The only thing that makes them different is literally with the
part that they have. Just because they have like a
label attached to them doesn't mean anything.
That's just the way that I think of it.
Just because throughout time, just meeting different people,
talking to different people, there's one thing that's all the
same about them. They all are human.
That's true. So at the end of the day, I
can't sit there and put them in two different categories.
His name is Kyle Jacobs. Smash.
My chat did say something about you and Kyle man.
What did they say? You got to meet our friend Kyle.
Why? Why do they meet Kyle?
Is he gay? He's bi.
What does he look like? Kyle Jacobs looks a little
feminine, but like maybe hit, you know?
Kyle Jacobs Yeah, you look like you probably do lose something
on a little. Welcome to the Wild podcast,
Kyle Jacobs. Hi.
How are you doing, boys?
Welcome to the Wild podcast. I'm Brandon Cardoso.
I'm Deju and Barboza. And I'm Parker Reed.
And guys, we're back together after traveling.
Right, San Francisco. Yes, San Francisco.
Well, first of all, just to let you guys know, we've been
traveling a lot recently, recently, not within the recent
months, but the recent couple days.
I feel like we've been just traveling non-stop and you know,
it gets bad. That's what I wanted to mention
when well, first of all, I had a, a cousin's wedding to get to.
So on my way from from San Francisco, which we'll get to to
Boston, right? It was like an immediate like
flight, flight. I was at clear, right?
You guys know, you know, you skipped through this security
line. Go to clear.
Yo, this security lady came up to me, right?
And she was like, why aren't you here like 2 days ago?
And I was like, yeah. And then she was like, damn.
So you'd be travelling like that, like that often.
Yeah, that much, that often. I was like, yeah, I mean, I do
whatever, right? It's all, you know, with small
talk, whatever Cool, go through clear.
Then I go through the security, bro, the same security, OK, from
the last flight that we got. I think it was Miami, I think.
I don't know. So he's remembered me from like
last month. He goes, bro, weren't you just
here last month? Oh, my brother Security who'd be
dealing with people every day and every minute, every second,
recognize me as like someone who was just here prior.
Like, that's crazy. That's when you know it's bad.
That's what I'm saying, yeah. When you start getting
recognized by the security, it's like, yeah, man, I was.
I was just here. Travelling a lot, yeah.
But were you ever have you ever been recognized by a flight
attendant? No, I have not.
You have. Well, no, I don't know.
It was like this, this past flight that I did to New York,
the flight attendant was like, he was like yo, like I've seen
you somewhere, like you, you do like TikTok or something.
But I don't know if he was gay though.
Oh OK. I think most flight attendants
are gay. The male ones, right?
Yeah. Really.
I wonder why. Yeah.
You think wait for. Real, I was sleeping the whole
flight, so he had to have like looked at me when I was
sleeping. And then I, I went to the
bathroom and when I came out, he's like, I've seen you
somewhere. Like you do like social media.
I was like, yeah, I guess I don't know what I I don't know.
I, I actually don't even know how to interact with people when
it comes to that. I'm like, yeah, I guess.
Yeah, just be like, yeah, I'm the I'm that guy.
Yeah, that is kind of crazy when you think about.
It's like, man, this guy has probably seen me like without my
clothes. Probably.
I just assume everyone knows me. Yeah.
Well, actually to talk about getting noticed.
So I go to the gym when I was in Texas, and I could just kind of
already tell that when somebody knows me.
But like the people at the front desk, they were like trying to
act like they don't know me. And then I don't know.
I feel like I could tell. And then they're like, oh,
what's your address? And I had to give them my
address 'cause I got a little day pass.
They're like, oh, I live in Los Angeles.
They're like, yeah, I know. And I was like, what the like,
probably it's just, I don't know, low key makes me
uncomfortable when people know who I am because then they
already have like a preconceived like idea of me.
And I just think it makes things a little harder.
You said you went to where? Boston.
Yeah, after the traveling to San Francisco, I, I went to Boston
to go and show face on my cousin's wedding, which was my
first ever wedding. Never been to a wedding before.
And it was actually kind of crazy seeing a lot of familiar
faces. I mean, a lot of my family
members flew from Brazil to America.
Haven't seen them since I was probably like 8 years old.
They Remember Me. I don't really remember many
people. It's kind of how it how it goes.
Oh, you're so big now, you know, like all that's you know all the
talks. But it was really cool seeing
seeing them though it was it was really interesting.
And my cousin getting married is probably one of the craziest
things ever. I mean, I don't know how close
you guys both are with your families, but when you see
someone that you grew up with and then like seeing that they.
Do you believe in marriage? Do I believe in marriage?
I believe that you could be with someone for the rest of your
life. If you, as long as you're loyal,
I think, I think you could share a life with someone.
I just think do I believe getting married at a certain
age, if you are ready or not for it?
I don't know. That's up to you to determine.
But I think marriage is a really, really interesting
subject to bring. Yeah, now that you've been to 1,
like, what's your take? Do you think you're getting
married or? No, not right now, obviously,
but like. You know you can.
Say no. I It's just hard to give a
definite answer because bro, you never know what can happen, you
know what I mean? It's one of those things where
it's like. Brandon falls in love.
Brandon falls in love and it has to be with that one person and
one person only for. And you can't do that right?
I can't. I can't do that, man.
What do you mean what the? No, I don't know.
Look, I'm a really open guy. I'm an open book.
And I think if I were to be in a relationship, I think it would
be something that would also probably be open as well.
But. But you've been in like a
relationship before though, right?
I have where you're. That's how I knew it wasn't
really for me. But didn't you cheat?
No dude, this guy bringing up both right?
Now yo, no wonder. See, that is because he learned
that. He was like, oh damn, like I
have to cheat if I'm in a. Relationship.
That's the one time that was actually the one time where it
had been brought up and had never happened.
It was. It was all bold, fabricated.
I, I, I saw my life. I got set up.
But at least you know now that you're prone to it and that that
way that's why you don't want to be in relationships.
I just don't think at an age of like being in one, at the, what
is it 2021? I mean you could be in one to
see if it is for you or not, but just don't think that you're
going to get married to that one person too at the age of. 21.
That's just my opinion. I mean, look, I, I just think,
you know, my cousin, I think he really, and again, it's all
dependent on like what you want your life to be.
Everyone got different perspectives in life.
I think my cousin's perspective of just, you know, having to
start a family. And right now they're in Greece.
The honeymoon's in Greece. But anyways, yeah, it was cool.
I saw my mom. So what is a honeymoon?
You just take a vacation after you get married.
Basically, yeah. So, yeah, just take a vacation
to wherever it is you want to go.
And that's basically it. I mean, I don't know, but many
people go to like Hawaii. I think that's like a really.
Oh, and I think Greece was a good choice.
Greece is a really good choice. Yeah.
I was like, damn, you going to Greece?
That's crazy. So yeah, they went there.
I mean, I don't know if they're still there right now.
I think they still are, but it's pretty cool, man.
I'm like, damn, you going out the country insane.
I've been really. Mentioned you guys were gone.
Wait. After that I saw you were in
Vegas though. I was it for 4th of July, yes,
so from Boston. I was there for the wedding.
When did you go to Vegas? OK, so the OK, so the wedding
was the 3rd of July. No, no, the 2nd of July.
And then it went on for as long as I would say almost midnight.
And then I had a flight at 4:00 in the morning.
So I literally from literally with my suitcase and everything
to the wedding and it went straight to the airport, went to
Boston Logan and then flew to LA but then drove to Vegas.
So that traffic was insane. By the way, you know, if you
guys don't know, LA to Vegas driving is like almost 4 1/2
hours. I've done that drive multiple
times. I have never experienced a drive
to Vegas like I did when I. Went How long were you?
So it said four hours and 10 minutes and then I don't know,
happened midway but I was driving bro.
It ended up being 7 hours long. No bro, everybody is driving for
4th of July. No, 100%, but why the the map
tell me 4 hours and 10 minutes and then I get there and it's
like 7 hours past the time when I left the airport.
You know what I'm saying? It was, it was actually hectic
as I'm not gonna lie. But yes, of course, yeah.
You know, 4th July. Then I ended up going to a
concert that same night and I ended up sitting down right when
I sat on my chair to go right in the concert the the main
performer performed. It was like, it was like all the
time. Yeah.
And I was still able to shower and get ready for it too, and
everything. So I got, so if the concert was
at like 8:30, I got there at like 8:00 and as soon as I sat
down started and it was like perfect time.
But anyways, yeah, it was cool. It was great.
I love going to Vegas for the 4th of July.
I think that's the best time to go.
Amazing fireworks. All the hotels are doing it.
Everyone was there. It was all packed.
You could barely breathe, let alone the Vegas weather.
Imagine a bunch of people crowded around you.
It was actually actually insane. Everyone chanting USA and that
was crazy. And I also wanted to go there
too for the the World Cup. Brazil played a terrible play,
by the way, Neymar. What they actually.
But but yeah, you know, good, you know, good penalty score,
though. Good job.
But yeah. And then you went home as well
as I went home too. How's that?
It was great. Like every other month.
Yeah, every. Month I do go back to Texas, but
I'm super excited about this one thing and I've been waiting to
bring it up. We have them sitting right here
while we're all traveling. A an issue, a magazine issue was
released and we're kind of all scattered across.
The day while you guys were gone, I was in LA and I picked
it up. Right.
You were in LA. You were either in Vegas or
Boston, I don't know where. I was, I was in.
Well, I was when I heard about it, that was actually like
published like everywhere. I was actually in Boston and I
was just trying to find it in Boston.
Like I was like literally going to every single magazine
newsstand, try to find it. But I guess I was a little too.
Early and I was in Texas, so yeah, But we actually have it
right here. So if you guys don't know, we
actually were featured in The New Yorker right here.
A huge shout out to The New Yorker.
This is actually a project that we were we worked on months,
months, months ago. They actually came to our house.
We did a photo shoot for a couple hours.
Very. Professional and if you I like
Brandon grabbing me. I know.
OK, look, so we did a lot of OK, I'm not going to lie.
Brandon looks like my, I don't know my my my son grabbing his
father. He's the.
I'm the nephew but no, but for
real, like we did a lot. It was like hours and hours.
It's crazy hours and hours just for that one pic.
That's what I'm saying bro. We've done so many different
photos and videos. We did so many different poses.
She even got iPhone shots. Too.
She even did iPhone shots. I think that was probably just
for her. I don't know, but I'm just
kidding. No, but huge shout out though.
No, they came through. They they came through with
really good professional equipment, things that I've
never seen before. And we work with cameras every
day. I never have ever in my life
ever seen the equipment, they said.
I don't. Want like a tower?
No, it was, yeah. It was like a big, like huge
tower and you just like, see, it's like a big screen.
You can see us on it with the cameras.
And there are cameras too, like insane as well.
It was like some like newscasting.
I don't know. It's like, it's like they were
trying to be like The New Yorker or something.
I don't know. It's kind of crazy.
I went about actually finding this as well.
You said you found it in the Beverly.
It was Beverly Drive. You found it, right?
The Yeah. I think it was the same one.
Yeah, there's also one in Studio City as well, another newsstand,
and I saw it there too. I went to both and I saw yeah,
this one at Beverly Drive and. Then how did you feel when you
went and opened it and saw yourself?
You know what's funny is, well, I opened it, right?
I opened it. I saw myself in my heart was
racing, right? And then there was this guy in
the background, right? The worker, it was the worker of
the newsstand. He goes, hey, I saw you and your
friends over here the other day and I and I'm glad to see that
you're the missing piece that I get to actually see the other
person in the photo. And no, it was really cool.
It was really good feeling. It's one of those things.
You know, my, my dad saw it. Your dad saw this.
Yeah, that's how he found out. I'm doing all of.
Wait, what? Yeah, because I guess he, like,
reads like magazines and stuff. So you like, read.
He was like reading The New Yorker stuff.
I think he saw me. Well, I don't think he literally
called me. He was like, yo, he was like,
yo, you're in this magazine. I didn't know you're doing like
stuff. He knew about my social media,
but he didn't know about. Yeah, so I guess that's how you
found out. It's pretty cool that the New
Yorkers normalizing it though. No, yeah, it is in the in the
there. Was they were rage baiting on IG
like on their post? Like everyone was like this is
insane where are you guys normalizing this?
But honestly, I think it's cool. No, I think it's cool too.
I think I saw their story as well within that, but I think
it's also cool. But in all the other pages that
are on here too, you know what I mean?
Like a bunch of interesting shots in their Yeah, that was.
Really cool, a lot of stuff that people could use it for.
Use it for yeah, if you see this, you know exactly what
we're talking about. But no, been all seriousness,
shout out The New Yorker. Shout out to the team, like The
New Yorker team, the crew that came through the house and
worked very hard to make this happen as well.
So huge shout out. And I'm glad that this was
actually able to be published everywhere.
And somebody actually DM me and they picked it up.
They're searching around like everywhere for it and they send
a picture of it and they're like, I want it signed by the
wild boys. I was like damn.
Yeah, let's do it, bro. Let's sign it.
I'm down. That'd be cool when they hang it
up on the wall. See, this is crazy, but that's
how I knew that it was out. Somebody actually sent me a
picture that they bought it and I was like damn.
Yes, shout out The New Yorker loved it.
Amazing work and I think we look pretty snazzy in the in the pics
we look like a bunch of we got our.
Own, you know, 2 page, you know some people we got like half or
like, you know, but it's. Literally like a poster.
Like actually like one of those like little like.
I I really like how you came out though personally.
How I came out. No like how your picture came
out. Oh, me grabbing you.
Yeah, yeah. Man, that's interesting.
I'm really a fan of that. Yeah, I was kind of gripping you
a little too hard. Why was I doing that?
Dude, that's kind of a that's kind of a gnarly grip right
here. Yeah, no, I they were like
telling us to do those like. Yeah, no, they were.
Yeah, they were having his pose and.
Everything like grab his arm, show how much you like care for
each other. Yeah, it gives very bonjour, you
know what I'm saying? But very demure.
But yeah, if you guys want to go check it out, it is the July 6th
and 13th issue, so. Check out One Week.
Yeah, so go check out your your news stands, grab yourself a
copy. Check it out.
A huge shout out to The New Yorker, though.
The next thing that I really wanted a deep dive into was San
Francisco, San Fran. I've never been and this was my
first time going. I actually drove from LA all the
way to San Francisco. It was a six hour drive
comparable to your your Vegas trip and that's the same.
I've done too. It's.
Crazy. I had no real information about
how San Francisco was other than that so cool it is the gay
capital there and that pride was the most wildest pride there was
going to be. There was going to be naked
people running around and. And yeah, it didn't disappoint,
honestly. Nah, man.
I mean, it is very much the gay capital of maybe the universe.
I think no, no, I think it is with the universe.
I look, I've been to Hollywood Pride recently.
We all have. We've been to wheel, I would
say, countless amount of times. The amount of things that we're
being shown there being like everything that everyone's just
so open. Like just the openness and the
support that San Francisco has for the community is like no
other. Seriously.
Like I never thought the things that I went about seeing within
San Francisco Pride, I would ever see anywhere actually.
Like it was actually. Crazy just the the nudity laws
there. OK.
So I think that's what I meant like when I said that like
they're very open. They're.
Very they are very. Expressive.
Yeah, you see flags everywhere. I don't know if it was just
'cause it was Pride Month, but like every corner, every
building, everywhere was a Pride flag.
And it was, it was very beautiful and interesting to
watch. I think the people there were
really cool. I think everybody got really
like a long will too, and I actually really like San
Francisco. I've never been and I didn't
have no expectations. It was cold, freezing in the
middle of the summer. It was freezing.
Freezing I I was just shocked to find out that San Francisco has
no summer. Summer isn't a thing over there.
They're just constantly at like cold weather.
But. It's it's never gets too cold,
but it never gets warm either. Yeah, we were invited by
Eruption to go to their event. They actually had a multi day
Bender and they really went out with the bank.
There's tons and tons of people. They had a whole venue shut
down, a mainstage, DJs performing a bunch of music,
people, food, games, dark rooms. Yo shout out the dark room bro.
I I didn't go in there, but I heard a lot of crazy stuff was
going on and I heard you were there too.
Bro, I was not in the dark. Room.
I literally saw a picture of you coming out, did you not?
Look, it's AI, bro, it's not me. Oh, IAIA.
Nah, but but not with the eruption event though.
It was actually insane. Like again, just as much as San
Fran pride was, eruption event was the same exact aspect of
just openness and expressiveness.
And they really stocked up that green room for us.
They really did. They really, they really stocked
it up. Yeah, I should have requested
for more stuff. I didn't request for anything.
And no, no, but actually though, they had everything like
literally like, I'd be like, yo, I don't like, I want, I want
like this, I want this knock on the door.
Here you go. Here you go.
Like just exactly everything it is that I asked for.
It's perfect. So amazing hospitality on their
end for sure, but. Again, shout out to Eruption for
inviting us. We had a lot of fun and San
Francisco, I mean, they just had so many events and so much like
pride festivities going on. I feel like way more than LA and
it just felt like more of a community there in my opinion.
I think LA, everyone's very, I don't want to say, I guess
competitive, but over there it just seemed like everybody was
getting along. We got a history lesson on why
San Francisco is the gay capital and it had to do back with
sailors and coming in after World War 2 and everything.
What else? What what else did we do when we
were there? Well, I went to this park and
there was like a bunch of people celebrating pride, a bunch of
music. I did some interviews over
there. And overall it was a really
great experience. Definitely got drunk and and
yeah, we did the the podcasts. If you haven't yet, make sure go
check those out. And then I had to do my 6 hour
drive all the way back from San Francisco.
So it was a lot to I had six hours to just think and what's
the word digress, everything that just happened in San
Francisco. They, I mean, that's the best
time to do it on the road for six hours.
You know, but yeah, overall, how was Pride Month June, the the
month of Pride? It was, it was a lot.
Honestly, I think that it was cool.
It was a lot of festivals, parties, activities like it was.
It was done to the Max this year I feel like.
I think a lot of people celebrated Pride Month the way
it needed to be with themselves, expressing themselves,
appreciating the friends they have around them.
And with some drinks. I saw a lot of people there
drinking, having a great time, really, you know, just a lot of
openness. Like I said, we have Pride.
I. Feel like we should just do NYC
pride next year. Going to New York, that's
something we haven't done. I also think the World Cup just
had every single city like ignited with people outside
partying because it's the World Cup.
So the World Cup plus pride, it was like.
Yeah, and the next rock is in 20-30.
But no. But just to close it off though,
yeah, I think Pride month was was crazy.
It was really 'cause it was all of our first times going to
Pride doing like the Pride parade.
And look, I love LA, but the San Francisco one, which is way, way
better and bigger, it would be like if they shut down like all
of downtown in LA, that's what they did in San Francisco.
Like wee ho is, you know, a little city I guess in LA and it
was cool, but San Francisco 1 was.
But they were actually naked though.
Like they literally were naked. Yeah.
They're not that I'm being serious.
That was, I would say one of the craziest things, but I think
it's because like, that's kind of like you can't do that here.
And I just feel like over there that you just can.
I don't know. I just thought that was the
craziest part of my opinion, but it was cool regardless.
You know, it's just really what it was and it was lit.
You guys have seen him with us for the past two years, but
never actually heard his full story.
So for the first time ever, all out.
Welcome to the Wild podcast, Kyle Jacobs.
Hi. Hi.
How are you doing, boys? Good to see you.
What up to you, man? Probably welcome.
Now let's go, let's go over here.
Yeah, we're good. Kind of awkward position here
dude, how are you? I'm doing great.
That introduction really started things off, I'm not going to
lie. All right, great.
Good energy to start off today. Good energy.
Yeah. Yeah.
Just like I don't know what it is.
Just like a glowing energy coming out.
Got it. It's just bring his face smiling
at me but. Oh, Kyle, stop, please.
Wait, so how'd you like pride month?
How'd you like Pride month? It was the biggest event in
what, San Fran, right? Isn't it the biggest event?
Yeah. And good friends of Eruption,
you know, give us a good welcome.
Oh, the bottle. The bottle that I did not
partake in. I mean, yeah, I mentioned too, I
was like, yo, the hospitality that eruption gave us in that
green room, and it was like they literally had everything of
every brand of every flavour of everything.
No, literally. And I could pick anything that I
wanted out of anything. Exactly, Exactly Parker.
Was just eating the cheese. Or what else was eating?
Cheese. The pepperoni things?
Yeah, salami. The cartoon boards.
Yeah, and it was just good, but you guys were indulging in some
of the amigos. And the amigos, Yeah, the amigos
were not my amigos that night. I was not feeling good and I'm
not going to lie. They hit you some type of way.
Yeah, well, in the moment it felt great.
The next day, not really. They weren't, they weren't with
with me that day. No, OK, not not the next day.
But anyways, yes, everything was great and.
Yeah, yeah. Yeah, I mean, OK, so I guess
we'll start off here, man. I mean, yeah, you've been a part
of the podcast, you know, you've, you know, been a host
here and there. You know, you've been a part of
it, but we've never actually got to know Mr. Jacobs.
Like, the full story, dude. Where do like, where'd you come
from? Like why you're here?
Well, originally I came from New York, right?
And I decided to take a little, a little trip.
So this is my first trip ever outside of New York.
And I feel like it really opened up my eyes though to, to really
the, the world that's around us because from New York, where I'm
from is a very small town. There's not really much that
goes on there, you know, So when you hear you.
Live on a farm, right? OK.
You live on a farm. Say, well, OK, so it's first in
context. He was in our in my car whenever
we were driving back from San Francisco and we're passing by
all this farmland and there was nothing there.
And I asked him if that's what his house looked like.
And he said. A little bit.
Oh, I mean, I see the backyard. The backyard looks like that,
yeah. So let's paint a picture.
You have a house and then you you go out the back door and
it's just farmland. Yeah, like say it's your land
for like 20-30 feet and then it's just how farmland from
there and hills and and all that.
So like. Excluded out in the country
area. So when you hear like gay and
things like that, you know what I mean?
It's just automatically like what, you know, off key type of
thing. But when I came at least OK,
when I met you, I should say, it felt like I can kind of open it
up a little bit more, you know what I mean?
When I first met you, you're a little bit more on the quieter
side. Everyone.
When you meet someone for the first time, you're not going to
all, you know, just be outright open.
But but do you think like when, when would you say I'm asked
want to know this question? But when you would say like when
we had first met, when you met all of us, that you became more
like. Open.
I want to say like relatively the first few days I would say
yeah, just because like from me, like I said, I'm usually by
myself too out there. Like there's not really too many
people. I graduated like 40 people,
something like that. So like, not too many people at
all. Your graduating class was only
40. Yeah, yeah, how y'all kind of
talk to me, you know, made me feel comfortable being able to
open up And like how I see people is like on a on a person
to person thing, you know, not like what you wear or you know
what you do because what you do doesn't really, you know, define
exactly who you are. Because deep down you might also
feel, you know, some other type of way.
But, you know, it's just that one talk that we had in Miami is
up in the the hotel room there, just kind of just looking off to
the balcony. You and him.
Were no, no, I want to say it's like everyone you know, it's
just like. We were having a talk.
It was like, yeah, but it was like in and out, you know what I
mean? Kind of like a back and forth,
yeah. And it was Brad.
Was Brad there too? Yes, yes, Brad was there, too.
So every time I was outside, a new person would kind of come
out and I'd talk to him for a little bit.
And that kind of really, yeah, just made me feel very
comfortable. I remember that you, me, Brad,
and we're. Yeah, we're up in the yeah.
And the No, no, no. No, what was that?
What was that yo like? That's what y'all were doing
right? No, that was crazy.
That's no. OK.
So yeah. And the balcony in the hotel.
I'm trying to re re. What happened?
I can see it kiss you. What?
You you him. Brad. three-way kiss.
My bad, my bad. It was just my my, my ADHD.
No, keep going. My bad, but I wasn't.
So y'all were on the balcony talking and like you were just
getting like everybody was opening your mind because
everybody else doesn't live on the farm.
So they're able to like, expand your mind a little.
Bit exactly like your your mind's very narrow, but like
when I went and this is my first time out as well.
Showing you there's more to life than just.
Exactly, You know, when your mind's narrow and then, like
slowly start, you know, exploring.
Yeah. But like, it's just slow piece
by piece. And you only can like kind of
already vision something. So that's kind of like what hit
me right away, like, oh, I want to, you know, like these are for
my people almost, you know, like that type of feeling.
True. I mean, I mean, I guess, yeah,
that aligns perfectly. I mean, I remember all those
moments, you know? And then here we are still two
years later, man. Later.
Yeah. You're telling your full story.
Exactly, but like also what made a help too is you gave me like
the all the rounds, you know, you made me feel comfortable
where I was at as well. Like you were like, yeah, this
is someone who doesn't know the area or anything.
So had me get a little tour around you, feeling me around
the area, meet everyone and I yes, thank you.
You know, thank you for that of. Course, man, thank you for
trusting us. You know, I feel like that right
there is a little mutual agreement that we all have
within each other. It's just trust and bond and you
know, it's how you continue to grow.
And that's what I saw right away, you know, just just right
away, you know, it's connected. We met you.
You were like 19. I've been 21 now.
How's that happening? Because your birthday was about
a couple months ago. No, I say nothing really changed
but. Still the same, no like.
Obviously it's changed a little bit because now I feel like
people also view you differently when you hit that, you know,
that that age, you feel me. It's like now you're an actual
adult, whereas before you might have been treated just like a
little bit different just because like, you know, I'm
younger, you know, I'm younger. I don't know as much, I don't
know, you know, things going on. So like I feel like a lot of
people will see that and be like, oh, you know, hey, it's
fresh meat, you know what I mean?
Fresh. Meat is crazy.
Is that how you feel, Parker? Fresh meat.
Well my meat has been hard for the majority of today, but
that's just like puberty and stuff.
I don't know the greatest meat. No, it was like probably like 5
minutes ago. But it not because of anything,
you know, like testosterone Randomly I've been getting a lot
of random. How does that work?
No, we were talking about this off camera.
I feel like we should also clarify you are from upstate New
York because whenever you say New York people always imagine
NYC. So that's OK, Kelsey.
I didn't know NYC. Is very GA Oh.
Friendly. No.
Is that GAY? So which one are you from?
Well, I'm not from upstate New York and I'm not from NYC.
I'm from Long Island, which is like an hour from New York City.
Kyle is like 5 hours from New York City.
He's from the island, you know. Yeah, I'm from Long Island,
which is like a little peninsula strip.
And I'm in an. Hour away from NYC.
Cuz I didn't know there was. Such a It's like a summer.
I'm from the suburb area, he's from the wood.
So, OK, see, I didn't know. Yeah, because obviously New York
East Coast, but I didn't really, when I think of someone from New
York, I think city boy, I don't think of farm boy.
So I guess that kind of makes a lot more sense now that.
It's like people think I'm from NYC, Like I'm, I, I, I used to
go to NYC every week. So I'm like kind of familiar
with it, but because I'm only an hour away, but I'm not from the
city. OK, so then New York grew up 40
kids you graduated with and your sexuality is.
By, by and. Did you buy all that in high
school? Yeah, both ways.
So you have options. Yeah, options.
But like the way that I think of it, you know what I mean is just
like everyone is a different person, you know what I mean?
Just because they have like a label attached to them doesn't
mean anything. That's true.
And that's just, that's just the way that I think of it, just
because throughout time, just meeting different people,
talking to different people, there's one thing that's all the
same about them. They all are human, you know
what I mean? At the end of the day, the way
they think, the way they move, the way they act.
So at the end of the day, I can't sit there and put them in
two different categories. Everyone's in the same category.
So you're 21 years old? Yeah.
Sexuality is bi. Yeah.
Like when did you like kind of know that?
I started working at a gym, so I was the gym trainer and all the
time I had like to do gym training and stuff like that,
right? But I have to help people, but
it's up to them if they want to do it.
So it's like a sign up sheet, right with my photo on there.
So all they see is me and all they have to do is write your
name with a little time slot. Got it.
At the end of the week, the first league you're working,
every single person down there was a guy and I have a single, a
single girl working with me, which I was like a thing, right.
But The thing is every single guy just wanted to reschedule
like ASAP. Yeah, like I had no time to
myself at all. Like it was almost just like a,
oh, I want to work out again. Oh, can you come to my house and
train me that way? And I'm like, wait a minute.
Like, so it's like almost like they're kind of like hinting and
like, flirty that like gay men were into me.
Does that make sense? You know, that was like a moment
that sparked. So that was your first encounter
and that's what got you those curious thoughts.
Those little things that have happened, if you may kind of
lead it up to that. So like when I met Brandon and
Julian and Brad who were all there and specifically Brad, I
say Brad. So when Brad told me he was bi,
that's when I learned and pretty much came to the conclusion that
I'm also, I buy I'm not going from everything adding up and
him being mature and being a masculine guy.
I didn't know that you can actually be that because like
where I'm from, bi, you hear that and it's corresponding with
gay. You automatically think, oh,
that's just gay. The person's just gay, feminine,
whatever, whatever you have in your mind at the time.
What's your type? What's my height?
Yeah. Are you a top or a bottom?
I mean, I'm a top, so I need a bottom.
You know, I need a big booty bottom is what I call it.
Big booty bottom, Big booty bottom, Big booty, Judy, BBB.
Oh, BBB. BBB.
Big booty, Brandon. Working towards that.
So you need a big booty. Bottom yes.
And then what? Like what else is your type And
and a gentleman. I like someone also who like
encourages me to really get get in there.
You feel me really take over? Really.
Feel like a power bottom? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Power bottom could, could be it as well.
I just feel like any bottom in general I could work with though
because I'm just good with with that little, you know, change
up. There, what do you have to say
about many people? At least some people too, even
in our comments on YouTube within the podcast, say that
bisexuality is not real. Why is it not real?
Well, they just think it's more of like a coping.
It's kind of like saying like people, people think that it's
like kind of saying you're gay, but without saying you're gay.
Damn, really? It's like, so you can't like
both. I'm not saying, I mean, I'm just
telling, I'm reading the comments, right.
And they say that they go bye. That's not real.
That's not a real thing. You can't be.
You can't like both. Right.
But honestly, I feel like you can 100% like both.
Like it does not matter because yeah, the only thing, OK, and I
always say this, the only thing that makes them different, just
literally with the part that they have and that's it.
Yeah, right. That's the only thing that's
different between them. True, but.
OK. So like you like more like
within the feminine side then? Yes, yes, OK, But I know that
not everyone's like that, you know what I mean?
Not everyone's like that. So like if I could find out a
way, work some type of way, you feel me, then maybe it's
possible. But if it's just, you know, you
don't feel like working it out and you got to be that one thing
specifically, then it's like, come on, you got to ease up a
little bit, you know, and being biased a part of that, you know,
it's a confidence thing. Got it.
You got to be confident in that. Do you think if a guy kisses
another guy, is that gay? No.
So like, are you like a hypersexual person or are you
kind of like him a virgin? More like a see you're a virgin.
There's no in between bro, it's either you or not.
Different like relationship. I'm hyper.
I'm not in a relationship. I'm not hyper.
And then like, do you, OK, so when you started your page, were
you nervous at first? Like when you first started your
page? Like what were you feeling?
I mean, that moment too. Like how did you feel in that
moment though? The pressure from that was a lot
at first, you know, a lot of different feelings coming in.
I know I seen just lot, man, just just a lot at once talking
about everything. I didn't even know people were
that into different things. They talking about my eyebrows,
talking about my armpits, talking about my, you know, body
and, and everything. And I, I just kind of opened up
my whole eye to this, like there's a lot more into this,
you know what I mean? There's a lot more.
So that's how I felt in the moment.
I just didn't know how to feel. Well, you were shot.
How people like what people were saying because you weren't
expecting it. Yeah.
Exactly, like I also didn't know how people would react to it as
well, you know what I mean? Like starting something new,
something that you know you weren't exactly the most
knowledgeable one do. You have any message to anyone
who is bi? But they're hiding and they
don't know how to come out. You know, they're really afraid
of what people think of them, even family.
What kind of message would you spread to people who might be
watching this? Needing some advice?
Well, I actually have a few messages I could I could
probably come out with, but I feel like I should go with the
one that's really going to mean the most.
You know what I mean, to everyone.
And that just being that at the end of the day, you know what I
mean? You only get one life.
You only get one thing that you
could really do, you know, at the end of the day, that's
really going to make you a great person at the end of the day.
And I can't lie. If you're going to sit there
right, and your whole life is going to be based on hiding
something away, I don't think, I don't think you should be doing
that. You know what I mean?
I think you should come out. You should be okay.
You're seeing me sitting here right in front of you right now,
being able to do the same exact thing every single day.
You feel me. And for me, it takes a lot to be
able to do that. But it wouldn't be possible
without you also being there and me being around the people that
I am. So the one thing I wanted to say
is it doesn't matter what you are at the end of the day, it
doesn't matter who you're with. It doesn't matter what you have
done. You know what I mean?
Your past doesn't define you. Anything can be changed, OK?
Your habits can be changed now, you don't have to sit there and
and stay on that, you know, that same wave, that same topic.
All right, life changes. You adapt, you keep on going.
And yeah, yeah, just honestly, don't be afraid.
Oh, don't be afraid. Put yourself out there.
Be happy with who you are. And at the end of the day,
you're going to be way happier in the longevity of things
rather than just being happy for a little moment or two, you know
what I mean? So you only live life 1.
So, you know, it could be, it could be done tomorrow.
So would you regret? You don't want to be regretting
your life. You know what I mean?
And that's really what I can say deep down.
You know what I mean? That was beautiful out there,
you know? No, that was beautiful.
I like that man. I like.
That stop hiding. Stop hiding golf class.
No, that was a beautiful. Man, well, that was the Kyle
Jacobs episode. Where could they find you?
For the people who are just finding out about you for the
first time. Well, I'll tell you what if that
message didn't hear you and then you know I got another message
for you. But to be able to receive that
message all right, you can go over and you can find me at Kyle
Jacobs wild over on the blue page.
Now, if you do want to go a little bit deeper in the topic,
maybe you want to see a little bit more, you can go over to the
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Peace.