yeah, we, we, we bout to
paint the picture here. Go ahead.
OK so back to the same girl that I met in my small town in Texas.
She invited me on the 12 day cruise in the British Virgin
Islands to live on a catamaran for 12 to 14 days.
OK and there was a bunch of other craters.
There was 4 couples and they were all creators except myself
and my ex-boyfriend. And we had already started
talking about possibly doing only fans and porn and things
like that. And so while we were on this
boat, you know, these are big creators and they're filming
also, they're filming threesomes, they're filming DVP.
And we're on this boat like whoa, I'm telling you, baptism
by fire just like straight. And we were on this island
called Cooper Island and we were like, fuck it, let's go.
And so one of the guys, he runs like a little production company
and he was like, we're going to this island, it's deserted,
let's just fucking go, let's get you guys out there.
And so we took the little dinghy to this deserted island and had
our first scene out on this beautiful beach.
And it was, it was crazy. Oh my God, so you shot with so
you shot with your ex am I correct?
Yeah, yes, yes. We started together and then we
broke up and I rebranded. I changed my name to Summer
Wilder and you know, because before I was only doing girl,
girl and like content with him. And so once we ended that, I
just threw myself in all the way to the peak of it.
Literally started doing everything, everyone, all the
things. Well, with that being said, now
hold on, before we even go any further, the day when smokers
know this story. See, it's always after that
terrible marriage that a woman rediscovers herself sexually.
Once again proves my point. Our sexual taste change with
age. Oh absolutely, yeah, for sure.
And you learn and you experience, you know, if you
were to talk to me in my 20s and say, Oh my God, Summer, you're
going to have two Dicks in your pussy, I'll be like, Oh my God,
absolutely not. No, You know, Like, I would be
gassed. But now it's like, why not?
Why not fucking try it? You know, I didn't even know I
can squirt until I got into this industry.
You know, I think learning everything about myself and my
body and what I like and don't like has just been great.
And even exploring past that and exploring fetishes, you know,
and kinks and things like that, that I would have never
imagined, You know, it's been very eye opening.
Oh yeah, there's a lot out there.
No, I always talk about. I always talk about that.
It grants us the grace of discovery with sex.
Absolutely. Because in our vanilla life,
we're not allowed to do that because, one, our partner may
not know how to do that or be that freaky, and two, it's our
job to be that freaky. So we have to let loose, you
know, Period. Well, depending upon the shoe,
because she does both the paid gigs and the content.
We'll get to that in a minute. So now after you broke up with
him, now you go about go about one.
How did you go about getting content for yourself?
Or did you start thinking about dealing with companies for paid
gigs and stuff of that nature? Getting paid gigs wasn't even on
my radar just because I was a new creator.
But again, knowing the people that I knew really helped me to
branch out and meet other creators that I can do collabs
with, you know, and going into content houses and stuff like
that. So that was super helpful.
I've been really blessed to have the people in my life to help
me, guide me throughout the whole process, you know, and I
really wouldn't be here today if it weren't for these other, you
know, people in my life that really guided me and like, hey,
this worked for me, let's try this.
Or even just connecting me with other creators, you know, that
normally wouldn't somebody a chance of like, I only had 500
followers on Twitter, you know, so like a lot of people aren't
going to work with somebody that only has 500 followers.
But because I had the validation and connections, it helped me.
It helped me grow. And so I didn't start thinking
about doing paid gigs and stuff like that until I changed my
name, rebranded, because what am I supposed to be like?
Hi, I'm Summer Wilder. I don't do anything besides girl
girl and that's it. Oh and by the way, my boyfriend
has to be here with me and these are hard nosed.
Like Oh no, no producer would fuck with you with 10.
It would be 10 blocks exactly. Right, Exactly right.
And it was just like a conversation that him and I had
and he was like absolutely not blah, blah, blah.
It was just such a it was just not on that radar.
So again, broke up with him in May.
I really just branched out. I put myself Oh.
So so this paint made. Yes, this literally made that
just. OK, so come introduce me.
So who, how did you find the first guy to work with?
And let's talk about that sheet. So I have met a couple of guys
in the industry again from my friends and I had people
reaching out and I was like, I'm so sorry.
I'm not doing boy girl. I'm just doing this.
And after all it happened in May, I went to ex biz Miami and
I was with a bunch of other creators that are my friends.
And you know, I went in there tested.
I went in there not knowing what to expect and I just put myself
out there and I was like, hey, I'm summer, you want to collab?
And it just kind of happened. And so my first boy girls, boy
girls scenes outside of everything were two BB CS and a
male, female, male. So I went really hard, really
fast. Oh yes you did.
So now let's talk about that because before this, the only
Dick you was fucking on camera was your ex.
Yes, so and if I'm correct personally, you won't fucking
nobody else but your ex Exactly so so now you're about to one
deal with the experience BBC on camera.
Was you nervous? How did the producers and the
direct, the producers, the director, the male talent make
you feel comfortable on set and all that good stuff, you know,
period. How was the shoot for you?
You know, paint the picture? So it was just a content trade.
It wasn't like any production or anything.
I was nervous because, like you said, these guys are
experienced, they've collabed, they've been in the industry for
a long time. But again, back to having my
friends there and they've worked with these people.
So I felt comfortable and confident, you know, with the
people that are around and like, my girlfriend filmed for me.
So I'm really comfortable in that sense.
But I was still really nervous, like, OK, I know what I'm doing,
but do I know what I'm doing, you know?
And then right after that scene, we had a threesome.
So the two guys and myself. And I was like, this is my first
threesome, first of all, second of all, my first threesome with
two guys, you know, And so that was a little nerve wracking, but
they were so sweet and they told me exactly what to do.
They kept me ideas and they were so professional.
And so that made it really, really easy to work with them.
And like, Hey, we're going to put you here.
Is this comfortable? Are you OK?
Like acting on me and I, it was just a blast.
But it was it was a lot. It was a lot of Dick in an
everywhere. It it it.
I love talking to people that they were very finella before
they got poured and then they got poured and well, they found
out how much of the they they brought out their inner slut and
you know it it and it's beautiful because it's nothing
like the first time. Yeah Oh my God, I've had so many
firsts in the last month. I I mean I just had my first
gang bang last Monday and I've been EVP now like 4 times, but
the first time was not even a month ago and I got watertight.
I've done by scenes but two guys four Times Now like.
And and this all this content, all this is content.
Yes, yes. It hasn't come in.
It hasn't come out yet, but it will very soon.
But and I've been able to film, you know, I've gotten a couple
of page boots now under my belt. So yeah, it's just crazy.
Like again I would have. Never.
So how? Yeah.
So how was the page sheet different from your content
trade shoots? Go ahead, keep talking.
Go ahead. Tell.
Tell the smokers. OK, so it was different because
it was everything was already planned and I didn't have to
worry about getting other creators.
Like they managed everything. They got the guys for it, they
got the camera crew, everything was set.
All I had to do was show up. And I mean, obviously everybody
was super nice and walked me through everything, but I didn't
have to worry about anything. I just showed up, you know,
which is really cool. It's great.
Take a hit with me. Sorry about this MOS had to get
that lasagna and and five more minutes had to pull it out.
But anyway. But now people don't realize
paid shoots and content shoots are different because paid
shoots are more meticulous and you don't know your mail time
ahead of time with content trade.
Yes, we do pick up if you, you know, like to fuck them and it's
we get opportunity to have a little more chemistry, build a
little bit more chemistry, right conversations or what have you.
So for you, how would how much of an adjustment was you for the
pay gigs? So it wasn't that much of an
adjustment for me because this company is based out of Las Las
Vegas where I live and some of the male talent brought in for
it I have already worked with a couple of different times.
So, and, but a couple of them were new, you know, like I
hadn't met this guy. There wasn't that chemistry or
let like knowing them in a little bit of like familiarity.
And it was not, it wasn't there. But the other guys, because of
them, I felt confident and comfortable, you know, and I've
worked with this predictor before.
So it was, it was just a different situation 'cause I did
a orgy scene guys, a couple of months back.
But it wasn't a paid gig. It was a collab of sorts.
So, yeah, and it's Las Vegas. There's just so many creators
and we all kind of always run into each other and we run
around in the same circles. So I've been able to meet a lot
of the different people out here.
So this experience was like I said, I already knew them, but
I'm sure there's going to be a where I'm in brand new, don't
know, the producers don't know anybody you know, but it hasn't
happened yet. So that gang bang now?
How many Dicks was it? It was five guys.
It was 5. OK.
Yes, it was great. She had a modest gangbang.
You know, it was called a gang, but it really wasn't.
And I was kind of, I wasn't upset, but we had a girl with
me, so she was like the host. And so her and I started
together. Like I was like, I really want
to play with her. And they were like, oh,
absolutely. And so it turned more into an
orgy, but there was still, there was only two of us and the five
guys. So it was supposed to be a gang
bang turned into an orgy, which was great.
I had, you know, a little bit of leeway.
I didn't have all the Dicks all at once.
But I am planning my first big gang bang for ABN in May or not
in May, in January. So yeah, 1450.
And. And what's the number?
And what's the you say? How many?
14 or 15 guys is what I want. We'll see.
OK, feel bigger, go home. So now, now, now here's the
thing for you, OK for you. We've been a short time span.
You have done of course, anal, DP, gang bang or what have you
for you, because the OK then the thought process with point is
you don't want to shoot your load your first year, right?
So for you, what do you want to say for year 2, year three-year
4? You feel what I'm saying?
Because the one thing we don't ever want to lose is the shock
value. Exactly.
So I haven't done anal before. I have yet to do anal on camera.
So that is still something that I haven't done and so I haven't
done DP in that way. So definitely something here
that I want to that I want to do also work a little bit more
mainstream, you know, and like have a little bit more fun with
production and just, you know, change it up a little bit, you
know, and work with more creators.
So I have a lot planned here, you know, 'cause I started this
year, I started this year in the middle of the year and I had to
change my name and refer through all that stuff.
So going into 2025, I'm going to be established in my brand, you
know, and I have a lot more work underneath my belt, a lot more
experience working. So just going in really hard in
2025, hopefully I'll find an agent that'll take me on.
Because let me tell you what a lot of agents don't want to add
to girls. I don't know what it is, but
they don't like tatted girls. I, I, I'm going to tell you why.
See this people know. People know my pedigree.
The reason why? Because they feel they can't
market you. They can't, they, they, they
can't market you across different markets.
Hold on, wait one second. Please.
Let me get this real quick smoke break.
Smoke break. You know, people, I, I, I am
multitasking, I podcast, I cook, and I used to do porn, ladies
and gentlemen. So there you go.
So see, even when I'm on camera, I'm entertaining, ladies and
gentlemen. That's right, give them a
little. So the reason why because it's
an old school mentality, because trust me, now they have loosened
up way more than when I came in the game.
Oh no, tatted. Yeah, Oh no, tatted up.
You, you strictly altyoukick.com.
You know, yeah, you'd be the ass if you know you ain't going to
see them on browser too tough. But it's because of a marketing
standpoint, you know, period. They think about because they
because they what people don't think about when you deal with
these major companies, they deal with the world.
See, we're in the small above in the United States, you feel me?
Different countries. You have to edit that point for
that, that point even work in that country, you feel me?
I'm even talking about in this day and age because some of your
videos is not going across the world.
Right. Yeah.
You know what I'm saying? Yeah, yeah.
Some places like, yeah, some places they can't show
penetration at all. Some places they can't.
It is a whole bunch of shit. I mean, but they they get, they
make millions and pay people to know this shit and they got
their bye bye. So that's part of the reason why
the tax. But they have loosened up on
that. Yeah, and I have noticed that.
I definitely have noticed that with just other tattooed models
and being on pages like browsers, Pornhub and or not
even just Pornhub, but like bang bro, these other company.
So it's it definitely is getting better.
But it was just like one of those things that I didn't even
think going to be a problem coming into it.
And then it was like, oh, if any role I thought would be a little
bit LAX with tattoos, it would be porn, but it's not.
But you know, I've learned to accept it and just kind of roll
with it, he said. A lot of the agents that I have
talked to, they were like, if you want to be with us, you're
going to have to do the hardcore stuff, all the hardcore shit,
the BDS and the piss play, the scat play.
You just got to be, you have to fit into this mole because you
look a certain way. And I'm like, I might look like,
I'm like I'm tough because of my fucking neck tattoo.
But I promise you I am a toasted hello.
I am ooey gooey in the middle. I'm not hardcore that like you
know, there's certain like piss piss play I love, so that's OK,
But like other things that they're like expecting me or
wanting me to take over because I look this way, I'm like, no,
I'm not going to myself, you know that much in order to be
like with an agent. So I'd rather find somebody that
me who for me and my brand, instead of like me, have brought
myself into somebody else that I'm not, you know, so.
Well, see, but see what where you make up at is you willing to
do anal? You willing to do DP?
Yeah, you willing to do you know what I'm saying?
Gang bangs and stuff like that, even to the point that yeah, you
go over in Europe because they love tatted women that take it
in ass. So and you know, but now it's
the thing about it is that that's part of the reason why,
God bless you, Chad has her own because you can't depend on and
that was the thing we were trying to teach the girls back
then. You can't depend upon the
companies. It's about you having your
content. So with that being said, how do
you pick the guys that you work with?
What do you base it? Off of Honestly, I don't really
base it off of anything. I mean, normally if there's a
new creator that I've never met before, never heard of before, I
will ask like my girlfriends or other people that I know in the
industry, like, hey, what do we know?
You know, is this guy cool? What do, what do we know about
this person? So I definitely vet them out.
You know, I have a different couple of like group chats with,
you know, a lot of other girl creators and some male creators
that I can be like, this is Joe Schmo.
What do we think of Joe Schmo? And they'll be like, oh, he's
awesome. I worked with him before XYZ and
I'll be like, OK, cool. Or they can see the opposite and
be like, Oh my gosh, don't because XYZ.
This was my experience. Let it out.
So I like to, but normally I just, you know, if they're local
and if they're willing to work and if I like their content and
their content speaks to my content and I know that I can
make something with it, then absolutely.
You know, as long as I get a thumbs up from people and even
like sometimes I'll have greater that nobody knows.
I'll just kind of, you know, see for myself, I haven't had any so
far. Like I'll all I've had were some
really good experiences with male creators and female
creators. So yeah.
So shoot, so, so for you, it's like, yeah, I'm working in front
of the camera. How has you learned to work the
camera? You feel where I'm coming from.
Yeah, you know, trial and error, trial and error and knowing
myself and my body and what looks good and what doesn't look
good. Of course there's scenes where
I'm like, that looks rough, you know, But just think of where
like rolls are rolling in places.
You can help it like kind of pick yourself apart when you're
in this industry when you all I'm looking at day in and day
out is myself and my body. But I've been able to really
learn to be aware of the camera, you know, and a lot of the
people that I work with are really great at that.
And so and not being like so crazy about it, like we can stop
and readjust, you know, it's this is important the movie.
So it's not just like free flow and then just hope for the best.
Like, Oh no, if this position doesn't work, let's try
something else. And making sure that all your
cameras are rolling. That's important because I've
had moments where we're halfway in.
It's like, oh shit, this one camera.
I've been here. I've been here.
No, no, I want to tell you the words.
Your camera dies right at the park.
The camera wet. The camera dies right at the
park. Oh no, that's you can't read
again, but you know it's not the same.
No, it's not going to be the same.
We fade out every day. That when we used to say Playboy
it out, that when you fade it out, you know what I'm saying?
It's just. Exactly right thing too, like
learning, learning that, you know, male creators have it
rough, like they have to get hard, stay hard if they can't
pop, what do you do? Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
There's so much to it, you know, so being able to kind of work in
that environment, that uncertainty, like if there's a
male creator I've never worked with, now he's having issues,
you know, being and like, hey, take Trimix, take Viagra, here's
the Cialis. Like what can we this not to
pressure? Like I've gotten to the plant?
Like if you pop babe, it's fine. Like we can do a fake shot.
We can do a fake hi. Like, there's so many options
and some of these guys get so like, in their head, like, it's
good we can make this work, you know?
So Oh yeah. Learning experience, too.
Yeah, I had moments where I had Tupac shots in the scene.
You know, it got that good. You know, it had scenes where
yeah, he he couldn't come. It happens, you know, and and
and the thing about it, he just male times can't feel bad about
it because like I said, it happens to the best of them, you
know, period, because it's a high pressure situation.
No matter how you skinny. Trust me, I didn't have Dicks.
The cameraman Dick press against my ass, getting the overhead
from my viewpoint. Exactly else have you had that
day? Is this your first scene of the
day or is this your third scene of the day?
Especially in a content house setting, you know, these guys
are just orgies. They're doing multiple, you
know, scenes a day. So it's like when it comes down
to it, you know, if you're really picky about getting a
real like cumshot, then be the first of the day or whatever,
you know. But you guys go through a lot
for us. Slap some Lube on it, you know,
at least from my experience, slap some Lube on it, you know,
take a little Suppository, some boric acid and I'm good to go.
I'm ready to rock. But I know guys have it, have it
hard or not hard. All you do is just eat the pussy
and and and and and, and real wetly.
You're good fella. You'd be surprised how much you
can get it back with if you actually eat the pussy in the
middle of the scene because I've done that before.
You know, actually I've done that before even if she was dry
or not, because you just look hot when you do it.
But so now you're building your brand.
So what is the brand of Summer Wilder?
I knew this when. When did go ahead, go ahead, go.
Ahead, I know I was going to say I knew this question was coming
and I'm not prepared yet because I I don't know.
I'm still I know I look alt but I'm not, but I'm also not MILF.
I'm also not grown next door, so I'm definitely molding it still,
you know, and trying where I fit and trying to see where I stand
out in my my strong suits and what you know will sell better
for, I think things like that. So it's honestly still working
and I'm still trying to figure it out.
So if you know, you tell me. You in year 1 so now, because
the reason why I say that is that of course as the years
grow, you had to reinvent yourself, you know, period, that
they're just facts, you know, but to me it's kind of like
females must understand what it is to be a sex symbol and to
move and to look at such. You.
You has mastered it, you know, period.
And it transcends the tattoos. It transcends all that because
it's about being sexy. So.
But for you, I would think because, like you said, you're
not the MILF, You're not all. To me, I think you did the the
sex spot. You're just the hot chick.
I love that. But you can create the
characters, you know what I'm saying?
Yeah. I mean, because even if I work
with you, I'll play the shit where I mean that.
I mean, yeah, yeah, I'll do it. Rock'n'roll.
I had to do a rock'n'roll. I'm sorry, I had to do 1 of
that. I.
Love. That but, but even to the point
of, you know, boss employee, whether we switch it you the you
the boss or I'm the boss, you know what I'm saying?
It's it's still creating, creating the character, creating
the image, because the thing about it is that when I tell any
female and you want to be every man's fantasy, that means you're
every woman. So that's why I'm like, I tell
every man, no, it's you have you have it all.
You have the role play scenes, of course, because that gets
them to see your character +9 as I team do these pro scenes.
What the fuck are they going to have your ass do?
You're going to do some type of skit or something depending upon
the company. Definitely.
I don't want to put myself in a box.
You know, I, I love comedy, I love, you know, Dom sub scenes.
I love role-playing, having an actual skit, and so I love doing
all these things and I like to be sweet, but I like to be sexy.
So being able to kind of morph self into all of these different
things, it has been really, really fun.
And that's what my content has been so far.
Even like branching out into more comedy scenes and not I
don't take myself seriously and you know, I need to have fun
with it. And you should see my bloopers.
I have so many bloopers just like sex scenes because I'm
clumsy. I'm a did sometimes so like I
again, I don't take myself super seriously.
So like you, all the different things has just been really fun.
So I think that's why I struggled.
Oh my God, I would have you play the Dixie secretary.
I would like. I didn't seem like that for
real. I didn't seem like that for
real. Well, but here's the point.
I wasn't in the scene. I directed it and I it, I was
had this rapper, this guy will be a rapper and the female was
my secretary. I told her to watch him, you
know, keep him company until I get back to the end to do where
they end up fucking so. And she was Dixie with it and
everything. Right.
But no. But to me it's go, go ahead.
No. No, no.
Go ahead. No, because to me, me seeing you
Dixie 1 scene, then I see you play intelligent, then you know,
you might cosplay, you know, Because to me I think that when
you do this, you want to create a universe around you.
Yes, yes, I'm versatile, you know, let's let's see all the
all of the sides of Summer Wilder, you know, and that's the
beauty of it because we're all multifaceted.
If we're not all just this one thing, you know we all have
different sides. Y'all love different things.
You know if it was I just like dogs period.
I don't like any other animals that's boring, but I love dogs.
I love cats, I love boats. I love all of these things.
So that's just type of and beings that we are.
And if you find a niche that's if it to you, then great, that's
awesome. And if it works for you,
awesome, it works for you. But for me, it has just been
such a struggle because I had my roommate who's also a creator
asked me this just the other day.
What's your brand? What do you want it to say about
you? I'm like, I don't know.
I have so many things I want to say, so many things I want to do
that I don't like. I start to freak out.
I'm like, I know I need a like a specific brand.
So many creators have a brand, you know, some people are just
BBC's people are just jobs, you know?
So like, I don't know, it stresses me out.
No, it's it. I tell people this, it's a
marathon, not a Sprint. So it's kind of like, yeah, even
with, with, with the podcasting, I treated it, I let it just be
organic. I dealt with.
I dealt with shit when it happened.
You know what I'm saying? Yeah.
And it's the same thing with point.
It's like as you add to your scene repertoire, you kind of
start seeing, OK, this is what I need to be just the character I
need to become. Because the whole point of that
is it's kind of like, why do we love the sex symbols that we
love? Because we see them in different
ways, you know, pretty, you can imagine them in different ways.
So and go ahead. I was just going to say, and I'm
also so new still sure, I've had my accounts up for a little over
a year, but doing and like putting myself out there and
doing all the things, I'm still so new that like, I'm really
still finding out what works for me, what works for my followers
and my fans. You know, what do they like to
see me? And so I'm, it's very, you know,
learning and as I go, you know, 'cause sometimes post something
and I'm like, they're going to love this.
And it's like, man, no, they don't like this, OK.
It's like still trying to figure things out and figure myself
out, you know? So this is something I'm
definitely going to have to reflect on again, going into 25
and really just zoning in and like honing in on all those
little things, you know, so I can really go in with the
purpose. Because I was kind of
floundering for a second there. I knew I wanted to change my
name. I knew I wanted to do XY and Z,
but you know it. Again, it's just been like a
whirlwind of all these things kind of happening all at once.
So I've been taking those little things a little bit more
seriously. Is just going to be something
that I work on for sure. So now, like she said, she's new
to this. So but you had to learn
something very quick. How cause see, wait, people
don't really talk about is the sacrifices day it Well, we
talked about on my podcast sacrifices that porn stars have
to make to do this business, especially on the personal sex
side, you know, from testing and all that good stuff.
How much did you have to adjust your personal sex life to chase
this Damn? Business what personal sex life
Since I had a personal sex life, every time I've had sex in the
last May whatever, however long it's been, it has been for work
because I OK, for example, I met this guy, I really, really liked
him and he hasn't been tested, you know, and I had scenes lined
up. I had just gotten tested.
You know, I have all, not just myself to worry about, but all
the other creators that I am going to work with to worry
about. You know, if he had gotten
tested, then that would be a different story, right?
But to find civilians that test on the regular are very few and
far between, you know, And I, I've been single, I've been
really working on myself and my career.
So I haven't really had a personal life, have my vibrators
to keep me happy and sane. So that's fine.
My magic wand has been working overtime OK.
Oh my God. But see, that's the thing.
It's kind of like that. What people don't understand,
especially the content creators that come in, that we, you can't
just go to the bar and pick up Sandy and take her home and fuck
her. No.
Way and that's one thing people probably assume about people in
the industry, you know, that we're just hoeing around.
It's like actually, absolutely not.
You know, we take care of our bodies and we test regularly.
You know, we talk around and find out because that's our
livelihood. Not only is it our bodies, but
it's our, it's our means, our income, you know, so I'm not
ever going to put myself in that position, let alone somebody
that I'm going to work with. I mean, that's just a hard no
for me. And if I need somebody, that's
going to be something that we talked about like, OK, you want
to have, you know, physical relations with me, you're going
to have to go get tested, you know, and that's a hard, hard
no. You don't have a test.
You're not fucking me, sorry. Yeah, yeah.
Shit, you ain't even got to go pay for a test.
You can go to the doctor. Go get TTS clinic and just get
tested, but even still, these people don't fucking do it.
And I'm generalizing. I know people out there that are
listening that are like, hey, I just got tested.
I very fucking few and far between and you just don't want
to take that risk. You know, I'd rather come home
and play with myself and be safe.
Shit, even my roommate, my roommates tested all the time.
If I'm really that, you know, desperate.
I don't mean desperate. He's very hot.
So if I hooked up with Adam or Adam X Lee, he's my roommate.
It's not because hottie, but like, I can always do that, you
know? I mean, but it let's keep it 100
it it makes biological sense. Like, hey, any edge scratch, you
know? I mean, we already shoot
together anyway, you know, we can set up the camera.
Exactly, like I just really want to fuck right now.
We can either A film it or B just dot, you know?
Either way, it'll still be good. It'll be good.
Yeah. Because it's because to me, it's
like they don't realize that one positive test can shut down a
whole industry. Oh my God, yes.
And I've had friends in those situations where they've had
content houses shut down because things started popping off
literally, you know, And when M Gen. first became like, I wasn't
fully enthralled in all of this, but I was just hearing about it
and it was just like, shit, here goes that weekend because X
amount of talent can't come because they pop for something.
Oh. Yeah, I told you we it's a
profession people a profession for a reason.
He's a profession. So so like I said, we are always
talk to the mills, you know, ladies that get to the business
they don't like they're older based off of relationships and
stuff of that nature. A lot of times you have divorced
sexless. We are we, we we we the smokers
know what it is. So for you, how many things that
you were taught you had to re taught yourself to do this
business? Oh, so much like having that
self-confidence is definitely something I had to reteach
myself not being so insecure. And that was a huge lesson for
me just to like come out of my shell a little bit more.
And you know, my previous marriage was just it really like
took me down a couple of notches.
So rebuilding myself, all of that self-confidence was
something that I had to relearn. And then not being a
perfectionist, definitely something that is, is still a
work in progress. Like things sometimes don't work
out, sometimes happen, you know, things shit like that, you know,
so not being like so crazy, like OCD, you know, things have to be
like this, you know, just kind of not free flowing all the
time, but you know, come up and happen.
So definitely having to reteach myself that in.
Patience, patience, patience 'cause sometimes it is Hardy cat
cats. Let me tell you, you know, like
we're all at one. It's 1255 and no one is ready.
And it's like, you know, like my, my military side is like.
Oh yeah, I knew we'd be killing your aunt.
You have no idea. Like I just like I'm going and
staying inside, but I don't like, OK, that's fine.
We'll shoot at 1:30 then, even though that's 30 minutes past
the time we said. But that's all right, you know,
So just kind of being a little bit more go with the flow has
just been a really hard lesson for me.
Oh. My God, Lord.
Oh geez. You know, that shit drives me
honestly still. I'm like, I get so frustrated,
but I'm like, OK, let me not freak out 'cause people, really.
I can tell you. I can tell you stories for my
days, shit that would have made me go bald and man tend to get
going bald, but I mean before my time.
You get what I'm saying. I'm just saying so Oh my
goodness, but but confidence girl, you gorgeous as hell.
I don't know what what comedies you lacking and you wonder why
you got getting all these works and and calls and and and and it
I did this business 15 years. I am looking at money in front
of me people. I'm not surprised that you had
one hell of a first year. But you know, you look at
yourself all day. That's all you do is you take
videos that and then you can't. At least for me, I can help but
compare myself sometimes, like my body type is in a certain
way. What if my hair was longer, but
if my boobs were bigger? What if my ass was bigger?
My like, I start to nitpick, but it's like people like what they
I'm doing. Well, I'm fine, you know, still
working on myself, absolutely, but not letting things kind of
eat me alive, you know, like I still want to be out there and
like, you know, fake it till I fucking make it because
sometimes I'm just not feeling it.
See, yeah, I I'm going to tell you the key to this.
I'm going to tell you what the key to this people, it's not
about who the pretty is. It's about who the slutty is.
And look, pretty doing it. See, that's the difference.
Because yeah, but yeah, especially for the musician that
we got to pull the fuck off that job civilians don't get to do,
you know? You know how it is you talk
about doing that. Just to give you an example,
people reverse a reverse cowgirl.
You know how much? You know how much shit got to go
right to probably reverse cowgirl?
Yeah, that especially when they want to shove their Dicks in
your mouth and you're just trying to like trying to balance
and trying to look pretty. Doing it.
Now you're stuffing a Dick in your mouth and you're just like,
here we go. And then the camera guy is right
here, you know? Oh, and you got to keep balanced
while bouncing on the Dick. Yes.
With her knees. With my back and my knees.
I'm 37. My back sometimes is just like
if I have a long shoot day the next couple of days I am
exhausted, my back is fried and not in a fun way.
I'm just like, I'm really sure. In many times I was so sore I
felt like I was in a fight. Truly, after a photo shoot I'm
like damn, all I did was stand there like.
All we did was fuck. What the heck?
I'm having a hard time getting out of bed this morning.
Seriously, it's a whole body experience.
It's a whole body workout all the time.
Yeah, when when we say we athletes, we really are people
we really fucking are trust and believe.
That's why so many girls hit the germ, hit the gym.
So but no. But it's interesting that you
were saying about, you know, bigger tits this hand third.
Have you been pressured about that?
About what? Have you been pressured about
mate titties getting bigger, ass getting fatter, any of that
shit? No, it's all mental, it's all
internal. You know, my best friends are
these beautiful women, you know, these penthouse pets, these
Brazzers girls and stuff. So that's all my internal, you
know, and they all have breast implants or BBLS and things like
that. And like, I haven't had any work
done myself besides a little bit of litter and some Botox every
now and then. But like trying to figure out if
that's a me because summer wants it or is it me because I feel
like I need it. That's still like an internal
monologue, you know? But no, no pressure out from
outside. Absolutely not.
No, if anything, I've had people the opposite.
No, leave your boobs. They're great.
I love them the way they are, you know, blah, blah, blah.
So if anything, I've had people say absolutely not, don't do it,
you know, so. For what I've seen, you got a
nice pair of titties and a nice ass.
It's a sexy ass now because that, that, that.
Well, this won't come on YouTube, but we'll be on
Spotify, people. And guess what?
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Oh no it's all good it's still going up it it's still going up
it just ain't going to go on hey, I just can't put it on
YouTube, but that's right because they can watch it on
Spotify anyway. I ain't mad at it.
I enjoyed it you can do it again.
I don't give a damn the. End so you can just crop it out.
Oh my God. So right there, people.
We, I didn't have this sexy lady up here for an hour and we ain't
even touched the surface. We ain't scratched the surface.
We, we, we, we, we, we ain't even touched the mountain top.
So you know, I got to answer the $1,000,000 question.
Miss Summer Wilder, can I call you a smoke buddy?
Yes, you can. Absolutely.
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So y'all need to go subscribe. So what did you smoke over
today? What did you learn?
Well maybe I told you. I said I'm going to give you
this. I love her.
I can't wait for her to come back.
But let me tell you people what y'all should have learned, what
you should have learned. Everybody starts somewhere, you
know, period. This is a DIY business.
You learn on the fly. Sometimes you got to roll with
the punches, you got to adjust on the fly, and you must be
willing to do so, you know? Period.
Also, you must be open to have fun and attach your limits.
I always talk about that because once again, this is the place
where you can be as freaky, as nasty, as dirty, as slutty as
you want to fucking be. This is your opportunity.
You can let loose that inner slut that therapist told me
about, you feel me? But the main thing is the power
that the powers that be hate is sexual awareness and freedom.
Absolutely. They don't want that.
Exactly. They don't want it with a
marriage. They don't want you if you're
single. None of that.
Because if you're free sexually, it allows the rest of everything
else in your life to be free and open up.
It's a brand new day energy, the whole 9.
And I'm not just talking about whether I like anal, whether I
like my ass ate out or I love, you know, come deny.
I kind of kind of didn't realize that I was into that shit.
You know, I, I love when they do that.
But but even if you're homosexual, if you're gay,
you're part of LBGTQ being open sexually.
Yes and also really hold fast on your hard notes.
Don't feel pressure to try things that you're just not
fucking ready to, you know, and having people in your life that
respect those boundaries because as fun as it is to explore your
sexuality, explore all of these fun new things, you really have
to be able to speak up for yourself and be like, hey, I
don't feel comfortable doing this or hey, I don't actually
like this. And you can always change your
mind, you know? And also another big thing for
people out there, no means no and no is a full sentence.
You know, I shouldn't have to explain myself.
If I say no period, point blank, that's it.
And that's in any fucking situation, you know?
And so that's another thing that I've definitely learned again,
like I felt the pressure to do anal as soon as I started doing
everything. And I'm like, no, I'm not ready
for that step. This is not what I want to do
right now. I might explore it, but this is
something that I'm saying internally to myself.
All I said was no, you know, and like, let's just leave it, you
know? And so that that was another
huge lesson is being able to stand up for myself and saying,
hey, these are my hard nose, not OK, not OK, not OK.
And having people in my life and people that I work with be like,
absolutely, we got you Summer and not feeling the pressure.
So other words, you have a voice.
So with that being said, you know how we end these things all
day, every day? Life is a learning experience.
What's the point of the experience if you haven't learnt
anything? Smoke this over summer.
Tell the smokers goodbye. Bye guys.
You guys have a great night. Happy Thanksgiving.
You froze. Did I lose you?
Hey, Joe. Hello.
Can you hear me? Can you see me?
None. Wake up, sing.