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Welcome to another inspirational
podcast at Real Life, Church for

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more great content and updates, 
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Good morning and welcome to Real
Life Church. 

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Good, get on your feet whether 
you're with us here at can 

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Chucky true or you are joining 
us online. 

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We are so pumped, just to 
worship. 

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God big with you today. 
I can't count the times. 

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I've called your name, some 
bulking life and you showed up 

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patch me up like you do every 
time I get I forgiven you keep 

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coming around. 
Ain't no way you ever let me 

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down. 
Good God almighty. 

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I'm no matter what keep raising 
your name at the top of my love?

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Tell me. 
Is he good? 

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He's good to me. 
Easy, guys. 

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Got good God Almighty, you see? 
Say your love goes on forever 

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that you ever seen ever stops. 
So why would I, I know you're 

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gonna be there every day. 
So hold on, Earth. 

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Good God almighty. 
The top of my love, tell me. 

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Is he go? 
He's gonna show me what he got. 

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Good God. 
All my crazy little more degrees

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immunity time reason when the 
Sun goes down. 

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Love them in the morning. 
Love lemonade lover when the Sun

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goes down. 
Good God almighty. 

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Jesus. 
Jesus. 

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Jesus, when the Sun goes down, 
Jesus in the morning, Jesus, in 

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the name of Jesus, when the Sun 
goes down. 

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Amen. 
Give him some praise. 

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He's good this morning and we 
keep singing and celebrating our

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God. 
Who provides Honey in the Rock 

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water in the stone on the 
ground. 

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No matter where I go, I don't 
need to worry now. 

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Everything. 
I need. 

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You've got this honey. 
Brave thirsty for the living 

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world. 
Holy you can satisfy sweetness 

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at The Mercy Seat. 
Now I taste it. 

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It's not hard to see. 
Only you can satisfy there's 

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Honey in the Rock. 
Is Honey in the Rock. 

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There's honey in the Honey in 
the Rock freedom. 

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Water in the stone made on the 
ground, no matter where I go, 

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and I don't need to worry. 
Sweetie. 

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So tries to you, Jesus. 
You won't realize. 

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Well, welcome to the house. 
Today is something very special.

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We were doing a child dedication
Sunday and you guys can be see 

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it just for a moment here. 
And if we get an opportunity to 

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really dedicate these families, 
these parents and his children 

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back to God, our children are a 
Heritage from the Lord. 

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God has given us our kids, and 
one of the greatest things that 

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God can do in life is if we can 
Stewart our children. 

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And so today we get to blessing 
of really honor these families 

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Families. 
Get Behind these families, love 

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on these families. 
In the finals of the Bible were 

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a hand. 
It gives back, same will to God.

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It's a gift from God. 
But also find this as more than 

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just a parent and a child, it's 
a whole family to Jesus. 

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And so you find some Joshua and 
it's so powerful is found in 

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Joshua 24. 
It says this, it says, now, fear

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the lord and serve him with all 
faithfulness, you fear, God, 

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serve god with everything in 
your being. 

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You put Jesus at the center of 
your family. 

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Family says, throw away the 
gods, your ancestors, worshiped 

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beyond the Euphrates, river and 
images, your throw away, all 

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the, all the gods of the Earth, 
all the gods will around all 

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things we worship. 
Besides Jesus. 

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He says in serve the Lord sort 
of the one true God. 

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So the God above all gods, the 
name of all maze. 

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Put Jesus at the center of your 
family and Let Jesus changed the

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culture of your heart and your 
in transforming our children. 

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But he says this in verse 15, 
both serve. 

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The Lord seems undesirable to 
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Then choose choose for yourself 
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Whom you will serve whether the 
gods, our ancestors served on 

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the afraid, he's or the gods of 
the amorites, in whose lands, 

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you are living your going to 
serve the God of this culture, 

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the gods around you, the gods of
all the things are going to 

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serve the one true Living God. 
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But as for me and my household, 
we will serve the Lord. 

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Amen. 
And today these families coming 

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up, but they have chosen. 
Now they've made the decision 

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that Rupert Jesus, right. 
The Order of our relationships. 

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We want these to be God's 
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I'm going to raise my family, 
but these are God's and our 

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goals that he will change for 
Jesus. 

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Their hearts be transformed by 
Jesus. 

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They know Jesus and that we 
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it's we follow Jesus and our 
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That's our calling as a dad. 
And a mom has families and us as

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a church. 
Amen. 

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So they, they have made that 
decision and this is the 

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response of the people that Josh
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The people answered far, be it 
from us to forsake the Lord, to 

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serve other gods. 
I love this verse 17. 

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It was the Lord It was a lord, 
Our God himself who brought us 

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and our parents out of Egypt, to
the land of slavery and 

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performed. 
The Great Signs of her eyes. 

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He protected us their entire 
journey and among all the 

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nations there. 
What you traveled? 

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And the Lord drove out before us
all the nations, including the 

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amorites, who lived in the 
lands. 

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And we too will serve the Lord 
because he is our God, I love 

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that. 
It was the Lord. 

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And that's a story. 
Get here of these families, it 

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was the Lord that rescued These 
parents it was a Lord that 

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protected their families as Lord
that brought them to this 

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moment. 
There's a Lord that change them 

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and transform them as the Lord 
that brought people into their 

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path, to do this very moment 
that they could say, you know 

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what, Jesus is the center of our
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So this is something that we 
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on. 
This is something we believe 

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deeply in and you get a chance 
to hear their stories and what 

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God has done their family and 
this really testimony. 

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That it was the Lord, some have 
Holly come up and she's going to

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share their stories and I want 
you guys just to give praise to 

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God for they're doing as I come 
up here on the stage. 

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Age love, never behind him and 
love him. 

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Amen. 
Love it. 

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Come on. 
Give it up. 

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Here we go. 
All right. 

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First up, we have the Wilson 
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He want to make your way up to 
the stage, here they come. 

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All right. 
Well, they are dedicating lame, 

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Jagger Wilson. 
He was born, July 3rd 2022. 

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These are his parents Gavin, and
Mary Wilson, when asked what 

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specifically LED you to dedicate
your child? 

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I said, Gavin married. 
Grew up on believing in God but 

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not dedicated to a church and 
they want Lane to love and live 

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with God Lane has their first 
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God. 
We ask what was significant 

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about Lanes. 
Named Lanes. 

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Name came from Lane Frost, the 
bull rider Jagger was a unique 

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name. 
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Loved from the early stages of 
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What is something unique about 
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Has the biggest smile? 
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his little giggles are so 
infectious. 

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We also asked what are a few 
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specifically for you and your 
child, they asked for prayers 

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for health, for happiness, and 
for financial wisdom as laying 

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gross. 
Let's give it up for the lane 

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one more time. 
All right. 

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Next, we have the Burt family 
because want to make your way up

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to the stage. 
All right they are dedicating 

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Jameson and jayven first. 
We've got Jameson Keith Bert, it

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was born, January 19th, 2017. 
These are his parents John and 

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Jenni Burt when asked 
specifically what led them to 

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dedicate their boys. 
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Jesus and our children's life at
a young age so that they might 

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grow a great Bond. 
With our Lord and savior 

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something significant about 
James Jameson's name. 

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They said we just liked it. 
Jonathan good. 

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I love that. 
Pick one out of the baby book 

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but what something unique about 
Jameson, he's a bit corny and 

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has a little bit of a rough side
but he's really passionate about

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God and Jesus then we have 
Javen, Michael Birch, born 

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September 26, 2019. 
Same for Jason's name. 

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They just loved the name. 
Decided to choose that one but 

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something unique about him is 
that he is our Wild Child. 

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Old ball of energy and we would 
love to convert his energy into 

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a love for our Lord and Savior. 
Jesus Christ, a few specific 

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things. 
We can be praying for them and 

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their boys as for health, for 
safety and a passion for the 

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Lord, as they grow. 
Let's give it up for the Burt 

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family. 
I love it. 

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Next, we have the hosted family.
Here they come. 

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All right. 
Today, they're dedicating, 

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Connor read ho sik, Haley, 
Lucille. 

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Ho stick and Lila Jane. 
Oh sick. 

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First up, we've got Connor. 
He was born, June 9th, 2013. 

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These are his parents, Eddie and
Mindy hosting. 

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What specifically LED them to 
dedicate their kiddos today? 

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Because we've been a part of 
real life for almost a year. 

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Now, in our lives have never 
been better. 

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We want our kids to see how 
important their faith is how 

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amazing their God is. 
And we want them to see how much

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they are loved by our church 
family as well, something 

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significant about Connors named 
Conor means lover of wolves / 

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Hunter and read means 
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That's a strong. 
That's a strong name. 

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Something unique about Connor. 
Connor is a very motional and 

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apathetic Kiddo. 
He is quick to act when it comes

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to helping then we have Hayley 
Lucille, ho sik. 

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She was born April 14th 2014. 
Something significant about 

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Haley's name. 
It means Meadow and her middle 

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name. 
Lucille is a combination of her 

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great grandma's name. 
Something unique about Hayley, 

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Hayley is a very determined 
little lady and she is the one 

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to look out for the kids who are
Outsiders and make sure that 

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they feel like they are accepted
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Lastly we've got Lila Jane ho 
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She was born November 14th, 2017
Lila's something significant 

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about the named Lila Lila means 
night and Jane means, god is 

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gracious, it's also her deceased
great-grandma's middle name. 

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Something unique about Leila 
Leila is such a wild Spirit. 

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She loves to dance to the beat 
of Her Own Drum. 

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She also already knows she loves
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She's always the first to 
volunteer to pray. 

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A few specific things. 
They asked. 

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We prayed for over them and 
their kiddos. 

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They want them to have a 
spiritual hunger, a sense of an 

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intimate belonging and for their
deepest struggles, to be 

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redeemed. 
They also want them just to have

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a compassionate world view as 
they grow. 

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Let's give it up for all of 
these families that shows to 

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dedicate their kid us today. 
This is a very significant 

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moment and I know you guys have 
gone through so much, the got 

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just done so much in your life 
to get here, What the Lord Has 

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Done, Right? 
And it's amazing to see the 

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story of the Gods riding in each
of you. 

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And today we need to take a 
special time of prayer that 

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we're just not behind you, but 
for you and this is your family 

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as well. 
And so, what we'll do is invite 

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you guys to stains the church, 
get on your feet. 

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We are going to Basically 
worship a song over them, but 

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we're gonna pray over him and 
this is a little different. 

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Some people kind of feel weird 
about it but this is our time as

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a church to say we're behind you
and we sing the song called the 

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blessing and it's really about 
praying something special, 

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someone else's life and the song
of so applicable to the 

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generations that are in front of
us, it's all in do as a church 

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is for you guys to actively 
engage in this song. 

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To see there's stories, maybe 
you don't know them. 

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But if you know them, you know, 
some of the struggles of stories

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and they've taken ground from 
Satan to get to this point and 

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then Their struggles that people
have, you know, that exist. 

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And so too for us, the church is
to put our hands up and look at 

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these people. 
And just say, God used them play

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breasting on them. 
And this is just a moment for 

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you guys to participate in this.
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to just sit back but to really 
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in this family and this is 
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their kids. 
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generations. 
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child in the way he should go, 
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ones apart from it, and this is 
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For them to say no as for no 
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And so let's get behind that. 
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To give them more time. 
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Come on. 
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Blessing during our child 
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words come right out of a 
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setting up the temple and how 
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the priest in the temple. 
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over the people, every time they
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with them. 
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as a church is that not only we 
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dedicated. 
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dedicated to helping these 
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these families do all that we 
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promises to say that if I am 
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over these people than that 
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life. 
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can lift up your hands to pray 
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moment of really when you're 
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Today, pray this as a prayer 
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like to invite you guys to sing.
Lord bless you and keep you make

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his face shine upon you and be 
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The Lord turn his face toward 
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The Lord make his face shine 
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The Lord turn his face toward 
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And I'll men just means that we 
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Come on. 
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Well, the Bible says, unless the
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laborers, labor in vain. 
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this guy's for you and just 
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Let me take you all the steps 
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Amen, love you guys. 
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our families today. 
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Cool man, I don't know if it 
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to come together and just pray 
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families and just see their 
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knowing that story for these 
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starting now. 
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that, the challenge that we have
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Faith and so I don't know, I 
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excited for what God's going to 
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Say let's give a big for God 
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Guys, I am honored. 
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honored that you're here today. 
I want to take a quick moment to

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recognize a group of people also
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We could just take a quick 
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welcome this morning. 
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Church online and welcome them. 
Love having you guys here with 

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Hey everyone, here at Katie. 

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So puncture here, we look around
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Maybe someone you don't even 
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people in your Section feel. 
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then have a seat. 
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that connection. 
I want to take a moment and 

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welcome any and everyone who's 
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this morning. 
I want to say welcome home. 

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We believe you're here on 
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action steps to take right now. 
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is get your phone out, you could
text RL new to 97,000. 

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There's also a QR code on the 
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Open up your Camera, app, scan 
that. 

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And fill out our digital 
communication card, and that's 

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just a chance for you to find 
out some answers. 

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You might have about real-life 
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I should say answers to 
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of saying that about real life 
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get to know. 
You hear your story and find 

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out. 
How can we be praying for you 

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this week? 
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Sunday, but maybe you've never 
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here Booth. 
I want to invite you to go ahead

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and do that this morning. 
If you haven't, we would love to

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hear your story face-to-face. 
Put a name to a face and we do 

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have a small gift for you just 
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Thank you so much for spending 
part of your weekend with us at 

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Real Life Church. 
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even exist, the reason that all 
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every week. 
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event, every Sunday is simple. 
Souls matter to God. 

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That's 100% what this is all 
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Shin that basically sums out of 

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we exist here at real life to 
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discover their real life and 
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The effort, the time worth it. 

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It's not just about an empty 
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The soul that sits in every one 
of these chairs, God is for you 

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today. 
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moment. 
Moment and say thanks and give a

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shout out to everybody, that's 
just been inviting out people 

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over these last several weeks, 
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God is honoring that and souls 
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Lives are being changed right 
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faithfulness. 
So let's just keep moving that 

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mission forward each and every 
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Well, guys, we've been on this 
awesome series. 

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That's awesome. 
Kick these last several weeks 

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about relationships, really, 
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relationships are. 
Much deeper than the snapshot we

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post on social media, right? 
It's so much deeper than that. 

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A relationship that's built on 
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When the Lord is in it, that's 
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last. 
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is I want to mix things up a 
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I want to invite Pastor Sean, 
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stage for a special Q&A session.
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to put the real and real life 
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He's that sound good to you. 
So yeah you guys were challenged

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to put in some questions. 
We're going to dive in. 

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We're going to put them on the 
hot seat today and we're going 

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to find out just some real 
practical tips from from a 

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couple who's been in the game 
for a while, they've got some 

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wisdom to share with us today. 
So will you welcome Pastor, Sean

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and Diane, as we get into this 
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Come on. 
Make them feel welcome. 

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You guys nervous? 
I'm not nervous at all, man, we 

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just appreciate your guys as 
heart for being on the hot seat 

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today. 
I could imagine that it could be

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a little bit uncomfortable a 
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Yeah, way to go, man. 
Thanks Lane. 

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I can imagine, you know, 
spilling the tea as the kids say

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about your long relationship 
could be a little bit 

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nerve-wracking. 
Maybe, you know, I know that 

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some questions came in this week
and man, You probably know more 

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than anybody else when you open 
up the floor to just general 

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questions at you never know what
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So truth, I love it. 
So I'm excited to dive in but 

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before we do that just a little 
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bit about their story. 
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of the typical Highschool 
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they were friends, kind of ran 
in the same friend group back in

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Raytown, not Rea more Raytown. 
So the other side of the tracks,

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keep it real. 
You want to represent anybody or

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Shout out. 
I'm sorry. 

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No hahaha. 
Shout-out retail holler. 

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Hi, there you go. 
That's awesome. 

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They, they've got three little 
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of Joy. 
Just absolute blessings. 

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And what's really cool before 
that, they were called early on,

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in their marriage to Foster you 
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some, some young adults and they
actually have an adopted 28 year

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old granddaughter. 
So you guys don't look a day 

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over, 30 daughter. 
But close, what's that daughter?

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What did I say? 
Jen daughter, great. 

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Well, she's Grand. 
She's really she's real swell. 

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She's a neat gal and that was my
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We'll get into that in a minute.
Weird goddaughter. 

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My apologies, but it's really 
cool and really, and I think you

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guys probably have you been here
with us any length of time, know

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they have a heart for people. 
They have a heart to not only 

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launch this church, reach the 
community, just new churches, 

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reach new people, right? 
They had a heart just to settle 

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here and Ray Moore. 
And and just bless this 

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community and what's really cool
is beyond that is they have a 

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heart for marriages and 
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And these guys have just 
counseled so many people, their 

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fingerprints are on so many. 
Just general relationship 

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stories in this room and the 
next Gathering and Beyond 

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they've touched. 
So many people with just their 

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wisdom, they've lived it. 
That's what's really cool. 

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We're going to find out today, 
you know, they've been in the 

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trenches so they've got a that 
What about healthy marriages? 

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So like I said before we've been
building up some questions here 

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and my first question. 
Are you guys ready? 

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I don't know. 
Let's do it. 

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Oh I promise I promise we're 
going to we're going to take it 

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easy on your gonna get real but 
it's not going to be crazy. 

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All right, this first questions 
to the both of you, all right, 

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so this is an all-skate for you 
guys and it says this, I like my

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Sean isms. 
They're all skate to learn from 

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watching, you, Dad. 
All right, this was shot at 

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Diana. 
Says you guys have been married?

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For 15 years, I want you to go 
all the way back before. 

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You said I do back when you were
dating what were some keys that 

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you learned or had in place the 
set your marriage up for that 

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happily ever after success that 
made a big difference for 

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lasting marriage today We 
remember that time, huh? 

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Yeah, distant memory. 
No, I heard yes, this is Sean. 

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Drew clearly the comic relief of
today. 

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Not me, it's okay but I can say 
for me I think there's a few 

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things like one is that we got 
to be friends first and I know 

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not everybody has that ability 
or the timing of the 

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relationship but that was really
important for us. 

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Once you like add the romance 
into it, like we were already 

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friends. 
We already knew each other, we 

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already knew how to communicate 
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connected. 
Friends, will talk more about 

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communication later, but the 
second one I think is really 

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key. 
Is that at that time in our life

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when we did, like start dating 
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college, not in high school, but
we were both pursuing God on our

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own. 
We both had felt like we were 

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called to do something big for 
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me wait around to see what Shawn
thinks or what Sean's going to 

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do or, you know, I wasn't 
building my future with God on 

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him. 
I was building my future with 

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God on God, and whatever God 
called me to do. 

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There's actually a really funny 
story when Sean was going to 

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propose to me and I didn't know 
it yet. 

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I had accepted a job in Chicago.
We were long distance for a long

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time and I was like cool piece. 
You know where I'll be like if 

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you need to catch up or 
whatever, but I was just like 

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carrying on with what God was 
calling me to do until that 

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time, when like our lives merged
together. 

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So yeah, it's just kind of funny
and the Lord had different 

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plans. 
Yeah. 

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And then ultimately, what 
brought us together is realizing

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that will to be on Mission 
together? 

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Like I could look at Sean and 
his passion for God and look to 

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say, like I know that God can do
more through us together than he

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00:37:35,900 --> 00:37:39,900
can do with a. 
And so that underlying Unity 

453
00:37:39,900 --> 00:37:44,600
made it so that we could come 
together and serve God so way 

454
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:50,200
back when dating? 
Yeah, talking about Keys things 

455
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:52,700
that we learned. 
And I would say, first of all, 

456
00:37:52,700 --> 00:37:56,500
we weren't perfect, we don't be 
inherently Keys. 

457
00:37:57,300 --> 00:37:59,600
Yeah, we learned, right? 
So some things, we learned some 

458
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:01,400
things, we've kind of had going 
for us. 

459
00:38:02,100 --> 00:38:05,700
One things that worked out. 
We dated long distance for man, 

460
00:38:05,700 --> 00:38:09,100
three and a half years. 
It's pretty much yeah, longer 

461
00:38:09,100 --> 00:38:12,000
three and a half years and so it
kept snotlout trouble, come on 

462
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:15,500
somebody, that's, that's the 
blessing of being 60 miles away,

463
00:38:15,500 --> 00:38:17,600
right? 
And this back, when you had a 

464
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:19,800
cell phone, we had to be in the 
right spot in the dorm, you 

465
00:38:19,808 --> 00:38:22,900
know, to even getting signal as 
a press against the back door 

466
00:38:22,900 --> 00:38:26,200
for four years, you know. 
But the reality is, there's four

467
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,000
things are really a blessing for
us. 

468
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:30,900
One is you have to know each 
other outside of physically, 

469
00:38:31,300 --> 00:38:32,900
which I think a lot of 
relationships kind of gets 

470
00:38:32,900 --> 00:38:34,400
stale. 
Like they just get stuck right 

471
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:36,300
there. 
They start doing stuff outside 

472
00:38:36,300 --> 00:38:38,300
of where Louis. 
It's like fire, you know, it's 

473
00:38:38,300 --> 00:38:40,400
like it's awesome when it's in 
its right place. 

474
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,000
But super destructive when it's 
not. 

475
00:38:42,300 --> 00:38:43,600
And what happens? 
You just you get to know 

476
00:38:43,607 --> 00:38:46,300
somebody's body but you don't 
get to know anything really else

477
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:48,900
and so you don't really get to 
go deeper spiritually or 

478
00:38:48,900 --> 00:38:51,100
character, or their call and 
passion. 

479
00:38:51,100 --> 00:38:53,800
So we kind of had the blessing. 
He had to spend a lot of time. 

480
00:38:53,900 --> 00:38:56,300
Dino is jokes around. 
She goes, if we were closer and 

481
00:38:56,500 --> 00:38:58,800
you know a new you little more 
at home, I probably would never 

482
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:03,000
married you haha. 
So that was those big I think 

483
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:06,000
for us like seeing her Pursuit 
Of God, I mean I think you want 

484
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:08,800
to marry somebody That's 
passionate about God, they're 

485
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:13,300
pursuing God on their own and in
just as much, if not more than 

486
00:39:13,300 --> 00:39:17,100
you, you're just chasing that. 
And for me like I realized, I 

487
00:39:17,100 --> 00:39:18,800
ain't like she was real serious 
about following God. 

488
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,100
A lot of people just talk about 
it and they show up on Sundays 

489
00:39:21,100 --> 00:39:23,600
and stuff, but they're really 
not fighting for it, you know, 

490
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:27,300
and I noticed in college, she 
went off and she didn't like a 

491
00:39:27,300 --> 00:39:30,700
Nursing degree and three years 
taking extra classes. 

492
00:39:30,700 --> 00:39:34,600
And it was pretty rigorous kind 
of study and she'd work as a CNA

493
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:39,700
overnights and is working out. 
Only hours a week or more and so

494
00:39:39,700 --> 00:39:42,200
overnight should work in the 
Gulf of Saturday or Sunday more 

495
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:45,100
like 6 a.m. it's you drive the 
church and she sleep in the 

496
00:39:45,100 --> 00:39:48,600
parking lot so that she could 
get up and serve kids in a lot 

497
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:52,100
of program and a elementary-aged
program and then go to church 

498
00:39:52,100 --> 00:39:53,700
and do it every single Sunday 
for years. 

499
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:57,400
And so for me like that was 
like, ding ding, ding, right? 

500
00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:59,300
Like she wants something from 
God. 

501
00:39:59,300 --> 00:40:01,300
She wants to pursue God. 
And so that was really big for 

502
00:40:01,300 --> 00:40:03,400
me. 
I just kind of ring the bell, 

503
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:05,900
right? 
And I think to is just, yeah, 

504
00:40:05,900 --> 00:40:08,700
that's the question. 
Am I marrying somebody because 

505
00:40:08,900 --> 00:40:13,200
it helps me pursue the things of
God, more Ores or what is it, 

506
00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:14,700
right? 
Because ultimately ridges built 

507
00:40:14,700 --> 00:40:17,000
around, like, we're Partners 
together for things of Christ 

508
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:19,000
and so for me that was the 
foundation, a lot of people 

509
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:22,100
didn't have that or think that 
direction but for us, that was 

510
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,200
really the key to laid out. 
So a lot of people like asked, 

511
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:28,400
if he should you live together 
for he married, you know, save 

512
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:31,400
some money, you know, you know, 
you can fit, you know, test 

513
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:34,200
drive the car, right? 
You hear that all the time, 

514
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:36,500
right? 
And I just feel like that's just

515
00:40:36,500 --> 00:40:38,400
the Direction that God would 
have for you. 

516
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:40,200
I think that's where you want to
go at all. 

517
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,200
Thank you and honor God. 
And then, as God brings you 

518
00:40:42,207 --> 00:40:44,800
together, and then he wants to 
get married, and then you can 

519
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:46,100
learn all you want about Sonny's
Body. 

520
00:40:46,100 --> 00:40:47,700
Come on somebody. 
Amen. 

521
00:40:48,900 --> 00:40:50,500
There's ones not wrong one 
person. 

522
00:40:50,700 --> 00:40:54,800
There's one guy excited today. 
That's awesome. 

523
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:56,800
There's so many good takeaways 
from that. 

524
00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:59,100
And I neglected to mention 
earlier, you know, like this 

525
00:40:59,100 --> 00:41:00,900
this whole series and especially
today. 

526
00:41:00,900 --> 00:41:03,900
I mean, if you're not married, 
if you're not in a relationship 

527
00:41:03,900 --> 00:41:06,800
man, take some notes. 
Today, there is so much. 

528
00:41:06,900 --> 00:41:09,400
Each gold and everything you 
guys said and one of the 

529
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:12,000
takeaways that I got from that 
that I really enjoyed is like, 

530
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:15,000
so many people I think think of 
relationships is 50/50, but you 

531
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:17,700
guys really lined it up it's 
really a hundred, a hundred, you

532
00:41:17,700 --> 00:41:20,700
know, I love how you really do 
been to like, you know, this is 

533
00:41:20,700 --> 00:41:24,300
my faith and I'm going this way.
I'm pursuing God whether he does

534
00:41:24,300 --> 00:41:25,600
or not. 
I think it's also cool. 

535
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:29,200
How God honored that and brought
you both together so huge, 

536
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:31,300
takeaway me and I hope you guys 
are taking some notes today. 

537
00:41:31,300 --> 00:41:33,000
That's that's epic. 
All right. 

538
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:34,300
Well, you ready for another all 
skate? 

539
00:41:34,300 --> 00:41:36,100
Another. 
Both of you before we divvy out 

540
00:41:36,100 --> 00:41:38,000
a little bit, I'm ready. 
All right, let's do it. 

541
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:40,400
Our this for both of you. 
The next question came in goes 

542
00:41:40,700 --> 00:41:45,100
it starts off being married is 
often challenging especially 

543
00:41:45,100 --> 00:41:48,600
when you were a young married 
couple and the honeymoon phase 

544
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:53,200
wears off. 
What was your maybe doesn't what

545
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:56,600
was your biggest challenge in 
your early years of marriage and

546
00:41:56,600 --> 00:42:00,400
how did you work through it? 
She's looking at me. 

547
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:02,000
I'll do it. 
I'll do it. 

548
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:02,800
I'll do it. 
I'll do it. 

549
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:06,300
Yeah. 
So man there's a lot of 

550
00:42:06,300 --> 00:42:09,300
challenges, right? 
I mean honeymoon phase. 

551
00:42:09,300 --> 00:42:11,200
I was thinking like we never 
left home in Phase. 

552
00:42:12,300 --> 00:42:13,000
Look at her face. 
Yeah. 

553
00:42:13,100 --> 00:42:14,700
That was yeah. 
You're right. 

554
00:42:14,700 --> 00:42:18,300
Yeah. 
That was over so that that 

555
00:42:18,300 --> 00:42:21,600
ended. 
No I think honestly like you 

556
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:25,700
know we have the typical like 
you know, we fight we you know 

557
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:27,900
she can't keep her hands off me.
So that's the kind of fighter 

558
00:42:27,900 --> 00:42:32,100
off, you know and Y'all know 
making stuff up now. 

559
00:42:32,100 --> 00:42:35,300
Right? 
No, but I do think at the end of

560
00:42:35,308 --> 00:42:37,000
the day, I feel like Back Being 
Young married. 

561
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:39,900
Like once you got a honeymoon 
phase, you start to realize like

562
00:42:39,900 --> 00:42:43,400
not my problem was myself, that 
was the problem. 

563
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:46,800
Like I was, I don't know. 
It was like bad stuff, but it 

564
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:48,600
wasn't great stuff like it 
Plateau. 

565
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:51,000
Like the relationship plateaus 
on me, right? 

566
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:52,100
And maybe she says, save 
ourself. 

567
00:42:52,100 --> 00:42:55,000
But like I did, you get to 
certain depth in like, you're 

568
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:56,500
okay with that. 
Like, you didn't know any 

569
00:42:56,500 --> 00:42:58,500
different maybe. 
And so you start realizing as 

570
00:42:58,500 --> 00:43:01,600
problems. 
Even as pressure comes right. 

571
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:05,000
As we have foster kids and 
things happen, like, wow, I've 

572
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:07,800
got, I've got to be, there's got
to be, there's got to be more of

573
00:43:07,900 --> 00:43:10,500
Jesus in me. 
Like, I got to die to myself a 

574
00:43:10,508 --> 00:43:13,400
little more like and so patients
and all these things character 

575
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:15,600
inside myself. 
And I started realizing as 

576
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:18,500
problems would happened that 
Ultima I'm not being the best 

577
00:43:18,500 --> 00:43:22,500
solution to the problems, right?
And so, I think there's a lot to

578
00:43:22,500 --> 00:43:26,200
say about that direction of, 
really just dined yourself and 

579
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:28,900
just asking, God to work through
you and learning to listen. 

580
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:31,100
Listen, I think was really big. 
I don't know if that's a 

581
00:43:31,500 --> 00:43:34,500
spiritual gift that most people 
are gifted with, you know. 

582
00:43:34,500 --> 00:43:36,300
So I think marriage you start 
realizing like, hey, I've got a 

583
00:43:36,300 --> 00:43:39,600
Shepherd her soul and we're both
very hard workers were both very

584
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:43,300
independent and I think the word
maybe comes to mind is that for 

585
00:43:43,300 --> 00:43:46,700
most guys and people in general 
is just stubborn, right? 

586
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:49,000
Like I realized like being if 
I'm going to go where God calls 

587
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:52,100
you go, I've got to be open to 
things of God, more and more 

588
00:43:52,100 --> 00:43:54,900
patient, more loving, and I was 
thinking about like, Peter 

589
00:43:54,900 --> 00:43:57,900
Wright and he goes up to this 
really is what Jesus will start 

590
00:43:57,900 --> 00:44:00,400
back on that and Jesus says, 
hey, I'm going to die. 

591
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:03,300
I'll be crucified and killed and
raised again and Peter's like, 

592
00:44:03,300 --> 00:44:06,300
no you're not. 
And Jesus tells Peter like get 

593
00:44:06,300 --> 00:44:09,400
thee behind me Satan, right. 
And Peter's just kind of 

594
00:44:09,700 --> 00:44:12,800
stubborn and aloof and doesn't 
know what's going on and Jesus 

595
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:15,900
does some very special it's just
that later that week he takes up

596
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:19,500
the Inner Circle disciples, you 
know, Peter James John up to the

597
00:44:19,500 --> 00:44:22,600
Mount Transfiguration and the 
voice of the father. 

598
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:24,200
Like the glory of God has shown 
right? 

599
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:26,500
Like there's smoke and they just
crazy and there's they're 

600
00:44:26,500 --> 00:44:28,600
hearing the voices. 
He Elijah the see, Moses up on 

601
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:30,500
this mountain. 
Mountain and they're just 

602
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:32,900
afraid, and they're wondering 
what's going on? 

603
00:44:32,900 --> 00:44:34,400
Of course. 
God's voice is like, this, is my

604
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:37,000
son whom I love and they don't 
quite get what's going on in. 

605
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:39,000
Jesus, tells them as they make 
their way down the mound. 

606
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:41,400
He says, hey, I'm going to 
raised again the third day, the 

607
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:45,000
Bible says you guys are like, 
whoa, so that's like the early 

608
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:46,200
years of marriage. 
Like what? 

609
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:49,000
Right. 
And then Jesus is kind of front 

610
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:51,200
of them and they're talking 
about something that's so 

611
00:44:51,300 --> 00:44:53,100
interesting. 
Like, who's gonna be the 

612
00:44:53,100 --> 00:44:55,500
greatest in heaven? 
That's the question of talking 

613
00:44:55,500 --> 00:44:57,100
about. 
So it's all the glory god in 

614
00:44:57,100 --> 00:44:58,700
their ask themselves. 
Well, who's going there because 

615
00:44:58,700 --> 00:45:02,000
I saw Moses as all Isaiah. 
So I wonder if I'm to be up 

616
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:04,000
there next year, you know? 
Like I'm over. 

617
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:05,200
I'll be in the center of this 
equation. 

618
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:08,000
I want to be by all about me, 
and Jesus didn't overhear like 

619
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:11,100
physically, but he heard it and 
he goes to him and he says we're

620
00:45:11,100 --> 00:45:14,300
just talking about and they're 
awfully quiet, right? 

621
00:45:14,500 --> 00:45:17,300
And he looked at me said hey if 
you want to be first and he'd be

622
00:45:17,300 --> 00:45:19,100
last and if you know me the 
grace and the kingdom would be 

623
00:45:19,100 --> 00:45:22,500
the greatest survey. 
So I think early on that, that's

624
00:45:22,500 --> 00:45:26,200
why I Learned was. 
You need to serve 100%. 150%. 

625
00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:27,700
Doesn't matter what some Bells 
does you doing? 

626
00:45:27,700 --> 00:45:29,900
God's calling you doing Serving?
And Ingrosso. 

627
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:34,500
Amen, I was it. 
That's why I got so, yeah. 

628
00:45:34,500 --> 00:45:36,400
I think bouncing off of that 
same idea. 

629
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:39,900
It is early in your marriage. 
It's a period of dying to 

630
00:45:39,900 --> 00:45:43,000
yourself, you know, following 
what Jesus calls us to do and 

631
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:45,900
saying, like, well, this is how 
I did it, and this is how I grew

632
00:45:45,900 --> 00:45:49,300
up, and this is what I think. 
And so just there's times of, 

633
00:45:49,300 --> 00:45:52,300
like, teasing those things out 
of like, well, what are we going

634
00:45:52,300 --> 00:45:54,900
to do in those things? 
And it's really easy at the 

635
00:45:54,900 --> 00:45:56,700
beginning, like full, I'm an 
only child. 

636
00:45:56,700 --> 00:45:59,400
So I never had a roommate till I
got married, I guess, College a 

637
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:02,200
little bit, but, you know, it's 
just like, how do you live and 

638
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:04,000
share space? 
And all those practical things, 

639
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:07,100
or you have to die to yourself a
little bit to come to that full 

640
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:10,600
acceptance of somebody else's 
ways, and things like that. 

641
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:13,900
It hurts learning, you know, 
which, which of these am I going

642
00:46:13,900 --> 00:46:16,000
to let go and which ones do I 
need to talk about? 

643
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:18,800
But same as Sean. 
I think early in our marriage, I

644
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:22,700
really had to take a deep dive 
into me and how the problems 

645
00:46:22,700 --> 00:46:25,900
that I was causing can be 
detrimental to our marriage. 

646
00:46:25,900 --> 00:46:28,100
So I've shared with lots of Life
groups that I've LED. 

647
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:31,900
I had Dad pretty deep-seated 
struggle with insecurities, 

648
00:46:31,900 --> 00:46:33,300
like, throughout my like 
college. 

649
00:46:33,300 --> 00:46:37,200
And, you know, early marriage 
years that was really at a point

650
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:39,500
that it was debilitating to, 
some of the relationships that I

651
00:46:39,500 --> 00:46:42,300
was in, it was preventing me 
into entering, into new, you 

652
00:46:42,300 --> 00:46:44,900
know, deeper relationships with 
other people in my life. 

653
00:46:44,900 --> 00:46:48,900
Preventing me from really fully 
trusting that God had brought us

654
00:46:48,900 --> 00:46:52,700
together on purpose and that my 
job was to better me. 

655
00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:56,900
And to not say that, you know, I
needed Sean to do certain things

656
00:46:56,900 --> 00:47:00,000
to fill that need inside of me 
and putting Extra pressure on 

657
00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:02,400
him to say like well if he can 
measure up to this and if he can

658
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:05,900
meet this need inside of me, I 
really had to die to myself and 

659
00:47:05,900 --> 00:47:08,200
say, no. 
Only, God can meet that need in 

660
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:11,700
me, and if I'm looking for it in
him, that's not fair. 

661
00:47:12,100 --> 00:47:14,700
He's never going to meet, you 
know, meet that standard of 

662
00:47:14,700 --> 00:47:16,400
Jesus in my life. 
And so it was really a 

663
00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:20,000
transformational time of that in
the insecurities from within me,

664
00:47:20,900 --> 00:47:24,400
birthed out of me trying to do 
it on myself, trying to reach a 

665
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:26,900
certain Perfection standard, 
trying to achieve all these 

666
00:47:26,900 --> 00:47:28,300
things. 
And then when it wasn't going 

667
00:47:28,300 --> 00:47:31,500
well, Saying while Shawn needs 
to you know feed into me and 

668
00:47:31,500 --> 00:47:34,300
helped me and it was this oh I'm
not good enough, I'm not good 

669
00:47:34,300 --> 00:47:37,600
enough but the start of that 
sense is always I and me and 

670
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:40,400
realizing that that false 
humility and that false way of 

671
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:44,400
looking at life could be a 
actual absolute killer to our 

672
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:46,900
relationship. 
And so God uses those first 

673
00:47:46,900 --> 00:47:52,000
couple of years to really 
transform me to be able to give 

674
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:55,100
100% of myself. 
And not be, you know, relying on

675
00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:57,900
me or Shawn to make our 
relationship work. 

676
00:47:57,900 --> 00:48:03,700
But on for the kids, Yeah, 
anything that's just again, 

677
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:06,400
gold. 
Well, Diane will stick with you.

678
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:10,100
This is a straight to you. 
All right, it says, as a wife 

679
00:48:10,100 --> 00:48:14,900
and leader for Christ, where do 
you believe most ladies struggle

680
00:48:14,900 --> 00:48:18,200
and their relationships? 
/ marriages, what lessons are 

681
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:20,600
Keys. 
Would you shares to make share 

682
00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:23,500
to make marriages healthy? 
Yeah, I think the biggest 

683
00:48:23,500 --> 00:48:25,900
struggle and maybe not just for 
ladies, but what I see when I 

684
00:48:25,908 --> 00:48:28,400
get to talk to women about, you 
know, relationships is 

685
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:31,900
communication. 
I think so much of the struggles

686
00:48:31,900 --> 00:48:34,200
that I have in marriage boil 
down to communication. 

687
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:37,400
And I've identified like two 
main ways that I've seen this 

688
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:40,900
play out in one. 
This is the one I'm guilty of is

689
00:48:40,900 --> 00:48:45,300
under communicating, not talking
shutting down having some, maybe

690
00:48:45,300 --> 00:48:48,300
some unspoken expectations that 
I'm not willing to do or like 

691
00:48:48,300 --> 00:48:49,700
the silent test. 
You know. 

692
00:48:49,700 --> 00:48:51,900
Like, let me see if he really 
paid attention to what I said 

693
00:48:51,900 --> 00:48:55,300
and not. 
You know, any kind or I have met

694
00:48:55,300 --> 00:48:57,800
with some other women in groups,
over the years and had friends 

695
00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:00,100
who it's the opposite where 
there is overbearing 

696
00:49:00,100 --> 00:49:02,500
communication. 
It's over, you know, nagging 

697
00:49:02,500 --> 00:49:05,000
complaining, I'm always 
communicating about all the 

698
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:08,400
things you're not doing and what
I learned in there is a verse, 

699
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:10,600
I'll show you the second that 
just slap me in the face, 

700
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:14,100
really, well one time, but that 
neither way is healthy. 

701
00:49:14,700 --> 00:49:16,000
And the versus this, I wrote 
down. 

702
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:19,300
So I would but it's a fusions 
429, which if you grew up in 

703
00:49:19,300 --> 00:49:22,000
Churchill, so that's the first 
not to cuss, that's not true. 

704
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:24,500
I mean that's in there, but 
that's not the big part. 

705
00:49:24,500 --> 00:49:28,400
So it says, don't use foul or 
abusive language, but let 

706
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:32,800
everything you say be good and 
helpful so that your words will 

707
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:35,500
be an encouragement to those who
hear them. 

708
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:38,500
And I think anybody in a 
marriage relationship, cannot 

709
00:49:38,500 --> 00:49:40,800
have to go back too far to. 
Think about once the time, I 

710
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:45,000
said something that wasn't good 
and helpful you mean today like 

711
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:48,400
this morning. 
Like when and so man filtering, 

712
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:51,200
everything that I say and do 
through that lens of good and 

713
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:54,900
helpful photos for Who is like 
me, who doesn't want to speak up

714
00:49:54,900 --> 00:49:57,400
who won't make my needs? 
Or, you know, things like that 

715
00:49:57,400 --> 00:49:59,400
known. 
Then I have to say the things 

716
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:02,300
that are good and helpful to 
keep our relationship together. 

717
00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:05,600
Maybe if I fall on the other 
side of that line, like I don't 

718
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:09,500
have to say everything that I 
think everything, I think is not

719
00:50:09,500 --> 00:50:12,900
good and helpful to Sean in a 
marriage and so it's like 

720
00:50:12,900 --> 00:50:16,200
finding that balance of like I 
want to my words and my 

721
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:20,200
communications job is to be an 
encouragement to the hearer is 

722
00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:22,100
what that verse says. 
So what can I say that is going 

723
00:50:22,100 --> 00:50:24,600
to Courage him, that sometimes, 
that's saying hard things. 

724
00:50:24,700 --> 00:50:27,700
Hey, the way you said this or 
did this, that didn't feel good 

725
00:50:27,700 --> 00:50:30,000
like, and that's okay. 
And that is healthy and should 

726
00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:32,200
happen. 
But to say it in that way, that 

727
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:34,800
it's helpful in an encouragement
to him, to be able to grow and 

728
00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:36,400
change. 
That's really it. 

729
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:38,700
So their keys on that. 
Is that filter? 

730
00:50:38,700 --> 00:50:40,500
Good and helpful. 
You can tattoo that on your arm 

731
00:50:40,500 --> 00:50:42,200
or whatever you want to do later
after the Gathering. 

732
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:46,000
Not letting the sun go down on 
your anger and another verse I 

733
00:50:46,008 --> 00:50:48,700
thought of and so we hear this 
verse that I didn't write down 

734
00:50:48,700 --> 00:50:50,500
the reference. 
I think it's Proverbs 25:11. 

735
00:50:50,500 --> 00:50:54,200
It says that like a word. 
Fitly placed is like apples of 

736
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:56,000
gold. 
I loved I looked it up in the 

737
00:50:56,000 --> 00:51:00,700
NLT and it said timely advice is
like apples of gold. 

738
00:51:00,700 --> 00:51:03,600
So like the car ride home after 
Sunday morning isn't the time to

739
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:05,600
be like you know you kind of 
messed up that whole part of 

740
00:51:05,607 --> 00:51:08,600
that message. 
That's not it for our marriage. 

741
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:11,900
The car ride home on Sundays. 
Like babe, that was a killer 

742
00:51:11,900 --> 00:51:14,000
message, you nailed it, it was 
awesome. 

743
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:16,400
People were like coming to Jesus
left and right. 

744
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:19,100
Like that's that moment if 
there's something that real girl

745
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:22,100
needs to be addressed, on 
Monday, we can talk about that 

746
00:51:22,100 --> 00:51:23,600
then. 
My job is to be a good and 

747
00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:27,600
helpful encouragement to him. 
So those are my tips bits of 

748
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:31,000
keys to help well, as time is 
wrapping down. 

749
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:33,500
I do want to give you the floor 
with the same question from the 

750
00:51:33,500 --> 00:51:37,200
guy's perspective. 
So in the interest of time, Sean

751
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:39,000
as a husband, and leader for 
cries. 

752
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:40,600
Where do you believe most men 
struggle? 

753
00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:45,000
And what keys do you have? 
Yeah, so I saw a figure. 

754
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:49,100
I mean, the opposite question of
Diane apples of gold in the 

755
00:51:49,100 --> 00:51:52,800
frames of silver. 
So yeah, I think for For men, 

756
00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:56,900
it's out. 
I don't want to say EQ, but 

757
00:51:57,200 --> 00:51:59,100
which stands for yeah, I'm 
getting there too. 

758
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:01,900
Good, bye baby. 
Good jobs, you, I love you the 

759
00:52:01,900 --> 00:52:03,800
best, you the man teachers. 
Tom be helpful. 

760
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:10,000
No, like just expressing your 
emotions and like a helpful way 

761
00:52:10,900 --> 00:52:13,200
and then recognizing we're 
somebody else's at emotionally 

762
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:14,300
or just recognizing where 
they're at. 

763
00:52:14,300 --> 00:52:16,500
At all. 
One of the great things you do 

764
00:52:16,500 --> 00:52:18,700
as a leader As You observe, 
right? 

765
00:52:18,700 --> 00:52:22,200
And for a husband for a spouse, 
you know, her for a parent you 

766
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:24,900
Of your kids, right? 
You watch any good coaches 

767
00:52:24,900 --> 00:52:27,900
watching their team? 
And part of it is just how to 

768
00:52:27,900 --> 00:52:29,800
express. 
What's on your heart, or what? 

769
00:52:29,800 --> 00:52:33,900
God's saying to you, or like 
your own failure in a helpful 

770
00:52:33,900 --> 00:52:36,200
way. 
Most guys are like that can of 

771
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:38,200
soda and they just hold 
everything in and then just 

772
00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:42,000
like, boom the explodes. 
And it's very difficult for guys

773
00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:44,800
to express themselves. 
And so, I think for me, I think 

774
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:48,300
the first thing is to have 
something inside of you that is 

775
00:52:48,308 --> 00:52:51,900
given by God, that's beyond what
your ability is right now. 

776
00:52:52,300 --> 00:52:55,000
I guess we Supernatural. 
And I don't want to say it's 

777
00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:56,800
like the wound of the father, 
right? 

778
00:52:57,400 --> 00:53:00,600
It's just something you were 
never shown or you didn't see or

779
00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:02,800
didn't happen to you. 
Their seeds are planted, That 

780
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:05,100
Grew bad things. 
The receives that we're never 

781
00:53:05,100 --> 00:53:07,800
planted that aren't there and we
can sit there and be upset or 

782
00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:10,400
blame or make excuses or we can 
say, okay? 

783
00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:14,200
And replace my understanding of 
how I do Life by my heavenly 

784
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:17,400
father and not just by my 
Earthly father and that that 

785
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:19,800
shoots that's foundational like 
you're going to give something 

786
00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:22,200
to somebody. 
You have to have it first and 

787
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:24,800
You're not hard work as a man on
the inside. 

788
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:26,300
Say. 
I'm loved it. 

789
00:53:26,300 --> 00:53:29,400
So I can love. 
That's big most guys. 

790
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:31,700
They will never say, they'll 
feel they feel abandoned. 

791
00:53:31,700 --> 00:53:34,400
They feel her. 
Feel let down to do, major up. 

792
00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:36,200
I'm not good enough. 
They're fighting to prove 

793
00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:37,900
themselves and all you do is 
look up. 

794
00:53:37,900 --> 00:53:40,200
So heavenly father and say, 
okay, yes, Jesus, yes, God, 

795
00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:43,300
you've done it all for me and 
now I am free. 

796
00:53:43,700 --> 00:53:47,000
I am, I'm confident. 
I'm bold. 

797
00:53:47,100 --> 00:53:49,900
I'm or God calls it. 
Be, I can give that away to my 

798
00:53:49,900 --> 00:53:51,900
spouse but if you don't have 
that, you can't give it and it 

799
00:53:51,900 --> 00:53:54,200
will become Um, destructive. 
So I see that quite often, 

800
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:55,700
right? 
I can forgive because Christ 

801
00:53:55,700 --> 00:53:59,100
forgave me, I still Choose, You 
may make mistakes because Christ

802
00:53:59,100 --> 00:54:01,100
chose me and that is 
foundational. 

803
00:54:01,100 --> 00:54:03,200
And that just kind of like 
coming to end of yourself is 

804
00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:06,300
like the beginning of coming to 
God, right? 

805
00:54:06,500 --> 00:54:09,500
In your relationship is going to
show all those cracks and you 

806
00:54:09,500 --> 00:54:10,600
may have thought you had 
together. 

807
00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:13,200
You may not recognize that was a
problem, right? 

808
00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:16,600
That, that wound is been there 
and so that's one of it and I 

809
00:54:16,607 --> 00:54:18,700
think another thing that guys 
will start with husband's is 

810
00:54:18,700 --> 00:54:20,200
being a spiritual leader in the 
home. 

811
00:54:20,900 --> 00:54:24,500
See a lot of mom. 
And women really just bringing 

812
00:54:24,500 --> 00:54:27,500
their families to church, you 
know, lead the way spiritually, 

813
00:54:27,500 --> 00:54:29,300
and I'm like God bless the women
right? 

814
00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:32,700
Come on, right? 
But as men like we're called to 

815
00:54:32,700 --> 00:54:35,300
be that for our family were 
called to be the spiritual 

816
00:54:35,300 --> 00:54:37,500
leader so we got to get up. 
And hey, come on guys. 

817
00:54:37,500 --> 00:54:40,800
Let's follow Christ and be a 
model of prayer, right? 

818
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:44,800
Don't expect anybody else to be 
any better or healthier than you

819
00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:46,000
are. 
As a man. 

820
00:54:46,500 --> 00:54:49,400
And so you just say hey I'm on a
field full prayer before prayer 

821
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:52,000
I want to be family word of God.
I'm in the word of God. 

822
00:54:52,300 --> 00:54:56,200
I want family to forgive, I 
forgive my family do this, I do 

823
00:54:56,200 --> 00:54:57,900
that. 
And so you change your culture 

824
00:54:58,100 --> 00:55:00,400
and you change your family's 
culture and it's really fun to 

825
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:04,200
watch as God gets ahold of men 
and in changes their hearts how 

826
00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:06,700
the whole family starts to 
change because what guys doing 

827
00:55:06,700 --> 00:55:09,800
them. 
So, do you think you guys for 

828
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:12,900
your wisdom on those really cool
to hear both your perspectives? 

829
00:55:12,900 --> 00:55:15,800
Well, this is the last question 
and this is again back to the 

830
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:17,300
all skate. 
This is for both of you, the 

831
00:55:17,300 --> 00:55:20,600
very last one, you guys are 
about 15 years into marriage, 

832
00:55:20,600 --> 00:55:23,900
right? 
So, I love all this is worded. 

833
00:55:23,900 --> 00:55:27,300
It says, if you are to make it 
another 50s, ha ha. 

834
00:55:27,300 --> 00:55:30,700
Let's change that to when people
when you make it another, 15 

835
00:55:30,700 --> 00:55:33,900
years Ambien, how do you plan to
keep your relationship fresh? 

836
00:55:33,900 --> 00:55:34,900
I mean, where do you go from 
here? 

837
00:55:34,900 --> 00:55:37,200
We've kind of talked about how 
you've done it in the past but 

838
00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:39,000
like, where does this next 
chapter go? 

839
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:42,700
How do you keep a candle burning
and not just coexist float or 

840
00:55:42,700 --> 00:55:47,000
grow apart? 
I can say, the first thing would

841
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:51,100
be to keep it real. 
So, real intimacy, real 

842
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:53,800
relationships come. 
I'm out of vulnerability and so 

843
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:56,700
being able to you know, bear 
myself and my dreams and my 

844
00:55:56,700 --> 00:56:01,000
desires and all those things to 
Sean is going to help us to move

845
00:56:01,100 --> 00:56:04,100
forward as we continue to grow 
in each other. 

846
00:56:04,100 --> 00:56:07,000
The second one is to keep 
laughing. 

847
00:56:07,900 --> 00:56:10,400
I think are there was something 
besides God our relationship to 

848
00:56:10,400 --> 00:56:12,600
be founded on. 
I'd probably be humor and there 

849
00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:15,600
is a just a lot of moments where
you get to have, like a full-on 

850
00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:18,400
belly laugh, and that is 
something that really what it 

851
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:21,700
teaches you is not to take 
yourself, too, seriously to have

852
00:56:21,700 --> 00:56:24,100
a short memory Three of your 
failures to be able to laugh 

853
00:56:24,100 --> 00:56:26,100
when things don't go the way you
thought they were going to. 

854
00:56:26,100 --> 00:56:28,500
And just say, you know what, 
well, that tomorrow is another 

855
00:56:28,500 --> 00:56:30,300
day. 
We get to move forward from 

856
00:56:30,300 --> 00:56:32,800
that. 
Yeah, thing that just didn't go 

857
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:35,700
the way it was, but that being, 
you know, quick to be a solution

858
00:56:35,700 --> 00:56:38,400
quick to offer help laughing 
through that time and then keep 

859
00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:40,600
dreaming, I think it's something
that's really big. 

860
00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:42,900
If you're talking about the 
freshness of your relationship, 

861
00:56:42,900 --> 00:56:46,200
like I think in God's word, it 
always says that God is. 

862
00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:48,900
He's doing a new thing, he's 
making a new song. 

863
00:56:48,900 --> 00:56:51,300
He's and I think inside of our 
relationships, we get to model 

864
00:56:51,300 --> 00:56:53,800
God in that way. 
Way and God will give us new 

865
00:56:53,800 --> 00:56:56,200
things or that you know that we 
hadn't thought of or maybe he's 

866
00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:58,700
speaking something to him that 
we can champion and celebrate 

867
00:56:58,700 --> 00:57:00,700
together. 
And so when you let each other 

868
00:57:00,700 --> 00:57:04,100
enter into your dreams in that 
way, and those god-given dreams 

869
00:57:04,100 --> 00:57:06,600
and things, he's called you to 
like something really cool 

870
00:57:06,600 --> 00:57:10,800
happens that he God is in it. 
Don't get a dream separately 

871
00:57:10,800 --> 00:57:12,400
from Sean. 
Now, we're together, we're one 

872
00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:14,800
flesh. 
And so, letting opening that up 

873
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:17,200
to him and letting him being 
able to open that up to me, is 

874
00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:20,800
just so key to keeping him 
fresh, keeping you keep 

875
00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:25,300
laughing, keep laughing. 
Yeah, Dad, I love to travel. 

876
00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:29,000
I'm not much of a traveler but 
she drags you along, you know, a

877
00:57:29,008 --> 00:57:31,100
couple months ago. 
She's like, hey, when we get to 

878
00:57:31,100 --> 00:57:34,500
Kenya I'm like, what when we 
going to Kenny? 

879
00:57:34,500 --> 00:57:37,900
Again, you know, just it's on 
our hearts on my heart. 

880
00:57:37,900 --> 00:57:40,400
You know? 
I think I like to question their

881
00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:44,500
like if at some level because 
you're not really guaranteed 15 

882
00:57:44,500 --> 00:57:47,900
years, you know? 
And by God's grace, like I see a

883
00:57:47,908 --> 00:57:51,000
lot of guys just get become 
about themselves, they just make

884
00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:54,700
it about them. 
So selfish, just think I'm over 

885
00:57:54,700 --> 00:57:57,000
it and they walk away and 
somebody's not willing to do 

886
00:57:57,000 --> 00:57:58,200
this. 
And I see a lot of ministry 

887
00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:00,500
couples. 
I think we saw a stat there. 

888
00:58:00,500 --> 00:58:04,200
They said there's like 40 
percent of marriages like her 

889
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:08,400
fault part in the ministry. 
I mean, just, there's just so 

890
00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:11,200
many traps, you know, there's so
many quicksands for everybody. 

891
00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:14,800
And so, I like the Riff and then
it had a, I always try to keep 

892
00:58:14,800 --> 00:58:18,000
in perspective that my time is a
gift, right? 

893
00:58:18,100 --> 00:58:22,000
And so, like, I might not be 
here tomorrow, you know, I mean,

894
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:25,200
so, Even if it ends like okay 
death, do us part right it. 

895
00:58:25,200 --> 00:58:28,300
So, I'm looking, like, kids, you
Undead, give it all today, you 

896
00:58:28,300 --> 00:58:31,200
know, guess if I'm not there 
because I'm not guaranteed of 

897
00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:33,600
anything. 
It's so I just kind of try to 

898
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:36,300
keep that like number your days 
perspective especially in your 

899
00:58:36,308 --> 00:58:40,200
marriage like not going to bed 
upset right now the sun go down 

900
00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:43,700
on your wrath and not to if you 
don't say something then you 

901
00:58:43,700 --> 00:58:46,400
chose to forgive it. 
The my opinion, if you're going 

902
00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:49,100
to go to bed on, be better than 
you have to create, you have to 

903
00:58:49,100 --> 00:58:51,000
forgive and move on. 
That's, that's a choice, you 

904
00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:52,600
make. 
And so just like, Starting to 

905
00:58:52,607 --> 00:58:54,600
clean slate every day. 
I think really helps. 

906
00:58:55,100 --> 00:58:56,500
You know what's it matter to 
you? 

907
00:58:56,500 --> 00:58:58,900
Is it worth it? 
I also think about, like, are 

908
00:58:58,900 --> 00:59:01,000
you going to lose all this, you 
know? 

909
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:03,800
So like if I'm gonna do 
something dumb or start pursuing

910
00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:06,900
a direction, or look at 
something, or just not care. 

911
00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:10,000
Did you, did you weigh that out 
in your mind before you started 

912
00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:11,900
that? 
So I just start, moving away 

913
00:59:11,900 --> 00:59:14,500
from things that are destructive
to my life. 

914
00:59:14,700 --> 00:59:18,100
So I'm not going to find habits 
or hobbies that take me away 

915
00:59:18,100 --> 00:59:21,000
from her all the time. 
So I don't have a guys night 

916
00:59:21,000 --> 00:59:23,000
like, I love you all, you know. 
Just just on me. 

917
00:59:23,500 --> 00:59:26,000
So I might I'm super valuables 
on this bill and family night, 

918
00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:28,200
you know. 
So we do family move and I and 

919
00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:31,100
we do all the stuff and I just 
can't spoil the kids to you know

920
00:59:31,100 --> 00:59:34,700
and but also think the day like 
if you're going to make it the 

921
00:59:34,700 --> 00:59:37,600
15 years and we're God's going 
to call you to go the question 

922
00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:40,100
it wasn't for me. 
Like how do you keep it fresh? 

923
00:59:40,400 --> 00:59:42,600
I think the question would be, 
how do you keep it fruitful? 

924
00:59:43,500 --> 00:59:47,700
You know like fresh kind of goes
away, you know, you get enough, 

925
00:59:47,700 --> 00:59:50,800
you know, laps around the track 
you know you don't have all the 

926
00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,700
feelings all the time. 
You know, all these things but 

927
00:59:53,700 --> 00:59:56,000
it isn't fruitful, right? 
And we like fruitful come. 

928
00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:57,900
All. 
Somebody be fruitful and 

929
00:59:57,900 --> 01:00:00,700
multiply right. 
You won't have both. 

930
01:00:00,700 --> 01:00:02,100
Right? 
Depends. 

931
01:00:03,100 --> 01:00:06,400
But I think fruitful for like, 
is a proof for kids. 

932
01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:09,700
It, are we together producing 
the things of God? 

933
01:00:10,200 --> 01:00:11,800
I'll are we together? 
Make an impact? 

934
01:00:11,800 --> 01:00:14,000
Our community. 
We make an impact in our family 

935
01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:16,700
are we are we together on 
Mission and we're producing 

936
01:00:16,700 --> 01:00:20,300
things that grow its a four 
dozen you plant it and grows on 

937
01:00:20,300 --> 01:00:23,200
its own. 
So are we like Sending vessel. 

938
01:00:23,500 --> 01:00:26,800
So the day like I'm less 
concerned about like a fad or a 

939
01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:29,600
feeling, as you know, those are 
going to come and go and he 

940
01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:32,000
loved all the feelings, right? 
And you do things for that. 

941
01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:35,000
And I talked about some stuff 
you can spice it up, right? 

942
01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:38,500
But the daily, something that 
sustains its fruit and they were

943
01:00:38,500 --> 01:00:40,800
major buyer fruit. 
You know, we're measuring stuff 

944
01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:44,100
that survives the fire being 
burned and what the works of God

945
01:00:44,100 --> 01:00:46,200
were so the day. 
Like that's that's we're 

946
01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:48,500
fighting for, you know, to be 
fruit berries for the cause of 

947
01:00:48,500 --> 01:00:50,400
Christ. 
And so I think just sitting on 

948
01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:54,100
that is way. 
Has way more longevity. 

949
01:00:54,500 --> 01:00:57,100
They were God wants us to be 
than just chasing the feeling. 

950
01:00:57,100 --> 01:01:00,900
So. 
Well, as we wrap up here, I just

951
01:01:00,900 --> 01:01:03,600
want to say to Sean and Diane 
and I think you guys would Echo 

952
01:01:03,600 --> 01:01:05,300
be in this. 
Just thank you guys for your 

953
01:01:05,300 --> 01:01:08,400
leadership and just leading this
church. 

954
01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:11,700
Well, I know we appreciate you 
guys being an open book. 

955
01:01:11,700 --> 01:01:14,100
I can't imagine, you know like 
just kind of, you know, the 

956
01:01:14,100 --> 01:01:15,900
butterflies but I just get to 
ask the questions. 

957
01:01:15,900 --> 01:01:18,100
I just gives you the messenger, 
you know, but you guys are so 

958
01:01:18,100 --> 01:01:19,700
glad you didn't pick any crazy 
questions. 

959
01:01:19,700 --> 01:01:21,600
Drew. 
I do not like they're also 

960
01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:25,200
people It's either swipe a 
couple of them were either fight

961
01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:27,700
against myself to do that Shawn,
but I do keep it, you know, a 

962
01:01:27,700 --> 01:01:29,200
little mature. 
Thanks for down yourself, 

963
01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:33,400
through this one time. 
No, but no seriously you guys, 

964
01:01:33,400 --> 01:01:37,300
you guys leave this church. 
Well, and I just love knowing 

965
01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:41,500
that when or if things get hard 
like, you know, my own 

966
01:01:41,500 --> 01:01:44,400
relationship. 
I've got you guys on speed dial.

967
01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:49,700
You guys model that you guys 
model for us how to communicate 

968
01:01:49,700 --> 01:01:52,000
with our spouses you guys model 
for us. 

969
01:01:52,100 --> 01:01:57,300
Just seeking him first, and 
knowing that that's the anchor 

970
01:01:57,700 --> 01:02:01,000
that in the foundation that any 
relationship will be built upon.

971
01:02:01,000 --> 01:02:03,600
So I know, I appreciate it. 
I know I'm echoing. 

972
01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:05,500
What? 
They're thinking right now as 

973
01:02:05,500 --> 01:02:07,200
well. 
And just again, just we 

974
01:02:07,207 --> 01:02:09,100
appreciate everything. 
You guys have done this morning.

975
01:02:09,100 --> 01:02:12,000
So can we give it up for Sean 
and Diane for Jake and Jesus 

976
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:13,700
being real with us man. 
Thank you guys. 

977
01:02:15,900 --> 01:02:18,500
I tell you, man. 
One of the Highlights today, 

978
01:02:19,100 --> 01:02:21,800
Sean talked about early, you 
know, during the dedication, you

979
01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:24,000
know, just really at the heart 
of every answer. 

980
01:02:24,000 --> 01:02:28,100
Whether it was said or not, is 
all of this works because the 

981
01:02:28,100 --> 01:02:32,100
Lord was in it, right? 
And just this idea that as for 

982
01:02:32,100 --> 01:02:36,700
me and my house, we will serve 
the Lord and we got to see these

983
01:02:36,700 --> 01:02:38,900
families. 
Make that decision today with 

984
01:02:38,900 --> 01:02:41,800
their kids up here, just 
declaring putting that I love 

985
01:02:41,800 --> 01:02:43,100
this imagery. 
So I'm going to I've been saying

986
01:02:43,100 --> 01:02:45,500
it all morning, I keep saying it
putting that stake in the 

987
01:02:45,500 --> 01:02:46,100
ground. 
Right. 

988
01:02:46,100 --> 01:02:49,300
Even without putting at stake in
the ground for your family. 

989
01:02:49,500 --> 01:02:52,200
And just saying, you know, we 
might have been doing other 

990
01:02:52,200 --> 01:02:56,900
things before today, but as of 
this moment, lead my house. 

991
01:02:57,300 --> 01:03:01,100
We're going to serve the Lord, 
my marriage, our marriage. 

992
01:03:01,300 --> 01:03:02,800
We're going to serve the Lord 
together. 

993
01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:07,600
We're going to be on Mission 
together and I just, man, I know

994
01:03:07,600 --> 01:03:12,000
there's so many stories in this 
room and there's so many seasons

995
01:03:12,500 --> 01:03:15,300
that people are going through. 
And we've spent a lot of time. 

996
01:03:15,700 --> 01:03:17,300
On marriages and all that good 
stuff. 

997
01:03:17,300 --> 01:03:20,400
But me and I'm telling you, 
there's something for you, 

998
01:03:21,400 --> 01:03:25,900
whatever season you're in, you 
might be young and never married

999
01:03:25,900 --> 01:03:29,900
and that's way off in the future
to smartest thing, you'll do, 

1000
01:03:29,900 --> 01:03:32,400
you'll never regret taking 
notes. 

1001
01:03:32,400 --> 01:03:36,100
Now, you'll never regret coming 
up with a game plan. 

1002
01:03:36,500 --> 01:03:41,800
Now you'll never regret looking 
back that you decided to get 

1003
01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:45,600
your relationship rock-solid 
with the god that loves you. 

1004
01:03:45,700 --> 01:03:50,300
Heaven and be confident in 
yourself before you're ready to 

1005
01:03:50,300 --> 01:03:54,400
pour out into someone else. 
You'll never regret that and I 

1006
01:03:54,400 --> 01:03:57,000
hope you hear that today. 
And there's there's other people

1007
01:03:57,000 --> 01:04:03,000
to there's people that they're 
walking through a season of 

1008
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:05,500
singleness and he didn't want to
do you know what I mean? 

1009
01:04:05,500 --> 01:04:10,400
I'm sorry, Emma. 
I'm saying I don't mean to 

1010
01:04:11,100 --> 01:04:14,600
Bubble up here, but they're 
walking through a season that 

1011
01:04:14,600 --> 01:04:18,000
they never thought they'd be in,
it's not fair, right? 

1012
01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:21,800
It just, it feels that way. 
And God, I hope that you're 

1013
01:04:21,800 --> 01:04:26,700
just, you're taking notes and 
you're just, you know, taking a 

1014
01:04:26,707 --> 01:04:30,700
season to heal and just getting 
ready for what God has next kind

1015
01:04:30,700 --> 01:04:32,700
of say to you. 
God's not done with that story, 

1016
01:04:32,700 --> 01:04:35,800
yet, it's not done. 
God's got something for you. 

1017
01:04:35,800 --> 01:04:40,800
You're not broken, you're not. 
What's in the past is in the 

1018
01:04:40,800 --> 01:04:43,300
past. 
Me and God has got something for

1019
01:04:43,300 --> 01:04:46,200
you today. 
And I just want you to know that

1020
01:04:46,200 --> 01:04:49,500
just like we lifted up these 
families. 

1021
01:04:50,100 --> 01:04:53,300
We lift you up today. 
We're behind, you were for you. 

1022
01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:56,900
God's got something for you. 
I don't, I can't tell you how 

1023
01:04:56,900 --> 01:05:01,300
long, the season last sir or 
anything like that, but you 

1024
01:05:01,300 --> 01:05:06,400
don't have to be a perfect 
picture as Godly marriage to be 

1025
01:05:06,400 --> 01:05:08,900
loved by God. 
I hope you leave here. 

1026
01:05:08,900 --> 01:05:13,900
Knowing Man, I just I want to 
just take a moment and I want 

1027
01:05:14,000 --> 01:05:17,900
every I and every eye to close 
every head bowed and we're just 

1028
01:05:17,900 --> 01:05:22,000
going to go before God today and
just I just want to lift you 

1029
01:05:22,008 --> 01:05:24,600
guys up everyone in this room. 
I just want to say, father God, 

1030
01:05:25,700 --> 01:05:29,000
thank you for this morning and 
thank you for again just for 

1031
01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:32,800
Shawna Diane just opening up and
God just how much you've bless 

1032
01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:37,400
their marriage and that you've 
just empowered them to be an 

1033
01:05:37,400 --> 01:05:41,300
open book. 
You you've put relationships, 

1034
01:05:41,300 --> 01:05:45,000
you've put people's hearts, you 
put people's Souls on their 

1035
01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:46,500
hearts and he brought them 
together. 

1036
01:05:46,500 --> 01:05:51,100
God and it and all those years 
ago that that decision to launch

1037
01:05:51,100 --> 01:05:56,100
a new church to take that step 
of faith has led to this moment.

1038
01:05:56,900 --> 01:06:01,700
We're so many Souls, mine 
included, Holly's included, we 

1039
01:06:02,000 --> 01:06:06,700
just you led us here. 
And God hear you're a fighting 

1040
01:06:06,700 --> 01:06:09,200
Us in the fire. 
You're growing Us in this 

1041
01:06:09,200 --> 01:06:13,300
season, God and just just can't 
wait to see what happens next. 

1042
01:06:13,300 --> 01:06:18,100
Is we just continue to reach his
community, but we also know 

1043
01:06:18,100 --> 01:06:22,200
that, as we're reaching out, we 
have to reach and God, just 

1044
01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:25,300
thank you for the challenge 
today for the wisdom and just 

1045
01:06:25,400 --> 01:06:27,700
help us not to just say. 
Oh man, that was cute. 

1046
01:06:27,700 --> 01:06:30,800
That was cool to hear their 
story and all that stuff, help 

1047
01:06:30,800 --> 01:06:35,500
us to find. 
The nuggets of wisdom in there 

1048
01:06:36,100 --> 01:06:37,900
and help us to do something 
about it. 

1049
01:06:37,900 --> 01:06:42,400
God, that's the hardest step. 
It's so easy to nod and just be 

1050
01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:44,600
like, yeah, man, that's a good 
word, Sean yeah, man died. 

1051
01:06:44,600 --> 01:06:49,700
And that was, that was so so 
smart, and it's so hard to do 

1052
01:06:49,700 --> 01:06:51,000
it. 
Got so I pray, you'll give us 

1053
01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:54,600
the courage today that you'll 
give us the boldness to do that.

1054
01:06:54,600 --> 01:06:57,700
God, there's there's 
relationships in this room, 

1055
01:06:59,000 --> 01:07:04,400
there's relationships online. 
That are rocky that things 

1056
01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:06,900
haven't communication. 
Has it been strong? 

1057
01:07:08,100 --> 01:07:11,300
We talked about that 
stubbornness that eats us up as 

1058
01:07:11,300 --> 01:07:14,300
guys we don't show our emotions,
we don't communicate. 

1059
01:07:15,800 --> 01:07:19,900
And we've been, there's people 
have been paddling God, I pray, 

1060
01:07:19,900 --> 01:07:24,100
you will soften Hearts today. 
I pray that you will just be 

1061
01:07:24,100 --> 01:07:27,200
able to let us look at our 
spouse. 

1062
01:07:27,800 --> 01:07:32,000
Look at our partner and open up 
in a way that we haven't before 

1063
01:07:33,300 --> 01:07:35,200
or that we have it in a really 
long time. 

1064
01:07:37,100 --> 01:07:42,500
God, I lift up anyone in this 
room for any reason that's 

1065
01:07:42,500 --> 01:07:44,600
walking through a season of 
singleness. 

1066
01:07:45,500 --> 01:07:50,200
Because of their youth because 
of reasons beyond their control,

1067
01:07:52,300 --> 01:07:56,900
God poor it to them. 
Let them feel your presence this

1068
01:07:56,900 --> 01:08:01,200
morning in this week not alone 
there loved by you strengthen 

1069
01:08:01,200 --> 01:08:06,000
them. 
Refine them in this season we 

1070
01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:09,600
just pray whatever their next 
step in the journey is God, but 

1071
01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:15,900
they'll be so in tune with you. 
it doesn't matter because 

1072
01:08:15,900 --> 01:08:19,000
they're who they are their 
fullness, their Oneness is found

1073
01:08:23,600 --> 01:08:28,000
God, we just, we pray for broken
hearts this morning and we pray 

1074
01:08:28,000 --> 01:08:31,800
for broken families and we just 
we pray for miracles. 

1075
01:08:32,500 --> 01:08:35,899
We pray for change. 
Really at the end of it. 

1076
01:08:35,899 --> 01:08:37,500
God, we pray that your will be 
done. 

1077
01:08:38,600 --> 01:08:43,000
And we pray that we'll have the 
strength to just remember that 

1078
01:08:43,000 --> 01:08:46,000
everything that's happened. 
It's because you got you were 

1079
01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:50,300
in. 
So if you're here, keeping your 

1080
01:08:50,300 --> 01:08:54,100
eyes closed, your head bowed. 
If if you're ready to put that 

1081
01:08:54,100 --> 01:08:57,600
stake in the ground today and 
say I'm ready to have that 

1082
01:08:57,600 --> 01:09:00,600
conversation, I'm ready to open 
up the lines of communication 

1083
01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:03,000
things have been tough but I'm 
ready to get back on the right 

1084
01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:05,100
track. 
I'm ready to get myself right 

1085
01:09:05,100 --> 01:09:06,800
with God as I prepare. 
My heart for this. 

1086
01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:10,100
Next relationship is next. 
It is, I strengthen my marriage 

1087
01:09:10,200 --> 01:09:14,300
as I commit to, to walking and 
leading with my walking with and

1088
01:09:14,300 --> 01:09:17,500
leading my family in the season.
God, I just pray that everyone 

1089
01:09:17,500 --> 01:09:19,399
in this room, who wants to do 
that, but you'll just raise your

1090
01:09:19,399 --> 01:09:21,800
hand and just boldly declare, 
we're not looking at you. 

1091
01:09:22,500 --> 01:09:26,899
No one's going to see but God, 
We're proud of you. 

1092
01:09:26,899 --> 01:09:29,200
God, I just pray over these 
families who are these people 

1093
01:09:29,700 --> 01:09:30,899
and that you will just be with 
that. 

1094
01:09:30,899 --> 01:09:34,500
And the next thing I want to get
to you though is maybe before 

1095
01:09:34,500 --> 01:09:37,300
you do any of this stuff, we've 
been talking about. 

1096
01:09:38,899 --> 01:09:41,399
Maybe you don't have that 
relationship with Jesus yet. 

1097
01:09:42,700 --> 01:09:46,300
Maybe you've heard the story, 
you have some kind of concept of

1098
01:09:47,000 --> 01:09:50,700
who he is and and what he's 
done, but you're not there yet. 

1099
01:09:50,700 --> 01:09:54,800
Kind of say that like the words 
of that song he is for you 

1100
01:09:55,100 --> 01:09:57,100
today. 
He loves you and he wants a 

1101
01:09:57,100 --> 01:10:00,900
relationship with you. 
He sent his son, Jesus to die on

1102
01:10:00,900 --> 01:10:04,300
the cross and to rise again, he 
conquered death. 

1103
01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:09,000
So we don't have to so we can be
with him forever and and if it's

1104
01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:12,100
time for you, before any of this
other stuff, just to put that 

1105
01:10:12,100 --> 01:10:14,100
stake. 
The ground and say, you know, 

1106
01:10:14,100 --> 01:10:17,700
I'm not leaving this room the 
way that I came in. 

1107
01:10:17,700 --> 01:10:22,600
I'm not leaving this room apart 
from you, any longer God, if 

1108
01:10:22,600 --> 01:10:26,500
you're ready to do that, I just 
want you to raise your hand and 

1109
01:10:26,500 --> 01:10:29,400
just let him know that you're 
ready to do that today. 

1110
01:10:30,500 --> 01:10:32,800
Get every eyes closed. 
Every heads bowed. 

1111
01:10:35,900 --> 01:10:38,500
I want you to pray a prayer with
me, if that's you now online or 

1112
01:10:38,500 --> 01:10:40,900
here the room, and it's not the 
prayer that saves you. 

1113
01:10:40,900 --> 01:10:44,300
It's just, it's just that next 
Step 4, but I want you to pray 

1114
01:10:44,300 --> 01:10:46,000
with me and just say, dear 
Jesus. 

1115
01:10:47,800 --> 01:10:51,100
I'm sorry. 
Sorry, it took me so long to get

1116
01:10:51,100 --> 01:10:55,000
here. 
Sorry for my sin, forgive me of 

1117
01:10:55,000 --> 01:10:59,800
my sin, I Repent of everything 
that I've done. 

1118
01:10:59,800 --> 01:11:02,100
That's led up to now. 
God and I leave that in the past

1119
01:11:02,100 --> 01:11:07,300
and I knowingly walk towards you
and into your Open Arms. 

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01:11:07,300 --> 01:11:08,800
I know you love me. 
God. 

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01:11:09,200 --> 01:11:13,500
I know you sent your son Jesus. 
I know he died for me. 

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01:11:13,500 --> 01:11:17,400
He rose again. 
And I know that I live with him.

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01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:22,200
I give my life to you. 
I'm married. 

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01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:25,000
I get my marriage to you if I 
have kids, I give my kids to 

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01:11:25,000 --> 01:11:28,000
you, my family just old me's 
done. 

1126
01:11:29,000 --> 01:11:33,100
It hasn't gotten me very far. 
I'm ready to put it all in with 

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01:11:33,100 --> 01:11:36,200
you, God and I'm ready to leave 
here changed. 

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01:11:38,700 --> 01:11:41,400
I love you, God and I just thank
you for your forgiveness in 

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01:11:41,400 --> 01:11:46,600
Jesus name. 
Alright guys, well, let's give 

1130
01:11:46,600 --> 01:11:49,200
it a big for anybody who made 
that decision today. 

1131
01:11:49,300 --> 01:11:52,700
Let's welcome him into the fold.
Awesome. 

1132
01:11:54,300 --> 01:11:57,500
Minute, the statue today in 
today's the day, you chose God 

1133
01:11:57,500 --> 01:11:59,900
first because he's pursuing, you
can we delay? 

1134
01:11:59,900 --> 01:12:02,200
You know that we're all in for 
you is the reason we show up 

1135
01:12:02,200 --> 01:12:04,300
here every week because we're 
looking for people that are 

1136
01:12:04,300 --> 01:12:06,500
making decisions because we know
God's pursuing people. 

1137
01:12:06,500 --> 01:12:08,500
So, if that's you today, I've 
got a couple great next steps. 

1138
01:12:08,900 --> 01:12:11,200
First one is let us know about 
your decision by texting RL. 

1139
01:12:11,200 --> 01:12:14,300
Next 29. 7000, what we'll do is 
we'll have one of our team 

1140
01:12:14,300 --> 01:12:15,900
members reach out to you over 
the phone. 

1141
01:12:16,100 --> 01:12:17,400
Hold jobs. 
You connected here. 

1142
01:12:17,400 --> 01:12:20,100
Help you in any way that we can 
just get your resource we care 

1143
01:12:20,100 --> 01:12:21,500
about you. 
God cares about you. 

1144
01:12:21,700 --> 01:12:23,600
Number two, is if you're with us
in person, on your way, out of 

1145
01:12:23,608 --> 01:12:25,800
the worst, The center, there's a
red bag, grab one of those 

1146
01:12:25,800 --> 01:12:27,600
inside. 
There's a Bible, what a great 

1147
01:12:27,600 --> 01:12:28,900
way. 
What a great Next Step. 

1148
01:12:28,900 --> 01:12:30,500
Just to get started off on the 
right foot. 

1149
01:12:30,500 --> 01:12:33,100
We want you to have that, 
there's other great resource 

1150
01:12:33,300 --> 01:12:35,500
resources in there, so grab 
those on your way out. 

1151
01:12:35,500 --> 01:12:37,000
Yeah, we were so excited for 
you. 

1152
01:12:37,400 --> 01:12:40,700
I love how Pastor is Sean and 
Diane talked about choosing 

1153
01:12:40,700 --> 01:12:43,500
today to serve the Lord, putting
God first. 

1154
01:12:43,800 --> 01:12:46,200
Well, that's in your marriage, 
your kids, your relationships 

1155
01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:48,300
marriages, just anything and 
everything. 

1156
01:12:48,300 --> 01:12:50,600
So for you guys, I've got a 
couple great next steps for you 

1157
01:12:50,600 --> 01:12:52,000
as well. 
Maybe guys, put something on 

1158
01:12:52,000 --> 01:12:53,900
your heart today. 
Maybe you've been looking for 

1159
01:12:54,000 --> 01:12:57,000
And maybe realize the one and 
you want to know a little more 

1160
01:12:57,000 --> 01:12:58,900
about it. 
So I want you to know there's a 

1161
01:12:58,907 --> 01:13:00,600
special opportunity this 
afternoon. 

1162
01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:02,500
We got a special course called 
crash course. 

1163
01:13:02,900 --> 01:13:05,300
We'd love to have you come out, 
you can get signed up two days 

1164
01:13:05,300 --> 01:13:07,400
from two to four Thirty right 
here at our Hope Center bill 

1165
01:13:08,000 --> 01:13:11,400
will help you lead through the 
path of knowing god finding 

1166
01:13:11,400 --> 01:13:13,700
Freedom discovering purpose and 
knowing that you can make a 

1167
01:13:13,700 --> 01:13:16,100
difference. 
What that looks like here maybe 

1168
01:13:16,100 --> 01:13:18,800
a real life so come check us 
out, we'd love to have you sign 

1169
01:13:18,800 --> 01:13:20,300
up, you won't be alone. 
It would be a great time. 

1170
01:13:20,300 --> 01:13:23,000
Come hang out with this. 
Number two is this, if you've 

1171
01:13:23,000 --> 01:13:24,800
committed your life, Life to 
Christ. 

1172
01:13:24,800 --> 01:13:27,100
Since the last time we did 
baptism, we were going to have a

1173
01:13:27,100 --> 01:13:29,000
very special Easter Sunday on 
April. 

1174
01:13:29,000 --> 01:13:31,000
The 9th. 
We would love for you to be a 

1175
01:13:31,000 --> 01:13:33,200
part of it. 
Baptism is the next step. 

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01:13:33,400 --> 01:13:36,600
If you give me your your life to
Christ, it is simply just 

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01:13:36,600 --> 01:13:39,500
telling the world to that weird 
Edison were alive to God and we 

1178
01:13:39,500 --> 01:13:42,400
want everybody to know it. 
In fact, it's really, it's one 

1179
01:13:42,400 --> 01:13:45,700
of the last Commandments that 
Jesus gave us to go out and into

1180
01:13:45,700 --> 01:13:48,900
the world and preach and teach 
and to baptize people in the 

1181
01:13:48,907 --> 01:13:50,800
name of the father Son and the 
Holy Spirit. 

1182
01:13:50,800 --> 01:13:52,800
So we would love to have you a 
part of that. 

1183
01:13:52,800 --> 01:13:56,200
You can sign up online. 
For that very special Sunday. 

1184
01:13:56,200 --> 01:13:58,900
If you've ever been a part of 
our baptisms, you are missing 

1185
01:13:58,900 --> 01:14:01,500
out. 
It is, a party is exciting. 

1186
01:14:01,700 --> 01:14:04,400
We will tell your story. 
We'll just wrap our arms around 

1187
01:14:04,400 --> 01:14:06,100
you. 
We would love to have you a part

1188
01:14:06,100 --> 01:14:08,500
of that. 
Last is this last step is this 

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01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:10,700
choosing guide means choosing 
God daily. 

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01:14:11,000 --> 01:14:12,300
It's not something we do once a 
week. 

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01:14:12,300 --> 01:14:15,500
Once a month, we to a daily. 
The one of the great ways that 

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01:14:15,500 --> 01:14:18,600
we do that here is being a in 
downloading, something called 

1193
01:14:18,600 --> 01:14:20,500
the YouVersion Bible app. 
If you haven't done that, do it 

1194
01:14:20,500 --> 01:14:23,500
today, do it right now. 
Pull out your phone because on 

1195
01:14:23,500 --> 01:14:25,000
the universe. 
The Bible like you have access 

1196
01:14:25,000 --> 01:14:26,800
to so many different 
translations, you have part of 

1197
01:14:26,800 --> 01:14:30,300
God's word, but on top of that, 
you can go back and you can 

1198
01:14:30,300 --> 01:14:33,600
follow along either during a 
gathering to the sermon that 

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01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:36,600
Sean's bringing and you can take
notes and at the end of the 

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01:14:36,600 --> 01:14:38,700
notes, there's also a section 
called talk it over. 

1201
01:14:38,900 --> 01:14:41,800
It's a section that we use in 
staff meetings at life groups. 

1202
01:14:41,900 --> 01:14:44,400
It's a great way to reconnect 
with what God's LED. 

1203
01:14:44,900 --> 01:14:47,400
Our trust has to go through that
followings or that previous 

1204
01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:49,400
Sunday. 
So download that today it's a 

1205
01:14:49,407 --> 01:14:52,700
great way just to choose daily. 
What God's got for you to be a 

1206
01:14:52,700 --> 01:14:55,000
part of that? 
Let you guys know that your 

1207
01:14:55,000 --> 01:14:57,800
generosity makes a difference 
week in and week out and you 

1208
01:14:57,800 --> 01:15:00,600
guys don't know all the stories 
of everybody that comes in or if

1209
01:15:00,600 --> 01:15:03,500
people are on stage, but I 
cannot tell your generosity is 

1210
01:15:03,500 --> 01:15:07,400
what God is using to help break 
additions to help heal 

1211
01:15:07,400 --> 01:15:09,500
marriages, you guys play a part 
of that. 

1212
01:15:09,500 --> 01:15:12,500
So thank you so much for being 
generous and being faithful to 

1213
01:15:12,500 --> 01:15:15,000
God in that way. 
Can I let you know if you're new

1214
01:15:15,000 --> 01:15:16,800
to real life? 
This isn't isn't for you. 

1215
01:15:16,800 --> 01:15:19,400
We don't want anything from you.
We want something for you, but 

1216
01:15:19,400 --> 01:15:21,500
if you call a real iPhone, 
there's still three ways that 

1217
01:15:21,500 --> 01:15:23,000
you can connect to generosity 
here. 

1218
01:15:23,400 --> 01:15:25,600
The first is by going online at 
Real Life Church. 

1219
01:15:25,600 --> 01:15:27,800
Kc.com number two, you can 
texting him out, eight, four 

1220
01:15:27,800 --> 01:15:30,000
three, two, one, or if you want 
to use cash or cheque, there's a

1221
01:15:30,000 --> 01:15:32,800
giving box at the back of the 
Worship Center or you can drop 

1222
01:15:32,800 --> 01:15:35,600
in the bucket says they pass. 
Lastly, is these buckets pass. 

1223
01:15:35,900 --> 01:15:38,700
As always, if you or your 
family, find yourself in need of

1224
01:15:38,700 --> 01:15:41,200
immediate food clothing or 
shelter, please reach in and 

1225
01:15:41,200 --> 01:15:43,900
grab any loose cash. 
If you see in just tell a family

1226
01:15:44,200 --> 01:15:46,900
in this time of need, hey, we've
got an exciting opportunity 

1227
01:15:46,900 --> 01:15:49,100
coming up this summer. 
It's a missions trip. 

1228
01:15:49,100 --> 01:15:50,800
Take the second. 
Check out this video. 

1229
01:15:51,900 --> 01:16:03,300
God can do amazing things 
through your life this summer, 

1230
01:16:03,300 --> 01:16:06,300
traveling to Colombia with real 
life and so maybe you're 

1231
01:16:06,300 --> 01:16:07,800
thinking, what would we do 
there? 

1232
01:16:07,800 --> 01:16:09,800
Who are we going to reach who? 
What kind of people are we going

1233
01:16:09,800 --> 01:16:12,200
to see? 
So I want you to take a minute 

1234
01:16:12,200 --> 01:16:16,300
or so and check out an awesome 
video that gives you just a 

1235
01:16:16,300 --> 01:16:21,000
little glimpse of what God might
do in your life this summer when

1236
01:16:21,000 --> 01:16:23,900
you go to bed. 
Guitar Colombia with us. 

1237
01:16:23,900 --> 01:17:24,600
Check it out. 
That's a wrap. 

1238
01:18:08,400 --> 01:18:11,300
What an incredible time we had. 
And I know God is going to do 

1239
01:18:11,300 --> 01:18:14,500
exceedingly more this year as we
travel to Colombia. 

1240
01:18:14,500 --> 01:18:19,100
So, there is one more chance 
next Sunday, immediately 

1241
01:18:19,100 --> 01:18:22,000
following the second gathering 
for you to come to an 

1242
01:18:22,000 --> 01:18:25,400
information, meeting to learn 
more about our trip to Bogota. 

1243
01:18:25,400 --> 01:18:28,100
So I want to see you there next 
Sunday, right? 

1244
01:18:28,100 --> 01:18:30,500
After the second Gathering or 
come find me if you want. 

1245
01:18:30,500 --> 01:18:33,700
Some more information about our 
trip to Colombia God's going to 

1246
01:18:33,700 --> 01:18:37,200
do amazing things through you 
this summer and I can't wait to 

1247
01:18:37,200 --> 01:18:46,800
see you again. 
He's never had the opportunity 

1248
01:18:46,800 --> 01:18:48,800
to see how God moves in another 
part of the world. 

1249
01:18:48,800 --> 01:18:50,600
Can I tell you that this mission
trip is for you. 

1250
01:18:50,600 --> 01:18:53,700
So, if you have even this much 
interest level, because you just

1251
01:18:53,700 --> 01:18:55,900
want to know something about it,
get connected with Diane. 

1252
01:18:55,900 --> 01:18:58,500
Check out the meeting this week.
You won't be disappointed. 

1253
01:18:58,500 --> 01:19:00,500
We would love to have you part 
of that. 

1254
01:19:00,700 --> 01:19:04,100
Hey, if you guys need prayer for
no reason, we would love to have

1255
01:19:04,100 --> 01:19:07,400
you up here. 
Also be ready as Dianne brings a

1256
01:19:07,400 --> 01:19:09,200
message. 
Of encouragement next week, as 

1257
01:19:09,200 --> 01:19:12,200
we end our relationship Series. 
So don't miss out that next 

1258
01:19:12,200 --> 01:19:13,500
week. 
And as you guys are headed out, 

1259
01:19:13,500 --> 01:19:16,500
always remember that, whoever 
finds Jesus covers real life and

1260
01:19:16,500 --> 01:19:17,700
purpose. 
So you guys next week,