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This piece of sellotape 
represents your sexual intimacy 

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with another human being. 
If I stick the piece of tape on 

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my arm like this and I leave it 
alone. 

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It will stay there forever. 
If you like. 

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It's become one flesh. 
It's bound. 

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It's stuck there. 
It's not going anywhere. 

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But watch what happens when I do
this. 

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Okay, I stick it on another arm.
Okay, is stuck down and yeah, it

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will last for a good amount of 
time but not as strong as it was

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before. 
So what happens if I do it again

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and again, And again, what's 
going to happen by the 6th 7th 

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8th time. 
Eventually this piece of tape 

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will not be able to stick to 
anything at all. 

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And my dear friends, that is 
what it is. 

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Like when you and I give our 
bodies to other people, you see 

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we were designed to be bound 
with one flesh with one person 

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for life. 
And the more people we keep 

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going with, the more people. 
We keep giving a piece of our 

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love to the harder. 
It is to have a lasting 

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relationship. 
Perhaps there's someone watching

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this now and you You feel like 
this piece of tape, you know, 

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you've made a mess. 
You've been from person to 

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person to person. 
Is there any hope for you? 

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Well, actually. 
Yes, there is. 

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Hope you see. 
Jesus Christ can come along and 

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he can be the glue because of 
the Cross, because he died for 

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Sinners. 
He can be the glue, which binds 

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you to another person, your 
husband or your wife and he can 

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join you there forever because 
what God has joined together, 

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let no man separate. 
So if you put your trust in the 

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Lord Jesus Christ, Can close you
and his righteousness though? 

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You're naked though. 
You're ashamed though. 

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You feel dirty. 
He can cover you with his 

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garments. 
And did you know this? 

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His cloak of righteousness is a 
one size which fits all in a 

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moment's time. 
I'm going to share with you. 

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My biggest regret that I've ever
made in life, and I'll be honest

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with you. 
I am quite scared. 

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What some of you are going to 
think of me once I open up about

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this, but if it means that just 
one person watches this video, 

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learns from My mistake, it'll be
worth all of the embarrassment 

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and shame. 
Before I do that. 

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Could I just read to you a verse
which very sadly, I ignored and 

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I knew about it as a young man. 
It's from Song of Solomon 8:4 

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and it says, I charge you o 
Daughters of Jerusalem. 

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Do not stir up. 
Nor awaken love until it 

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pleases. 
So in other words, there's a 

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precious love which lives within
your heart and it's asleep right

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now, if Virgin that love is 
asleep right now. 

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And one day, the Bible says, 
there is a time to wake it up. 

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But only, when you look straight
into the eyes of your husband, 

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only of the day, when you look 
straight into the eyes of your 

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wife, so I did promise you that 
I would share something quite 

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personal with you right now. 
So, here we go. 

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This morning. 
I looked at my wife, Emma. 

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And I said to her, I'm not sure 
I can make this video today. 

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I've been watching these videos 
of other Christian you 

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YouTubers. 
And they've covered this 

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particular topic, but every 
single one of the protected 

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their virginity, every single 
one of them, didn't lose it 

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before marriage. 
And so I just feel like a 

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hypocrite. 
What can I tell the people about

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this message? 
But Emma said no, remember, 

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David, and Bathsheba remember, 
all those of messed up, you do 

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need to make this video today. 
So here we are. 

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I'm going to tell you what 
happened to me when I was 

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growing up. 
I really did struggle as a Young

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Man. 
Socially and I was quite awkward

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and shy particularly around 
girls and all of my friends. 

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They got girlfriends when they 
were 15 16 years old. 

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And I was good at sports are 
hung around with them, but I 

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never could for some reason, get
a girlfriends go on dates with a

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girl and then she'd end it. 
I remember once at high school. 

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I kissed a girl on a date and I 
walked out into the yard the 

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next morning and this big group 
of people were just standing 

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around laughing at how bad I was
at kissing. 

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And so really basically, I was a
loser growing up and all the 

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years. 
I really tried to build up 

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confidence because this feeling 
of wanting to be normal. 

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This feeling of wanting to be 
loved and accepted it never left

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me. 
So that when I went to 

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University, I met someone and 
she was very beautiful and I 

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fell in love and we did what 
most couples do in this 21st 

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century. 
But I remember that night, when 

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I lost my virginity, I went into
the kitchen, and I can remember 

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this, like, it was yesterday. 
I fell down onto my knees. 

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And I just cried and cried, 
Lord. 

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What have I done? 
Wrong. 

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And is all I can say, is this, 
this goal, this dream that I was

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chasing after. 
Like I wanted this more than 

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money or success. 
I wanted to lose my virginity to

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the right person and to be in a 
relationship like everyone else.

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And once I got Got it. 
I felt totally empty, totally 

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broken. 
And it was actually the biggest 

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mistake I ever made in my whole 
entire life. 

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I was brought up a Christian mom
and dad taught me the Bible. 

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And I knew what was right. 
I knew that verse that we read 

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before, but I didn't have a it. 
You know, we often hear stories 

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of Christian women saying they 
wish they waited until they got 

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married. 
Well, here you are. 

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Here's a Christian man. 
A red-blooded man, looking you 

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in the eyes and saying I wish I 
waited. 

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I wish I didn't disobey God, my 
dear brothers. 

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My dear sisters, if you're 
listening to this right now and 

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you still have that precious 
gift of virginity, I plead with 

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you, I beg you this. 
Very day guard. 

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It with your very life. 
Is one day you're going to make 

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your spouse very happy. 
When you look them in the eyes 

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on your wedding night. 
And you say, only you only you, 

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I've only ever loved you. 
I've only ever been with you but

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perhaps now you're watching this
video and you're like me and 

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you've made a mess. 
Well, I just want to remind you 

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the blood of Christ cleanses us 
from all sin. 

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And though we've made a mess. 
There is a God who dwells in the

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heavens above? 
Or who can restore to you the 

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years which the locusts have 
eaten. 

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So today this very day. 
If you are living in sexual sin,

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chase after Purity today, it's 
never too late to seek to be 

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pure. 
Whatever you do. 

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Don't think I've done it. 
Once. 

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I've done it. 
Twice. 

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What's the good now? 
Know is still important today. 

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God sees your heart. 
And as I said earlier, God can 

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join you together with a husband
or wife, and they will forgive 

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the grace of God is a beautiful 
thing. 

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And I know I said before that I 
regret doing it and I do In some

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ways, I'm glad these things have
happened to me because they keep

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you. 
Humble. 

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You, remember where your feet 
have been, you remember? 

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Just what a scumbag you are and 
how only by the grace of God, 

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Only by Jesus death and 
Resurrection. 

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Can I ever get to heaven? 
Because left to my own devices? 

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I'm just a sinner who is 
rebellious and Wicked at heart. 

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I think I'm going to make a few 
more videos on Christian dating 

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and Christian marriage, but I've
already got some here. 

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So check them out if you've not 
done already. 

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Eddie and let me know in the 
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