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Thanks for checking out the 
anchor Faith, Message podcast 

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from st. 
Augustine Florida. 

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Now, enjoy this message. 
Again, happy Mother's Day, the 

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Lord is good. 
Now if you're a woman we're 

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going to be speaking to you too 
even if you're single because 

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the message today isn't just for
moms, although it's it applies 

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is for women in general. 
I said, you know I got something

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to say to women. 
Because the Lord has something 

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to say to women. 
Hallelujah, and sometimes I 

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think women need to hear from a 
man of God. 

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Because they're hearing from a 
bunch of ungodly men. 

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And we as men need to make sure 
our words and the way we speak 

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to women treat, women, stay in 
line with the word. 

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There are things that don't 
exist today. 

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Because you know, manhood has 
been diminished tremendously. 

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But we need to stay with manhood
when it comes to how we honor 

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women. 
So with that being said, turn 

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over to Genesis chapter 1, 
because if you want to know 

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about a woman, you got to go 
back to the beginning, right? 

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You can't know women. 
Today, you have to know women 

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according to God's design. 
Amen. 

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And in Genesis chapter 1 
starting in verse 26 will go to 

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verse 28. 
Then God said let us make man in

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our image. 
In our lot in a according to our

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likeness and let them rule over 
the fish of the sea over, the 

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birds of the sky, over the 
cattle, and over all the Earth, 

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over every creeping thing that 
creeps on the earth, God 

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created, man in his own image. 
In the image of God, he created 

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him male and female he created 
them. 

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God blessed them, and God said 
to them, be fruitful multiply 

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fill the Earth and subdue it and
rule over the fish of the sea 

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over the birds of the sky and 
over every living thing that 

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moves on the earth. 
So the first thing we need to 

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learn as we read Genesis 1:26, 
as he said, let us make Make 

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man, man is the spirit of 
humanity. 

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So when I say Humanity, that is 
both male and female. 

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When I say mankind, although 
it's not a politically correct 

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word now. 
But when we say mankind, we're 

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not talking male were talking 
male and female. 

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When we say Humanity were 
saying, male and female. 

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When God says, let us make, man,
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humanity. 
Why do we know that the spirit 

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of man, is it assigned? 
The gender is the spirit of, 

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man, although the spirit has a 
gender assigned to it. 

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How do we know this? 
Because it's placed in a skin 

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suit. 
And so God said, let us make man

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in our image, according to our 
likeness, let them rule them 

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Humanity rule, he made Man In 
His Image, both male and And he 

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never gets the spirit of man 
wrong in the suit there in God. 

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Never does that. 
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Because you were known before 
you were born. 

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Before you in your mother's 
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There is no such thing from the 
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We're all of a sudden, you know,
we'll just treat it like it's a 

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joke, right? 
That's a Peter or Gabriel runs 

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to God and say, we blew it. 
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Had a mistake. 
What do you mean a mistake? 

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Well, We're going to put 
so-and-so into this womb but we 

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actually put them in a different
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That's never happened in the 
history of all creation. 

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But yet today because the devil 
is afraid of you, knowing who 

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you are. 
As Pastor Mark said here and in 

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Fort Walton Beach. 
He said, if you don't identify 

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your identity, if you are in an 
identity crisis, the crisis will

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become your identity. 
And the reality is I understand 

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on one side mercies their, I'm 
not mad because I realized they 

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just are trying to figure out 
who they are but if you don't go

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to the word of God to find it 
then the devil will accommodate 

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confusion. 
Are you hearing me in no other 

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form of creation? 
Is there this kind of crisis? 

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None. 
So God, he placed Humanity in 

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His image to rule in a mail suit
and a female suit. 

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And both were to have dominion. 
Go ahead. 

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Ladies say, I have dominion say,
I have dominion now, dominions a

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serious thing because the 
Dominion means rulership It 

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means to rule. 
It means to govern, it means to 

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manage because God in his word, 
never created subspecies. 

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When it came to humanity, he 
created Sons and Daughters of 

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the king. 
He created children that had the

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same ability to rule, and this 
is before sin, though, female 

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did not take a supported orat 
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after the fall. 
So, in God's eyes, before sin 

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came when he looked at Adam and 
Eve, he saw equals All right, 

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I'll go over here, ladies. 
I need you to help me. 

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He saw equals. 
He saw equality. 

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And because they were without 
sin, there was never 

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competition. 
Adam never would have told his 

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wife. 
I'm not doing it because her 

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words only would have been the 
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There, never would have been, 
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we're gonna do it my way because
your way is God's way, my way is

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God's way. 
We're only doing it God's way 

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and it would not have mattered 
to Adam, if God spoke to his 

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wife, to say what God Said and 
said, oh, that's right. 

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That's what God says, will do 
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There was no conversation before
sin where he said I'm the head 

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of the house. 
I'll figure it out. 

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Just say Amen. 
Anyway, because we are stuck in 

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a different age, a different 
condition that God now has 

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placed a model. 
But let me tell you, it's not 

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staying this way, it's not stay 
in this way and if we actually 

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notice through scripture, God is
the greatest Liberator of 

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females than anyone else ever on
the planet, he's done more for 

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Females than even the so-called 
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Are you hearing me? 
And the reality is religion. 

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Has placed women in a vulnerable
position because when when man 

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fell When sin entered the world,
men began to treat women as 

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property. 
And even now the greatest 

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struggles that women have in the
planet is because of religion. 

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In fact, there's a whole 
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For the men that if they die, 
for their God, they will be with

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God and as a reward, get 21 
virgins yet, they treat the 

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women here like dogs, they don't
value them, they have no value 

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for them. 
They openly physically and 

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verbally abuse them. 
And yet, they have this dream to

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have 21 virgin ones when they 
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Do you really think their 
attitude towards them would be 

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different somewhere else? 
But we know this religion, 

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they're not getting them anyway.
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They're going to get the Lake of
Fire. 

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They'll become a eunuch, the 
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They'll never ever be with a 
woman. 

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Again, Holly and won't be 
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They'll be too concerned about 
their torment. 

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Religion has reduced. 
Why is there such human 

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trafficking happen? 
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Because sin has caused women to 
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them. 
I mean, if we just read the 

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Bible, God always honored women.
Always one of the first examples

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of God, honoring a woman is by 
the name of Sarah, Sarah, that 

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was Abraham's wife and she made 
a mistake because she could have

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children her and her husband 
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I speculate that she was trying 
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here. 
Was it me or Abraham? 

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Who can he not? 
Help me have a child. 

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So, when he handed her his 
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more difficult for her. 
Because now she knows I'm the 

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issue because Hagar got 
pregnant, but it was never God's

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will for Abraham to go that 
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But later on, when that child 
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promised child, she went to 
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have to send them off. 
And God said, Abraham, listen to

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your wife. 
I think men need to learn to 

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listen to their wives. 
Go ahead and say, Amen! 

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Come on, let I'm going to help 
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I'ma help you guys today. 
I'm gonna say that statement 

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again and you should say Amen 
louder than everybody. 

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Okay, let's do men. 
Should listen to their wives. 

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Thank you. 
Yeah, why don't you three? 

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Oh yeah. 
Mighty Man there, bro. 

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Mighty Man. 
There didn't even have anybody 

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jump on that Pastor. 
Mike we got some training to do,

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come on because if you thought 
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women better than this. 
Are you hearing me? 

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This is why I needed to preach 
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There was another woman called a
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Her name was Debra. 
And the Army came to Deborah and

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says, can we take the enemy? 
They did not go to her husband. 

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Then you go to him and she says 
the Lord's with you take them, 

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they said, well, because again, 
this is how man's struggle with 

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understanding the value of a 
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Okay, well, we're not going to 
go into battle unless you go in 

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essence, maybe you're wrong. 
So you're going to go with us 

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because if it goes bad, you 
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And so, she's bold, because she 
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She wasn't intimidated by that, 
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She said that's fine. 
I'll go with you because I know 

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what the Lord said. 
Butler know this a man won't get

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credit for the battle today, but
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So there was a woman in a tent 
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a part of this process. 
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understand the value that came 
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God said, I won't give the 
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I'm going to give it to a woman 
and when the king, showed up at 

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the woman's 10 and says hi me, 
I'm tired. 

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You know, and she's like, oh 
man, here's the guy that 

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everyone's asked her. 
Come on in, She lays him down. 

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Gives him some milk. 
Covers him up makes him 

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comfortable and in drives a 
state strap through his Temple. 

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Hallelujah women and helped me 
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Are you hearing me husbands, if 
you get your wives involved with

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some of your problem, they'll 
start eliminating your enemies 

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for me. 
You won't have problems at work 

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like you haven't because your 
wife, will pray that enemy? 

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Oh, now your life will be in a 
stand in the Gap that you're not

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standing in, all right? 
And they're like, hey, is 

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anybody here? 
The guy you're looking for is in

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my Chambers? 
Why don't you come on in and see

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if see if this is it? 
So they come in like we're going

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to take him, he's dead. 
He's already dead. 

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Amen. 
God, in the beginning. 

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Said, women are extremely 
valuable. 

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And this is what's crazy to me 
that men can't see. 

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This is because she came out us 
Why would you abuse yourself? 

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Why would you devalue a part of 
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Something that you carried on 
the inside and when God paraded 

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every type of Creation in front 
of Adam? 

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And he said there wasn't a 
suitable helper. 

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In essence, he saying, listen, 
You'll Never Find your comfort 

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in any other source and there's 
nothing else you can pursue. 

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That's going to be a help to 
you. 

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I want you to look at all my 
career. 

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I want you to name them. 
A dog shouldn't be man's best 

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friend. 
My wife is my best friend. 

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She's my best friend. 
She's my lover. 

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She's my passion, she comes 
alongside me and not underneath 

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me. 
She holds me up strengthens me. 

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She gives me Godly wisdom, and 
counsel cheek allows me to touch

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and agree with no one further 
than my own bedroom and I cause 

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things to move in the Earth 
because we're two people 

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touching agree. 
I don't have to go call a bunch 

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of men and say, hey, we going to
war today, I can say, honey, 

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let's pray will bond this right 
now. 

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I might let some guys in on the 
process, but we going to whip 

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this ourselves. 
Are you hearing me? 

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Because God, understood the 
value that he placed in a woman,

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because man, when he made out of
me for him, out of the Dust of 

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the earth, breathed into his 
nostrils, the Breath of Life, 

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brought him everything that the 
world could offer and says, none

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of this is good for you. 
It won't help you accomplish 

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your purpose. 
What you have is already inside.

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Yo, I'ma pull it out. 
And man, Adam was smart enough 

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when he saw her. 
He said, Whoa, man. 

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Sure, you've heard that one. 
This is bone of my bone Flesh, 

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of My Flesh, right? 
We'll call her woman because a 

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man shall leave his father and 
mother, and cleave cleave cleave

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to his wife and they'll become 
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It's amazing. 
How most men are marrying women 

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to parade them. 
Not to come to cleave to them. 

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Well, let me find me a sweet 
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front of everybody. 
This is my wife with all her 

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Botox Blowed up lips. 
New hood ornaments. 

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Just say, Amen. 
Anyway. 

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Right? 
Like we got a trophy over here. 

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When you're supposed to cleave 
to her realize the value of what

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you have have in your 
possession, not understanding 

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the ball, some women can be 
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I get that because the sin, I 
understand that, but I'm talking

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to the church. 
Today, I want to talk to women 

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of God. 
Today, I want to talk to Men of 

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God today because there's no one
in this room right now that has 

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an excuse to live substandard 
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And we can fix that today. 
If you are a man of God today, 

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hopefully your value of your 
wife's gonna go somewhere else 

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before you leave. 
If you are single male, then you

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need to understand the value of 
what you need to go pursue. 

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If you are single woman, you 
need to understand the value of 

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our and don't let some guy 
cheeping you, by trying to buy 

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your sex, don't become a 
prostitute by going to him with 

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the movies. 
Let him get you flowers and then

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giving you three stupid words 
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It's amazing. 
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because she doesn't know her 
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Hallelujah. 
God valued women. 

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God knew that women were so 
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says, I can only bring my see 
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not going to use this new man to
help. 

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Not going to use him because 
he's corrupt. 

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But I can get Purity perfection 
in the earth, through the woman 

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still. 
Are you hearing me? 

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Do you understand Jesus, when he
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First communicate and John for 
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Messiah was to a woman at a, 
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first now there were men saying 
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Andrew ran to his brother Peter 
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Messiah. 
John the Baptist was talking 

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about this is the Lamb that. 
So you know, this is the one 

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that I've been talking about but
Jesus is own acknowledgement of 

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his. 
Be in the Messiah was to a woman

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at a, well, who's had five 
husbands. 

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And the one she's waiting now, 
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her husband. 
And yet, he saw past all of that

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and says, I didn't create you 
this way, there's more value 

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with you. 
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you in your current condition. 
I want you to know, before I 

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tell any, man, any mail, I'm the
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And you know, what happened 
after he was risen from the 

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dead, Peter comes running to the
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Looks in nothing, the disciple 
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But someone had already told 
him, he was alive because there 

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was a woman who had seven 
unclean spirits that Jesus 

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rebuked out of her and she 
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And when she went, when the guys
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went to prepare his body. 
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To a woman. 
What value that the god of 

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Heaven and Earth says, I reveal,
my will to the woman after the 

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fall first. 
Now, he revealed It To The Man 

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first in the garden, but 
because, man brought sin in God 

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brings Revelation first, to the 
woman into occasions, are you 

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hear me? 
The value of women to impart 

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spiritual truths Ladies, this is
why you need to become what 

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we're going to talk about 
tonight because your children's 

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depend on it, your children 
depend on. 

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Are you hearing me? 
How much did Jesus value women? 

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That followed him look in. 
Luke chapter 8, verses 1 through

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3. 
I'm going to read the way my 

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weymouth's translation. 
It says shortly after he visited

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Town visit a town after town. 
Village after village Village, 

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proclaiming his message and 
telling the good news of the 

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kingdom of God, the 12 were with
him and certain women say women 

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who had, who had delivered from,
he had delivered from evil 

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spirits, and various diseases. 
Mary, obviously out of the 70 

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demons had come and Joanna, and 
Susanna and many other women all

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of whom contributed to the 
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Jesus, and his apostles. 
So Luke, who is the most 

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descriptive writer of the 
gospels is saying, a good amount

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of Jesus's Financial 
underwriting came through women,

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and women are not going to 
invest in something that's not 

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giving them value. 
Are you hearing me these women 

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were supporting what Jesus and 
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notice God didn't say, oh you're
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You can't hang out with us. 
You can't travel with us. 

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I can't have you follow us. 
You know, these guys are 

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married. 
You can't be following with us. 

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Are y'all want to hear this? 
I mean, I understand fleeing the

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appearance of evil, but me, I 
had me thinking, boy, Jesus is 

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out with a bunch of women 
hanging out in tents. 

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I'm sure a lot of things were 
said about Jesus, that wasn't 

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true. 
We know this. 

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But even women said, I'll leave 
the Comforts of home. 

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I'll leave what, you know is 
stable in my life and I'll go 

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and travel with this guy, I'll 
set up a tent with it where, 

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what town, the he goes to, I'm 
gonna go up Village, he's at I'm

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gonna be What need he has. 
I'm gonna meet that need. 

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And for far too long, the women 
have dominated the church 

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because the men stay. 
So stuck in their sinful 

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Behavior after conversion and 
never renew their mind to the 

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value of their spouse. 
Many men sit in church today 

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because of a Praying Wife a 
Praying Mother, if it wasn't for

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that Legacy. 
In fact, Paul's greatest 

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disciple named Timothy. 
He said to him, he said, Timothy

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listen, you can do this because 
I see the gifting you the one 

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that was given to you first, buy
your Grandmama and then by your 

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mama never mentioned his father 
wants. 

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His father was a Greek anyway. 
Never left him a spiritual 

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Legacy, but his grandma and his 
mom did. 

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Are you hearing me when fathers 
are at home? 

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And Mom says, hey, let's go to 
church. 

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You should say yes. 
Well, you know, I work long all 

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week honey. 
You know, I'm going to stay home

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today. 
No, you get up because, you 

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know, most of you not getting 
up, when the child is throwing 

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up, when you need to change the 
diaper, I mean, we use work as 

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an excuse to be lazy. 
Don't say that again, we use 

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work as an excuse to be lazy. 
Because now, in our society, 

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even the women are working mean,
they can't, they can't just 

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concentrate on a home only. 
The environment they're having 

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to be active, then they come 
home, clean the house cook or 

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purchase it there still or 
washing? 

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But again, when we colabor 
together, when you know, your 

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buyer side your side, then if 
she says, Hey listen. 

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Can you fold that for a you 
should say? 

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Yeah. 
Honey, no problem. 

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I'm here to help. 
Fold the clothes. 

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We can do it together. 
I'll do dishes, I'll clean the 

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toilet. 
You just point me. 

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You are man. 
The house way better. 

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And I am and just point me in 
the direction, and I'll do it 

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because we're a team. 
Hey, can you get me another cold

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one while I watch the game. 
Listen, I give you permission as

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you pass her next time. 
One of these brothers up in 

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here, say that get too cold one.
Walk over to the couch, pour it 

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on their head. 
And then say, wake up Jesus name

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Apparently you've lost your 
mind. 

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Amen. 
I there's nothing wrong with 

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serving, don't get me wrong. 
But you know, there's a culture 

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of men out there and they left 
the world much, but women have 

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value. 
And I'm going to talk about your

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value today. 
Matthew chapter 13 verses 45 to 

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46 again, the Kingdom of Heaven 
is like a merchant seeking fine 

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pearls. 
See, I can preach this way 

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because I do dishes. 
As I fold clothes, my wife just 

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phenomenal at washing and 
drying. 

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It is not her passion. 
Twofold. 

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Can I just say she hates it? 
She hates it but you know she 

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hates it not so much though that
she's going to put it up but she

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will. 
Let me know how long they've 

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been in the basket but 
everything's been in the basket 

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for three days. 
I got it. 

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I just let him get wrinkled real
good before. 

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I fold them. 
No, I'm just saying. 

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We have to work together. 
We work together. 

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There's nothing at the house. 
That is only hers. 

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We are together. 
Again, the Kingdom of Heaven is 

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like a merchant seeking fine 
pearls, and upon finding one, 

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pearl of Great Value. 
He went and sold all that he had

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and bought it. 
It's amazing. 

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How man will sell out for a 
possession. 

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He'll sell his life out for his 
job, as work for money for 

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promotion for title. 
Think it's the greatest thing. 

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Walk around strut around even 
look, what I look at my title 

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who I am. 
Look what I've accomplished. 

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Look at all my Awards. 
Look how I've been promoted. 

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Look how everybody talks about 
me at work. 

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Look what I've accomplished. 
Look at my degrees. 

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Look how much money we have on 
the in the bank. 

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Honey. 
See I'm taking care of you. 

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Because we see material 
possession or wealth as the most

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valuable. 
Proverbs 2015 says, there is 

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gold in an abundance of jewels. 
And it's like, men pursue it. 

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With a passion and don't know 
what they possess in their own 

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home they said but the lips of 
knowledge are a more precious 

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thing. 
So, the Bible lets us know, 

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right out the gate. 
I get it. 

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The Kingdom of Heaven is like 
what we see men do. 

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They are chasing after worldly 
treasures, and when they find 

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one, they are willing to sell 
everything. 

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And go after that treasure, you 
know how many husbands have gone

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home and snatched their wife and
children out of a good church 

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just to take a job promotion 
somewhere else. 

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Not even taking into 
consideration that we're going 

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to a place. 
That's a good church. 

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How's this going to affect my 
family? 

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Just at more money means we have
to be better like money provides

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joy and peace and eliminates all
problems. 

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And God says, look there's an 
abundance. 

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There's gold in abundance of 
jewels in the world. 

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There's all kinds of treasures. 
But man, if you can get ahold of

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knowledge there's something even
more. 

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Precious, the lips of knowledge.
There is something even more 

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precious. 
Proverbs 8:11, says, this is 

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what's precious for wisdom. 
Is better than jewels and all 

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desirable things cannot cannot 
cannot. 

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What cannot compare with her 
can't even compare. 

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Doesn't matter what you got in 
the bank. 

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If you don't have wisdom, you're
broke, you're bankrupt, you 

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don't understand value. 
Again, we can chase and here, 

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let me say something. 
Ladies, If you chase what men 

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chase, you don't know your 
value. 

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Well, I'm going to be the one in
the corporation. 

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I'm going to be the one that 
successful. 

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I'm going to one that's going to
make. 

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The more I'm the one who's gonna
make the most money. 

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Now I'm gonna get in babe, more 
than a man gets mad paid. 

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Like your Pursuit, is to make 
sure you have more money than a 

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man. 
Because you'll be validated all 

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the sudden right? 
Because all of a sudden now I'm 

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validated I make as much as a 
guy does. 

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But there's value more than 
that. 

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Most women are trading their 
children for promotion and 

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position. 
It's because they don't 

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understand their value. 
But wisdom is better than jewels

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and all desirable. 
Things cannot comprehend with 

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her. 
Look at this. 

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In Proverbs 3:13-15, he said, 
how blessed is the man who finds

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what not a job? 
Now you need a job, don't get me

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wrong but you need wisdom and 
the man who gains understanding 

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for her. 
And notice, I love this because 

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00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:06,100
wisdom is always associated with
a female. 

452
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:13,400
With a female. 
This is the holy spirit. 

453
00:31:13,500 --> 00:31:17,000
Moving upon men and they 
associate wisdom, which tells me

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00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:20,600
them when God pulled Eve out 
from Adam. 

455
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:30,000
Part of this DNA. 
That went to her. 

456
00:31:31,100 --> 00:31:33,200
Must have wisdom associated with
it. 

457
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:38,600
How blessed is the man who finds
wisdom man? 

458
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,600
Who gains understanding for her 
profit, is better than the 

459
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:45,000
profit of silver and her gain 
better than fine gold. 

460
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:50,100
She is more precious than jewels
and nothing you desire Compares 

461
00:31:50,100 --> 00:31:54,300
with her. 
Nothing you desire Compares with

462
00:31:54,300 --> 00:31:56,200
her. 
You said, oh, what's this? 

463
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:58,400
Have to do with a wife? 
Let's read the next verse. 

464
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:03,100
Proverbs, 18 or 19. 
Verse 14 says that this way 

465
00:32:03,900 --> 00:32:06,400
house and wealth are an 
inheritance from fathers. 

466
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:11,600
But a Prudent Wife Is from the 
Lord. 

467
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:18,500
There's something about a woman 
in the home that when they are 

468
00:32:19,100 --> 00:32:26,100
given their position of value. 
They become more precious than 

469
00:32:26,100 --> 00:32:33,500
all riches and nothing we could 
ever pursue men can compare. 

470
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:39,300
Nothing that we ever could 
pursue could compare. 

471
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:47,300
We should be more conscious of 
wanting to see the gift of God 

472
00:32:47,300 --> 00:32:50,500
released in our wives than any 
other thing we ever accomplished

473
00:32:50,500 --> 00:32:55,300
on the planet. 
We should be willing to 

474
00:32:55,300 --> 00:33:00,500
sacrifice anything. 
For her to be able to grow when 

475
00:33:00,500 --> 00:33:04,000
the things of God, because when 
you get a woman of God in the 

476
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:07,400
house, there's nothing you can't
accomplish. 

477
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:11,000
I said there's nothing. 
You can't accomplish in essence.

478
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:13,800
What these scriptures are 
telling us is that you want to 

479
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:16,500
pursue gold. 
You want to pursue silver, you 

480
00:33:16,500 --> 00:33:19,100
want to pursue Jewels, you want 
to go after pearls. 

481
00:33:19,100 --> 00:33:22,400
You want to do natural wealth, 
you want to pursue that you 

482
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,400
could do it but your life will 
be in ruin. 

483
00:33:24,500 --> 00:33:27,600
But if you'll pursue wisdom, if 
you'll go ahead and learn how to

484
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,500
get Wisdom then all the things 
you are pursuing, will actually 

485
00:33:30,500 --> 00:33:33,100
follow you. 
It's like what Jesus said, you 

486
00:33:33,100 --> 00:33:36,500
cannot serve both God and well, 
you'll love one and hate the 

487
00:33:36,500 --> 00:33:38,700
other in essence. 
If we'll just serve God and 

488
00:33:38,700 --> 00:33:42,700
Money Follows, if we'll go 
pursue wisdom than finance will 

489
00:33:42,700 --> 00:33:48,000
follow. 
If we will cultivate a wife, To 

490
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:54,700
release her god-given ability. 
Then not only will wisdom begin 

491
00:33:54,700 --> 00:33:58,500
to manifest in our homes, which 
is we can't even compare to 

492
00:33:58,500 --> 00:34:01,600
that, but wealth will follow as 
well. 

493
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:10,199
Your greatest asset. 
Is your spouse? 

494
00:34:13,900 --> 00:34:17,000
Your greatest asset. 
It's not your college. 

495
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:20,000
Education, is not your mere 
brute strength. 

496
00:34:21,100 --> 00:34:26,199
It's not the sweat of your brow.
Is that sweet smelling aroma? 

497
00:34:28,300 --> 00:34:30,199
Oh my mom. 
Some of y'all need to fall in 

498
00:34:30,199 --> 00:34:34,199
love with your wive's again. 
Praise the Lord. 

499
00:34:34,199 --> 00:34:35,300
I'm talking about what the love 
of God. 

500
00:34:35,300 --> 00:34:39,800
All right, we going try 1st 
1914? 

501
00:34:40,300 --> 00:34:48,699
You all right? 
I can't think of any guy that if

502
00:34:48,699 --> 00:34:50,800
somebody came up, gave a 
financial seminar on how they 

503
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:53,699
can get ahead in the world 
financially and get promoted and

504
00:34:53,699 --> 00:34:56,800
all this stuff happened and you 
know, notoriety and influence 

505
00:34:56,800 --> 00:35:02,600
and all these particular things 
that would be like oh great and 

506
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:04,600
I'm telling you what it is is 
called a woman. 

507
00:35:07,300 --> 00:35:10,300
Now, why do I say woman? 
Because I'm smart as a pastor, 

508
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:15,300
my heart is all God's. 
I love him with all my heart, my

509
00:35:15,300 --> 00:35:17,800
wife didn't have all my heart, 
only God doesn't because God has

510
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:21,300
my whole heart, she's never and 
never in Jeopardy. 

511
00:35:22,500 --> 00:35:25,700
She's never in jeopardy. 
Okay. 

512
00:35:26,100 --> 00:35:31,700
So that allows me to love her as
Christ loves the church and 

513
00:35:31,700 --> 00:35:36,000
she's it, she's only it. 
There is no other it. 

514
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,900
I've gone to some Churches and 
they've come to Mom said, oh, 

515
00:35:38,900 --> 00:35:41,000
you're the first lady. 
I remember going to a particular

516
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:44,000
church and they introduced her 
someone. 

517
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:46,900
The pastor's wife are said, oh 
you're the first lady said no 

518
00:35:46,900 --> 00:35:53,800
I'm the only lady You know, say 
this is the only lady I must say

519
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:57,500
it against the only Lady. 
It's the only lady. 

520
00:35:58,700 --> 00:36:05,600
But she's not the only woman. 
There's another woman that's not

521
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:10,000
with us today. 
A young one, 23:24 how old's an 

522
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:18,800
Ela 25 aniela has wisdom in the 
realm of government and I am 

523
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:21,800
standing before, Senators 
commissioners. 

524
00:36:23,700 --> 00:36:32,300
Because of her gift. 
I've never been in front of the 

525
00:36:32,300 --> 00:36:34,600
type of people. 
I'm in front of right now 

526
00:36:34,900 --> 00:36:38,000
without the wisdom, that's 
coming from a woman. 

527
00:36:41,500 --> 00:36:45,700
I was wise enough to know that 
there's an anointing on This 

528
00:36:45,700 --> 00:36:49,900
Girl's Life. 
And if I'll release her gift in 

529
00:36:49,900 --> 00:36:57,000
this body, she will allow me to 
do my gift in a sector of 

530
00:36:57,000 --> 00:37:00,000
society that I couldn't get in 
without her. 

531
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:06,800
She's open doors for me that I 
could have never opened. 

532
00:37:07,900 --> 00:37:13,400
Because she is a jewel in God's 
eyes, concerning that sector of 

533
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:17,500
society. 
Pastor Angie, she's anointed to 

534
00:37:17,500 --> 00:37:22,700
lay hands on people to get the 
baptism of the Holy Spirit and 

535
00:37:22,700 --> 00:37:25,600
if somebody struggling, I'm 
like, fine Pastor Angie. 

536
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:32,600
That woman has an anointing to 
be able to lay hands and a 

537
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:36,700
receive immediately. 
I've seen men lay hands on and 

538
00:37:36,700 --> 00:37:41,000
they just seen I'll say go get 
Pastor Angie, she'll come down 

539
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:43,100
there, lay hands boom. 
They'll start speaking in other 

540
00:37:43,100 --> 00:37:46,300
tongues. 
It's because I see the gift of 

541
00:37:46,300 --> 00:37:49,900
God on her. 
Listen, if I'm talking to you 

542
00:37:49,900 --> 00:37:52,600
about something in your life, 
lady is, because I see the gift 

543
00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:55,600
of God in you, and you need to 
let us release this thing. 

544
00:37:56,100 --> 00:38:00,300
Because again, the church needs 
your gift, but me and you need 

545
00:38:00,300 --> 00:38:02,800
to understand, you need to 
release those gifts in your 

546
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:06,300
home. 
The house, I'm in today's cuz 

547
00:38:06,300 --> 00:38:07,600
this woman knows how to call 
them. 

548
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:12,000
In my children are like they are
today because this woman knew 

549
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:16,300
how to navigate Now they're free
will and they can go there on 

550
00:38:16,300 --> 00:38:19,500
choice but I know the foundation
and Mama's. 

551
00:38:19,500 --> 00:38:22,600
Let me tell you something. 
When you put the word of God in 

552
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:27,900
your kids you hold on to that 
even if they're acting foolish 

553
00:38:28,100 --> 00:38:35,900
and ungodly you hold onto that. 
Because that word does way more 

554
00:38:35,900 --> 00:38:40,900
than what the world is doing. 
And at the end of the day, when 

555
00:38:40,900 --> 00:38:44,300
you stand before a holy God, 
he's going to reward you for not

556
00:38:44,300 --> 00:38:52,000
backing down from truth. 
Children that are in here right 

557
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:54,000
now. 
You need a really sincerely. 

558
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:59,200
Thank your mama. 
Especially if they're in here. 

559
00:39:00,100 --> 00:39:01,800
You need to run to him. 
Give him a hug. 

560
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:06,400
Say, wow, I need to Value you 
way more than I'm bowing you. 

561
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:09,500
Proverbs 18:22, says he who 
finds a wife. 

562
00:39:09,500 --> 00:39:13,400
Finds a good thing and obtains 
favor from God. 

563
00:39:14,100 --> 00:39:19,400
Proverbs 12 for says this, an 
excellent wife is the crown of 

564
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,100
her husband. 
Let me just stop there. 

565
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:26,900
Do you hear that? 
And excellent wife is the crown 

566
00:39:26,900 --> 00:39:31,800
of her husband. 
Well, my wife and I got 

567
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:33,800
together. 
We were a mess. 

568
00:39:35,300 --> 00:39:39,100
I never talk about us because we
are not the example. 

569
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:44,000
I don't, I don't talk about how 
we got together. 

570
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:48,000
Not talking about it. 
I would never want someone to 

571
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:50,900
say, well that work for them 
because it may not work for you.

572
00:39:51,500 --> 00:39:55,600
It only work for us because we 
decided God's getting all of us.

573
00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:02,400
And the baggage we had coming 
in, we were, we were destined 

574
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:09,000
for divorce. 
Destin, but because we actually 

575
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:14,000
gave our hearts to the Lord and 
we allowed him to change us. 

576
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:22,100
Because of that Pastor Marci, 
you've heard her testify I grew 

577
00:40:22,100 --> 00:40:25,800
up in a church but honestly I 
grew up in a religious church. 

578
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:30,300
I grew up in a church that you 
could be born again and I did 

579
00:40:30,300 --> 00:40:33,800
have God in Me but it was 
religious and I sure didn't live

580
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:37,100
for him. 
Pastor Marcy got born again at a

581
00:40:37,108 --> 00:40:39,600
young age because of vacation 
bible school, but never went to 

582
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:42,400
church again. 
So she says, I was raised 

583
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:47,700
Heathen and as a result of that,
you know, she saw a lot of 

584
00:40:47,700 --> 00:40:51,200
different things going on and 
made a lot of choices based upon

585
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:54,100
what she thought was right, but 
there's a way that seems right. 

586
00:40:55,300 --> 00:40:58,700
And in the end lies, that's just
thing everything we doing just 

587
00:40:58,700 --> 00:41:02,800
falls apart and then all of a 
sudden we show up and meet each 

588
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:06,300
other on a blind date. 
Too. 

589
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:12,000
Chaotic people. but when we came
together, there came this 

590
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:17,100
thought If this is going to 
happen, we're really going to 

591
00:41:17,108 --> 00:41:22,600
have to follow God. 
And they were easy years. 

592
00:41:25,700 --> 00:41:32,400
They were not. 
But we overcame. 

593
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:40,300
Gentleman, never devalue. 
A wife who will yield to the 

594
00:41:40,300 --> 00:41:44,100
word and let it renew their mind
to be Godly. 

595
00:41:45,100 --> 00:41:49,000
You value that more than 
anything, because Sun, you don't

596
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:52,700
know what it's like to have a 
woman that becomes rebellious to

597
00:41:52,700 --> 00:41:59,700
the things of God. 
There's nothing worse than a 

598
00:41:59,708 --> 00:42:02,200
contentious woman. 
They're worse than a man. 

599
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:06,700
You know why? 
Because women are the greatest 

600
00:42:06,700 --> 00:42:11,000
manipulators when their ungodly 
and you know how they manipulate

601
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:16,000
by Sleeping with you. 
They give you pleasure while 

602
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:19,100
they whip you and keep you in 
bondage. 

603
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:27,800
Men are so strong but their 
conquered so easily. 

604
00:42:29,900 --> 00:42:35,000
Save him, I can do it. 
Men are so you know we're dead 

605
00:42:35,100 --> 00:42:38,700
that's our last that's Pride 
gone to stupidity, right? 

606
00:42:38,700 --> 00:42:42,100
I mean it's like we are so 
strong yet a woman. 

607
00:42:44,100 --> 00:42:46,900
Think about all the great 
leaders that fail. 

608
00:42:50,100 --> 00:42:52,800
Something that's probably not 
much more than 115 pounds. 

609
00:42:55,100 --> 00:42:58,800
Takes them down every time. 
And they first start doing it 

610
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:05,500
by. 
Welcomed by a little faster, so 

611
00:43:05,500 --> 00:43:14,200
the perfume flows over. 
They know how to carry a spirit 

612
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:20,800
of lust when their ungodly now. 
So when you got a woman that's 

613
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:22,700
like men, let's go. 
You like honey you going? 

614
00:43:22,700 --> 00:43:25,800
We going to church. 
We are going to church because 

615
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:30,300
if I want to have the greatest I
need to release you because God 

616
00:43:30,300 --> 00:43:32,300
knows exactly what's Best in 
you. 

617
00:43:34,700 --> 00:43:38,100
And you gotta stand your ground 
that you make a demand on it. 

618
00:43:39,300 --> 00:43:41,900
And there's something about 
women that when you demand their

619
00:43:41,900 --> 00:43:44,000
godliness, they rise to the 
occasion. 

620
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:52,400
My wife could break generational
curses because I made demands on

621
00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:54,700
her to be a woman of God and 
called her. 

622
00:43:54,700 --> 00:43:58,000
That even when she wasn't 
talking it, when she wasn't 

623
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:02,200
feeling it, now I'm growing to 
believe you. 

624
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:05,800
Me I'm having to deal with me 
but at the end of the day, 

625
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:09,000
there's no reason for me to lash
out to you and tell you who you 

626
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:13,400
are because I'm struggling, I 
might as well call you what I 

627
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:16,400
want you to be because that's 
what God wants you to. to be and

628
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:22,400
my mama, How the Holy Ghost? 
Would just minister to her life.

629
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:29,300
I knew my limitations I can't 
mine out all the value in her. 

630
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:35,500
There were times that we would 
be in situations where I'm like 

631
00:44:35,500 --> 00:44:43,700
Lord only you can change this. 
And I trust you because I've 

632
00:44:43,700 --> 00:44:48,800
seen her yield. 
She knows her worth continue to 

633
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:53,300
show her her value. 
Are you hearing me women are 

634
00:44:53,300 --> 00:44:57,100
greater than the greatest 
material possessions we could 

635
00:44:57,100 --> 00:45:00,300
ever have? 
You have to look in the room 

636
00:45:00,300 --> 00:45:03,400
right now and say the greatest 
value that there is in the 

637
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,600
planet is this woman beside me. 
And again at the end of the day,

638
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:10,100
I'm not short changing us as men
and our role. 

639
00:45:10,700 --> 00:45:20,200
I'm just telling you that the 
value of women is priceless, he 

640
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:22,700
said, an excellent wife is the 
crown of her husband. 

641
00:45:23,700 --> 00:45:25,800
How would you not want to be 
crowned? 

642
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:31,500
Because all men want to be all 
men want to be the ruler. 

643
00:45:31,700 --> 00:45:34,500
You want a rule, let your wife, 
become your crown. 

644
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:39,100
Let her godliness show up let 
her ability. 

645
00:45:39,100 --> 00:45:42,100
Come you know what? 
She'll come alongside you 

646
00:45:42,108 --> 00:45:45,100
because she's your help meet, 
she's not your stepping stone. 

647
00:45:45,700 --> 00:45:48,800
She's the one that's going to do
things that you're incapable of 

648
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:52,000
doing. 
She'll have ways to do stuff 

649
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:54,400
that honestly you're going to 
look ignorant. 

650
00:45:56,000 --> 00:46:00,300
But it's okay because what her 
capacity is only complimenting, 

651
00:46:00,300 --> 00:46:04,900
the assignment the first place, 
God told, man, to be fruitful 

652
00:46:04,900 --> 00:46:08,300
and to multiply man, cannot do 
it without the woman. 

653
00:46:11,300 --> 00:46:15,800
So she has a capacity that we 
don't have and we need the 

654
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:19,800
shared capacity and I'm not just
talking physical, I'm talking 

655
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:25,000
emotional and I'm talking 
spiritual, I'm talking in wisdom

656
00:46:25,900 --> 00:46:30,900
and intellect because they 
possess it. 

657
00:46:30,900 --> 00:46:33,100
My wife is a phenomenal 
organizer. 

658
00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:36,400
She's amazing at that. 
She can do those things. 

659
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:39,300
She's awesome at design. 
There are some things that are 

660
00:46:39,300 --> 00:46:43,400
just natural with her. 
And you put that against me, I 

661
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:48,200
look like I'm an imbecile. 
But I'm okay with that because I

662
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:52,200
don't have to do what she does 
and it doesn't bother me to say,

663
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:54,400
what do you want to do you 
decide? 

664
00:46:54,900 --> 00:46:57,300
Because we're only going to be 
better together. 

665
00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:02,200
If you make this decision, I'm 
not intimidated by your gifts 

666
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:05,600
and ability because I got my 
gifts, inability. 

667
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:09,400
I got what you can't do but 
together we're Unstoppable. 

668
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:13,300
I said we're Unstoppable. 
You got to quit thinking in your

669
00:47:13,308 --> 00:47:15,100
mind. 
You're with the wrong person. 

670
00:47:15,100 --> 00:47:18,300
Well, You got to feed is that 
you need to live Godly. 

671
00:47:18,300 --> 00:47:22,100
The other live Godly start doing
it to God way and release the 

672
00:47:22,100 --> 00:47:27,700
talents in the household. 
But I must admit it starts with 

673
00:47:27,700 --> 00:47:31,400
a man. 
That he looks at the woman and 

674
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:35,400
says, you have such great value.
I must see you with the eyes of 

675
00:47:35,408 --> 00:47:39,000
the father. 
I must see you with the eyes of 

676
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:42,500
the father. 
You may talk away, you may act 

677
00:47:42,500 --> 00:47:46,800
away but I'm going to be dad the
father in front of you because 

678
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:49,700
when I lived add the father in 
front of you, is the greatest 

679
00:47:49,700 --> 00:47:51,700
opportunity to pull your 
greatness out. 

680
00:47:55,700 --> 00:47:58,300
Early in our marriage, which, 
you know, we're 32 years in 

681
00:47:58,300 --> 00:48:02,200
September. 
Yeah, we process different 

682
00:48:03,300 --> 00:48:06,300
process, different. 
And I made certain demands of 

683
00:48:06,300 --> 00:48:09,600
the father, like you don't go to
bed angry. 

684
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,300
Didn't do it. 
What did that look like? 

685
00:48:13,300 --> 00:48:19,500
I turn the lights on. 
And even though it may not be 

686
00:48:19,500 --> 00:48:22,900
completely resolved with her or 
she may appease me to go to 

687
00:48:22,900 --> 00:48:26,300
sleep. 
I still was the example of that 

688
00:48:26,300 --> 00:48:31,200
scripture, we should not be 
angry with one another. 

689
00:48:32,100 --> 00:48:35,500
You got the love of God in you. 
I got the love of God and me at 

690
00:48:35,500 --> 00:48:38,800
the end of the day, we can 
resolve this. 

691
00:48:38,900 --> 00:48:42,700
We are of no excuse. 
There's no excuse for us to have

692
00:48:42,700 --> 00:48:44,800
this kind of conflict. 
There's no excuse for us to hold

693
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:49,000
our own will. 
There's no excuse For us to say 

694
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:54,400
it's my way and not his way. 
And one of the greatest lessons 

695
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:58,200
I ever learned is to die on the 
altar of opinion. 

696
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:09,300
Quit being stubborn on my way to
do it because my yielding to her

697
00:49:09,300 --> 00:49:12,700
and just go, let's do it your 
way then my way is not wrong, 

698
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:16,200
your way is not wrong, but I 
don't have to die on it, just be

699
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:21,400
in my way but I found that every
time I gave up my right to be, 

700
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:26,500
right. 
But I am powered her to release 

701
00:49:26,500 --> 00:49:32,400
her value, and she got confident
in being able to make choices 

702
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:37,100
and to see it embraced and to 
see that I valued her and I 

703
00:49:37,108 --> 00:49:40,800
didn't treat her as she had been
treated most of her life. 

704
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:45,400
There are many women in this 
room that have been treated in a

705
00:49:45,408 --> 00:49:51,400
way that God never intended. 
Not valued, but I want you to 

706
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:54,500
know God sees you as something 
more precious than silver and 

707
00:49:54,500 --> 00:49:58,400
gold. 
In Proverbs. 

708
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:00,500
Well, let's finish that verse 
and excellent wife is a crown 

709
00:50:00,500 --> 00:50:04,700
for her husband, but she who 
shames him is like rottenness to

710
00:50:04,700 --> 00:50:07,800
his bone. 
Ladies, I have to go to the 

711
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:13,400
other side when you don't value,
who God is in, you, you are the 

712
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:20,100
worst to be around. 
You are the worst to be around. 

713
00:50:23,300 --> 00:50:27,600
Are you hearing what I'm saying?
I just say yield and submit to 

714
00:50:27,608 --> 00:50:31,500
God so that your true identity 
can come out. 

715
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:36,600
You don't need a man to complete
you, you are already complete in

716
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:39,800
Christ. 
The husband, your with today is 

717
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:42,900
so that you have a shared 
passion to accomplish God's Will

718
00:50:43,700 --> 00:50:46,100
and that's what you're doing. 
So I mean you got to have a 

719
00:50:46,108 --> 00:50:50,700
vision and you have to take the 
lead and move in that Vision. 

720
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,900
When we moved here it was kind 
of shocking. 

721
00:50:53,900 --> 00:50:56,600
Be honestly, my wife has 
followed me all over the place 

722
00:50:56,600 --> 00:51:00,900
and believe you me, she would 
have not in her own mind, done 

723
00:51:00,900 --> 00:51:01,800
it that way. 
Yeah. 

724
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:05,900
That wasn't her way of thinking 
she wasn't going to marry a 

725
00:51:05,908 --> 00:51:07,600
pastor anyway at the end of the 
day. 

726
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:12,300
But through all the movement, 
when we finally were in Oklahoma

727
00:51:12,300 --> 00:51:14,600
Youth passion been there for 
three years in the Lord speaks 

728
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:17,100
to me about moving. 
I mean, we're doing the best 

729
00:51:17,100 --> 00:51:19,800
we've ever done and it was 
probably one of the biggest 

730
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:24,200
struggles for her to say really.
We got to do this one again. 

731
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:27,500
And, you know, she could say one
more time because we've moved so

732
00:51:27,500 --> 00:51:29,000
much. 
How does she know we going to 

733
00:51:29,008 --> 00:51:35,300
last here, we've been here a 
long time baby. anyway, my point

734
00:51:35,300 --> 00:51:41,000
is, is that I said, listen, if I
don't do the will of God, if I'm

735
00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:43,300
not in it, we're not going to 
make it. 

736
00:51:45,300 --> 00:51:48,900
I said, this is what we were 
destined for all this time. 

737
00:51:50,500 --> 00:51:55,100
And one more time she says not 
my will but your will be done 

738
00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:59,700
and because of that soil and I'm
going to brag on my wife. 

739
00:52:01,300 --> 00:52:03,300
In July, when we go to camp 
meeting. 

740
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:11,200
This woman of God is the first 
woman to ever do. 

741
00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:16,200
A speaking at the night services
at can't meeting in 50 years. 

742
00:52:16,900 --> 00:52:18,700
No, other woman has ever done 
that. 

743
00:52:18,700 --> 00:52:22,700
Not even Pastor Lynette, Hagin. 
Our pastor Denise Hagen Burns. 

744
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:31,300
That when they decided to have a
female Minister on a night in 

745
00:52:31,300 --> 00:52:34,900
camp meeting and I'm talking 
Heavy Hitters that have 

746
00:52:34,900 --> 00:52:38,200
ministered at camp meeting. 
Kenneth Copeland's been at camp 

747
00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:45,300
meetings, John Osteen. 
I mean Lester Sumrall I mean 

748
00:52:45,300 --> 00:52:49,100
there are world renowned 
Ministries. 

749
00:52:50,100 --> 00:52:54,400
That have Minister would Kenneth
E Hagin and Kenneth W Hagin. 

750
00:52:55,300 --> 00:53:02,300
And when they said this time to 
do a woman Pastor called your 

751
00:53:02,300 --> 00:53:05,500
pastor. 
Come on somebody. 

752
00:53:09,700 --> 00:53:13,000
Pastor Hagin said, I can think 
of a woman that has value. 

753
00:53:13,500 --> 00:53:15,400
I can think of a woman that is 
precious. 

754
00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:21,200
I can think of a woman that is 
proven that she used to God and 

755
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:30,400
loves God. 
And some of y'all been here, 

756
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:35,600
y'all know her story. 
You know, the sexual abuse that 

757
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:38,300
she went through and how that 
destroys value. 

758
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:45,100
But God I said, but God. 
Let me read you my wife and 

759
00:53:45,100 --> 00:53:48,400
others in here. 
Proverbs 31, come on. 

760
00:53:48,408 --> 00:53:50,300
Ladies, get this. 
I'm a readout of the passion is 

761
00:53:50,300 --> 00:53:51,700
good. 
Man is good. 

762
00:53:53,100 --> 00:53:55,700
Who could ever find a wife like 
this one? 

763
00:53:56,700 --> 00:53:58,100
Come on, ladies. 
You need to own this. 

764
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:01,500
If you're single Jasmine, you 
fixing to get married. 

765
00:54:03,500 --> 00:54:06,300
Here's the job description. 
You hear what I'm saying? 

766
00:54:06,700 --> 00:54:11,400
All right, just so we know this 
is the job description. 

767
00:54:12,900 --> 00:54:19,400
This is the job description. 
All right, who CC? 

768
00:54:19,600 --> 00:54:23,400
This is the job description. 
Okay, I got a few of y'all. 

769
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:24,500
I'm fixing. 
We fix them, are. 

770
00:54:24,500 --> 00:54:27,900
He's all right. 
Who could ever find a wife like 

771
00:54:27,900 --> 00:54:31,100
this? 
She's a woman of strength. 

772
00:54:32,700 --> 00:54:36,100
And mighty Valor. 
We think of those terms, only 

773
00:54:36,100 --> 00:54:38,200
with men. 
It's not true. 

774
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:45,700
She's full of what wealth and 
wisdom, the price paid for her 

775
00:54:45,700 --> 00:54:49,100
was greater than many. 
You hear this? 

776
00:54:50,500 --> 00:54:52,700
You hear what I'm saying? 
We already know. 

777
00:54:52,700 --> 00:54:55,900
Wisdom has more value than gold 
and precious jewels. 

778
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:59,600
And here Proverbs is saying, you
want to know something else. 

779
00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:02,900
That's kind of equal to wisdom. 
Is called a woman. 

780
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:09,100
The price favor her was was 
greater than many jewels. 

781
00:55:09,100 --> 00:55:13,000
Her husband has entrusted his 
heart to her and she brings him 

782
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:19,600
the rich Spoils of victory. 
All throughout her life, she 

783
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:23,600
brings him, what is good, and 
not evil. 

784
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:29,900
Whoo, raising was good and not 
evil. 

785
00:55:29,900 --> 00:55:33,400
She not here to sabotage him. 
She's not there to try to shine 

786
00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:35,600
above him. 
She's not there to try to rule 

787
00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:38,000
over him. 
She's there just to bring him 

788
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:42,400
good. 
Husbands, if your wives bringing

789
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:44,800
you good, you need to get off 
your horse. 

790
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:50,100
And go ahead and massage her 
feet. 

791
00:55:52,300 --> 00:55:57,100
Are you hearing me? 
Because your greatest asset is 

792
00:55:57,100 --> 00:56:00,000
your wife. 
That's a woman of God, She 

793
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:05,000
searches out, continually to 
possess that which is pure and 

794
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:07,400
righteous. 
Oh my gosh, this is so good 

795
00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:09,000
verse 14. 
Sure. 

796
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:12,600
She Delights in the work of her 
hand, she gives out Revelation 

797
00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:18,100
truth to feed others. 
She is like a trading ship 

798
00:56:18,100 --> 00:56:21,200
bringing Divine Supply from the 
merchant, man. 

799
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:23,900
When I get his, I said, honey, 
here's where where I'm at. 

800
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:28,300
I need you to pray about it. 
Because I might need you to 

801
00:56:28,300 --> 00:56:30,800
bring in a Divine ship of 
Revelation. 

802
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:35,600
Truth about this situation. 
Just in case God wants to speak 

803
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:40,300
to me through you, I'm ready? 
Not that I can't hear the Holy 

804
00:56:40,300 --> 00:56:42,800
Ghost because of me. 
She brings me divine revelation,

805
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:47,600
truth concerning a situation. 
The Holy Ghost In Me says yeah I

806
00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:51,900
told her that Why does he do 
that? 

807
00:56:51,900 --> 00:56:54,200
Because the Holy Ghost says 
listen you're not the only one 

808
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:57,800
who can hear me and I want you 
to know how much I value her. 

809
00:56:58,300 --> 00:57:00,000
That's why I don't talk to you 
about that. 

810
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:03,000
I talk to her so that you'll 
always maintain your value of 

811
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:13,900
her like I value her. 
Even in the night season, she 

812
00:57:13,900 --> 00:57:17,600
arises and sets food on the 
table for the hungry ones in her

813
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:23,700
house and four others. 
I mean, it's amazing the 

814
00:57:23,700 --> 00:57:31,000
physical and emotional stamina. 
Of a woman, any husband that's 

815
00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:35,400
ever carried a child on their 
hip has back problems. 

816
00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:45,300
I mean, I can Flex my bicep and 
it is lot larger than my wife, 

817
00:57:45,600 --> 00:57:48,900
but when we start caring kids 
and grandkids, I don't care. 

818
00:57:48,900 --> 00:57:50,400
My kids now because they're so 
big. 

819
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:55,500
But when they were little I 
mean, I'd hold them help my 

820
00:57:55,500 --> 00:57:56,700
life. 
You know, you hold. 

821
00:57:56,700 --> 00:57:58,000
Okay. 
I got them and we're going, you 

822
00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:00,500
know? 
I'm the man, I'm the strong guy 

823
00:58:00,500 --> 00:58:02,100
and we walking through the 
store, your life. 

824
00:58:02,100 --> 00:58:04,600
Wow, I'm going to muscle 
failure, already my back of my 

825
00:58:04,700 --> 00:58:07,400
and I so you switch, you know, 
you're like going through man 

826
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:10,200
and you start sweating, you're 
like, wow, what is going on? 

827
00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:12,700
But my wife, she walks through 
the whole store one side. 

828
00:58:17,100 --> 00:58:20,300
I mean like ours, how does that 
bicep? 

829
00:58:20,300 --> 00:58:22,500
Not give out. 
Why has she not dropped? 

830
00:58:22,500 --> 00:58:28,800
The child on the floor? 
I'm like, am I right man? 

831
00:58:29,100 --> 00:58:31,400
I don't know. 
I'm not, I'm done with this. 

832
00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:35,600
You're getting on my shoulders. 
That's why me carry your kids on

833
00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:37,500
their shoulders go. 
We can't handle it. 

834
00:58:37,500 --> 00:58:42,800
In Harm's Way, ain't got no him 
to hold on. 

835
00:58:44,300 --> 00:58:46,200
Get on this seat right here, 
you'll be all right. 

836
00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:57,400
Their emotional stability and 
situations. 

837
00:58:57,400 --> 00:59:01,100
You're like if I only had your 
genetic by had that y'all would 

838
00:59:01,100 --> 00:59:03,100
be like think man. 
If I could just put my wife 

839
00:59:03,100 --> 00:59:06,300
inside me her spirit like get 
y'all better watch out. 

840
00:59:06,300 --> 00:59:10,400
I'd be a bad mama jama. 
Oh man. 

841
00:59:11,500 --> 00:59:17,000
I'm telling you, it's amazing, 
their tenacity, their ability to

842
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:22,300
endure even in the night season,
she arises when you're tired, 

843
00:59:23,700 --> 00:59:27,400
you still get up with enough 
Clarity to accomplish. 

844
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:34,200
She sets food on the table for 
Hungry ones at our house and for

845
00:59:34,200 --> 00:59:39,200
other, she sets her heart upon a
nation and it takes and takes it

846
00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:44,600
as her own carrying it with her.
Well, there's nothing more 

847
00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:47,400
powerful gentleman than when you
are in any situation and say, 

848
00:59:47,400 --> 00:59:53,100
honey, can you pray for me about
this that she'll set that in her

849
00:59:53,100 --> 00:59:56,800
heart and carry it? 
You know why? 

850
00:59:56,800 --> 01:00:00,100
This is so powerful because 
women have the ability to 

851
01:00:00,100 --> 01:00:07,800
conceive they know how to carry 
There an incubator in order to 

852
01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:13,300
give birth. 
We as men, we engage the 

853
01:00:13,300 --> 01:00:17,100
process, and then we're done. 
And the problem is that there 

854
01:00:17,100 --> 01:00:20,400
are things in life that require 
more than a quick answer. 

855
01:00:22,900 --> 01:00:26,900
It needs to incubate, it needs 
to be given birth, and the woman

856
01:00:26,900 --> 01:00:31,900
can carry that. 
And if you're not getting a real

857
01:00:31,900 --> 01:00:34,500
answer about some, it's better 
for you to say honey, I wait 

858
01:00:34,500 --> 01:00:39,000
till you give birth to that. 
Then for you to go ahead and 

859
01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:41,500
just keep making decisions about
this, what we're gonna do with a

860
01:00:41,500 --> 01:00:42,500
company. 
Now, this is what we're going to

861
01:00:42,508 --> 01:00:44,600
do here, and this is what we're 
going to do here, you know, just

862
01:00:44,600 --> 01:00:46,100
hold on. 
Let me let me pray about this 

863
01:00:46,100 --> 01:00:50,200
for a little bit. 
Because in the natural don't say

864
01:00:50,500 --> 01:00:51,700
three. 
You've been holding a child for 

865
01:00:51,700 --> 01:00:53,400
3 months. 
Let's go get it out. 

866
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:57,000
How long are you Eloise? 
Now, 3-month stand up. 

867
01:00:57,000 --> 01:01:04,900
Let's have a baby. 
There she is, right? 

868
01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:09,300
And we're not impatient, because
she can't give birth right now 

869
01:01:09,300 --> 01:01:13,100
because it's not ready. 
And a lot of times we get 

870
01:01:13,100 --> 01:01:18,000
impatient, but yet our wives are
so precious that they can cause 

871
01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:23,000
things to come out of, they give
birth to seasons of Our Lives. 

872
01:01:26,900 --> 01:01:33,600
They give birth to next phases. 
I got something right now that I

873
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:36,400
want to do and my wife's telling
me it's not Tom. 

874
01:01:36,700 --> 01:01:42,700
I don't really agree with her. 
But I still hadn't done it yet. 

875
01:01:47,100 --> 01:01:52,300
Cuz I'm cautious. 
I mean I have enough reason to 

876
01:01:52,300 --> 01:01:56,300
say I don't care. 
It's going to be, all right. 

877
01:01:57,500 --> 01:02:00,600
We can do it, but I don't have 
enough of God, say what didn't 

878
01:02:00,600 --> 01:02:03,500
do it? 
And because of that, when she 

879
01:02:03,500 --> 01:02:09,800
said, I don't think the season I
have to go. but it's growing in 

880
01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:15,700
her, I can tell you that it's 
growing in ER And she going to 

881
01:02:15,700 --> 01:02:19,100
give birth to it one day. 
It won't take 9 months, 

882
01:02:19,100 --> 01:02:23,000
probably, if it takes not much, 
I'll take it, but it's been a 

883
01:02:23,008 --> 01:02:26,500
month in there. 
All right. 

884
01:02:29,700 --> 01:02:33,600
No. 
I'm telling you, we need to 

885
01:02:33,600 --> 01:02:35,100
understand that value. 
They have. 

886
01:02:35,100 --> 01:02:38,800
Let's go on, she, she wraps 
herself in strength. 

887
01:02:39,000 --> 01:02:42,100
Oh, is that where we're at? 
Go back, so I can get back into 

888
01:02:42,100 --> 01:02:46,900
it, she sets her heart upon a 
nation takes, it takes it as her

889
01:02:46,900 --> 01:02:50,200
own carries it. 
Within her, she Delights in the 

890
01:02:50,200 --> 01:02:52,000
works. 
Go on next one. 

891
01:02:52,000 --> 01:02:55,200
Now, she laborers, there to 
plant. 

892
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:59,800
At the living bonds, she wraps 
herself in strength, might and 

893
01:02:59,800 --> 01:03:04,700
Power in all her works. 
My wife's a gardener, she loves 

894
01:03:04,700 --> 01:03:07,500
it and it's amazing. 
I'm not a weed guy. 

895
01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:14,200
Kill the weeds with rid, 
whatever Roundup round them up, 

896
01:03:14,500 --> 01:03:16,800
that's about the labor I want on
a weed. 

897
01:03:19,300 --> 01:03:24,800
But my wife will get down. 
She'll pull them and she has the

898
01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:28,300
capacity to do a whole bed on 
her knees. 

899
01:03:31,800 --> 01:03:41,000
And love the process. 
There's value when someone can 

900
01:03:41,100 --> 01:03:47,800
endure dealing with weeds. 
And enjoy the process knowing. 

901
01:03:47,900 --> 01:03:50,100
I understand. 
We're not done, but I'm getting 

902
01:03:50,100 --> 01:03:54,000
it done. 
Because we as men we want to 

903
01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:58,100
spray it go watch the game come 
back a few days later and see it

904
01:03:58,100 --> 01:04:00,300
but they're dead in there, they 
don't disappear. 

905
01:04:00,300 --> 01:04:02,700
You still got to dig them out or
do something. 

906
01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:10,300
We too often want quick fixes. 
Now, the advantage us is were 

907
01:04:10,300 --> 01:04:14,200
spontaneous, we can, or when a 
situation arises, we can handle 

908
01:04:14,200 --> 01:04:15,800
storms. 
A lot of times, we are well 

909
01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:17,800
equipped. 
But man, when there's processes 

910
01:04:17,800 --> 01:04:21,100
that take place, I'm thankful 
that the value of my wife is to 

911
01:04:21,108 --> 01:04:23,200
be a say, look, I'm gonna go in 
here and just I'm going to get 

912
01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:25,900
all this out. 
And it doesn't matter if it 

913
01:04:25,900 --> 01:04:28,100
takes this long, I'll pick it 
all out. 

914
01:04:28,200 --> 01:04:29,600
Because when it's done, they're 
gone. 

915
01:04:31,900 --> 01:04:34,400
It goes on and says this. 
She tasting experience, a better

916
01:04:34,400 --> 01:04:38,700
substance. 
And her shining light will not 

917
01:04:38,700 --> 01:04:42,200
be extinguished. 
No matter how dark the night 

918
01:04:42,300 --> 01:04:43,900
talking about someone. 
Who knows how to hold onto. 

919
01:04:43,900 --> 01:04:46,400
Hope if you're a woman and 
you've lost. 

920
01:04:46,400 --> 01:04:48,400
Hope you're in really great 
spot. 

921
01:04:52,600 --> 01:04:55,600
The devil is an extremely good 
job of deceiving, you that you 

922
01:04:55,600 --> 01:04:58,800
could stay in that kind of 
Darkness because women have the 

923
01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:01,400
capacity to maintain the Light 
Of Hope. 

924
01:05:02,500 --> 01:05:05,100
Even when it seemed like it's 
nothing, not going anywhere. 

925
01:05:05,100 --> 01:05:11,200
Man's actually given up a woman 
can say there's hope there's 

926
01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:13,700
hope. 
She stretches out her hand to 

927
01:05:13,700 --> 01:05:16,000
help the needy, and She lays 
hold of the wheels of 

928
01:05:16,000 --> 01:05:19,100
government. 
What's that mean? 

929
01:05:19,300 --> 01:05:23,000
She has the ability to influence
power. 

930
01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:29,400
This is why I'm not surprised of
how we've gotten into the 

931
01:05:29,900 --> 01:05:33,700
corridors of power. 
In fact, if you were here with 

932
01:05:33,700 --> 01:05:36,500
Bishop garraway, he actually 
prophesied that. 

933
01:05:36,500 --> 01:05:38,900
My name would Echo into the 
halls of power. 

934
01:05:38,900 --> 01:05:40,800
I would go to the governor's 
mansion. 

935
01:05:43,700 --> 01:05:47,900
Is just going through a girl. 
Are you hearing me? 

936
01:05:48,800 --> 01:05:56,400
I don't have problem with that. 
She is known by her extravagant 

937
01:05:56,400 --> 01:06:00,100
generosity to the poor for. 
She always reaches out, her 

938
01:06:00,100 --> 01:06:03,100
hands to those in need. 
She's Not Afraid of tribulation 

939
01:06:03,400 --> 01:06:06,600
for all her household is covered
in the Dual garments of 

940
01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:11,200
righteousness and Grace. 
Wow, she's always wanting to be 

941
01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:14,200
right with God. 
I'm talking women of God. 

942
01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:16,200
Now, those who understand their 
value, like, man, I just want to

943
01:06:16,208 --> 01:06:19,300
be right with God and I do not 
want the grace of God, my life 

944
01:06:19,300 --> 01:06:23,800
to be in vain. 
Her clothing is beautifully knit

945
01:06:23,800 --> 01:06:26,400
together. 
A purple gown of Exquisite 

946
01:06:26,400 --> 01:06:26,900
linen. 
Why? 

947
01:06:26,900 --> 01:06:30,400
Cause she's royalty. 
She is the queen. 

948
01:06:32,300 --> 01:06:37,400
I said she is the queen. 
Her husband is famous and 

949
01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:44,700
admired by all sitting, as of 
venerable judge of his people. 

950
01:06:44,900 --> 01:06:48,400
Notice, he can take his seat 
cause she's taken her. 

951
01:06:48,400 --> 01:06:57,600
See This is why husband's you 
want, you want your marriage to 

952
01:06:57,600 --> 01:07:00,700
be where it needs to be. 
If you're going to ever reach 

953
01:07:01,200 --> 01:07:06,900
the capacity, you have the only 
way you can reach a capacity 

954
01:07:06,900 --> 01:07:12,300
that God has for you, if you 
have a wife, that is rebellious 

955
01:07:12,300 --> 01:07:19,400
and stiff neck is if she cuts 
you loose, And then you're free 

956
01:07:19,400 --> 01:07:21,500
from that, and you run on with 
God. 

957
01:07:24,600 --> 01:07:30,000
Outside of that. 
If you do not work to make it 

958
01:07:30,100 --> 01:07:33,800
say, well is good enough. 
Good enough doesn't get you in 

959
01:07:33,800 --> 01:07:43,900
the seat. in fact, I would even 
go this far we know single women

960
01:07:44,400 --> 01:07:48,400
are single mothers have an 
anointing that single fathers do

961
01:07:48,400 --> 01:07:55,100
not because the Lord says to the
woman, I'll be a father to the 

962
01:07:55,100 --> 01:08:05,400
fatherless. 
This is why your kids can still 

963
01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:08,000
grow up an honor God, even 
though you were you rebelled and

964
01:08:08,000 --> 01:08:13,900
weren't an example. 
Her husband is famous mired by 

965
01:08:13,900 --> 01:08:16,800
all even her works of 
righteousness. 

966
01:08:16,800 --> 01:08:19,200
She does for the benefit of her 
enemies. 

967
01:08:21,200 --> 01:08:24,300
Bold power and glorious Majesty 
or wrapped around her as she 

968
01:08:24,300 --> 01:08:26,500
laughed with joy over the latter
days. 

969
01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:30,200
Her teachings are filled with 
wisdom and kindness as loving 

970
01:08:30,200 --> 01:08:33,300
instructions. 
Pour from her lips instead of 

971
01:08:33,300 --> 01:08:36,200
us, trying to talk to our wives 
all the time. 

972
01:08:36,200 --> 01:08:37,800
We should say, honey, why you 
got to say? 

973
01:08:40,899 --> 01:08:43,600
Instead of cutting her off. 
Mid-sentence, what do you got to

974
01:08:43,600 --> 01:08:47,000
say? 
I want to hear from you. 

975
01:08:50,200 --> 01:08:53,800
She watches over her ways of her
household and meets every need. 

976
01:08:53,800 --> 01:08:57,600
They have her sons and daughters
arise and one Accord to exalt. 

977
01:08:57,600 --> 01:09:01,399
Her virtues. 
One translation says, they raise

978
01:09:01,399 --> 01:09:06,399
up and call her blessed. 
And her husband, arises to speak

979
01:09:06,399 --> 01:09:11,100
of her in glowing terms. 
If all you're doing is bragging 

980
01:09:11,100 --> 01:09:13,800
about how well your wife sleeps,
would you you got problems? 

981
01:09:17,100 --> 01:09:19,500
The only thing good, you can say
about your wife as how good it 

982
01:09:19,500 --> 01:09:23,300
felt the night before then you 
don't know the value of your 

983
01:09:23,300 --> 01:09:29,500
wife. 
Hallelujah. 

984
01:09:32,800 --> 01:09:39,399
Amen. 
There are many ballot and Noble 

985
01:09:39,399 --> 01:09:43,399
ones. 
But you have ascended above them

986
01:09:43,399 --> 01:09:46,500
all. 
Wow, that's a title given to a 

987
01:09:46,500 --> 01:09:52,200
woman charm can be misleading 
and beauty is vain and so 

988
01:09:52,200 --> 01:09:56,900
quickly Fades. 
But this virtuous woman lives in

989
01:09:56,900 --> 01:10:01,600
Wonder and fear of the Lord, she
will be praised throughout 

990
01:10:01,600 --> 01:10:04,500
eternity. 
So go ahead and give her the 

991
01:10:04,500 --> 01:10:08,600
credit that is due for. 
She has become a radiant woman 

992
01:10:08,900 --> 01:10:11,000
and all her loving works of 
righteousness. 

993
01:10:11,100 --> 01:10:15,600
Deserve to be a mired at the 
gateways of every city. 

994
01:10:16,400 --> 01:10:22,600
Wow. 
Women, I encourage you. 

995
01:10:22,600 --> 01:10:27,200
You should read this daily. 
So that you can get within you, 

996
01:10:27,200 --> 01:10:32,300
your value. 
As much as I speak to my wife, 

997
01:10:32,300 --> 01:10:37,200
tell her, I love her, tell her 
she's a woman of God, my words 

998
01:10:37,200 --> 01:10:42,100
do not have the same weight as 
her heavenly father and as much 

999
01:10:42,100 --> 01:10:46,100
as I tried to Echo exactly what 
he's saying and then try to 

1000
01:10:46,100 --> 01:10:50,000
model his way through a husband 
to her. 

1001
01:10:50,500 --> 01:10:52,800
It will never cause her to rise 
to the level. 

1002
01:10:52,800 --> 01:10:56,400
She is until she hears it from 
her father herself. 

1003
01:10:57,700 --> 01:11:02,500
And I so I encourage you women 
because when you do that whether

1004
01:11:02,900 --> 01:11:07,300
I get in the flesh on something 
or whether I forget something 

1005
01:11:07,300 --> 01:11:11,300
and absent-minded or didn't 
happen to evaluate that 

1006
01:11:11,300 --> 01:11:17,700
situation with more tenderness. 
She can easily say but I have a 

1007
01:11:17,708 --> 01:11:19,300
father. 
Who knows my value? 

1008
01:11:20,600 --> 01:11:23,000
And then she's easy to forgive 
me when I come and say, honey, 

1009
01:11:23,000 --> 01:11:26,000
forgive me. 
I wasn't sensitive enough. 

1010
01:11:26,000 --> 01:11:29,200
I wasn't, I didn't demonstrate 
that value, right? 

1011
01:11:29,700 --> 01:11:33,600
Forgive me. 
Because you are highly valuable 

1012
01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:39,600
to me. because of who you are in
Christ and who our father has 

1013
01:11:39,600 --> 01:11:46,100
made you, amen. 
And because of that, you'll be 

1014
01:11:46,100 --> 01:11:51,700
called blessed. 
That's where success comes. 

1015
01:11:54,000 --> 01:11:57,700
Is by being a woman of virtue. 
A woman of character. 

1016
01:11:59,200 --> 01:12:02,800
And your husband doesn't make 
you that your God does. 

1017
01:12:11,700 --> 01:12:15,800
Gentlemen, we have a tough 
supportive role. 

1018
01:12:18,100 --> 01:12:20,300
I know, the Bible calls us, the 
head of the house. 

1019
01:12:21,300 --> 01:12:25,300
But we are actually supporting 
God's vision of the woman. 

1020
01:12:27,000 --> 01:12:30,400
And that's a supporting role and
that's a tough one. 

1021
01:12:31,800 --> 01:12:35,900
But you must rise to the 
occasion and understand. 

1022
01:12:37,200 --> 01:12:42,300
That she is the most valuable 
thing that you have in your life

1023
01:12:44,600 --> 01:12:49,400
and you need to treat it as the 
greatest treasure. and any time 

1024
01:12:49,400 --> 01:12:52,500
you start seeing yourself Barry,
that treasure with your words 

1025
01:12:52,500 --> 01:12:56,100
and your actions, You need to 
repent. 

1026
01:12:56,900 --> 01:13:02,100
Humble yourself. 
And go dig her back up, and let 

1027
01:13:02,100 --> 01:13:06,100
her know that she's the best 
thing that's ever happened in 

1028
01:13:06,100 --> 01:13:14,100
your life outside of Jesus. 
Single girls, if you don't find 

1029
01:13:14,100 --> 01:13:18,100
a guy that values, you right out
the gate, he ain't worth having 

1030
01:13:18,700 --> 01:13:26,200
you might as well, wait. 
There are 8 billion people on 

1031
01:13:26,200 --> 01:13:31,800
the planet and you're not too 
young or too old. 

1032
01:13:33,200 --> 01:13:37,100
When I mean, well, you know, I'm
this old, I ain't God, will you 

1033
01:13:37,100 --> 01:13:39,400
pursue God? 
You need a spouse. 

1034
01:13:39,400 --> 01:13:41,100
They'll bring you someone to do 
it. 

1035
01:13:41,500 --> 01:13:43,700
Most people that are married 
today, May decisions because 

1036
01:13:43,700 --> 01:13:46,700
they were emotional, and they 
were led by their flesh. 

1037
01:13:47,800 --> 01:13:51,500
But you're in it now and there's
no excuse for you, that are born

1038
01:13:51,500 --> 01:13:57,700
of given just live, God, no 
problem, because we are an 

1039
01:13:57,700 --> 01:14:06,200
example of two horrible people. 
Who were not pursuing, God and 

1040
01:14:06,200 --> 01:14:11,800
living, according to our flesh. 
But we came together the holy 

1041
01:14:11,800 --> 01:14:16,000
spirit says this ain't going to 
work unless you do it my way and

1042
01:14:16,000 --> 01:14:20,300
we at least had enough smarts 
about us to say we'll do it your

1043
01:14:20,300 --> 01:14:27,800
way. 
My wife's told me before, you 

1044
01:14:27,800 --> 01:14:29,700
know, if I went on before you, 
you'll probably remember, I 

1045
01:14:29,708 --> 01:14:32,500
said, ain't no way it's not 
gonna happen. 

1046
01:14:33,400 --> 01:14:34,900
So I can't believe I said angle 
happen. 

1047
01:14:35,700 --> 01:14:38,200
I said what you don't understand
is I know you. 

1048
01:14:40,400 --> 01:14:44,000
I know the fight of faith. 
I know every trial you came 

1049
01:14:44,000 --> 01:14:47,100
through. 
I know every adversity you 

1050
01:14:47,100 --> 01:14:50,600
whipped and one. 
And you don't get that in a 

1051
01:14:50,600 --> 01:14:55,300
tight skin suit. 
You get that through years of 

1052
01:14:55,300 --> 01:14:56,700
fighting the good fight of 
faith. 

1053
01:14:57,900 --> 01:15:02,500
And I would never trade that 
woman for anything and I sure 

1054
01:15:02,500 --> 01:15:05,600
don't have time in the planet to
go. 

1055
01:15:05,700 --> 01:15:07,900
Let someone else get to that 
caliper. 

1056
01:15:17,600 --> 01:15:19,800
You look at your wife and you 
notice, she's fought a good 

1057
01:15:19,800 --> 01:15:21,200
fight and she's come through 
something. 

1058
01:15:26,200 --> 01:15:31,000
She's beat adversity. 
She yielded to God. 

1059
01:15:32,800 --> 01:15:35,000
She didn't give in to the flesh.
Didn't quit. 

1060
01:15:36,700 --> 01:15:40,600
You cherish that. 
Cherish that. 

1061
01:15:43,100 --> 01:15:45,100
Because sex don't cover that 
sex. 

1062
01:15:45,100 --> 01:15:50,600
Don't help that Sex sex ain't 
never defeated an enemy. 

1063
01:15:51,800 --> 01:15:56,600
By itself. 
No, the spirit inside. 

1064
01:15:56,600 --> 01:15:58,500
Her is the most amazing thing on
the planet. 

1065
01:16:00,700 --> 01:16:02,400
And she still looked at dog 
gone. 

1066
01:16:02,400 --> 01:16:08,300
Good better simmer down, right? 
She said, pray, baby. 

1067
01:16:08,300 --> 01:16:11,900
Pray, let's pray. 
Father, we love you and we honor

1068
01:16:11,900 --> 01:16:13,200
you. 
We thank you Lord. 

1069
01:16:14,800 --> 01:16:23,900
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1070
01:16:23,900 --> 01:16:27,600
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