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Welcome to the doctor nurse 
podcast. 

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I'm your host, dr. 
Sandra contenta. 

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I'm a doctor, Lee prepared nurse
practitioner. 

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And I am so glad you decided to 
join me today. 

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The doctor nurse podcast is a 
podcast for nurses and nurse 

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practitioners that are wanting 
to understand what exactly their

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degrees can do for them. 
After the birth of my son, I had

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this baking desire to have more 
flexibility in my career 

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choices. 
Despite feeling like all the 

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alphabet soup, after my name 
didn't really afford me. 

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Me very many options, I launched
the podcast to find the answers 

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that I, so desperately needed. 
I also knew I couldn't be the 

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only nurse who felt this way. 
This is sound like you, if so, 

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come and hang out with me as I 
figure out what our nursing 

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degrees can give us access to as
far as career flexibility 

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control over our schedules and 
Entrepreneurship my talking with

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NPCs and our friends who are 
doing exactly that. 

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Doctor nurse podcast, fam. 
Welcome to another episode of 

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the doctor nurse podcast. 
Today, I have on Shira page, she

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is a nurse practitioner Is the 
Bobby medical community manager 

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for the Bobby formula company. 
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improving, clinical care of 
people, in their most 

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challenging moments, she studied
nutrition, and dietetics, and 

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fall and followed by a masters 
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At the University of 
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Her expertise, is in 
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and weight medicine. 
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practitioner and mount Urban 
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Focusing on intercom concerns 
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after becoming a mother. 
Mom, she saw firsthand the 

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challenges of infant feeding and
became a certified lactation 

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consultant like certified. 
Lactation counselor, before 

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joining Bobby, she serves as the
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earlier, at the community 
continuing medication, medical 

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education company and a 
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Oh, do you did that before you 
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I think I read that in your 
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Yeah. 
You served as a medical director

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at a community at a can say that
word continuing education, Edge 

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company. 
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education materials, I'm 
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outcomes and she lives in 
Boston, with her husband and her

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two babies. 
Welcome to the podcast. 

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Thank you. 
What? 

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A beautiful introduction. 
Yeah, yeah, so happy to have you

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on. 
I'm really excited to be here. 

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I am big fan, I just love nurse 
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I think, you know, like five 
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of them. 
And I that was when I was really

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at a turning point in my career 
and I was trying to like, so got

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any information that was out 
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Find other people in the space, 
we were looking to make career 

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changes or look outside of 
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And I felt totally alone and 
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And now that industry is like 
booming and people like, you are

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Paving the way to elevate nurses
and make them feel like the 

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world is their oyster and 
they're just so many options out

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there and Empower them and their
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I'm not sneaking instead he said
thank you for the work that you 

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do, and thank you for doing this
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As a new mom life deep in it 
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thank you for saying all that. 
That is so just kind very very 

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kind sure. 
Uh so when you reach out to me 

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about the podcast, I was so 
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that we're going to talk about 
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about your career, kind of how 
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doing and then also the 
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Of elk formula mom, shame, and 
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thing. 
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we're going to start off a 
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telling us kind of what your job
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Most people don't even know what
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I don't know, you know, fully, I
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met you but outside of that kind
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just like, wait, what is she 
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and then, yeah, we'll dive into 
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So actually, my title has 
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It's medical Partnerships me. 
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know, medical community manager 
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similar, but we started focusing
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The Partnerships aspect of 
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So I joined Bobby of almost a 
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Now I was coming from Lake you 
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medical education space which is
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Try to spin it was a magical 
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challenges and assisting with 
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you've got funding from 
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and I kind of looking for 
something that felt more Mission

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driven under the line was 
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profitable. 
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in housemates very, very long 
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It's test with the Parvati 
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whole life. 
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things, I'm sorry. 
Certification along women called

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them identical kurihara ecology 
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really working to engaged. 
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So you know, we do and bench 
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just helps improve infant 
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provider education, because you 
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feeding your knowledge back 
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So you know if you are a 
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Pediatrics residency your 
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On that topic less, you seek it 
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delivery nurse. 
Even if you are set up to pursue

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your ibclc within doing labor 
and delivery nurse care, you can

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have very limited mentorship and
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your hours. 
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massive gaps to be created in 
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Which is providers supporting 
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having the knowledge or 
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something. 
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passionate about fixing and part
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so that we can fill that Gap. 
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Providers, just get content 
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understand our product both on 
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Medical conferences, through 
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resources, Has and then very 
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of healthcare providers that are
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And they kind of see that 
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beating narrative, which is 
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the only way that parents should
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what's going on with them, or 
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it is for their situation, the 
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I think that meeting I just 
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really working out, like, here's
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deal, just go and do it and 
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parents that maybe breastfeeding
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So trying to get rid of that 
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together to have more nuanced 
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so that we can actually support 
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in feeling like this is an 
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to finish. 
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just become so wrought with 
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people dread like people started
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of being their babies when they 
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about new motherhood because all
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don't feel like they time and 
space or resources to feed their

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baby. 
They want the way they want to, 

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or they know that they're going 
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they're not going to feel 
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Always breastfeeding and formula
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this way either. 
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their freedom or year or their 
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doing the wrong thing. 
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something different. 
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really at the center of this and
my dog allows me to give them 

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the tools and resources to make 
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also bring in more 
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clinical domain where it's 
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Yeah. 
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way to use your Nursing degree 
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learned through your experience 
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actually be able to have a 
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Corporate America and be able to
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humanistic sock. 
The people that you are creating

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the formula for your actually 
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see is this humanistic side to, 
Hey, listen, how do we Bridge 

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those gaps between what the 
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between the patient between what
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The company. 
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really, really cool. 
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sure that I'm staying true to 
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this is just something for me. 
Personally, hear the doctor 

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nurse podcast that I believe 
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babies that are breastfed, is 
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As a healthcare professional, we
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That comes from you as the 
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children, that are breastfed 
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infections diarrhea, vomiting 
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diabetes and mothers as well as 
certain cancer. 

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Sirs, we know that it's an 
active food, right? 

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That it has enzymes that in live
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That tailored to your babies 
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These are Concepts that are just
irrefutable it in the literature

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and we know that that's these 
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However, I also know, and that 
you said very briefly that there

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are situations that make it hard
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We've talked a little bit about 
systemic issues, such as lack of

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maternity, leave the things that
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don't have support at home, 
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always easily accessible 
resources like, like lactation 

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Consultants things like that. 
That help bridge, those gaps 

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that you're having, if you are 
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what you're saying, dreading 
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However, what I think, and what 
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conversation around was, you 
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as a company that's creating 
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to provide a certain formula 
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And then, as parents, we have to
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We also know that not all 
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that there are like we said 
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that prevent moms from doing 
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You could have had a breast 
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cause you to not produce milk. 
They were real real things that 

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people are dealing with that. 
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I found an interesting last 
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That 84 percent of American 
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and then by three months that 
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And then by six months, that 
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So 75% of baby. 
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six months, right? 
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reality of the situation so we 
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around the Nuance but we can 
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things are things that we're 
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And so we're hoping that there 
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parents. 
So I think that's really, really

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interesting and good to talk 
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And again, this is a global 
issue that we've got to chat. 

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And again, Bobby is Actually, 
what I purchased, I purchased 

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two cans prior to having my 
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I am eight weeks, postpartum and
I purchased your formulas for my

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Just in case, I wasn't able to 

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produce milk because I need to 
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And so I felt like your formula 
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My research on, I'm only 
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coming from them. 
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like this was the best thing and
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company. 
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with you about it today. 
Giving all of that and feeling 

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that way, So tell me a little 
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culture is their surrounding 
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about kind of feeling push to 
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or yeah, kind of weird. 
This stems from and your 

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experience kind of where you've 
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What if you've been getting from
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maybe be helpful to provide some
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bit about my I own became story.
My mom is actually, or was a La 

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And if you aren't familiar with 
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organization in traditional, 
they've done a lot of things. 

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Sick work in this Beast, for 
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channel support. 
All of what side they are. 

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any sort of discussion of 
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be parents being with their 
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We allow them to proceed which, 
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And is a deal that does not fit 
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period or couples that do not 
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doesn't really align very well 
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hours, 40 hours, plus having to 
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It also just said in the line 
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So, you know, I think it's 
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conversation, you brought up a 
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someone may not be able to 
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like that, and it cost of just 
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maybe feel for whatever reason 
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them. 
Because those people exist, they

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don't think they. 
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health care provider or to their
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It's necessarily had a reason, 
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Like, it's their body and their 
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Then I just want to be 
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it's a history of trauma, 
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Or, you know, I have a very 
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get pregnant in the next year, 
who just has likes to be your 

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anxiety around health, and body,
and you've already made the 

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decision. 
I'm going to, she's going to 

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exclusively formula feed, and 
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it will destroy her parenting 
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another thing involves that 
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Being self-sufficient, that's 
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then like work on and it's not 
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but she's made that decision. 
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all those people that have 
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decision for them. 
Going back to the thing that you

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said before. 
It is true from CDC data. 

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We know that about 75 percent of
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the first year and there's other
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about two-thirds of the parents 
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So, do you thirds of pairings 
for use for real answers either 

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baby, in some capacity, will 
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Just this morning, I was talking
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New York City area and she was 
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she sees parents who like have 
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sort of, in septic post break 
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Because obviously they're not 
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I think that and there Like 
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that. 
I had to do that. 

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Yeah, I had to do that. 
When my son was born in the 

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NICU, he was born with blood 
sugar issues, and my milk hadn't

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come in. 
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formula while he was in the NICU
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And so, yes, I hundred percent 
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I didn't have. 
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I feel awful this birth 
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traumatically the wrong way. 
I don't, I did not even you 

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know, again, C-section all the 
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See you. 
I never got to hold him like, 

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until the first, like, for the 
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I didn't even know where he was 
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And so, then I go up there and 
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here. 
And he's hungry, and he's hungry

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because he has the blood sugar 
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nutrition immediately. 
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formulate, I had to supplement 
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right? 
I didn't have an option because 

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my kid needed food, so I get, I 
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There are many situations that 
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again, And you do feel awful 
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birth. 
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part that I'm supposed to be 
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can't do right now. 
I've gotta feed him again or 

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like the way that I don't want 
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Furthering the trauma of this is
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to do it. 
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you. 
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That's and it's so unfortunate. 
It like breaks my heart to think

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about because this is such a 
this Is such a magical time or 

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has the potential to be such a 
magical time and entering the 

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into Parenthood and Forest and 
feeding your baby. 

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Also, the ability to be 
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many touch points where it has 
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experience that creates trauma 
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they lost something or they 
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Had it differently? 
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Seaside. 
Stands or surgical births and I 

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thought it was a great parallel 
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starting to like shift The 
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like the only way to have a 
quote unquote successful birth. 

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It's to have like an on Medicaid
for God's role. 

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Every you don't put a shirt for 
that by the way, you don't you 

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don't get a shirt at the end of 
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So bring on the up and down and 
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colors there, huh? 
Hold up, stardom experience to 

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feel like they had that option 
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And, you know, I don't want to 
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Getting into all the nuances of 
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joys and birth like that's a 
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do think it as a good parallel 
because you would never have an 

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OBGYN go to a parent who 
Stephanie. 

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you're doing second best. 
I'm like We need to keep pushing

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and risk your health and the 
health of your baby and put 

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everything on the line to make 
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delivery and in some ways, 
that's kind of what's happening 

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with a lot of breastfeeding and 
care that it's just, that's like

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one track mind that there's no 
room for a conversation. 

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There's no Wayne of risk in 
Plymouth. 

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And I think for me, as thinking 
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and how they can improve it. 
There isn't shared decision 

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making. 
So we know as healthcare 

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providers that if you are going 
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intervention about the 
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whether you should be using 
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should be decision that you're 
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Where you helps, you understand 
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preferences. 
You share with them some medical

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information or Banks you split. 
Transfer them with your clinical

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insight, and then you work 
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things intersect. 
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powered or educated to do that 
with infant feeding. 

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I see that they have two sides 
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pushing one thing or dismissing 
it, but I don't see that they 

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know how to take the time to 
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complexity. 
And I think that that's really 

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something that we can all work 
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It's something that I'm Trying 
to work on in the education that

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we put out and bought in the 
community that we're building. 

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Because I think the more and 
more that providers, who touch 

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the patients earning in the 
first year of Life, are able to 

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have those conversations, the 
more impact journal and feel 

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like they're walking into 
something as a decision that's 

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supporting their goals rather 
than as having their options 

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stripped from them, out of 
necessity. 

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Yeah, and I think what you're 
describing there is the crust, 

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the crutch of it, right? 
Which is what are your goals? 

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Everybody has different goals 
and that's why when things don't

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go as you want, as you see 
planned either in birth or with 

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breastfeeding. 
And you do feel a level of guilt

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shame, all these different 
concepts around it. 

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Because you had these 
expectations that things were 

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going to be a certain way, which
is why when my birth went very 

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differently than what I 
envisioned, it was the 

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expectation of what I thought 
versus the reality of what it 

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was. 
And so again for me at that 

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point the goal is shifted, 
right? 

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So I was just like, I'm just 
going to focus in on doing the 

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best that I can to breastfeed my
baby at my pace and so whenever 

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We're home will do the but, you 
know, like so that became the 

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shift, right? 
That became the shift, but I 

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never let the goal of what I 
wanted to be altered. 

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I was going to do the best that 
I could. 

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I think that's the part that we 
need to give each other a little

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more grace on is doing the best 
that you can in the situation 

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that you had. 
And I agree with you if an OBGYN

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were to have said that to me and
the moment then I would have 

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been like, okay, well do I keep 
trying? 

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Like it would have put me at 
risk, right? 

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And so now when she leaned over,
The drape and said, hey Mama you

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did the best thing right now. 
For that baby, that you needed 

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to come out. 
That was comforting to my soul. 

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Right? 
And so and I have it engraved in

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my memory and I you know, unless
something happens to my brain, I

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will always remember her leaning
over the drape and telling me 

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that we saved him and that was 
the right thing to do. 

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And in those moments, you know, 
when you're just like laying 

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there completely helpless and 
and having this major abdominal 

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surgery to park, you know, have 
your baby out into the world. 

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You need to hear those things. 
You need to hear again. 

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What? 
I want mom's to here, which is 

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As you are doing the best you 
can in the situation that you 

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are in and I think that's the 
rhetoric that we need to hear 

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now, they are some moms that are
just not doing the best that 

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they can. 
They don't want to do the best 

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that they can. 
And that's a whole other class 

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of people write like we can't 
pretend like that stuff doesn't 

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exist. 
There are moms that are not 

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doing the best that they can but
there are I think the majority 

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of mothers that are doing the 
best that they can to situations

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that they're in and that's 
that's the stuff that neat the 

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mom's guilt in the moms, shames 
got to stop her. 

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And because we are all for the 
most part, try and do the best 

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that we can in the situations 
that were in and again, 

455
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:11,300
protecting your mental health 
protecting, you know? 

456
00:25:11,300 --> 00:25:13,800
Again, if your vision is for 
something else and your goals 

457
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:17,200
are for something else, then do 
those things because that's what

458
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,800
works for you and I think that 
that is kind of where the cot 

459
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:24,900
was for the where the buck stops
really is, where you feel like, 

460
00:25:24,900 --> 00:25:27,900
Hey, listen, this is good for my
life, and you have to live with 

461
00:25:27,900 --> 00:25:30,900
whatever that will be and we all
have to make those decisions. 

462
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,600
Ins in our life towards 
different things at every moment

463
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:36,000
of the day. 
And so, yeah, I think having 

464
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:39,400
that conversation and providers 
kind of standing in the Gap and 

465
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:42,200
letting people know if this is 
what's best for you and if this 

466
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:45,800
aligns with your goals, then 
I'll walk with you along side of

467
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:49,900
that and I'll support you. 
I'm going to present to you the 

468
00:25:49,900 --> 00:25:51,700
truth. 
I'm going to present to you the 

469
00:25:51,700 --> 00:25:55,400
facts, but I'm also going to 
take into your situation 

470
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:58,400
specifically so that we can 
tailor a plan that works with 

471
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:00,700
your goals. 
I believe that's what we as 

472
00:26:00,700 --> 00:26:01,900
prey. 
Your providers have a 

473
00:26:01,900 --> 00:26:04,600
responsibility to do. 
And so yeah. 

474
00:26:04,700 --> 00:26:08,100
So how would you recommend? 
You know, those are that's kind 

475
00:26:08,100 --> 00:26:11,400
of my feeling about it is again,
reverberating almost like Mantra

476
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:14,300
like status. 
This is what works for me. 

477
00:26:14,500 --> 00:26:17,300
How do you think that women can 
combat this mom guilt, 

478
00:26:17,300 --> 00:26:19,900
especially, circling around 
feeding feeding their baby? 

479
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:23,800
Yeah, I mean, I think that what 
you said is really aligned with 

480
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:27,000
a lot of the things that we've 
talked about it, Bobby, we had a

481
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:31,500
campaign in the fall about 
combination feeding, and That 

482
00:26:31,500 --> 00:26:35,200
one of the mantras was that your
best is best, right? 

483
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:39,100
Like, I think that that 
messaging is so important and I 

484
00:26:39,108 --> 00:26:43,000
think the Expectations vs. 
Reality concept that you brought

485
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:46,400
up is actually a perfect 
starting place. 

486
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:52,100
So that is kind of those 
expectations are how you create 

487
00:26:52,100 --> 00:26:56,000
a vision of what success looks 
like for you and what and 

488
00:26:56,000 --> 00:27:00,900
Empower and positive experior 
looks like and so on. 

489
00:27:01,100 --> 00:27:05,000
There's a lot of Education that 
can happen there about shaping, 

490
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:09,400
those expectations, and I think 
it's a really sticky topic to be

491
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:12,000
quite honest, right? 
Focused with you out. 

492
00:27:12,100 --> 00:27:15,600
Breast milk is sticky, icky 
formula of sticky. 

493
00:27:16,300 --> 00:27:20,100
Yes, I think that, you know, we 
actually have a research study 

494
00:27:20,100 --> 00:27:23,100
coming out. 
What I'll be excited to share on

495
00:27:23,100 --> 00:27:27,600
expectations versus what the 
actual experience is and how 

496
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:30,400
that impacts mental health and 
there's been other research and 

497
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:35,500
they stay face to specifically 
around feeding, but in the 

498
00:27:35,500 --> 00:27:39,500
conventional kind of lactation 
education space there is this 

499
00:27:39,500 --> 00:27:45,400
idea that you never want to kind
of talk negatively about 

500
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,700
breastfeeding and how 
challenging it might be your 

501
00:27:47,700 --> 00:27:51,000
about how you might need 
prevalent side of like, very 

502
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:55,700
severe scenarios because you 
just, you don't want to, like, 

503
00:27:55,700 --> 00:27:58,600
scare parents away from 
breastfeeding. 

504
00:27:58,700 --> 00:28:02,700
And so, I think that's kind of, 
its kind Pull the wool over the 

505
00:28:02,700 --> 00:28:05,700
eyes of terrorists in some ways,
like, you know, they cure things

506
00:28:05,700 --> 00:28:09,100
from their friends, but like it 
would be really nice if we were 

507
00:28:09,100 --> 00:28:12,900
able to have really transparent 
conversations that were both 

508
00:28:12,900 --> 00:28:17,000
educational and empowering to 
set people up for a CD and 

509
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:21,100
experience. 
So, helping them understand all 

510
00:28:21,100 --> 00:28:25,700
the different touch points where
they may face Challengers and 

511
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:29,400
tough understand the statistics 
to understand their own and 

512
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:33,300
scenario, like, you know, it if 
someone is going into a surgical

513
00:28:33,300 --> 00:28:36,400
birth or if they're having a 
premature baby for really 

514
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:42,000
explaining educating their 
feeding experience, maybe like 

515
00:28:42,300 --> 00:28:46,400
which is the left out of the 
conversation and allowing that 

516
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:52,400
to be something that isn't seen 
as there's dark like creeping 

517
00:28:52,700 --> 00:28:55,800
thing that's going to sabotage 
their potential to be a 

518
00:28:55,800 --> 00:29:00,300
successful at breastfeeding but 
and something that is actually 

519
00:29:00,300 --> 00:29:07,300
going to help I'm more realistic
expectation and have a clearer 

520
00:29:07,300 --> 00:29:11,900
vision, all the different ways 
that they can feed their baby so

521
00:29:11,900 --> 00:29:14,700
that they're not completely 
blindsided. 

522
00:29:14,900 --> 00:29:19,100
And feel like the vision that 
they have is just mashed and now

523
00:29:19,100 --> 00:29:23,700
they're doing this thing that 
they feel totally crappy about. 

524
00:29:23,900 --> 00:29:27,900
So, it is challenging because 
those resources, both from the 

525
00:29:27,900 --> 00:29:32,400
clinical providers and just in 
general, General are you know 

526
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:37,600
they're not as prominent as we 
would like them to be in that 

527
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:41,300
meeting by this good that 
participated in an honestly 

528
00:29:42,500 --> 00:29:44,100
ashamed. 
To say, some of the ones that I 

529
00:29:44,100 --> 00:29:48,600
used to lead for Renewal period,
work movie to talk about formula

530
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:52,000
at all except to help parents 
figure out how to navigate a 

531
00:29:52,008 --> 00:29:55,500
avoiding formula used when it's 
recommended in the hospital in 

532
00:29:55,500 --> 00:29:58,700
certain situations because that 
is what you are taught in a lot 

533
00:29:58,700 --> 00:30:01,800
of the lactation education. 
And I I think that there's an 

534
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:07,200
opportunity there to Providers 
and the lactation Fabricators 

535
00:30:07,500 --> 00:30:10,600
include a more holistic 
conversation so that people feel

536
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:14,600
like they understand everything 
that is on the table for them 

537
00:30:14,900 --> 00:30:17,100
and how they can use it as a 
tool. 

538
00:30:17,100 --> 00:30:21,700
Just like we use medication as a
tool or therapy as a tool to 

539
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:24,300
make a feeding darting that 
works for them. 

540
00:30:24,700 --> 00:30:30,000
So clinician Network and also 
with network Partners in the 

541
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:33,000
medical space, it's called 
feeding friendly and those 

542
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,700
partners are committed to 
providing that sort of 

543
00:30:35,700 --> 00:30:37,800
education. 
So whether it's a pediatric 

544
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:42,000
provider or a parenting 
education platform, maybe you 

545
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:46,000
can go there and loaded the card
and that your aunt is goat. 

546
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:50,200
Not going to like eight key 
information about infant feeding

547
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:54,300
and is going to make sure that 
you understand the full spectrum

548
00:30:54,500 --> 00:30:58,500
of how you can navigate your own
situation, what the options are.

549
00:30:58,900 --> 00:31:03,300
So I think that Daddy in seeking
out that type of education is 

550
00:31:03,300 --> 00:31:06,800
really important on the patient 
side and then I always just kind

551
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,900
of add on the provider side that
I honestly think the biggest 

552
00:31:09,900 --> 00:31:13,800
thing is like when they and 
really hearing what parents are 

553
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:17,700
telling you, you know, we we all
want to think that were very 

554
00:31:17,700 --> 00:31:22,400
good as this, but many providers
are stuffed with time and 

555
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:26,400
resources, you know, especially 
I really feel for Pediatric 

556
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:29,700
providers seeing babies. 
They get a lot of heat for not 

557
00:31:29,700 --> 00:31:32,600
being good at not. 
Beginning infant feeding and 

558
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,500
not, you know, supporting 
breastfeeding about like they 

559
00:31:35,500 --> 00:31:38,900
have 15 minutes to do a full 
newborn and pairing assessment. 

560
00:31:38,900 --> 00:31:42,200
Then didn't have any does very 
complex topic? 

561
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:45,100
I should really hot light and 
we're its Lane involved. 

562
00:31:45,500 --> 00:31:49,400
So they just really taking the 
time to listen to that area and 

563
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:53,000
here where they're at that is 
just so essential. 

564
00:31:53,700 --> 00:31:57,100
Yeah, Hoping to either take the 
same amount of things. 

565
00:31:57,500 --> 00:32:00,500
I think that, you know, the more
that we can create team-based 

566
00:32:00,500 --> 00:32:02,600
care to That as well is really 
helpful. 

567
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:06,100
So if you feel like you don't 
have the time in the office, to 

568
00:32:06,500 --> 00:32:10,400
address the situation, like 
bringing in a team of mental 

569
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:13,600
health professionals, lactation,
and feeding support providers, 

570
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:17,200
who can do that of getting on 
the phone with the OB and 

571
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:20,200
talking to them about what 
you're seeing postpartum, so 

572
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:23,100
that you can all collaborate 
together to make sure this 

573
00:32:23,100 --> 00:32:25,600
parent is supported in the 
healthcare space. 

574
00:32:25,900 --> 00:32:30,300
Yeah, I think what you're saying
and what I'm hearing most most 

575
00:32:30,300 --> 00:32:34,900
from that, That from that speech
is that basically, we've got to 

576
00:32:34,900 --> 00:32:38,500
support mom's better, and that's
kind of what I would like this 

577
00:32:38,500 --> 00:32:42,700
podcast episode to really say is
that, if you're a mom, a nurse 

578
00:32:42,700 --> 00:32:46,000
mom, or a provider that is 
listening, and you're just like,

579
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,400
wait a minute. 
Like, I haven't really thought 

580
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:51,500
about this again, listening to 
what women are saying and 

581
00:32:51,500 --> 00:32:53,900
hearing them and then referring 
them to the appropriate. 

582
00:32:53,900 --> 00:32:57,200
Resources, can keep someone 
who's trying to breastfeed. 

583
00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:00,100
If those are her goals 
breastfeed, and if there's a 

584
00:33:00,100 --> 00:33:02,800
woman that is Listen, I don't 
want to do this anymore. 

585
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:07,400
I'm tired exhausted, mentally 
fatigued, it's affecting my 

586
00:33:07,500 --> 00:33:09,700
mental health, whatever. 
Whatever it is. 

587
00:33:09,700 --> 00:33:11,800
I'm not making enough. 
My baby is not gaining weight. 

588
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:14,800
The mirror out of things that 
can be going on, then having 

589
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:18,200
those conversations and again, 
refocusing goals and say, Hey 

590
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:19,900
listen, if we're going to do 
this and these this is the 

591
00:33:19,900 --> 00:33:22,600
reality of what we're doing. 
And these are the resources that

592
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:26,300
we have and taking that time 
will keep people successful or 

593
00:33:26,300 --> 00:33:29,300
will help people make the lives 
that they want with, you know, 

594
00:33:29,300 --> 00:33:32,100
with their feeding jury with 
their Aaron and will make them a

595
00:33:32,108 --> 00:33:35,800
better parent because if you're 
not, you know, feeling like 

596
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,600
you're being heard and 
supported. 

597
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:40,800
We've heard recently in the news
that there was a mother that you

598
00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:44,000
know, hurt herself and her three
children and you love him. 

599
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,500
You're just like people are 
really dealing with a lot of 

600
00:33:46,500 --> 00:33:49,400
mental health issues. 
And again, as health care 

601
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:51,800
providers, we have the unique 
opportunity of stepping into 

602
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:55,400
these people's lives, every so 
often and seeing how things are 

603
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:57,900
going. 
And I think that we can have, 

604
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:00,600
like, you said those 
conversations and refer people 

605
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:03,800
for Those that are wondering 
what those resources are, you 

606
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:06,600
know, lactation Consultants are 
always available. 

607
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:08,600
And again, they're not in every 
area. 

608
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:11,699
So you've got to seek them out 
if they're not there. 

609
00:34:11,900 --> 00:34:14,400
That was one of the things that 
I remember the nurse as I was 

610
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:17,500
leaving the hospital. 
The lactation consultant nurse. 

611
00:34:17,500 --> 00:34:21,100
She came into the room, and I've
been waiting for her all morning

612
00:34:21,100 --> 00:34:25,300
and she's busy. 
And so she, she was surprised to

613
00:34:25,300 --> 00:34:27,500
see me again because she'd help 
me with my breastfeeding with my

614
00:34:27,500 --> 00:34:29,699
first and she said, oh my 
goodness, you have another baby.

615
00:34:29,699 --> 00:34:32,199
I said, yeah I did and we were 
talking And then she said, you 

616
00:34:32,199 --> 00:34:36,199
know, most people leave before I
get here because they don't want

617
00:34:36,199 --> 00:34:38,300
to wait for me. 
And I told her I said I would 

618
00:34:38,300 --> 00:34:41,400
not have left until you got 
here, because I wanted to have 

619
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:44,400
this conversation with you. 
And so, reframing your mindset 

620
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:46,500
around that like, oh, it's okay.
I'll just go home and figure it 

621
00:34:46,500 --> 00:34:48,800
out when I get home. 
It's like, no, I'm not going to 

622
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:51,600
leave until I had that 
conversation with the lactation 

623
00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:55,300
consultant do to get help 
because I was when my daughter 

624
00:34:55,300 --> 00:34:57,400
was watching, it was not going 
well. 

625
00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:59,800
And I was getting a little 
frustrated because it was 

626
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:02,300
hurting. 
And I Pain is a pretty good 

627
00:35:02,300 --> 00:35:04,400
driver to get you to stop doing 
something. 

628
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:07,300
And so when she came into the 
room and she helps me with 

629
00:35:07,300 --> 00:35:12,200
breastfeeding, I looked up at 
her and I was like, she was like

630
00:35:12,500 --> 00:35:14,600
she just laughed, you know, she 
was just like, what are you 

631
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:17,100
talking about? 
Is like, it doesn't hurt and so 

632
00:35:17,100 --> 00:35:18,400
again, like, he imagined them 
all. 

633
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:20,100
And that's at home, like which 
app nipples? 

634
00:35:20,100 --> 00:35:22,000
And she's hurting and she's 
miserable. 

635
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:25,200
I mean, these are things that 
again, you know, when you're in 

636
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:27,900
the hospital and those moment 
don't leave until you see them, 

637
00:35:27,900 --> 00:35:30,500
make sure you get a little bit 
of hand on the ground help. 

638
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:34,800
And yeah as you go to postpartum
appointments like speak up if 

639
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:37,500
things are not going well 
because sometimes doctors don't 

640
00:35:37,500 --> 00:35:40,100
have the time to even ask you. 
So you've got to speak up, 

641
00:35:40,100 --> 00:35:42,000
you've got to do that work. 
So I really want to empower 

642
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:45,300
people to not be expecting 
systems to reach out to them 

643
00:35:45,300 --> 00:35:48,200
because the systems are broken 
in there over War over 

644
00:35:48,300 --> 00:35:52,500
overworked and so be quick to 
speak up for yourself. 

645
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:55,600
And I think that's something I 
really feel passionate to say. 

646
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:59,700
So I'm going to say it. 
So Serie tell me again to kind 

647
00:35:59,700 --> 00:36:03,000
of finish up and Wrap up the 
podcast here. 

648
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:05,400
Tell me, what is it? 
That what is your vision? 

649
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:10,200
Again for providers and nurse 
practitioners and lactation, 

650
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:14,600
consultants, and parents to 
really know about formula. 

651
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:17,800
If you could give them one 
take-home formula versus 

652
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:20,000
breastfeeding, I know you can't 
speak on the specifics of the 

653
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:22,900
formula that you make, your 
company makes, but could you 

654
00:36:22,900 --> 00:36:25,100
kind of give us kind of a 
take-home message that you're 

655
00:36:25,100 --> 00:36:27,900
really wanting to provide to my 
listeners? 

656
00:36:28,300 --> 00:36:30,900
Yeah, I think you know you 
really Eat. 

657
00:36:30,900 --> 00:36:34,400
Eat it up right there by asking 
formula versus breastfeeding 

658
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:38,400
because what I would love for 
both providers and for patients 

659
00:36:38,700 --> 00:36:43,200
and as we shift The Narrative, 
about infant feeding moving 

660
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,200
forward. 
And try to innovate in this 

661
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:49,700
space is that we stop having a 
be breastfeeding British formula

662
00:36:49,700 --> 00:36:53,200
and we start talking about 
impeding holistically unleaded, 

663
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:55,800
it doesn't become this black or 
white thing. 

664
00:36:56,200 --> 00:37:00,700
I think there is such a tendency
to keep things. 

665
00:37:00,900 --> 00:37:03,600
Black and white in the health 
space, you know, you're a 

666
00:37:03,607 --> 00:37:08,600
crunchy mom, or you're like 
beating your kids to read O's or

667
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,700
your sleep training, or your 
attachment parody. 

668
00:37:12,300 --> 00:37:14,600
And, you know, I think most of 
us who are seasoned Healthcare 

669
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:19,400
Providers and parents realize 
that, that is not reality. 

670
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:23,600
And I think that it sets people 
up for failure because you can't

671
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:27,100
really exist in those pieces. 
And for a lot of us, you know, a

672
00:37:27,100 --> 00:37:31,300
lot of Bobby parents 
statistically many pair Parents 

673
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:35,400
who are working or just parents,
you're pretty good beating. 

674
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:39,000
You're also using breast milk 
and some capacity and so 

675
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:42,100
creating this division where you
have to live on one side of the 

676
00:37:42,100 --> 00:37:45,300
aisle is a serving anywhere. 
In the, I would argue that it's 

677
00:37:45,300 --> 00:37:51,700
actually hurting progression. 
My speedy and education because 

678
00:37:51,700 --> 00:37:54,800
were saying you're not allowed 
in this club and last two can do

679
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:56,800
it exclusively. 
Hmm. 

680
00:37:56,900 --> 00:38:01,200
So I think that the more that we
can see this as a spa Germ of 

681
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:04,100
infant feeding both in the way 
we care for patients. 

682
00:38:04,500 --> 00:38:08,100
And in the way, we go into our 
own Journeys, the better, 

683
00:38:08,100 --> 00:38:12,000
everyone will feel. 
The more successful patients 

684
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:16,100
will feel the less disempowered,
they'll feel the latch same, no 

685
00:38:16,100 --> 00:38:18,100
feel. 
And the more Healthcare 

686
00:38:18,100 --> 00:38:23,000
Providers will feel like they 
are able to support people 

687
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:26,200
because they don't have to just 
squish them into a box. 

688
00:38:26,500 --> 00:38:28,900
Mhm. 
So that would really be the 

689
00:38:28,900 --> 00:38:33,000
number one thing that, you know,
oh, I hope personally that I'm 

690
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:36,800
passionate about and also that 
I'm striving for in the way we 

691
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:39,000
engage Healthcare audiences, it 
Bobby. 

692
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:42,300
And what we're working for and 
fading in the community of 

693
00:38:42,300 --> 00:38:45,900
feeding friendly practitioners 
and Healthcare explain X. 

694
00:38:46,300 --> 00:38:49,600
And there's a lot of work to be 
done in that space like it's 

695
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:52,000
gonna take a long time. 
Yeah. 

696
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:55,300
But what we have seen such 
positive reception because I 

697
00:38:55,300 --> 00:38:58,900
think so many people see this 
problem and they see that it's 

698
00:38:58,900 --> 00:39:02,300
not serving themselves and their
Dance or didn't serve them when 

699
00:39:02,300 --> 00:39:05,900
they repair it. 
And that it's, it's empowering 

700
00:39:06,100 --> 00:39:08,900
to parents in their healing 
Journey. 

701
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:12,400
So, excited to continue doing 
that work. 

702
00:39:12,700 --> 00:39:14,800
Yeah, I know. 
I love it and I think it's so 

703
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:17,800
great that this company has 
hired a nurse to work in this 

704
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:20,800
space because we know that 
nurses, that's what our thing 

705
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:23,600
is, right? 
Is we care about people and 

706
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:26,500
people matter. 
And again what you're saying 

707
00:39:26,500 --> 00:39:29,400
over and over again is we are 
trying to put with the person 

708
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:32,500
wants at the center. 
And move towards that goal. 

709
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:35,900
Whichever that is we want to 
support, however you want. 

710
00:39:35,900 --> 00:39:39,800
They're feeding journey to look 
like and I love the economist 

711
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:42,800
Emily oyster austere thing 
concerning Lian. 

712
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:46,800
ER yeah yeah, I know, she's so 
smart and I reading her book, 

713
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:51,600
crib sheet and I've read 
expecting better and I read I'm 

714
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:54,400
reading currently crib sheet and
so she talks a little bit about 

715
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:58,100
breastfeeding and she's you 
know, kind of combating really 

716
00:39:58,100 --> 00:40:01,500
what does the data show, right? 
And and Those are get. 

717
00:40:01,500 --> 00:40:03,100
I encourage you to read the book
yourself. 

718
00:40:03,100 --> 00:40:05,200
I'm, I've actually just started 
in, I think I'm going like 

719
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:06,400
chapter 2 or something like 
that. 

720
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:09,000
I was reading it at my doctor's 
appointment in the waiting room 

721
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:11,500
and I just thought it was so 
interesting to see her 

722
00:40:11,700 --> 00:40:15,700
perspective as she looks at the 
data to kind of, you know, 

723
00:40:15,700 --> 00:40:19,400
again, work that exact line is 
pretty much where she comes back

724
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:22,200
to, right? 
And so she comes back to if it 

725
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:26,100
works for you. 
It works and so do it and yet, 

726
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:28,100
you know, but what does the data
show? 

727
00:40:28,100 --> 00:40:30,600
And so I from having it an 
interesting. 

728
00:40:30,700 --> 00:40:35,100
Timer reading that and hearing 
the perspective of its maybe not

729
00:40:35,100 --> 00:40:38,500
this thing that we touted as in 
the data. 

730
00:40:38,500 --> 00:40:41,700
And so again, guys read it on 
your own, if you make your own 

731
00:40:41,700 --> 00:40:45,300
decisions in your own, you know,
opinions on that, that you can 

732
00:40:45,300 --> 00:40:47,500
take. 
But I think it does kind of let 

733
00:40:47,500 --> 00:40:51,000
up a little bit on Mom's for 
feeling like you're failing 

734
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,900
because it's the data even 
showing that. 

735
00:40:53,900 --> 00:40:56,700
If you do these things, that 
they will really make a change 

736
00:40:56,700 --> 00:40:59,300
in the outcomes, which I find 
very interesting. 

737
00:40:59,300 --> 00:41:02,400
So yes, I think I think that 
there is so much more discussion

738
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:06,900
that can be had in the more 
educated health care, nurse 

739
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:10,300
driven perspectives, we could 
have in the space, the better we

740
00:41:10,300 --> 00:41:13,700
will all because I think that is
the sign of intelligence of a 

741
00:41:13,707 --> 00:41:17,500
communities to be able to hold 
two separate idea and in your 

742
00:41:17,500 --> 00:41:19,800
brain and to battle them out for
yourself, right? 

743
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:22,700
And I think that for me kind of 
like what you're saying, being 

744
00:41:22,700 --> 00:41:25,800
that black and white that's 
fine, but hold them both and let

745
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:27,400
them battle in the moment, 
right? 

746
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:29,800
You could have both thoughts in 
your brain like oh, a breast is 

747
00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:32,000
best. 
Oh, Oh, you know, formula is 

748
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:34,800
best but at the same time, hold 
this to thoughts and see if 

749
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:37,400
there's some middle ground that 
we can live in, or we can 

750
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:40,100
protect people's mental health, 
we can support people that don't

751
00:41:40,100 --> 00:41:42,200
have systems, that really 
support them, because the most 

752
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:45,300
successful, women breastfeeding,
are those women that stay home? 

753
00:41:45,700 --> 00:41:47,400
Well, not all of us. 
Get to stay home. 

754
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:51,900
So, how do we, how do we miss, 
you know, navigate those spaces?

755
00:41:51,900 --> 00:41:55,600
And then how do we not throw 
guilt on the moms that are doing

756
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,800
their best? 
Because best is what you can do.

757
00:41:57,900 --> 00:41:59,200
That's all that you can 
guarantee. 

758
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:01,900
And so, yeah. 
Thank you for saying all that. 

759
00:42:01,900 --> 00:42:04,200
Thank you for having this 
conversation with me around it. 

760
00:42:04,300 --> 00:42:06,500
I definitely think it's 
something that we need to be 

761
00:42:06,508 --> 00:42:09,100
doing more of. 
So thank you, sheriff or coming 

762
00:42:09,100 --> 00:42:10,600
all. 
Yeah, thank you for the 

763
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:12,400
opportunity. 
I feel like we could talk about 

764
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:16,700
this for hours and hours but if 
it's been really fantastic three

765
00:42:16,700 --> 00:42:19,000
great. 
Yeah so for the last part of the

766
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:21,400
interview Shira I do rapid fire 
so I'm going to give you some 

767
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:22,400
rapid fire. 
You ready? 

768
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,100
I don't know. 
Okay yeah I did. 

769
00:42:25,100 --> 00:42:27,400
Y'all be afraid. 
Do I have to accept it? 

770
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:32,100
Good. 
Five percent, but I will try. 

771
00:42:32,300 --> 00:42:34,000
No, you're good. 
If you had to give up to 

772
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:37,900
somebody, what would it be? 
Oh gosh, it would be Eros the 

773
00:42:37,900 --> 00:42:40,200
Bittersweet. 
Oh, well I'd ever heard of that 

774
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:41,000
off. 
Check it out. 

775
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:44,300
What it renders. 
Its poetry is poetry French 

776
00:42:44,300 --> 00:42:46,400
poetry. 
Okay like that and what are you 

777
00:42:46,408 --> 00:42:47,600
watching on Netflix? 
What are you? 

778
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:51,000
Netflix and chill and these days
it's on a flex that I watching 

779
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:54,300
succession, and I just finished 
cheer, which, I know is very 

780
00:42:54,300 --> 00:42:57,800
2020, but I highly recommend. 
If you haven't watched it, that 

781
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:00,600
you go back and watch it for 
three, 24 and 0. 

782
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:02,600
Season. 
If you had to pick a season of 

783
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:05,800
the year that you feel like in 
bodies, you that you would want 

784
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:09,000
to run all throughout the year, 
what season would it be Deborah?

785
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:11,100
Spray. 
Bring a dozen glaring is hard to

786
00:43:11,100 --> 00:43:12,300
eat. 
Yeah. 

787
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:14,700
Spring spring spring. 
I was going to say, I feel like 

788
00:43:14,700 --> 00:43:16,000
you're a fall person. 
I don't know why. 

789
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:18,600
I just got like fall vibes from 
you, but then I think it's maybe

790
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:21,500
your shirt and going back and 
forth between spring and fall, 

791
00:43:21,500 --> 00:43:24,300
but spraying that, you know, 
there's just a lot of 

792
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:26,600
opportunity. 
Yeah. 

793
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:29,700
Speaking of poetry and being 
deep spring is like the hope of 

794
00:43:29,700 --> 00:43:32,200
something new. 
So, Oh yes, love it, love it. 

795
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:34,900
Well, thank you Shira for your 
time and guys again don't forget

796
00:43:34,900 --> 00:43:36,500
to enjoy the journey of your 
careers. 

797
00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:51,000
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798
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:54,300
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810
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:31,900
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811
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815
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816
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