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Welcome to the doctor nurse 
podcast. 

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I'm your host, dr. 
Sandra contenta. 

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I'm a doctor, Lee prepared nurse
practitioner. 

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And I am so glad you decided to 
join me today. 

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The doctor nurse podcast is a 
podcast for nurses and nurse 

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practitioners that are wanting 
to understand what exactly their

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degrees can do for them. 
After the birth of my son, I had

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this baking desire to have more 
flexibility in my career 

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choices. 
Despite feeling like all the 

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alphabet soup, after my name 
didn't really afford me. 

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Me very many options, I launched
the podcast to find the answers 

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that I, so desperately needed. 
I also knew I couldn't be the 

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only nurse who felt this way. 
This is sound like you, if so, 

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come and hang out with me as I 
figure out what our nursing 

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degrees can give us access to as
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control over our schedules and 
Entrepreneurship my talking with

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NPCs and our friends who are 
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Doctor nurse podcast Nation. 
Welcome to another episode of 

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the doctor nurse podcast. 
I'm your host seen representa, 

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and I am so happy to have on 
today. 

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The podcast a special motherhood
Mother's Day episode with my 

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Mom. 
Hi. 

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How are you guys? 
Welcome to the podcast. 

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Mom, I'm excited for doing this.
Yes, will be an exciting 

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episode. 
We decided to do this because we

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were like, I was thinking, you 
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yesterday. 
Let's launch a podcast episode 

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with my mom so that people can 
kind of see where I'm from and 

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who raised me the values and the
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are Are tantamount to who I am 
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person. 
So I thought it would be cool to

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chat. 
Thank you for having me in your 

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show. 
I'm excited to share this time 

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with you and your audience. 
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So I want to tell a start off by
kind of reducing you, this. 

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What I do with all my guests mom
my mom's, I number one podcast 

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fan, so she's used to this. 
My mom is a retired teacher, she

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taught in the school system for 
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mom of three. 
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stay-at-home mom for the first 
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second half of her career was 
being a teacher which he retired

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from. 
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process she also became an 
entrepreneur had. 

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Multiple rental properties, has 
been able to grow a little side,

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hustle business while working as
a teacher or so super inspiring 

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and I know that you're gonna 
have a lot to kind of share with

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my guest. 
I'm not willing to do. 

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So I the things that I have 
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others to do the same thing, NG 
I think they do is, will be 

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amazing. 
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Alright, so again, tell us a 
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and how you grew up where you 
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Okay. 
I was born in Hoboken. 

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New Jersey, I was raised there. 
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years and then my parents had a.
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That's what I was raised. 
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then I moved to Charlotte, then 
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came to Jacksonville. 
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and I say to and 1982, maybe 
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I got married. 
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child. 
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was doing a fashion 
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finished in 1987, that was my 
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something besides being a mom, 
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But I wanted to finish that 
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finished in 1987, my first two 
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stuff. 
Interesting, so you got, you got

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married to dad had three babies 
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you had your two children. 
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born in 89. 
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pretty hard to do. 
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imagine trying to do school and 
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other things that Had to do on 
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yourself that stuff and 
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from. 
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being honest with my guest, you 
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wasn't like you came over on a 
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No, it's class. 
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I mean, you Caden with just a 
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Yes, I was going to say that I 
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Oh, I was that. 
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yellow. 
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I would never forget that 
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sure if you remember what that 
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high school and Decker program, 
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And that's why I always like 
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And I said, I'm going to match 
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did not have anything in my 
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It was like, maybe five outfits.
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NE. 
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Puerto Rico to the states, with,
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Yes. 
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suitcase with just five dresses 
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you live. 
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Yes, that's pretty incredible 
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Yeah, I mean again I think my 
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tell that I always fight for 
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yourself to always be better. 
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from who you are and how you 
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you ingrained in all your 
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Because I know that my mom and 
this is a joke, you know, for 

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all those that are listening You
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practitioner to always get more 
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The highest level of everything 
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always dreamed that home. 
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daughter who went off and became
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anniversary but he's not 
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working with diversity and 
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You've got a son who also works 
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director level in a company. 
Yes, Anna. 

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And he has his MBA so you've 
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It kind of driving home that 
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pursue education. 
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Well, my philosophy and this is 
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in our life it can be our the 
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our society has. 
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that you can seek without have 
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for you. 
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school and try to finish 
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There are some people are, some 
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but if you can reach them 
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think that you should do better.
So the doors will open for you 

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and you don't have excuses to 
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give me this or this person that
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Well, if you have the education 
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yourself, then I think no one's 
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those things and know when the 
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things you always used to say 
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education was something nobody 
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Exactly and I think maybe it 
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wrong but whenever you you know 
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And I remember your aunt, my 
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correct? 
Yes, one of them is just so, you

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know, you're one of 11 and 
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having to share a A lot and 
having to also see things kind 

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of come and go because you just 
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family, you know, you get this 
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Well, what can I have that? 
No one can take away. 

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Exactly. 
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I remember growing up a lot. 
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Nobody could take from you. 
And so make sure to get that. 

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Because I think one of the 
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noticed as we've as a gotten 
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you use your brain and how you 
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Your Brain, I think determines 
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So what you really begin to see 
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Yes. 
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No one can ever take away with 
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can outwork most people even in 
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that my mom can get out in the 
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Most people in the yard, 
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doing me and yard work? 
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work and I remember I came to 
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to see supervise whatever was 
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young guys and they were like, 
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in the field working? 
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grandmother, she can't stop. 
I'm never going to forget that. 

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Well, I do love to work and I do
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cannot take away from you. 
If you have ability to do a job 

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and a high level that is done 
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it can be for patients or it can
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an organization like my son, 
he's director for Humana, he has

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to produce papers, or help to 
get lobbying, and that kind of 

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stuff that, that means, that he 
has to work. 

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And produce things that I think 
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You want to be busy, creating 
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and be a place for, for better 
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Yeah. 
To make the world a better 

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place. 
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But I like that. 
I like that. 

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So, a lot of the women that 
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that exact situation. 
They have children. 

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They're trying to figure out 
like, okay, so I'm killing 

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myself at this nursing job. 
I'm exhausted. 

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I've got kids and I'm trying to 
create a side hustle gig and one

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of the side hustle gigs that you
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You started to invest in real 
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Yes, I think that was something 
that you really set apart 

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yourself from other siblings of 
yours. 

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Other people in general because 
most people weren't doing what 

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you were doing. 30 40 years ago,
where it's starting to rent, 

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properties, collect money from 
renters and that kind of thing. 

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So, how did you kind of start 
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Hustle? 
How did you come by to launch 

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that? 
Well, was a teacher for 23 

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years. 
If I'm not mistaken, I will sit 

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at my desk and I would say, oh 
my God, I'm making a thousand 

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dollars every year increase. 
I said, and I was thinking that 

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is not a lot of money $1000 back
then. 

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It was 35,000 a year 37. 
It was not really a lot of 

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money, but one day I decided I 
wanted to move to a better house

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and I told my husband I want to 
rent this house. 

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I was scared to death. 
I was scared about going to the 

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property your and I decided I 
said, oh Lord I'm doing the 

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right thing. 
I don't know what I'm doing the 

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right thing and he says, well, 
clearly is like I'm talking to 

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you, he said this house would 
never be empty. 

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In his faithfulness has been to 
that property is never been 

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empty and it is we bought it in 
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No no 9797. 
We bought that in 97 you were 

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sort of going to get a 97. 
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And that property has been 
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It's not like I don't take care 
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I do things that I need to do is
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afraid of by renting out 
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potentially have two mortgages. 
Yes, you hold that. 

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You know, could you could you 
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Now, let's get back to the 

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episode. 
Exactly. 

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And I said, oh my God, this is 
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going to work this, not work, 
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that I was making, I was 
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House they will pay in and I was
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paid house. 
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That that is how we got to have 
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already paid because we did not 
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going to go to a cruise so we're
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though I did have little 
Volkswagens. 

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Convertible Volkswagen so yes. 
You like you sound like you're 

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driving, I know. 
Yeah yeah but it was a lot of 

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the process has been A lot of 
fun challenging has taught me a 

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lot about working and how to get
it people that come in and do 

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the work. 
I have worked with roofers 

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contractors work with reporters,
I did every model a brand-new 

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you know, like it's kitchen and 
I change the the appliances, I 

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Des, fleurs the carpet, I 
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teaching and I was looking at my
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every year. 
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And thinking Oh my God, this is 
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This is not gonna make it, and 
the maybe I did this, because I 

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knew that, if I want to have my 
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education, I needed a place for 
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That's why, how all of this 
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Yeah. 
So I think the the drive home 

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message is that you did it 
scared. 

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Right. 
Well, yeah, you know most people

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think like, oh, I could never do
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I just can't happen. 
You know, this is going to be 

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taking a risk but what you began
to see was it was risky. 

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Looking at your small 
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and thinking, this can't be it. 
That seemed like more of a risk.

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Yes, ooh, then really looking 
at, you know what, what if we 

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just throw our chips in and get 
a rental property and see what 

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we can do with this? 
And exactly, it's not like, at 

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that very moment. 
It was a golden egg ticket that 

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you are able to know what the 
heck is that. 

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Everybody on cruises and do all 
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Yes, it was a slow grind. 
Yes, I remember going to 

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properties with you as a young 
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work. 
I mean you've Instilled, that in

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us from the time. 
We were very little to you chip 

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in as a family. 
You work. 

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We're all building the dream 
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mentality. 
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with how you grew up again for 
those that are listening and 

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hearing. 
Okay, so miss you know, month, 

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you know, Sanders mom came from 
money. 

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I'm telling you guys, she 
literally came with two 

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suitcases from Puerto Rico with 
a high school education. 

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And again, you did not have a 
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eleven. 
You grew up in like a tube. 

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Your home was that? 
Well, I know it was a little bit

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bigger than that, but I do have 
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were in New Jersey, he had a 
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He really was not afraid of 
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done for a family of 11, but we 
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why we left? 
We went back to Puerto Rico 

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because it caught on fire and we
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And and that is when we decide 
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Puerto Rico and he bat-line land
and he would grow vegetables and

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had cows and he's kind of start.
He went that direction even 

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though, you know, he wanted to 
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but he didn't have the skills to
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God. 
So you think that that's kind of

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the spark of the entrepreneur? 
Yes, I think it is. 

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Comes from watching your dad, do
that entrepreneurial struggle. 

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Yeah, then again I like to say 
there's a lot of my podcast that

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when you do things Scared and 
you have these ups and downs in 

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life. 
It shows that you're alive. 

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Exactly describe like, I ended 
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processes and through unit, 
roofer problems and floor 

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problem. 
Yeah, you know, how do we fix 

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this and how do we, you know, 
manage the budget and how do we,

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you know, you didn't get a 
template, there were no courses 

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back then know what to do. 
And so you just kind of trouble 

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shot it. 
And did it scared? 

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And again I think that's a good 
lesson for those listening. 

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Yes, I was going to First 
Baptist. 

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Church downtown, Jacksonville. 
And I knew a lady did really, I 

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cannot remember her name. 
I'm sorry. 

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Not, you know, as you get older 
you forget people's names. 

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But she had nine houses. 
I'm thinking, oh my God, nine 

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houses, that is amazing. 
But how you doing it? 

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She says, well, I am going to 
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and doing that or whatever. 
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comfortable, taking damn many 
and being in charge of that 

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many, and people, and that kind 
of stuff. 

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I told her, I said, Start little
by little and I remember when an

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89 on, I cannot remember what 
exactly what year was the crash 

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and she lost some of those 
houses because they couldn't 

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sell them. 
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I'm going to go this route 
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I'm going to get one at the 
time. 

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Slow by slow like the turtle and
day. 

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I saw I was thinking as you were
talking was a turtleneck. 

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Yeah. 
And then slow by slow. 

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I was trying to kind of turtle 
makes it. 

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Yes. 
And that's exactly what I was 

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thinking. 
Yeah, no, it's true. 

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It goes back. 
Like you're saying like you're 

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rushing to do things and you 
think it's going to be this 

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quick fix and know kind of again
perfected the overtime building 

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slow building of the side 
household that turns into a 

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full-grown Beast. 
Because I believe that that from

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what I'm understanding, I got 
briefly about what you and Dad 

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have been able to build its 
enough to sustain a family which

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is the ink the rental income. 
That you purchase from your 

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properties. 
So again, it can be done for 

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Mother's Day. 
What would you say for those 

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listening today is one of the 
things that you wish you would 

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have known at the start of 
becoming a mom that you would 

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have held onto, or you, say fold
onto throughout your entire time

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of being a mom in the struggle 
working to make things happen. 

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You know, you are stay-at-home 
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and you were working mom. 
And then now you're a working 

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mom with the side hustle. 
What is something you wish. 

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Wish you could have gone back to
tell yourself that day, you got 

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off the plane from Puerto Rico, 
that you would have told that 

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girl to hold on to the rest of 
her life to be consistent and 

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not to waver. 
I think that when people waiver 

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from their desires and their 
willingness to do, whatever they

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want to do in life. 
And they take a detour that took

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detour is going to take you 
longer to get there. 

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But if you honestly look at your
life and say, I am not going to 

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back down, I am going to keep in
this direction. 

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And and I'm going to work hard 
and I'm going to do whatever you

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are at the end, you will make 
it. 

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It can be a profession, a 
better, you know, a better job. 

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It can be a family, that's a 
healthy family and do not waver 

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and your thoughts and your 
beliefs in a and you need to 

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believe in a higher power, 
whatever that is, I think that 

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it higher power. 
I think that is important 

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because we cannot make it by 
without it. 

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Yeah, I love this. 
You were talking about, makes me

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think of this quote, Success, is
not always about greatness. 

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It's about consistency 
consistent hard work leads to 

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success. 
Greatness will come by Dwayne 

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Johnson. 
I mean that's just one quote, 

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but I've heard it said multiple 
times that it is honestly about 

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the consistency more so than the
greatness and I think that 

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you've said it so well that that
has been one thing that you and 

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Dad have done, you know, 
consistently has been the 

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showing up and that and they 
think that part is Over time. 

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People ask me, like, how did 
your parents do this? 

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How did your parents create this
portfolio? 

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And they have all this stuff? 
And I'm just like, honestly, I 

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just think they just, they never
stopped. 

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They just kept going. 
And so I think that's kind of 

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the message. 
I think. 

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Most people can, I think I want 
people to hear from today is 

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just keep going, just keep 
pushing. 

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Well, I didn't doesn't really 
matter what age I think is 

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sometimes, you know, I went back
to school at 63 taking some 

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archive. 
Oh, yeah, that's right. 

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You don't ever Stop. 
I mean what we're going to tell 

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people about that. 
I mean, you're currently. 

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So you retire to help me take 
care of Benjamin. 

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I remember that. 
And yeah, I was telling her I 

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was telling her, I would have to
go back to work and you you 

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decided to retire, you were 
like, okay, I'll watch it while 

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you're at work and I'm like, 
you're going to do what and 

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you're like. 
Yeah, and you were tired to 

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watch Benji and then it's vivvy 
cute. 

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And then whenever you you get 
like your free time and you're 

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not taking care of grandkids, or
Chasing After You. 

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You're grown children. 
You go back to school. 

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Even in your 60s. 
And what are you pursuing right 

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now? 
Well, I'm taking art classes. 

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Yeah, I took a three-dimensional
course. 

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There are watery and pottery and
painting. 

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Hey, it's never too late. 
That's a you keep going. 

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And the thing is about you keep 
going. 

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This kind of feels that your 
time and here on Earth is going 

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fast. 
But you enjoying the ride. 

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It's not like you sitting and 
just And look at each other and 

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time is going to pass by might 
as well do something that you 

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enjoy doing. 
And that is how I'm doing it. 

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Yeah, I think that's another 
thing. 

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I would like to add to your 
story. 

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Is that you've always been a 
lifelong learner. 

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I mean, from the time that you 
stepped off the plane and you 

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got to work and you've always 
just been pursuing something 

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almost just like with a dog with
a bone, you just won't let it 

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go. 
And so I just remember you 

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studying because again you came 
with a high school diploma you 

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got yes. 
And while we were Little, but it

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didn't necessarily equate to 
like, you know, a direct job. 

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Yes. 
And then I remember you studying

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and working hard to get your 
bachelor's degree. 

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Yeah, while you had three kids, 
and then after you finish your 

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Bachelors, you've always been 
learning about something, doing 

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something, cross, stitch sewing.
I mean, you've just always been 

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busy doing something so it's 
very inspiring mom. 

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Well, on Mother's Day to have a 
mom that constantly through her.

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Example, shows herself to be a 
hard worker. 

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So, thank you for doing that and
I think that for my listeners 

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out there, it's encouraging just
to hear that, you can do it to 

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anybody can do it and not get 
around people that really can 

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teach you new things and ideas. 
I will say that Dave Ramsey, the

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guy that talks about the 
snowball effect of like snowball

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snow, that's not all is example 
of listening to people that give

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you ideas and New decide that 
you're going to follow those 

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ideas, see if it works because 
you never know. 

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00:24:04,500 --> 00:24:07,900
But I remember we taken the 
classes. 

451
00:24:07,900 --> 00:24:11,900
Kevin and I and the financial 
piece Financial play these class

452
00:24:11,900 --> 00:24:16,100
and we decided we're going to 
follow that logic and sure 

453
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enough. 
It worked out, but I think that 

454
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we are listening to do today at 
so many people that the logic is

455
00:24:22,100 --> 00:24:26,600
not beneficial to individuals to
make them do better and be 

456
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better. 
And that is why we have it. 

457
00:24:29,500 --> 00:24:32,900
The break Down in our society. 
But I think that if we listen to

458
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people that have values and have
ideas, they are like, like out 

459
00:24:40,100 --> 00:24:42,500
there. 
But honestly sometimes you look 

460
00:24:42,500 --> 00:24:44,700
at that. 
You if you think about it, the 

461
00:24:44,700 --> 00:24:46,800
kind of don't make any sense. 
But you thinking, I'm going to 

462
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:48,500
try it anyway. 
I'm see what it works. 

463
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:52,500
If it works, and if it works, 
then more power to you. 

464
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:54,500
Yeah. 
Kind of makes me think of like, 

465
00:24:54,700 --> 00:24:57,700
the, the salmon swimming 
Upstream, right? 

466
00:24:57,700 --> 00:24:59,500
Yeah. 
Like, you could just go with the

467
00:24:59,500 --> 00:25:01,800
rest of the All right, which is 
broke miserable. 

468
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:04,500
Sad. 
Chasing after looking like 

469
00:25:04,500 --> 00:25:07,500
everyone else, you know, keeping
up with the Joneses type. 

470
00:25:07,500 --> 00:25:10,400
Yes. 
Or you could be that salmon. 

471
00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:12,800
That's like, you know what? 
I'm not going to buy nine houses

472
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:15,300
right off the bat. 
I'm going to slowly build my 

473
00:25:15,300 --> 00:25:18,400
real estate portfolio. 
I'm going to, you know, 

474
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,800
methodically get out of debt to 
set myself, free trade. 

475
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:25,300
I'm going to, you know, work 
hard on these things that. 

476
00:25:25,300 --> 00:25:28,300
Yeah, most people would either 
let go because the consistency. 

477
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,600
Yes, I really want to just feel 
Good now. 

478
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:32,000
Yeah. 
So I think that those are the 

479
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:35,500
concepts that you really honed 
in on as you pursuing your 

480
00:25:35,500 --> 00:25:39,400
career, in pursuing, Financial 
Freedom, and things that you are

481
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:42,500
able to do for yourself. 
And that is so true. 

482
00:25:42,500 --> 00:25:45,700
And I think that the bottom line
to the sometimes, people don't 

483
00:25:45,700 --> 00:25:49,400
want to see you succeed. 
That is always there because we 

484
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:53,200
are not by Nature. 
We are gel individuals, that's 

485
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:56,700
what we compete with having the 
better house, or having the 

486
00:25:56,700 --> 00:25:59,300
better car or having the better 
traveling. 

487
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:04,900
But, We are saying to ourselves.
Let's do something that is out 

488
00:26:04,900 --> 00:26:07,900
there that nobody really is 
going to be paying attention, 

489
00:26:08,300 --> 00:26:12,800
but the benefit is so much 
bigger than competing with other

490
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,500
people. 
I think you will see the 

491
00:26:14,500 --> 00:26:18,200
benefits of it sooner or later, 
you will see the benefits of it.

492
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:21,200
You might not see it. 
When you understand, you're 

493
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:24,500
like, working and you're trying 
to do everything, but at the end

494
00:26:24,500 --> 00:26:27,300
of The Journey, you will see 
that paint out for you. 

495
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,000
Yeah, it made me think of when 
you're saying that like When 

496
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:31,800
you're looking at everybody 
else, you're competing with 

497
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:33,800
everyone around you. 
If you actually just compete 

498
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:34,800
with yourself. 
Yes. 

499
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:37,300
Can I be consistent? 
Can I eat this? 

500
00:26:37,300 --> 00:26:39,900
Exactly, I want to build. 
Yeah, you're not focusing on 

501
00:26:39,900 --> 00:26:41,300
people around you and what they 
have. 

502
00:26:41,300 --> 00:26:43,000
You're focusing on what you're 
building for yourself. 

503
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:45,400
Exactly. 
And so again Guys, these are 

504
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:48,100
just, you know, this is my mom, 
this is who raised me. 

505
00:26:48,100 --> 00:26:52,200
This is the person that gave me 
all the wisdom and insight. 

506
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:55,500
As I watched her, not just tell 
me these things but also live. 

507
00:26:55,500 --> 00:26:58,100
These things in her life, and I 
wanted to bring her on the 

508
00:26:58,100 --> 00:27:01,400
podcast today, because I really 
thought that It would be cool to

509
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:06,800
hear from my mom because she's 
got a lot of just wisdom and she

510
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:08,600
is just a fun. 
Puerto Rican mom. 

511
00:27:08,700 --> 00:27:11,500
And I thought for the last part 
of the episode, we could do some

512
00:27:11,500 --> 00:27:13,700
rapid fire questions. 
If you're down to our, let's 

513
00:27:13,700 --> 00:27:16,000
see, okay, okay? 
Okay, so Mom, if you have to 

514
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,200
give a book to somebody, what 
book would it be good? 

515
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:19,900
Bible? 
What is here? 

516
00:27:20,300 --> 00:27:24,300
Because it's a have a lot of 
learnings that a teaching, is a 

517
00:27:24,308 --> 00:27:28,300
lot of things inside a book did,
as I'm trying to read it. 

518
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:31,300
I'm thinking, oh my God. 
This is one of the best books. 

519
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:34,400
I've missed it for anything. 
Yeah, it's like it helps you 

520
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:38,000
with relationships with 
forgiveness. 

521
00:27:38,300 --> 00:27:41,600
Helps you with finances? 
Yes, it helps you with 

522
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:42,500
everything. 
Yeah. 

523
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,700
So if you had to give a mom 
hack, one thing that is you were

524
00:27:45,700 --> 00:27:49,000
raising three kids and trying to
give everybody straight and in 

525
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:52,900
the land on their way that if 
the straight and narrow path of 

526
00:27:52,900 --> 00:27:55,500
like this. 
If you had to give a mom hack to

527
00:27:55,500 --> 00:27:57,800
a mom today, that was like I'm 
struggling help me out. 

528
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:00,100
What would you do if she's here 
then everybody's gonna Go 

529
00:28:00,100 --> 00:28:05,900
through those times and that you
need to take breathing 10 times 

530
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:11,300
in and out and then assess the 
assess the issues and then make 

531
00:28:11,300 --> 00:28:13,800
the best decision, okay? 
For your family. 

532
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,200
So interesting, when you 
breathing 10 times, whenever I 

533
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:19,100
call you on College, how about 
that sucks? 

534
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:24,000
All right, that's the last 
question of the podcast, Mom. 

535
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,400
How did you pick the name 
Sandra? 

536
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:30,300
Well, I have a sister named 
Sandra and I thought that she 

537
00:28:30,300 --> 00:28:34,900
did a lot for our family, and I 
thought that having her name 

538
00:28:34,900 --> 00:28:36,500
passed down. 
It won't. 

539
00:28:37,100 --> 00:28:38,800
It means a lot to you last 
night. 

540
00:28:38,900 --> 00:28:41,000
Yeah, honor. 
That's why I did it. 

541
00:28:41,100 --> 00:28:42,200
That's very cool. 
Mom. 

542
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:43,500
Thanks for coming on the 
podcast. 

543
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:45,400
Thank you for having me. 
I love it. 

544
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:46,700
Yeah. 
Isn't it fun? 

545
00:28:46,700 --> 00:28:49,400
Yeah, it is. 
A lot of fun guys again. 

546
00:28:49,500 --> 00:28:51,900
And don't forget to enjoy the 
journey of your career, and to 

547
00:28:51,900 --> 00:28:53,800
all the moms that listen out in 
the podcast. 

548
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:55,700
I hope you had a wonderful 
Mother's Day. 

549
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,000
Thanks for tuning in guys, and 
we'll catch you next week, 

550
00:28:58,500 --> 00:29:02,400
Emily. 
I love you mama and thanks for 

551
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:06,900
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