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Welcome to the River City Church
podcast and a message by our 

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lead pastor Jason Powers. 
Our prayer is that this message 

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would inspire and encourage you,
build your faith and point you 

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to the life changing love of 
Jesus. 

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May you enjoy the goodness of 
God as you follow him today. 

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We talked a couple weeks ago and
we just said like church 

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membership, especially if you've
been around the church for a 

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while, that can be kind of heavy
or or if not heavy, just 

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nothing, right? 
Like when I was at growing up to

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be a church member, literally 
all you had to do is get out of 

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your seat and walk down to the 
front of the church, right? 

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My Baptist Church is like shake 
somebody's hand and the guy 

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guess. 
If you had a good. 

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Handshakey welcome you into the 
church. 

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There is a thing called a letter
right? 

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Like I had to get a letter of 
membership. 

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My letter is still out there 
somewhere floating, floating 

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around, right. 
And the problem is we choose, we

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come to associate that as 
church. 

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Membership and So what we. 
Wanted to do what I wanted to do

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is we talked about this was kind
of rescue this idea from church 

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membership rescue it from 
thinking it's something like a 

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list somewhere in an office and 
change that and and kind of 

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recapture that and define it and
describe it as really a vibrant 

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partnership and what we've done 
is we've looked at that a couple

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different ways we're going to 
look at it the third way today. 

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One thing we talked about church
membership is as as belonging. 

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To be a church member is to be 
belonging. 

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And the symbol, the illustration
that we used to describe that is

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baptism. 
The word baptized literally 

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means to immerse. 
And so being a church member, to

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be a partner of the church, it's
not just to attend, it's not 

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just showing up to the things 
that are church things. 

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It's to be immersed in the life 
of the congregation. 

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We use the the illustration of 
the body and my liver is 

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committed. 
It is part of the process. 

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It doesn't get to sit out. 
It got doesn't get to take weeks

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off. 
When it starts taking weeks off,

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the whole body starts to go 
septic. 

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And what we talked about is, and
again, we're not just talking 

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about membership. 
It's entirely possible and I've 

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seen it many times to be in the 
church every time the door doors

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are open, but to not have your 
life reflect that. 

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So membership is to be immersed 
in the body and the in what God 

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is doing around. 
It's not just belonging, it's 

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also transformation. 
As we hang around, as you 

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immerse yourself in the body, 
your life will begin to be 

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transformed as granular as you 
want to get. 

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The more we follow Jesus, the 
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longer that we walk with him. 
Everything about us should 

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change. 
Our desires should change, the 

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things that we find satisfying 
should change. 

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And it's, and the way that we're
transformed is by the Holy 

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Spirit through discipline. 
And this is kind of a sketchy 

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and kind of a twitchy, like a 
relationship, right? 

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And what I want to say to you is
you can't change your heart. 

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This is where the church often 
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Like I want to change everybody 
else's heart, right? 

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Like somebody does something 
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And I just went like, like Lord,
just get him. 

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And Lord's like they're not the 
problem. 

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You're the problem. 
I can't even change my heart. 

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I certainly can't change your 
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What we saw last week was the. 
Way that our affections are 

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transformed, the way that our 
hearts are changed and 

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transformed is when we 
discipline, we just say like, 

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hey, I'm going to put my body in
a place and I'm going to submit 

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my body to this. 
And it's not about whether I 

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want to do it. 
It's not whether I feel like 

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doing it. 
It's like whether it's the thing

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that I should do or not. 
And what we find is when we 

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begin to put our body, our hands
and our feet in a certain place,

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what happens is our affections 
begin to be transformed today. 

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See. 
We're going to look at kind of 

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how all that comes together. 
See. 

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Previously like, like belonging.
Ultimately, that's up to you. 

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You get to decide where you 
immerse your life and you're 

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already deciding. 
Some of you immerse your life in

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work. 
Your whole entire life is lived 

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either going to work, being at 
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come, and that's a choice that 
you've made. 

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Some of you immerse your life in
family or in recreation or in 

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money or in power or whatever it
is, but you just say that's the 

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thing that I give my life to. 
And that's a decision that you 

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have made. 
Some of you have made a 

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decision. 
We make decisions how we're 

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going to discipline our lives, 
the things that we say yes to 

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and no to. 
And ultimately, that's a 

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decision that that you get to 
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But today what we want to look 
at is what happens when all of 

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these individual parts come 
together as you follow Jesus and

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I follow Jesus. 
How do How does our following 

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Jesus together impact around? 
US. 

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And one of the things that that 
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is that it's not unusual for 
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included in that to do. 
One of those things, well, maybe

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a couple of those things, well, 
right, like like maybe we do 

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belonging really well, right, 
but we're not like going 

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anywhere. 
We're like doing anything or 

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maybe we focus a lot on like the
transformation and the 

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discipline part of it, but we 
don't like belong to each other.

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So we're kind of mean and cranky
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And you've been a part of that. 
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misunderstand or when we live 
and tolerate an imbalance and 

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all of these things, real hurt 
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And my guess is some of you, if 
not many of you, if not most of 

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you have experienced something 
like that in the church. 

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And So what I want to do real 
quick, like I want to just 

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describe in a little bit. 
The first thing I want to know 

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is I want to tell you and share 
with you when that comes from my

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place, right? 
When the leadership of the 

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church does damage. 
And there are ways that we can 

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process this, that are that I 
can get it wrong that cause 

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damage, right? 
So one thing that we can do is 

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we can just say the body is most
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And what happens in here is what
happens to everybody and what 

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happens to that. 
And you may have been a victim 

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of this is when we just say we 
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What can happen is you get 
burned out and you begin to feel

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like a cog in the wheel of a 
church. 

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Machine. 
That's not very fun, is it? 

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When you start to go, hey, I 
maybe need to take a week off or

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take a break off because like my
entire life is falling apart and

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nobody ever asks you how you're 
doing. 

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Nobody ever says, hey, we value 
rest. 

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Nobody says that to you. 
They just go, well, we get to 

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get back on the schedule. 
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I want you to hear me say as 
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don't do that here. 
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one of the thing that presents 
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caring for people and because 
we're committed to not burning 

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people out, that means that 
sometimes it means that we won't

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rearrange the body in order to 
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And here's what that means. 
Sometimes we'll close a 

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children's ministry classroom 
rather than ask volunteers to 

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serve for the 247th week in a 
row so that they can go to 

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church and worship as well. 
Here's and we're right. 

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Some of you just think Jesus, 
praise loo you, Jesus, right? 

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Here's the problem. 
That's well and good until it's 

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your two year old that gets 
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And trust me, I don't want your 
two year old in here any more 

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than you want your two year old 
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I'm just kidding. 
I love your two year old, but 

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here's the idea. 
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Oh my gosh, why are they closing
this room? 

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Too many times the response is 
well, I see Miss Janie right 

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there. 
I see someone right here and 

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rather than the response should 
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a need here. 
How can I? 

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Help so we don't put the body 
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I want you to know we care about
you and our job is to help you 

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find what God has called you to 
do. 

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Another abuse that can go when 
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like, it's like the elevation of
one person and one gift above 

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all others. 
It would be just like, well, 

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Pastor Jason is the pastor and 
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And so whatever he wants must be
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What I would say to you is This 
is why our elder board is so 

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important because it's not just 
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And let me tell you, anytime 
that you elevate one person or 

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one gift set or one gift mix, 
and that person is not Jesus 

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Christ, the Carpenter from 
Nazareth who is risen and 

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raining at the right hand of 
God, Anytime one person starts 

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to elevate that place, people 
start to get abused. 

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It happens all the time when you
hear about pastors going off the

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rail and doing these abusive 
things, when you've experienced 

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it, and not just pastors, youth 
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when it becomes about their 
gift, their personality, they're

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annoying. 
You start to say really wild and

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crazy things, like we don't 
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Folks, I'm submitted to a group 
of elders and if I start being 

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abusive or crazy or arrogant, 
it's time for me to get fixed. 

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And if I'm submitted to that, 
what we ask is that you would 

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submit to that as well, that you
would allow people in your life 

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who are, who are spiritually 
mature, who are wise, who would 

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just say, hey, I think maybe God
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not committed to abuse. 
And so I do know that leadership

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structures on the church can 
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We elevate one person or one 
gift or we minimize you and you 

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just become a part of this 
thing. 

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That's that, you know, that's 
all of that. 

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But I also want to say part of 
it is on you as well, not you 

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specifically. 
Most of them were in first 

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service. 
You, you guys are looking 

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around. 
You guys are are are good, 

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right? 
But there can be a sense in the 

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church with believers are just 
like as, as and as much as we 

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have rightly talked about 
spiritual gifts, right? 

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There can be this kind of gift 
protectiveness, right? 

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Like where we walk around, we 
walk around the church and we 

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see a need and they're 
responsible. 

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That's just not my gift. 
Well, I don't, I don't, I don't 

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have that gift and listen, so I 
have teenagers and every once in

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a while in my house, a teenager 
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rarely, though, they'll like 
leave a dish out sometimes and 

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just forget to do it right. 
And my response is always like, 

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if you don't want to clean your 
dish, why do you think I want to

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clean your dish, right. 
And so sometimes we've now who 

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does it. 
Right. 

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Like we do it because it's 
important for the household to 

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run. 
And so sometimes we just go, oh,

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well, I see that need, but I 
can't meet that need, right? 

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I'll serve where I can, but I, I
really don't want to serve in 

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that place because I can't 
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And they're going to ask me to 
do it often, more often than I 

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want to. 
Or they're going to put me on a 

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schedule. 
And I don't really want to 

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submit my schedule because what 
if something comes up? 

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Or what if it's uncomfortable 
for me? 

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And what if they asked me to do 
something that makes me feel? 

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Weird or unusual or 
uncomfortable, right? 

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And So what happens is we have 
this dance, right? 

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And again, like this is one of 
those chicken or egg things, 

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right? 
Like you have maybe some leaders

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who asked too much of you. 
And so you get gun shy and you 

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say, well, I'll never do that 
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And so we get very kind of 
particular about where where we 

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are. 
And So what happens then is the 

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church gets lopsided, it gets 
imbalanced and damage can start 

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to do damage can start to 
happen. 

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And what I want to say is the 
church isn't supposed to be like

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this. 
That's not how it's supposed to 

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look, but often it is. 
And what I want to submit to you

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is that Paul, the apostle Paul 
in the letter to the Ephesians, 

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what Tony read today invites us 
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And the way that Paul describes,
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of the big idea and we're going 
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right? 
The big idea is this. 

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The body of Christ is best when 
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Every part does its part, right?
The engine in my car has lots of

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parts and relatively speaking, 
they all usually work and do and

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do their part and when they 
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wrong. 
There are no small parts in your

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body. 
Hang your pinky toe on a door 

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jamb ruins the rest of your day,
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Your liver gets sick, your whole
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So what does Paul say? 
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So Paul says in Ephesians 
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Now grace was given to each one.
I'm going to stop. 

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You're like if you stop every 4 
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the thing. 
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pull up front what we're talking
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unpack and uncover, is grace. 
Grace. 

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Now, you've probably heard of 
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gift of forgiveness for your 
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And it is that. 
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to hold up is Paul's not talking
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salvation right now in this. 
It is a manner of our salvation.

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It is a form, it is an 
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It is the fruit of our 
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But he's not talking about that 
initial gift of forgiveness that

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changes us, that moves us from 
the Kingdom of darkness into the

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Kingdom of light. 
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else. 
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And what I want to hold on to is
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get the whole way that we all 
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missing is grace. 
And when we do the hard, 

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difficult sacrificial work of 
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sure, it's costly. 
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us. 
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grace, but it'll. 
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Grace, and we'll experience it 
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So he says grace was given to 
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measure of Christ's gift. 
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If you're following Jesus, grace
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you. 
Grace has been given, and what 

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we're told is it's given 
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Christ's fullness. 
And so listen, there's some 

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people that you know. 
And you know, if they invite you

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to dinner, you better eat 
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have skimpy portions, right? 
Because they're stingy. 

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And you just know, right? 
Like I'm not getting a second 

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Taco and there are other people 
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House that that you when they 
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You. 
It is so decadent that it's like

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borderline sinful, right? 
And you're just like, I want to 

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go to that house because I will 
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Some people are wired like that.
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Jesus's table. 
It is always a feast. 

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There is more than you could 
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There's more grace than you 
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You will have new flavors and 
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moment of every day that you 
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Christ is not skimpy. 
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He does not withhold, and that 
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It be awesome to walk in that, 
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that. 
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has been given to each one. 
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high, he took the cactus 
captive, he gave gifts to 

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people. 
So this is a picture of an 

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ancient kingdoms, right? 
When a conquering king would go 

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conquer another Kingdom, he 
would bring their prisoners of 

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war, he would bring all their 
soldiers, and he would March 

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them through town as an example,
as a spectacle. 

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Look how much mightier we are 
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And this victorious king would 
take all the plunder and all the

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spoils of war and he would 
distribute it to the citizens as

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an example and an evidence of 
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And what we're told is that's 
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That's what Jesus does for his 
followers. 

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He gives them grace, abundant 
grace and it's and their gifts, 

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they are purely spiritual gifts 
of grace. 

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And So what I want to say is 
when Jesus asks you to follow 

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him, when I stand here and say, 
listen, I want you to follow 

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him. 
I want you to give your whole 

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life to him. 
I want you to organize your 

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relationships around him. 
I want you to organize your 

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finances around him, your free 
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I'm not asking you to do 
something that is a drag, even 

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though it may hurt and be costly
at first. 

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I'm asking you to and inviting 
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grace. 
And something happens in this 

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place when. 
We gather as a people of grace. 

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That's why our mission is what 
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We talked about membership, 
about participation in this body

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and our mission as His body is 
we are a church for New 

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Braunfels. 
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We don't exist for ourselves. 
Our job isn't. 

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Here to be the biggest or the 
best or the flashiest or the 

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most well known. 
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mission is to be for New 
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if River City were for some 
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Braunfels that no longer hear 
that there would be outcry in 

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the streets. 
Who's going to? 

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Feed all the people. 
Who's going to take care of all 

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the foster kids if River City is
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If God's people of his church is
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River City is a church for New 
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And here's how we're for New 
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experiencing and expressing 
God's love in our lives and our 

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community. 
The way that we are for New 

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Braunfels is by experiencing and
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And it has to happen in that 
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way. 
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and we told you about our 
outreach to provide shoes for 

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foster kids, right? 
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The reason that we give shoes to
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reason I, my family bought a 
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It is our way of saying the Lord
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abundant to me. 
I am now able to get now I got 

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kids at home and they need, they
need man, right? 

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And so, but what we have decided
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abundant. 
And so as much as we love to 

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give to our kids, right, we give
to others because we have 

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received His abundance, the 
grace that He has given us. 

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We give away the reason. 
We pray at the end. 

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Of the service, we're going to 
have people to pray. 

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I see Mitch and Marshall right 
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They love to pray, right? 
Do you know why we pray for you?

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Because we've experienced 
answers to prayer and we believe

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that it's real. 
The grace that we have received,

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we give. 
The reason that we volunteer 

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here is because this church has 
made an impact on our lives. 

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The reason my kids follow Jesus 
isn't because Dad's so awesome. 

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I'm just dad to them. 
You have not met a more clueless

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person in my home than me, 
right? 

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According to my kids, And that's
fine. 

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You know why my kids follow 
Jesus? 

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Because they've watched you 
follow Jesus. 

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They believe the church works 
because they have seen the 

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church work. 
That's what sets this place 

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apart from Costco. 
I walk into Costco and I walk 

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through the doors. 
And this is all the bounty that 

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America has to offer for my 
consumption. 

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I get to choose what do I want? 
What brand of battery do I want 

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today? 
Let me decide, honey, right? 

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Do we want tacos tonight or 
shellfish? 

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It's all there and we approach 
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That way. 
I've given my hour this. 

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Week. 
Please me with the musical. 

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Offering right, I get it. 
The difference is instead, as 

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the body of Christ, we take care
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When my head hurts, my hand puts
the medicine in my mouth and my 

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stomach digests it so that my 
headache will go away. 

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And what I'm inviting us to do 
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being. 
There's a difference between an 

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owner and an employee, right? 
Some of you are business owners.

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When we were starting this 
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it on our own, somebody said the
great thing about being your own

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boss, the great thing about 
being a small business owner is 

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you get to work whatever 18 
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To work, right? 
Like, because like, who else is 

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going to do it? 
But when I'm an employee, I'm 

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just like, peace out. 
It is 5:00 and I'm done for this

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today, right? 
So the invitation when we are 

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immersed is not to show up 
shopping for a religious 

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experience, but to own the 
ministry that happens here. 

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And what I would say is I can't 
own that for you and you can't 

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own that for me. 
But that whole idea of gifts and

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grace and in distributing his 
word, See, that's right. 

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We believe that God wants grace 
for the whole world. 

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You know how God gives grace to 
the world? 

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He gives it to you and tells you
to go and Genesis, right? 

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What did he tell? 
Abraham said I'm going to bless 

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you. 
I'm going to make you a 

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blessing. 
So many times I'm just like, oh,

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I've got grace. 
That's for me. 

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Now I'm resting and I'm going to
sit and I'm going to like, once 

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this grace is gone, then I'll go
look for more grace. 

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But the point of grace is to 
take it and to multiply it, and 

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to expand it so that wherever 
you go, grace is there. 

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That's why we make such a big 
deal out of Back to School 

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Sunday from wherever you may 
come and whatever you may 

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believe about the schools and 
the country or the state or the 

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city or the world or whatever, 
if you're a follower of Jesus, 

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you're sending a grace ball 
there. 

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Remind them that they are grace 
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They're not adjutants. 
They they like, they go in the 

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name of Jesus with grace and 
gifts for them. 

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So that's the interpretive key 
to understanding the grace that 

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Jesus gives his church. 
It's this spiritual gifts are 

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for you to offer the body, not 
to keep for yourself. 

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God has given you grace. 
And there's more grace 

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surrounding your life than you 
can fathom or consume. 

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And the way to experience it is 
to begin giving it away. 

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And the more that you practice 
giving it away, the more aware 

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of it you are. 
The more you begin to experience

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it, the more you become, the 
more likely you are to live a 

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life marked by grace. 
And Paul describes it this way, 

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verse 11. 
He himself gave some to be 

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apostles, some prophets, some 
evangelists, some pastors and 

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teachers to equip the Saints for
the work of ministry to build up

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the body of Christ. 
Now we see this list and we 

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think like, oh, these are 
spiritual gifts. 

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These are not spiritual gifts. 
There is not the spiritual gift 

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of apostle. 
There is not the spiritual gift 

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of prophet. 
These are roles. 

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These are offices played not 
with a title. 

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Not so that I can get it on my 
name tag. 

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Right? 
So he said he gave some to be 

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apostles. 
The apostles are starters. 

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They're the ones that are The 
Pioneers. 

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They are the ones who begin and 
listen. 

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It happens all the time. 
People will come to me and 

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they'll just be like, hey, 
there's not a small group in my 

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house. 
Can I like get people together? 

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You know what? 
You, my friend, are being an 

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apostle into your neighborhood. 
You are taking the message and 

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the mission and the ministry of 
Jesus into the place where you 

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are in the same way that Paul 
took it all around the world. 

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You take as an apostle, you take
it where you go. 

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The prophets. 
Prophets are not. 

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Fortune tellers. 
They are not future seers. 

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They are the ones who see and 
declare God's Word and His 

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purpose and His mission in this 
world. 

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It is often wrapped up in 
messages like Justice. 

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Like like on in this apostle, 
prophet, evangelist, shepherd, 

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teacher kind of framework. 
This is the place that I walk in

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the prophetic. 
But listen, so I walk in the 

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prophetic, right? 
So that's when I get loud. 

452
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:53,200
That's what that is, right? 
But listen, my gift, my 

453
00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,880
spiritual gift is encouragement.
So what I'm going to tell you 

454
00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:59,120
when I'm going to look at you 
and then just go like, hey, 

455
00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:03,640
you've got too much to offer to 
sit on your Duff like you're 

456
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:07,160
doing. 
It's no problem for me to be 

457
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:09,840
like you should care about this 
more than you do. 

458
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,200
You should be involved in this 
more than you do. 

459
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,600
But you know when I say that to 
you, do you know why I say it to

460
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:16,400
you? 
It's because I. 

461
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:20,120
Actually think you're capable of
more than you do you think 

462
00:24:20,120 --> 00:24:24,920
you're just a guy or a lady with
a mortgage and a headache and 

463
00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:29,240
kids and a broken husband. 
And I'm here to tell you, you 

464
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:35,600
that resonated with someone. 
I don't want to know who, right?

465
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:38,480
I don't. 
You can come talk to me 

466
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:46,380
afterwards, all right? 
Deeply loved. 

467
00:24:46,900 --> 00:24:49,820
We are badly broken and deeply 
loved indeed. 

468
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,240
So you see, so the idea is like 
I have a gift and my gift 

469
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:58,080
enables me to walk out this 
office that that that I play 

470
00:24:58,080 --> 00:24:59,840
here. 
When I stand here and I preach 

471
00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:02,400
and I preach with the thing, 
it's like it's like it's not all

472
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:05,120
of it and it takes all of us. 
And I look at so I think about 

473
00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:07,920
Alyssa our. 
Our sweet little worship leader,

474
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:09,440
right? 
And she loves it when I call her

475
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:12,600
that, right? 
When Alyssa leads worship, she 

476
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:15,200
leads as an evangelist. 
When you listen to Alyssa, what 

477
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:17,800
does Alyssa say? 
She says things like taste and 

478
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:20,360
see that the Lord is good. 
There's this inviting tone. 

479
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,800
She is a worship leader, but she
leads. 

480
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:24,560
She leads in this evangelistic 
role. 

481
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:26,600
My wife Natalie will often lead 
worship. 

482
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:30,400
Natalie leads prophetically. 
Alyssa will read a Psalm and 

483
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:33,600
she's the 23rd Psalm and she's 
like, oh, taste and see that the

484
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:36,160
Lord is good and she's right and
it's true. 

485
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,360
My wife will get up and she'll 
go put your hands up. 

486
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:42,600
Yeah, right. 
Yes, ma'am. 

487
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:44,400
Right. 
And guess what? 

488
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:48,880
She's true too. 
It takes both. 

489
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:55,120
But the problem is we have 
elevated this aspect in the 

490
00:25:55,120 --> 00:25:57,560
church. 
What I do, the prophetic, the 

491
00:25:57,560 --> 00:26:00,360
teaching part, Right. 
But the problem is if we don't 

492
00:26:00,360 --> 00:26:02,560
have all, we are in balance. 
If we have. 

493
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:05,120
Shepherds without, without 
profits. 

494
00:26:05,360 --> 00:26:08,480
Like if we have what we have, 
then it's like holy huddles and 

495
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:12,960
it's nice for a minute, but it 
doesn't change anything. 

496
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,360
It doesn't do anything. 
It feels good for now because 

497
00:26:15,360 --> 00:26:18,160
nobody ever challenges me or 
takes except for me. 

498
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:21,360
But if we have profits without 
shepherds, we have people 

499
00:26:21,360 --> 00:26:24,760
crushed under the weight of an 
example that they can never live

500
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,240
up. 
To it takes both. 

501
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:30,920
If we have evangelists without 
teachers, we have shallow 

502
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:36,440
crowds. 
Wide is the day, but shallow, 

503
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:38,920
nothing substantial. 
On the other hand, if we have 

504
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:42,880
teachers without shepherds, 
without evangelists, we become 

505
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:46,600
small and insulated. 
We get legalistic. 

506
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:49,920
We begin to believe that we are 
morally superior because we have

507
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:53,120
truth. 
For every shepherd, we need a 

508
00:26:53,120 --> 00:26:58,600
prophet and an evangelist and an
apostle and a teacher because 

509
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:01,320
there's no gift of guest 
services. 

510
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:05,040
There's no spiritual gift of 
holding open the door. 

511
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,640
But my guess is you smiled when 
somebody greeted you today. 

512
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:12,000
The thing about this is like you
come in and I and I, some of you

513
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:13,600
are, you're so kind of me and 
you talk about this. 

514
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:17,320
But listen, before you ever hear
me preach a word, you have 

515
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:21,600
encountered the body of Christ 
as you engage in our parking 

516
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:25,080
situation. 
Maybe you rode on the golf cart 

517
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,720
with Bob. 
You're experiencing the body of 

518
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:31,200
Christ as you walk through the 
door and you get a fresh cup of 

519
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:33,160
coffee that somebody has made 
for you. 

520
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,880
You're experiencing the body of 
Christ when you hear the worship

521
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:40,080
team sing songs and your heart 
is moved or you think some of 

522
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:42,280
you're experiencing the body of 
Christ. 

523
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:45,240
And it takes everybody doing 
their part, standing in their 

524
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:49,200
role to make all of it work. 
So we there's no such thing as 

525
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:53,000
the spiritual gift of children's
ministry. 

526
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,720
But what there is is an 
opportunity for all of these 

527
00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:59,560
apes expressions. 
There's an opportunity for all 

528
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:03,720
of the the apostles to love and 
to care for kids. 

529
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:08,200
There's an example for the 
prophets to talk to our young 

530
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:14,200
people about justice and 
righteousness and holiness. 

531
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:19,360
But they won't get it if you 
won't go there and because we. 

532
00:28:19,360 --> 00:28:23,120
Care about the body. 
I am not going to send the 20% 

533
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:27,720
to do what the 80% won't. 
What we're going to ask the 20% 

534
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:31,320
to do is to do what God has 
called them to do, and then 

535
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:34,720
we'll be fine with the rest. 
We have seen God be abundantly 

536
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:39,120
faithful, but we're committed to
doing whatever the body is able 

537
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:41,360
to and the gifts. 
The grace that you. 

538
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:42,520
Receive. 
It's for the good of all. 

539
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:44,440
Listen to what Paul says in 
First Corinthians. 

540
00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:47,400
We're going to start in First 
Corinthians chapter 12, verse 

541
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,760
30, and Paul asks some 
rhetorical questions, right? 

542
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:53,200
Do all have the spiritual gift 
of healing? 

543
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,760
No is the rhetorical answer. 
No, they don't. 

544
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:59,000
Here's a good one. 
Do all speak in tongues? 

545
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:03,280
Tongues isn't the sign. 
It's a sign, but it just says 

546
00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:06,680
the rhetorical answer is no, not
all will speak in tongues. 

547
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:08,480
And some of you are super 
nervous right now. 

548
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,880
And some of you are. 
Super excited right now and 

549
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:14,800
you're ready to go. 
But the idea is we all have a 

550
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,080
part. 
Not everybody does this and not 

551
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:19,400
everybody does that to all 
interpret. 

552
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:23,560
But listen, desire the greater 
gifts and I will show you a 

553
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:25,440
better way. 
See, the problem is we just 

554
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:27,280
know. 
I want to know what my gift is. 

555
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:30,680
I want to know my specific 
special thing to do and what 

556
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:32,560
Paul's saying. 
Like, look, it's good to know 

557
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:34,160
that. 
It's good to know what you do 

558
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,880
says, but if you want to know 
something, I'm going to show you

559
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:38,920
the best thing that you can 
know. 

560
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:42,600
If I speak in human or angelic 
tongues, but I don't have love, 

561
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:48,360
I'm a gong or clinging cymbal. 
If I had to get to prophecy and 

562
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:50,720
I understand all mysteries and 
all knowledge and if I have all 

563
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:53,040
faith so that I can move 
mountains, but I don't have 

564
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:58,600
love, I am nothing. 
And if I give away all my 

565
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:01,080
possessions and if I give over 
my body in order to boast, but I

566
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:03,800
do not have love, I gain 
nothing. 

567
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:08,320
See, when Paul ties giftedness 
to love, what he's saying. 

568
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:11,360
See, here's the thing for love, 
there is no defining, there's no

569
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:14,640
context for love apart from 
someone else. 

570
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:18,760
I'm so good at being like Jesus 
when there's nobody within 

571
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:21,520
earshot or eye shot and I don't 
have to contend with another 

572
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:24,840
human being. 
I'm a perfectly fine driver 

573
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:27,920
until there's another car on the
road, right? 

574
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:36,000
Love demands another. 
Your gift, in order for it to be

575
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:40,960
the grace that God has for you, 
your gift requires another. 

576
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:46,120
It requires A recipient. 
And So what Paul is saying is 

577
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:49,240
the best way to find your place 
in the body, the best way to 

578
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:53,120
participate, this isn't by 
knowing your gift, it's by 

579
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:57,120
loving. 
It's by choosing and finding a 

580
00:30:57,120 --> 00:31:02,200
way and a place to love people 
and going there and paying 

581
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,960
attention. 
And what I would say is that is 

582
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:09,960
what this is about. 
That is why we do this. 

583
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:15,240
Practicing your role in the body
is the actual pathway to 

584
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:18,240
spiritual maturity. 
And here I want to apologize 

585
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:22,520
because some of you learned that
the secret to spiritual maturity

586
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:27,400
was a long quiet time. 
And as much as I think that 

587
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:30,600
spiritual maturity may enable 
and allow some people to do 

588
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:35,560
really long quiet times, I also 
know people who spend great deal

589
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:39,400
of time with the Lord and they 
are mean and cranky and 

590
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:44,560
exceedingly UN Jesus like. 
And that's not the call, that's 

591
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:49,760
not the invitation. 
Spiritual maturity is only 

592
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:54,880
achieved when the whole body is 
growing together. 

593
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:58,040
And in order for that happened 
to happen, we need you listen 

594
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:06,480
verse 13 in Ephesians chapter 4,
until we all reach unity in the 

595
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:08,040
faith and in the knowledge of 
God. 

596
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:10,200
Son, let me say just real quick 
on point on this, right? 

597
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,480
We're going to teach on 
Ephesians coming up real quick. 

598
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:15,720
When we say unity in the faith, 
it does not mean that we all 

599
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:21,280
believe exactly the same thing. 
In fact, it means that we 

600
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:23,160
specifically and deliberately 
don't. 

601
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:26,680
Within our elder board, we have 
an elder who grew up in Baptist 

602
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:30,520
churches in South Alabama and we
have elders who grew up in 

603
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:34,080
Baptist churches in West TX. 
We have people that have been 

604
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:37,880
formed by Assemblies of God 
churches and all kinds of 

605
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:39,600
things. 
And we've agreed that we did. 

606
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:43,480
We agree on the on the creeds I 
believe in God the Father 

607
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:46,960
Almighty maker of heaven earth 
Jesus Christ is only begotten 

608
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:48,880
son. 
All of these things that we 

609
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:52,960
agree on these, right, a lot of 
other stuff we love each other 

610
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:57,000
because. 
Unity in the faith says we 

611
00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:59,000
follow. 
Jesus. 

612
00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:01,440
He's the one. 
So we go. 

613
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:06,240
Oh, Revelation, right? 
Like Rapture. 

614
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:07,800
Not rapture. 
I don't know. 

615
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:10,480
We'll know someday. 
Let's go. 

616
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,240
Once saved, always saved. 
I don't know. 

617
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:15,880
We'll know someday. 
Jesus is king. 

618
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:17,760
He's coming back. 
Let's go. 

619
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:21,320
And we walk together, unity in 
the faith till we all reach 

620
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:24,000
unity in the faith and in the 
knowledge of God's Son, growing 

621
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:28,640
into maturity with a stature 
measured by Christ's fullness, 

622
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:30,480
the. 
Goal of River City Church is to 

623
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,960
be mature followers and 
believers of Jesus. 

624
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:38,080
Not just believers who don't 
follow, not just followers who 

625
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,760
aren't growing in our 
understanding, but believing 

626
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:44,520
fevers who are following Jesus. 
And he goes on to now tell us 

627
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:46,720
what immaturity looks like, 
right? 

628
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:49,600
Then we will no longer be like 
little children. 

629
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:51,440
Little children are the immature
ones, right? 

630
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:54,560
We won't be like little children
tossed by the waves and blown 

631
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:57,560
around by every wind of 
teaching, by human cunning with 

632
00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,680
cleverness in the techniques of 
deceit. 

633
00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:03,600
Listen, one of the great 
critiques of the church is that 

634
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:08,040
the church has been gullible. 
We've bought into every, every, 

635
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:10,760
what are they called conspiracy 
theory out there. 

636
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:12,600
We get hooked. 
We believe, right? 

637
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,880
Several years ago, long time 
ago, a book called The Da Vinci 

638
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:20,040
Code and the church just lost 
its ever loving mind because it 

639
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:22,080
says it's a novel on the front 
right? 

640
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,320
And people are like, what if 
Jesus was married and made 

641
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:29,080
Magdalene? 
Problem problem. 

642
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:34,480
When we Co-op the mechanisms of 
the Church to any outside body 

643
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:38,800
or entity or force. 
We're being children, spiritual 

644
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,440
children. 
We have one father in our job. 

645
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:42,760
And listen. 
Do you know how we. 

646
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:48,000
We go against that. 
Teachers, prophets, shepherds, 

647
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:52,159
apostles, evangelists doing 
their role right. 

648
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:55,159
Then we won't. 
Be like that when we're mature. 

649
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,960
But so instead of that, here's 
what maturity looks like. 

650
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:04,440
Speaking the truth in love. 
Let us grow in every way into 

651
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:11,200
Him who is the head. 
Maturity isn't being righteous 

652
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:15,840
in your prayer closet and then a
jerk at the table at the 

653
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:20,800
restaurant to the waitress. 
It's not having faith in your 

654
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:25,640
home and being cutthroat and 
manipulative at work. 

655
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:32,640
It is being who you are before 
the Lord and growing, speaking 

656
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:36,240
the truth in love. 
And we tend to go one way or the

657
00:35:36,240 --> 00:35:38,240
other, don't we? 
You're probably wired to either 

658
00:35:38,240 --> 00:35:40,640
speak the truth or to be to be 
loving. 

659
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:43,880
We need both. 
Because if you are truth teller,

660
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:48,680
you can destroy people and you 
can hurt people and that's not 

661
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:51,400
what the body is for. 
You don't like it when I do it 

662
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:52,600
right? 
Like I know the truth you want 

663
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:55,120
me to like it's not a sword to 
be wielded. 

664
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:58,720
But we can also get so squishy 
in the love part that we stopped

665
00:35:58,720 --> 00:36:01,360
telling people like, hey, do you
see how your life isn't working?

666
00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:05,680
What if you just brought your 
relationships under the lordship

667
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:09,040
of Jesus and just submitted to 
his plan for your marriage? 

668
00:36:09,720 --> 00:36:13,320
What if you just tried that for 
a minute and see, and I'll walk 

669
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:17,440
with you and I'll help. 
What if you just like bring your

670
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:19,240
kids to church? 
Oh, they don't. 

671
00:36:19,240 --> 00:36:22,680
They don't want to make them 
brush their teeth. 

672
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:27,400
You make them eat vegetables, of
course, because some things are 

673
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:30,120
important, right? 
So what if we just say, hey, 

674
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:32,480
we're going to raise our 
household, we're going to do 

675
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:35,360
things, we're going to teach our
kids to know and to follow 

676
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:38,560
Jesus, right? 
And So what that looks like then

677
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:42,120
is health in verse 16 from him, 
from Jesus, the whole body 

678
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:45,920
fitted and knit together by 
every supporting ligament. 

679
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:47,240
He's pinning a picture of a 
body. 

680
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:49,560
You don't grow up, right? 
My arms sticking out of my 

681
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:52,200
chest, right? 
Everything's in its place. 

682
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:54,840
My spleen knows where to go, my 
liver knows where to go. 

683
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:58,000
All my parts know what to do 
because Jesus put it together 

684
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,200
and all the parts that are there
hold it together. 

685
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:02,840
In the same way. 
This church is like that. 

686
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:05,880
Within the context of this room 
that God has put together, there

687
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:09,480
are apostles and prophets and 
evangelists and shepherds and 

688
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:11,360
teachers. 
Some of you know it and are 

689
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,240
doing it. 
Some of you don't don't know it 

690
00:37:13,240 --> 00:37:15,360
and aren't doing it. 
But some of you know it and 

691
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:17,480
aren't doing it. 
And listen, I'm not guilting 

692
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:18,560
you. 
I'm not shaming you. 

693
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:24,800
I'm telling you, there is grace 
waiting for you, and there is 

694
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:28,800
grace for this community as this
church becomes not what I want. 

695
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:31,640
You can't believe how small my 
visions and dreams for the 

696
00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:34,240
church are. 
And you can't imagine how great 

697
00:37:34,240 --> 00:37:36,480
God's visions and dreams for 
this church are. 

698
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:39,040
And when we begin to go, yeah, I
guess I got to reorder my life 

699
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:41,600
around that. 
What you're saying is I will 

700
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:44,680
choose to put an opportunity for
grace before. 

701
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:50,800
Everything for everything. 
Did I finish that? 

702
00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:55,040
Oh yeah, ligaments that promotes
the growth of the body for 

703
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:58,280
building itself up in love by 
the proper working of each 

704
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:00,040
individual part. 
Here's what that means. 

705
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:05,440
I'm not the church. 
The staff is not the church. 

706
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:09,960
You are the church. 
And you go to places that will 

707
00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:13,880
never invite me, and you go to 
places that Alyssa will never 

708
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:18,360
get into. 
And that's God's design. 

709
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:22,600
That's the plan. 
The way that he gets Grace into 

710
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:26,840
places is he puts it in people 
and then he sends them there. 

711
00:38:27,720 --> 00:38:32,640
So when we talk about 
volunteering or serving or 

712
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:36,400
getting involved or connection, 
I think we don't probably say 

713
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:39,160
this often enough, but I want to
say it now. 

714
00:38:40,720 --> 00:38:45,080
We're not asking you to do that 
so that you can help us out. 

715
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:49,080
When we talk about financial 
generosity, about you giving, 

716
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:53,000
we're not asking that because I 
go, oh, we need to go. 

717
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:58,040
Listen, we've decided as elders 
we are going to live within what

718
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:01,880
God provides, full stop, more or
less. 

719
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:06,040
But what I'm saying is you have 
dreams and visions for your 

720
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:08,920
family, maybe for your 
community, for your job, for 

721
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:10,760
your work. 
And what I'm saying is we want 

722
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:14,840
to go be part of that as well. 
So when we talked about 

723
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:16,960
children's ministry, do you know
why we talked about children's 

724
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,000
ministry? 
It's not so that it's quieter in

725
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:25,120
this room, it's so that those 
kids will grow up and know that 

726
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:26,920
the church is a place where they
can be loved. 

727
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:29,600
And you know what I want in 
children's ministry? 

728
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:32,520
I want prophets to be in the 
children's ministry talking to 

729
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:36,120
my children about justice. 
I want the shepherds to be there

730
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:38,800
so that my kids know that they 
are loved in community. 

731
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,560
I want the teachers to be in 
children's ministry because I 

732
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:43,600
want. 
I want them to know the word of 

733
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:45,280
God. 
I want them to be familiar with 

734
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:48,000
what it says in this book. 
But I got a gig on Sunday 

735
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:49,480
morning. 
I can't go up there. 

736
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:53,520
I need. 
You like oh, but it's awful. 

737
00:39:55,440 --> 00:40:00,680
Yeah, maybe. 
If you go to the children's 

738
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:03,600
ministry and for five weeks, 
it's just awful. 

739
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:07,080
That's not your place. 
Listen, my first job in ministry

740
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:09,800
was youth ministry. 
Teenagers, Do you know what 

741
00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:11,880
confirmed my calling to youth 
ministry? 

742
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:15,440
I did children's ministry for 
five weeks and I knew that is 

743
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:20,200
not the place. 
But I didn't give up. 

744
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:25,160
I went somewhere else. 
And I've seen a lot of new faces

745
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:27,040
serving over the last couple 
weeks, and it makes me awesome. 

746
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:30,920
But my encouragement to you is. 
Go find grace. 

747
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:34,240
It's not about helping us out. 
It's not about doing me a solid.

748
00:40:34,240 --> 00:40:38,400
It's about you experiencing God 
and then going into your world 

749
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:41,160
and expressing him. 
So here's how we do that, right?

750
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:42,520
Three kind of ways, Three quick 
ways. 

751
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,400
Here's what we do. 
Number one, we show up. 

752
00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:52,280
We show up for our family. 
We go to things for our kids. 

753
00:40:52,720 --> 00:40:56,160
We take our kids to things for 
their brothers and sisters. 

754
00:40:56,560 --> 00:41:01,480
And So what I would say is show 
up to worship, show up to serve,

755
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:03,960
show up to your small group, 
you're like. 

756
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:07,080
So busy, I got so much things. 
Yeah, listen, I get it. 

757
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:09,360
I know. 
Here's simply what I'm asking 

758
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:13,080
you to do is restructure your 
entire life. 

759
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:16,040
That wasn't clear. 
I should have made that clear up

760
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:18,360
front. 
I'm asking you to reorganize 

761
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:23,240
your entire life around grace. 
And So what that would mean will

762
00:41:23,240 --> 00:41:26,320
be doing some things less than 
you used to do and doing other 

763
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:30,240
things more than you used to. 
And the hope is that by showing 

764
00:41:30,240 --> 00:41:32,640
up, you'll encounter grace. 
You will hear the stories of 

765
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:36,720
people who are encountering and 
living in and walking in grace. 

766
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:39,640
Showing up is first. 
The second thing is to step in, 

767
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:43,120
bring what you've got. 
Some of you have been studying 

768
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,920
the word for your entire lives 
and you are a treasure trove 

769
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:47,720
that you are keeping to 
yourself. 

770
00:41:47,720 --> 00:41:51,320
Please share that. 
Please go be a teacher in 

771
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:54,120
children's ministry or in youth 
ministry or teach a class. 

772
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:57,360
Go talk to Brian or join a small
group and share what you have. 

773
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,520
And some of you and like some of
you have been following Jesus 

774
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:01,680
for so long and you're just 
crusty. 

775
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:04,200
Like you got to get going and 
you're like, you know too much 

776
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:05,680
to be good. 
Stop it. 

777
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:08,440
Go share with someone else. 
And now I want to talk to you to

778
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:11,000
like some of you have been 
following Jesus for 8 minutes 

779
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:13,840
and you're just like right. 
Like you're plugged in, you're 

780
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:15,440
wired for sound, you're ready to
go. 

781
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:18,840
We need you too. 
You guys go and listen. 

782
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:20,520
I don't need you to be what 
you're not. 

783
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:22,240
I need you to be exactly what 
you are. 

784
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:24,880
I need you to go find one of 
those crusty old people and 

785
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:27,480
listen the crust where they are.
Just attach yourself to them, 

786
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:28,640
right? 
And just ask them all the 

787
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:29,920
questions. 
Why does this work? 

788
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:31,480
Why does that happen? 
Why did Jesus say that? 

789
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:32,640
Where's that? 
What's that book? 

790
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:35,520
Where does that go? 
Make them tell you because you 

791
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:38,800
know what? 
We need your energy and we need 

792
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:41,720
to remember. 
Listen, every every often people

793
00:42:41,720 --> 00:42:44,240
come to me and say, Oh man, I 
was reading this book and God 

794
00:42:44,240 --> 00:42:46,960
spoke to me. 
That's so huge. 

795
00:42:47,240 --> 00:42:49,920
I need to remember. 
So that happens. 

796
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:51,600
So you got to show up and you 
just. 

797
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:55,560
Got to bring exactly what you 
have, excitement, passion, 

798
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:59,320
enthusiasm, because what I know 
on the authority of this is you 

799
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:02,560
have grace and you have a gift 
and you have something to give. 

800
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:05,680
So find a place and be shaped by
that. 

801
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:08,800
And so here's like that mean you
you old heads that know all the 

802
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:10,800
stuff. 
You're you're going to be 

803
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:12,880
changed. 
That's why it's simple. 

804
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:14,360
We don't show up with a 
teenager. 

805
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:17,480
Just be like, OK, teens. 
Now I've got something to tell 

806
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:19,160
you. 
Listen, I'm relatively close to 

807
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:20,560
him, right? 
I'm a good solid Gen. 

808
00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:22,840
XI was born in the 70s. 
All that the world is different.

809
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:28,040
It's a different world. 
I need them to tell me. 

810
00:43:28,720 --> 00:43:32,120
But you know what? 
I have stability, wisdom and 

811
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:36,920
encouragement, which for those 
kids, Grace, I believe in you 

812
00:43:37,240 --> 00:43:43,520
change the world, right show up,
step in thirdly, share freely, 

813
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:49,480
live generously towards the 
people of God. 

814
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:53,360
And like we talked about it last
week, like we talked about 

815
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:56,200
giving and I didn't say 10% 
right like that because for some

816
00:43:56,200 --> 00:44:00,240
of you, 10% is an astronomically
unreasonable number for you 

817
00:44:00,240 --> 00:44:02,280
right now. 
You've been consuming 100% for 

818
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:05,320
the rest of for your, for your 
entire life and for you to 

819
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:09,240
restructure so that there's some
is a huge step of faith. 

820
00:44:09,240 --> 00:44:11,280
And what I would say is the Lord
rewards your faith. 

821
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:14,720
Some of you have been giving 10%
for so long that it has ceased 

822
00:44:14,720 --> 00:44:18,200
to be any kind of sacrifice or 
anything for you at all. 

823
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:22,960
And what I would ask is how is 
your calendar and your finances 

824
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:26,600
indicating your allegiance and 
following to Jesus? 

825
00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:30,920
When we asked you to share in 
and invest in River City, what 

826
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:38,120
we're talking about is investing
in foster kids, homeless kids, 

827
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:44,840
abused people, right? 
Justice, hospitality, mercy. 

828
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:47,960
That's what we're about. 
That's what his church is. 

829
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:51,680
And this is how God uses His 
church to be for New Braunfels. 

830
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:55,280
Not through me. 
Not through me Do you? 

831
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:57,680
You go to places that I'll never
be. 

832
00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:00,160
You see people I'll never 
encounter with. 

833
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:04,320
And so He sends you with a 
message of grace and love and 

834
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:06,880
giftedness. 
First thing that happens is we 

835
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:09,560
experience His love through 
belonging and through 

836
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:12,080
transformation. 
He begins to change who we are 

837
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:17,160
and how we see ourselves. 
And then He sends us saturated 

838
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:22,200
in love and grace and mercy, out
into the world, giving gifts, 

839
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:24,640
spreading grace everywhere that 
we go. 

840
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:28,360
And that brings us back to where
we started with our discussion 

841
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:31,560
of membership. 
So what I'm going to do right 

842
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:36,720
now is not ask you to sign on 
the dotted line, but what I am 

843
00:45:36,720 --> 00:45:39,000
going to do is ask you to 
consider for the next several 

844
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:43,200
days of this week, is this the 
congregation where you believe 

845
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:49,040
God is placing you to grow and 
to contribute, to be fed and to 

846
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:51,360
take responsibility to feed 
others? 

847
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:53,600
And let me just say this. 
If the answer to that question 

848
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,480
is no, you're still welcome 
here. 

849
00:45:57,280 --> 00:45:59,240
We haven't had a process. 
We haven't had a membership 

850
00:45:59,240 --> 00:46:01,600
process for the last seven 
years. 

851
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:05,000
I'm not asking you to go away, 
but here's what I am saying. 

852
00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:07,760
These steps, these things that 
we've talked about, right, 

853
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:11,400
belonging and transformation and
participation, they are as near 

854
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:14,080
as we can get in our 
understanding of the Scripture. 

855
00:46:14,240 --> 00:46:17,200
They are what we believe 
healthy, mature Christianity 

856
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:19,720
looks like. 
What I'm asking of you and 

857
00:46:19,720 --> 00:46:24,160
inviting you to do is practice 
healthy, mature Christianity. 

858
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:28,080
And So what I hope you'll do is 
go home and pray about it. 

859
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:33,720
I am not asking you whether you 
like me or like my speaking. 

860
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:37,880
I am not asking you whether you 
like the worship team or the 

861
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:40,240
songs that they sing. 
What I'm asking you, do you 

862
00:46:40,240 --> 00:46:43,480
sense God at work in this 
congregation and Are you ready 

863
00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:47,000
to step into your part and be 
shaped by it? 

864
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:49,840
I'm not going to ask you to do 
anything right now. 

865
00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:55,120
Not one thing except pray and 
talk to your family this week, 

866
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:58,480
probably Wednesday or Thursday 
I'm going to send an e-mail with

867
00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:00,600
a questionnaire and a 
questionnaire is just going to 

868
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:03,200
explain what is belonging. 
Few key principles right? 

869
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:04,800
Have you been baptized and 
you're going to? 

870
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:08,360
Have like a choice, right? 
I'm a baptized follower of 

871
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:11,000
Jesus. 
I am a follower of Jesus, but 

872
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:13,680
I've never been baptized. 
I don't know if I'm a follower 

873
00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:15,320
of Jesus, but I want to be 
baptized. 

874
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:17,200
And you check that and guess 
what? 

875
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:19,680
If you feel like you're down on 
the end, that's great. 

876
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:21,960
Do you know what what the big 
thing is? 

877
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:25,080
If you were just saying just go,
I haven't been baptized and 

878
00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:28,760
thanks, I'm not interested. 
Listen, you're still welcome to 

879
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:30,800
come here, but we're going to 
acknowledge that that's not 

880
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:33,280
participation, right? 
Like that's not what being a 

881
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:36,080
member of the body is. 
So when that e-mail comes. 

882
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:41,000
This week, pray about it. 
Talk about it, fill it out and 

883
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:42,520
return it. 
And at the bottom, after these 

884
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:45,000
three things, right, I'm going 
to belong, I'm going to be 

885
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:46,560
transformed. 
I'm going to participate in all 

886
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:47,280
that. 
There's going to be an 

887
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:49,000
opportunity for you to check or 
to not check. 

888
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:54,400
I believe that God is calling me
to be a member, a participant, a

889
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:58,760
partner at River City Church. 
And if you do that, we'll send 

890
00:47:58,760 --> 00:47:59,360
it in. 
We'll take it. 

891
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:00,960
We'll look at, maybe we'll 
contact you about something, but

892
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,760
we're not screening you. 
We're inviting you. 

893
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:06,280
We're inviting you into 
something that I believe that 

894
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:09,560
God is doing here and wants to 
include you in. 

895
00:48:12,240 --> 00:48:14,800
If we don't have your e-mail, 
you should give it to us if you 

896
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:16,200
want it. 
There are little cards out at 

897
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:17,960
the end of your row. 
You can go on to your church 

898
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:20,960
center app. 
But I want us to just pray for a

899
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:25,160
second for River City. 
Lord, thank you for what you're 

900
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:26,920
doing here. 
I thank you that this is a place

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where children stand and worship
you. 

902
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I think that this is a place 
where the congregation will 

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receive and celebrate children 
worshiping you. 

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And Lord, I'm just so 
overwhelmed by the heart and the

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culture at River City, and I'm 
grateful. 

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And so now as we go from here, 
Lord, I pray that we'll continue

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to do some business with you. 
I pray that you'll put it on our

908
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heart, whether this is the place
or not the place. 

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And that we will, as we walk 
with you and as we follow you, 

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that we will hear your voice. 
So Father, our desire is to 

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continue to honor you to be a 
place that just absolutely fire 

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hose washes this city in your 
grace. 

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And you've given up, given us 
gifts to do it. 

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And so I pray that you would 
just send us and that we would 

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say, yes, Jesus, we love you and
we thank you and we ask all 

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these things in your name. 
Amen. 

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Thank you for joining us today. 
River City Church is all about 

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experiencing and expressing 
God's love in our lives and 

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community. 
And we hope that you've been 

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able to experience that today. 
As grateful as I am that you've 

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spent this time listening in 
this morning, this podcast is no

922
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substitute for full 
participation in a local church.

923
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I love it when River City people
listen to other pastors, but it 

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is those who show up week after 
week, faithfully giving their 

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00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:44,440
support and time and resources 
that make all of this possible. 

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If we can help you get connected
to a local church, pray for you,

927
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:51,560
or support you in any way, click
the link in the description and 

928
00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:53,680
let us know. 
If you'd like to financially 

929
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support the ministry of River 
City, click the give link on our

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website in the description. 
Don't forget to subscribe and 

931
00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:01,400
don't forget to share this with 
your friends. 

932
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:04,400
Thanks so much for listening. 
May the Lord bless and keep you 

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in all grace and peace.
