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Welcome to the River City Church
podcast and a message by our 

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lead pastor, Jason Powers. 
Our prayer is that this message 

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would inspire and encourage you,
build your faith and point you 

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to the life changing love of 
Jesus. 

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May you enjoy the goodness of 
God as you follow Him today. 

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Hi everybody, I'm glad y'all are
here for 11 days of Christmas. 

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You ready? 
No same response in first 

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service. 
They're like get to it. 

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So I'm going to judge Silent 
Night. 

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Holy Night is not a song written
about your house during this 

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season. 
Well, it is mine, of course, 

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everybody else but yours is 
right. 

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Isn't that funny? 
How the how the holiday works, 

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right? 
Like you put the lights up. 

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December 1st, we're ready. 
What are we? 

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We have the big argument. 
How? 

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Soon can we start Christmas? 
Can we do it October? 

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30th before Halloween, you know,
and some people do kind of, hey,

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see, there you are, see that the
distinctions between the people 

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that we have to do that, right? 
So I think what you're feeling a

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lot is like, even in that it's 
like, yeah, but I'm tired, 

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right? 
And then what? 

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We have everybody in their house
like you have on your on your 

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shelf, like a nativity scene. 
Right, and it shows you what 

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Christmas is supposed to look. 
Like, right. 

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Except I don't trust my nativity
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I don't believe them at all. 
You know, you look at, I mean, I

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think about like, I've got kids 
and I remember those days and I 

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just try to think about how that
birth moment would have felt if 

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there'd been like livestock in 
the room, you know, and. 

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I don't think Natalie would have
liked that. 

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I don't think cattle lowing in 
the rubble of childbirth is 

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something that that, you know, 
like it's something that that we

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all want. 
But there it was in the 

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Christmas scene. 
And then there's Joseph, right? 

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Always huddled back of the room,
right? 

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Standing kind of in the corner 
as an increasing throng of 

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strangers press into the room to
just like, gaze at the baby and 

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like. 
Touch. 

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The baby, I guess, and he's like
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to get like Mary, Are we OK with
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Like Mary, these are shepherds, 
bro. 

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This is like, you know, your, 
your hospital is, you know, is 

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next door to like the 
construction site. 

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And so it's like the lunch hour 
and the construction workers 

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come over just to touch your 
baby, you know? 

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And there's Mary, right? 
It's got to be fine. 

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Because when you look at Mary, 
at the figure of Mary, she's 

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like this in ceramic. 
Forever, right? 

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Forever. 
Happy with the joy of the 

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Christmas season. 
Sure. 

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Yeah. 
Sheep and goats and cow in the 

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birthing room. 
Of course. 

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Why not? 
A bunch of strangers watching my

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newborn baby trying to say sure,
why the heck not, Right. 

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And so we look, and this is what
we Silent night, right? 

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Joy to the world. 
This is happening all around us 

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and so. 
We have these sentimentalized 

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images of Christmas and ride. 
We have the Christmas cards with

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the snowfall and the light and 
all this. 

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And so we have these pictures, 
these images in our house and in

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our minds and in our heart of 
what the holidays look like. 

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And so when we see these kind of
sentimental images, angels in 

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the background and trees and 
crosses and all that, these 

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images lead us, we're we're 
Pavlovian, right? 

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Like we're like the dogs who to 
hear the bell and start to 

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salivate right when the lights 
come out and the Christmas 

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starts to come out. 
We begin to have this low level 

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emotional response that we kind 
of generally tag with the title 

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holiday spirit. 
You have the holiday spirit. 

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What that means is that you're 
trying to keep up with your 

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neighbors to get your lights up.
I just wanted everybody to know 

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I am the guy on my street and 
puts his lights up first. 

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So if you're wondering where the
pressure comes from, it's me. 

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I'm the one, right? 
Like that does it? 

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The problem is by the time we 
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December, we're tired of 
Christmas programs and holiday 

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parties and fruitcake and snacks
and I've gained 15 lbs and 

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there's cookies in my house all 
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And then, I mean, that's like 
the early and then it's like the

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15th or the 20th. 
And I'm just like, I've got all 

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these presents to buy and the 
money's gone and everybody's a 

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little bit cranky, right? 
I've got that. 

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I've got that ornament on my 
tree that sings. 

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And it's driving me crazy. 
And I'm starting to fight, 

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right? 
I want to do all the stuff. 

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And then by the 28th, we're just
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right, Twitching, huddled on the
Mass because the Christmas 

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season has come and gone. 
And we are just a mess. 

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See the holiday symbols, the 
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angels and and all these things,
these stylized aspirations. 

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Silent night. 
Holy night. 

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What happens is they keep us 
hoping and so season comes in 

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and by the time Christmas gets 
here, where are some of you are 

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probably already seeing the 
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Of the holiday. 
And I think what happens is we 

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get so wrapped up in this. 
Holiday spirit that is tied to 

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lights and nativity scenes and 
all of that, that we miss 

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something durable and I think 
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I think that's. 
That holiday, I mean, sometimes 

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the holiday hangover is an 
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But for the most part, often 
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holiday hangover is just this 
sense of maybe I wanted 

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something different. 
Maybe I wanted the lights and 

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the peace and the quiet and the 
silent night to be what the 

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story really was. 
And I want some of that. 

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But by the time we get to 
January, I realized it was just 

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maybe a breath. 
And the hurry sneaks back in. 

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And here's what happened. 
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happens, and I don't know that 
we can't. 

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But when you get your hopes up 
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something real and good is 
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And then when you get on the 
other side and you have the 

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experience and it doesn't 
deliver and it doesn't prove to 

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be what you expected it to be 
and what you hoped it would be 

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and what you needed to be, in 
the end of that, you're left 

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with disappointment. 
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disappointment over time is it 
hardens, right? 

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You get disappointed, and then 
the next time it happens and 

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there's more disappointment or 
another way disappointment in 

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what happens is slowly 
disappointment starts to harden 

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into cynicism. 
I have to be very careful with 

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my heart because it's easy for 
me to get into cynicism, right 

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where you start from the outset.
Maybe you're going through the 

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motions, but you're waiting with
some kind of you, me, some kind 

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of perverse joy, waiting for the
other shoe to drop so we can go.

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I knew it. 
Christmas brings all of this out

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on us. 
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We get cynical, and cynicism 
inevitably brings isolation and 

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loneliness. 
And so this holiday season of 

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lights and candles and festivity
and incarnation and God coming 

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to be with his people ends up 
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All kinds of stuff. 
Distracted, afraid, anxious, 

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overwhelmed, losing a sense of 
what's that? 

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Do you feel like that? 
And maybe not now, but you know 

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what I'm talking about this 
Christmas season, it's supposed 

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to be about lights. 
There's good news for you, I 

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want to say. 
That sense of disruption, that 

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sense of bordering on cynicism, 
of disorganization and and going

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all over the place. 
That thing that you're feeling, 

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that thing that you can identify
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My guess is that. 
Feeling is probably closer to 

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the actual original experience 
Christmas than anything that we 

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see on a Christmas card. 
Think about that first Christmas

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we read about it Luke chapter 1 
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I want to stop and talk about 
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Days meant in those days right 
before this we tell we read the 

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story about an Angel. 
His name is Gabriel and he 

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visited a guy called Zechariah 
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Zechariah was a priest and it 
was his time his turn to go into

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the holies and offer that the 
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And while I was in there he 
would met an Angel and the Angel

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said Zechariah you're going to 
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name him John and John would go 
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John the Baptizer. 
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fulfill the prophecies of Micah.
He's going to be the forerunner 

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of Messiah and he is going to be
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An Angel visited Elizabeth and 
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Zechariah. 
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relative whose name was Mary, 
and Mary also had had an angelic

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visitor, an Angel visitor. 
And he said, you're blessed, 

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Blessed are you among women? 
Highly favored among women is 

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what the Angel who sits at the 
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Mary. 
He said, blessed are you among 

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women. 
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have a child and that child is 
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That's a heavy. 
That's a heavy message. 

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For Mary to receive, you know 
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Because she was a virgin and she
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So she says to the Angel, Angel,
you're crazy because that can't 

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happen. 
And the Angel said don't worry 

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about that. 
Now if my wife had become 

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pregnant by the holy. 
Spirit, my hope is that an Angel

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would also visit me to tell me 
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That right. 
And so sure enough, an Angel 

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visits Joseph and is like, hey, 
Joseph, it's true. 

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Hang in there. 
You can stick with her. 

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You can hang out with her and 
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These are the days. 
Now, Can you imagine one Angel 

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visitor in the middle of your 
night telling you that your 

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whole entire life is going to be
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Can you imagine one, much less 
three of them in the span of a 

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little while? 
So what we read those days, Mary

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set out and hurried to a town in
the Hill Country of Judah, where

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she entered Zechariah's house 
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Now we know that Mary and 
Elizabeth and Zechariah lived 

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about 80 to 100 miles apart from
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So, And this time, what we're 
told is that Mary hurries on 

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foot 100. 
Miles to go visit her friend, 

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her cousin, her relative 
Elizabeth. 

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And now you're like this now 
sounds like Christmas 

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overwhelmed Rd. weary relatives 
pulling into town at the last 

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minute, dragging their drama 
with them. 

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And make no mistake, Mary's full
of drama. 

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You don't have a 14 year old 
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show up in your house and 
everything. 

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Just go, oh, this is normal. 
It's not a normal thing. 

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It's not normal for Elizabeth. 
It's not normal for Zechariah, 

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who've already had their own 
weirdness. 

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It's not normal for Mary, 
certainly not normal for Joseph.

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And so this is the big picture 
of Christmas. 

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This is where Christmas actually
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And this is good news for you 
because the joy of Christmas 

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almost always begins with 
monumental disruption. 

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Zechariah and Elizabeth are old.
The Bible tells us they're 

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beyond child rearing years. 
And you know what that means, 

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right? 
That means that they had 

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dreamed, they had planned, they 
had prayed, they had wanted it, 

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and eventually, over time, you 
just get settled into the lives 

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that where you. 
Are And now all of a sudden, 

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Zechariah in his old age, he's 
got to put together a crib. 

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You crazy arthritic fingers, 
man, you can't bend over your 

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back. 
Can't handle that for that long,

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right? 
It's a disruption. 

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What about Mary and Joseph? 
14 year old girls imagine their 

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wedding. 
They imagine being married to 

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their husband. 
I promise you she did not 

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imagine a visit from an Angel 
and a child before she's 

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married. 
I imagine. 

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I promise you that was not on 
her vision for the future. 

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What about Joseph? 
Joseph's the one in this story. 

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He literally does everything 
right. 

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He does. 
He's just minding his own 

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business, doing his thing. 
And now an Angel comes and says,

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hey, I'm going to turn this. 
And here's the thing. 

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You look at that and go, now, 
it's pretty cool to give birth 

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to the king. 
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thought? 
Oh, oh, oh, the God got her 

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pregnant. 
Joseph, not you Sure, Sure he 

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did. 
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Pictures and we look at it and 
we just imagine that there was a

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hymn playing over all of those 
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was seismic. 
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past the reality to get to the 
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what we see here in this 
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Mary hurrying to see her 
relative, her older. 

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Relative who is? 
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She's rushing her. 
What we see here is that this is

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what actually moves us towards 
joy. 

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What I would say is the story, 
the movements that we see, the 

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conversations that we see, build
a foundation for us to have a 

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lasting and a durable joy. 
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other. 
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us to have hope. 
Jesus is our hope. 

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Christmas is a season of hope. 
But you have to choose the path 

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that leads to that. 
You can have peace, like we 

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talked about last week, but you 
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And in the same way, if we're 
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Christmas that lasts into 
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June and September, we have to 
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And So what we see Mary doing in
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what we see Mary doing as all of
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a companion, a trusted friend, a
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the situation and provide some 
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pregnant young lady runs 80 to 
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breathing, right? 
Her feet are tired as she walks 

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up. 
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greeting. 
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She's outside the house going. 
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home? 
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greeting. 
The baby leaped inside her. 

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Then Elizabeth was filled with 
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Blessed are you among women by 
the wayside. 

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thing, right? 
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tradition where we've been very,
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acknowledge and to like 
marginalized and minimize Mary 

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off to the side. 
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that before the 1st 2 chapters 
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are. 
Open. 

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originated from heaven, who 
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She is not just like everybody 
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I don't believe she's perfect. 
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sinless. 
I don't believe that she died 

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sinless. 
I don't believe that she was 

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born sinless. 
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world, God chose this teenager 
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I think that's important. 
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anything with that. 
Just maybe be nicer to marry in 

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our brains. 
Blessed are you among women, and

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your child will be blessed. 
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Are you listening? 
How could this happen to me, 

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that the mother of my Lord 
should come to me, the mother of

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my Lord? 
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has just done? 
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person in the Canon of 
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Elizabeth is the first person in
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of the New Covenant. 
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A woman, an old woman beyond 
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coming out of the mouth of a 
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First, telling of the gospel 
outside the tomb at Easter in 

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the mouth of a woman. 
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interesting pattern. 
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it what you will. 
Verse 44 you see. 

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And the sound of your greeting 
reached my ears. 

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The baby leaped for joy inside 
me. 

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That baby would go on to become 
John the Baptist, right, the 

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forerunner of Jesus, the one who
in Isaiah it talks about, you 

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know, every mountain will be 
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be laid up. 
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way of the Lord right in the 
wilderness, he would prepare the

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way of the Lord will this moment
where that baby John the Baptist

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in the womb, that is that baby 
that's John the. 

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Baptist's Baptist first 
prophecy. 

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It's his first. 
Prophetic recognition. 

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And notice what happened. 
Mary didn't become unpregnant. 

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Elizabeth didn't become 
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There was no check in the mail. 
There was no pre arranged crib 

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that came. 
There was no diaper shower. 

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Everything that caused Mary to 
run to her cousin Elizabeth in 

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the 1st place is still real and 
still relevant. 

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Elizabeth in her old age, not 
knowing what's going to come is 

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still pregnant. 
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changing the story. 
Is Jesus is in the room? 

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And you didn't even recognize 
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embryo at this point. 
And you're like, well, what can 

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I do with an embryo? 
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Listen, there are some of you in
this room right now who Jesus is

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in an embryonic phase in your 
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You've heard about Jesus. 
You've had people talk to you 

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about Jesus. 
You're not sure if you believe 

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in Jesus? 
You want to believe in Jesus, 

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but you got some questions about
Noah's ark. 

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It flood the whole earth. 
You got some questions about 

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Genesis 1-6 days, right? 
What I want to tell you is 

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there's an embryonic thing in 
you, this place of hope and this

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place of faith in you that wants
to blossom and wants to bloom 

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and that's enough. 
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Jesus causes Elizabeth not just 
to recognize Mary, but it causes

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Mary to be filled with the Holy 
Spirit and notice what's 

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happened. 
Jesus has entered the room. 

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Now Jesus needed. 
Help to get into the room. 

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Mary showed up a comfortable a 
relative and John the Baptist 

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leap. 
So now we have Jesus and John 

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and Mary and Elizabeth. 
See, at first we had all these 

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people processing their stories 
on their own, and now all of a 

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sudden we have this connection, 
we have this community, and 

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that's what even a flat. 
Reading of this shows. 

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Right. 
And I talk about flat. 

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I'm like just the details. 
We don't have to have any 

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interpretation, any 
understanding, right? 

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This. 
We just have Mary went to 

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Elizabeth's house and the baby 
and Elizabeth recognized the 

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baby and Mary and jumped and 
left. 

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And what I want to say to you is
joy is not Christmas lights. 

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It's not a warm fuzzy feeling in
your heart. 

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Joy is the spiritual quality of 
recognizing that God is at work.

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In the moment at hand. 
Are you listening? 

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Joy is not a generally happy 
feeling. 

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Joy comes in the moment where I 
realize this moment looks as 

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dark as anything I've ever seen.
But I believe that God is here 

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in this. 
Not just that He is here, but 

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that He is good and that He is 
working for my good, even if I 

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don't recognize it or see it or 
understanding. 

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Even a flat reading will give 
you that flat. 

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I just mean like the details, 
who was there, what did they 

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say? 
What do they do? 

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Where do they go? 
That's a. 

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Flat reading, but that's not 
even the good stuff. 

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I do, I do want you to know like
it's, it's good news because 

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listen, whatever darkness you're
in, whatever loneliness you're 

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in, whatever despair or cynicism
or isolation or sin or addiction

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or whatever it is that you're 
in, I just want to tell you the.

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Story of Christmas is that Jesus
is here now. 

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He's in this for you. 
With. 

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You. 
He's not waiting for you to get 

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better so that you can come to 
him. 

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Jesus. 
Went to Elizabeth's house. 

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He's at your house, too. 
That's the good news. 

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But what comes next in our kind 
of in this story, and we're 

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going to finish this story next 
week, next week is Mary's 

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prayer, the big the big 
Magnificat, right? 

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And we're going to look at at 
that kind of love. 

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But as we look at joy this week,
right the. 

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Good stuff is what we see even 
in this just brief, simple 

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interaction, right? 
OK, so here's some things and I 

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just want us to notice some 
things about joy, right? 

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It just got a bulleted list. 
The first thing, joy is received

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and not acquired. 
This is where we go wrong. 

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We think joy is something that 
we have to earn or purchase. 

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We think joy looks like more 
square foot. 

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We think joy looks like nicer 
hood ornament. 

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We think joy is more of this or 
that or better. 

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A better neighborhood, a better 
neighbor, a better friend, a 

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better job, a better income, a 
better picture online, better 

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more. 
But joy does not come from more 

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or better. 
Because here's the thing, if 

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your joy only comes from more 
and better, there is only one 

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person because everybody has 
some is someone who has more 

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than them or is more than them 
or what or whatever it is. 

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There's nobody wins. 
One person wins at all, I guess.

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What about that person? 
They're going to die and leave 

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it to the next person. 
Joy isn't about something that 

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we can keep or grab or hold. 
Joy is the recognition that oh, 

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Jesus is here and in the middle 
of this and you know what that 

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means for you. 
Some of you need to hear this. 

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This is the whole reason that 
you came today. 

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What that means is you can have 
joy whether or not you have 

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generally positive happy 
feelings. 

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You can have a sense of settled 
joy and not feel super content 

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in this moment. 
Mary didn't suddenly. 

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Have all the answers to how she 
was going to talk to her friends

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about this child that was 
growing in her. 

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She didn't understand that 
Elizabeth didn't know how she 

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was going to explain to all the 
people how A506070 year old 

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woman is suddenly a child. 
She didn't know anything other 

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than she knew before, only that 
Jesus was there. 

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So what that means is that if 
you're having grief right now, 

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that you can possibly you can 
have joy, but the. 

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Joy that we find in grief 
doesn't come from recovering 

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what was lost. 
Me. 

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Say it again. 
The joy that we find in grief 

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doesn't come from recovering 
what was lost. 

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The joy that we find in grief 
comes from being held and loved 

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in community. 
The joy that we find in grief is

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going over to somebody's house 
and laying your soul bare before

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them, your weaknesses, your 
fears, your anger, your 

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insecurity, the ugly, sloppy, 
messy stuff and having them put 

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their hand on your shoulder and 
look you in the eye and go. 

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I'm not going anywhere. 
We're going to figure this out. 

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The joy that is given to us is 
the joy that when you come up 

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here and you talk to somebody on
our prayer team afterwards and 

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you just say he left, she's sick
or out of everything, we have 

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nothing. 
And those people look with you 

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in the eye and they go, that's 
worth grieving. 

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You deserve to be sad about 
that. 

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And I'm going to be sad with 
you. 

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Doesn't change your it doesn't 
change your situation. 

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What it does is it changes your 
heart. 

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It changes your awareness of 
what's going on. 

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Now, let me hold this up because
this is the reality. 

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Some of you don't have someone 
like Elizabeth in your life. 

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For some of you, this is the 
Christmas that you don't have 

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mom for the first time and she's
the one that you would go to. 

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And what I want to tell you, are
you listening to me right now? 

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Your mom is worth grieving. 
Whether she was a great mom or a

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terrible mom, he's worth 
grieving. 

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And the Lord does not begrudge 
you grieving a loss like that. 

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But do you remember when we were
talking about Ephesians, right? 

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And we talked about you? 
Who's you? 

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You is who? 
Do you know the solution for 

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grieving people without a family
is all y'all. 

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That's the church. 
That's what the church is for. 

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And some of you are like, great,
I just got like, I've got some 

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things to no, that's not what 
this is for. 

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But this is not the church. 
You're the church. 

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That's why we do community, 
that's why we do small groups, 

456
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:22,240
and it's why I don't hand hold 
and manage it super tight And on

457
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:24,640
that, because you've got to find
the people that will give you 

458
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:26,120
grace. 
But here's the deal, you've got 

459
00:24:26,120 --> 00:24:28,800
to find them and joy finds its 
way in there. 

460
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:32,920
That leaves us the next part. 
Community is a joy multiplier. 

461
00:24:34,360 --> 00:24:41,560
It's a joy multiplier, Mary. 
All she did is walk up to 

462
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:42,920
Elizabeth's house and what 
happened? 

463
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:46,400
We see that her attitude, her 
posture went from hurry to 

464
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:47,280
peace. 
We're going to see her 

465
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:48,240
magnificent next week. 
It's. 

466
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:53,360
Beautiful she comes overflowing 
with praise and love for for the

467
00:24:53,360 --> 00:24:55,560
father right. 
That's what Mary does that's 

468
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:57,880
what community does and what 
happens is I want you to know 

469
00:24:57,880 --> 00:24:59,880
like Elizabeth is interpreting 
Mary. 

470
00:24:59,880 --> 00:25:02,360
This is what community does. 
We interpret each other. 

471
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:05,280
Now, I want you to know, when 
Mary ran up, nothing had changed

472
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,160
about her situation. 
Elizabeth could have come. 

473
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:10,160
Oh, you're pregnant too, But 
Mary, you're not married. 

474
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,040
Aren't like, how did that 
happen, Mary? 

475
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:14,200
Oh, well, God got you pregnant, 
Mary. 

476
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:16,040
Nobody's going to believe that. 
We got to come up with a 

477
00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:17,760
different story, Mary. 
Oh, we got. 

478
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:19,440
No, of course I believe you, 
Mary. 

479
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,320
Right. 
She could have been doubtful. 

480
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:25,440
But you know what Elizabeth says
to Mary as soon as she walks up?

481
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:28,440
Bless it. 
Are you Because here's the 

482
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:31,040
thing, let's talk the 
Christians, right? 

483
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,640
Largely like pro-life, pro-life 
thing. 

484
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:35,320
This is great. 
I believe it takes God to create

485
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:35,960
a life. 
That's fine. 

486
00:25:36,120 --> 00:25:38,280
We should celebrate life. 
You know what Elizabeth doesn't 

487
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:40,840
say to her? 
I am so sorry. 

488
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:46,000
Mary didn't apologize. 
There's a life that's coming. 

489
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:49,280
God made life. 
Elizabeth's like. 

490
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:54,920
That's how we're supposed to be.
That's what we're supposed to be

491
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:56,800
about. 
Those kids up there in the 

492
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:58,560
children's ministry, right? 
All of them. 

493
00:25:58,640 --> 00:25:59,960
Some of you are like, yeah, I'm 
so that. 

494
00:25:59,960 --> 00:26:02,640
Listen, I don't want, if you got
parents of little small 

495
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:04,800
children, I mean, we need to 
write like that. 

496
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:08,520
But listen, the rest of y'all 
whose kids are gone, you need to

497
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:11,520
be up there. 
Those aren't, those are our 

498
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:13,360
kids. 
Yeah, somebody that's Liz 

499
00:26:13,360 --> 00:26:16,920
Biggers back there. 
She's saying, yeah, listen, hey,

500
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,480
because guess what? 
Parents of small children, they 

501
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:20,920
get to do that all week. 
Long. 

502
00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:23,920
All week long. 
And guess what though? 

503
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,320
You, you are gone. 
You can give me an hour. 

504
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:28,440
Especially if you don't have 
grandkids. 

505
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:32,360
Listen, I love babies. 
I want to hold your baby. 

506
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:35,000
I'm going to kiss your baby. 
I'm going to squeeze your, your 

507
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:38,440
baby. 
Yeah, because I love it. 

508
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:41,480
But I want to. 
I want to be a grandpa with 

509
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,080
babies, not a parent with 
babies. 

510
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:44,920
Right. 
But you know what? 

511
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:46,320
I can do every chance that I 
could get. 

512
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:50,480
I can go hold a baby for it. 
Scared parent or tired parent or

513
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:52,880
weary parent. 
You don't think that would bring

514
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:54,320
joy? 
You don't think that would 

515
00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:57,680
multiply the joy, right? 
When people come in and you just

516
00:26:57,680 --> 00:26:59,880
go, yeah, I've got an hour and I
got 2 hours on Sunday, guess 

517
00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:01,480
what? 
Sometimes the Cowboys play at 

518
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:02,680
noon, so I'll have to get out, 
right? 

519
00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:05,000
But for the most part, I can get
in here and I can do that and 

520
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:10,720
I'll hold your baby, right? 
Because what God is doing in 

521
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:13,280
people's lives doesn't always 
fit neatly into here. 

522
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:15,320
So here's a question for you and
your community. 

523
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:18,760
I mean, I'm going to ask you 
about your community and I don't

524
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:20,640
want you to feel shame, but I 
want you to tell the truth. 

525
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:24,320
How often do you and your 
community talk about what God is

526
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:26,920
doing all around you and how you
can get involved? 

527
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:33,000
How many times do you talk about
which burdens you can bear for 

528
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,080
other people? 
What if your small group? 

529
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,760
Just said we. 
Got the 9:00 nursery. 

530
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:41,440
We'll go to the 11:15 service 
together, but we're going to go 

531
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:44,680
tell Miss Bit Miss Jamie that we
got 15 people in our small group

532
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:47,920
and we'll serve twice a month. 
Don't like babies. 

533
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:49,840
I don't probably like you 
either, but that's fine. 

534
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:54,360
You don't have to serve babies. 
Can you hold a door? 

535
00:27:54,360 --> 00:27:57,000
Can you drive a car? 
Can you pray for somebody? 

536
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:58,120
Like what? 
Like what can you do? 

537
00:27:58,120 --> 00:28:00,760
But the idea is like, it takes 
all of us to build. 

538
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,120
And by the way, that's what we 
are about. 

539
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:05,960
That's what it is like. 
Like I want you to know, like as

540
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:08,160
a staff, we look around and go, 
how can we get involved? 

541
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:10,840
That's why we help orphans. 
That's why we help foster kids. 

542
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:14,120
That's why we go to Legacy Oaks 
to help people who are because 

543
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:17,480
that's what being a church for 
New Braunfels is. 

544
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:21,760
To be A to be for New Braunfels 
means that we go out into the 

545
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:24,960
world and we interpret their 
situations in light of God's 

546
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,520
presence. 
We just go, I know it's scary 

547
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:29,160
out there, but God's here, don't
worry. 

548
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:30,840
Just keep loving, just keep 
serving. 

549
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:34,160
So that's what makes our do you 
know what our mission statement 

550
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:36,840
as a church is? 
Do you know why we exist to be 

551
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,560
here? 
River City is a church helping 

552
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:42,520
to interpret God's work in New 
Braunfels. 

553
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:45,480
How? 
By authentically experiencing 

554
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:48,840
and expressing God's love and 
our lives and community, That's 

555
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:51,760
what we do. 
We're not here to get a fill up 

556
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,400
so I can walk out there and be 
better than everybody. 

557
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:58,440
I come here so that I can be 
reminded that God has worked in 

558
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:02,680
my kids school, in my neighbor's
job, in my my neighbor's. 

559
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:06,640
If my neighbor's marriage falls 
apart, God is working there too.

560
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:11,720
Oh, but divorce and it's sin. 
Like you don't think God works 

561
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:13,200
in sin, do you? 
What do you think the cross 

562
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:20,680
says? 
Redeemed it made it just like 

563
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:23,320
new and that's what we are 
about. 

564
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:27,760
Our job as a church is to walk 
around in our community, in our 

565
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:32,560
neighborhood, at our jobs and 
the places that we go and subtly

566
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:35,960
or directly, because we've 
experienced in our life, begin 

567
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:40,440
to ask people or point to where 
is God in your illness? 

568
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:46,720
Where is God in your poverty? 
Where is God in your divorce? 

569
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:52,400
Where is God in your injustice? 
Where is God in your fear? 

570
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:56,560
And we don't ask angrily. 
We ask pastorally, from a seat 

571
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,200
committed to staying until we 
find it. 

572
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:03,800
If everybody in this room would 
help one person find God in 

573
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:06,320
their life, do you know what 
that would do for your faith? 

574
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:08,840
Forget them. 
Your faith. 

575
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:13,240
As long as the story of our 
faith is we show up once a week 

576
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:16,280
to. 
Have a guy yell at us generally 

577
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:19,200
positive things. 
That's not faith. 

578
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:22,720
And let me just tell you, if 
that's what your faith is, 

579
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:25,400
you're going to be tired of 
heaven real quick. 

580
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:29,080
In fact, you're probably going 
to find that heaven doesn't suit

581
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:32,640
you much because heaven is where
the sin is gone. 

582
00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:35,200
Heaven is where we read what we 
read in Ephesians write. 

583
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,480
The walls have been torn down. 
There's no difference. 

584
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:41,800
No longer Jew or slave or free 
or Greek or male or female. 

585
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:43,960
There's just Jesus and us 
together. 

586
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:46,920
And we as the church are called 
to experience that and live that

587
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:52,400
out here. 
And so the final thing for us is

588
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:58,800
your words are a blessing, joy 
or they're not. 

589
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:03,400
Your words are a blessing of joy
or they're not. 

590
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:05,440
So the first one, right, the 
last time we talked about 

591
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:08,120
community is a joy multiplier. 
What that is kind of like that's

592
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:11,040
the communities responsibility 
to the individual, right? 

593
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,080
Like that is that is our job as 
a church. 

594
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,600
Listen when people walk. 
Through here you need to know. 

595
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,320
My assumption is you're screwed 
up. 

596
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:22,200
My assumption is you're trying 
hard, but you're screwed up. 

597
00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:24,960
My assumption is if I give you 
half a minute under the right 

598
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:27,200
circumstances, you'll abandon it
all. 

599
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,320
Do you know why that's my 
assumption about you? 

600
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:32,080
Because that's what I know for 
sure about me. 

601
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:34,720
And so I kind of feel like we're
all together, we're all in the 

602
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:36,440
same boat, right? 
We're all trying to get 

603
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,000
together. 
We're all trying to trying to 

604
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,320
figure this out. 
But The thing is like we have 

605
00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:44,960
the power within us to bless 
just like Elizabeth did. 

606
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:48,720
So this, this ability to bless, 
whereas the previous one, the 

607
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:51,600
multiplier of joy is the 
community's gift to us. 

608
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:54,920
This is our gift and not just 
our gift. 

609
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:59,080
It is our responsibility to the 
whole, and it's effective. 

610
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:03,720
Elizabeth's blessing worked. 
Mary showed up hurried. 

611
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:07,880
Elizabeth says what she says. 
And then immediately out of 

612
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:11,600
Mary's mouth comes this song of 
blessing and praise. 

613
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:19,040
So the question is, are you able
to walk around your world and 

614
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:24,280
look at people's lives and 
discern and see God at move God 

615
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:26,120
and at work in people's 
difficult? 

616
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:29,000
Situations and in people's 
difficult circumstances. 

617
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:32,480
And not only that, but do you 
have the prophetic courage and 

618
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:36,640
discipline to speak about that 
instead of the seedier details 

619
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,760
of people that you see? 
Online and in your world. 

620
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:42,920
Mary could have talked about all
the ways or Elizabeth could have

621
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:46,560
talked about all the ways that 
Mary had failed her people and 

622
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:47,880
all of that and all the 
questions. 

623
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:49,880
She could have meditated and 
counted on that. 

624
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:54,600
She didn't waste one word. 
Blessed are you because what God

625
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:57,920
is doing in your presence and 
what God is doing in your myth, 

626
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:01,000
if you'll allow me just a 
second, to be a little bit kind 

627
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:03,560
of prophetic and to get in your 
business a little bit. 

628
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:08,600
I do not believe as a whole, as 
a general rule, speaking wide 

629
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:12,520
across the big picture, that 
Christians speak redemptively 

630
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:14,920
enough. 
I think the words that come out 

631
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:16,680
of. 
Our mouth are far. 

632
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:20,920
Too often tinged with the same 
political and economic and 

633
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:24,120
social fear that is that is all 
over. 

634
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:26,600
It's thick, it's in the air. 
And what I want to say is 

635
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:31,120
church, that is not for us. 
The question is, do we believe 

636
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:34,040
that God is redeeming darkness 
or not? 

637
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:37,280
And if so, do and will we say 
something about it? 

638
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:41,280
My concern is we don't say 
something about it because we 

639
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:45,040
don't see it. 
We have given our culture and 

640
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,880
our world the ability to define 
reality for us. 

641
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:50,360
And it is a failure on the part 
of the church. 

642
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:56,840
The question is, will we as his 
church have the prophetic 

643
00:33:56,840 --> 00:34:00,640
courage and discernment to bless
people that our culture 

644
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:04,720
condemns? 
You think I'm crazy for saying 

645
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:06,600
that? 
Here's my question for you. 

646
00:34:08,159 --> 00:34:11,000
When Mary showed up on 
Elizabeth. 

647
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:15,440
'S door, who was. 
She was Mary, a statistic about 

648
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:16,560
waning. 
Youth. 

649
00:34:16,639 --> 00:34:21,440
Morality and the decline of the 
family in the 1st century. 14 

650
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:23,520
years old and pregnant. 
You can only imagine how that 

651
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:24,800
happens. 
Where were her parents? 

652
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:27,280
Why didn't they get involved? 
Who let? 

653
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:29,400
Joseph with her. 
Unsupervised. 

654
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:33,159
You know, I already had 
questions about that Mary, shady

655
00:34:33,159 --> 00:34:37,040
little girl that she is, and 
now, well, look at what she's 

656
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:38,280
got. 
What's coming to her? 

657
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:45,040
Or was Mary the victim of a 
patriarchic society that gives 

658
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:48,920
women different results for men?
Why was Mary scared and not 

659
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:50,880
Joseph? 
Why wasn't Joseph? 

660
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:52,600
Why did an Angel have to come 
set? 

661
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:55,920
Joseph at ease Maybe Mary's 
problem was she lived in a 

662
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:59,040
culture in a society that had 
the wrong idea about what gender

663
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:01,040
roles and if she were here, the 
whole thing would be. 

664
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:04,600
Different Who is Mary? 
Is Mary a statistic? 

665
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:10,120
Is Mary a victim? 
Or is Mary blessed among women, 

666
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:14,680
the one chosen by our Father to 
be the mother of the eternal 

667
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:19,080
King? 
Not perfect, not sinless, not 

668
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:25,400
eternal, but blessed. 
The question is, when people 

669
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:31,680
walk in here in a situation that
makes you uncomfortable, are you

670
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:35,960
able to see them as a candidate 
for grace and then extend it to 

671
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:39,200
them? 
That's the role of the church. 

672
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:42,720
That's the invitation of Advent,
and that's where our joy is 

673
00:35:42,720 --> 00:35:44,160
found. 
That's what Advent is about. 

674
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:49,240
Stop agreeing with the wrong 
story about what God is doing in

675
00:35:49,240 --> 00:35:53,760
your life and start believing 
that God is at work. 

676
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:56,280
Stop agreeing. 
Some of you are settling for 

677
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:58,480
political victory and I'm 
telling you, you're settling 

678
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:00,480
short. 
That ain't enough. 

679
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:02,160
Some of you just want to get 
rich. 

680
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,840
And I want to tell you there 
will always be somebody who has 

681
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:07,920
more and there's diminishing 
returns on that. 

682
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:09,800
Anyway. 
There's something in you that is

683
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,800
recognized, that is seen, that 
is bearing the work of the Lord,

684
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:15,440
and nothing but that will 
satisfy. 

685
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:18,760
That's what this Christmas 
spirit points at, and it makes 

686
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:22,440
us desire and it creates this 
longing and this desire for us, 

687
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,920
but it doesn't satisfy us. 
I'm not talking about word, 

688
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:29,440
faith, heresy. 
I'm not talking about us so 

689
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:32,800
much, see, and I'll get a 
hundredfold none of that. 

690
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:35,200
That's nonsense. 
What I'm talking about, church, 

691
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,840
is do the words of our mouth 
point to the reality that we 

692
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:43,240
believe that our God is present 
and he is here and he is working

693
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:45,680
in the darkness and in the 
light? 

694
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:48,560
And I know it's hard. 
This is hard for me. 

695
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:50,280
I don't have a room for that in 
my heart. 

696
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:54,320
But that's what Christmas is 
about, preparing room for the. 

697
00:36:54,320 --> 00:37:00,080
Joy that the Father has for you.
So how do we, Createspace, first

698
00:37:00,240 --> 00:37:04,560
bring your disruptions to Jesus?
It's going to happen. 

699
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:08,160
You've got your plan, don't you?
It's good. 

700
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:11,120
It's a good plan, well thought 
out, well organized. 

701
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:15,160
You've paid for everything. 
You just didn't factor in that 

702
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:18,560
thing that's going to happen. 
And what I want to tell you is 

703
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:22,120
when that thing inevitably 
happens, and by the way, the 

704
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:24,960
reason that it happens is so 
that you know that that's not 

705
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:27,840
your ultimate source of hope. 
Because if your hope is in 

706
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:30,600
getting to go on vacation, if 
your joy is on vacation, it's 

707
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:35,600
going to suck the drive back. 
If your joy, listen, I, I, I 

708
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:39,200
mean it like I, I know it. 
If your joy is in your children,

709
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,400
high school graduation is going 
to be a dark, dark day for you. 

710
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:46,800
If your hope is in 
grandchildren's or financial 

711
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,640
security or whatever it is, none
of those things are within your 

712
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:51,080
control. 
None of them. 

713
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:55,440
And God will absolutely send 
disruptions into our way to 

714
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:58,160
drive us to Him and to each 
other. 

715
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:03,120
But Mary's pregnancy wasn't an 
interruption, was it? 

716
00:38:03,720 --> 00:38:05,320
It was the best. 
Thing that happened to the 

717
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:08,880
entire world. 
Mary's disruption, all the 

718
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:10,960
things that Mary would go 
through and she would experience

719
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:13,560
all those things ended up being 
for our good. 

720
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:16,560
And so the thing for you is you 
don't have to know or pretend to

721
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:19,840
know what your disruption is 
about, but you should assume 

722
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:23,360
that God isn't surprised that by
this interruption. 

723
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:26,560
Oh, it's unexpected. 
It is urgent and it is 

724
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,880
important. 
And you're at your wit's end and

725
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:32,400
you don't know what to do. 
That's the moment to stop. 

726
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:34,840
You want to jump in and go 
faster and work harder. 

727
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:39,280
Stop, pause, pray, God, what the
heck are you doing here? 

728
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:42,480
And then call somebody that you 
know who will tell you, who will

729
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:44,960
help you and interpret what God 
is doing. 

730
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:47,640
That's the second part. 
Move towards an Elizabeth. 

731
00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:50,840
I don't know who the Elizabeth 
is in your life, but I know that

732
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:54,160
you need 1. 
And I also know this for most of

733
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:56,800
you, it can't be me because you 
know what? 

734
00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:59,000
I'm going to come stand right 
here at the end of the thing and

735
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:00,880
you're going to walk up and 
you're going to need me to 

736
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:02,920
interpret your life, but I don't
know you. 

737
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:05,840
I know God's word. 
There's some people that I know.

738
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:08,240
I know that he has good for you,
but you need someone that's 

739
00:39:08,240 --> 00:39:09,720
going to look you in the face 
and go. 

740
00:39:09,720 --> 00:39:11,000
God has better for. 
You than that. 

741
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:13,960
You're settling for that. 
Don't settle for that. 

742
00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:15,560
And do you know how that 
happens? 

743
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:18,680
You have to go. 
There's a table right up front. 

744
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:21,280
Listen, I just bought small 
group program. 

745
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:24,400
Like, yes, you need a small 
group. 

746
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:26,840
We're angry as a culture, we're 
angry. 

747
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:28,720
We're fired up, we're ticked 
off. 

748
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:30,320
We don't trust each other. 
We're mad. 

749
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:33,760
We're disgruntled. 
Yeah, that's what that proves, 

750
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:36,360
and that's what it breeds. 
So do something different. 

751
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:39,960
Go to a group of people. 
Fire your friends that don't 

752
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:42,520
bring joy. 
Well, that's the last one. 

753
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:46,320
Becoming Elizabeth. 
Hey. 

754
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:48,440
So when we started this, it was 
2012. 

755
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:51,040
I was 35 years old. 
I had three kids. 

756
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:57,120
My oldest child was 8 years old.
And when we I'd never been a 

757
00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:58,760
lead pastor. 
I had never done this. 

758
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:02,400
I knew nothing. 
Nothing. 

759
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:04,480
And River City is a young 
church. 

760
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:07,000
Like, I mean, look around, we 
are a young congregation. 

761
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:07,840
But here's the thing I want to 
say. 

762
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:12,840
When we first came here 2012, 
there was a group of probably 15

763
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:17,040
or 20 people, 55 plus who 
stayed. 

764
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:23,440
And I want to tell you, whatever
spiritual depth and maturity and

765
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:28,960
wisdom is present at River City 
is because a small handful of 

766
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:33,800
hand, handful of older people 
who didn't. 

767
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,120
I'm not preaching about 
retirement. 

768
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:39,320
I'm not preaching about what to 
do in the second act of your 

769
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:40,920
life. 
Their kids are gone. 

770
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:43,320
I'm worried about how to like. 
I'm preaching about things that 

771
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:47,000
don't engage them. 
And they stayed and they engaged

772
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:50,560
and they loved this place and 
they walked with me and when my 

773
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:52,320
kids. 
Grew up and started freaking 

774
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:54,000
out. 
They put their arms around me 

775
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:57,200
and they walked with me and they
encouraged me and they prayed 

776
00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:59,600
for me. 
And we are still a young 

777
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:03,360
congregation and we are 
eternally indebted to those 

778
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:06,520
folks who have gone before us. 
Those folks who are in their 50s

779
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:09,560
and in their 60s and their 70s, 
who have walked with the Lord 

780
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:12,880
for a long time, who are able to
look me in my face and go, I've 

781
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:14,920
been there. 
I found the Lord there. 

782
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,600
You can find him too. 
Let's walk together. 

783
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:20,360
So here's what I'm saying. 
If you're a young person in in 

784
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:23,240
here and you've got this and you
don't have a community or group,

785
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:25,680
you should go to a group with 
old people in it. 

786
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:30,080
If they cook better, they want 
to hold your babies. 

787
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:33,400
They love you. 
And when you are at the end of 

788
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:36,320
your rope, they will look you in
the eye and go, I made it, you 

789
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:40,240
can make it too. 
But old people can I call you 

790
00:41:40,240 --> 00:41:44,840
old people? 
I'm right there on that edge now

791
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:50,880
so we can speak to us. 
Hey, listen, you did it. 

792
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:56,160
You ran the race. 
You finished, go find a young 

793
00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:57,680
person and give your life to 
them. 

794
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:01,000
You'll find a group of young 
people and give your life to 

795
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:02,320
them. 
Oh, and they're going to 

796
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:04,640
inconvenience you like crazy. 
I mean, I'm telling like giving 

797
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:06,480
refrigerator rights to your 
house invite. 

798
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:09,280
Them in so when they're 
grieving, when they weep, so 

799
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,960
they'll have a place to go, so 
that you can tell them that God 

800
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:13,720
is there. 
Oh, and they will inconvenience 

801
00:42:13,720 --> 00:42:14,560
you. 
They will ask more. 

802
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:17,400
From you than you think you 
have, and all you'll get in 

803
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:21,760
return is this abiding sense 
that God is working through you 

804
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:25,280
and the next generation to do 
something amazing and wonderful.

805
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:28,840
That's my dream for River City, 
that we'd be a place that 

806
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:31,840
generationally just multiplies. 
Listen, I'm going to die. 

807
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:36,680
Not soon, I hope, but someday. 
And when I die, if all this 

808
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:38,840
stops, my life will have been 
wasted. 

809
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:41,920
Wasted. 
Because you're not going to die 

810
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:44,040
when I die. 
And you've got a part in this, 

811
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,320
and you've got a role on the 
Lord's joy for. 

812
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:50,960
You is supposed to be eternal. 
But we get so easily derailed. 

813
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:54,720
And I'm saying we can do the 
things that we need to do. 

814
00:42:54,720 --> 00:42:58,440
We move to community, we begin 
to give people access to the 

815
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:01,040
dark places, and we take the 
liberty of. 

816
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:04,120
Going into people's places and 
speaking life and encouragement 

817
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:06,760
and blessing over them. 
That's my prayer for us as a 

818
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:09,200
church, January through 
December, that we wouldn't 

819
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:14,040
settle for the made-up feeling 
that everything is fine, but 

820
00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:17,800
instead, I pray that we would 
develop a shared awareness in 

821
00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:22,040
community that Jesus is at work 
right here, right in the middle 

822
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:26,080
of our disruptions, and that we 
would organize everything around

823
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:31,320
that. 
You pray with me, Jesus. 

824
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:34,120
The fact that this Christmas 
season sparked something in US 

825
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:38,400
tells us that it's there. 
We want joy. 

826
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:44,960
We were created for joy. 
So forgive us when we settle. 

827
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:48,200
Forgive us when we settle for 
less than because it's easy. 

828
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:53,000
Forgive us when we settle for 
less than because we just can't 

829
00:43:53,240 --> 00:43:54,880
figure out how the other one 
will work. 

830
00:43:57,040 --> 00:44:00,520
And I just pray for anybody in 
here who maybe is just, it's 

831
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:04,800
been all dark. 
Jesus, I just pray that in this 

832
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:08,120
place, you would surround their 
heart and comfort them and lift 

833
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:11,520
them up. 
But I pray that you would move 

834
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:12,760
through this room in a different
way. 

835
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:15,120
Father, I pray that as we 
scatter from this place and go 

836
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:17,360
to our neighborhoods, I pray 
that we would be joy bringers, 

837
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:20,760
joy multipliers, that we would 
speak to the goodness of what 

838
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:22,480
you're doing in other people's 
lives. 

839
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:25,760
Many won't get it. 
They won't understand, but I 

840
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:28,600
pray that we wouldn't just do it
for them, but we would do it for

841
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:30,040
you and that we would do it for 
us. 

842
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:34,480
I pray that your church, 
specifically River City Lord, 

843
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:38,520
would be the most joyful place 
within 100 miles. 

844
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:42,200
I pray that people would come 
here and they would hear hard 

845
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:45,720
things and difficult things and 
face difficult realities, and 

846
00:44:45,720 --> 00:44:47,760
that they would find your joy in
the midst of it. 

847
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,160
Thank you, Father, for your 
goodness and your grace. 

848
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:53,320
We love you and we thank you, 
and we ask all these things in 

849
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:55,160
your name. 
Amen. 

850
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:58,400
Thank you for joining us today. 
River City Church is all about 

851
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:01,120
experiencing and expressing 
God's love in our lives and 

852
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:03,800
community, and we hope that 
you've been able to experience 

853
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:06,440
that today. 
As grateful as I am that you've 

854
00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:09,720
spent this time listening in 
this morning, this podcast is no

855
00:45:09,720 --> 00:45:12,760
substitute for full 
participation in a local church.

856
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,360
I love it when River City people
listen to other pastors, but it 

857
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:19,400
is those who show up week after 
week, faithfully giving their 

858
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:22,320
support and time and resources 
that make all of this possible. 

859
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:26,160
If we can help you get connected
to a local church, pray for you,

860
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:29,440
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861
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:31,560
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If you'd like to financially 

862
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:34,400
support the ministry of River 
City, click the give link on our

863
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:37,600
website in the description. 
Don't forget to subscribe and 

864
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:39,280
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865
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:42,280
Thanks so much for listening. 
May the Lord bless and keep you 

866
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:43,920
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