I remember you came out as bi. Are you still bi?
Can we talk about your first ever gay experience?
I was on a live and everyone was just begging me to like you
know, finally try some mail content you know?
I eventually just caved in and I got from a guy for the first
time. How does your girl feel about
you collabing with all these guys?
Well, there's a lot she doesn't know.
There's a lot she doesn't know. Whoa.
Trying not to bottom as much anymore.
Oh OK wait, how come you don't want to bottom anymore?
You. Got to live up to the boss man
name bro. You You could could still still
be be a a boss boss and and bottom bottom you you could
could be be the. the Power Bottom.
Yeah, what's your body come? With guys or girls?
Like combined. Combined I would say like.
Who is your dream collab? Who is someone that you wish
that you you could collab with that you haven't collab with?
Just yet. I'm honestly surprised that
hasn't happened yet, but I'd say, well, I haven't You done
any collabs with guys? Yet I'm scared I might like you.
It's because he's a virgin so he don't even know what he like if
you. Were to take Parker's collab
virginity, what would you guys? Do oh, it seems like he's like,
OK, he's scared of men. So if he's scared to like it, I
would say we could do something simple like.
Welcome to the wild. Podcast, I'm Brandon Cardoso.
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it. Today we have Boss Man on the
Wild podcast. Hi.
Hi boss man. Hi.
How you doing? Very good.
How are you guys? Amazing.
We're good. We're here.
This is your first time at the The New House.
I am. It's really nice here.
I like it. Really more than the the other.
House, I don't know, I haven't explored all of it, but the
other house is really nice too so.
Yeah, we got to give you a house tour then.
Yeah, after this. Yeah, boss, man, I just got
here. We just fired it up with this
podcast. So thanks again for coming on
man. You got here yesterday, huh?
You got here yesterday. Yeah, I got here yesterday, woke
up at like 4:00 in the morning, got here by like I think 10:00,
and it's been grinding ever since.
Are you rooming with someone? No, I'm just saying by myself,
yeah. I thought maybe you were
cuddling no at night. I thought about it but they're
they're being weird. Everyone there seems coupled up
so. Everyone got the roof.
Yeah. And if you guys are new here,
we've actually had Boss Man on quite a few episodes if you guys
want to go check those out. But Boss Man, real quick, in
case the viewers don't know, real quick synapses of who you
are and how we met and all that. So basically, I'd moved out to
LA, reached out to you guys, and then hopped on a pod.
It did really well, I think. And then, yeah, it's kept the
relationship ever since. Now I'm here.
There you go. Was the last podcast we did?
Was that Miami or did we? No.
That That was was Lai Lai think. think But it's still been a
minute regardless. It's been a minute.
But we've seen each other around, though, here and there.
But it's cool. I mean, it seems like you got a
nice tan on you. Oh yeah.
Appreciate it. When you were on the yacht.
That was the. Boat Podcast.
It's something I want to ask about the The Boat podcast is I
remember you came out as bi. Yeah.
Are you still bi? No, no.
I think I'm pretty open now on the the gay for pay stuff.
OK, so you say you're not by anymore.
Well, actually, no, I take that back now.
There's like one or two collabs I've filmed since then that I
genuinely enjoyed. But besides that, you know what?
Yeah, still by. You're in denial, huh?
You're in denial. No, like this is fluidity in
real time. Oh, that's fluidity.
Yeah, that's. True, I didn't know it changes
kind of often. It almost seems like so really
it. Just.
Depends. Like, you know, sometimes I'll
meet someone that I really like and then, you know, once I stop
liking them, I'm like, you know what, I'm just straight now and
then go back. Yeah.
Damn right. That's crazy.
What a life. Yeah, I was actually fucking
crazy. So I guess besides the tan and
seeing you again, what else has been new?
It's been new with Boss man. What you been up to?
Man, got me a little girlfriend now.
Whoa, I recently bought a house, moved all my friends in that do
the blue page so and run it up with them.
That's been really fun. Do you live with your girl?
No. OK.
No, no. So.
I heard it's not good to live with your girl.
Yeah, well, I think it'd be. I think it's hard to live with a
girl when you live with like four other dudes.
So yeah, it makes things a little.
Yeah, that won't work too. I mean, Boston, when you say
like that, yeah, that's kind of crazy.
Yeah, I mean, what do you want? To live in a house with like 4
girls you know. Oh, I could, yeah.
I mean, that's kind of a separate question, but.
With your dating one of them though, and then yeah.
She got to be the queen bee, though.
That's how I say it. Like she got to be the ruler
over the other girls. You know the girls, they always
have a leader. Yeah.
I don't know if you know, but they always have a leader when
there's a group. I didn't notice that.
I've never noticed that. Yeah, so I got to be dating the
leader and then all of them follow in line.
Yeah, but but who? Who is that you're all living
with? Who are all the creators that
you're staying around with? Envy Liam Carson shots, Blade
hits and Jordan vice. And and and you guys all like
collab together. This is all like a crew that you
got going on here, of course, so like.
Another wild house. Yeah, so one of them I haven't
collabed with because he's actually my cousin in real life
and that's Blade, Yeah. So no collabs with him but.
Wait a minute. It's all like for like, for like
first cousins, like no. It's like it's like my step
dad's second cousin. Oh.
You're good. Second or third cousin?
Well, you guys would be good. It's not like, it's not like.
Blood, not blood. Related, yeah, no.
And it's not blood related, no. But still, at the end of the
day, you know. Yeah, we.
Would we have to live with that the rest of our life?
You know so. Yeah.
Yeah, I guess so. But that would be a crazy, crazy
request though. Yeah, yeah, the cousin style
Alabama stuff. Yeah, now we do.
We do like live streams and stuff.
And sometimes, you know, if someone tips enough, we'll do a
little little something. But.
Whoa, OK, that's kind of crazy that in a good way.
I like that. You know, you like that.
No, no, no, no, no. I meant like, no, no, I meant
like I had, I had I suggested to do that.
You guys, you know, should do something.
And I like the fact that you have already.
Do you know what I'm saying, boss man?
OK, All right, all right, all right.
Oh, my bro. I just need someone to be, you
know, understanding of what I'm trying to say because like, I
like that meaning like, I like the fact that, you know, I said
to do something and you're like, all right, all right.
Anyways, anyways, boss man. Yeah, man, I think it's been a
while since we have all caught up with each other.
You have a girlfriend? How'd you how'd you and your
girl me Like, how did that all come about?
You were single when I last saw you.
Yeah, So I met her. So another creator named OPA,
she had got this table at this place in Nashville, and then,
you know, that's where I kind of live around.
And then she just moved there recently.
So she happened to be there. She was like, I think her first
or second time ever like going out and so thought that was
pretty cool. You know, I don't like girls
that can go out to clubs and party all the time.
So OK, yeah, I ended up meeting her and like we just kept
looking at each other and I was telling my my brother that also
does the blue page. Damn.
I was like, man, she looks so good.
And she was like, she just said, you're so hot.
And I was like, for real. And I was like too scared to
like talk to her. And so he like brought us
together because we like have both been like telling them how
we're like attracted to each other and stuff.
So. Damn.
Hit it off and then took her on a date like two or three days
after that and then the rest is history.
Got it. And how long ago has that been?
Since 3 weeks since we. Officially started dating but
it's been like 2 months or so. Since I'm here to go.
Hey, happy for you, you know, trying to find someone that you
can really connect with, you know?
Yeah. So I think that's cool.
That and she supports everything you do.
I'm assuming everything is. Yeah.
Yeah, so she'll never do it herself.
What's, you know, I really have. What if she wanted to?
She better be successful, I guess.
Oh shit. Like I used to date at like a
blue page girl and like she wasn't really doing well.
And so I was like, well, you know, if I'm paying all the
bills anyways, how are you doing?
So it's clown moves on my part, but be here now, so.
Got it. That's good, man.
I want to talk about your fitness journey.
This is one of Brandon's favorite topics to talk about.
Fitness journey, you know, since he hits the gym so much.
I don't know why it's my favorite subject I'm about to
learn now. Yeah, but you had a crazy
transformation, right? Yeah.
You could say that. I mean, how would you say it?
What what words would you use? Yeah.
Crazy. Yeah, you could say you could.
Say, I mean, because there is a point right where I'm assuming
that you were like enough or like, when did you realize like
yo, I want to lock in. Yeah.
So basically I'd say it was like around August of of 2025, like I
just looked in the mirror and like I was taking pictures for
the blue page actually. And I was like, dude, I
literally have a dad bod. Like when I watched my own
podcast clips, I literally have a double chin.
Like I'm looking like Jabba the Hutt.
And like I just like couldn't accept it anymore, you know,
like I want to be successful. You know, I can't just be like
accepting the fact that I don't look as good as I possibly could
be. And so then September came and
then moved to, I moved to Miami for like a month.
So, and then like, that was really motivating, you know,
'cause everyone there looks so good, you know, like guys and
girls. So like I look at the guys, I'm
like, man, it's like inspiring kinda.
And so I was sitting in the gym eating really healthy cause all
the restaurants in Miami are pretty healthy for the most
part. And then sauna, steam room, my,
I was just locked in start. Finally started doing cardio.
Wait, what originally got you living in Miami for a month?
I just wanted to just to go there just to kind of see like
one, if I wanted to move there, which I don't.
And then two, just kind of like, you know, collab with other
craters that are like in the same like I guess realm, I guess
like, you know, only Brad Samir, like all of them.
So I thought it'd be cool to like, meet new craters.
Like where were you staying in? Brickell.
But like, did you have like a Airbnb for like a?
Month. Yeah, we, me and my friend, we
got a Airbnb for a month and we just split it.
So it was really cool. What?
What made you not want to move? I think it's too materialistic,
like the creators are like there's besides the select few.
I really don't like them. Like the regos are just too
crazy. They kind of base everything off
Instagram followers, which, you know, I feel like that's not
really a big, big deal to me. Wait for real who?
Pretty much half of them. That's any of them that have.
Like I want to avoid those kind of people.
Just let me know. Yeah, yeah, like any of them
that have 200,000 followers or more that usually OHK OK, yeah.
So egos, egos inflated. So yeah, nice.
And I don't think they realize. 200 Is these like real people
following them? Yeah.
Yeah, also like The thing is, I was.
Like, Oh my gosh. Wait, boss man, do we know these
people? Yeah.
Oh, we do, Yeah, probably yeah. Oh, OK, OK, OK.
No, I just wanted to know, man 'cause look, you know, you start
messing around with boss man, you know wild boys will come,
you know? We got you bro, We got.
You it's just like the the creators of Miami.
It's just like how they are. I think so.
I've never gone. Miami in general.
Yeah, I think you said it right. It's just super materialistic
and everybody brags and is competing.
Yeah, yeah, I'm not really into all that.
I I like just having a good time with the boys, get some collabs
in, you know, obviously everyone does at least half decent, you
know, so. Yeah, again, back back to like
your living situation too within like the creators that you live
with currently. I think it's cool that you were
able to find a group of people that you were able to live with
cause within us, like, I mean, I'm assuming we all like each
other here, but you know, obviously we've been together
for so long. So it seems as if like obviously
we kind of know each other and we got a good gist of each other
that I feel like a lot of creators who live together don't
last as long because, you know, things are kind of happening in
the mean, you know, the mix of everything.
So I think it's cool that you went about finding a group of
people to live with and kick it with, you know?
Yeah, that's cool. It's actually really.
Cool. Yeah, well, we were all friends
before we started, so that really helps.
Yeah, that's also what makes things easier, too.
You guys already know each other, you know?
But yeah, it makes sense. So you said your girls live with
you, you live with a bunch of creators, so like you
personally. So you obviously you still do
the blue page. You know, obviously you're going
crazy with that. What would you say within
recently when it comes to content on your blue page?
Like has it like shifted? Has it changed?
Are you still doing the same thing?
Yeah, so I, I got collabs with guys and girls still.
Probably not any New Girl collabs, but yeah, pretty much
everything I've always done. Still going, still doing well.
How does your girl feel about you collabing with all these
guys? Well, there's a lot she doesn't
know. Let's keep it that way.
There's a lot she doesn't know. What it means?
Whoa, what? Do you mean she doesn't know
like? I mean, she don't and like it's
really great 'cause like, you know, she don't really ask me
like too many questions about it.
Like so asked to see my content, I'll just show her like my solo
stuff, you know? What she has to see her content.
No, but like she knows that film with guys and.
Like, yeah, that was just underwear pictures.
So like, I've told her I was like, yeah, I think the craziest
thing I've done is like goon next to my friend, like in the
same bed. But it's nothing crazy, you
know? Yeah.
Oh, she doesn't know. Won't hurt her, you know?
Oh, yeah. The less she knows, the better.
Ignorance is a bliss, you know. That is true.
That is true, you know. So ignorance is bliss.
Has anyone thought you were gay like a girl?
What all the time when they cheat on their boyfriends with
me, they just tell their boyfriends that he's gay.
OK, I. Swear he's gay.
I swear that's what they do. They literally pull up my
Twitter and they're like, look, he's gay.
We're just hanging. Out he's like my gay friends, I.
Swear, I swear. This is my real life.
Wow. But yeah, so like, they think
I'm gay until my is in their mouth and then they're like oh
shit, OK, they're not gay. Yeah.
New method. Yeah, yeah.
Girls with boyfriends. But that's cool, man.
I'm happy you found a relationship.
You know, that's something I'm trying to get to at some point
in my life. Yeah.
How old are you, boss man?
21. 21, yeah. Hey, Freshly 21.
Yeah. Yeah, you look 21, man.
It's a really good thing, by the way.
Thanks. But.
I turned 21 in three months, but I just been telling people I'm
20. 10, OK, yeah, hey, that's important.
But that's cool though still, you know?
So you're 20? Yeah.
OK. But you're 21 in three months.
Yeah, it depends where I go. Like there's this one gay bar
and like that I go to and like they always let me in and they
don't ever give me like the the wristband thing.
So oh, so they just let you in? Yeah, and so now I'm like on
this list, Sir. So when I go there I just tell
them my Instagram username and then they just let me in.
You you'll be going to the you'll be going to the bars
often. Well it's the same same one just
cause like that's the only place I can really drink at, so I'll
go to that one. So is that more so of like an
occasion kind of thing like at least occasional like you kind
of go like here and there? No, yeah, probably go like once
or twice a month. Once or twice a month.
OK, you go like alone or what? No, definitely no.
All my friends go. OK, cool.
You guys just kick out the gay bar.
That's cool, actually. Yeah, there's a there's a lot of
girls there too, surprisingly. So like, you know, the gay guys,
they'll bring all their girlfriends and then, yeah, it's
a good time for everybody, you know?
Oh yeah, yeah. Interesting.
That's, that's cool, 'cause like the usually if they're gay,
they'll like tell the girl how hot you are.
That's really helps. So it's like the social proof,
'cause you know. The last time I tried that, the
last time I tried that, like I went, I went to a club and there
was like gay guys there. I was like, yo, like, is that
your your friend? And they like grabbed my, I was
like, yo-yo chill. Like they thought I was trying
to like flirt with them. Yeah, they went like this to me.
Well, what is? This in we have or.
No, this was in Mexico. Oh, this was in Cabo.
Wow. Yeah, damn, I don't know if I
want to go to Cabo anymore. I literally was like yo is that,
is that your friend? Like referring to the girls?
They're like, I don't think they hurt me.
I thought, I think they thought I was flirting.
That's crazy. They juggle with it.
They literally juggle like that's crazy.
Like it felt like a magic trick. Going like that.
You go to that bar and someone does that to you.
What are you doing? I'd probably just be like, whoa,
yeah, I really defence like what if they're good looking, you
know, hey, that's that's. A good one.
You're never creepy if you're good looking.
Like, you know, you can say the freakiest stuff to someone, but.
Like, as long as they think you're sexy.
Right. Like if a 65 year old says it to
them, then you know they're weird, they're creep, so.
But if boss man baits, my pants are off.
Yeah. Yeah, that's that's a good
experiment. We should do that.
We should be creepy. Yeah.
I really wonder like if that were to be the case, like how
many passes would you guys think we'd get?
Oh, I think you could do whatever you want or.
You could do whatever. I, I mean, well, I, I guys, I'm
talking about a group. It's a group effort here.
Like why no? But I think you like no like.
All of us. Bro, you're really?
You got like pretty privileged me, yes.
Bro, bro, you guys are bro. Does he not?
First of all. You could be like as as forward
as you want. Yeah.
You know, you guys are both the same age.
Oh. Really.
No, he's 20 where you're 22. Yeah.
Oh, I thought you're 21. No, he turned.
He turns 21 in three months. Oh my bad, I didn't hear.
Correctly, when's your birthday? October 27th.
Yeah. So I'm a I'm a little bit older
than you. Couple yours is May, right?
Yeah, May 19th. 25th. Close.
Wait, So what are you doing for your birthday?
You got plans or no? Might the party actually?
Whoa, hey, that's what you got 21?
Yeah, I'm. Thinking no, I was literally
going to tell you guys about it. That's gonna be cool.
I got a colonic trailer and shit.
I. Didn't mean to spoil it and
shit, but that's actually lit though.
So May 25th you turn 21. I'm.
I'm sure you're excited by that. Yeah.
And you're gonna have a big OF party.
That's all we're thinking. Like you're like, what are we
thinking? Shit, I mean, if it goes there,
you know, I guess it depends how much you drink, right?
But. That is, hey, that's a good
point. That is a good.
Point Yeah, you're turning 21. I'm assuming you're going to go
all out. Oh yeah, absolutely.
So I don't know what's going to happen, but it's it's going to
be recorded so. I take care of your boss, man.
Don't worry, I'll take care of you, recorded.
Yeah, recorded. OK, fuck yeah, I.
Can't. Then we can all be creepy
together. I can't go in.
For Boss Man's birthday. There we go, we'd all be creepy.
That's my birthday gifts from you guys.
Oh shit, there we go. Now I.
Have to go. Yep.
And then my gift for you is you just got to take it.
I'm gonna give it to you. You know what I mean?
Yeah. Or no.
Trying not to bottom as much anymore.
Oh, OK, wait. How come you don't want to
bottom anymore? You.
Got to live up to the boss man name bro.
You could still be a boss in bottom.
You could be the power bottom. Yeah, you could be the boss
telling them what to do while you're bottoming.
Exactly. Yeah, Yeah, that's true.
Wait so like I want to go back to the relationship a little
bit. So wait, why did you break up
with your ex again? The other girlfriend?
Yeah, man, that's so long ago. Well, I guess like what's
different? Like what are some things you
can do now versus that you weren't able to do before?
Well, I've always like, I, I would never date someone if I
couldn't really do whatever I wanted, like, you know, with the
work stuff. But I don't know.
I think the real reason I really broke up with my last one is
just because like, when I met her, I was so young, like I
hadn't really had much experience.
So I wanted to just kind of branch out, you know, get with
different people. She's really lazy.
And so, and I want to ask you too, like it seems like you're a
relationship kind of guy. Well, I mean, you've had to face
more than me, you know. So I want to know like, what
draws you in or what it like, you know, it's the debate like
do we stay single and lock in and not worry about having a
partner or like why do you choose to have a partner?
I personally think having a girlfriend helps me lock in.
How so? Because like.
So in the last like year and probably two months like I've,
I've slept with over 60 women. Whoa, actually.
Yeah. And like the, you know, it
sounds cool, but, you know, when you think about it, like,
imagine all that time I'm, like, investing in all those, like,
girls, you know, like, having to text them, going on dates, like,
you know, like them stay in the night.
And then I got to hang out with them a little bit the next day.
Like it's all just like a huge distraction, you know, like
swiping on Tinder, texting them on hands, like all this stuff,
you know, going up to girls, going out to go find girls, Like
it's all just a really huge distraction for me personally.
And so like, if I have one girlfriend, you know, I can
whenever I want to, I can do whatever I want to still, you
know, because. I yeah, you don't have to chase
no more. Right.
Yeah, no more Chase. So I'm really selective with who
I date and then as long as I'm able to focus and it's a really
good healthy. Relationship it's probably just
a personality type thing because some people they get in then
they get comfortable. Other people are like, Oh, well,
now I can just put all my energy into like, what I need to do,
yeah, and not have the distraction of chasing.
Yeah. So.
Yeah, it is a personality thing. I just, I know I flow better,
you know, with every aspect in life, like when I'm just not
chasing. Yeah, you've had both
perspectives, so now you know it works for you.
Right, right. Yeah.
My, my biggest thing is as long as they get to support within
whatever it is that I'm currently doing, I think that's
really what matters the most. You know, I think when it comes
to the point where they're gonna be stepping away from what I'm
doing, well, mainly because of what I'm doing, I think that's a
big issue, you know, not being supportive of what I do.
But I think it's cool that you can go about having to spend
time with that one person and one person only who truly cares
about you and also gets to support you and what you do,
right? That's that's what I think a
real relationship truly is about.
Yeah, I mean, it's cool, man. Like she takes me to and from
the airport when I travel for work.
She'll take my pictures for me, you know?
Right. So it's it's cool and it's like
I'm comfortable with her, you know?
It's not like some girl I met at the club or the next time I'm
like, yo, can you like take these pictures of me?
Right. So.
So, so you so you don't feel like limited on what you can or
can't do right besides clapping, I'm assuming with other females.
But besides that, besides that, when it comes to collabing with
like guys or whatever it is like you, you don't feel as limited
to be like doing certain collabs.
No, no, I'm still do whatever I want with the guys and, and
maybe the, you know, the girls will slow down, but I mean, my
subscribers really love the male content more anyways, so.
Yeah, just kissing the homies good night and shit, you know?
Yeah. Right.
That's it. It's just some cash besties
shit. You know, besties.
Can we talk about your first ever gay experience?
Yeah, Yeah, we can. So basically it had been a few
months after I'd started the blue page, like really like 7 or
8 months after I was on the live and everyone was just begging me
to like, you know, finally try some mail content like I never
really thought I would. Like when I had started like my
SO when I had first started, you know, I was at the construction
site. And so my goal with the blue
page is to make like $4000, you know, a month to supplement, you
know, the construction income. So I'm not working 60 hours a
week, but, you know, when I had started, I didn't realize, you
know, the, the earning potential of it.
But so basically, like I just kept doing good.
The months were getting better and better and better.
And then I think around month four or five, you know, I
noticed like a little decline. And then like month 5 for sure,
you know, I noticed a decline. Month six, it was a decline.
And so, you know, I eventually just caved in and I got from a
guy for the first time and yeah, that that was a really, really
high month. It was my best month by far,
probably as good or better than the last two months, you know,
combined. Dang, strictly from that one
video, but. Like what kind of impact did it
have on your page? Oh, significant.
Like like. Did you see the chats?
Like when you're messaging people, they were like, yo, this
is the best thing I've seen in my life.
Yeah, a lot of people complain because like, I wasn't really
able to like get up and like fully and like I didn't, I
wasn't able to like, you know, in it.
But besides that, there's a really good video.
And then I'd ran it back like a month or two after that where I
was like actually prepared for this because this was like.
Wait, you did all this on live? No, no, this was for a video,
but just the people on live were just like, oh.
What they were telling you. Yeah, I was like, all right, if
we get this tip going, this amount of time, I'll do this.
And they got it. And then you recorded it after.
Yeah. And then I was like, well,
great. Well, now I got to find a guy to
do this with, you know? And like, there wasn't at the
time any creators that lived around me, you know, because I
live in Tennessee. There's like, none.
Like I knew none. And if they were, they were
straight. They're not going to do that.
Right. Yeah.
And so this trader I've been talking to from Wisconsin
happened to be going to, like, the Nashville area to help his,
like, girlfriend move. Not girlfriend, like his female
friend. Yeah.
It's like, help her move to Nashville.
And he was like, can can I swing by?
I was like, yeah, matter of fact, actually, do you think we
could, like, do like a video for the blue page?
And he was like, absolutely. He's like, I thought you'd never
ask. So yeah.
So my, my eggplant wasn't really functioning the way that I
should have been. So, but you know, we had already
filmed the video, you know, so I threw it out kind of kind of
regret it. I wish I would have gave him a
better experience for the first video, but you know, it panned
out how it panned out, so. That's a fire story, man.
I think you inspired Parker. No, I'm just hearing the you say
it's triple. Oh, yeah.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. But not I'm not inspired.
It was like it went up like 22.5 X probably.
Whoa, damn, think about what you're making. 2.5 X 2. .5 X
yeah, that would be nice, yeah. Yeah, he's never collabed or
anything like that, so we're trying to see why.
I just, I just can't I. Why you all shy?
Huh, Shy. So.
Why haven't you done any collabs with guys yet?
I'm scared I might like it. What's wrong with that?
I don't know. I.
Don't know. There's nothing wrong with it.
It's just, you know, I don't know.
I just I just what? Happens if you like it and
you're gonna make money doing something you enjoy, right?
Yeah, then I beat heaven. It's because he's a virgin so he
don't even know what he likes. I.
Mean you don't have to go out here clapping dudes and shit.
No, but what if he just only experiments with guys and never
girls and then he just, you know, and it.
Like molds me. I'm like, oh shit, this is the
old. Yeah, I know.
I see what you're saying. I don't know.
I think if you can do stuff and just keep it on like a bro
level, you know, like we have before.
Yeah. Oh yeah, You know, I think, I
think. Wait, what did y'all do?
We well, we collide with Brawl boss man.
Yeah, he didn't get me. Well, I can't give him that
either. Bro we.
Talking about, yeah, nothing like that.
No, wait. OK, so but it's just.
Like some bro stuff? I got a question though, so
other than the first time getting like, what were other
big surges in your account or what were other big content
pieces for you? So I had got my shape by my ex
at the time. That video itself sold really
well and I was like, well, I wonder if a guy did it, you
know, if it would do good. And I did it with a guy.
And that's the thing. Parker's 'cause I genuinely
enjoyed that. Wait, so within.
OK so within you, you now stepping away from the bottom
and content more so then now sticking to the top.
Dom, are you picking and choosing with a specific collabs
and who you are doing it with when it comes to that or are you
trying to top anyone and anyone whoever it is willing to take
the boss man slang. No, no, I'm really selective.
Like, one, have to be attracted to you and then two, you know,
you have to like have some kind of like, unless you're my friend
in real life, you know, there's a few exceptions, but I feel
like you got to have some kind of like following of some sort
for, you know, so we both gain, you know, mutually from it.
So I try not to be as, you know, particular, like how much do you
make? How many Subs do you have?
I try to try not to be like that, but it's got to make
sense, you know, I think for filming a video as crazy as
that. Would you say besides it just
having to be a friendship online, do you think that within
people who are around the same exact, I guess work field that
we all do, Would you say you have a lot of friends around the
circle, a lot more like real life friends that do the same
thing that we all do? Or would you say it's more so
just like an online kind of like connection kind of thing for
you? I think it depends.
I think in Tennessee it's all just genuine friendship.
And then I think when I travel, you know, to LA and Miami and
to, yeah, when I travel to those two places, I think it's more of
like a, hey, I'll be in town this day, are you available?
You know, usually I'll hang out a little bit before, a little
bit after, and that's kind of fun.
But like usually like with those craters, I'm not besides like
Samir, I guess. Probably 1 I'd say.
Hey, shout out Mr. Spicy, we're gonna see him soon.
Yeah, boy, Spicy. Yeah, he's spicy.
Yeah, but like besides him, because like we'll we'll talk,
you know, every every so often. But besides him, it's more just,
you know, hey, I'm in town, are you here?
And stuff like. That I think you also know too
about by the personality and how you know things go within the
day of or whenever you meet someone, whether they're, you
know, whether they're to your intentions just to be your
friend or not. You'll get that.
Yeah. I mean, like you said earlier,
but in this podcast, there are people who are like, hit or
miss. Yeah.
Makes sense.
Just want to know. Can you tell us about your worst
topping experience? Worse, Yeah, I don't want to say
who the creator is just simply because he doesn't really do it
anymore. Like the blue page but.
OK. Yeah, yeah.
Do we know him? Maybe yeah, we'll ask after.
But basically he he got a little juice on me, I guess.
Whoa, whoa, whoa. That was like one of my yeah,
that was like one of my first few times ever filming something
like that. I think it was like my second or
third call. It's actually still on my page
so you know if. We can see the.
Yeah, if you're really interested, you know, you can
take a guess. You know, I'll just, I'll give a
hint. It was when I lived in LA and it
was like within my first 3 to 4 collabs like that so.
OK. And how did you feel getting
painted? Man, well, so like, I wasn't
prepared. It's just it never happened to
me before and yeah, I wasn't really happy about it.
What's your body count? Yeah, what's your body count?
You say you got 60 in the past year.
Yeah. It's like with guys or girls.
Like combined and then you could break down.
Combined I would say like it's less than 80 dude.
That's. Crazy.
And all the guys are on video too.
So like outside of that I don't know.
I would say with guys it's somewhere between probably 12
and 15, and then with girls it's like 73, so.
And like, I think two or three of those are on my blue page.
So damn. Yeah, 70. 30 he needs help
losing his virginity. You got any advice for him
getting laid with your 73 woman body count?
That's more than you. Oh yeah, it is.
That's more than, but I'm selective in.
You I'm selective I'm. Just no but like for example
for. Example for example.
No, no, no, no. He.
Said Nashville got like better. It's not that.
Look, this is what I meant. Like I don't be pursuing like
shit no more. You know what I'm saying?
I'm trying to look for a girlfriend.
Yeah, but it it takes time. And another thing that I never
used until recently because when I went to Mexico, my friend was
like yo download Tinder so you can find people in Mexico to and
me I never used dating apps ever.
Oh yeah, I. Did exactly and I think that's
the difference because I OK so boom, I had it in Mexico.
I came back, I got a notification that I still had
Tinder and I was like what the fuck?
I don't want to have Tinder in LA and then wait, you said why?
Yeah. Well, OK.
I didn't realize how easy it is to have off of Tinder.
And I never used dating apps before cause me I've always been
an Instagram and TikTok kind of guy.
You. Like we'll just DM.
I just DM and then boom it goes down in the DMS. But Tinder is
like just a hooking up app in my opinion.
Like everybody on there, it just seems like they want to.
Yeah, somewhat. I mean, just even if they say
looking for a long term relationship, I just look at
them. I'm like, you don't look like
you're like looking for a long term relationship.
So I just think like if you want to speed run your body count, do
Tinder. I would say half the girls I met
on Tinder, I would say like, yeah, in the first night, yeah.
But like on him just. So imagine if I was using Tinder
for a whole year. Bro.
I think I'll be itching and burning.
Oh, and by the way, real quick, my bad boss man.
But yesterday was actually the nine months.
I thought it was 10 months. I was a month wrong, but nine
months officially of me having a SEX behind the camera.
Really. So why have you done that?
Like, I mean, 'cause obviously you know, you're attractive
enough to worry can for the most part.
So like, well, it's, it's just like you're haven't found anyone
too, or you're just choosing not to.
Yeah. I no, I'm, I'm chosing not to me
personally, I I've chosen to not do it.
And I think it's more so too, because of how long the hair
down there is. I don't think I'm more so
comfortable with just kind of yelling it to anyone else.
So I'm just sticking to the one year.
I'm only two months away now or I think 3.
All right, boss man. So going back to collabs, who is
your dream collab? Who is someone that you wish
that you collab you could collab with that you haven't collab
with just yet? I'm honestly surprised that
hasn't happened yet, but I'd say Reno Gold.
Oh, that's light work.
Yeah, shout out Reno, by the way, shout out Reno.
Really good guy. He's been to the house multiple
times. He's cool.
I haven't even met him yet, surprisingly so.
Nah, he's a really friendly guy. I can see you guys collabing.
Yeah, yeah. Is there anything specific that
you would do with Reno or is there more so between you guys?
Honestly with him I'd probably say whatever he wants.
So OK, leave a message for me. I think that would be a good
collab. Yeah.
I can see it. I think so, especially now that
I'm back in shape and stuff because like with him, you know,
like I was kind of worried to reach out because, you know,
he's built the way he's built and, you know, like for.
You didn't want to get mugged. Right.
Yeah. So now I feel like I'm up there
now. I feel like honestly, in a
humble way, so are. You a top Reno?
Yeah. How old?
Oh shit. Yeah, I mean, he's, I've never
been with someone so like Tone, like he's almost built like
Parker in a way. He just has like tone muscle.
It just looks good. And so I think that yeah, I
think everyone would enjoy that. The Subs, me and him so.
I guess you're bound to wait everyone.
If you were to, if you were to take Parker's collab virginity,
what would you guys do? It's collab.
Oh, it seems like he's like low key scared of men.
So if he's scared to like it, I would say we could do something
simple like like a shower or something.
OK. Oh.
A shower. Yeah, it's something like stuff
that I've done with my boys, like off camera, you know what I
mean? OK, OK.
Scrubbing up. Right.
Yeah, I'd like to. That's just the start.
No, but one thing I didn't want to bring up, though, a little
bit of a blast in the past. Like I said, it's been a while,
all right, since we've done a podcast, but I know, like, what
is it? Damn. 2 almost three years,
2023, we did a podcast with you and there was a clip that had
went completely viral of you talking about your worst
collabs. Oh yeah.
And has any creators that you have mentioned within that viral
clip had reached out to you at any way shape or form being like
yo bro what do you mean? No, so, so one had went really
viral with you guys and it was about.
Oh, that one too. That one too, I'm surprised he
didn't reach out, but not really because I don't think he
actually gives a shit about any of any of this stuff.
OK, yeah, he kind of kind of fell off a little bit.
But the other one, I think you guys bleeped his name out.
And so it's even if you wouldn't have, you know, still not a fan
of that guy to this day. So.
Yeah, I mean, that's interesting.
You know I. I heard you didn't tell your
girl about that collab. My ex, My ex one yeah, yeah, she
knew about everything. Yeah.
She was like, she was always there.
She was like a recorder or. Nothing.
She was there. She wasn't like at the.
Like she was. The house, No, no, she wasn't
there. But like, like, you know, like I
think at the time they had lived in Arizona.
And so she would just travel with me everywhere.
Do your ex get jealous ever? No, surprisingly not.
No. So she didn't care.
You know, inspire stuff every now and then, so.
There you go. That's how you got him to shut
up and just touch up. You know what I'm saying?
Get him going. She was, she wasn't a gold
digger or anything. My ex but.
She was. You still got it.
Well, I would never date a gold digger.
I genuinely thought they were. But no, she was with me and I'd
like -300 bucks. So damn.
That was before the blue page. We had been together like a year
and a half. So yeah, that wasn't about
money, but it sure helped her shut up, so I was willing to do
it. You know what?
I mean so how that impact your page?
Bro, I'll be honest, I think my my record week before my first.
No, no, it's out to my yeah, I think you guys honestly helped
me get like at least a top three-week.
So yeah, like I, I don't know if, yeah, I want to hear the
dollar amount, but it was A at the time, it was my record week.
What was your record week? Record week on the blue page is
like 30 something. I think it was like 32,000
between my free and paid page combined far so and that was the
first time I ever bought them. I was that that video?
Hell yeah, yeah, I went went insane.
Within within that time, 2023 to right now, what would you say
change or at least what's the difference between doing the
blue page 2023 versus 2026? I let's say in 2023, I could get
away with posting more of the stuff I like to post on
Instagram and TikTok. I feel like all the stuff that I
post now, it's just every other video gets deleted and it's
really frustrating because then you know, they like penalize you
to like slow your videos down, take your videos down.
And back then I like, I would say I enjoyed filming like reels
and tik toks and stuff where now it's I don't really enjoy it
because I can't film what I want to really because it's also like
PG and stuff now. But I get it from their sides.
But you know, I'm not on their side.
So I agree, I just think it's what it is more so like it's
just like how saturated it's getting now with there's a bunch
of creators that want to start doing and promoting their pages
where it's like they make it a lot more riskier for others to
do risky things because now everyone is doing it.
So it's like now it's being a lot more like it's just being
shown more than it was back then.
I would also notice it has got a little more saturated.
But I think, you know, I think if you if you're honest about
your content, you make good content and you're consistent, I
don't think it really matters that much because, you know, you
got to think these people have been supporting you for years at
this point. So I mean, you know, they're
loyal. So if they're there, they're
going to be with you no matter who starts and all that.
So I think I don't think saturation matters if you
already had a following, you know before.
No, I say that's a good point for 100%.
I agree with that. It might be a personal question,
but do you guys get like a new house like for every season or
is that just kind of how it's? Like, yeah, no, it seems like
it. I think every year we do try our
best to really upgrade. You know, I think I, I think
when it gets to a point where a lot of the the fans who are
watching shout out to you, baby, I love you where they're like,
all right, you like we need a different scenery.
I think also too, when it gets to the point where we started
using up majority of our space where Season 1 we obviously live
in an apartment that was the very beginning of everything.
We definitely over over use that space for sure.
Yeah, I was gonna ask that y'all like really live there because
when I walked in like couldn't really move because of all the
setup. There we go right so that's a
that's a really good example right there let alone like yes,
we live there and we realize like hey, by the way, I think we
should upgrade yeah. I think the space here is not
really doing us so well. Obviously we're working with
what we got, right, boss man that.
Look good though. That setup look good.
I probably say that's even my favorite setup that you had.
I missed the very very beginning.
Yeah, legendary. We didn't even know what was
happening at the time. But yeah, I think Brandon said
it best. The issue is just we outgrow our
environment. So if we outgrow our
environment, how we're going to keep growing, right?
So now I mean, as you can see, we got this studio that's a
whole nother podcast studio. Yeah, that's cool too.
Thank. You.
Yeah, that's not even for us. And then there's more.
There's like another studio right there.
Yeah, so I think so. No, I was just my bad, Julian,
but I was just going to say too, it's like that's definitely what
it is, right. Again, we're just going to,
we're just going to continue using up the amount of space
that we currently have until we realize that we used enough of
it to then. Move forward to the next, you
know, But yeah, I just think, and yeah, Julian said too, it's
like now we're over here having other projects being worked on
too, because now we want to utilize that space, right?
And also, I don't know if you noticed, but the team has also
grown too. So now we have more people here
helping us out. So yeah, you know, it's only
expanding. It's only growing.
And I think it's a good thing. And I feel like if it gets to
the point where it's overwhelming, guess what?
Just a new environment, you know, a new space, something
new. I think that's what makes it
really is important is that if you can learn to grow and you
can go about having to stay within a new environment, it's
not going to keep you motivated to just keep pushing and keep
growing your your team and keep growing the equipment and
everything else you got going on.
Yeah, I agree. That's kind of similar with you
guys. You know, like I'd say nine
months ago, I was living like a townhouse, just one of my
friends, and then bought a house so I could have like two other
creators that I like to work with the most, like lived there.
And then, you know, like I was only there four months.
And so I'd bought another house, a bigger house.
And so it's got like 5 rooms in it and it's pretty nice.
And so, yeah, I would say it's definitely got to level up when
you can. So hell yeah, it's the most
important part I. Think the main thing is you got
to keep expanding. You know, you can't get
comfortable when staying where you're at, you know, because
that's how you, you know, if you're not growing, you're
dying. So I think that's the biggest
thing with us and that's the main thing I learned from that
other house living in Beverly. I think at least I was speaking
for myself. But I think we got super
comfortable and, you know, moving into this house, I've
been the most motivated and and, and yeah, just the most
motivated I've been. And yeah, I think this house
serves us very well. And, you know, we're building
sets. We're we're trying to improve
every single day. So yeah, we just keep trying new
things, new formats, new content, because content is
always changing. You know, the podcast I feel
like is always getting better. So just every week trying to up
ourselves, yeah. I keep thinking about it.
Do you guys match on purpose the shoes?
No, it's. Just the, it's just the, it's
the trend, it's. The essential, I mean, yeah,
it's essential I. Don't know what the heck.
I was gonna say this is the fuck boy shit.
That's all. I mean, white Air Force.
You can't go wrong with it, you know, It's just what?
What are you wearing? Oh.
Some Adidas. I just saw white some ultra.
Boost. Yeah, I just, I noticed his
'cause he's like moves his feet a lot and then that's like it's
happening to notice it. Yeah, it's kind of yeah.
It just goes with everything. You're on the same team.
Basically, yeah, but I didn't think about that shit too.
Hey, we should have like a Nike Air Force.
One wild colour across her leg in that direction.
The West in the back right here. Nice little wild imprint in the
back. Oh yeah, I should do that, yeah.
Nike, hit us up if you wanna make some money and shit anyways
Boston, what do you think of the pros and cons of doing
personally, the pros and cons the.
Pros get the travel, it's pretty, pretty solid
financially, a lot of freedom. The cons, I mean, not that I
really care at all, but judgment, yeah, that's it.
That's pretty much it. Yeah, And then I guess like, you
know, let's say I changed my mind when I'm 30, you know, I
got all these videos when I was younger than me doing all this
stuff. And that's nine years from now,
you know. Yeah, but that's really it.
Besides that, yeah, it's awesome.
I would like, want my son to do it.
So. Me too.
Yeah. Now, yeah, shout out to my
future kit and shoot. Yeah.
No, I think when it comes to, like, the whole, like,
regretting part, I think as long as you're confident, there's
nothing to regret. Yeah.
You know, it's like, you know, honestly, at least when it comes
to me and me personally, it's like I would not regret to show
off something that I'm proud of, you know?
And that's what my mom and my absent father gave me.
And that's all I can go about judging.
You know, that's the only thing you can go about judging is how
good you look. But that's only if you think you
look good. And that's only if you're
confident in yourself. That's all it really is, you
know, showing what you got and let the world see it.
Not wrong with that. If others are judging you, that
means they don't got what you got.
That's confidence. Definitely notice that.
Yeah, yeah, that's called. Confidence, confidence
securities, you know, if they're going to judge you, you know,
everyone got something to say, you know?
Yo, So what are your plans for 2026 or what are or what goals
you got anything you want to accomplish, you know, so in a
year from this podcast, you can watch it back and see like yo, I
did it or I changed my mind. I would say this is a probably
soon, I really say it, but I'm going to anyways.
I feel like this is what will be the first year.
I think I want to aim for like a 7 figure year and that's before
taxes and that's after the split.
And yeah, that's my goal. It's a good goal.
Yeah, Yeah, I was. I was really close to it last
year and I want to try and do it this year there.
You go, man. That's that's my biggest one, so
and even if it's not all just my personal page, I still have
other stuff I do too. So really just seven figures
throughout cumulatively, yeah. So do you make more an hour back
then like 2023-2024? 2023, I think like when I
finished here, I was at like 20 and then at 2024 I would say
it's like kept going up to like went up to 30 to 40.
And then like once I dropped that bottom collab, that was
around February of 2024, that was like my first like 6 figure
month. And then I had like really,
really good months for like 5 or 6 months after that where it was
either like right at it or under it.
But right now I'm doing still pretty good, probably about a
little over half of 6 figures, probably like 60 to 70.
And then like my other business stuff is doing pretty, pretty
decent. It's improving.
Yeah, I think you could definitely hit that goal.
Yeah, I'm, I'm trying. It's just like it's really hard
because I feel like I'm not around enough people that really
motivate me. It's all just like self
motivated so, but I don't want to move out here either.
You know, it's taxes and you know.
Yeah, well, it's just a flight away.
Yeah, yeah. So I like just coming out here,
you know, hanging out with the boys, getting some content in
and then going back home, you know, I got my bed, my dog, my
girl, all my other, you know, friends that I grew up with so.
It's pretty cool. There we go.
Man, I love to hear that. I'm glad to see you're doing
good. Obviously you're looking good
and you're living good. And man, this year is going to
be your year. Bossman year.
Bossman year, there we go. Hey man, love to hear it, man.
Thanks. Oh yeah.
But. Yeah, man, Is there anything
else you want to leave out this leave out or leave before leave
on this part or say anything else?
Oh. Man, check me out on on
Instagram, Bossman Bates. It's been shadow band for like 2
months, so I'm just going to start a bunch of Instagrams, but
check out check out that one. It's got every link on it.
It's got my website. You can see me, all my friends
and yeah. And your podcast is starting
back up, right? Yes, check out the pod boss
talks pod on all platforms. It's a it's pretty, pretty
interesting, I would say, in that they've been on it.
I'm trying to hop back on. Yeah, we, I got to have all
three of you guys on it. Next time I come here, probably
within the next two or three months, we'll make that happen,
I bet. Sounds like the plan.
So check it out. If you guys want to check us
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