On this episode using pre come as a gauge, this is the holistic
alpha male optimization podcast where we help you unleash your
true power as a man. Hey guys, welcome back to the
show. I'm Steven Mathis.
Thank you for being here with me.
Let's talk about pre cum and using it as a gauge.
One of my most important things that has affected me that I talk
to clients about is pay attention to the gauges and your
body and your mind and your sexuality.
And one of those gauges in our sexuality is pre con.
It is actually a very important one, a very meaningful one to
pay attention to. Let's talk about the specifics
of that now. First of all, let's get out of
the way that it's not about comparing as if you somehow
could compare. I'm not sure how you would, but
it's definitely not about comparing the amount of pre con
that you have versus another guy.
That doesn't matter. What does matter is using it to
help you understand what is happening in your body and in
your sexuality. First of all, let's clarify what
pre cum is. Pre cum is a fluid that comes
out as you get aroused. For some guys it comes out very
very easily. The slightest arousal of any
kind, even if they're not hard and they'll have pre cum.
Other guys have not very much pre cum at all.
So again, it doesn't really matter.
There's definitely some differences between men, but
it's that clear fluid that starts to come out.
And to be very clear, when it comes to semen retention, when
it comes to sexual energy, I do not believe there is any
energetic loss from pre cum. The most strict interpretation
of Taoist teachings would tell you that there is some loss of
energy in pre cum, but most of even Daoist teachings and my
experience has absolutely been that there is no energetic loss
in pre cum. In fact, the exact opposite.
The exact opposite. By the way, quick note because
something that some of you guys I know because I've talked with
you, but many of you that I may not have spoken with, something
you may have experienced is a fluid coming out that's not
clear precum and it's not ejaculation, it's not semen,
It's something kind of in between.
It's not clear, but it's also not the same consistency as
semen. So what can happen is if you
stimulate the prostate significantly, so if you're very
roused, if your root muscle is very engorged, it's doing a lot
of clenching. And depending on how you're
using that, depending on your arousal level, depending on how
you're engaging with that, you can in essence kind of milk the
prostate, right? So if you look up milking the
prostate or prostate massage, you can stimulate the prostate
where it releases some of that fluid.
Now, the reason that it's different is because when we
ejaculate, the prostate releases fluid, but then sperm is also
released and it mixes together, right?
And there's some differences there, one of them being it's
much stickier, right? Sperm has the ability to, in
essence, hang on inside of a woman.
That same thing applies. So that's something that can
help you tell the difference between those two.
But when we have that milking the prostate thing, now you may
have that. So if you've done anal
stimulation or milked the prostate that way, you may have
experienced that where you do actually ejaculate at the same
time. However, it is not always the
case. And you very well may have
experienced this where you have this prostate fluid kind of
released. It's not clear, but it's also
not semen. And my belief with that is
again, that there's a little, if any energy loss.
So it's up to you to kind of figure out and tune into what is
happening in your body. First of all, from which sort of
fluid you're experiencing. Now let's talk about using pre
cum as a gauge because it is indeed a very valuable gauge
because two things from how pre cum happens in your life will
help you understand what is going on in your sexuality in
the moment as well as bigger picture.
So bigger picture, if you're practices change in whatever way
and you have more pre come as a result of that, that is likely
telling you that you have opened up those energetic channels more
and you are having more energy flow through that entire area.
And that's a good thing, a very good thing.
If you have more pre come in a particular session versus
another session, that might tell you that in that particular
session you got a little deeper, you had more energy flow in that
particular session. So there's nothing here to be
judgmental about by any means. And I wouldn't necessarily set
it as any kind of target to work towards.
It will however be a by product and a symptom of what is
happening. So if for example, you actually
have a decline in the amount of precum you're used to
experiencing sort of a certain amount and you have a decline in
that, that may tell you that there is some stagnation and
that may actually happen as you get closer to needing to
release. So something that I've talked
about previously with retention is that it is not always a
longer is better scenario. There is a right amount for you
right now at this moment in time on your unique journey.
There's a a best kind of length of time that you will likely
find with some testing and that may be a sign that you've
actually reached that point. So if you have a certain amount
of pre cum and let's say X amount of time goes by retaining
let's say 2 weeks and then after two weeks your pre cum actually
goes down, that may be telling you that there's some stagnant
energy in a maybe time to actually release.
So bottom line with this, there is no one-size-fits-all.
It really doesn't matter. It's not about trying to get the
most possible. Although if you find that when
you have the most in your unique experience that that's when you
feel the best, then by all means do that.
And I would suggest that you look at it as a gauge and just
pay attention because it can help you understand, I think on
a very fundamental basis, it will help you understand how
much energy is flowing through your body versus how much energy
is normally flowing through your body from a sexual energy
standpoint, moving along that microcosmic orbit, moving along
that pathway, that circular Oval kind of pathway in our body.
The more that that's happening, the more open it is, the more
free that flow of energy is, the more precum you're going to have
in comparison to whatever you normally have.
I hope that makes sense. Let me know, as always, in the
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post a comment below. I'm so grateful that you've
shared a few minutes of your day here with me.
Go keep stacking bricks in your life in all the ways Jackie and
I are going to do that. Go get some.